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The problem here is clear, you're thinking WAY too much. Instead of trying to have an experience, you were concerned of results that NEVER HAPPENED yet. You never talk to anyone that night, but made assumptions about everyone and the way they look. You commented on you looking better, talking better, but how do you know that? Just go out and stop thinking too much and enjoy people's company. If you went out with this mentality that you talked about, you are going to show people in body language,…
/r/seduction03/02/17 09:18 PM
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I think a lot of us will come from a place of hurt or anxiety. For me it wasn't starting off that I was "insecure", I've always been an attractive guy. But The one thing for me was being able to realize it's not about being a "nice guy" or a "cool guy", it's honestly about the best perception you have of yourself as possible. I gained a LOT of weight I was about 260 (about 195 now). I didn't lose the weight because I thought women would like me better (at first I did), I lost the weight because …
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:33 PM
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Just step back for a second and think to yourself, why do you think that dime piece should give you a chance. I'm sure you have some quality about yourself that you want to show people, but feel like they might not accept you. Always going into a conversation thinking "I could learn something or this person could be or do something extraordinary" you start to talk to people a LOT easier. Because instead of your intention is being a creep and trying to pick up girls, you come off as a person who'…
/r/seduction29/11/16 01:09 PM
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This is 100% a obstacle you have created. I want you to think your thought through the whole way and just ask yourself Is your perception of yourself the same perception woman have of you? Would you date you right now? Are looks THAT important to you and if so, do you think women have that same perception? You're thinking about this issue from your perspective, and sorry but the wrong perspective. You're making woman to be this "idol", that only the few can obtain. And she has the choice, that's…
/r/seduction28/11/16 08:55 PM
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I think you're actually feeling how women feel on a daily basis, except the penis part. You essentially see traits in her that you find unattractive, she has that 15 year old girl neediness, now you know exactly what you don't like. A lot of the times owe don't sit back to think, possibly this behavior is something we exhibit in people we really are getting into. She was into YOU more than you were into her. She was trying hard to make that conversation, and tried to hard to make that contact. P…
/r/seduction18/11/16 07:18 PM
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"You are acting like every girl you talk to will want to fuck you so you only want to approach the attractive ones. That's not how any of this works even if you are George Clooney or Brad Pitt" lol I read this reply and thought you summed up the whole post in that sentence.
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:43 PM
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I honestly feel like this post just goes in circles. To me, you are doing exactly what those pick up artists are doing(They are walking up to woman they prefer.... that's the point. Rejection is expected lol). The results of a couple of nights don't dictate the results for 30+ days, you're basing your night with these "elite" pick-up guys who apparently never got one girls number. My question to you is, if they were so "elite" how in 3 days did they not get one woman? To me it just feels like a …
/r/seduction16/11/16 04:44 PM
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I think for you think about it logically. I work with "hacking" so I deal with my ideas in logic. For me, I like to think of women as experiences rather than "prizes". Any experience you've taken. you would have never of known if it was going to be a good one or bad one? Have their been times in your life when the experience at first seemed to be shitty, and turned out to be life changing? How many of those experiences have shaped the way we think? Now apply this to woman. What makes a woman "be…
/r/seduction09/11/16 09:17 PM
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LMAOOOO oh man, I've had this happen. Turned out to be the WORST and best rejection possible. The worst because it was fucking horrible, I was horrible. The best because it taught me, it can't ever get to a worse point. To me every time I've had this happen, I respectfully say "I apologize, didn't meant to hit on your girlfriend. Have a nice day". Every time but my first one, ended up with a "It's all good bro, she's lucky" or something to that manner.
/r/seduction12/10/16 08:34 PM
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LMAOOOO oh man, I've had this happen. Turned out to be the WORST and best rejection possible. The worst because it was fucking horrible, I was horrible. The best because it taught me, it can't ever get to a worse point. To me every time I've had this happen, I respectfully say "I apologize, didn't meant to hit on your girlfriend. Have a nice day". Every time but my first one, ended up with a "It's all good bro, she's lucky" or something to that manor.
/r/seduction12/10/16 08:34 PM
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Just by creating this post you are giving off that you give her way too much attention. Time to move on. First impressions with girls are a LOT, getting out of the friend zone is hard.. I've tried.
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:47 PM
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Well I wouldn't say that... lmao but the principal still remains.
/r/seduction19/08/16 02:57 PM
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It's only an imperfection in your eyes. One thing I've always said is men put too much emphasis on things that don't matter. When you put an emphasis of it in your head, you bring that insecurity to a women in which she can read. I have a crooked teeth (two) that are pretty out of place due to my wisdom tooth. It's not horrible, but it doesn't prevent me from smiling. One of the things I had to learn was to be confident, that confidence is more important. It only bothers you because "society" sa…
/r/seduction19/08/16 02:57 PM
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You're thinking of it the wrong way. You're seeing it as you walking up to a girl and full on seducing her at work, that's the WRONG approach. I mean if she's working at a shop... I'm assuming they can speak to a customer? There is nothing wrong with talking, interactions shouldn't be blindly IM GOING TO GET HER NUMBER. The power isn't in how many numbers you can get, but how many times you can tell yourself "she's just not for me". Make it simple, just walk up to her, if you and her click pursu…
/r/seduction26/07/16 01:05 PM
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100%, a girl at work is bored out of her mind... EASY AS THAT. I one time walked up to a hostess at a BUSY ASS bar/pub in my area. She was REALLY cute, and while walking past her I noticed she was studying. That started the conversation, but what kept it going was confidence. BTW I fucked this one up :_), but with all failures comes a lesson. Just walk up to her and talk, it's that simple. I remember on the first date I took her out and she said to me " You know what I loved about you. You made …
/r/seduction26/07/16 01:02 PM
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Don't ignore her. Just live your life. Date. Do whatever, you are limiting yourself way too much.. just as I did. You hit it off good with this one woman, what makes you think you won't hit it off with another. Dating is about finding what you like, you don't go into a car dealership thinking you want a nice car, and getting the FIRST ONE YOU SEE. You do your research, and if she doesn't give back what you give.. don't waste your time. Have fun with it, dating shouldn't be a chore it should be a…
/r/seduction22/07/16 04:15 PM
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Wow this was really insightful thanks. I have to determine what my intentions are before I can say anything. Thanks, I've been having struggles lately for pushing past the second date, but it all comes with practice. Thanks!
/r/seduction22/07/16 01:46 PM
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I like this so much thank you. I needed to read something like this. But yes, I love being a romantic guy but not sure when too much is too much. I will start to work on it, thanks!
/r/seduction22/07/16 01:19 PM
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What do you think I should be doing after the first date? In terms of texting, and following up and pursuing. Is there such a thing as TOO MUCH being romantic, as I'm a very "romantic" guy? Thanks for your post, today because of it I'll be walking up to women :)
/r/seduction21/07/16 02:27 PM
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lol, i forget we have trolls on reddit.
/r/seduction12/07/16 07:27 PM
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I think one thing we forget is we are all from different parts of the world. Tuning to the girls in that area, or being someone from not from town has it advantages. Tuning yourself you understand what are the "social norms" in that area. Being out of town is huge as well. Being from a different culture, it's so easy to spark up conversation. I don't think it's the race rather more the culture in that area. I'm pretty sure the white girls you'll see where I live, are way different than the white…
/r/seduction12/07/16 02:01 PM
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So true, any tall guy that is 6 foot and taller that's in shape.... girls love it.
/r/seduction28/06/16 02:45 PM
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lmao.. man ok ok, when i have time a bit later on i'll go into that. That was really just what the fuck.
/r/seduction07/05/16 03:36 PM
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Sorry, they aren't ;p. But yeah European culture is different and that's why I love it. Here in America my "boss" (not really) likes to treat me like a kid. Even though i don't report to them here in North America they treat me like I should slave myself for my job. (i was at my job staying until 5 AM setting up firewalls from the last guys mistakes) MY boss instantly was infuriated and said, if you're going to use a member of my team after work hours please confirm with me first. OVer there lik…
/r/seduction06/05/16 04:49 PM
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Actually this is a pretty good story. So first I should mention THIS WAS the first girl I've ever met in Amsterdam. I was curious and was looking for weed to smoke. I went into a weed store thinking, "Time to buy and smoke some weed". Nope weed stores in Amsterdam do NOT Sell weed (coffee shops do), they sell everything else and mushrooms ;p. So there at the counter there is this REALLY cute brunette, maybe 23. I'm by myself in Amsterdam and the thought came to me, I can tell her I have a huge s…
/r/seduction06/05/16 04:13 PM
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Oh np. I work for a international luxury goods conglomerate in which is based in Geneva Switzerland. I'm part of the IT security team (only two of us in North America) and we handle ALL the security incidents in our region. Due to my company having a lot of money they often invite me to fly to Geneva at least twice a year. I always travel within the North & South America region as I'm in charge of all the security incidents and the only "security technical lead". I'm almost 25 so I volunteer to …
/r/seduction06/05/16 04:01 PM
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That's where you're wrong ;p. I was 260 pounds, anti-social, stuck to video games, and was a complete disaster. I was the person who would've said "it's not in me personality". But there is something about NOT knowing what happens next that changes you. Being in another country all lone you get scared of what happens next because it's not your norm. Your brain panics, which means you will panic. You have to push your boundaries. FROM my trip I learned to value myself. I have stuff to OFFER other…
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:01 PM
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Yes, I had a threesome (first time in my life) and fucked some girl I met at weed shop in Amsterdam who was selling me pipes. edit. Yes all in Amsterdam, and they did not ask for money after that ;p. It was consensual, hopefully ;)
/r/seduction06/05/16 02:56 PM
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Well actually I think you should try to solo backpack. It took what I learned here and amplified it immensely. I solo backpacked through Europe and met some pretty awesome people because when you're in another country by yourself you are FORCED to talk to people. Never feel as if you need someone else to validate a moment to make it good or not, you only make the place as good as you personally can experience it.
/r/seduction06/05/16 02:00 PM
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You're thinking way too into it.
/r/seduction03/05/16 02:30 PM
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I work full time. I hold a job making more than my parents made together at 25. All while this job is my passion in life. I smoke weed every day I can smoke. People need to stop blaming weed and take a hard look at yourself. I love getting high. It helps me focus, all while having fun and being social. I smoke everyday so you can call me a heavy user. I NEVER let weed affect my job or my personality. Once either of those are heavily affected, I quit. Personally to me it's the individual. It's ea…
/r/seduction29/03/16 07:02 AM
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Yes thanks :). It was a huge testament to me that and should be for everyone that girls just have a different perspective on attraction. I actually didn't include this but I ended up asking her one night while at her house "why say yes and give me your number" since she was asking me why I decided to talk to her. She simply stated this, note this isn't word for word (almost) just what I will remember ;p. " The thing about you is that so many guys walk up to me and talk to me, I'm a hostess it's …
/r/seduction03/03/16 02:46 PM
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I don't think I've ever told this story to anyone. Well here it goes. I was starting to learn the pickup game. I mean I was on this subreddit trying to muster up courage after my last break up. All previous attempts ended in completely failure. It resulted in me walking around, making excuses, and getting extremely upset at myself for no improvement then one day it just hit me. I went to a bar with friends. We go up to the hostess and she is really cute. From the start she is talking to me, flir…
/r/seduction02/03/16 09:49 PM
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I've always wanted to do this, however maybe a better first step is to just delete ALL social media. I know for me when I gave up Facebook and other stuff like that I had more time to focus on me which resulted in me being out there more.
/r/seduction02/03/16 09:39 PM
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That's awesome man, I wish I could have the balls. Even though logically I know I'm going to regret it, I just always fail too. I don't know if it's because I'm so picky, or because I'm just a pussy ;p. Anyways For you I will try to be more social today and try to get a number ;p.
/r/seduction19/02/16 03:58 PM
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Oh I definitely agree with you. In my interactions with women now I'm a lot more assertive and "real" in some sense. I like to be up front with my intentions and in return I've been able to escalate a lot further, I look back at that situation I had with that girl and I LAUGH at myself. I literally had it all lined up, and I let my HEAD get the better of me EVEN THOUGH I put in all the work already. I've always been a smooth talker and love to talk and have conversations with people, my problem …
/r/seduction29/12/15 06:37 PM
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I give you SO MUCH FUCKING PROPS. I remember my first approach, I didn't have enough balls to walk up to one girl. Ended up being one of the most awkward things I've EVER DONE, to this DAY I still laugh about it! MY excuse... right now I'm in a office where the only people in here are IT.. so all males. Should I let that hold me back though ;p
/r/seduction29/12/15 05:05 PM
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Yeah I've always called actresses actors. I never took the word to be "masculine" at all.
/r/seduction18/12/15 04:22 PM
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You're right I always get that wrong. It's all good though, I'll suck your dick now, thanks.
/r/seduction17/12/15 03:20 PM
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lmao that's awesome! All my friends were shitting on me. They want me to hit her up again so I can get "Screenings" but she had a cameo not a serious part. If she gets big one day.... I'll just laugh it off, she's also quite a good singer.
/r/seduction17/12/15 02:16 PM
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Yes that's her :) Man she looks a bit different. When I got on the train she lost a bit of weight, as well she looked like a hipster. I have a thing for white woman with nice eyes and a beanie cap.
/r/seduction17/12/15 02:13 PM
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I actually found out the name of the girl. She's on the episode. She's the "hipster" girl ;). She looked different from when she was on the TV show, but she still is pretty smoking. Clue = Jessica Jones Episode 12 Hipster Girl.
/r/seduction17/12/15 02:30 AM
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No need to put down other people, instead of showing "confidence" it seems more like you subconsciously compare yourself to others. No need to shit on other people, just do you don't worry about everyone else.
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:34 PM
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You should ask yourself this one question before you walk up to this girl. What are your true intentions? While anyone can tell you a pick up line, or conversations to talk, be authentic. Be yourself. I'm rooting for you! What happens after the initial "pick up line"? Girls can pick up nervousness or neediness like nothing. I suggest realize this one fact. If you are yourself and walk up to this girl and she doesn't like you, who cares.... there are plenty of women who would appreciate a person …
/r/seduction04/12/15 09:42 PM
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That's the most important thing I think. REAL good women aren't concerned about how much money you make, if you have a rolex or private jet, a real women wants a man who does one of two things. SHOWS potential and passion but also makes her feel wanted and secure. You don't need to have money to have those things, just a dream you constantly fight for and also showing her you are YOU.
/r/seduction04/12/15 04:30 PM
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I understand what you are saying and I'm glad that you haven't let it hold you back but here is a thought that came through when I was reading your response. Don't be too overly concerned about you and her. I think things always work themselves out. It's always important for myself to understand this ONE fact. DO EVERYTHING in your power that you HAVE CONTROL OVER, but stop trying to control and put effort into things you have NO control over. I would continue to work on yourself, continue to da…
/r/seduction03/12/15 06:27 PM
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Listen guys this is directed to both of you. Time WILL heal you, but the only thing that will prevent that is keep thinking that you guys are going to be good together. This is my mentality towards the subject and hopefully it can provide some help in your healing. I realized a long time ago months after my relationship ended this one thought. Why am I going to try so hard to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me back? A relationship with someone is about SHARING your lives together, n…
/r/seduction03/12/15 02:17 PM
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I think that comes with time man. While I'm not OP I've learned that time really makes you appreciate yourself. This is the hard reality I think I had to face by myself. A fresh broken up relationship will always hurt, you always want that feeling of being "comfortable" which is what you usually have in a long term relationship. Once that ends, that feeling is lost like you are missing a part of you... but that easily goes away. My mentality after going through my breakup was at first, I'll do e…
/r/seduction02/12/15 08:39 PM
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I love this
/r/seduction17/11/15 05:27 PM
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All of us have unique situations. This is my advice, learn to love yourself and fuck her. I don't know the circumstances of what happen but then again don't let it affect you. The most important person in your life should be yourself. Work on yourself, learn to be happy BY yourself, and people will come into your life. For me after my ex broke up I still had close relations with her family and saw her often. She is still best friends with my cousin.... I learned to not give two fucks about them.…
/r/seduction17/11/15 05:26 PM
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This is the first thing that I said in my head... craigslist lmao
/r/seduction08/09/15 03:19 PM
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I think about it like this. If a girl were to walk up to you and talk to you and you didn't like her.... you would say no correct? YOU have a choice to what women YOU want to talk to. Just as you have a choice so do other people. But that's the main part you have to realize. That girl that you rejected do you ever think about her in a week or the next day? Probably not, so why should you keep caring about what other people think? Be 100% you and that shines more than anything. If you walk up to …
/r/seduction27/08/15 02:40 PM
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FUCK THOSE PEOPLE. It's hard to get over that hump but guess what be happy of the person you are. The truth is YOU have an option in the people you can have in your life, you can say you don't like this person and never see them again. Other people have that option too. it's always the hardest part realizing that the person YOU are is awesome and people are going to have to learn to love it. Never try to make other people happy, to find someone make them love the person YOU ARE not the person wh…
/r/seduction24/08/15 06:02 PM
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Wow congrats. While I probably haven't hit on 10s like you there is one thing I learned. The women that I talked to that I pretended to be "alpha" with always never completely made me happy. Sure you get some of the benefits but any girl that won't accept you for 100% you... FUCK THEM (as corny as it sounds). You sound like an amazing guy, an amazing person, with a bunch of cojones. Just be you, no point in pretending to be a guy you're not. She's ALREADY INTO YOU DUDE, stop sweating it. If I do…
/r/seduction21/07/15 08:04 PM
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congrats I'm jealous!!! I'm too busy at work to pick up women =T
/r/seduction21/07/15 02:09 PM
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I feel you should just move on, I've found with women the more that I just don't care about they come back. If she doesn't who cares... there are plenty of women.
/r/seduction10/04/15 05:48 PM
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Thanks! I mean for me it's mainly all in the brain. For some time I felt that she was going out with me for pity.. but then I thought if she accepts to go on a dinner and a movie... it's a date. She said yes, she said it with a smile... and she definitely wants to hang. I'm just trying to get rid of the old habits..... they die hard.
/r/seduction10/10/14 06:59 PM
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There is NO such thing as rejection, well in my mind. There are just funny stories. Everytime a girl says they have a boyfriend, they aren't interested, or just give me a fake number all I think is... well it's her loss. I'm happy for you, I come from the same places as you. 40 pounds heavier and deep into world of warcraft.. -_-
/r/seduction02/10/14 05:37 PM
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What I'm saying is to not literally walk up to everyone. What I'm saying is this. That if you are looking at someone and I mean really do think they are beautiful or really WANT to talk to them and don't... that's selfish. I don't mean it in a MEAN way, I mean it that woman LOVE to feel beautiful.. if you really think someone is beautiful tell her I'm sure it would make her day.
/r/seduction23/09/14 03:03 PM
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Day 4 Was feeling great today so went to the city with some friends to a hookah lounge, my intention to 100% try to walk to woman. Ended up sparking up a conversation with the waiter. Sparked up great conversation that forced her to stop her work, she smiled, blushed, laughed. Felt really good and to have my friends ask how the hell I was able to do that... I have no idea. Thought my night was over and saw an extremely beautiful woman on the corner (no.. not what you are thinking). She was waiti…
/r/seduction23/09/14 02:15 PM
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Day 3 Nothing really new happened. Ended up on a bad day, but talked to some new people. Didn't get any numbers but still was able to talk to different people. I know pretty boring but these days to come I'm stepping my game up... NO MORE excuses! If you're curious it was nothing special. Just walked up to a girl at the store, told her i loved her style and needed to get to know more about her. Don't know why but didn't care for her number... But still it's all about the effort right!
/r/seduction22/09/14 02:53 AM
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Day 2 Met some new girls at the bar. Wanted to get one girls number =T she ended up being into me but my plan backfired in which a girl I use to talk to came and i had to spend my time with her. Confidence is pretty high, talked to MULTIPLE woman last night. All about the approach, the fact that I went up to them, made great conversation, it was a GOOD night.
/r/seduction20/09/14 04:28 PM
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1st Day: I was extremely nervous. End of day I felt that I wasn't going to talk to anyone, just didn't have a good day. Got out to eat with some friends, saw a REALLY cute girl that I thought was trying to start conversation with me at the bar I went to, she works there. When we left I mustered up the courage to talk to her. Found the perfect opportunity and talked to her about what she was looking at. Ended up being a nurse =D. Had a great conversation and ended the convo with "well we should d…
/r/seduction20/09/14 04:26 PM
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NYC woman... trust me they can be hard! I always hesitate when I try to pick up woman in Manhattan or even sometimes in Queens.
/r/seduction19/09/14 04:03 PM
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Nice. It's just about talking to woman. Oh god a girl in an elevator.. don't ray rice her =D
/r/seduction19/09/14 02:08 PM
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Great job man.. me too!!! I want to see an update!
/r/seduction19/09/14 02:08 PM
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Hmm good question. I think it should be at a girl you NEVER really talked to before at least. It has to be someone who you are going to have a first conversation with. IF it's a classmate who's cute and never talked to go for it.. no excuses!
/r/seduction19/09/14 02:07 PM
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Updating per day sounds good. I'm about to go out right now and see what's going to happen!
/r/seduction18/09/14 10:27 PM
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Always remember this. Woman may be confusing as hell, but if she's in a relationship with you she wants to do those things.. you just have to enable it!
/r/seduction18/09/14 09:52 PM
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This is not a challenge to SLEEP with as much as woman as possible. This is for yourself and your self confidence. This will DRASTICALLY improve ANYONE'S confidence and help them grow as a person.
/r/seduction18/09/14 07:44 PM
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Sounds good to me =D. I'll be updating as soon as I get to work. Today I'm going to the mall so lets see how it goes!
/r/seduction18/09/14 07:44 PM
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I want to hear an update from everyone. This will not only be fun but a HUGE learning experience.
/r/seduction18/09/14 06:15 PM
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I want to hear an update from everyone. This will not only be fun but a HUGE learning experience.
/r/seduction18/09/14 06:15 PM
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Thanks =D. Yeah I was really thinking to myself what would be the best way to approach a woman. I'll definitely take that advice!
/r/seduction15/09/14 07:11 PM
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To me this is the way I handle rejection. The girls you randomly meet or rejected by you'll NEVER meet again in your life, NEVER(well most likely). People have types just like you, if a girl were to come up to you and you weren't interested it's nothing personal it's just something you don't like. I've been rejected plenty of times and to me I have the mentality of who cares, their are billions of other woman in the world, all those rejections you face their will ALWAYS be the one that counts. O…
/r/seduction02/09/14 08:14 PM
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