Friedchicken2 Archive

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1	CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men. I mean no matter who’s being open or not it’s still a shitty thing to do on the men’s side. You’d be coming at it from a fair point if you just admitted that a lot of men are adding to this problem in the first place by being F boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 05:56 AM
–	CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men. Polling is a “part” of research in the social sciences but generally is included as one portion of evidence in a particular study. No social scientist is going out there and saying “hey guys we finished our poll! Let’s just pack our bags and leave now, all the research is over!” Social sciences draw upon various means of testing their hypotheses. This can include polls, focus groups, interviews, observation in open environments, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 05:50 AM
–	Is love and marriage on the decline? And are other subs effecting each other? Can you elaborate more on how almost all male spaces have been “invaded” by women? Sounds a bit like a cope to explain that some men just aren’t great at sympathizing with other men and actually showing their emotions to each other. You can’t blame every single failing of men on women and vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 04:35 PM
5	Is love and marriage on the decline? And are other subs effecting each other? So decline of birth rates and marriages have everything to do with feminists and nothing to do with the fact that’s it’s a worldwide observed phenomenon that as a country modernizes birth and marriage rates tend to fall. Usually this is due to more choices available for everyone, especially women. The ability to work for women is likely the largest reason. Would you suggest women should not be allowed to work and vote?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 04:32 PM
4	Is love and marriage on the decline? And are other subs effecting each other? The same could be said about hyper pro lifers. Talk about my body my choice and they freak the fuck out. Obviously both of these sides are extreme. Nobody should be getting triggered by these dumbass statements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 04:31 PM
1	Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women? In what position are you putting yourself in to where high schools girls are hitting you up. That’s hella shady bro 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 06:25 PM
0	Q4Men: For Men Who Think Most Dating Advice is "Unhelpful", What Would You Prefer? I think it’s a standards issue as well. So many men are so pornsick that their mediocre lookin-ass expects a 7/10+ girl to fawn over them. The reality is no matter how much muscle you put on or nice clothes you wear you’re still stuck with your face. Working out, self grooming, wearing fitting clothes, etc, are all great for showing that you’re a functioning human being but none of those things guarantee you shit. The reality is to get a girlfriend you need to have some sort of a likable persona…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 05:10 PM
1	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? I think experience helps because it gives you an insight into the real world and how women interact with men who they like/don't like and why. I had plenty of interactions with girls where they liked me at first and interactions where they didn't but then they eventually did through getting to know them. I agree that the man needs to meet at least the lower end of the range but tbh I think most men do or at least could with some more personal effort into their development (gym, career, social ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 06:08 PM
–	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? I think this is where these conversations end because of a fork in the road. I personally think physical attraction is a spectrum, in that most people (mainly women) don't operate on a straight "yes I'm attracted" or "no I'm not attracted". Men may follow this thinking a bit more than women but everyone engages with it to some extent. Also, yes, OLD likely has this thinking a lot more because that's the way it's set up (it's inherently always based on looks, just look at how their apps are set u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 05:05 PM
–	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? I think the difference is that they have way more people swiping right on them. Imagine if you had a plethora of women attempting to date you, you’d probably become a bit more exclusive in who you picked knowing you could have more of a choice. I think any human would engage in that behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 04:37 PM
–	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? I generally agree but idk a good personality, especially humor, is a great way to spark interest. Now I’m not going to pretend like an orc looking mf will have a chance, idk their experiences and maybe they really are doomed forever but a 4-5/10 looking guy can absolutely be charming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 04:36 PM
–	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? I’d agree that more attractive men can get away with more but would you not say that OLD is generally a different environment than the real world. With it usually being majority men and the sole point of it to judge people based on their initial profile photos how would it not cultivate an atmosphere of seeking “hot” people only? Compared to the real world where gender ratios are much less pronounced and every interaction usually doesn’t necessitate a seeing right or left action to swipe or not.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 03:57 PM
1	The Importance of Confidence: Why Men Should Focus on Self-Improvement before dating. I agree. Confidence also helps within the relationship to avoid jealousy, which I think is quite common nowadays due to social media, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 04:47 PM
5	How do you guy stay centered? I don't really engage with it or watch it in the first place. Unfortunately no matter how stable you are in life that dogshit content will get to you, it's just a matter of time. Sometimes as a guilty pleasure, and as someone in a happy relationship with my girlfriend, I'll indulge in both spectrums to see what conversations are being had. I'd be lying if I say I was perfectly fine afterwards and had no biases towards men and women. That content is meant to make you scared, angry, frustrated, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 04:40 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. It's interesting how you think you know more than researchers who've been doing this for decades. Kind of impressive, actually, how you can continuously ignore scientific research and continue to make broad claims about how women just "want to shame men". I've asked multiple times now for research to support your claims but all you're expressing is your feelings which don't mean anything to me. I feel for you and I hope you can come to better terms with your relationship with women. I really do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 08:27 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. This is what averages are for my dude. Yes, people will mature at different times but in general and on average maturity, life experience, emotional differences, health, etc, all tend to trend differently depending on age. If you can't accept that premise then I can't continue this conversation. You're barely even engaging with the premise, rather just shutting it down immediately. If you're unable to see how people are usually at different stages of life, especially when the age gap is 10-20 ye…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 07:45 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. I mean I hope you realize that if you're never willing to accept that the data may lead to an answer then you can continue living in a world where you think women are literal demon snakes who always lie and try to deceive men. Great world you live in. I'm gonna go spend some time with my snakey gf real quick. Do you really think most women would lie on an anonymous report about what they're attracted to? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8133465/ "On average, females rate age, educati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 07:33 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. I mean, I can spell it out for you but it's really not hard to put 2 and 2 together. Life stage issues are related to the fact that a 20 year old woman and 45 year old man are at very different stages of their lives due to the age difference. With age comes maturity, health complications, emotional differences, different desires with how you want your life to go, different desires in regards to sexual appetite, and so forth. It's not hard to understand that a 20 year old and 45 year old would in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 06:53 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. I mean....yeah that's the point of research. Researchers do all sorts of uncomfortable polling and interviewing about all sorts of subjects. I said they'd rather but I never said that's how it would always happen in practice. Again, I'm appealing to the idea that everyone has a fantasy idea of some person they'd see themselves fucking, but it's fantasy. Why do you think women love romance novels/shows so much? They like imagining but they end up going to bed that night beside their average husba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 06:44 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. I was expecting this to be your next comment, regarding settling. I don't disagree, that's usually how most relationships end up beginning. You settle. Men settle too in a lot of ways, they give up the potentiality for sex with other women. Either way, I would disagree with the notion that women are getting with a bunch of chads first then settling with a man. Do you have any data that supports the fact that 5-6/10s are getting run through by 8-10/10 chads in their younger years? Also, how many …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 06:02 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. I agree ugly is somewhat uncommon. With average guys I understand that frustration and, yes, I do think given the opportunity a woman would prefer to fuck an attractive guy over an average guy but IMO what matters more is who do they end up actually being in a relationship with? Usually average guys. So in the end average guys do win out in terms of long term relationships. If you’re an average guy with dreams of being a pump and dump douche then sure you may be fucked but I do think women end u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 05:08 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. That’s true with any attempt at courtship. And my comment was originally intended for guys on this subreddit or in the red pill space. A lot of them talk shit about women and their preferences while complaining about not getting sex. My point was that sex is there, you just don’t want to fuck ugly girls. So go fuck ugly girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 04:51 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. I already gave my sources in another comment if you want to find those. I’m not gonna back track to give you the links. The research suggests overall age gap relationships ships have less satisfaction than relationships with a less than 10 year age gap. It’s due to multiple variables but mainly because of sex/intimacy issues and life stages issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 04:49 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. I have an issue with it overall. This doesn’t mean there can’t be age gap relationships that work I’m just saying they’re more likely to produce unhealthy relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 04:47 PM
4	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. I don't think it's bad faith to point out that perhaps, just perhaps, a dating sphere that's sole intent is on judging people by their looks happens to result in most women being picky. But yes, the reality is in real life it's much more complicated than a swipe on a phone. It involves a lot more interactions, potential chemistry, and so forth. There are defitnely people who didn't really find their spouse that attractive intiially but after getting to know them they eventually did. IMO men are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 03:18 PM
2	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. My point was that ugly guys don't want to bite the bullet and date ugly girls. I'm saying they should though because in general people date within their levels of attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 03:14 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. My ultimate point is that due to the circumstances of the age gap and the research around it, it does seem like there would be more of a chance for the relationship to fail and for potential abuse to occur. I'm not saying it will occur every time. Just like in incestuous relationships I'm sure there's plenty that work out just fine, but the principle of it is what we disagree with and ultimately it's likely to result in worse outcomes on average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 03:12 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. Ok and I'd still disagree with that. I think we can just agree to disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 03:09 PM
2	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. True, and that gets us to the point then that Megan fox and Chris evans are dating within their attractiveness and socioeconomic status. Which wraps us back around to my original point that average dates average, ugly dates ugly, etc. now I understand there are exceptions, and that gold diggers exist etc, but for the most part I think my analysis is correct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:57 PM
3	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. I mean I’d we had some stats on that it would be great. For the most part from what I understand is most people date within their socioeconomic statuses and relative attractiveness. If you could find data otherwise then please link it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:53 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. I mean I didn’t really think I needed to provide another source but according to an Oxford book on close relationships another factor that leads to detriments in large age gap relationships is the concept of life stages and how different they are for age groups. So while, no, not every older man is abusing his 20 year old daughter (wait excuse me, partner), their life stages are so drastically different that each couple struggles to reconcile with each others needs. That’s a pretty big fucking d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:51 PM
2	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. I’m not here to present revelations, I’m here to present reality. And yes, you nailed it on the head. Why do you think all girls gush over Chris evans as captain America? Because he’s hot and imagining him being into you as a girl is hot. Why did all guys gush over Megan fox in transformers? Because she’s hot and imagining being with her is hot. Do most men and women date Chris evans or Megan fox? No. Because the reality is extreme attractiveness isn’t really required for most relationships. Mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:46 PM
2	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. If you’re viewing your partner as a resource to use for your means I think that’s a problem in itself. I personally don’t think there’s much to enrich in a 20 year age gap. That’s what you parents or older mentors are for. Older mentors should not be in a relationship with their younger peers. There’s a reason why according to the research age gaps between couples less than 10 years result on higher marital satisfaction than couples with an age gap of over 10 years. The main mismatch that begins…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:41 PM
2	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. Here’s the reality. I think all people on earth whether you’re attractive or fugly like to look and think about very attractive people. It’s in our nature. Beautiful people are nice to look at. The problem is that a lot of fugly guys, probably due to porn, still want a 10/10 bombshell girl while a lot of fugly girls are looking for a fairy nice guy who tries to appear his best that can love and support her. So, yeah, fugly guys keep jerking off I guess but it’s not gonna get you any closer to a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:32 PM
1	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. No I’m saying that age gaps in relationships can usually be pretty sketchy because of just how different of the stage in life each individual is in compared to each other. A 20 year old girl is literally only a few years into college/adulthood while a 30-40 year old man is well into his career and life. This makes it easy for gaslighting and other forms of negative relationship experience to occur. I’m not saying every older man is doing this in a relationship, but at the same time yes I would l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:29 PM
2	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. Yeah, they're called unhealthy relationships where older men take advantage of naive younger women. After years of that behavior the women is most definitely unhappy. Those relationships are doomed to fail long-term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:13 PM
5	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. The reality is all the fugly guys don't want to date fugly girls. Fugly guys and girls both exist so go date eachother instead of complaining that you can't get with some 10/10. I guarantee the uglier girls are not getting with 10/10 guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:10 PM
7	CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this. Bruh I'm just here for the content when work is slow. All these TOP G weirdos and their lingo is fascinating. I swear these people live their lives vicariously through dating apps, nothing more. Women are nothing more than meat and vaginas, who's brain only works by identifying the alpha chad in the room and opening their legs to them immediately. Women don't have brains, they see good looks and big money and pants drop immediately!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:08 PM
1	The Red Pill exists because entire generations of men are lied to about what women find attractive in men, and dismissing it as some angry hate group is simply a way to sweep all of these lies under the rug That’s pretty interesting data you’re providing. I read the article and it is pretty surprising how common assault by women is in prison. One thing. There are two statements that confuse me. “Over their lifetime, 79 percent of men who were “made to penetrate” someone else (a form of rape, in the view of most researchers) reported female perpetrators.” Followed by, “35 percent of male victims who experienced rape or sexual assault reported at least one female perpetrator.” Does this mean that 65%…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 10:48 PM
1	Women are more into the "finer things in life"? Right. I suppose a definition of "finer things in life" should be established first because I'm coming at it from a point that "finer things" doesn't necessarily have to just be jewelry, clothes, etc. It could easily be toys as well for men since toys can be quite expensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:20 PM
3	Women are more into the "finer things in life"? Does it really matter? I thought the whole point of OPs post was to suggest women are the more "expensive" sex, not the reason behind it. Both men and women engage in expensive lifestyles, that's reality. The reasoning may be different, and yes, socially it's acceptable for women to buy luxurious things to accentuate their beauty and for men to accentuate their status/wealth/prestige. This doesn't mean there's absolutely no crossover. For example, I think there are plenty of instances where a fu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 03:00 PM
10	Women are more into the "finer things in life"? Yeah I love how all these studies are never fully read and often go against their claims. Like you ever want to ask why women make 80% of purchases? Nah let’s just assume women are greedy cunts. Like, hmm, maybe women stay at home more often and therefore have more responsibility for getting a house in order. Maybe? Just maybe?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 01:48 PM
6	Women are more into the "finer things in life"? Is it really that uncommon to see men nowadays sporting expensive clothes, Jewlery, vehicles, etc? Not sure how you all can so easily come to this conclusion. Also, which part of the states are we talking about here? I imagine a girl from bumfuck Ohio probably doesn’t care as much about material things as opposed to a Miami girl. Funnily enough Miami guys likely wear a shit ton of material things too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 01:45 PM
1	The Red Pill exists because entire generations of men are lied to about what women find attractive in men, and dismissing it as some angry hate group is simply a way to sweep all of these lies under the rug Just a clarification, men being assaulted at similar rates with women is from other men right? Pretty sure those numbers are skewed by prison assaults by other men. Not saying it’s any less bad but info on perpetrators of a crime is sometimes more interesting than victims in terms of finding trends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 01:40 PM
1	Discussion. You being rejected is a product of lifted oppression, so it should be seen as a good thing that a lot of men are “missing out” now I mean I’d disagree with you saying humans are wired this way. Perhaps when survival was most important, yes, women were property to some extent but even back in hunter gatherer times women worked along with child rearing. Either way we’re in the modern age where we can say, “hey, I actually don’t need to perform my biological imperatives and I can live my life as I want to.” Just because it was doesn’t mean it always is. With your statement on men, again, it was a byproduct of sexist systems th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 07:52 PM
–	Discussion. You being rejected is a product of lifted oppression, so it should be seen as a good thing that a lot of men are “missing out” now I don’t know where you’re getting this idea that the government needs to distribute love and sex. I also don’t know where you’re getting the idea that men are needed more than ever to make women feel free. Women have already made themselves feel free by becoming independent workers, what more do you want them to do? I wholeheartedly disagree that men are still expected to keep these things afloat. Both genders are required to do so, and if your main issue is with gender disparity gaps in, say, c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 06:18 PM
1	Discussion. You being rejected is a product of lifted oppression, so it should be seen as a good thing that a lot of men are “missing out” now Don’t waste your time with this guy, he’s either a troll or delusional or both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 05:04 PM
4	Discussion. You being rejected is a product of lifted oppression, so it should be seen as a good thing that a lot of men are “missing out” now I’m not really sure if you understand what subjective means. Women mainly contribute through experiences or perspectives? Taking care of a child, the mentally ill, the elderly, are just “experiences”? The work women do is physically and emotionally exhausting. Being the primary caregiver for a child or individual in need is extremely difficult and time consuming. Often times women do this while working jobs. You really don’t think men rely on women to raise the next generation or keep their gran…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 05:02 PM
1	Most women haven't experienced loneliness, touchlessness and sexlessnes. That's the reason why they downplay this conditions. I mean I think a big issue is that women are pretty complacent with platonic touching in that it’s enough to make them not feel lonely. With men platonic touching isn’t enough, it’s desire for sex too. Not that women don’t seek sex, but men attach a lot of their tactile satisfaction through sex. For women, it’s another day in the park when they hug their friends/family. For men, most don’t even seek that out. Imo it’s kind of on you to find some guy friends that are cool with platonic touching s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 01:27 AM
5	Women’s dating preferences in a nutshell A lot of people in this thread are talking about your evidence, which I imagine is simply coming from your anecdotal experience in this world. Let me offer a counter perspective. I met my girlfriend at 19 and she had just turned 21. My girlfriend is a pretty woman, but she doesn’t flaunt it. She’s no model (to me of course she is) but I’d say most guys would say they’d be willing to date her. She rarely wears make up and wears modest clothing for the most part. Now based off of your experience, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 06:39 PM
2	Redpill seems to be exploding in popularity I think classical liberals are fine, considering they actually stick by those values. Anyone who considers themself a “leftist” I’m skeptical of. In the end though all you can do is strike up a convo and see what they really believe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 09:00 PM
8	Redpill seems to be exploding in popularity Late to the party and a few other comments have addressed it but this is absolutely a swing right in relation to the swing left we’ve seen in the past decade. Think about Trumps election and how a large part of that is due to the conservative counter movement against the crazy leftist shit that was filling up social media in the 2012-2015 days. I think it’s somewhat the same. Andrew rate, sneako (another red pill guy), fresh and fit podcast, and more, are gaining popularity because they’re the v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 04:45 PM
2	What is the point in discussing these issues if there is no solution to them? I like discussing and listening to other peoples problems. As someone with a girlfriend it’s cathartic knowing I’m chillin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 03:32 PM
1	do women envy men in dating? Yeah I want to make it clear my previous comment wasn’t for the sake of generalizing, just pointing out that there’s a trend regarding men and the way they seem to impact other groups and themselves in negative ways. I don’t doubt this has to do with the way they are raised and the way our society runs. I can’t possibly begin to know the intricacies of what goes into creating a man who will end up hurting others. It does make me think, though, about the men who although they grow up in “green pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 05:45 PM
1	do women envy men in dating? I think the issue is that in both cases who’s perpetrating the crimes? In both it’s men, which suggests a real problem with men currently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 03:09 PM
2	Getting Muscular Is A Terrible Return On Investment When It Comes To Dating That may be part of it, I think most people don’t really want to objectify someone and point out how great their body looks. With girls in the past it’s usually taken us getting to know eachother for the compliments to come out. It’s rare for a random girl to feel comfortable doing that just like it would be weird for a guy to start commenting on a strangers body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 05:39 PM
1	Men and women here, how many actual options do you have? I’d say reflecting on my entire life probably like 10-20 that I concretely know of, 5 of which during high school. Of those 5 I hooked up with one and dated one. I grew up religious so I always felt like I was somewhat sexually repressed, so hooking up or dating was a big deal for me and I never really engaged with casual relationships much. Since then I’ve had several women abroad at clubs or bars express interest interest, but I found my girlfriend around that time who I love. During dating my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 06:28 PM
2	Men and women here, how many actual options do you have? I had the same experience except I was international. Same thing helped me; being social, opening up yourself to more people, going to social events or social areas. That’s what helped me meet my current girlfriend, we both were working somewhere abroad and clicked. The best chance you can give yourself for “options” is putting yourself out there and having something interesting to talk about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 06:22 PM
2	Getting Muscular Is A Terrible Return On Investment When It Comes To Dating Most often you’ll get more attention from men lol. In my experience from gaining around 15-20 pounds of muscle in the past two years I’ve received a lot lire comments from men, who likely are more willing to outright say these things. From women it’s either older women and moms (idk why I attract them) or girls who I’ve gotten to know a little better who will comment on my physique. It’s never a random ass girl complimenting my bicep or shoulder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 06:59 PM
1	Getting Muscular Is A Terrible Return On Investment When It Comes To Dating I don’t think eboys are attracting the average woman these days. By average I mean a woman who is independent, educated, working, and so forth. What does an eboy bring to them other than a pretty face? In addition, what 21 year old college educated woman is seriously looking for an eboy? I’ve literally never seen that. The reason eboys are popular is because there’s a plethora of 15 year old girls who don’t know fuck all about what they want in a guy, so they choose the prettiest guy with the mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 06:56 PM
3	Dudes should start approaching more average girls for better results. Yeah I was about to say some of these girls would be considered very attractive. I guess I agree, if any girl is clearly overweight or obese it’s less than 5, but a lot of these girls in the link you provided look good enough to attract attention I don’t doubt that	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 02:27 AM
2	Is it stupid for young guys (18-25) to be in a relationship if they can easily find casual sex? (Sowing wild oats) Don’t think about it too much. Enjoy the time with your girlfriend right now. If you’re unhappy, and you’ll know if you’re unhappy, then move on. If it helps, I’ve been with my girlfriend for over 3 years and I have these same thoughts sometimes. I grew up in a traditional religion that repressed a lot of my sexuality growing up, so we were each others firsts at 19. After a year or so of dating I realized that I’m actually fairly attractive and have had many chances to fuck someone from school o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 02:11 AM
2	Dudes should start approaching more average girls for better results. Can someone give a comprehensive answer to what the looks scale relates to in real life? Like show me a picture of what a 6 looks like, show me what a 10 looks like. It always bothers me when people use this scale but forget that we all have subjective meanings of what a 6, 10, 3, etc, are. I’m just curious really. I just feel like it’s impossible to engage with this without knowing what actual 6s look like because to me a 6 most definitely gets asked out consistently because 6 is pretty solid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 01:55 AM
5	Self identifying Blue pilled people....are you successful in love...and if so....MAYBE youre blue pilled BECAUSE of that, not despite that I’d say I’m in neither community and can draw from truths in both, but ultimately in my experience attractiveness always helps. I met my girlfriend over 3 years ago during an internship and her initial attraction to me certainly made things easier. It really just depends on the context. My girlfriend for example has somewhat high of standards and has, according to her, always been attracted to more muscular/fit men which I fall into. This preference is her own, and if a man didn’t fall into that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 12:59 AM
1	The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it implies Do you mind linking some sources to these facts? Not trying to “gotcha” you just curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/22 12:44 AM