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FrootPicker/r/askTRP10/06/16 12:47 PM
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FrootPicker/r/askTRP14/06/16 11:35 AM
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FrootPicker/r/askTRP30/06/16 11:11 PM
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Guys, what's with the text walls lately? At least have the goddamn courtesy to tack on a tl;dr at the end.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 10:11 AM
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"The man who truly takes in the RP will recognise that changing his stripes takes time. You're undoing decades of indoctrination and learning new skills and modes of thinking. It isn't going to happen overnight." This.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 10:09 AM
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I'm really sorry for you man. You seem like a decent man who did all he could, and she's just fucking disrespectful and crossing lines. Next that bitch. Edit: to clarify you could try a soft next: http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php?5492-How-To-Soft-Next-Step-by-step-instructions-and-answers-to-questions But think hard about whether you want to give her that chance. Punching you is definitely crossing a line.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 11:48 PM
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I like your ideas, maybe that's something for OP.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 06:21 PM
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I don't know what ratios TRP preaches. This is not mathematics in any case but you having to make decisions for yourself. My comment is indeed pretty hyperbolic, but that's because your post clearly shows that you care way too fucking much. Which you already realized.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 06:20 PM
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Sounds like high ASD. Be persistent and/or try more girls. What's their age? 30+ usually means higher ASD. Also the less Alpha you come across the higher the chance you're pushing their "make him wait" button.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:46 PM
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"Okay.", then continue. " Yup.", then continue.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:43 PM
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You've entered her frame. You have no obligation even to send her a greeting, lest to spend any money. If she decided to pamper you that's cool.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 02:49 PM
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Funny you reporting that. I was out on Sat/Sun night. Got kicked out of a house party by a White Knight host because I refused to give "Lady's First" to a girl there while standing in line for the toilet. Then got treated like shit by a bouncer. Chicks later that night weren't too receptive either. I don't feel butthurt about that night, but it felt very weird to me; not my usual night out.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 01:46 PM
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Sounds bipolar to me, get a better LTR and/or plate her.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 06:36 PM
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You can't. But you can and should make a reasonable guess and then make it better as you get more experience.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 12:33 AM
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First, great post! One thing though: Start to think about questions like “who am I?” and “what do I stand for?” I actually think this needs to come before anything else, and everything you do should be accompanied by this self-evaluation.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 01:44 PM
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Some people (betas?) can't handle drugs properly, including caffeine, cigs, alcohol and weed. I was off caffeine, alcohol and weed for years then consciously and positively decided I want them back in my life again. And that is how it turned out. Coffee tastes great and I enjoy the occasional jolt of energy. Alcohol in moderation is fun, social and good for my health (yes indeed). Weed makes me more confident and aware as a long-term effect and eliminated the frequent respiratory infections I wa…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 01:26 PM
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That's what you think. Why can't you?
/r/askTRP17/06/16 10:53 AM
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You mean as in "standing 10 feet away from you"? Because otherwise your request doesn't make sense to me. You should start to touch within the first minute of your conversation. Bonus points if the very start of your conversation is accompanied by touching.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 10:23 AM
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GIYF. Check all the PUA stuff on escalating physically.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 08:56 AM
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Don't drink. Try day game, or night game in other settings (smaller clubs, bars, night streets). Read, visualize, practice, lift, meditate.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 08:55 AM
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Lots of whine here. Become a man and define your own values instead of complaining about others.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 08:47 AM
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Girl wanted to have sex with you at your place, you fucked up by not escalating. Practice your kino, get some courage, see her again (but better today than tomorrow!).
/r/askTRP17/06/16 08:46 AM
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Maybe in some areas for whatever reason they are being perceived as men with low SMV. And men with low SMV hitting on a girl equals "creep" in their minds.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 11:58 AM
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Doesn't sound like LMR to me. He wasn't even close to sex. I'd even rule out ASD, it was just touching. Frame should be "I just like to touch you, and that's fucking normal between man and woman."
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:53 AM
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OP didn't say she made him pay for dinner. Only that he paid for coffee after she left the venue.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:51 AM
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I've had a hard time understanding your post, especially who said what, but I'll reply anyway. Your kino seems to have been good. Problem is you talked too much and ejected too early by telling her to leave. Don't next her -- from what I gather you fucked up royally, not her. The good news is that you left her with the impression that you have frame by ending the date before she did. This girl seems DTF for you. So instead wait for her to contact you for a couple of days. If she doesn't do that …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:50 AM
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Obviously we can't tell our plate, "Yo let's go fuck." I think you meant "date" instead of "plate". Otherwise great post, man.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:34 AM
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Just the post I needed. Thank you, Archwinger. Also let's remember that actions speak louder than words.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:30 AM
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Great post. But how is this off-topic?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:26 AM
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Didn't notice it yet but it makes a lot of sense. I guess it depends on a lot of things, like what your avenues of approach are, how the economy is in that area, what the women/men ratio is, what the average male/female SMV is and so on.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 11:17 AM
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Be mysterious and byronic, girls will love it. Where do I start explaining this? Basically you want to display through some story or ambiguous behavior that you might have a GF. Or not. Her hamster will then fill in the blanks favorably if she's into you.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:19 AM
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If girls see or get told that you have a girlfriend it will raise your SMV. And yes, the topic will also bring up shit-tests, which you handle like every shit-test with amused mastery. Your SMV doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:17 AM
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Deflecting shit tests in Japanese: the silence/chuckle treatment works everywhere. You can even pretend you just didn't understand, then change the subject. "She didn't reject, but didn't keep going": that means she wants more.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:13 AM
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You are responsible for the logistics and for leading her. Plan your dates. What's the schedule? Which venues? By what time do you want to have escalated to kiss/makeout/sex? And get a grip on yourself. Grab coffee if you're tired or something. You can't pass out from being drunk and/or tired in front of your date (or even before she arrives). This girl has the hots for you and you're just fucking up, man. Grab her!
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:10 AM
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And neither should you. If she's not into you then hard next and on to other opportunities.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:07 AM
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Less talk, more action. Look up the term kino, my friend.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:07 AM
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This is not what lifting is about. Lifting is like prayer or meditation if you do it right. You need to stop lifting and start with accepting your body as it is, start loving it, even if as of now it's just raw material for becoming something else. More and more it sounds as if proper Monk Mode, perhaps in conjunction with counseling, is the way to go for you. Then read some essays (like Henry Rollins' one) about lifting and try to understand them. If you find that you do, start lifting. Alpha i…
/r/askTRP15/06/16 06:31 PM
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Dude we're not talking about building a plane or rocket science here. But even if we were, there comes a point where you need to stop theorizing and actually do stuff. Ask yourself, what's the greatest risk? Then find out your answers are probably "wasted my time" or "got bored by annoying shits" or something like that. Then go ahead and do it anyway.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 06:22 PM
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You don't know whether the path is right unless you step on it and walk for a bit. Theory and planning is no substitute for experience. Edit: taking risks like this is an alpha trait.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 06:19 PM
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It does sound like you're still suffering from the after-effects of this shit. But I have no experience with recovery from that. GIYF.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 06:18 PM
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You might just be that way. On the other hand probably neither you nor your friends knew what you really got. You want a strain dominant in Cannabis Sativa.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 06:16 PM
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Dude, you sound like you hardly have any experience in game at all and I'm not sure what to say. I suggest that being a beginner you pick an easier target that confuses you less. Edit: plus what the others said about reputation and just going for other chicks. Unless you do have one-itis (which it sounds like). Edit2: I've checked your post history. You definitely have one-itis. Admit it to yourself then find other chicks to practice your game on. Also read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:54 PM
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Try herbs, they can actually be more powerful than pills. Do a lot of research, see what herbs you vibe with in your situation, then try them over a period of time. Try Red Vein Kratom for a real kick; there's good advice on it on Good Looking Loser's and Victor Pride's sites. Or try uplifting strains of weed, they will make you more of a man and bring out your primal nature. A lot of people on TRP will disagree with me on that one, and perhaps rightfully so because it's different for each one o…
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:29 PM
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What is it you discovered?
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:24 PM
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One step at a time, eh? How will you get what you want in social scenarios if you hardly ever put yourself into social scenarios?
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:24 PM
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That is a lame excuse and you know it, bro.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:22 PM
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Bro, you need help. But we're here to give you that. Wheyman92 already said a lot of good things. Here's more. If your body doesn't like to be shaved that often, don't do it. Get a trimmer and use that, or shave less often. You don't need to look like a newborn every day. A lot of girls, if that's your thing, like a bit of body hair, especially three days of beard. But what's more important is that you learn to like yourself. Develop a vision of what you want to become and then GO FOR IT like th…
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:20 PM
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Perhaps she just got hungry.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 12:21 PM
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For how long have you been doing this? Also, why is your stuff only "mostly in check"? Man up. Start meditating, try monk mode, think about your goals, socialize more, read more TRP material and envision yourself becoming an alpha. Ask yourself, "how could I have acted more alpha" in every situation.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 12:11 PM
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You're a man who has weighed his choices, made a decision and followed through with it. What's not to applaud? Personally I would have considered this a good opportunity to become better at controlling myself in a difficult setup, but that's just me.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 12:01 PM
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Yeah, I'd like to emphasize that I'm not really looking for advice regarding my particular situation, but more of a general public opinion.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 11:51 AM
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Thanks for all the replies. I've decided to go with ignoring it, applying a sensible delay for the reply and it went fine (basically nastynickdr's suggestion). On the date she just commented that she was glad I wrote back and that she noticed I didn't touch the topic she was writing about. To which I replied: "I just had nothing to say to that." which she fully accepted. I'll keep your reply in mind for later, Archwinger. Anyway, on the date itself it was made obvious to me that a girl's actions…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 11:31 AM
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