Bdays

adam_varg · 2016-06-29T18:03:46+00:00

I do longterm noncommited too and i dont have heart (yeah i know) to dont give them anything.

So i do but in cocky funny way. Aka giving them overtly kinky sexual toys or some superslutty clothes for bdays xmass, a&a through convo about how valentine is oppressive for men since we dont get steak&bj day then i get steak&bj day and girl gets some public outing for valentine. Nothing fancy, expensive or even close to some sappy romantic bs of course.

Trouble is that they usually try to use it as window for relationship upgrade no matter what you do anyway.

So either nothing or something expect drama and potentionally losing girl in following weeks.

Certifiedfamilylaw · 2016-06-29T17:05:07+00:00

I used to write 1-2 page hand written stream of consciousness stuff. If any of what came out was any good, I'd copy it and give it to a plate.

Women love something they can look at again

TrumpRules2016 · 2016-06-29T17:26:18+00:00

Don't give her anything, except your dick of course and maybe a massage by you.

__Archaeus__ · 2016-06-29T18:27:08+00:00

I read somewhere (and took the advice myself) that if you every "get" something for a chick, it should be an adventure type thing that you wanted to do anyway. That way, she is just allowed to join your frame with something you always wanted to do but maybe haven't yet.

Price may be a concern to you, but I found doing things I normally wouldn't do by myself with a chick was fun and rewarding, so the cost was worth it. Obviously Briffault's Law applies.

FrootPicker · 2016-06-29T14:49:51+00:00

You've entered her frame. You have no obligation even to send her a greeting, lest to spend any money. If she decided to pamper you that's cool.

Nucka574 · 2016-06-29T18:46:46+00:00

Normally for such 'hallmark' occasions I'd get a card at most, dominate her more than usual, then provide some comfort after sex.

I think you answered your own question.

Title	Bdays
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	June 29, 2016 2:05 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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