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A place for critical thinkers
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 02:40 AM
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Hey Man, if you’re open to it, go check out the sub semenretention. Their outlook on life goes a lot deeper than you think. Just read a couple of their top posts, that’s it. If you don’t like it, no worries.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:19 PM
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Nofapping isn’t the same thing. It’s not the same mindset. If you wanna keep busting a nut, fine. But at least go read what that sub is about. It’s a super positive place man. You reached out to us looking for answers, and yet you are reluctant to take them.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:52 PM
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You seem open minded, at least go over to the sub a give some of the posts a read. I’m not fully committed to it or anything, but I’m trying for at least 30 days so I can get an understanding of the other side of the coin. Without me experiencing the other side a little, I’ll never gain the knowledge to really know the right answer.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:46 AM
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Check out semen retention. It’s not a quick fix, but anything worth it isn’t going to be easy.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 04:18 AM
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There are three facets in your life that contribute to depression: 1) Mating - basically your romantic life. If this isn’t satisfactory to you. Figure out how to make it better. TRP is the resource. 2) Tribe - Your friends and family. If you don’t have enough solid relationships in your life (every persons number/amount can be different), you won’t have that feeling of unity you need. 3) Trade - Your job/career/mission. If this isn’t in order, or at least on a path that makes you comfortable wit…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:22 PM
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Does anyone around here read the fucking sidebar anymore? Quick looking for quick fixes. You suck. Get over it. The solutions are at your finger tips, but you are too lazy to take the time to read the theory that men before you sweat blood and tears to create for you. Fucking man up and dive in. Open your mind and become the man you were meant to be.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:39 PM
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You are already too invested in this one girl. If you had more options you wouldn't care so much. Move on, because you are not ready yet. Read the sidebar. Also, learn to type/speak like an intelligent person. No one is going to take this seriously with your shit grammar. You sound like a girl.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 04:15 PM
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Please look up Dr. Doug Lisle, or his website ‘esteem dynamics’. This is groundbreaking evolutionary psychology that will help you easily.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:43 AM
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Hi-Jacking this comment so he sees it: Please listen to this evolutionary psychologists podcast episode about grief, and then maybe call him and have a phone consultation. I have never listen to any psychologist that understands the human mind as much as this guy. https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/beat-your-genes-podcast/id1137772216?i=1000379626658 (I hope the link stays up) All the best
/r/askTRP17/02/20 05:09 PM
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You are over thinking this. Careful about getting oneitis for a girl that is obsessed with pleasing you; it's intoxicating. You should ignore that fact that you sent that previous text. There wasn't really anything to respond to anyway. The real question is; what do YOU want to do? Stop thinking about what you think you should do to get her to respond, and just send her a message saying when and where to meet. She obviously likes someone to take charge, so quit worrying about losing her. Conside…
/r/askTRP07/02/20 05:05 PM
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This is the right answer.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:58 PM
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You should check out the website "yourbrainonporn". Porn is really bad for our neural pathways. And what you are probably experiencing is the Coolidge effect (look it up on the site). You have basically re-wired your brain to only want new sexual stimulates. That is the curse of porn. Yes you are horny all the time for new chicks; of course. We all are. But porn makes it 1000 times worse, and now you can't get hard for your wife. I've been there man. I had to quit porn too. I'm 30 days clean now…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:33 PM
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You are absolutely right on uninstalling your video game. When I had an addiction to a video game, I had to sell my PS4. I didn’t have the will power at the time to have it close by. After I sold it, everything slowly started to change. I was forced to be more productive with my time. And, in the long run, it paid off big time. I am now in such a great place in my life, and I am able to realize that the only way to get there is through the discipline of hard work. You know it, so I don’t need to…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:23 PM
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How much porn do you watch?
/r/askTRP27/09/19 07:57 PM
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You have to just do it. Experience the awkwardness and conquer it. It's like anything else in life; just get out there, throw your dick in some girls face and make her call you daddy. Remember; most of a girls attraction to you is YOU, not how you look. It's all physiological for them. If you turn her on emotionally, she with suck your cock and fuck you any way you want. Chicks don't think of attraction the same way we do; We look at a girls physical beauty and measure how turned on we are by ho…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:08 PM
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I wouldn't say I'm perfect. I'm a decent looking guy. Tall enough. Athletic, but need to hit the gym more; work/my mission keeps me pretty fucking busy. And I'd say my chick is an 8 looks wise, but a 10 mental wise. The point I'm trying to make is, I AM FUCKING AWESOME. I could pull a 10 if I wanted, because I don't give a shit about the value she thinks she has. And, because of that, she will feel that I project my superiority (SMV wise) around her, and she'll recognize her place in accordance …
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:13 PM
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Obviously the first thing you should do is look it up in the side bar, or search for it on the main site. But, in my opinion, competition anxiety is about her hamster not knowing what you are doing when she is not with you. So, when you go out with your friends/gym/work/hobbies without her, or anytime you aren't together, don't tell her every little detail. Be aloof about it. Make her use her imagination to fill in the blanks (which is probably filled with other women hitting on you). HER: "Wher…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:43 PM
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Both me and my girl do not use social media. If anything, I am the worse offender by coming here. It's about leading the new girl in your life along a better path. Teaching her to not use it/seek validation. If you are valuable enough, you'd be able to get her off social media. And if not, easy decision, move on.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:22 PM
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Did I just burn a potential plate down? This is your problem here. You care too much. If you said something wrong, who cares. You said it. You WANTED to say it. You were being natural, genuine. You were being you. If you don't care, then she won't notice something is up. But if you start to act differently because you think you hurt her feelings, she will notice that, and that is where the bridge is burned. Continue on as if noting happened. If she wants to pursue something with you, she will.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:32 PM
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Stay busy. The biggest killer of attraction in a relationship is when you lose all your mystery as a man. She needs to continue to have competition anxiety. And like u/Lickdatitty1997 said, make sure your dread game is on point.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:25 PM
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Dodge any questions that get you to tell the truth. They already know whats up. But if you want to keep fucking them, then they should know you don't kiss and tell. That way, they can let out their wilder side with you as well.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:19 PM
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I disagree. Every chick has a price for a high value man. If they want to be with you enough, and your boundaries are no orbiters (male friends), a girl will drop them in a heart beat. It's just a matter of her scale of male value to her. Now, I'm not saying her scale of value is accurate to her actual worth. She could very well think she is a Ferrari, when she is actually pinto with too many miles. If that's the case, you wouldn't want to be with that type of woman anyway.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:38 PM
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Yeah man, I hear ya. Just forget about this chick. You like her too much and it's going to affect how to deal with her. You have pedestalized her. Not good. The funny thing that happens with men is; At first, we totally fall for the new dope hot chick. And even if we are able to keep our cool, and not push her away by showing too much affection, then eventually she just becomes a normal chick again. She's just as plain as the rest now that the novelty falls off. That's why the men here say "focu…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:31 PM
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If she won't last long with just your validation, then your value isn't high enough. Improve yourself
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:24 PM
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Humans are scared of failure. But failure is what makes a man. Go out into the world and TRY to fail. Then you will see that the reward is knowledge and confidence. Once you stop worrying about failure, you won't care. Also, wrap it up.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:12 PM
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If you have stopped spinning other plates, that is your problem. You got excited because you found an attractive chick you could put up with, that likes you. That's the real kicker. It's a combination of how attractive she is, and that she likes you. Because really, that's what we like about women; is that they like us. Recommendation: Hit up some old plates. Find some new ones. Remember that the reason she first fell for you was because you had an abundance mentality. The moment you put all you…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:09 PM
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The real question here is: Why does she need these guy friends? Most women are addicted to other peoples validation. They need some frame of reference of value, and orbiter men tend to over validate a women's worth. Which makes them feelz really good. I don't allow my girl to have orbiters. If she needs any other mans validation than mine, then she is an attention seeking personality. Which, in my opinion, can lead to poor choices, since she obviously doesn't have an intrinsic value. Be wary of …
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:00 PM
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To answer your question simply: There is no formula you can compare against. The Red Pill gives each man a simple set of guidelines to follow on his journey to becoming the best version of himself. Once you stop caring about the outcome of your success, and focus on constant improvement instead, you gain all the things you wanted by osmosis. Train to endure the journey and not focus on getting to the end goal.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:53 PM
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It's not about not listening, it's that the young men that are reading these posts and comments ARE listening. To everything. They come here for a safe place to learn and vent about their frustrations with women, and, lo and behold, a women has once again infiltrated their safe place. You need to open your mind to what I am saying, and check your ego. You don't have all the answers for these men just because you feel you do. Move along.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:46 PM
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While I agree with your advice here, this: (advice from a girl here) Is unwelcome. We don't care. Most men their whole lives have gotten advice from women around them, and it has turned out disastrously. You may have a better understanding of yourself than the majority of women, which, if that's the case, I am thankful there are women like you out there. But don't come here, state your a women and presume your advice holds some special value because of it. You've got your own subreddit to post o…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:49 PM
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This is awesome. Also, check out ‘The Beige Phillip Show’, by Dante Nero. He was Patrice’s co-host on The Black Phillip Show, and now carries the torch with his new show. He and Patrice we’re really tight. They would chat about girls for hours.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 03:57 AM
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What I have been doing recently is denying my chick her orgasm. Basically get her to give the control of her orgasm over to you and she'll be dripping for you. Usually, I'll get her right to the edge a couple times in one session, and not let her cum that day. And maybe the next day too. It has gotta to a point now where after the 3rd day she is a little sex kitten ready to get fucked. It's pretty great.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 09:05 PM
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I haven't been able to commit to the fully ideology of Karezza yet. But one thing that has come out of it is I don't let me girl cum every time anymore. She has to wait days until I say she can, and it gets to a point that she is horny as hell and begging for it. It's pretty hot. She went three weeks once. That was intense. We are going to try the full version of it soon, just need to actually buckle down and do it.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 04:25 PM
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You need to get a different mind set. ​ Right now you are pedestalizing this girl and she can feel it. You were asking her if she wanted to hang out. But you need to assume you are so dope that she of course wants to hang out with you, so you just tell her when you are free and that she should join you. ​ As for an action plan, forget about her for now. Go game some more chicks. They don't have to be top notch girls, just chat with other women and try and build an abundance mentality. If she com…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:09 PM
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Dude, I’m in a similar situation, but been in hard mode for a few years longer though. I have just discovered a new ideology called Karezza. If you’re like me, and open minded, it’s worth some research. I’m trying it out with my chick for a couple weeks to see how it works. But I have a feeling it’s a really good path to go down.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:01 AM
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I’m teaching him to learn to use his own brain. To think critically and solve a problem. If I use my competence to solve it for him, it will only handicap him. And this is a place to build men, not enable boys to continue being boys.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 06:19 AM
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Use google. I’m not your mom.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:06 AM
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Check out “The Beige Phillip Show” if you want more. Dante Nero kept the discussion going on another pod cast.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 02:07 AM
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Try not eating dairy for a month.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 04:05 PM
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I don’t say “I love you”, to my chick ever. (Maybe 5 times in 3 years). I established early on that I believe the phrase is overused; and that, if she can’t tell how I feel about her everyday, then there are bigger problems in our relationship than a stupid phrase society has indoctrinated in us to hold some kind of arbitrary value of commitment. It’s about actions not words. Just ask her “can you not feel how I feel about you?” If she can’t, then you’ll have to figure out what actions you can d…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 12:24 AM
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You are right. Veganism is the way to go. We've been brainwashed to think otherwise, so large companies can profit off the slaughter of the innocent. You can get all you need, diet wise, being vegan. If anyone says anything against Veganism, just realize they are too scared to change and have to cut your new ideology down to make themselves feel better. All the power to you brother. I'm glad you have an open mind.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 12:27 AM
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Yeah I hear you. ​ Just remember; we mainly get feelings for a girl because we like that they like us. Once you are able to be aware of that, and disconnect needing to have validation from women, it will be easier to not get feelings so quick.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 12:21 AM
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You already have oneitis. ​ Remedy = read more sidebar. ​ She's not responding because you are needy. You shouldn't be thinking about a LTR with a girl until you have been fucking her (along with your other plates) for months, and she has shown nothing but interest in you (and only you). That she has brought value to your life, and you have vetted that she doesn't have any red flags. ​ Right now you need to soft next and forget about her. Move on and fuck other girls. If she reaches out, great. …
/r/askTRP12/01/19 12:17 AM
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The Beige Phillip Show Dante Nero picks up the torch of Patrice O'Neal, who did The Black Phillip Show. Get the app, and start from the beginning. It is hours and hours of Red Pill gold and tons of comedy.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 04:25 PM
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Exactly. But remember, if she stops pulling her weight, don't tell her, just stop doing the things you do for her and be too busy to give her your attention. That's all she really wants. And also, women speak in covert communication, so no matter how many times they say they want to you to communicate more, make sure you do it in their language and not overtly.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 11:58 PM
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What's wrong with a poor chick? You should only be with a chick if she is giving value to your life. And if she is poor, that's fine, as long as she is cooking, cleaning and being as awesome as she can be, to contribute to your life. As men, do we really care what a chick does for a living? No. We want sex, and someone that doesn't cause drama. If she is doing those things, she could be a CEO or a janitor, I could give two fucks. Just fuck me and make me a sandwich. I'll do the rest.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:13 PM
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I read some advice on here a long time ago that getting a material item isn't as good as getting an experience you can share together. I took the advice and it has worked wonders. I never buy material gifts now, I just do things I always wanted to do, and she gets to join. Examples: Snowmobiling, zip lining, scuba diving, helicopter ride, horseback riding, etc. Get creative, and she will love the memories way more that a pair of earrings.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 03:07 PM
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Do you research before downing vegan food man.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 01:49 AM
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A lot of guys would say 4 months is a very short time to get to know a girl well enough to vet her for LTR status. Did she ask the question? Or did you just "make it happen". I believe the overall goal is the denied the first attempt at her to get you to commit and if she stays around and continues to add value to your life you know she see's you as high value (of course other red flags are to be considered). Either way, it sounds like you jumped in too quick with this one and should follow /u/A…
/r/askTRP02/05/17 10:48 PM
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Also: How about Stop making it a question. Tell girls to join you.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 08:56 PM
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ask for another date tell her to join you for another date FTFY
/r/askTRP21/04/17 09:05 PM
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This. Or, to rephrase; tell her to join you
/r/askTRP18/04/17 10:58 PM
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Don't make it a question. Say "come join me at X"
/r/askTRP14/04/17 08:53 PM
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Just game other girls as well to keep your mind off her. If she wants to go with you, it'll happen. If not, then at least you weren't fawning over this one girl. I personally think your best bet is to not text (just the day before to confirm, but not in a question format). You set up a date too far in advance, and have not built up any reason to be texting each other. Think of it this way: Has she provided any value to your life yet? If not, then don't waste your time. She should be chasing you.…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:22 PM
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If you've read the horror stories of other men getting fucked over by making the same stupid decisions you're making and are still going bare back.... maybe you're just one of those guys that needs to learn the hard way? If you haven't read about it, the side bar is that way ------> Good Luck
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:24 PM
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Do not ask "hey want to hang? You should tell her to join you: "Hey, come join me for _____, time/place.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:53 PM
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Seems like you've gotten some really good advice from the guys on here. Now, your new goal is to focus on you right? Get her off of your mind, right? READ THE SIDEBAR! Dude, seriously. We have all been where you are. We have all had issues with some chick and not known what to do. But guess what? We have all read the sidebar, over and over, and now we rule our lives. Women do not get the best of us. We have the best sex of our lives. And we own our frames. Welcome to The Red Pill. But if you wan…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 03:14 PM
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You've been thinking about this one girl for 4 weeks. You have oneitis for her. Move on and talk to MANY chicks. Fail again and again, till you've failed so much YOU DON'T GIVE A SHIT. Then you'll build the confidence (abundancy mentality) to stop blushing around every hot chick you talk to. Then you'll realizes this one girl is just like all the others; nothing special. Build this mentality: You are the prize. Go read the sidebar. Good luck.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 04:15 PM
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Nothings wrong with an occasional smoke, as long as that is what she SAID she is gonna do. Breaking her word to me is huge and I need to be on the watch now. P.S. - Bro, you should quit smoking. I smoked the same amount you did, and now that I've quit, I feel soooooo much better. It also helped build more dicipline in myself when I did. It's worth it. Just do it.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:43 PM
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Another gem. Thanks for this. A solid reminder.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:37 PM
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I agree completely; her word means less now.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 09:17 PM
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I agree. Thankfully I can make her feel better about following me, then following her own directionless thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 07:40 PM
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I like this. the control she is against is the control of her freedom to search for something new It's whittled down to the core of what she is really rebelling about. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 07:39 PM
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Just stop bitching to women. Solved. If you need to vent, do it with your male friends. Anytime my chick asks me how my day was; it was either awesome, or I dealt with some crazy shit. Dealing with something, means I get shit done. If I want to gossip about people at work (as everyone does), I don't complain, I dissect other peoples interesting behaviour. How Frank at work is always acting like a female bitch lol, etc. You are always the rock. She is always the women. Remember that.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 11:41 PM
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Troll
/r/askTRP07/03/17 07:19 PM
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Your first problem was asking if she was free. You should have told her to join you somewhere, eg "Hey tinder girl, I'm going to _____ @ _____ time tomorrow, come join me." As for your response, stop asking questions. Find responses that make her qualify to you, instead of the shit you're doing. And yes, it's a shit test. Agree and Amplify.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 10:28 PM
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Hey Uncle Vasya, You do great work. Your insight keeps me fresh. And so, for me to give back, let me know if you ever want help in plot. I produce films and feel I could give helpful constructive criticism if you ever want it. Thanks for your contributions and guidance. Peace.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 07:47 PM
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No, I mean talking about the act of anything sexual with her. I'm pressuming you talk the same way you text. And your text conversation was you trying to qualify to her. This is where you fucked up Me: what if i want something more? She already knows what you what. You're a guy. She's an attractive girl. You had her chasing you up until this point. And never ask a girl questions like this. It's something a girl would do. A man takes what he wants. So by beating around the bush the way you did, s…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:55 PM
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I'm already in a relationship. Lots of benefits. Solid Captain/First Mate Dynamic. I'll walk away if it isn't working. Aren't you in one too? Why do you want one?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 12:41 AM
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Look /u/Archwinger, I seriously respect you. But you are completely missing the point of the original question and your conradictory answers to it. OP: What are your requirements before you turn a plate into a relationship? You: not possible (summed up) But if you say; Relationships with special women is not the goal. Relationships are just one more tool in your sexual strategy arsenal. Then the question is; how can we create a vetting list to be used as a tool to fuck women, (while we work on o…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 12:33 AM
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I'm pretty sure I've read somewhere in the past that you have a partner of some sort (LTR). I am against marriage at all costs, but am trying to clear up what is unclear about your message. I have always found your advice sound, but for you to dodge the question at hand seems pretty lame.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 11:30 PM
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By talking about the act of anything sexual, you lose the "it just happened" plausible deniability they require. Do not text so much. You are a busy guy doing awesome busy things. Set up logistics, esclate in person, and be covert not overt.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 10:06 PM
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I'd also like to ask; If she can't have sex outside a relationship (Pt. 1), but also can't push for a relationship (Pt. 5), then can you even find a quality LTR? Since, as a man, you probably wouldn't stick around if she wasn't putting out. But if she puts out, she's not LTR material. Do you mind clarifying these contradictions? Thank you.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 09:54 PM
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I get where you're coming from, but that run-on sentence was seriously tough to read. From a man that's on TRP to another man on TRP; work on your grammar bro.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 11:55 PM
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You need to slow down. This is not the time for you to panic and think you NEED to succeed with your new knowledge this weekend. Just chill, take a breath, and realize this new knowledge you are learning will take TIME to sink in. You are going to fail. Over and over. But, as a logical man, you will learn from each mistake and slowly build your frame. And over time you will find out who you want to be as a man, and life will be amazing. Do not try and find a quick fix. life is tough for a reason…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 11:58 PM
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And OP, remember; it's okay to just let the coversation go silent. You should be a confident enough man that you can wait her out in that silence and make her break it. It's a way to get her to start qualifing to you. You just have to have the balls to do it.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:09 PM
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You have to state your boundaries. Tell her she is welcome to do what she wants, but you don't LTR girls that choose that kind of behavior. You don't want drama in your life, and if she is too naive to realize men and women can't be friends, then you will find someone who sees relationships the way you do. If she is a logical girl (some are), you can tell her she is an attractive girl; that all men would fuck her (even if they say they are only friends with her); and tell her that IF she were to…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:48 PM
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This is the golden rule in this situation. You will be up against the hive mind. Keep your mouth shut and your new ideologies to yourself. Just smile and nod. Get the grades so you can move on.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:57 PM
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Any girl with orbiters is not LTR worthy in my opinion. As for plates and FWB, doesn't matter. I'm not commiting to them anyway.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 04:40 PM
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I've read your post and comments. You have the wrong mindset here overall. she's potential gf material to me. This is not a good start. The only way you think about upgrading a girl to that status, is if she has been fucking you good, and doing all the GF duties, without you giving commitment. And based off of the value she brings to your life, then and only then should you consider it. You have oneitis because you have no other options. NOW, as for the situtation you are in, /u/301niko is right…
/r/askTRP13/01/17 12:23 AM
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The shit test was you even responding. She was trying to see if she still has control over you (for validation, to feel good about herself), and she does. So you failed the test. If you hadn't have responded, you would have held your frame, and her hamster would be running "Oh my god. He's not responding anymore. Maybe he is better than me!". But instead, you responded INSTANTLY at 6am in the morning like a little bitch. You should have other girls, which would have made you laugh at this. Go st…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 04:55 PM
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First, you don't change anything you'd noramlly do... that's called breaking your frame. Just be the awesome man you are, and escalate. Also, driving that distance shows you don't have an abundance mentality. This will make it difficult to get her back you your place, so when you take her home, just ask if you can use the bathroom before you go (or any reason to go in her place), then escalte from there.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 11:38 PM
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Yes, that sounds boring and passive. You need to escalte and tantalize her. BE A MAN. Take charge. If you wanna fuck. Fuck. If she turns you down, it's either ASL/LMR or she's crazy. Either way, follow /u/Archwinger's advice and "walk her out". She will either leave (good riddance), or be so blown away that a guy would have the balls to turn her down, that she'll wanna fuck right then and there. Girls are attracted to men with frame. Make sure you have one. And quit communicating to her like a g…
/r/askTRP06/01/17 07:53 PM
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If you don't like them, don't paticipate. You can never erase something said on a group chat. If you like some girl, get her number through other means, set a meet up and escalate.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 12:35 AM
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Really? Karma whoring? I saw your cross post, and also that you "wanted to post this on facebook". You are a walking contradiction. You care what people think very much. Take your own advice and stop giving a fuck. Also, learn to be tactful, and not piss people off when you shouldn't; Law 38. Move along RP gents, nothing to see here.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 09:36 PM
1

Alright. I'll look up my laws and go from there. Thanks.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 05:14 PM
1

Ah, call the cops if they're loud. I thought you meant in reguards to the drug thing. Do cops care about loud neigbours though? Seems a little below them.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 05:08 PM
1

What would I tell them? I don't have any proof.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 05:01 PM
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The Light Switch Effect https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4cax09/the_lightswitch_effect_why_women_rewrite_the/
/r/askTRP07/12/16 09:53 PM
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"I invited a miget hooker over for the both of us, but you've ruined the suprise." Always Agree & Amplify this shit. She's texting/thinking about sex = She's thinking about sex with you. You just have to act indifferent about it and have fun. Be that awesome guy.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 12:26 AM
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You need to create goals for yourself. Find things in your life that interest you and pursue them. Keep yourself busy and be awesome. Then and only then should you be pursuing chicks. Because you won't be putting them on a pedestal and worring about your so called "future" together. You'll be busy being awesome. AND, what did I say?... If you're an awesome dude, chicks will throw themselves at you, making it your choice of who to keep or not.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 12:41 AM
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Go hit on other chicks at the party. She will most definitely notice. And if she doesn't? Who cares. You have an abundance mentality, don't you?... And most likely will take some other girl home if she doesn't come with you, right? ...Right? Always, ALWAYS, abundance mentality. Get some more plates so you stop getting jealous.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 12:33 AM
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in like 10 minutes texting. Here's your problem. Stop trying to build rapport through text and set a meet. Escalte in person, and destroy LMR. If they aren't down, move on. Plenty of other women out there.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 12:28 AM
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You have oneitis. You need to soft next her, and spin some more plates up. Get an abundance mentality so losing her doesn't affect you. She already has a beta boyfriend right now. She doesn't need another. You need to man up and make yourself the prize that she/women want you to be. A women will chase a man of value. Be that man, and you won't have to worry about this shit.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 08:02 PM
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Okay, since you sound like you want to learn, go read a recent post by: /u/mikehaines HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier Girls You need to stop being a little bitch and worring about being too PC. If you want to fuck her, be a man and do it. If she doesn't want it, move on. Plenty of other girls out there. Task: Go read the side bar.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 10:19 PM
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Texting her is fine, but keep it simple (as few words as possible). Re-establish who you were; think of a funny inside joke you had together Set up logistics; date, time, place Example: Hey ___, it's awesome dude from so and so. I'm gonna be doing _(activity)__ at (location)___ on Friday at 8. You wanna join? You respond if: She either says yes, or tries to reschedule for another day. If get neither of those two answers then she's not interested. Good luck. And go read the side bar again
/r/askTRP29/11/16 02:41 AM
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No. Do not buy consumer items for your girl. Buy an adventure or something you can do together. That way she will assosiate experiences/memories with you, instead of some random thing of the month she'll get over when the next shit gift comes along.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:40 PM
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You need to internalize this: You are the prize. Once you truly believe that (by being awesome), it won't be hard to slay it with women.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 09:48 PM
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This is too true. I will add to the list.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 07:45 PM
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I read it here a while back: https://redd.it/3juhvi
/r/askTRP03/11/16 07:44 PM
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Maintain a Captian/First Mate dynamic. Eg: Take her opinions and ideas into consideration, but make all the desicions. Pass her shit tests. A&A works pretty standard. Know her cycle. Eg: When to really fuck her good (ovulation) and when to provide her with a little comfort (rag time). Don't buy her gifts. Buy experiences for the both of you. This has worked wonders for me. For birthdays or christmas, whatever, I buy things to do for US. Carnival, cave exploring, helicoter ride, ziplines, whitewa…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 03:22 PM
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The Rational Male It is a must read.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 11:33 PM
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This girl is trying to find out if you are a guy that touches when he desires something or not. If not: You will be put in the firend zone right away. If touchy guy: You will turn her on and show her you don't give a fuck. This is what an alpha does. Girls want to feel that an alpha is so turned on by her, that he can't control his desire, so he just takes her when he wants. Ensue tingles. Now... Who do you wnat to be?
/r/askTRP01/11/16 11:14 PM
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From what I read you have oneitis for this girl. She is the first one you have tried your new found knowledge with, and beat you. Your ego is trying to win her back so you can feel good about yourself again. This is a bad path to follow my friend. If you care this much, you have all ready lost. You need to move on and start fresh, over and over, with many girls. After lots of practice, it will finally come naturally to you, and THATS when you'll start winning. But until you learn to let go and n…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 10:04 PM
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Yes. If you commit, the fucking stops. She banged some other dude that night. You'll find out soon enough through trickle truth. Soft next, bang when she reaches out, and NEVER commit to this one. She's shown her red flags. Also, you are fucking young man. Do not look for an LTR till later in life. You'll waste much time needed for imrovment and banging sluts.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 09:17 PM
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And to add to that; I would say it isn't the "cool" shit you do throughout the day, it's how awesome you are at doing the things you do. In my frame, everything I do is "fun" or pushes the social boundrys. When I talk to people, they want to hear what I have to say cause it's not the norm. I put people on the spot; tease girls, talk to strangers, etc; so anytime a girl hangs with me, she has shit to talk to her friends abaout: "Oh my god, like, today, Archaeus said the craziest shit to this girl…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 06:00 PM
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My girl did the same thing, and I answered the same way you did at first. Then, I thought about it, and told her it's not that I don't "love" her, it's that the word is so over used by society that is has lost it's meaning. I then asked her is she knows how I feel about her, and she said yes. We haven't said I love you since. And it's way better not having to say it in my opinion.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:32 PM
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I never get my girl actual objects... I buy a thing/adventure/experience that we can do together. Something that I may have wanted to do myself, that she gets to join me on Eg: Skydiving, ziplining, helicopter ride, scubadiving, hotair balloon, you get the gist.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 12:13 AM
1

This is the right advice
/r/askTRP08/08/16 10:48 PM
1

Hey Man, just curious... How were you able to create a poly relationship? And is it one sided?
/r/askTRP04/08/16 07:42 PM
1

Read "The Sex God Method". And actually read it. Don't ask for a quick fix, there isn't one.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 11:23 PM
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You need to read "The Rational Male" by Rollo You have a lot to learn. Do not move in with her. Find another option, or tough it out. Life isn't suppose to be easy.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 11:20 PM
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I agree. Everyone up here says it WAY too much. For every little thing. I read a post a while back that said something along the lines of; You only have three "I'm sorry's" to your chick in you entire relationship with her. Basically stating, don't de-value it's meaning by saying it so much. It feels good not saying, unless you mean it.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 10:03 PM
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She is obviously used to beta's and needing to provide a plan. Stick to the leadership role. Tell her it's a good suggestion and if you can fit it in you will.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 10:54 PM
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Dianosis: Oneitis Cure: Sidebar In the mean time, use this girl as a test of your ability to be a man. Act as if you have already lost her. Stop caring about making her feel good and just go have fun for you. Do what you want, and encourage her to join you. Escalate constantly, and feel out the moment to make your move for the kiss. Be fun and awesome (which you already are, right?). As for texting less, just text less. Logistics only. When she asks about just say "You've been busy", and set up …
/r/askTRP29/06/16 08:52 PM
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I tell my LTR that her opinion is always taken into consideration, and I will make a decision based on all the information. I value her, so I will listen, but it doesn't mean her words fall true. Use the Captain/First Mate dynamic. Smooth sailing.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 06:37 PM
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I read somewhere (and took the advice myself) that if you every "get" something for a chick, it should be an adventure type thing that you wanted to do anyway. That way, she is just allowed to join your frame with something you always wanted to do but maybe haven't yet. Price may be a concern to you, but I found doing things I normally wouldn't do by myself with a chick was fun and rewarding, so the cost was worth it. Obviously Briffault's Law applies.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 06:27 PM
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If you haven't read "The Rational Male" by Rollo, do it.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 03:44 PM
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It sounds like you said yes, because deep down you still need people to like you. But what you need to do is think about you first. Stop giving a shit if you upset people. Your time is valuable, and you shouldn't waste it on someone else. If you can't say no to people right away, start with saying "I'm busy". It might not be true per-say, but you are busy being you, and that shit is expensive. A saying you might like; My Value is something I create through the currency of time Now go read the si…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 09:41 PM
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My opinion; it could happen. With the rise of VR porn and sex bots, soon men that barely/don't get women might just opt out of the SMP all together. If that's the case, then only the top 10% will be avaiable, so women will end up sharing us just to get some of that sweet, sweet alpha. Enjoy the decline
/r/askTRP28/06/16 08:30 PM
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When I chose to get into a LTR, the one thing that I made perfectly clear to her was; I will not tolerate drama. She knows I will walk. And because of that, it has been very smooth sailing. I am the Captain, she my first mate. When you have that abundance mentality, they sense it, and will work hard to keep you.... the prize. Own what you want in this world and never look back.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:47 PM
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Here's a question to ask yourself: Do you want drama in your life? If the answer is no, then you are the only person who can change that. My opinion, she is drama. Social media and validation seeking are red flags, and from your story and comments it sounds like this isn't the girl for you. Next.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:42 PM
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You need to read: The Way Of The Superior Man by David Deida It explains the difference between THE Masculine and THE feminine. Not the difference between the actual sex, but the difference between those concepts and the thought processes behind them. Basically, anyone can have masculine or feminine traits, but to have a truly compatible relationship you need the polarity between the two.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 05:39 PM
1

Wow. He just didn't listen.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 10:24 PM
1

Do not communicate your intentions until after you have slept together or if she asks. Women talk, men do. Don't be a women.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 12:20 AM
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Do not be overt. Communicate covertly about your intentions. Actually, in your case, stop giving a fuck about what you think she wants. Just DO what you want. If she gets feelings for you, that's her problem. Remember: Women are the gatekeepers of sex, Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. One day she might ask you for a relationship if you are awesome. When that happens, you can decide to next or not. Until then, just be cool, and stop over thinking things.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 12:03 AM
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You obviously don't understand that no matter what you do as a man you get fucked if you get married. Now, If he actually wants to protect himself, then; find a LTR worthy girl that understands that men get fucked, build a relationship where she understands signing a government contract is crazy, and have a happy commited relationship together. There is no need for the government to get involved. It's 2016. Think outside the box.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 11:42 PM
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Do not marry. Period.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 11:26 PM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 03:15 PM
1

I also feel this theory should be added to this guided tour: A Mans Affections vs. A Boys Affections My friend read that for the first time the other day and said everything just "clicked" after read it. It should be high in the list as it is a basic simple dynamic that is the essence of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 07:43 PM
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This was a great read, and another eye opening on time. I have a saying that I've posted on TRP a few time, but I believe this is the place best served for it; My value is something I create through the currency of time. Owning that mantra is the essence of your post. Thanks /u/Clint_Redwood.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:34 PM
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The only way you can do anything about this is leading by example. Do you lift? If not, just start doing it. She will either follow or not. You will have your answer. Plenty of other women out there man. Do not get oneitis for this one. And don't sign a government contract for marriage.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 05:35 PM
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It's because you don't value yourself, or at least see your own value yet. You are a man. You are awesome, and can only get better and better through time. But you have to put work into yourself. Hard work. That is the red pill. A tough part of it to swallow. Life isn't easy. Here's a saying I made for myself: My value is something I create through the currency of time. Think of it this way; if you aren't always putting time into yourself to create an internal value that makes you awesome to you…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 03:41 PM
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The point still is; you are f-ing awesome and busy. Woman want to chase high value men. If this so called Sunday @ 7 doesn't work for her, she will offer another time if she is interested. If she doesn't offer another time to reschedule, you should move on/soft next. Think about it; the more times you try to hang out with her, and she doesn't reciprocate an attempt back, it lessens your value in her eyes. You become an orbiter, trying to get her attention by constant prodding, even thought she c…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 02:59 PM
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I would also note that you should have texted her with a time and place YOU were going to be, and said she is welcome to join you. When you ask a girl a question like: "what's your schedule like this week, when are you free?" You subconsciously project a lack of abundance. To her, you obviously have nothing else going on (read: no other girls) then to be available ALL WEEK, just in case she is... = Barf. No tingles. By telling her to join you at a specific time and place, you are sub-consciously…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 06:14 PM
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"Can I help you pack?" ; made me burst out laughing. This is the correct mentality. Love it
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 07:05 AM
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Go read the sidebar. It's all in there.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 04:14 PM
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A LTR is never your goal as a high SMV male. Your goal is your mission. If you are high value enough to her, she will pursue commitment from you. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. She should be bringing value to your life, otherwise there is no point in commiting to her. Go read the sidebar some more. You have a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 05:54 PM
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Nice. This made me laugh.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 07:12 PM
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I've got a really gross looking toenail too, and was worried about it in the past. But I stopped GIVING A FUCK.... and no one actually cares, really. You should have her squirming in her panties before your clothes even come off. If her pussy is dripping, she won't be looking at your toes dude. If someone points it out (which happened to me, at the beach, in front of people), I just stay in my frame. "Yeah, shit happens. Crazy, right?" Then, change of topic. Quit being insecure. If you don't car…
/r/askTRP11/05/16 06:01 PM
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This is a great post. A simple concept, that helps free the mind to the truth of the entire SMP. Well written, and easy to understand. Thanks for this.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 10:39 PM
2

Thanks for you advice. You were hired to do that, right? You agreed to the job requirements by taking the job. This was the kick in the butt that I'll remember. I hope I can push past my ego; I am getting paid to do my job.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:56 PM
2

Damn. Yeah, that's what I figured. I can't stand being told how I should treat people. Like you said; acting out someone else's (the company I works for) frame.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 12:08 AM
2

Okay, if you want to pick up easy girls, here are the details: Go to Excalibur Hotel Find the show times of the "Thunder Down Under" male strip show Go hang out in the bar across from it having a drink until the girls come out. The place is so tucked away, and no guys are ball'sy enough to just hang out there. They come out SUPER horny. All you have to do is sit at the bar and be best friends with the bartenders. IT. IS. EASY. PUSSY. Have fun.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 12:36 AM
1

I'm interested in your last sentence where you state the girl should be pulling women in for threesomes. 1) What's your thought process of why you're doing that? (I have a feeling I know the answer) 2) How could I get my relationship there? (In your opinion.)
/r/askTRP28/04/16 08:53 PM
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What sacrifice do I need to do for my children? If I have a RP relationship, and Captain the right way, there is nothing saying I can't build a family without marriage. The government doesn't need to be a part of it. It sounds like you are controlled by societies ideology of what is right. I respectfully disagree with you.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:53 PM
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I didn't say I wouldn't give her any. We've talked about it and it just isn't time yet. As for marriage; if you still believe that's a viable option, you should do some more reading on it. It's not the way to go for men anymore.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 10:41 PM
3

I would never sign papers, and she knows it. I'm not against committing publicly (read as wedding), but to give my life over to the government is suicide. I appreciate your advice, and will think about what I expect of myself in this relationship, and then make her aware.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 10:26 PM
6

This feels like solid advice. Thank you.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 08:03 PM
1

I didn't say I didn't want children, nor that I won't give them to her. We just both agreed it's not time yet. Maybe in a few more years, once my finances can support it.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:37 PM
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Okay, so demote. But do I tell her, or just do it. And then from there, she can only be a plate when she gets back?
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:22 PM
5

Extremely good. It's actually getting better with time. She see the pre-selection I have. All her friends are jealous of her cause she has a man.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:21 PM
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Also OP, don't ask for oral. If she is hot and in the mood, just tell her to suck it. With the right frame, a girl will do anything for you.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 11:52 PM
4

I used to lose people's interest in the stories I was telling too. And a friend finally bluntly told me; "Get to the point as soon as possible. If people are interested, they will ask for the details." I have an ability to notice ALOT of details, and I used to provide them in my story telling, as (to me) they seemed relevant and interesting. But, alas, they are not, until you have show people the reason it's worth investing more time in your tale.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 10:29 PM
1

I'm interested in this, and will be watching for it. I will chime in on what's working for me as well.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 10:13 PM
3

Q2: From the answers I read to this question, it seems everyone is saying to find out what interests the women. But, to me, that is the wrong mindset. What you want to do, is project your passions. You are getting women to be interested in YOU. And/or what your interests are. If they are, they will participate in the convo, or add what they see fit/are passionate about. You don't want to supplicate to them. What I mean by this; you are looking for things to interest them. Why? You are the prize.…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 10:03 PM
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I get that you want an LTR, but your mindset is wrong in how you're going about it. As a high value male, you need to vet your women (red flags). You shouldn't be pursuing a LTR per-say, but wait until a female has shown constant interest in you, added value to your life, and stays within your Captain/First Mate dynamic. If they don't see you as their leader, there is no point. If sounds like you don't has a "You are the prize" mindset yet. Start focusing on yourself more, and the women will com…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 03:38 PM
1

The mindset that allows me to know the truth, is that I. Am. Awesome. I create who and what I am. No one can give that to me. And by doing this, I may (will) attract females. They can then join me in my life if I choose. This gives me power in my life, so I don't rely on anyone but myself for my happiness. It is empowering. Go read the side bar and internalize. Then go out and use the theory and see that it's real. Then practice more. learn. Experiment. You are a man, and can be ANYTHING you wan…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 06:28 PM
2

Just remember that once you escalate, and it gets to foreplay, girls love a dominate male. She wants to be man handled. She doesn't want you to ask her to do something, just do want pleases you. AND what pleases you, is making a girl moan and squirm with pleasure (at least for me it is). You will probably get some LMR or ASD. If so, remember that she wants you to beat that shit test. She's there to get fucked by a man, and that's her test. An amused mastery smirk will do fine, but play to the mo…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:36 PM
2

This is the right answer on both parts. You (as a RP man) shouldn't put up with a girl who has orbiters, eg disrepect. She is plate material at best. OP, you need to up your SMV. Percription: Read the sidebar again
/r/askTRP18/04/16 08:55 PM
6

Just bought it. Sounding great so far. Thanks for all your knowledge and passion Rollo. This manosphere has help me and so many others.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 01:18 AM
2

Only if she has added ample value to your relationship to warrent "sweet" things. You are a busy awesome guy. Just being you if enough. You don't have to bribe a women with sweet things if you're badass. Up your SMV a little. She'll like that even more.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 10:10 PM
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Do not bring her a present, you dolt. She needs to invest in you, before you even think of investing in her. Have you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP05/04/16 10:04 PM
4

lol... This made me laugh.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 12:02 AM
1

Should have stay with only being avaiable on Monday. That was your frame and you failed to stick to it. You are now entering the whirlwind of the female (her) frame, where anything can happen. She probs will bail for sure. The overall: You are a busy (awesome!) guy. If she wants to hang with you, it's at your schedule, or no. You caved, showing her you have nothing going on. Pussy is gonna dry up. If she bails, just say "k", and go no contact for at least a week, or if you have the balls, until …
/r/askTRP29/03/16 11:38 PM
3

This. You also need to read way more RP theory. You obviously didn't read the red flags, and need to internalize this shit. When you get single (please do that soon), you will be able to test the theory in the field.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 05:47 PM
1

I like that this could be a good motivation for you... and this is of course just my opinion; But it seems like this is a way to seek validation for a job well done. Life isn't easy. It's tough. It seems like you just want a pat on the back for doing what a man has to do. Your accomplishments should be your own reward. My two cents.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 12:03 AM
2

Who cares about being a dick to her man... It's your life. Do what you want, grow a pair, and next this chick if it's getting weird. Find some more plates so you have an abundance mentality, so you don't run across this problem again. You're over thinking cause you have no other pussy on the go. Remember... You are the prize. If she isn't qualifying to you, it's not worth your time. Next.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:03 AM
2

Listen to /u/abdada and /u/Rasalom72. You are getting quality advice from them. Also, you obviously have not read the sidebar on the main sub. Do your research and swallow the pill... Or stay in your blue pill world of lies. The choice is yours.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:07 PM
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It's a lead by example type thing. If you are always going out of the house dressed to impress, she will want to match you. Women don't like to be "outshined" in that department. Also, maybe add some dread.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 11:58 PM
1

The best solution is to always "Agree & Amplify". If you're getting lines from us, you won't learn your own skills. Think of it this way; when with you're bros, joking around, you always try to one up one another to absurdity. It's just fun to do. Treat her the same, and don't worry about offending her. That is how you will stand out to her. IDGAF attitude.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 07:49 PM
1

Whoa. Whoa... Dude, I hope that was a typo; but women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Just don't steer the new guys in the wrong direction by accident.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 06:56 PM
2

Perfect answer.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 12:07 AM
1

on a motorcycle
/r/askTRP26/02/16 10:10 PM
3

Never wife her. Divorce rape, duh.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 07:57 PM
2

Read up on how to monitor her cycle. That'll give you a good timeline of when it's okay to be a little "beta" (affection), and when to be more "alpha" (aloof).
/r/askTRP23/02/16 07:50 PM
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Make sure you read. I said almost. Use you're head and judge those reasons on a case by case basis.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:13 PM
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I would also add: She should be really wet almost everytime. If she is drying up, then you aren't giving her the tingles to keep her around. Prepare to next.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 11:52 PM
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I never said TRP is about morality, I said the issue I was discussing is a moral one. It's discussion wasn't up for debate, because TRP is amoral.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 11:05 PM
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Then this discussion, and what you see as a general consensus on TRP, is a morality issue. People are choosing not the commit to one girl. They obviously don't see any women of worth, and so, in your words, are being selfish. It's possible, that if a women came along, added value to one of these men's life, and requested commitment, that they may in fact do so. The point is, everyone has an individual responsiblity to give value to anyone they want to interact with (if they want that interaction…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 08:13 PM
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You must at least see how a man, by doing so, increases his SMV in the eyes of a women. That SHE see's someone who is of value based on the fact that these other women are fucking him. Pre-selection yo. It's real.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 07:00 PM
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I agree. My value is something I create through the currency of time. Just a little motto I wrote to put things into perspective.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 08:08 PM
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This needs to have its own post so more people can see it.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:59 PM
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Listen to this guy. You're time is valuable!
/r/askTRP19/02/16 04:18 PM
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Personally, I would not put up with a disrespecting bitch, just to get sex. She knows she is getting away with it, which makes you less of a man in her eyes. Own your frame and moral code. If you don't like it, don't put up with it. NEXT.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 09:53 PM
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You should read "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose. My way of lasting; When you feel yourself about the cum, just slow it down to the point where you can let yourself settle for a second. Then start up again. Keep doing this. It may be seconds or minutes in between each time you need to let yourself "settle down", but eventually you will bury your orgasm deep inside you till you will be fucking for hours just to cum. Also, if you only last 20 mins right now, I hope you are fore playing and making h…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 05:06 PM
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I was thinking the same thing.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:26 PM
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How can you differentiate between a shit test and a comfort test in a relationship? One thing to help you in a LTR in to know her cycle. When she is on her period, you are going to get comfort tests more often then not. Then, roughly about 2 weeks after her FIRST day of her period, she will start to ovulate (for about a week). This is when you need use your more "alpha" tendencies. Make sure you are fucking her senseless during this time. Dominate her, and make her submit. Once you have the cycl…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 06:23 PM
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Tell them you already have enough stalkers as it is, then change the topic. If she persists, stick to your guns. It's none of her business. Topic change. The point is, don't fall into her frame. If you don't like the prying into your life, tell her. It's your moral code and you stand by it. To her, that will be more attractive then caving in to her every whim.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 11:11 PM
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I agree with this. You need to state your intentions with her. If you want sex, then try and take it. If not, next her and move on. Don't waste your valuable time on a girl that isn't giving you what you want. If you are not getting sex, you are orbiting.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 09:50 PM
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You want her to perceive you as a high value man. And a high value man is busy being awesome, not looking at his phone all day waiting for one chick to text him. Stop acting like a women, needing her validation. Go out there and be the awesome guy you want to be. If she is interested in you, she will chase you. If not, move on.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:53 PM
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God damn... This guy is a lost cause. You don't turn her on. (give tingles) She went no contact and fucked some other dick before marriage. Now shes back for you to care for her, you silly betabux you.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 01:02 AM
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Dude, remember; My opinion is my own. If I think FB is crap, that's my deal. Don't take it personally. If you use it for a tool, that's your deal. Over all, it seems like your panties are in a bunch about all this. Make your frame stronger, so strangers opinions (which you asked for) don't affect you so much. All in all though, I'm glad you're here. A fellow TP'er is always a good thing. Cheers.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 08:06 PM
1

Hmmm... I wonder what changed your mind.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 07:31 PM
1

Way to take advice gracefully. Good luck out there.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 07:30 PM
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Okay, you are hamstering up reasons of "No! it's not stalking if it's on my FB feed!". Dude, get off FB. It's a life suck and people use it for validation. And if she makes a comment about you stalking her, Agree and Amplify damn it! Don't try and reason logic. It makes you look guilty. Second, stop asking her on dates. She is categorizing you into a BB role by this. Instead, tell her you are doing something with XYZ logistics and she can join if she wants.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 06:32 PM
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She was thinking about having sex with you. It's an 'Anti-slut defense' (ASD). If you get her back to your place and escalate, most likely she will say something similar along those lines. Just ignore and continue. If she does it again, politely get up walk to the door and tell her to leave. She will either want to fuck you right then (for standing your ground), or she'll leave. Either way, you'll have your answer.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 08:40 PM
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I'm guessing you live at home?... If so, I have heard stories of guys that escalate at the park, at the beach, in their car. Really the theme from guys that bang chicks outside of a bedroom is that they escalte anyways. There are no rules, and all these girls need to think is "It just happened". Just make up any excuse to do anything with them, and take it from there. If a chick is out with an awesome guy like you, she should be fucking you, or she is wasting your time. Remember: You are the pri…
/r/askTRP05/02/16 09:04 PM
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The common theme I see in your answers and the body of your text is that you are asking them to hang out. If they have boyfriends, they definitely aren't looking for someone who isn't a leader. Most likely their boyfriends are beta's, who supplicate to them, and they are looking for an Alpha fux. My opinion with these girls is to be overly dominant with them. Tell them to join you, giving them a place and time. Really push that IDGAF attitude. And constantly give them plausible deniability. By g…
/r/askTRP05/02/16 08:46 PM
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Simple answer: "I'm gonna be doing "X" at "Y" tomorrow at 7pm. Come join me." (Obviously the content can be changed to suit your situation.) State what you're doing. She can come. Do not ask. If she is interested, she'll come. If not, you have your answer and move on.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 12:54 AM
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You need to listen to the guys that have said to get off facebook. It is doing you no good. You are basically telling your "socail media friends" that you require validation to feel good about yourself. This is a very feminine trait. So I ask you; Do you require peoples attention? If so, please re-read the sidebar, and get back to us when you understand that your value should not be based on how other people perceive you. Right now you're just falling victim to the frame of a so called HB10, jus…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 08:38 PM
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Why did you take her out for dinner? Are you trying to buy her affection? You should not be paying for dates this early. Make her earn your time and add value to your life before you do that. She should be qualifying to you. As for dates, is that what you want?... Or do you want sex? Cause you're giving a lot to her without getting what you want.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:42 PM
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You should listen to /u/1NV0K3R You need to stop thinking about her by being too busy to do so. How do you do that? You make your frame stronger. This is a mind over matter thing. Go into a mini monk mode and focus on your studies. Also, a question for you: What value has she brought into your life that has put her up on that pedestal? (Cause remember, you're the prize. Either they are qualifying to you, or they are nothing to you at all.)
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:00 PM
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I agree man. I constantly have people being overly nice to me, just to gain my attention. I exude an IDGAF attitude, so people naturally flock to me. The problem now is it's annoying as fuck. I can spot a people please'r a mile away, and honestly want nothing to do with them. Even worst, I ignore them because of it and they try even harder. It's a vicious cycle for these poor bastards.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:43 AM
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Someone needs to create an app for this. Not saying I can't make my own system on my phone, just that it would be a valuable product.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 12:35 AM
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Awesome. I'm glad I could help. I used to do it all the time too, but once you find the confidence in yourself to not give a fuck about an awkward silence here or there, you'll be on your way. And it'll feel oh so good.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:03 PM
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I have a feeling this is deeper than you think. If you are in a room or a car with someone, do you feel the need to fill the silence? If so, then you need to get to the bottom of that problem as well. Be okay with not talking. Use that awkwardness to build the confidence in yourself that you don't need to qualify to these people. They should be trying to fill the silence. You should ALWAYS make people qualify to you. Not the other way around. Also, listen to the guys in the other comments. If yo…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:04 PM
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My opinion: Stop asking You should be telling her; when you are available, and where you are going to be doing something awesome. She can join you if she wants. Otherwise you'll be doing it anyways.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 07:33 PM
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Love this. Frame is everything man. Great job.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 12:21 AM
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I'll add to this: Go to the party not even interested in hanging out with her. Throw yourself out there and meet new people, guys and girls alike. She will see you don't need her and most likely try to talk to you. Just don't make yourself a beta orbiter if you go.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 05:48 PM
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I second this. You have to remember the relationship should be on your terms, not hers.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 05:01 PM
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No problem. Remember to get to the main sub as well, and keep reading the sidebar and top 100 posts.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 03:47 PM
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That was for sure a shit test. I've gotten stuff like that asked of me before. But luckily I have a kinda RP girl who states what she is doing without knowing it. Example: We were both sitting down and she was finished eating some snacks: "Could you throw this garabage away for me?" I just looked at her, laughed and said "no". She then just smiled and said "I love it when you say no to me." And got up to throw it away herself. They basically want to know you're a man that won't let them walk all…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:05 PM
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Because dopamine doesn't ask questions.... it just feeeeellllz good.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:57 PM
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On another note: What feelings did you tell her? Because you should keep that shit to yourself until she is head over heels for you. Remember, Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and Men the gatekeepers of commitment. As soon as you told her how you felt, you lost all your power, and her tingles dried up. Be mysterious. Make her work for your valuable time and energy. And only then will you reward her with tiny bits of your affection.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:12 PM
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You've gotten a lot of good advice in here OP, from some very veterned RP'ers. I hope that you take the advice (it will hurt), and read up on the main subs side bar. Otherwise you are going to be a very bitter and disappointed man. Take your life back!
/r/askTRP25/01/16 08:26 PM
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This is the correct answer. Although, if he read the sidebar on the main sub, he would have known that. OP; go do your homework.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 08:16 PM
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In my opinion, you're both wrong. She has responded and wants to hang. So, as a man, you tell her what you're going to do and she can join. Stop asking questions. Just tell your bitches what you want and you'll get it. If not, they're out.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 08:15 PM
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Touché. I forgot there are people looking for easy answers before doing the required reading. Well played then. Edit: A letter
/r/askTRP25/01/16 07:33 PM
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Oh boy, you still have a lot to learn. The reason you feel like you have to "change" is because you were rasied under the false pretense that you should be nice and chase women. The BP Disney fairytail. If you were rasied in a proper "RP" way, you would realize you're awesome (the prize) and not need validation from anyone. You would just do you. You don't need to be a jerk to attract women. You just need to hold strong to your moral values (your frame), and make women qualify to you. This is yo…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 07:11 PM
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Maybe so, but at least he is asking questions. Meaning he's trying to learn. You're comment wasn't helpful in my opinion. /u/Archwinger summed it up in a more constructive way. Maybe you saw his comment and added yours after? PS - I see you all across TRP, and your advice is sound. This guy could have gained from you.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 06:33 PM
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Simple answer: It's up to you. You create your frame, so if this is bothering you end it and move on. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 06:00 PM
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This is a morality question. TRP is amoral.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 09:29 PM
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I am still amazed at the new generations coming up. Your need for social validation and attention is depressing. Do something more valuable with your time then letting people know you have nothing to do. Let people ask "I wonder what /u/snapquestionaskerguy is up to these days. He's so mysterious." Be too awesome to need validation man. Go live your life.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:44 PM
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Yes, sending that text was wrong, although your thought behind it was right. You have oneitis. As you know, this chick has been using you for validation. And your valuable time has been wasted on her. You need to move on. Forget about this chick. HARD NEXT and find some other girls. Get an abundance mentality, and make women chase you. Remember: You are the prize
/r/askTRP20/01/16 05:36 PM
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What does it matter man? Sure, her ability to pair bond is diluted, but if your SMV is way above hers, it'll be hard for her to branch swing. Plus, it's up to you to care. Not us on TRP. Guys on here could very well think an N-Count of 3 is high. It's all about what your frame on the matter is. If the Pro's outweigh the Con's.... And remember; She's not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:41 PM
2

Yeah, this whole post screams of a girlfriend branch swinging.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 12:51 AM
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When that LMR came up you should have said something that put it in a way where it's either happening or she can GTFO. When she resists, you just get up, open the door, and show her to way out. When you are the one declining her, THAT'S what makes her pussy wet. It shows you have options and an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 10:47 PM
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It's about pair bonding. Read these archived links: link link
/r/askTRP18/01/16 10:32 PM
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This. Or just ignore it. You're too busy to see her text.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:26 AM
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The Definitive Book of Body Language: by Barbara Pease
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:26 PM
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Okay, I want to start off with this: Females are the gatekeepers of sex. Males are the gatekeepers of commitment. You ask us how to get her as a girlfriend. Wrong. A man wants sex. She wants a relationship. You by all means should not be trying to get a girlfriend. You should be so awesome (to this girl, and many others) that she can't help but give you her sex without your commitment. Then, over time, she will eventually ask for it. By that time you should have vetted this girl enough (looking …
/r/askTRP15/01/16 07:00 PM
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This is a great basic introduction to any newcomer having a problem in the anger stage. It spells it out clearly, and seems to condense a lot of the side bar material into a simple small post. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 06:44 PM
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The reason you know it's not good is because you already had "problems" with this girl. You now what to move in to "prove" you are more awesome than ever to her. The problem with that: validation seeking. You don't need to prove shit to anyone. And putting yourself in that situation sounds like more drama than it's worth. There are plenty of girls out there man. Get some more, find an abundance mentality so shit like this doesn't affect you anymore. Girls are a dime a dozen.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 05:51 PM
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This is great advice. Keep busy. And above all, think about your best interest before anyone else. When you succeed in this, you will gain a confidence you've never had before. Do it man. We're behind you on this.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 05:35 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 07:25 PM
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While I don't control her, I'd prefer the girls to either only have eyes for me, or at least not talk about it. You have your answer. This is about frame, and what you choose your moral code to be is up to you.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 06:03 PM
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Because you're the prize, and she should want to impress you. Don't fall back into the Disney BP fairytale of treating a girl like she is special. She's not.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 12:51 AM
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And a free dinner
/r/askTRP12/01/16 12:37 AM
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She isn't yours, it's only your turn. Forget the tradion of trying to keep her. Just continue to be awesome and think about your happiness first. You don't need a women, you just want one. Once you separate your need for one, you will be much happier. She will see/sense this and continue to be with the man that chooses her to be a part of his awesome life.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 08:54 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 08:23 PM
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I think one thing to remember as well is making her feel like she is desired. That she is so hot to you that you can't help yourself, your manly instincts take over and you ravish her like the slut she wants to feel like. Example: Shes prepping for dinner, you come up and hug her from behind; smelling her neck. She feels your body react to the attraction you have to her. You squeeze her tighter in your manly embrace and place your hands everywhere on her body. She tells you to stop, but pushes h…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 07:20 PM
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After only on the TRP for a month you think you are "alpha"? Nope. Wrong. And she can sense that. It also sounds like you are acting butthurt to everything she does, and once again, she can sense that. You need to start focusing on yourself, and add a bit of dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 12:16 AM
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I'll answer your question by showing you where you actually fucked up: and I asked for a possibility of a second date. You asked? No. You don't ask. You tell her when you're free, and that she should join you. If she declines and doesn't give another time, you have your answer. As for another possible meet up. Just message her like nothing happened, tell her you're going out to such and such, and to join. You know the rest.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 10:11 PM
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The common advice will be to get out of the relationship. But what I saw in your post about the girl at your work: Don't shit where you eat! .
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:14 PM
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When we started, my chick told me: "I know you're busy, so I just wait till you call." It was hard to get used to at first (old BP thinking and conditioning), but in the RP sense, she loves it that way. And I can confirm with /u/birdbiscuit, as she gets more comfortable in the relationship, she will start to need your attention, eg: setting up hangouts.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 05:33 PM
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This
/r/askTRP08/01/16 05:10 PM
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Didn't even read the body, just the title. Next.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:11 PM
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Dude, drop this girl NOW! This relationship is toxic for you. Go no contact, and get into monk mode. Go lift. Get some hobbies, focus on yourself. And for the love of god, realize that you can be a man of amazing value if you just believe it. You are the prize, and bitches should be fighting for your attention. Not the other way around. Read up on abundance mentality and amused mastery. TL;DR: Stop being a female.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 04:17 PM
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As long as you stay awesome and continue to have a higher SMV than her, she will broach the subject eventually. Do not bring it up yourself. Commitment is your power, and if you bring it up she will get the sense you don't have an abundance mentality. A girl should feel like she wants to tame/lock you down, so don't make it easy for her. Just have fun. If she wants to be with you in that way, she'll figure out how.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 07:10 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 06:17 PM
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Awesome man. And to be honest, I've been in your shoes. It takes a lot of work, learning and reflecting, but the journey is worth it. Keep at it.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:45 AM
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Holy shit man. I read through these comments, and all your responses are defensive hamstering of why you couldn't escalate. Take the advice of the fellow TRP'ers here and create a frame for yourself. Best case scenario an IDGAF attitude. Better put, grow some balls and take what you what. .
/r/askTRP16/12/15 11:31 PM
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Dude, you're looking at this the wrong way. If you believe in the truth behind it all, then you aren't using "techniques" on her, you just stumbled upon a forum that has theory you already believed. It's a world of like minded people, nothing wrong with that. To answer your question, no one knows how any specific girl is going to react, except maybe the guys she's with. Just owe your frame of mind. And just like fight club, don't talk about TRP.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 07:14 PM
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This. You already have oneitis. It's not healthy, and they can sense that. Also, an "alpha" wouldn't need to buy some chick a gift to get her attention... they buy you shit. Move on.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:34 PM
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I unfortunately don't know enough about CTB to inform you correctly. As for your image standards, it sounds like you know what your problem is. And since you know, developing a solution is the easy part. You set unrealistic standards?... STOP. You put everyone on a pedestal?... STOP. I know those are just words to you, but I firmly believe it really can be that easy. You control your brain. You just have to realize the brainwashing that has been done by this Disney fairytale world and change you…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:55 PM
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Just so you are aware, she has probably already slept with someone else. But if she hasn't, she is going to. The real question here is this: Could you next her without getting all emotional? If not, you have oneitis, and are going to get hurt. Move on and get an abundance mentality. She is only one chick, and if you become as awesome as you're suppose to be, they'll be plenty more where she came from.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 11:24 PM
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If you are wondering what TRP mindset would be about this, I'll tell you to look inside yourself and find out what your moral code is. Do you care that she lied? That's all that matters. If you do, next her. If not, then don't. Just make sure you stay true to your frame. That's the TRP way.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:37 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:20 PM
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Hey Man. I'm not saying my advice will help you, or that I know what the fuck I'm talking about, but from what I read it seems like you care way too much about what everyone is doing and what they think. Life (to me) is about not giving a fuck about what the bluepill world has taught us. Just do what you want. Find what makes you happy, and just live to love yourself. NOTHING matters but your happiness. Always try and better yourself. There is no end to what you can accomplish if you put your mi…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:17 PM
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Do not shit where you eat! Seriously. Next this girl man. It's not worth any potential drama it may cause. This is your job, and since she is a girl, you could get seriously fucked.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:03 PM
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You know what you have to do. No contact. Re-read the side bar. And for the love of God, remember that this is how the hierarchy of love works: Men > Women > Children > Pets Women can't love "up". You were raised by a women (your mother), and in your head you feel like a women can love you unconditionally (like she did). Yet, a woman can't love a man like that if she wants tingles. So go get an abundance mentality, remember that life is about you, and stop giving a fuck about chicks. They are on…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:25 PM
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This is a solid FR. The chick I'm with right now with purposefully ask me things knowing I will say no, just to hear me decline her. She tells me she knows the answer will be no, she just likes to hear me say it. Obviously likes to remind herself she's with an Alpha. Keep it up man. You're on the right track. Congrats.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:15 PM
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In my opinion man, she is spinning both of you as plates. I personally wouldn't let a girl dictate the terms. If you're cool with sharing, then that's your thing. No judgment. But if you'd rather have a chick who only wants you, then you should toughen up and take the loss of one chick as a reward to standing your moral ground.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 06:21 PM
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I'll agree to some extent. Read the situation. But if you are killing it, and can see it in her eyes/body language, you can for sure go straight to ass grabbing. Let's not limit ourselves here.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 12:03 AM
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I'd also add to read the chapter in Sex God Method called "Building Open Relationships". It teaches you to train a women to accept your decision to sleep with other women, but so they still stay faithful to you.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 11:57 PM
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Thanks man. Yeah, I kept it in my phone as well. Just a little reminder I would look at to keep my frame intact. Keep being awesome.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 09:27 PM
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Just continue to do your life. Be awesome, but more importantly, stay busy! Tell her when you're avaiable, and if she is not, then so be it. Try not to change your schedule to accommodate her's. They'll see you as more of a man that holds his ground that way. A man they want to fuck. And for the love of god, keep texting only to logistics.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 07:45 PM
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You are almost in the right train of thought in your last sentances: cause if a woman cant recognize an awesome guy like me then i dont need to be wasting my time. But you haven't comitted to that train of thought. You are waiting for her to dictate the decision. And you'll be left stuck with it saying "Whatever, that bitch can have her ex." You really should be taking charge of your life as a man. Make a decision for you. Don't just wait around for her to choose like a beta bitch. Man up. She's…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 07:26 PM
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Hey man, it's called oneitis. It means, you have no other options. You need to research abundance mentality. Once you have a few more girls interested in you, she will fade into a distant memory. Remember; You are a man, and are valuable. Women want to join your awesome life. So focus on yourself and spin some plates. Also ---> Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 05:51 PM
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This is a tool kit I found in TRP. I am entitled to touch her body I am the God of my own little world She is worth just as little as the next slut I am here to have fun. Whatever happens, happens All women are sluts. You will now go prove it I'm going to walk away if I choose She is here at my whim Now go out and have fun.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 05:44 PM
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Hey Man, I actually went through this similar thing with my chick recently. I had to sit her down and tell her how it works when she's dating me. Eg: No contact with Ex. End of story. After I stated what's what, I told he to come join me in the other room after she's thought about it. A few mins later she showed up apologizing, and it hasn't happened since. The point is, if you don't want drama in your life, YOU control that. And by holding your ground, you will get respect from your woman.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 09:54 PM
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You need to start investing more into yourself than these girls. Better put; if you make yourself the most valuable you can be, you will stop caring if you lose this one chick you "like", cause you know more will come. Say this to yourself: MY value is something I create through the currency of time. Spend time on yourself, cause bitches are barely worth it. .
/r/askTRP03/12/15 09:29 PM
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Alright... Let's get back to the right state of mind here. I am here to help you I am happy you're here (like all our other red pill brothers) and my intent was not to insult you. The IDGAF attitude I gave you is my frame, not blue pill thinking. And it was used as an example of how you shouldn't have taken my opinion so personally (where I called you a BB). My point is; if you know who you are, then it wouldn't have insulted you. To me, I was helping you. And yes, we have to stick together. I w…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 12:26 AM
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Hey man, I'm gonna be honest here and keep giving you a lesson. I don't give a shit about your feelz. It's my opinion and IDGAF. But what I do care about is helping someone who wants to help themselves. So instead of being butthurt by a strangers opinion, you should heed my words and create a solid frame for yourself. Read, learn, and grow. Own your world man. Own it and love it. P.S. - Grammar matters. Sophisticate yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 05:15 PM
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You're asking US to do your work for you. A red pill man finds information for himself, and doesn't idle by waiting on others to do it for him. And obviously she is telling you she thinks we're unnecessary. It's her shit test. And if you fall for it, you'll be her BB (which my guess is you already are). Stop trying to prove a woman wrong with logic. She won't understand, and you can't win. Show her by being a fucking man and giving her the tingles that she wants. Like others have said... Read th…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 12:36 AM
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The best thing you can do for yourself is end it now. Taking charge of your life and walking away is your power. It should feel good. She will beg to change your mind, but stand your frame. That is what men do. And you will love yourself for it.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 04:13 PM
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And also, don't ask her when to do anything. You are a man. You tell girls when it's good for you, and if it doesn't work for them... too bad. You are busy.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 12:57 AM
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From the comments I read, and your responses, you're not taking the advice well. Go read "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose. It will open your eyes to what you should be doing in the sack. Cause at this point, you are still a beginner.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 08:41 PM
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Okay. First off, by going out of your way to find her on social media, or even try and talk to her after all this time means you have no other options. You have oneitis. She will sense that, and make you an orbiter. You need to forget this girl and go be awesome. More girls will come because of that. And if by chance you run into this girl, THATS when you escalate into a date. Do yourself a favor and look up abundance mentality, cause you obviously don't have it.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 11:46 PM
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Yikes. When I read that, it exudes beta. "Wanna go out tomorrow?" Yuck. No Alpha asks for permission. If he is awesome, he'll just be doing awesome things and invite her along. Especially if she is in an open relationship. She is definitely looking for a take charge kinda guy. He needs to get an IDGAF mentality when texting. Even texting her that day means (to her) that he has very few other options. Girls want to compete for a high value man, and it seems like he just didn't display that to her…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 10:01 PM
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I'd say go out and find some girls to talk to. He needs to know she is not the only one out there (even if you don't say it in those words). She's probably fucking other dudes out there anyways, so why not get his mind on all the other fish out there.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:59 PM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn. Have fun with her while you can man. And don't fret this shit. If she crosses one of your bounderies, then move on. The only thing keeping you unhappy, is you.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:18 PM
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I'll second this. I blindfolded my girl and made her get on her hands and knees on the bed. I then was able to tease relentlessly. By walking around her, talking dirty (or not at all), she wouldn't know what was coming next. Spanking. Sucking tits. Slapping her in the face with my dick (They LOVE this). And just using her to my desires in general. Her pussy was extremely wet, so it says it all. Have fun!
/r/askTRP05/11/15 10:02 PM
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You're a man that's busy and don't have time to text. Either ignore this text, or set up a date and time.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 08:24 PM
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Read the sidebar. Then read it again.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:56 PM
1

How do you ask a girl to do kegels without her feeling like you're calling her loose?
/r/askTRP15/10/15 08:48 PM
1

And would you really stick out your tongue like that emoji to this dude in really life?... Type like a man.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 06:06 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP16/09/15 04:57 PM
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It sounds like you are putting this girl/all girls you approach on a pedestal. You should be treating all women like they are at least a HB5. Remember, you're the prize. Stay in your frame. Have fun. Abundance mentality. Kick ass. And seriously..... Don't give a fuck!
/r/askTRP15/09/15 11:32 PM
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I think the correct response is NEXT Unless she had scheduled another date (or tried to), she is just getting validation from you.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 08:45 PM
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Hey man, I definitley don't know much about your situation, but it seems like a very negative environment. You need to move out on your own ASAP! And don't hamster some reasons of why you can't, just do it. As for your family relying on you so much... You don't owe anybody anything. Every man for himself. Especially if they are treating you without respect. Start a new life without the negative vibes. And if they are willing to add value to your life, they can be in it. But until then, you contr…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:42 PM
1

The problem with what we were taught from our upbringing, is that we expect women to be able to love us like our mothers loved us. BUT, unfortunatley this is how love works: Men > Women > Children Women can't love "up" unconditionally like our mothers loved us. But they can respect us. And when they find a man that they respect and leads them like a true man should, it's almost the same thing. It's natures version of love. Not this Disney fairytale we've been led to believe. Just never dump any …
/r/askTRP21/08/15 11:47 PM
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This is an incredible post. I have not felt the world makes so much sense. MY value is something I build with the currency of time. This should be sidebar material. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 05:45 AM
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I'll second this comment. But I'd like to add; In your last paragraph you're asking us what you should do.... What is she trying to do... yada, yada. But... man... IF you're a man, you should be asking yourself what YOU want. If you make your intentions clear (eg: sex), then you're being true to youself. If she's not down then you have your answer. Make yourself happy before others, and what you want will come.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 12:02 AM
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Hey man, good post. I read through all the comments and it looks like you're getting all the right advice, especially about the work place. The one (small) thing that stood out to me, was: "Who said anything about me paying? *I can't afford that shit.*" It seems weak to tell a girl you can't do something. You could have just said the first part and she would have continued in the same manner. I know it's not much, but you're here for the critique, so why not. Cheers man.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 11:34 PM
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Hey. First off, great post. I have been looking for more LTR posts since I'm in the midst of starting one right now. I am aware that I have properly vetted this one, but so far all signs are good. My question is: How does one actually go about vetting someone? Do you just straight up ask her the questions to get answers? Or do you subtly find out through casual conversation? Thanks in advance.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 02:14 AM
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If you didn't seal the deal earlier, you will just be a beta orbiter in her eyes. Texting her outta the blue will add you to the list of men she can manipulate into giving her attention for nothing in return. Abundance mentality would never make you look back at this as an option, and she knows this. Next man. Next.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 07:49 PM
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More in the sense of: "I want to go out and play some pool, you should join me." If she declines, you were going to do it anyways, so it doesn't matter if she joins or not.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 07:30 PM
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Here's my advice: You are (<-- read as should be) a man. If you want to do something, do it. Did you want to kiss her?... Duh, do it. If she backs away/declines, you smirk and move on. Nothing phases you.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 07:27 PM
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I agree with /u/1NV0K3R. You are in oribit, big time. You may be trying to get out, but trying is for the weak. She is using you for your house? Man, tell her if she is coming over you are going to fuck her. If she says no, then that's her choice. Move on. This way, you stat your true intentions, and can move on without regret. Next.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 06:52 PM
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I agree with this. A man is too busy to be texting on his phone. You have shit to do... always. Tell her when you are free. If she was interested, she'll agree to it. Also, you shouldn't be "taking her out" as a reward for playing your game, she should be joining you when you are out.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 06:40 PM
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Read this chapter in the book "The Sex God Method": Building Open Relationships It will teach you how to keep a girl committed to you, while also keeping yourself open in the relationship. But really the whole book is worth the read. My sex life improved immensely.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 10:56 PM
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This is just my opinion from the limited information I have of your situation, but it's possible it's a comfort test. (Is she on her period? That's a good sign that it could be a comfort test) If you A&A that much, she may need a little comfort from you when she calls you out on insulting her. Something along the lines of "Oh come on... You're my number one babe. If I didn't think you could handle it I wouldn't do it." Wink. smack ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 11:00 PM
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I think you answered your own question then man. You lost your desire for her. She can feel that shit. So why would she put effort in, if she knows you are already on your way out? Just downgrade to plate status and start fucking other girls. She will either step up her game, or you'll be able to next her in the transition.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 04:44 PM
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Okay, I read a few of the comments, and there is great advice in here. But what I suggest is read "The Sex God Method". It's fucking amazing! From what I read of your comments, you don't have any Immersion with her. Which means you need to psychologically turn her on. She needs to be in the moment. And you need to connect with her Emotionally during sex. Stare deep into her eyes while you fuck her. Tell her to stare into yours, and never look away. Talk dirty to her during sex (Call her your lit…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 03:37 PM
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Here you go: http://gen.lib.rus.ec/ Didn't check if that book is in there, but it's a good start.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 05:37 PM
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Personally, I think it's just a LMR, and if you shut it down you would have been in there. She did use the words "EX" and "going through a breakup". If you had shut it down, held frame, and showed you had a higher SMV than him, she probably would have branch swung.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 09:49 PM
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I'm no guru... but shouldn't you be telling her when YOU are free to hang? Asking her when she is free isn't as attractive. As a man that does his own shit and only has limited time you should control when she can see you.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 07:07 PM
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I'd say it's hard to give general knowledge for generic questions. My suggestion is read the sidebar. Also, field reports are awesome for study, and some are really good stories that show you how women actually act. I've been lurking for quite some time and there is A LOT to read. But, if you're on the right track, you'll never stop learning/soaking in this information. Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 11:39 PM
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I read this article yesterday: https://archive.is/AzfPC It pertains to SMV, and the fact that females subconsiously change their SMV based on her males SMV. In theory, once she sleeps with a male of higher value, she then views herself as such, forever more. To me, it seems like your friend (who is probably a decent 7/8), raised her SMV, hence why she shit tested the fuck outta him.
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