TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

FrostyGoingHisOwnWay Archive

View 1 posts and 322 comments by FrostyGoingHisOwnWay on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
13

We're starting to see this sort of thing more and more around the world, it's worth knowing your local laws inside and out to know exactly what your risk factors are so you can protect yourself. In many cases this stuff can be imposed on you without your consent. In the UK we have a cohabitation bill being pushed through parliament https://services.parliament.uk/bills/2019-20/cohabitationrightsbill.html Basically if a woman cohabits with you, after 2 years of living together she gets the right t…
/r/MGTOW25/02/20 02:38 PM
2

It's a hard pill to swallow. But there is a silver lining. Women win the lottery when they go through puberty and gain all of their primary sexual characteristics. Men are attracted to youth and beauty because this is what leads to healthy children, and so women get all of their value up front. The downside for them is that it slowly ticks away, every year older they get the more the beauty fades in comparison to younger women, and the less healthy she becomes, the less healthy her eggs and so t…
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 01:17 PM
7

One interesting thing that's just occurred to me is that in most of our evolutionary history men and women had short lifespans, like 30 years was about average at one point. And in some sense I think the 2 strategies of male and female SMV (that mens starts at 0% and increases, and womens starts at 100% and decreases) was in some sense tuned for that 30 years. But as we've evolved to live to the better part of 100 years I think men are cashing in on this strategy because 30 is now nothing, women…
/r/MGTOW30/10/19 12:58 PM
38

Very nice pad you have there, looks like you've carved our a nice slice of your own heaven. I hope to do this one day a bit later in my life when I'm looking to wind it down a bit and kick back and relax.
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 06:12 PM
1

I agree with this. Doing things like offering to pay for something as some kind of test or manipulation I personally see as a red flag in women. If your goal is a good man he will want you to be straight forward with what you believe and how you feel, as communication is key. If you're not sure of something like his motivations then just ask, be up front, it shows maturity. Don't play mind games because you're going to end up with a player who is just trying to game the whole situation and not a…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/19 06:24 PM
5

Keep in mind behind every entitled female who is happy to destroy a man, there is a family who encouraged that and taught her the values she holds. And that it's mostly other men who enabled all of this and that support these incredibly corrupt systems. The only person you can every really truly rely on is yourself and you should learn to be as self sufficient as possible to protect yourself from this.
/r/MGTOW01/07/19 01:19 AM
1

The best take away message from this I think is that men have to understand that men and women do not love in the same kind of way. Men's roles throughout our evolutionary history has been to provide and protect for the benefit of the offspring and to achieve that men have evolved a very deep love and loyalty to women. But women have no such loyalty, they've evolved to simply seek men with the most resources. This is why when something serious happens to a man that threatens your ability to prov…
/r/MGTOW01/07/19 01:17 AM
5

I'd definitely draw a distinction between the support that a community provide, where communities are just groups of like minded people who discuss specific topics. And organized groups with things like political goals and activism in mind. MGTOW communities will always exist, even if the reddit one is banned there's other ones at mgtow.com and there has been many MGTOW forums over the years some of which are private and invite only to keep them more concealed from women.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 12:14 PM
22

Excuse me, but what is a "bad day"? That sounds an awful lot like an excuse women use to allow them to stop behaving like responsible adults and act like children. Don't keep people like that in your life, for god sakes.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 11:54 AM
6

Bingo.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 11:48 AM
1

And that's all to our benefit quite frankly. I'm not one of the MGTOWs that think if we collectively deny women access to good men then it will start solving all these problems, I'm very much anti that idea. I'm really just musing about why others might be concerned about MGTOW. The reaction to MGTOW is fairly severe which means we've struck some kind of nerve.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 11:19 AM
6

I feel like the carnal desire stuff is just something that goes away with age. I'm not sure how old you are but I do feel sorry for the MGTOWs in their 20's who just want to be out there crushing it, because I did a lot of that in my 20's and you kinda get it out your system. You really have to fuck a 9 or a 10 to understand how profoundly not worth it the experience is. Looking back on that in a lot of ways I regret my 20's because of that stuff, if I could go and do it all over again I'd just …
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 10:56 AM
5

I'm similar. I can afford to buy really expensive clothes if I like, but I basically just buy scruffy things and I don't even have that many clothes so I tend to cycle through the same few things. Women are extremely shallow and superficial and so judge men harshly on this stuff, it's a great way to keep under the radar. I've even had women comment and say that I ought to put some effort in and that it would make a difference, which is really just a way of saying that if you dressed up they'd pr…
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 10:45 AM
4

My view is very similar to your own, when you say your life is like a fortress I immediately pick up on what you mean by this. I've always percieved it as a bubble, like a sphere around me. It's a sphere of calm and happiness a place of security and peace, and as you get older and you earn more money and become more competent you fill that bubble with more things, a home you own, the tools you need to do your trade, assets to fall back on should you need them, and the visualization to me is that…
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 10:38 AM
35

I use the phrase "I'm unavailable" which is technically true and they will normally assume this means the same thing as "I'm taken" and then later on if there's ever any drama about it, you can simply re-state what you said and point to their assumption as the problem. People find it very unusual that single people would be single by choice, and especially that men would be single by choice as normally they have to do all the work.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 10:13 AM
21

Classic female manipulation techniques.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 10:02 AM
21

This is a classic case of the female psychopath. When you tell someone without any emotion that you're going to sleep around with other men it's a clear indication that she lacks empathy, which is the defining trait of psychopaths. They often emulate it in order to manipulate those people around them to get what they want. Because they have little concern for social convention like rules they tend to become extremely compulsive, they're sort of a slave to their cardinal desires at the time, and …
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 09:57 AM
7

I'm the same, I didn't even have a red pill rage phase like some guys do, I just became really emotionally detached from women. It's really impersonal, they're just things in the environment that represent some unit of risk to be around and so to be avoided, nothing more than an inconvenience.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 09:28 AM
24

It's quite the opposite. Anyone that has proper organisation and groups together in some motivated way, they make themselves a target and when you have an organizational structure such as leaders and a hierarchy then those people can be targeted and taken out, either politically or just physically. That's why groups like the Mens Rights Movement aren't making any traction, because the moment they organize they draw the attention of political opponents who come along and call them anti-gay and ra…
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 09:24 AM
5

People are absolutely terrified to their core that men get together in a male only space and get to say and do whatever they like. It flies in the face of all the SJW ideology where women must be equal with men. You see a lot of this recently if you follow Jordan Peterson, he's doing these talks around the world about taking responsibility and most of the audience is male and he gets slammed for that fact when doing interviews. And it's not just a one off, almost every media outlet who interview…
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 09:10 AM
17

That's literally the first thing I spotted. It's actually really nice that the more traditional conservatives tend to stick to biblical names for their children, it's kind of like a filter for interacting with people. If her name is Sunbeam or Rain or Bonshiqya then that is a massive red flag right off the bat.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 08:48 AM
2

I agree it's morally questionable, the response to modern degeneracy of women is not to be a degenerate yourself, being stuck in a cyclone of men and women manipulating each other isn't good for anyone.
/r/MGTOW14/05/19 08:53 AM
6

Don't be so fast to judge yourself like that. Many if not most men simply would have gone back and tolerated it. The men who can walk away and also do that with some dignity have my respect, that's for sure.
/r/MGTOW14/05/19 08:45 AM
6

It's common for women to do what is called monkey branching, it's how monkeys swing through the treetops, they never let go of the previous tree until they have a good grip on the next one. I've always thought that this behaviour in women is evidence that they really not loyal people. Men need and demand loyalty in other men because throughout evolutionary history when we fought side by side and hunted dangerous animals for food, it was extremely important to know who was loyal, who had your bac…
/r/MGTOW14/05/19 08:41 AM
6

I can't emphasis enough how important this is. Men built civilization, we're creators and it's important to recognize this and build yourself a decent life, maybe your own piece of land or at least a home, with some assets and resources for stability. As Arcturix said, you need to wary of people who want a piece of that, throughout history it has never been enough that we simply build, we also have to defend from invaders who seek to exploit and destroy for their own gains, or cancers who seek t…
/r/MGTOW14/05/19 08:33 AM
3

Sorry to hear you went through that, that's just awful. The good news is that you learned something very valuable and you learned it before it was too late or really bad enough to do severe damage to your life and that's always a silver lining. You played this the right way, don't rise to her degenerate behaviour and give her the emotional reaction she desires from you, just walk away, accept that she's no good for you and if she contacts you in future then politely tell her you're not intereste…
/r/MGTOW14/05/19 08:15 AM
20

In the justice system the verdict is either guilty or not guilty, there's no innocent verdict. Which means no conviction doesn't prove it didn't happen it's just that there wasn't enough evidence to support a guilty charge. So you can't use a lack of conviction for punishment of the accuser, in fact such a system would be awful because it would stop real victims from speaking up because if they can't prove their case then they face punishment themselves, and it's already hard enough to get justi…
/r/MGTOW21/04/19 10:27 AM
1

This is kind of like a male shit test of a woman, has anyone ever expanded on this idea in general. What would this even be called, a piss test? Men who were still looking to date despite going their own way, even if it's just to get some poon could do with a decent repertoire of these kinds of tests. Preferably ones that don't require props or elaborate setups and can be done on a date.
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 04:54 PM
3

The really fucking stupid thing is that baking is simply the ability to follow like 9 instructions, as a boy I learned to bake from my mother in like 20 minutes. All the measurements are extremely simple, the ingredients are cheap because they're all basic food stuffs like flour, eggs, sugar. And the instructions are to basically mix that stuff into a bowl and then put it in the oven. You are severely retarded if you cannot do this at least a basic level. What she really means is that she can't …
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 04:18 PM
24

I really like this. As someone who is fiercely independent and very judgmental of others who take more than they give, this really speaks to me.
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 04:09 PM
1

This is why I have so much more respect for men, you'd NEVER see a woman doing this, not even to set herself up to be able to afford child care (women actually welch on child care at greater rates than men do, when adjusted for volume) Just remember this is the start of a trajectory, it's the low point from which you can climb to a great peak, just remember when you get there and you're back on your feet, remember what took your life away from you and be appropriately cautious in future. God spe…
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 03:58 PM
3

Yep, scary ass shit. I don't even think that's the latest one, it's been put up to parliament several times and was pulled back because it didn't have time to go through, I think they have to go through between each GE, I'm not 100% sure, but I knew it didn't make it through before but it wasn't because it was rejected on merit. The latest one is here https://services.parliament.uk/Bills/2017-19/cohabitationrights.html I think it's worse. I think they've tweaked it because it used to be that it …
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 12:41 PM
6

Always felt these sentiments hold back people from really achieving what it is they want to achieve, which is a shame because it's bad enough when other people hold you back, but when you unnecessarily hold yourself back, that's tragic. Most people that own businesses started out doing bad jobs but they invested in themselves and their own skills by constantly learning and improving in their field, until they'd saved some cash to start their own small business, probably by themselves at great ri…
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 09:17 AM
1

Best advice to be honest, I've been in the corporate world doing IT for like 13 years and my desk is just everything I need to do my job, if you try and send some kind of message at work you'll just attract negative attention. It's best just to leave your work space as clinical as possible, it's not worth some whiny cunt mouthing off to HR and getting you in trouble. Most of the mens desks are like this I've noticed, and most of the females have endless nicknacks around them, little toys and flu…
/r/MGTOW01/06/18 02:09 PM
1

This is an extremely common complaint, and the people who make it are retarded. It's one of those things that takes longer to debunk than it does to assert so I don't even bother these days. It's to obvious with anyone with a brain why that argument is wrong.
/r/MGTOW18/05/18 09:15 AM
1

Yep. If you read the detailed reports they've made prior to submitting this bill, they point out that it's an extremely common myth in the public eye that if you cohabit with a partner to whom you're not married that you'll become "common law married" after some extended period, about 2/3rds of couples believe that. But that's wrong, there's no such thing in the UK. And because the myth is quite persistent it leads to a lot of upset roasties who don't get to strip men of their assets, so that ha…
/r/MGTOW18/05/18 09:07 AM
2

Massive red flag, stay away permanently. Don't fuck with a women exhibiting red flags like that, it could end very badly for you. Just walk away with as little drama as possible.
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 11:01 AM
8

We want to lose our virginity with one of the cheerleaders in high school, and get the respect of all the guys. This is a large part of the problem and touches on what MGTOW is fundamentally about. Men compete with each other for success, so sexual conquest is at least partially about proving your worth to other men. If you take a look at whether marriage is worth it or not, you weight up the costs, the benefits and the risks and you do an analysis, red pilled men will find it lacking. But socie…
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 10:57 AM
1

The best thing you can do is do what you know is right and set an example, fuck everyone else.
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 10:33 AM
7

It's what's called a performative contradiction. You either support marriage and think it's a good idea or you do not. If you genuinely believe it's a problem then you wouldn't support your best friend getting married, if you care about your friends at all. Many MGTOW are (in my opinion, correctly) cautious about pushing their beliefs onto others, going your own way is something you do individually as a man, pressuring other people into doing something is antithetical to MGTOW. However it doesn'…
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 10:30 AM
3

It's more the parents fault than anything, kids ostracize the weirdos which helps feed the problem, you need interaction with other people to keep your oddities in check and if you lack that they get worse. Which is a good argument for being as inclusive as possible and try and guide these people back to normalcy by interacting with them and giving them the social cues they need. That might be unpleasant in some cases but it's either that or risk them becoming the next shooter, or risk them bein…
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 08:58 AM
13

I've refused to attend weddings of my friends as I don't want any part of them becoming legally and financially trapped like that. I think it's important that while we don't proselytize MGTOW to other people that we still stick to what we believe.
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 08:45 AM
4

I think you need to be careful with the last part about MGTOW being a solution that will hasten the collapse of society. I don't really think that's the purpose of men abstaining from marriage and fatherhood and women more generally, I'd argue my observations have mostly been about self preservation due to problems you quite rightly listed. This falls in line with MGTOW being individualistic, the moment people start trying to ascribe grand goals to MGTOW it just becomes some cringy ideology or m…
/r/MGTOW14/03/18 02:56 PM
6

TATWA demonstrates that you have other options. When negotiating with people if they believe they hold a unique upper hand then they'll take you for a ride, but if they believe they're competing in a market of other people, they're more likely to argue towards your market value. It's worth noting that this will never boost your SMV above what it really is at any one time, but it will allow you to negotiate at your real value rather than something below it. This is a fairly common phenomenon with…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 11:47 AM
5

I think 20k readers is past the point of this being some obscure minority now, that's a sizeable chunk of people, that's someting like 1/3rd of the feminism subreddit, which shows that for every 3 active feminists you have 1 man walking away from society.
/r/MGTOW19/01/17 11:36 AM
10

People have a limited capacity for pain and loneliness, it doesn't matter how good things could potentially be in the future if things are bad enough in the present then there's always 1 way out. I don't think the logic is hard to grasp, I think it's just relating to someone in that much pain, it's a hard place to put yourself mentally when you've not experienced it. My dads dad committed suicide at 35 and my dad attempted it probably around 40, and I'm now 33 so I figure I'm entering danger ter…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 11:21 AM
6

The modern economics of women and getting laid are increasingly in mens favour.
/r/MGTOW29/11/16 11:13 AM
3

I'd recommend reading about the honeymoon phase and how that's linked to our biology. I take a very scientific point of view on a lot of these issues and a common theme in MGTOW and their relationship is that the effort is appears worth it when the reward is high but as the honeymoon period ends the trade off cannot be justiifed. I think that's because evolution only furthers traits that aid in reproduction, in our early history as a species with no birth control it would only take weeks or mont…
/r/MGTOW29/11/16 10:29 AM
2

I think in most places domestic violence is closer to 50/50
/r/MensRights27/11/16 01:54 AM
1

Pretty much celibate at this point, the nice thing about rejecting LTRs is that you can basically let yourself go. Like I'm a successful person with a load of money and a great career and all that, but I dress in the same clothes all the time, I can gain weight and not shave... I played the FWB game throughout my 20's and honestly it's boring now and not even worth keeping myself in shape, I have about a million other things on my mind anyway, with hobbies and work.
/r/MGTOW27/11/16 01:41 AM
2

I don't think it'll get demonized in that sense, because it's passive and so isn't a threat to anyone. I think that people will continue to apply social pressure however. We might see an attempt by feminist leaning people to act all irrational about it, like we're some kind of threat, but literally everyone else knows that's not true.
/r/MGTOW27/11/16 01:28 AM
4

Honestly it's just not worth explaining to other people, the amount of education you'd have to put the average blue pill person through in order for them to understand why MGTOW is a reasonable position, it's just not going to happen. Furthermore there's really nothing to gain by revealing your opinions and beliefs with most people, it doesn't do anything but make you a target of peer pressure to change.
/r/MGTOW27/11/16 01:16 AM
13

Made me laugh. And you're right of course women are just other humans and they can be fucking gross as well, you talk about imagining her taking a shit, but they have their own world of gross as well. A woman once said a similar thing to me, just to imagine they're scratching their labia and then picking the blood out from under their fingernails... It's a weakness that men have, women present themselves so well that blue pilled men see them as angels, they put them on pedestals, breaking that s…
/r/MGTOW27/11/16 01:11 AM
1

Not sure what civilization collapse (or lack of it) has anything to do with MGTOW. Milton Friedman is a hero of mine, he's one of the rational people who make a convincing case for libertarianism, a lot of what you said I agree with. My advice is to learn about capitalism, how you exchange value in the real world and how you provide value to other people. Keep track of what professions are in demand. Because the world is specialized you need to make smart decisions about profession and what educ…
/r/MGTOW26/11/16 03:46 PM
15

Avoid debt at all costs, some things like houses (assets) are OK if your only choice is a mortgage, otherwise save most of your money. Try and invest some and be frugal with the rest. Most people are living month to month which is really bad or worse they have expensive credit card debt. Remember that women compete not with accomplishments but with status and most of that comes from what man they have and what expensive clothes/accessories they have, so they spend like crazy. Never ever get drag…
/r/MGTOW26/11/16 03:38 PM
1

One of the hardest habits to break as a blue pilled man I'd say. I work in IT and used to get a lot of people ask me for help with their stuff but these days I just say no. I would say however that you're thinking "carry your own shit bitch", that it's more out of anger than reason, so keep a check on that. Ideally you want to be in a place where you have no inclination to do this and you're basically indifferent to her struggle.
/r/MGTOW26/11/16 03:30 PM
10

Pretty much the advice I gave. We should absolutely never be dictating to younger people with no experience how to live life, this isn't some kind of cult, it's men going their OWN way and that means having experiences of your own and making up your own mind. I think that means you need to risk being hurt a few times and especially experiencing the haze that is "love" to understand just how powerful that is and how much rationality it can strip from a man. But whatever you do, just do it safely,…
/r/MGTOW26/11/16 11:53 AM
4

You're real close to me actually, I'm in Norfolk. I would say simply that because you're young you're also inexperienced and part of being MGTOW is finding your own path in life. I'd recommend that you not ideologically stick to any kind of path right away that you experiment and allow yourself to get some perspective so that you can make up your own mind from first hand experience, rather than rely on the jaded experiences of people like us. That said, I would recommend precaution in everything…
/r/MGTOW26/11/16 11:48 AM
6

We all know the real reason that these women want to ban sex robots and sex dolls. Because controlling mens sexual pleasure has always been a part of female power, it's why when women are mad in a relationship they withhold sex, it's a tool used to manipulate men. Extremely lifelike bots (which we're heading for) will allow men to achieve sexual release without the need for real women which means women can no longer use this as a power play, and they're terrified of losing what little value they…
/r/MGTOW25/11/16 10:51 PM
2

Yes absolutely, I feel the same way, I want to retire ASAP, I'm 33 and I've done fairly well for myself and I want to move into the realm of my own business before I'm 40 and then ideally sell it a decade later and retire early. I'm just not that happy about paying huge amounts of tax, part of being MGTOW for some men (certainly not all) is social disengagement through not paying taxes and I find myself falling into that category - only somewhat though. Any man here who care retire early, fuckin…
/r/MGTOW25/11/16 10:35 PM
2

Women are around children more anyway, hugely disproportionately as single parents, as educators throughout Jr and middle school, in nurseries and child care. I've not seen stats that show them more violent, I know things like domestic violence is about 50/50 men/women. I think it's a fairly well settled scientific fact that women score higher on average at standardized empathy tests, you can find research papers published which confirm this. Father are in fact very important in the role of chil…
/r/MGTOW25/11/16 10:31 PM
2

A huge amount of sexual attraction comes from novelty as well, you're less attracted to the same person over time simply because the stimulus you get in your brain becomes repetitive and numb. It's the same with any stimulus whether that be physical, emotional or even chemical, take the same drug a lot and you need more for the same high. I'm not convinced LTRs and certainly marriage are possible, evolution sculpted humans to be attracted to one another and to pair bond to last enough time to fu…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 01:06 PM
1

That's fine, I have a similar mentality, but remember if you earn that money super fast you get knocked into a higher tax band, and the other people you don't care about are going to be taking a larger slice of your pie. Remember that you cannot tax free time. Here's a good example, I still have holiday days to take this year, for which I can take as pay if I don't or can't use them. The pay for these days is taxed, but if I take the time I get 100% of that value. So In some sense if your goal i…
/r/MGTOW25/11/16 12:50 PM
2

I think it's mostly biology, biology informs social behaviour anyway and so even social conditioning is really just another expression of biological traits. For example women are weaker bioloigically speaking so good survival traits for them is ability to manipulate and there's some good examples of this when it comes to them behaving in distress and men being triggered by that distress to intervene in the situation. It's where white knighting comes from. It's evolutionary favourable because off…
/r/MGTOW25/11/16 12:43 PM
2

No I'm not because part of female sexuality is attracted to ability for the man to provision. This has been observed in apes and other close cousins to humans, that the alpha males gather more resources than they personally need and by giving the excess away to other males triggers attraction in the females. There's a distinct difference between gold digging as a rational and reasoned thing, and being attracted to money and status.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:09 AM
5

If you have the skills and ability to do a job and not be too stressed about it, then my advice is always accept the increased value that comes with it. Ideally what your long term goal should be is lowering your working hours, so once your basic wage is high enough you can start negotiating working less days and you'll be able to still live comfortably. My personal long term goal is to gain enough experience to start contacting out work on a consulting basis, consultants who are reputable get p…
/r/MGTOW24/11/16 10:57 AM
8

Just keep in mind that this is all biology, no one can really help the way they are, women don't try and suck resources out of men because they're fundamentally evil people, it's just how evolution directed the species to best survive and pass on genes. Once you get over that you can hang out with the normies without much of a problem, if women hit on you just politely say you're not interested. This is all very interesting intellectually, blue/red pill discussion and all that, but you should be…
/r/MGTOW24/11/16 10:35 AM
2

A nice idea until she retaliates by not fucking you anymore. The simple fact is that women are not interested in rational debate where your killer logic can thwart them. They get their power by leading you around by the balls because most men will do anything to get laid.
/r/MGTOW24/11/16 10:27 AM
3

I think it's trivially obvious that money when spent on 1000 dildos does not have the same effect on you SMV as money spent on a Ferrari. Yes it matters how you spend it. and money is only one of many ways to achieve those things I would argue that money is the only way to buy a Ferrari and turning up to the club in one of those immediately gives you status, all people (both men and women) respond to people with status. Remember that women while they have their baser instincts for things like a …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 10:19 AM
5

Yes, this is part of the feminized society we now live in, men are told by the SJW and liberal crowd that it's OK to show emotion and be soft and that you're unique and special and people will love you for that. But the brutal fact of reality is that people are self interested and when you learn this as a man it can be quite a bitter thing to swallow, as the red pill is in general. But what irritates me is the hypocrisy surrounding it, the OP even judges her as a 7 going on 6 and that he can fuc…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 02:48 PM
4

Sure, I think it's more fair to say though that the problem is not the cheating but the lack of our ability to pick good partners, which is why I disagree with the everyone can cheat mentality. I'm not just nitpicking, the reason I think the distinction is important is because one thing you can change and take responsibility for, and the other you cannot. If anyone can cheat in theory, then to what degree are we responsible for picking our partners? I see this a lot with my friends and I see it …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 02:02 PM
5

Oh boy...where to start. You need a giant shift in your perspective on life. Life literally ruined? Just no. Going into business like that at your age with no skills or experience is just stupid, what on earth do you know about business? You have never even had a job, how on earth are you going to help run a start up. You have almost no value even with a completed degree, making money and creating value in the business world takes a lot of experience and knowledge that you learn on the job. 7 ye…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 12:39 PM
2

This makes a lot of sense and it's good information to have honestly, because it confirms a lot of what we know. I thought the connection drawn with shit tests was an important one. It's often very easy for me to forget to acknowledge the experience of the woman in all this, I read a lot of male spaces and a lot of it is discussing ways to essentially manipulate women to get something of value from them. It's good to dive into their mindset and intellectually understand why they're doing things …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:29 AM
5

I'm not convinced about the statement that everyone is capable of cheating. I think many people are for sure, but I also think that some people have strong enough values and enough empathy that prevent them from doing something like that. Empathy is a wonderful thing, it's reciprocal pain, people with well established empathy wouldn't cheat because it would hurt them just as badly as it would their partner. Unfortunately a lot of people have never developed empathy fully, it requires a loving, p…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:08 AM
2

Right, I agree with this. It's worth keeping in mind that while TRP is about understanding female nature with the end goal of generally speaking manipulating them for sex, you're still fundamentally playing their game. It's partly why I go my own way, it's just a big game and it's rigged by biology, women get all their SMV up front and for free by simply going through puberty, where as men have to earn that SMV through hard work. The only way that you're not playing their game is when you walk a…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 02:14 PM
5

Perspective is everything, it's something women tend to lack because they're so self centered and generally lack the ability to see things from other peoples point of view. You can see the proverbial cogs turning when you say something that forces them to think from another point of view, and the results can often be amusing. Keep an eye out for facial ticks as they process.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 08:51 AM
5

I'm a group IT Director for SME international business and would say that women are going to judge you based of how you interact with them and not based off your job. If you're unable to control how you interact with women because you work in a specific field then the problem is with you and not your job. Your career should always come first, create that bubble of stability around yourself first and foremost.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 08:34 AM
2

Personally i'm strongly against indoctrinating kids into thinking a certain way or following a certain ideology. Yep, same here. I think MGTOW is something men have to arrive at on their own and kids below a certain age are impressionable. I wouldn't pressure them with any kind of extreme beliefs.
/r/MGTOW06/09/16 06:34 PM
2

I've written about this before. For women the answer is obvious, while men believe that it's just their role in society to accept a bad deal in order to benefit women, then women gain some advantage and seek to maintain that advantage by shaming/attacking the MGTOW position. That makes perfect sense, it's rational that women would seek to maintain their benefits over men. Men however, that's harder to explain. After all with less competition in the sexual market place the competing men start to …
/r/MGTOW06/09/16 01:16 PM
2

Keeping a reasonably uninterrupted stream of speech/rap like the youtube video is impressive but more in the context of rapping because we have less expectation of coherence, wit comes more from the topical relevance of what is being said, although both do rely on speed of thinking for sure. This something I'm going to investigate a bit and see where it goes, it's a new and unique idea to me which is cool, thanks for pointing it out.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 01:05 PM
12

I would disagree in so much to say that desires aren't determined, and MGTOW isn't a desire, nor is it a stage that you go through in order to arrive at TRP or being Alpha. I see this a lot and it suggests that first of all MGTOWs can't be Alphas, which is not true. And that MGTOW is in some way on the road to being an Alpha, which is also not true. MGTOW is a choice you make, a decision that weighs the pros and cons of interactions with women for the individual and is free from outside influenc…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 12:57 PM
10

I skimmed over most of this and quite frankly most of it is good advice. Just be aware that being a MGTOW is a choice and it's rational to be picky about what you invest in so you can avoid bad investments, while women are bad investments it's still good to be educated, have a good job, maintain healthy hobbies and social life. A lot of red pill information is good in general not just for manipulating women. If you cover your ass and keep your head down the lack of LTR and marriage/kids is going…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 12:49 PM
0

This is good advice, but I would also add that not everyone is going to find a job they love, some people are really lucky to either be naturally interested in something mundane, or they're smart enough to be able to work in very naturally interesting fields. For sure try and work out what pushes your buttons and try and work in that field if possible, but just accept that work will often zap the life out of the things you love. My personal progression was through IT and eventually into security…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 11:39 AM
9

As feminists push for this men retreat out of marriage and fatherhood due to the risks, women want to have the gun in the room at all times and the state hands them that. This is the primary cause of MGTOW. The feminists wont rest there however, they'll see men retreating out of responsibility as just a way to sleep with women risk free and they don't want that, so we'll see ever more intrusive laws regarding all interaction between men and women. It won't just be marriage it'll be co-habitation…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 11:26 AM
1

The way I've always approached this is that if I ask someone out on a date I'm offering to pay for them, wording when you ask them out should be clear. "I'm taking you out for a meal". Back when I was dating throughout my 20's I found that assertiveness was key and that women like an element of control to be in the mans hands, they like being swept off their feet, the thing that dries them up fastest is any kind of negotiating on when/where you'll meet or who will pay. They do not want someone t…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 11:15 AM
2

This is a mixed message. Saying no one cares about your genes is demonstrably false. I'll preface this by saying that I'm 6'1", genetics entirely accounts for height in males for example that is a demonstrable fact. Some women, although not all women, prefer their males to be taller than them, especially when they're wearing heels, and this is just a demonstrable fact, they admit this openly up front, in dating profiles, etc. Saying that everything is your fault is just wrong, we've just demonst…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 10:35 AM
0

Women have the full backing of the state, if you enter into a marriage then she has a loaded gun the state handed her, she can take half your shit (or more), take you on child support and take the children, all because family courts will side with her. That's as well as false rape and false sexual assault claims that occur both in and outside of college, typically a mans reputation is ruined even if the claim is found to be without merit. Hookers are only high risk for STDs and you should be wra…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 10:26 AM
2

I'm not suggesting changing anything, but rather discussing what might be the cause of hostility when that hostility is irrational and learning what mechanisms drive that to allow us to account for them. We often point out the hamstering of women but I think it can be applied to men as well, we're not completely free of irrationality. I've never had a problem with how the sub is run, I'm mostly an observer apart from spurts of replying, but I always encourage open and honest debate of facts.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 04:19 PM
2

I completely agree. I'm a MGTOW but understand much of what TRP has to say as correct and beneficial. It's just a shame that there's often more hostility in the way of shaming from TRP side of things towards MGTOWs where as there tends to be more respect the other way. I think it's something we could potentially investigate and get to the bottom of, I have some ideas and might do a full post one day, I'd be interested if others have any ideas on this.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 04:04 PM
2

In some cases this applies but again it depends on the law in your local jurisdiction. In some places the amount the man is expected to pay in child support is equal to the amount she'd receive from the government. Only in some places is child support excessive and relative to the mans earnings. How you handle it is of course your choice but I'd question the irrationality of wanting to continue a genetic line, this is purely emotional behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 04:03 PM
1

React calmly and rationally to criticism. If you react emotionally you'll probably start to hamster like women do, if you try and put emotions aside and take an unbiased as possible look at your actions you're much more likely to accept legit criticism and improve.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 12:00 PM
6

Most countries have welfare that replaces the resources provided by the man should the man abandon his wife. Which means you do not punish the woman, and she is not afraid of you simply walking off. This is part of the problem with modern society, there's no incentive for women to behave in a virtuous way because the state picks up the tab (paid for disproportionally by the taxation of men). The solution for men is to protect themselves from the outset, which is why many men are going their own …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 11:57 AM
14

It doesn't just vary from place to place across cultures, it's also relative to your end goal. You can forgive a woman with 10 looks/body if when she opens her mouth your want to rip your ears off, if you're only interesting in a one night stand. If you're interested in LTR personality starts to matter, good looks and body only help you cruise through the honeymoon period which will go away in a few years once your brains pleasure center has adjusted to the chemicals released by pair bonding. If…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 11:47 AM
3

Several points here. First of all MGTOWs aversion to women is typically not to do with ease of access but because of the harmful consequences of association with women. MGTOW often do pursue women in low risk ways such as paying hookers or FWB, but avoid high risk interaction such as marriage and fatherhood. You've also come to the conclusion that lack of access to sex makes you a low value male, it suggests that your value system is one in which mens worth is predicated heavily, if not entirely…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 11:22 AM
5

The red pill is much more broad than what this particular sub reddit discusses, that's not to criticize the sub reddit, it's fine to be focused on one aspect of the red pill (sexual strategy) it's just not the whole story. Red pill vs blue pill is fundamentally about uncomfortable truths vs comfortable illusion, which is a much broader topic because as a society we're blue pilled about a great many things, not just sexual strategy and the nature of women.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 10:35 AM
1

Hyperbole is common when people emotionally react to MGTOW, as you can see. Not only that MGTOW is somehow over represented (it's not) but also that "mostly guys who can't get laid" which again is not supported by actual evidence. TRP made itself what it is by rejecting emotional arguments and hamstering and accepting deeper truths backed by evidence no matter how uncomfortable they are. There's still work to be done.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 10:26 AM
5

How did you arrive at the statistic of 99% of them are pussies who can't get laid? Do you have any evidence of this? How was that evidence collected, what are your sources? I'll go out on a limb and say this is probably just an emotional argument and not one based in reality, AKA hamstering. Part of being red pilled is accepting uncomfortable truths over comfortable lies and given some peoples observed reaction to MGTOW which is quite obviously emotional in nature, it seems we have work to do be…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 10:21 AM
8

Everyone understands there's a distinction between men who go their own way for legitimate reasons and men who use it as an excuse because they're a failure with women, and most of us acknowledge that the community is just statistically likely to have some of these men because, well, maths. But so what, the fact that some men use it as an excuse is not a reason to suppose that all men use it as an excuse. Unless however you have evidence to back that up, in which case present your evidence for r…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 10:00 AM
1

Hyperbole, no one is whining about women all day, people have negative things to say about women because there's a bitter phase of swallowing the red pill, everyone knows this and you see it on TRP as well as other places as well. A lot of the people attracted to MGTOW and who are being red pilled are those pushed to it from bitter divorce and child custody battles so it's worth getting some context that these people might be angry and want to vent for a bit before they accept the nature of wome…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 09:47 AM
1

Massive layoffs is indicative of a company not planned well and struggling which indicates bad management, so it doesn't surprise me to see that paired with management who refuse mobility based on merit. As I said previously, get out of there, find another job even if that job is a lateral move for you, if the new place has more mobility and more stability it's worth the anxiety of switching things up. Often times you find that when faced with the good performing staff handing in their notice, m…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 09:42 AM
2

It depends exactly what kind of job you want to do, you'll need some kind of training to get some useful skills and some hands on experience doing what you want to do. Take a look at what IT courses are available in your area, it doesn't need to be uni or anything seriously expensive, a course teaching you the basics plus learning a lot in your spare time is enough to get you a Jnr position in IT, the rest can be learned on the job.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 09:27 AM
1

I'd argue that businesses like this aren't unicorns and there's a rational reason for this. Unicorns in women exist because there's a biological drive to by hypergamous, we have a reason to reasonably assume that most women are like that because most people don't overcome their bioloigical programming. With business there IS a mechanism to overcome it however, that mechanism is the competition of the free market, just like evolution by natural selection kills the weak (or rather the genetically …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 04:21 PM
2

It's wrong to dismiss this as luck. I moved about until I found a business that is run in a red pilled way, that doesn't involve nepotism or other blue pilled behaviour, it's not luck it's rational choice. Wearing a tie doesn't increase your productivity it's just power grabs and power plays by management that indicate time wasting and distraction from making a profit, these things are excellent indicators if your business is going to go down the shitter by employing people who are petty minded …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 01:17 PM
5

It literally is the same high, you only have one pleasure center in your brain and it's stimulated by the same chemicals each time, it's just the catalyst for releasing them is different. Pair bonding, fatherhood, drugs, alcohol, gambling, extreme sports. Doesn't matter. We are the way we are because we evolved that way and these pleasure centers evolved the way they did the same way everything about us did, that's to guarantee that we pass on our genes. Balance is important the more you exercis…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 01:08 PM
12

TRP as a subreddit is much more about sexual strategy but the more general idea of the red pill is accepting uncomfortable truths instead of believing comfortable lies. MGTOWs have to be red pilled by nature, because to go your own way you need to be free of influence and to be free of influence you need to understand the world around you and how it operates. The end game is children, it always has been and it always will be, because nature selects traits including behavioral traits which better…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 11:46 AM
2

MGTOW isn't an excuse to abandon virtue, nor is it very MGTOW to engage in behaviour which increases risk to yourself. This is the extreme side of MGTOW that gives us a bad name.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 10:59 AM
1

This OP is just as bad as the feminists to be honest. Trans people result from extreme over/under exposure to testosterone during fetal development, which permanently genders their brain one way or another. It's feminist theory that says society can flip the gender of a person simply by social influence, which is patently untrue. Is there any science what so ever to back this so called anima, sounds like pseudoscience to me.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 10:39 AM
2

I'm the IT Director for our business and so can browse whatever I like safely which is a huge bonus, but I always warn people who take it too far at work that it's just safest to keep browsing habbits clean because they are monitored retroactively if we suspect a "problem". We have incredibly lax rules at work however as my office is only 50 or so people and the management don't rule with an iron fist because the entire office is competent and generally gets on with their work. Plus there's only…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 10:03 AM
3

Ha, it's funny, being a very competent worker can really backfire on you. My aunt and uncle work for the government There's your problem. Government doesn't operate in a free market, thats why they're eternally incompetent because they don't have the same competition that drives and force improvements, sorry to say this but if you're working for the government it means you're going to run into this sort of stuff and it will NEVER end. Get out of government work and into the free market, there me…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:57 AM
3

Nah, pockets of the world are going to shit, and those are the parts where people simply do not understand the world (blue pill) and so lack agency to get what they want. Success doesn't run on popularity, many successful people in this thread disagree with the OP including myself. There are however instances of badly run businesses which do suffer from excessive nepotism and bad hiring policy, but they don't last long in a competitive market vs better run businesses, this is basic free market e…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:54 AM
4

I disagree, mainly because my own experience with the corporate world disagreed with it, but also because observation of those around me also disagrees. The corporate world is only superficially blue pilled, in the sense that most of the people who work there are just regular blue pilled joes, but the people who matter are the management team and the CEO and if they're running a successful business it means they're red pilled and understand economics and how the free market works, they understan…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:40 AM
22

I noticed this when I discovered the MGTOW community about 4-5 years ago, back when it was very small. Things like marriage and kids had always been a no no for me and I felt like I knew something was wrong with society but I couldn't put my finger on it. Then came a heavy dose of Red Pill knowledge about hypergamy and gynocentrism and it all made sense, these things I knew about already suddenly had words and explanations in bioloigy and evolution. Shortly after that, despite really not having …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:23 AM
2

Both TRP and MGTOW are red pilled positions, they're both world views which require the acceptance of the uncomfortable truths about the nature of women and society as a whole. However which you decide to pursue is largely down to what you value, if you value LTR, plates or a wife then TRP is going to help you understand reality and hence increase your agency and ability to get what you want with less sacrifice and possibly with a bit less risk. If you're more concerned about maintaining male so…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 11:50 AM
14

I think women becoming hysterical is just a biologically evolved strategy, it evolved in tandem with male strategy to take the needs of women in distress very seriously. Women know that if they act hysterical and appear to be in distress it will gain favour of men nearby who cannot help but flock to their defense, the male behaviour is the classic case of white knighting. Here's another case caught on camera, the display is obviously false and put on and designed to rile up the men nearby to her…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 10:14 PM
9

Exposure to testosterone during fetal development. The comment about tomboy women is some of the best evidence for this, one outwards physical characteristic of exposure to testosterone during fetal development is the 2D 4D ratio, the ratio of the length of your 2nd and 4th fingers, women and men have noticeably different lengths and it correlates with testosterone exposure, tomboy women have a correlation with more manly like fingers. After reading about how it's thought trans and gay people co…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 07:15 PM
5

Based on feelings? There's plenty of evidence if you care to actually look. Crime stats on women vs men in sentencing lengths for the same crime are readily available, stats of number of women in dangerous or unpleasant jobs are readily available, number of women in the military, navy and airforce are readily available. The number of women that instead do pink collar jobs from the safety and comfort of air conditioned offices are also available, the stats on responsibility of being an adult like…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 06:59 PM
2

There is an excellent video by a newish MGTOW called Coltaine and can be found here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4wpca1ZDIRQ His thesis is essentially that biological changes cause cultural changes which cause political changes and that major events that affect "hardware" cause the "software" running on it to encounter drastic changes. In this case it's the pill, sexual liberation is something that came from changing females biological reality and that lead to the sexual liberation movement…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:34 PM
5

Interesting post, I've not thought about this deeply before and I think you're on to something. I think you could also make a case for women being in a position of power simply because the average lifespan is increasing. As you say, men of all ages all find themselves attracted to the perky younger women which means there's more competition, because the number of men (demand) increases as lifespan goes up but the number of young women (supply) stays about the same, thus the value shoots through …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:21 PM
2

MGTOW is about protecting male sovereignty by avoiding toxic institutions which harm men (marriage, alimony, palimony, false rape accusations, child custody courts) being red pilled is pretty much a prerequisite for this because you need to understand how the world really works before you have any agency in it. Neither are more extreme/hardcore versions of each other, whether you go MGTOW or you move towards more of a PUA is really just down to what you decide to do with your red pill informatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:07 PM
2

But you're only looking at stats for a few things, like down syndrome, there's thousands of other serious illnesses you're also at greater risk for in older children. By 40 you have a 1 in 106 chance of downs but a whopping 1 in 66 chance of any chromosomal abnormality, and that's just genetic/chromosomal abnormalities there's a whole host of other illnesses that become more likely. That's a really bad fucking dice to be rolling. Young single women become married women and married women become m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 03:10 PM
1

Look at it this way, you have a more realistic view of women and reality now, and it came early in your life so probably don't have a huge amount of assets (or kids) at risk. This revelation could have come much later, and along with it the loss of huge amounts of resources which would have been a major kick in the balls. So keep that in mind in future, it doesn't matter how good the relationship is at first there's always room for hypergamy to kick in and for her to screw you to climb the socia…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 02:53 PM
1

True in a vacuum but not true in real life, women compete with one another for men and so get value from working at being attractive to men, makeup and clothes and all that jazz. It's true however that they land all of their sexual market for free up front at perky 16 without ever having to work for it and that's more or less like winning the SMV lottery, men have to earn theirs over their entire lives. The downside for them is the wall(tm), best advice for men is to just wait and invest in your…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 02:47 PM
1

I think the flip side of this is that by peacocking you set unrealistic expectations for a subsequent relationship and so it depends what you want. If you want to fuck the 9 at the club and never see her again then definitely do not be yourself, be the most attractive you can possibly be. If you want a relationship likely to succeed for any length of time then 2 people representing themselves honestly have realistic expectations of one another. I'd also argue that good relationships are between …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 02:42 PM
1

When in doubt, science. I'd advise reading up about pair bonding and the chemicals that are released and what the evolutionary reasons for this are, the red pill is about uncomfortable truths and there's not a lot more uncomfortable than taking a microscope to the notion of love. It's just one of the mechanisms that humans evolved to keep on mating and reproducing, and like all biological functions it's not meant to last past producing offspring because there was never any practical benefit to t…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 02:34 PM
1

I find that it's a really good idea to find something you love that is at least in some way related to your job or career. For example I work in IT but I got interested in security and hacking because it's fun to learn in your spare time. But that has a really positive feedback in my career by giving me more skills and thus more value. It's smart to do this as early on in your career as possible because even small amounts of extra effort early on lead to big differences later in life, I'm 33 and…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:06 PM
1

The odds of there being complications at birth, plus a massive swath of genetic and congenital issues rapidly increases past about the age of 30. Geriatric mothers are mothers over 35 which should tell you something. The prospects for women who have children early are a lot better, employers like hiring women who have had a few kids already and have started a family, they're less likely to take time off in future to spit out a child, it means a longer stretch of uninterrupted work and promotions…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 01:56 PM
1

I guess it depends what you value. Indulging in vices doesn't tell you if someone is a good human being or not, you can be a virtuous person and smoke, you can be a virtuous person and be fat. The corollary to this is that not smoking doesn't guarantee you have good character, you can not smoke and not drink but be completely wicked. It's worth understanding that what you value in a partner will drastically affect the chances of having a good and stable relationship with that person. And if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 01:41 PM
2

The mouse utopia experiments showed that mice populations when left to grow without any natural predators and all needs taken care of, will peak and then enter into a "death-spiral" which is never pulled out of. Once your fertility ratio is below replacement rate it's only a matter of time before the population reaches zero. Interestingly the male mice become very passive and uninterested in sex, they spent most of the time grooming themselves and taking care of themselves, they were dubbed the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 01:30 PM
2

It has little to do with willingness, women want children as much now as they ever did, it's just that they tend to want to settle down in later life. The stats show people marrying and having children at much older ages, typically into the 30's which was unheard of in previous generations, it wasn't that long ago that people were marrying and starting a family in their early 20's. The problem is that with the pill being invented and feminism telling women that it's OK to be promiscuous, it has …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 01:20 PM
8

Agreed. One thing I've been thinking about recently is the paradox of declining female happiness. There is research that shows women have been reporting lower rates of happiness since pretty much the end of WW2, yet paradoxically this is a time where they've had the greatest acceleration of social change resulting in being more free than they have ever been throughout history. Simply put when they gain more agency and more power to make their own choices, we see a correlated effect of their happ…
/r/MGTOW19/08/16 04:47 PM
0

Lack of studies and scientific evidence does not make something false, I don't think you understand how science works.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 12:46 PM
4

Yes women can squirt and no it's not piss. Female ejaculate does not smell, taste, look or even feel like piss, and that's from direct experience. It is however somewhat uncommon, both in my own experience only about 1/5th of women can squirt, and self reported by women is fairly similar. There's also a lot of porn based on squirting that is just women pissing, large plumes of liquid flying out is not what is occurring in reality, in reality you'll get maybe a palm full of liquid gush into your …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 12:44 PM
6

Hard to say for sure but I'm not very hopeful, do a lot of reading about human nature and biology, a lot of these issues stem from fundamental differences between men and women, women being hypergamous, having a natural in group preference for gender where as men have a natural out group preference. Look to Japan if you want a good predictor of the future, they have a massive de-population issue because men are walking away from the traditional salaryman role, working soul crushing hours to brin…
/r/MGTOW15/04/16 10:08 AM
1

From the perspective of a MGTOW the article is about what I'd expect, the interview was very well conducted, the replies are spot on and I agree with basically most of it. It's a shame that the deeper issue was touched on but not really followed through with, which is fundamentally that those "good" women don't exist these days. He doesn't seem to contest this point and quite rightly points out that if you don't respect these women, why even pursue them, that's really what puts me into the camp …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 09:18 AM
2

It's hard without diving into the technical aspects. But for example a systems admin who spends their time researching the different methods of backup and redundancy will be able to deal with a drive failing because they'll put in redundancy before hand vs a bad admin who will just watch it fail and then try and scramble to fix it afterwards. It's just about knowing what is coming and preventing it rather than dealing with it as it fails. Much of sysad work and that of tech support is dealing wi…
/r/MGTOW04/04/16 09:23 PM
2

You need to be somewhat technically minded, you don't have to be particularly strong at math unless you're doing coding/development of software and even then it's not the most important thing. How good the job is largely depends your own skill, if you manage things badly because you're lazy and not very good then it's constantly fighting fires of small problems cropping up. If you're good then you can automate a lot of jobs and do a lot preventative maintenance which means you spend more time ke…
/r/MGTOW04/04/16 11:18 AM
1

I started out as a Jnr Systems administrator, moved towards full time Systems administrator and then after about a decade I moved towards IT management and now I'm an IT Director. Pays well, get to sit at a computer most of the day, will only ever be in more demand in future as we move towards relying on technology more. I'm trying to move towards an IT security (infosec) position which is basically hacking professionally, I already have a business on the side (self employed) where I perform web…
/r/MGTOW04/04/16 10:55 AM
2

I don't drive yet because I've always lived inner city and 10 minute walk from work, considering learning this year and it occurred to me that a motorcycle might be a good idea. Any general advice for this? Has to be a good solution given lower costs and only needing personal transport?
/r/MGTOW04/04/16 10:44 AM
3

Well played, there is a good moral to this story. Winning sometimes means avoiding a bad situation and you should not just be grateful for wins that provide some value to you, you should also note when you've dodged a massive bullet. Which you did here.
/r/MGTOW04/04/16 10:35 AM
6

I won't bother with a new post for this, but I will say that I've identified as a MGTOW for probably 4 years now, close to the start. I've been a MGTOW at heart for a lot longer, probably all my life, there was never a word for it. Anyway life is fucking good, I've been working hard and playing hard that's for damn sure. I re-enabled my dating profile not so long ago out of interest if women had increased in quality at all recently. My profile is detailed enough for a woman to know if we'll be a…
/r/MGTOW04/04/16 10:30 AM
3

I do pretty well for myself now but I still live frugally in a lot of ways, especially when it comes to my appearance, I won't buy expensive clothes, I wear old worn jumpers and have a fairly tatty appearance. I definitely don't look like someone who has money which is really handy because you get to see what people are really like. And you know what, how men treat other men of little means is a lot fucking nicer than how women treat men of little means, women in general are extremely shallow. I…
/r/MGTOW14/03/16 10:01 AM
3

This is super important. If you do focus on a career and try to be as successful as possible (not all MGTOW want to do this) then just be wary of what you invest that money in, some things can easily be taken from you by government, other things cannot.
/r/MGTOW27/11/15 11:39 AM
3

My advice is education. Education, education, education. Underlying most of the manosphere and especially MGTOW is the red pill, and taking the red pill is really fundamentally about adopting a rational world view, being able to see and measure what the world really is, is absolutely crucial for being able to navigate through it in ways which satisfy your own self interest. You ideally should embrace scepticism read about it, embrace science and read about that, learn how the scientific method w…
/r/MGTOW27/11/15 11:24 AM
3

MGTOW is loosely a philosophy about detaching from social norms and doing what is rationally best for yourself for which you are the sole arbiter. Activism in this area is an incoherent idea, it's a return to group think and it's really just pushing these ideas on to other people, which is kind of the antithesis of what MGTOW is. There's also no real benefit for MGTOW to grow or push back or become a movement, the whole point of MGTOW is that you can independently take care of yourself, relying …
/r/MGTOW30/06/15 02:55 PM
9

Honestly, this as well as the legal risk involved with psychotic women who like to file false legal claims is the number 2 reasons I don't consider spinning plates a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:50 AM
2

No, quite the opposite. The kind of independent, smart and successful men that you probably want to attract are going to be super interested in women who are in STEM fields. I would personally love to find a women interested in something like engineering. One thing to keep in mind is that women like you are extremely rare in the circle of men looking for this, so you have HUGE sexual market value. It's just a numbers game and women once again are at an advantage.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 09:16 PM
1

Read up on evolution and biology, understand your urges intellectually and then treat them as maintenance in the same way cutting your nails or blowing your nose is maintenance you need to blow of some sexual energy. You can simply use porn or if you have a decent amount of spare cash consider escorts. Friends with benefits is something I'd only advise if you really know her well and are sure she's not being manipulative, always wear a condom and make sure it's one you've brought yourself and sh…
/r/MGTOW26/11/14 01:29 PM
1

This is where the line between a RP with game, and a MGTOW start to blur a bit. You can game women all you like and get as much pussy as you like, but you can't game an entire legal system if that blows up in your face. I've always liked and agreed with much RP theory and maintained that MGTOW is the way to go, and really it's this kind of shit that really backs up that position in my mind. It's worth noting that this kind of stuff simply gets worse, it doesn't ever get any better for men, keep …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 09:48 PM
5

She's a sociopath, I was sleeping with one once and know all the signs. I took the time to read through the entire original blog post the ex-bf made and took a look at their messages and she's a compulsive liar and has no real shame or regret about anything she did. He gives insight into her childhood and abuse so it's not really surprising she's like that, not having much or any empathy leads to this kind of behaviour, when you can't empathise with the people you can indulge yourself as much as…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 09:44 AM
3

So you're saying that the man had full agency but the woman had none? You're making the mistake of thinking that feminism is about equality all of the time, rather than just the times that it benefits them. You see in this instance feminism wouldn't have benefited her, so no she doesn't have agency, but only in this limited circumstance. This is modern feminism.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 04:14 PM
1

Trust is stupid, you cannot positively verify trust in anyone. That's not my opinion, that's just a fact. To trust one person such as your girlfriend or wife (or boyfriend or husband, this isn't a gendered problem) more than say a stranger that has never broken your trust, is not rational. People can only ever demonstrate a lack of breaking your trust a number of times, you can never actually verify someone is untrustworthy unless you actually gather evidence to demonstrate it. To me "trusting" …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:49 AM
2

Er, TRP is gender theory and sexual strategy, you don't need to practice it to be a Red Pill man, you simply need to understand it and agree with it. I'm a Red Pill man, I've used red pill strategy in previous FWB and plate spinning as well as LTR (whatever type of relationship suited me at the time) and still believe the general concepts throughout the MGTOW periods of my life. I've been an MRA through most of this time as well. There's a difference between failure and not wanting to try which …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:05 PM
3

Womens world view is different to men because society treats them differently and the root cause of these expectations is because biology and evolution created a sexually dimorphic species where overall success of genes relied on different provider/nurture roles for both genders. However in modern society we've broken from these roles and biology and even society hasn't quite caught up to it yet, so women still have a strong urge for hypergamy and expecting things from men in exchange for their …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 11:51 AM
3

I thought this was in response to #NotAllMen which men were using to couter feminists rants about males. Essentially feminists were saying "men do X" where X is rape or whatever the hot topic of the day is. Men respond by saying #NotAllMen (essentially NAMALT), to which feminists reply #YesAllWomen which is to suggest that while not all men are like that, it effects all women so it's still a problem. Which is obviously absurd because it doesn't happen to all women and some portion of those of wh…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 11:39 AM
7

My personal opinion on this is that it's just an inconvenience, now I have to visit several subreddits in order to consume TRP content. There seems to be a conflation of 2 problems here, quality of posts and category of posts. If something isn't related to TRP then just delete it, or better yet let the community vote it down.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 11:34 AM
1

It's an oxymoron, self contradictory. Celibacy is the deliberate abstaining from marriage and sexual relationships, you can't involuntarily abstain. You can involuntarily be a virgin, or involuntarily not have regular sex, and you can involuntarily not get married, but none of those things are celibacy, celibacy requires the cognitive act of abstaining from those things for a reason. It's always seemed more like a disparaging term to me, it's like saying "you're not getting any but it's not for …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 11:29 AM
-5

My worst recently was about 3/4 of a 1L bottle of smirnoff in a night with friends, that's pretty much an entire bottle of 70cl 38% vol. A fifth or two isn't really that much :)
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 11:17 PM
2

I really need to stop drinking, the problem is that I love the feeling of being drunk, I have enough money to blow on alcohol and not feel any financial pressure, and I don't get hangovers. Dangerous mix. I've been cutting back recently, if nothing else just to make sure I can, I'm concerned it would be easy to slip into being an alcoholic.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:29 PM
1

I viewed the link but I have adblockplus enabled so it just costs them money :) Stupid idiots.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 02:55 PM
2

This article makes me so angry, it's about as far from the truth as you can get. The MRM fight for some really good causes and these cunts spew out blatant lies about them, it's just one massive smear campaign. I don't know how these people become so closed minded and obtuse, it's like a kind of feminist indoctrination, or basic lack of critical thinking skills.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 02:52 PM
1

I'm going to play devils advocate for a second. This isn't something you should take personally, he's referencing the fact that dating is potentially dangerous for women, and that it's quite a significant risk for them when they date people they don't know very well. Obviously only a tiny fraction of men are predators but the repercussions of meeting a psycho can potentially be very bad. Men don't naturally feel this with women, they only naturally see it from their own perspective, and if you'r…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 11:23 AM
2

I never did like social media and got into facebook a few years ago and used it for about a year or so before finally quitting it for good about a year ago. I agree with the OP, it's just people putting on a show of all the best parts of their life for attention, everyone is competing for attention and the most likes, there's no "dislike" button because the whole system is set up to reinforce positive feedback. Facebook also track you and sell your info to other people so if you have any privacy…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 10:09 AM
7

MGTOW. If you're sleeping with any women and you don't have a vasectomy and legally binding proof from your doctor that you're sterile then you're risking pregnancy and a minimum in £50,000 in child support. In fact in some parts of the world simply having a relationship with a woman and her getting pregnant to another biological father can land you as the "father" and get you roped into child support payments. So yeah...good luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 10:00 AM
31

Holy fuck, go back and look at the article. It starts off saying that a girl isn't allowed to wear shorts because of a dress code, something that was agreed to before starting at the school. The next thing down is about how boys are objectifying women. The next thing down is about rape. What the actual fuck? This is just hysteria nonsense, I can't believe that people actually get indoctrinated into this rubbish, that dress codes are supporting rape culture.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:56 AM
3

As the top comment on the article correctly points out, this is all political ammo for left parties to buy female voters, democracy ultimately results in a leftist, socialist government which panders to women and feminine men at the expense of the hard working and successful.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:47 AM
24

"Allowed" suggests they have the power to stop us from having or doing those things, however they're deciding to not exercise that power. Of course that's nonsense, men do as we please. It's this sort of crazy that makes me a MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:41 AM
15

Turn on the waterworks and start shaking, absolutely classic female manipulation. He's standing there with pretty much a smirk on his face, he knows that this is rubbish and that anyone with half a brain would immediately throw it out. There's no guarantee that you'll get an unbiased judge should you ever face these kind of legal issues. Never cohabitate. Never marry. Just NO.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:24 AM
1

This is why I love 4chan, I can't help but think that this kind of ridicule does more to hurt feminism than anything the Men's Rights Movement (or really anyone else) could possibly do.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 09:59 AM
0

To anyone who cares enough, please follow the link to the petition site, create an account which takes 60 seconds, and flag the petition as inappropriate. Hopefully this disgusting assault on free speech will be taken down.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:29 AM
3

And the most victimized, they're professional victims.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:27 AM
1

That depends what you're shaming, surely? For example fat shaming is normally shaming fat people who are in control of their own weight but basically abuse their body. But shaming the MRAs usually talk of is shaming of this idea of "real men" who are defined as having whatever qualities people want to manipulate into someone. Like I could define "real" RP'ers as men who don't no for an answer and if you're rejected that they should force themselves on women. Now this would be seen as grossly unf…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:27 PM
6

Peoples reactions to the RP tell you a lot about the person. There's really 2 different ways you can take it, personally or impersonally. If you're the sort of person who can see the logic of the argument but you take it personally and react emotionally, chances are what is being discussed applies to you and your emotional engagement is a huge red flag. A healthy and balanced person, who understands the logic won't take it personally and is more likely to outright agree with the points being mad…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:28 PM
0

He's somewhat late the game with Mens right, his philosophy show never really discussed this initially but he fell into that circle on youtube. It's great coming from a logical, libertarian, objectivist view point and being associated with the MHRM that you find other logical thinkers such as Stefan come into the scene and really agree and sympathize with the movement and a lot of the theory. He's even somewhat sympathetic of the MGTOW movement as a perfectly logical solution to a lot of the leg…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:58 AM
5

I agree with this extremely well balanced opinion. No one owes anyone anything, the trick is to understand and accept the consequences of your actions. While women don't owe men being pretty, men don't owe women their time, resources, humour, friendship, protection or anything else. When people with asymmetrical resources and asymmetrical desires voluntarily come together and exchange them in order to both gain something they value, by dismissing an advantage you have you simply lower your own v…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 08:37 AM
1

Learn Objectivism from Ayn Rand's Atlas Shrugged Do not read the bible whatever you do, it's extremely boring and full of superstitious nonsense, RP'ers ought to be advocating books that will teach about personal freedoms, about liberty and objective reality, about critical/logical thinking and skepticism.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 08:29 AM
2

Confidence is self knowledge that you're capable at a task. It comes from being a novice at something, practicing and noticing self improvement to the point where you're adept at it, the genuinely better you are and the more you understand the nuance of what it takes to be good at X, the more naturally confident you are at it. It really applies to anything, you can be a confident rock climber, or a confident lover, it all takes practice and self knowledge that if you engage in that activity you …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:42 PM
-18

The ATM pretty much gave it away, no woman is doing that who isn't getting paid for it, certainly not during a casual hookup which doesn't necessarily have the kind of preparation a porno would have ;)
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 04:21 PM
1

TRP doesn't want to change men, or anyone. It's just guidance to improving yourself in order to get what you want. TRP is inwards focused and very practical at heart, it's a very male approach to a problem which is to understand your goal, understand the dynamics of the system and then manipulate it to get the desired result. Feminism of course is just professional victimhood and complaining at others until them bow down to what you want.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 08:29 PM
2

Most hamstering is just emotional thought in overdrive, if you hope to address it with reason or logic, don't. You can't meet emotional people with reason and logic without them coming down from their emotional high first. Just avoid it, let them cool off, then once they're thinking a bit more clearly you can go back to what they said and discuss it rationally.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:32 AM
4

This is the chilling video before his rampage, basically saying what he was going to do. http://www.the-spearhead.com/2014/05/24/pua-hater-identified-as-uc-santa-barbara-gunman/ Obviously this one sick individual, he's young yet wealthy enough to drive good cars and wear expensive clothes and accessories, he was probably given everything as a kid and simply expected that possessions would land him an attractive looking woman and get him laid. He severely lacks confidence you can see it from his …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:29 AM
10

Women frequently use this behaviour in their own social circles to falsely cause drama, they'll lie and manipulate in order to get white knights to step in an do harm to those they dislike, violence through proxy. So it's not surprising that a sub full of these women would bring this kind of behaviour online, it's par for the course in female social groups.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 04:53 PM
0

Use questions to get them participated in the conversation, never judge what you hear, be sympathetic and it creates an air of being easy to talk to, once they feel safe they'll slowly start to open up more and share things willingly. I think a lot of women are scared of not being very interesting, men have lots of hobbies and things they can talk at length about that aren't as shallow as womens interests, that's scary for some women, and rightfully so, but it's something you can ease them into.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 08:28 AM
8

This is why female friends make such good "wingmen". Er...Wingwoman?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 06:59 AM
5

They're not shit tests because women generally speaking want nothing to do with MGTOWs, shit tests are ways for women to address suitability of an interested existing or potential partner. There is no such possibility with MGTOWs as we've taken a position of being deliberately unavailable, generally the only interactions between MGTOWs and women is that of debate over the reason behind being a MGTOW to which the justification of which is constructed with sound logical reasoning. Being capable of…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 12:44 PM
5

I like this info-graphic and I happen to have seen the original it was based on. As the author says they're mostly just ad hom attacks, what I'd actually advocate instead is everyone (especially every man) to actually look into several more general topics. 1) How to construct a formal argument. 2) How to spot logical fallacies in the formal argument structure. 3) Learn to make formal arguments to demonstrate your ideas. 4) Learn to spot fallacies in reasoning in others arguments. This is life ch…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 12:34 PM
3

Women really only care about how the guy makes them feel and not so much about any practical concerns, rational thinking always gives way to emotions. If she's making rational excuses about a guy then chances are that he simply doesn't make her vagina tingle and give her that emotional hit. This is why women initiate over 70% of divorces, they pick out bad matches purely on how they feel (usually typical bad boys) and when the attention of early courtship starts to wear off they realize the pers…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 11:31 AM
92

Couldn't agree more with this. She's only paying the price of wasting the courts time, there's no actual justice here for Banks, he should be awarded compensation for Jail time and the damage to his image and career, and ideally recieve some kind of justice on top of that, she ought to be paying a lot more and also be in jail.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 11:14 AM
1

No, it's a legal contract which changes your status in the eyes of the law, there's something like 1700 legal changes for married couples in the UK. You can hold private ceremonies and do all of the cultural stuff associated with getting married but not have the legal proceedings, but you're not married in the eyes of the law.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 11:08 AM
2

I have several friends around my age or a bit older (30) who have large families of 2 or 3 children, who have a stable family, good careers and really good lifestyle, but aren't married. I actually have many more friends my age who simply have no interest in children, my brother is in a >8 year LTR and still does not want to marry or have children, he's 26 another friend his age has been in a LTR for several years and has a child on the way and isn't married either. Children ABSOLUTELY need both…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 11:06 AM
1

Me? I do not. The thought of bringing a child in to this world is nothing but an absolute nightmare, fathers have no rights and if you think otherwise you're naive. It's not just that but what kind of a world is this to raise childen in anyway, there's so much wrong with society, children are being burdened with debt they have no choice but to buy into with big government and heaven forbid you have a son who has to suffer a system which oppresses him more every year. You don't need marriage for …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 11:00 AM
1

It's even more sinister than that, because it works you get lawyers coaching women in court to encourage them to manufacture lies, they'll make comments like "if you fear for yourself or your children, we can get more money or more leniency with the judge" and before you know it even the more reasonable women are lured in by big settlements and more power. But it means they have to lie and the whole blue pill system cannot possibly bear to see any harm come to women, and so they're given a pass …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 10:56 AM
29

Prenups like most other contracts can be null and void if they're demonstrated to be signed under duress or under some false pretense, and there's real world examples of judges simply tearing up prenups in front of men. Basically women can turn on the waterworks, lie and say that there was some verbal promise to go with the prenup, or that they were blackmailed or coerced into signing and suddenly it's worthless. http://nypost.com/2013/03/11/wife-of-millionaire-li-real-estate-mogul-gets-judge-to…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 02:19 PM
34

He got married, he deserves it. Alimony isn't some great big secret, it's well known and understood, he risked his future wealth when he married and now he's paying for it, and rightfully so. Do not get married, ever. If you do you're a moron who basically deserves everything you get, this is just a great big "do not get married" sign held up for all men to see.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 08:37 AM
1

Well schools have no business discriminating against students based on accusations alone. What feminists wanted was the law changed to grant them special favour but the principles of the law where innocence is presumed until guilt is proved doesn't fit their narrative, so they have to target places that can cause a practical problem for men, it's gaining a lot of the same power over men without it being codified in law. Of course we still should be afforded legal protection from this all which i…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 08:31 AM
5

And interesting point that I've brought up before is that once MGTOWs distance themselves from women they often completely rule out having children. Generally speaking, children are one of the most important reasons to invest and care about the future with regards to the health of the planet and the general success of society, when you've accepted that children aren't going to be a part of your future you're left with little incentive to care about society in the long run, I couldn't care less w…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 08:35 AM
2

While we have similar IQ scores on average but the distribution over a bell curve is much flatter and spread out for men, which means there's a greater chance that women will be closer to the average 100 IQ score, and men have a greater chance to fall far from it, but both and above and below. Basically it means there's more smarter men than women,there's also more dumber men than women. As a fairly high IQ male (3 independent scores all exceed 130) it's very hard to find women who are on the sa…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 03:52 PM
0

Saw this last night, the thing that stood out to me the most is the extremely long single take this was done in, impressive. Louie has showed a few blue pill and feminist like tendencies in some of his more recent work, I've kind of lost a bit of respect for him because of that, I tend to prefer Bill Burrs standup these days. I still really like Louie though.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 09:34 AM
-2

Yep, all depends on what you want. If you want to just game easy targets (women who don't really "get" that you're gaming them) then what you end up with is a women who is susceptible to being gamed by any wannabe PUA and probably will jump ship to the next "alpha" at a moments notice. I don't have anything against that, if that's what you want then great, but obviously this isn't the making of a strong and healthy LTR and it's worth acknowledging that because you're heading for disaster if you …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 09:32 AM
14

Feminists are generally people who are extremely emotionally vulnerable, they rally around ideas because they're completely incapable of dealing with their own emotional vulnerability, and these ideas tend to lead to protecting their feelings at the expense of everyones basic rights and freedoms (such as the freedom of free expression). The problem with people feeling like they have the right to moderate civilization so that their feelings aren't ever hurt is that some people are arbitrarily sen…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 04:55 PM
4

A lot of hate for the MRA. If you want to talk about sexual strategy and you have a group who is limiting your options (femnazis pushing for change in law) then it doesn't really matter how much you improve yourself you're going to have to face this political and legal reality at some point. I don't think that the MRA and TRP go hand in hand all the time, but at some point TRP strategy has to acknowledge the changing landscape and address it to be a complete and successful long term strategy. I …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 04:41 PM
1

This. Society right now thinks that a £50,000 fine is completely acceptable form of punishment for an act that you may not have even consented to. If you're having regular sex in any way, don't have a vasectomy and don't want children, you need to get your head checked.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 08:10 AM
-2

Going to church was your first mistake.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 07:53 AM
6

Most of this stems from school systems which are moving towards overwhelming female rule, taking young children who are growing, full of energy and trying to express themselves, then sitting them down at a desk for the entire day and expecting them not to move an inch.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 07:50 AM
3

He's a don.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 12:18 AM
4

Swallowing the Red Pill is bitter for sure, and if you're smart it's also depressing. You ask "why?" about women, if you're genuinely seeking an answer look into biology, evolution and learn why we're basically the way we are, all the answers for behaviour come from biology, watch some of GirlWritesWhat's videos on youtube she addresses much of the male/female behaviour and explains a lot of the negative female traits and their origins. Sounds like you've gone your own way now, which is good. Wo…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 07:57 AM
1

Right. Life is like one big shit test by women, they tell us what they REALLY want which is some beta provider, but what they act on instinct on is to go for the asshole alpha. The betas fail the test because they're basically bowing down to womens expectations where as alphas are basically doing whatever the fuck they want and that power is a turn on for women. This exact same behaviour bleeding through into leftist politics with all its PC nonsense, it's what is causing politics and the rest o…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:07 PM
24

In clubs, I won't do anything. Any kind of confrontation whether it be fair and justified, or not, will get the attention of the bouncers or security and not likely end well for you. Anywhere else I'll call them out loudly and embarrass them in front of everyone, but then I'll do the same for a man doing that as well. One of the reasons I don't go to clubs anymore, because they're full of dumb fucking cunts like that who think because they're dolled up they deserve the world to revolve around th…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:02 PM
3

It's clearly wrong to be influencing a childs development when they're so young and do not fully understand the concept of gender yet, I'm all for freedom for kids to do what they want and not suffer other peoples judgement (I wish the rest of the world worked like this). But to deliberately take a young impressionable child whos parents suspect might not be completely straight and dump them into a camp full of other similar kids is just not a balanced or healthy way of growing. Thankfully the i…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:57 PM
1

What is "very unmarried"? Why does being young matter, either the advice is correct or it's not. A lot of people here will have come from a broken family or know close friends who have since they're now so common, growing up around failing marriages and seeing the aftermath of a woman financially and legally raping the man is enough to put anyone off, for life.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 10:04 AM
1

Judges can tear up pre-nups in front of the man if they think it was signed under some kind of duress or false verbal promise which the woman might not even have to demonstrate to be true in order to have the whole thing void. We don't have a huge number of examples of prenups being ineffectual, but we have enough to say that it's not some magic silver bullet to the problem, the bottom line you have to come to accept is that it's a risk. All I can advise is study the law where you are and consid…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 07:34 PM
7

Yep, do not marry, ever. I would advise against sharing a place together as well, some places have common law marriage which make it worth checking to see if you can be stung with "palimony" for simple cohabitating for a long time. Don't forget, prenups can be torn up by a judge in a lot of countries so you cannot reliably use these, my personal strategy is to always maintain my own address at all times, if you share a place then let her keep her name on the lease and do not sign or pay anything…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 10:30 AM
0

The reasons (that as a Libertarian, I disagree with) is basically down to this moral issue of the kid needs to be supported and either the mother/father do that, or in absence of that support, the state supports it. I'd prefer that fathers do because if the state supports a child through taxes is just means that we all help pay for other peoples mistakes, socialized losses, which is completely unfair, especially if we didn't vote or agree with that practice. For most of human history we've not h…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:37 PM
59

This is Christina Hoff Sommers, while she considers herself an equality feminist she's writes books and speaks on how modern feminism hurts men and boys, and how it's basically corrosive to modern society. She's a rare arm of feminism that actually battles the radical parts of feminism to make it somewhat more reasonable, a good ally for the MRM and basically anyone who believes in actual equality.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:58 AM
1

First reply nailed it as did several others, it's all about practice, all social interaction is...the people who have genuine confidence at things are people who have done them things enough and improved at them to KNOW they're good at them, objectively. If you have low social interaction with women, you're going to have low confidence when in those situations, all you can really do is suck it up and go out there and meet people, interact, and accept that you'll get shot down a good few times li…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:51 PM
1

I think the general form of the point here is fine, relationships and sexual interaction in many ways are just trade of traits that meets the desires of your partner. However I think there's a little stab at MGTOW in there. I don't personally make the argument you're referring to, however I believe what those MGTOW are questioning is it really "alpha" to game the system because at the end of the day you are still in a passive trade. Part of the problem is the adaption of the term alpha from natu…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:41 AM
3

I tend to find that people relentlessly boasting about how good they have it are almost certainly in denial and are trying to convince themselves, part of the strategy is to convince other people and when enough people believe it maybe they will start to as well. If you disagree you break their spell and that discomforts them, it generally speaking triggers defense mechanisms to protect their mental well being which includes hamster overdrive and a healthy dose of shaming. It should be made clea…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 10:53 AM
0

That's all nice and well, but it's worth understanding that the type of responses you attract are that of women which find this sort of thing an important match in a partner. Obviously if you're looking for another plate and your only real requirements are that she'll bounce on your dick and be thankful for the ride then hit up the hottest replies and hit that - and more power to you. However if you're trying to find a quality partner with some intellect, some standards and isn't superficial the…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 10:38 AM
5

Another woman who wants to ride the cock carousel in their younger years where they have a naturally higher SMV, then settle down afterwards to a nice providing beta, but this little irritating thing of mens standards for partners is just...well it's getting in the way...it's such an inconvenience, in fact it's oppression is what it is - Talk about having your cake and eating it too. Talking of cake...you could make the analogy of a woman who wins free cakes for 20 years, who eats cake every day…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 10:30 AM
9

My only experience with a solid 9 (who was basically sleeping with guys behind her fiances back) mirrored some of these points. She's gets bombarded with constant attention from men, gifts left for her of chocolate, flowers, fluffy toys and basically anything she wants. Attention is good but it shouldn't be part of the noise around her, you're not going to gain any favours by being another beta provider, be a bit more stoic and distanced, the fact that you're not drooling at her feet or immediat…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 12:11 PM
3

TED talks have been getting bad for a while, they used to be good. At least I got a good laugh out of her getting stuck with the bill. The rest is really just post wall strategy for females looking for a man to knock them up and be a beta provider. She didn't so much "hack" the dating website, what she did was research as to why the kind of profile she was creating (one's full of unattractive pictures, and copy/paste info from her resume) weren't working, most people could have told her that rig…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 11:09 AM
1

The problem with NAXALT (Not all X are like that) is that people making this argument back and forth are arguing something quantifiable. It comes down to what is the evidence you believe the things you believe, it's fine to say that someones nature affects their behaviour and it's in X's nature to behave in Y way, but in modern society we do a lot of suppressing nature in favour of intelligent behaviour. So is someone using the NAXALT argument because they believe a high proportion of X are genu…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 10:17 AM
1

I'm with everyone else on this one, he'll need to burn out on her before it sinks in, being there to help him pick himself up afterwards is about the best you can hope to help him.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 08:33 AM
2

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Good fucking lord. It's like the contradictions couldn't be MORE black and white if she tried. It wasn't a decision I made overnight. It wasn't even my decision. Not logically coherent. It never crossed my mind that he had been FIRED Surely he wasn't fired, he was made redundant? People are fired when they break the terms of their contract and the employer has a legal right to let them go. I know I fired this person, but I considered that merely a technical matter. This sugges…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:45 AM
1

It's a fairly good substitute for going out there and becoming successful and knowing you are which gives you natural confidence. The only difference between fake confidence and real confidence is that people who earned real confidence have a higher objective value which affects the kind of prize they'll be able to go after. Having self confidence in either situation is important, a lack of self confidence no matter your actual SMV value is a serious hindrance.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 09:26 AM
4

They argue this is what is best for women, and of course ignore the fact that a child being raised without the influence of a father is completely destructive to the child's development - especially so for male children. Yeah who cares the child is getting fucked over as long as it suits the woman OK, how utterly fucking disgusting, these people are completely immoral. Not to mention the rest of society who has to deal with the problems caused by an upcoming generation with a greater incidence o…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 09:18 AM
2

Do you know what you can count on. People to respond to incentives, if you want something right now, offer enough money to create incentive to have it done right now. Poor women having to pay for things rolleyes.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 09:10 AM
22

1) She take an example from her own personal life, anecdotes aren't evidence. 2) It's not even a good anecdote, she married a doctor. 3) Her follow up study doesn't dispute the first study that women are happier when marrying up. 4) Her follow up inferences about gender inequality based on that study have been debunked anyway, and were first debunked decades ago in the 1970's I think this is what is called being fractally wrong, equally as wrong at every resolution of their argument as the entir…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 09:06 AM
1

I'm close to agreeing with you, but not quite. Successful societies allow more people to thrive by controlling the worst behaviours in humans, and by favouring the middle at the expense of the top. To me, this has a sort of "we're successful, and this is how our modern society is formed, ergo success looks like this" feel to it, which as a libertarian I strongly disagree with. Our modern society which is becoming ever more leftist is for sure moving towards this model but it doesn't mean we have…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 08:52 AM
1

It's related because the you posed the question as to why interact with women in any other way than to get sex. It seems to stem from a point of view assigns a high value to sex and lower value to other traits. There's nothing wrong with that of course, it's just that not all men have this preference, when you've fucked your way through enough FWB, spun plates and had regular ass for decades your priorities may change, they may not. I guess I'm saying that NAWALT, which is something I believe, y…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 08:14 AM
4

Some people are more interested in a meaningful relationship with women rather than just sex. Don't get me wrong if all you want to do is fuck then more power to you (providing its consensual and she knows your intentions). Long lasting relationships don't really work based off sexual attraction alone, the ability to cohabitate and share parts of your life together requires a certain mesh of personalities, sometimes that's traits that complement each other, but you also need to share some things…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:06 PM
3

It's partially conditioning - men are punished much harsher for their blunders than women. It's just like punching. A man will think well before throwing a punch because he knows he risks getting his own teeth knocked out in return. The woman thinks she's safe because 'you don't hit girls!' so she starts swinging dependent only on her emotions. Bill Burr does a great piece of standup where he points that for women there are no physical ramifications for being an asshole, at about 4:30 in. https:…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:09 PM
2

I'd love to see what Dawkins has to say about this, I suspect he'd intellectually shame this pretty hard and fast, it's an educational disgrace that this exists.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 01:59 PM
1

It's very difficult to find girls with something interesting to say that isn't either: A) About them (Self centered) B) Extremely shallow (Shoes, makeup, celebs) C) Not about feelings (emotionally stimulating) This is why there's so few women interested in: Science, no interest in how the world works. Engineering, no interest in how man made things work or are constructed. Cosmology, no interest in the universe or any of the really big questions in life. Philosophy, no interest in the origin of …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:16 AM
1

What is worse is that being obese is a choice, and speaks to that persons mentality and personality, there's MORE of a reason not to be attracted to an obese person than a short person because being short isn't something you can control, where as your health is.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:52 AM
1

You seriously need to get a job and become self sufficient first, no one should be bringing you groceries. If you need to get to a bus stop to go to work then just do it, 5 miles each way isn't really that much, it's less than an hours walk at a decent pace. If you get a job somewhere that provides well for you, you can quite quickly save up and move house to somewhere closer to that job to save on bus costs and long walks. You may also speed up transportation with a bike if you can find somewhe…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 11:52 AM
5

She's got an almighty....presence. Like...I'm a 6'1" man, and I feel like she could Rugby tackle me and put me in hospital, maybe she should just look for a nice butch lesbian?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 07:18 PM
2

You're still chasing poon which means you still care, that may or may not be coming across as desperation, there's a very real sense in which women will pick up on someone being eager and realise that if you're eager that just gives them more power over you, that they can make you jump through hoops. First of all you need to accept the fact that you can be happy outside of a relationship, you can't ever shed the neediness unless you learn to live a happy life without a partner, there's no "trick…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:21 PM
8

If anyone wants to take a DNA sample from me they'll have to do it by physically restraining me first, innocent until proven guilty and until such time we actually have rights as humans. This is disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 11:18 AM
1

Well this was spot on, good call.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 08:48 AM
9

And this is a perfect example of it, not only send you to jail but ruin your entire life, going to jail is one thing but going in for rape or sexual assault is just next level worse, it would literally ruin you for life. Quite frankly we need to see laws which create harsh punishment for false accusations like this, that sort of stuff should come with mandatory jail time, even if it's just for 3-6 months.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 08:43 AM
1

Moral of the story, you SHOULD help men out, because who the fuck else is going to look out for us, and basically most of us in that situation would want to know (do unto others!). But at the same time either have reasonably solid proof because the common behaviour among women is to cry rape/sexual assault, and it's the common behaviour of men to back their womans position unless they have hard evidence. In the absence of hard evidence you can either 1) Get some, see them again, secretly film it…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 08:39 AM
3

There is literally not 1 single good reason to get married, yet a minefield of financial and legal burden that can land you homeless and penniless if the grenade woman you picked explodes divorces you and takes everything you have. I actually do not have any sympathy anymore for people getting married, if you get married you're an idiot - that's the brutal truth.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 08:22 AM
9

I have a very similar nihilistic view and tend to agree with the biological aspects, however there's a lot of undesirable traits in humans that are a result of biology which society generally tries to suppress for good reasons, for example we generally all agree that pedophiles cannot decide or help their impulses but that's to everyone's benefit that they control their "nature". It's perfectly reasonable for someone to seek a partner who despite having some biological impulses can act with enou…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:53 AM
1

I don't allow the "moderates" the benefit of the doubt. Moderates in any movement are those who implicitly support the extreme positions by not questioning, addressing them or having them removed from part of the movement. I think anyone who is willing to self identify as a feminist implicitly supports the extremists who genuinely believe that men are not fully formed/defective females, that all men should be castrated, or the male population should be dropped to 10%, etc. If they really care th…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:54 AM
7

I few things that I personally keep an eye on. Political leaning, if someone is terribly left in what they support, their ideals, and how they behave then essentially they support the immoral use of force to rob those who work for a living in order to give to special interest groups, support of any left special interest groups like feminism is a massive red flag for this. I do not consider these people moral and capable of using the ends justifies the means type logic. General irrationality, thi…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:37 AM
9

This is a good point, I work for a small IT business who's assets are worth merely hundreds of thousands each month and we have 4 levels of backups...makes the story a bit fishy if you ask me. Mind you if she's doing things as root and suppressing errors then there's not much you can do...I know in my backup routine the only account that can even access the automated backup storage is the admin account and that has privileges set to read only to that drive, someone would need to alter that befor…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 09:59 AM
11

I work in IT and all I can think of after reading this is the opening scene from CSI Miami where Horatio puts on his sunglasses, playin' it all cool, and the intro screams "YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAA". People like that don't deserve the help he gave them, if he's laid off then it's their problem, he should have just told them it's none of his business and he's not going to help. If they accuse him of being awkward then he can calmly explain that he gave his advice on not promoting her back whe…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 09:45 AM
7

Funny how the sudden and out of the blue realization that she doesn't love him comes at the exact moment that she's ready to get some exotic foreign D abroad. It's a sign of a weak character, the rationalization is there to cover the fact that she has basically no self control, that doesn't make for a good LTR so you should be Glad that it's over as you've essentially just dodged a bullet, and done in a place where you're seperated, you can get over this shit in peace and be ready to move on whe…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 08:24 PM
2

They'll only admit the truth once it cannot hurt them anymore, once it's in the past who cares? But the current guy they're with? Oh he's a nice guy and they'd never use them! Suuuure. People never really change, those who feel its morally acceptable to use other people to get what they want aren't suddenly going to reform one day, they're always going to be like that, they don't have the moral compass to really get it. If you want to use someone for free shit rather than actually being proud of…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:28 PM
6

I think we're seeing a big divide appearing in health and attractiveness, there's more obese people than ever, but there's also a lot of people staying in shape and putting the effort in. I think this leads to a more empty middle ground where the average person should be. I can't imagine that's doing much good for peoples options, it generally means that average men who don't have the SMV for the top few points are forced to settle for a ham beast. Bleh, dating....goin' my own waaaay.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 01:48 PM
7

Karen is maybe the most rational woman I've ever set eyes on, her video are brilliant and educational, she comes at red pill theory mostly from the evolutionary and biological side of things which is fantastic because it's backed with evidence and reason.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 11:10 AM
9

I do like this paragraph: Another reason is that the Red Pill embraces that old wisdom to try and “Change what I can, accept what I can’t, and know the difference.” Women are as women do, and crying about it isn’t going to fix it. Ultimately all you can do is try and develop coping strategies to get the best result out of a bad situation, and when it comes to women these coping strategies are known as “Game” (this is what leads to allegations that Game is manipulative and “bad”, incidentally). M…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 04:24 PM
1

Nail on the head. It's a symbiotic relationship that the man has to consent to, hosts generally do not consent to parasites unless they get something in return. In these circumstances I tend to blame the men more than the women, we all know what women are like, it's not some huge conspiracy and cover up. The man should be aware of that and know better, he should be held to the standard of living up to the responsibilities of his choices.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 04:15 PM
2

A better question would be, why are you even entertaining the idea of possibly going down for rape? What does she offer that's worth risking a decade or more in prison? Louis CK has something to say on this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4hNaFkbZYU
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 04:06 PM
1

I don't listen to anyone complain, much less a woman. Either they can act like a god damn adult and tackle their actual problems, to which I will help with if someone close to me needs my assistance, or they can shut their god damn mouth, or just take that complaint somewhere else. If you're tolerating whining to begin with you've already lost.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 04:00 PM
1

Wonder what the response would be if the genders were reversed, I'm pretty sure I know what one woman would be telling another with regards to finding a nice guy, but who is HIV positive.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 03:33 PM
16

The mind games that are played these days are staggering, half of the points here are about how people are starting to behave like children especially with regards to technology, deliberately not responding to texts and rubbish like that, sign of a very unhealthy, insecure and immature person. Whatever happened to honest people who just up front tell other people what the deal is? This sort of stuff is just a headache that contributes to me avoiding dating and relationships entirely.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 11:44 AM
7

This is happening primarily in the west among the 1st world countries, I think more than anything it's because of a change in politics and the political and social structures we have in place. We have an ever increasing left mentality which I personally think probably started when women started to vote in large numbers, their more emotional way of thinking and hypergamous nature lead to voting in schemes which provide and protect them, of course government offer up anything that will get them vo…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 10:32 AM
17

In many regards western women are losing all the traditionally attractive feminine qualities that a lot of the eastern cultures still retain, I agree completely with your comparison. It's a no brainer really.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:57 PM
3

Sure it works when she's horny and wants it, it basically works on anyone who is horny and wants to fuck, it's not a great deal different from sexual teasing during foreplay, it makes the release all that more satisfying. Question is can you pull it off when she's not horny and you are? That's where the real power comes from.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:47 PM
4

Slogan material.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:42 PM
15

Typical shaming of men by women in order to get them to do what they want. Becoming a MGTOW helps teach you how to spot shaming language like this. Women don't hold any physical, mental or political power over men so the only real power they have (other than withholding pussy) is shaming men, you're not a "REAL" man unless you do X, and Y makes you look like a woman.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:40 PM
1

I prefer a happy whistle.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:32 PM
3

MGTOW don't generally speaking have anything against labels, so self-labeling as MGTOW is perfectly consistent. MGTOWs reject societies expectations, if that expectation comes in the form of a label or not is not terribly relevant. They're not mutually exclusive, not all expectations are labels and vice versa.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:18 PM
22

I think this is becoming increasingly common among intelligent men. We're an intelligent species now who has this artifact left over in our brain which causes all of these biological influences, and once you get educated about it all and how it works it just seems like maintenance that needs to be satisfied, much like sleep and hunger, just rubbing one out is becoming preferable to the energy require to chase pussy. Sure chasing pussy has the reward factor, but when you look at game, even though…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:10 PM
17

I think women are starting to really come to terms with the fact that they have a naturally higher SMV before the wall and a naturally lower one after it, so it's a case of ride the carousel as fast as possible before you eventually have to settle. I don't judge those people in the sense that I believe they have the right to act however they want as long as they're honest with the people they fuck and its consensual. I wouldn't personally want to have a personal relationship with someone who is …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 12:55 PM
4

Ehhh...I don't really agree with this, the notion that alphas are somehow fucking all the virgin women or only women with a low number prior sexual encounters...I think any woman subjected to be gamed like that probably has been manipulated into sleeping with a whole bunch of other alphas. If you want a low prior sexual partner count then probably better look to the more conservative, less flirty and less sexually promiscuous women, i think they're probably harder to game because they're not so …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 11:00 AM
18

This is partly why I'm a MGTOW, a lot of it is to do with society and the law and how men have it pretty shitty, but also I don't believe you can fundamentally trust people. You really have no way of knowing peoples internal state of mind, people lie all the time and women are prone to lying to their male partners as we see above, the whole thing kinda disgusts me. I've been the guy that a really attractive woman cheated with, in the end I told her fiance (yes they were engaged), feel sorry for …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:47 AM
15

You and me both. The thought of being intimate with a woman who's fucked something like 50+ people is just...disgusting, it's a very gut reaction. I don't really know why that is, I think that if you just want sex then whatever, it's fine, but if you want to be intimate with someone, you kind of want to feel that thing is special and unique and not that she just gives it away to anyone.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:40 AM
2

24? You're still a youngster! Women your age aren't looking for commitment they're looking for the alpha to fuck and make the most of their naturally higher SMV. When you hit the 30ish period where I am now, women have hit the wall and are now ditching the alphas who just want to fuck <25's to find a guy to settle down with an have a family, get married have kids, etc. I don't see what this has to do with your parents, you don't need to tell them shit, if they ask then explain your reasoning, th…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:24 AM
3

Like you I don't believe in god or karma in the spiritual sense. I do believe in karma in a very practical sense, generally speaking if you're a dick to people you'll attract that kind of behaviour back, if you're nice you'll generally attract the same thing. There's a thing called game theory, not the "game" you're used to reading on TRP, but it's to do with can you trust other people when you interact with them and how to treat people in future based on past interactions. In situations where y…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 09:28 AM
11

Interesting read, however I think in red pill theory the wall is more to do with decline in physical attractiveness and SMV of women and the preference of men their age to seek the younger model. This happens far sooner than loss of fertility, women tend to hit the wall late 20's, where most will remain fertile until late 30's early 40's.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 09:22 AM
4

I see red pillers as people who have used intelligence and insight to understand the true nature of gender/sex in humans, that's something that can only be of a benefit to us. I don't see the value of teaching that to other people, the more you water down the blue pillers the less of an advantage we have, why would anyone destroy their upper hand?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 09:00 AM
1

Quite simply to live of the sweat of your brow is to be free. To not need other people is liberating, and when you decide to include other people in your life it's more meaningful, you're doing it because you want to and not because you have to. I genuinely feel sorry for anyone who isn't free, that must be like being a caged bird.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:56 AM
1

Sure, if you're making a statement and you're trying to convince someone else the burden of proof is on you. But being a MGTOW doesn't actually depend on your ability to prove your intentions to others, whether you accept MGTOWs at their word regarding their intentions and motives doesn't really matter. It does stifle discussion however, if we're all just going to disbelieve each others and ask that everyone PROVE to us their motives, which isn't something you can really do, then the whole discu…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:40 AM
-1

But the true measure of a quality man, is the man who starts climbing again, and again until he has conquered the mountain. More shaming. "REAL men" (tm) do this that and the other... You don't understand MGTOW, we don't let others shame us into their value system. Don't worry your reaction isn't all that uncommon, many people (especially women, but some men) are used to shaming men into thinking like them, but when people like you run into a man you cannot shame the only tactic you have is to s…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:22 AM
0

You don't appear to understand what MGTOW is about and why men go their own way. It's not a "core argument" that it's a waste of time to chase pussy, in fact some MGTOWs do in fact do that, it's about defining your own goals and values rather than letting someone else manipulate you into accepting theirs. It's funny that some so called red pillers such as yourself are so shaken by MGTOWs you have to take a run at us, all it tells me is that you don't feel validated unless everyone (or at least e…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:11 AM
3

Not all MGTOW are as such because of some bad experience with women, a lot CLEARLY are, but there's also a decent number of men like myself who have never married, been through divorce courts, family courts or otherwise been fucked over by women, but can weigh up the pro's and cons before actually getting burned first. You don't need to experience it first hand to understand it, you can simply observe it in others. This implication that MGTOWs are only men who "tried and failed" so to speak, is …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 07:57 AM
3

I did wonder how long I'd have to read through this thread before I saw a decent dose of shaming. Look if you value banging loads of bitches as manly then more power to you, but the ENTIRE POINT of MGTOW is that we define our own values, we don't blindly accept other peoples. Society is full of people like you who are fast to shame men into doing something for them. In this case simply to reinforce your world view to make yourself feel better, my world view devalues yours simply by not agreeing …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 07:53 AM
4

Not so much disgusted by all women, it's mostly just being risk averse. Society and law has made this whole thing too risky for a man. Some MGTOWs do still spin plates, I had FWB throughout most of my 20's, honestly it becomes boring after a while, I'm at a stage in my life now (30) where I just can't be bothered with that. I would prefer a LTR at this stage but women my age are looking to marry and have kids, that's nothing but a minefield for a man. I don't use the fact I'm a MGTOW stop me fro…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 07:34 AM
1

Amazing.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 12:16 PM
1

Wait she's 21 years old and g/f for 7 years, never been with another guy... There's no experience or perspective there, odds are very good that she's not getting from the relationship what he is and just doesn't feel the same way, wants to experiment and experience new things. He's blue pill as fuck, but he's only young, bless his heart. I agree with /u/redpillschool there's probably already more to this story, likely she kissed him some time ago and what sparked the call is she fucked him. When…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 12:14 PM
9

These women are vulnerable and so disgusting people are taking advantage of them. Basically this reads as "these women do not have agency, they cannot think and make choice for themselves, so they cannot be responsible for the outcomes." This is typical of feminists, they claim to want to destroy the notion of women as objects yet by constantly trying to absolve them of any responsibility for their actions, they're causing the very thing they're trying to avoid.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 12:04 PM
3

"...asked me to move back in..." Wait, what? Rule number 1, own your own place, don't live under their roof, if there's any talk of splitting you kick them out, you don't let a woman take your home. As for the rest, yeah, she's obviously using him, if he can't see that he deserves to be strung along quite frankly, even admits the only change is the car.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:57 AM
5

I agree with this, at the end of the day social interaction with women is a skill like any other and skills get better over time with practice. Trying to dig down into the mechanics of how people behave is simply seeking a way to improve you skills, or at the very least allow you understand why a particular interaction with someone wasn't favourable, so you can correct and try again. Game is all about the first stages of meeting and impressing women, it's really more a PUA tactic about getting i…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 04:05 PM
3

Karen is one of the strongest characters in the mens rights movement and gains my respect mostly due to the strong grasp she has on reality, she's very well read, understands science, biology and evolution very well and focuses on the gender dynamic pretty much from a scientific point of view, a lot of which is the kind of skeptical thinking that backs Red Pill thinking. Everyone here should be watching her videos on youtube there are some absolutely fantastic insights into the gender difference…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:17 AM
17

If feminist ideology in the academic sphere is truly correct then they wouldn't fear opposing groups who seek to analyze and examin feminist theory. In real academia such as the sciences, opposing debate is welcomes such as peer review because when it tries and fails to disprove a theory it just makes belief in that theory more certain. I think deep down feminists know that all this theory is rubbish, it props up their entitlement and their special rights from the government and they're scared t…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:37 PM
9

Jesus fucking Christ, what do women think they're perfect or something? It's not either you have great sex you were taken advantage of! It is possible to consent to something and then later regret it, men do this all the time when the beer goggles kick in and you sleep with a munter. It's called being responsible for your actions, it's the agency women are constantly complaining that they don't have.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:50 PM
2

I was 11 at the time and didn't really know much about what was going on other than the aftermath, the split etc. Parents were unhappy for a long time it seems. I ended up living with my mom growing up, my father made attempts to "steal" his children back, I was old enough that my mom convinced me that he only wanted the children to spite her, In the end I lived with my mom while my younger brother and sister stayed with him. It wasn't until I grew up later on did I realize that my dad probably …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:00 PM
8

Dump her ass for acting like a tramp, if you don't then you deserve to stay with someone like that, don't be a chump and put up with stuff you don't like in a relationship. Some people are OK with that, some aren't, if you're not - then leave. That simple.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 11:30 AM
3

In other words treat women like you'd treat another man, if they're wrong call them out on their shit. You provided a grounding point, solid as a rock, it allows her to come down from being upset and emotional and find her way back to a grounded state and find reality again. Agreeing with them when they know they're in the wrong but too emotional and irrational to admit it teaches them they can get away with this in future, it disrespects them by not treating them like an adult who has agency an…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 11:21 AM
3

I have several different answers depending what you're looking for. For maximum happiness try and find something you're passionate about, if you're not especially passionate about anything then get out there and try some stuff out! Dont underestimate the benefits of simply doing a job you like, less stress, more fun, happier and healthier disposition. If you want long term job security you want to look at doing some skilled labour that cannot easily automated, preferably not something government…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 02:15 PM
3

My opinion on this is, you need to own it. If you approach and offer to take a woman out on a date then you pay for the date. If you don't want to pay for dates then don't offer to take people on them. I still believe in doing nice things for people if you like that person and want to do something nice for them, including treating them to a meal or whatever, hell I treat my male friends to meals if we're going out to see a standup comedy show or some shit, we'll go for a meal and sometimes I'll …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 10:14 AM
3

As a MGTOW I get the pleasure of turning down womens advances for drinks and other free stuff in ways that amuse me. Really wasted one night I offer to buy some friends drinks, go to the bar and a woman from the group gets up and comes with me, kinda flirty but asks what am I going to buy her, and I say something like "Nothing, being needy is really unattractive." She didn't say anything back, she's not the typical super hot girl going out for attention and sponging off guys all night, so maybe …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 09:57 AM
9

I work in IT and in all my days have only seen 2 IT related females both more or less completely useless, one sent out a mass market email to slightly under 1 million email addresses with images linked in the HTML to local paths (e.g C:/users/idiot/images/) which if you understand IT you will understand is profoundly stupid. I wouldn't hire a feminist, male or female, not so much because I wan't to stick it to the feminists, I just think that the whole system is based on completely flawed ideas …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 09:42 AM
3

I've been visiting 4chan for over 8 years, not quite there from day naught but closer than most, it's harshness is a function of anonymity plus lack of rules. But those things aren't secret, it's right on the front page and immediately obvious when you browse /b/, no one on /b/ is forcing you to browse, much less post. That is why I never have any sympathy for this kind of thing, some females deal with it OK they remain anonymous and shitpost like everyone else and no one knows any different, bu…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 09:27 AM
2

This is why I'm a MGTOW, I agree with a lot of RP theory, and I wish the MRAs all the luck in the world but not only do I think it's not worth the effort to fight for, I also don't realistically expect it to be fixed in my lifetime, this removes all reason to fight for it. One of the great things about being MGTOW is the lack of family to care for, more specifically children. The knock on effect is that you don't give a damn about what will happen in the future, you have no reason to invest in a…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 04:22 PM
1

I've never done that, and probably wont. But I do agree that the risks are balancing out. Prostitutes have a financial incentive already in place to provide a good service to the customer as potential repeat business for them represents more long term value than trying to dick a man over. Basically prostitution is priced at a rate both the prostitute and the customer both find agreeable, the free market works. She wants your money more than she cares about the sex, and you care about the sex mor…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 03:36 PM
6

This is a good point. Most of the time "treat like crap" is used to mean not calling for a few days, ignoring her when she complains, or basically not just bowing to her every whim. This is part of gap between actual reality and the world women live in, they think they're so badly done by, yet in reality they might have an abusive man who regularly smacks them in the face and threatens violence if they leave...there's just no perspective at all. And of course the moment you treat them nice, and …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 09:40 AM
4

It's a really disgusting statistic that at least 10% of children are raised by their non-biological father and that father has no idea the child isnt his bioloigical child, it's disturbing to the very core. I think the stat is something like 1/3 of all men who take their childs DNA for testing find the child isn't theirs, which means if you suspect infidelity enough to go get a test, there's a surprisingly high chance you'll find you're not the father, so follow your gut, if you suspect then the…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 02:33 PM
30

Aaaaaaaaand this is why I'm a MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 09:08 AM
23

Basic economics. Prostitution increases the supply of pussy to the market, and therefore lowers the unit value. It's exactly the same reason that women slut shame other women, anything that gives men easy access to sex means the leverage they hold is diminished. Everyone who has an upper hand in life develops mechanisms for protecting their advantage, sometimes subconsciously.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 09:03 AM
2

This makes me so mad, what makes me more mad is that EVERYONE recognizes this is fucking bullshit, look at the comments and the votes on the article, anyone saying that 2 years is clearly not enough time and that had it been reversed situation with a man and a girl it would be much more harsh, they're getting almost 100% upvotes to downvote ratio. Basically everyone agrees this is an absolute disgrace and she STILL gets a pass, what an absolute disgrace, this disgusts me to the core.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 12:10 PM
6

I also look for an intellectual connection, but honestly after many years of looking for women who are interested in topics with some actual depth (philosophy, religion/atheism, physics, cosmology, etc) I literally can't find any. I know there's some out there but they really are unicorns, you might as well be adding millionaire to your list of requirements, it's that unrealistic. I'm not saying women are stupid but their interests almost always lay in the social fields, that's the vast majority…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:57 AM
11

This is hilarious: "Men claim women are much more complicated than them, but what about our side of the story? It's actually really simple to make a woman happy - if they'd only look out for the signs! Here are 25 things women wish men knew..." Serious lack of perspective, guys want pretty much 3 things tops: Beauty, Sex and Faithfulness, everything else we can get ourselves. When you say its really simple and then you launch into a list of 25 things, er ya kinda contradicting yourself. Ends by …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 01:12 AM
0

I literally...don't even.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 09:39 PM
1

As someone who went through reasonably large amount of weight loss from obese to healthy, all I can say is "Respect". To some people it can be really hard, it's difficult to just pluck willpower out of thin air even once you know the right tactic for losing. Not going to ruin a positive story with wild speculations about potentially negative consequences, treat people on their merits.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 09:31 PM
12

I'm a 6'1" man, fairly bear like, strong but not toned, a bit overweight so sizeable I think I'm around 200lbs atm. I've heard this from quite a lot of the women I've been with actually, usually in bed at night or when you're embraced together hugging or cuddling. I think it's false to infer that you need to feel in danger before you can feel safe, simply because we know should something happen, being with someone bigger and stronger who has a deeply rooted desire to protect you, even at their o…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 08:07 PM
1

One problem is that the perception is that it's unlikely to bite you on the ass, it's just the repercussions are very harsh if they do. Many couples can resolve marriage in a civil way and that's great, but some people can turn very bitter and emotional towards people they once loved, I saw that in my parents marriage first hand. Same with sex, some women are really emotionally unstable, I went on a few dates with one girl and we got drunk and she took me back to her place (she initiated sex) an…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 07:30 AM
6

Fucking lol'd at that those, nomsayin?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 11:49 AM
2

Statistically most drug addicts won't turn their life around, and statistically those who do often relapse at some point in the future. Peoples nature doesn't change, they can sometimes fight their nature for a while or maybe for their entire life, but all else equal you'd be better off with someone with a good nature. If you're happy to risk everything merely by relying on statistical likelihood then fine, but it's still a risk, even the best of us can go bad so it's still fundamentally a risk,…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 11:42 AM
1

Interesting story and I kinda knew how it was going to end before I even finished the 3rd paragraph detailing the differences in responsibility and earnings between the 2. From the amount of detail there I'm going to take a stab in the dark and guess that you're Adam? If so, sorry man, that's harsh. Moral of the story, don't get married. People cheat, sometimes it's men and sometimes it's women, sometimes there's predictors such as promiscuity but the simple fact is sometimes there's not. There'…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 11:35 AM
2

I think this has been over thought, it's simply another manifestation of the asymmetry of the sexual market place, women demand more value because eggs are more valuable the sperm and men tend to have a higher sex drive than women. Some women feel like they're superiour and that a man would be lucky to have them, this is part of the fairy-tale princess spiel girls are taught from a young age and is more a sociological effect. If this is the way a woman thinks why wouldn't she expect the man to s…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 11:06 AM
12

I think there's a good case for linking intelligence and more specifically critical thinking with being Red Pill, that's really all that taking the Red Pill comes down to is applying critical thinking and logic to gender and social interaction. Nerds tend to be very smart but they also tend to have hampered social skills, I think a few of the more sociable nerds who like to study a wide range of things such as myself actually make really good Red Pill candidates. Of everyone willing to accept Re…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 05:04 PM
1

Well they tend to project the tendency of cheating onto other people, simply because they've done it before themselves, some women are concerned about cheating because they were cheated on, I have no idea what the ratio is between those 2 things are, but I tend to lean towards them being cheaters. Mostly because I think people who have been cheated on know they only hurt their relationships if they're paranoid about cheating, in essence if you're cheated on you can recover from that, but if you'…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:23 PM
5

I find it really interesting that some people don't even have the ability to see the hypocrisy when they've written it down, it's almost like they can't see what they've written. That sort of thing isn't very rare from my own personal experience. It basically tells you 2 things, firstly that they are grossly hypocritical, but secondly and maybe more importantly they don't have the ability to see their own hypocrisy, or they do but they don't care. Either way it points to a scary lack of empathy,…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:22 PM
50

I think that it's the extreme circumstances in which people take their lives, if you're kicked to the curb, lose your house, told you cannot see your child, stuck with years of paying child support to a mother who you know is spending it on herself and her new man living in the house you paid for...it's those kind of tornado of events that lead men to taking their own lives. You either need to bring down an entire persons world, or you need to corner someone and leave them no recourse, these are…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 07:13 PM
7

I found this off the back of AvFM, it stinks of the usual feminist bullshit which is that vocal feminists and feminist speakers are all talk when it comes to what women should do, but are complete hypocrites by doing the opposite of what they encourage. Most feminists are doing things like gender studies and sociology based degrees rather than getting into something hard like a STEM field or doing some manual labour, which would truly close the "gender inequality gap". It's an all to common tren…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:03 PM
-5

More gender inequality, only one parent has the right to witness the birth of their child, I guess the feminism equal rights squad simply hasn't had time to address this yet, but they'll be right on it. /s Meanwhile better protect the privacy of the woman from giving birth except for the attending doctor, and the room full of nurses, and whoever else the mother want's there...
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:38 PM
1

Even if you see it as "tricking" women, which I don't think is the case, but will play devils advocate for a moment, how is it any different to women tricking guys with push up bras, makeup, fake lashes, high heels, etc. Whether you look at game tactics as manipulation or not, it still exists on both sides of the gender divide, women may naturally hold more value on the sexual marketplace due to the asymmetric supply and demand between the sexes, but they're still in competition with other women…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:17 PM
6

Lost a lot of weight recently, 250 down to 179, feeling great. Doing lots of computer security research, I'm doing this in my own spare time to compliment my IT career, I've applied the penetration testing techniques I learn in my spare time to systems at work and earned myself a decent raise after finding issues in our websites and passing on fixes to the devs. It's something I really enjoy as a hobby and will likely do professionally in future as my own business. Reading a lot about Red Pill a…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 02:03 PM
1

You're talking to someone who thinks truth is subjective and not objective, if this is their world view there is really not much you can do to change it. It's something atheists battle with fairly regularly with theists, you hear this quite a lot, "What is true for you, is not true for me". These people are very weak critical and logical thinkers who are unable to model reality and question their own beliefs, they take ideas from other sources and simply parrot them. I generally do not waste tim…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 11:19 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter