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Lean in close, gaze seductively in his eyes… loudly boo him. Just cOmMuNiCaTe !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 02:16 AM
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”Feelings are overwhelming for me”. Boo hoo big boy! I wish he would own it and take responsibility for his own shit. What about her feelings? He wasn’t overwhelmed when he wanted sex or hesitant of confrontation enough to tell her take a hike as soon as he got his dick wet. Many people have anxiety, miss me with that lame ass excuse! This is why we judge men by their actions and not their words. If he wanted to (treat her with respect or empathy) he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:00 PM
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It’s the audacity for me. “Girls are not machines that you put kindness coins into until sex falls out.” Edited-quote is not by Sylvia Plath my bad :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 11:23 AM
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Happy birthday darling. Love your username ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 06:46 PM
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Keep your head up and keep meticulous records! Document this and send a copy to a secure email. You need a timeline of each incident if this goes South. Grey rock him. He would love for you to get mad or upset. Let’s call this what it is-bullying! Above all do not quit. If you are fired-you can sue for unfair dismissal. Women are rare in your industry, you will win. Glad your manager has your back on this occasion, this won’t always be the case. Same with HR. They are there for the company and n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 08:34 AM
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Does her sorority have a TEAM DAD doing unpaid work to support the girls? She will look back at this and cringe 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:23 PM
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Emotional abuse is still abuse. I feel so sad for her and her son-who is at risk of treating her the same when he grows up if things don’t change. Her husband has literal contempt for her. No wonder she is sad and stressed. He knows he is less than deep down and has to drag her down to his level somehow. Unsurprisingly he doesn’t want her to level up and get an objective opinion or advice from a therapist! 🚩 Run girl !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:11 PM
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Like never food shopping on an empty stomach. Drop the hand before a date 😂 To each their own!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 11:58 PM
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Imagine being in agony and vulnerable with limited communication skills. Her boyfriend gaslit her, dismissed her pain and then abandoned her. Then he has the audacity to bitch about it to friends and Reddit-the complete lack of empathy and self awareness is wild. But she’s like soo sensitive guys 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 10:29 AM
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I am so sorry, you deserve better. You are not stupid, it takes courage to be vulnerable. He has showed you who he is. Believe him. You don’t need a cruel and selfish life partner. Duplicitous coward! You could have been tied to this man for the next 18+ years. You are free. I wish you healing ❤️‍🩹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 11:43 AM
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They love all Greek mythology yet they’re so homophobic? Bit ironic 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:40 PM
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Clown school is in session 🤡 It is profoundly unfair that we have birth control for men and they won’t accept the same risks we take for granted. These dopes are going to give women HPV or chlamydia. Imagine disrupting your PH and risking cancer and infertility for men with these values. Also, anyone who spells ‘ur’ and ‘babys’ is not exactly the gene pool we want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:39 PM
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For a fun and creative gift she should hire a butler in the buff! Nothing says ‘spouse appreciation’ like a topless sex worker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 12:06 AM
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A woman his own age has more sense than to tolerate being shushed when tHe MaN is speaking. Which is why he wants someone barely legal to make him feel important and worldly. If a friend did this to her, she wouldn’t tolerate the disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:06 PM
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‘Barely legal’ is a porn category. Remember when there was a countdown in the media until certain celebrities were 18? Britney, Bella Thorne and Emma Watson come to mind. Note that this is not done for male celebrities turning 18. Their perversion is so normalised and it shouldn’t be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:58 AM
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Do not invest time or emotional labour for potential. Financial independence is key to protecting yourself from LVM. No indentured servitude. No scrubs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:02 AM
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The woman was too stunned to speak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:32 PM
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No no-‘poosy’! Proving he has very little irl experiences with vulvas/vaginas. They tell on themselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:14 PM
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The projection is strong with this one, more snark than actual satire. We want men who respect us as actualised beings and to plan and pay for a nice date. To meet us at our level, that’s it. It has never been about bagging a rich man or Versace labels. FDS is clear having money doesn’t equal a high value man. We actively advocate for financial independence. Some men are simply too cheap or slovenly and lack basic life skills. Its easier to mock us than to reflect on their romantic/physical/work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:59 PM
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This is some handmaids tale internalised misogyny thinking for real. This is embarrassing, how is she not embarrassed?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:23 AM
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Dating is fun but stay woke. Read the FDS guide. I don’t date anyone in my work field or too local so if it goes pear shaped it won’t impact my life negatively. This man was chasing me for months, I went there and as soon as we had sex I could palpably feel him losing interest, literally in me! In his eyes he had ‘won’ by bedding me and the thrill was over instead of just beginning for him. Thank you, next. Men spend so much time ‘performing’ their masculinity they don’t invest the time into cre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:54 AM
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Don’t sh*t where you eat. It’s conquest culture. They lose interest in you with every thrust. They get their ego stroked by bragging to ‘the boys’ for validation! Totally gay, yet they’re so homophobic? Men crave the approval of other men more than they care about the woman/person they just had the intimate encounter with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:41 AM
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No effort= no entry ⛔️ Good for her! She’s literally instructed him gently how she likes (and needs) to be touched. He cares about his pleasure above all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:13 PM
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You are not overreacting at all. This was straight up inappropriate and unprofessional. He should have had a female or chaperone present while doing the ultrasound for your comfort. He should not have bough up such personal questions where you were so vulnerable and exposed. Please make a complaint. Document this and insist on a female staff member to be present next time. Imagine how many people have had the same experience. Words matter and he used the wrong ones. His training taught him bette…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 10:54 AM
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Not enough men are policing other men period. Not enough men are talking about this. This is happening a lot where I live. They create and maintain rape culture under the guise of “banter”. Women should not have to take so many measures for our safety. Men should just leave us alone. From covering shoulders in schools and churches to wearing jackets in clubs. Stop policing US. We are not the problem! It’s not that hard to learn to approach us politely and read cues (and listen) that we’re not in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:16 AM
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Don’t trip over a face you’ve already sat on. Thank you, next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:39 PM
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This reminds me of Ali Wong joking she thought she bagged an Ivy League genius. He needed HER for her ‘tv money’ to pay HIS debts. The money pales in comparison to the time and youth you would have wasted on him. A small price to pay. Also a major red flag he’s trying to control you under the guise of ‘house rules’. The audacity to infantilise you in your own home. He wants control over you and your finances. 🚩 Also, this is not your fault and it sucks. Highly educated often means duplicitous fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:02 AM
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I have literally gotten UTIs from dirty d*ck. Wash your hands and teeth. You learn this at 3 years old. You don’t deserve intimacy if you actively neglect to wash!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:31 PM
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Please revive me for I am deceased ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:05 PM
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Are men too comfortable sharing their head-ass opinions nobody asked for? I need to find a void to shriek this into: WE DO NOT CARE! Maybe if women didn’t have to do the lions share of housework, childcare, emotional labour ETC we wouldn’t be so tired. It doesn’t matter what your “ETC” is. This man is a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:02 PM
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Thank you lovely ❤️ I’m a work in progress but trying to level up using the handbook as a guide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:48 PM
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Talk to your wife bro. Jesus Christ!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:20 PM
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Oh my god I’m so f**king sick of amazing thriving women settling for ambivalent men! Men benefit universally from marriage. Women do not and will take on more housework & childcare even if they’re the breadwinner. Know your worth. You are the prize. Vet continually. Do not give him wife benefits with a girlfriend title or you will forever be that. If he wanted to marry you-he would. With a well planned ring and proposal. SMH. Buy yourself a beautiful ring as a future heirloom instead!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:24 PM
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Instead of calling for help (or you know helping themselves) they’d quickly post on multiple subs for validation that they in fact are not the asshole 😂 If they refuse to row and they perish? That’s on them. Natural selection tbh. Love your name too. Moss is magical!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:40 PM
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Put these men in a barge and push them out to sea. She needs to give him 30 days to find a job and act right or he’s out. The levels of disrespect and audacity are off the scale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:55 PM
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It’s borrowed but accurate! It’s a book title and quote by Gloria Steinem. Worth a read :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:56 PM
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Micro dosing hell by being attracted to men! Am I right? I don’t think a single one of us has escaped unscathed from our experiences with men. I date and vet according to FDS principles. It’s a form of self-awareness. Having boundaries and standards protects you. If he wanted to, he would. If he can’t meet you where you’re at, bye. His loss. It’s not misandry or militant to define yourself as not being a doormat. Is is truly wild how society conditions women to be smaller and accept crumbs. We a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:09 PM
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How bizarre. Men can’t even wash their asses yet possess this level of confidence. This is why FDS does not let negging or any attempts to degrade us fly. Leave at the first sign of disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:31 PM
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”Porn isn’t that deep to men, they’re simple creatures.” Simply depraved more like! Getting aroused by violence and degradation. Porn is so exploitative. Most men literally do not care. Don’t have long conversations with him. He will justify his problem until it becomes a ‘you’ problem. You’re not insecure. He’s an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:04 PM
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So true. Do not give them the script to play and potentially manipulate you! He will tell you what he knows you want to hear and pretend to be what you are seeking. Genuine men will take the time to find out organically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:59 PM
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Truly cowardly. Imagine how many times the maintenance guy has done that in others women’s homes? Men need to gatekeep men and call each other out. He rewarded his boundary crossing and creeping with a delicious cup of coffee and zero consequences. Pathetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:46 PM
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I could be wrong but this sounds like you were the identified patient in a dysfunctional family. Basically you became the scapegoat or black sheep when the issue all along was a dysfunctional dynamic or a narcissist parent. This video explains it a bit better. IPs represent lol 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:22 AM
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A few years ago my auntie explained the reason for her divorce with the phrase he liked to invest in families. Meaning he’d try and get as many women as possible pregnant so he’d feel more important and virile. It wasn’t enough for him to cheat. He wanted children from different women like prize show dogs. Men want the support and benefits of children without doing the hard work mothers have to do. Society praises the family man. They get clout and more resources from it. It feeds their ego to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:47 AM
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A man being less attractive does not automatically make him a safe option. This is why we need to keep our physical standards unashamedly high and not date ugly slovenly men. This scrote is morbidly obese, likely not being regularly STD tested and STILL thinks he deserves better i.e. thinner more attractive women than his current (mythical) rotation. No mention of him satisfying his partners sexually, only what they can do for him. Nice for what 2021. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:00 AM
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The NYT is trash for this. This is what we mean when we say women are socially conditioned to marry someone and not ‘be’ someone. Cultural misogyny at its finest. “She didn’t talk about herself”-how the hell does that make her “unpretentious”? He’s a total narcissist. Imagine going on a date, getting monologued to and not being asked a single question? He is not a prize. I hope she has a pre-nup or post-nup. She’ll need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:32 AM
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So manipulative and predatory. Total Ted Bundy scam acting injured and harmless. Thinks a 17 year is “a good age” for his old ass. He could be making assumptions about her needing cash as she’s thrifting (I also thrift for environmental reasons etc. so no hate). Who needs to hire a teen girl for their remote farm hand? Also notice how he asks if she’s engaged i.e. another mans property. What a scrote. The bar is in hell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 11:22 AM
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Women are not rehabilitation centres for men! She should have blocked him at the first sign of disrespect. Him calling her a c*nt and doing a line of naughty salt is telling on himself. Low value behaviour. Also the “I want to apologise and possibly more lol!” line- the more being get some ass and save face on his part. If men don’t respect your time or energy when trying to woo you-they will only get worse with time. Vet aggressively ladies. They don’t deserve a justification or explanation. Bl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 08:49 AM
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Or something food related like Pizza Hut ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 10:07 PM
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I recommend reverse imaging searching their photo on google. If they’ve used it elsewhere or if they’re a catfish you’ll know. Go on private browser and search their LinkedIn (make sure you are not logged into yours or you’ll get caught creeping!). If they mention Snapchat (which FDS is against!) play it coy and ask their name and say you’ll add them. Then google their username. If they’ve posted to sites or subs looking for whatever- their comments will show up. I was in a LDR with a man and wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 06:10 PM
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Support needed how ironic 🤡 Support for his bruised ego and lack of self-awareness perhaps? He states he is a ‘successful tech guy’ and doesn’t care about ‘material possessions’. So why the need to clarify he has money? He calls her ‘shallow’ for not sleeping with him literally on the floor. Where his standards are clearly. Don’t get it twisted-read his comments. He is mad he didn’t get to f@@k her. Not for her expecting him to have a bed-frame like a functional adult. This speaks volumes about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:47 PM
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Allegedly he also vapes and wears earphones during sex. How selfish and lazy. I literally couldn’t think of a more depressing way to be intimate. No affection, no loving touches, no respect for your partner. Just a warm body for his old gratification. He is ageing like milk also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 05:27 PM
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He expects perfect obedience but can’t even spell? He is the moldy one. Escort me to the vomitorium please. A modern narcissist-uncomfortable with intimacy and pornsick too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 10:31 AM
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One of us, ONE OF US
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:43 PM
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I have no issue with people being invested in their faith or wanting to meet like minded people? I agree similar values are key to good relationships. My issue is men who use the power structure and social capital of the church to their own advantage or to fwd their own agenda. He is a serial cheater and divorced. He is not a good dude by all accounts. He is not a good Christian either being a sanctimonious hypocrite. Is she successful in her own right-yes. But she’s anchored to a low value man.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:34 PM
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Even if it is satire it’s very telling IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:21 PM
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Agreed, he is a bad egg. His comment on a beautiful healthy daughter also sits wrong with me. His first son has some health issues and he allegedly cheated on Anna regularly instead of stepping up and supporting her. You can’t outsource being a good guy with cash. It’s all optics for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:59 AM
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It also annoys him that she chews her food? The food that she likely shopped for, prepped and cooked. If my future husband ever puts his ear pods in his ears instead of enjoying the dinner and my company-I would rather eat alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:55 AM
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I can’t figure out how to add to my post, my bad. I saw this screenshot elsewhere on Reddit but it fits here as a reminder. Some red flags to observe 🚩 -Religion is by men for men. -Age gap relationship. -She runs their life yet he is ‘the head of the household’. -Being rich and successful did not make him act right-he cheated on his ex Anna Faris when they were married with a sick child. -Her family name and connections made her extra shiny and attractive to him. -‘Godly men’ love subservient w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:27 AM
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Men of value are not predators so let’s start with that. This is LVM fiction, right down to the last comment. I used to tell older men who hit on me I was only 14 and would call the police if they continued, worked until my early 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:54 PM
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He didn’t care about her so much she lives rent free in his head years later…right. Research proves that many previously choked by an intimate partner (cough BDSM/rough sex) are more likely to escalate that violence into more extreme acts. She was just a warm body to him. Men will f*ck women they hate. FDS won’t date men who won’t meet us half way and we get bombarded with hate. Such a double standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 08:59 AM
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As FDS wisdom decrees: they tell on themselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 12:40 AM
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Most men ‘don’t know’ any rapists because if they had to reflect they would likely find themselves in that category. Most women have been or know a woman that’s been assaulted. Verbal consent to sex does not mean he had a free pass to roughly assault you. Consent is ongoing. If it’s not a hell yeah-it’s a nope or a stop to events. I am so sorry. It’s a reflection of his poor character and lack of humanity, not yours. The shame is his. We’re conditioned from birth to be grateful for male attentio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:14 PM
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The kind of men that ask this question bring only their audacity to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:37 PM
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Let’s file this under ‘basic life skills I refuse to teach a man’. It’s rude he doesn’t give a single f about her comfort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:12 PM
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Or better men to do if we do our vetting correctly 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 09:05 PM
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I don’t know which is the original but another queen has posted it on the main page: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qgcy5s/woman_comments_we_stan_a_short_king_on_random/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Mods: please remove if I’m not allowed to link to another post on this page :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 09:02 PM
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The answer? Desist! Sometimes I wonder what is wrong with them gestures at men. Then I wonder what is wrong with me for trying to date them 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:45 PM
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It’s not fine. He wasted her time and money and it was premeditated. This is why FDS advocates for not being a chump and being selective with your time and energy. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:12 PM
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I am cackling. Definitely going to use the ‘huh’ one. I saw a woman on IG who comments “you bald” or “short king” on random misogynistic men’s live streams. They hit the roof and take the bait every time. Hilarious how they’re meant to be the ‘rational’ gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:39 AM
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You just know he thinks all female body hair is disgusting or unhygienic too. Doesn’t apply to his unkempt beard and nails obviously because he’s not an “emasculated man-boy”!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:30 AM
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If he wants an amenable travel companion I would suggest a dog? However, his dirty nails lead me to believe this would be unfair on the dog. Imagine having to state you “make bank” in order to attract A-B-C women. Presumably ranked by bra size? Great, today in inanimate objects we’re being reduced to-cup sizes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:27 AM
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Major key: do not give them the script to play you and manipulate you! So often men ask specifically what kind of relationship and man you’re seeking-they don’t want to find out organically. They want to manipulate you into spilling your guts so they can mould themselves into that character until they get what they want or get bored. They want an ego stroke above all. Keep your wits about you ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 06:56 AM
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This woman’s house is decorated with red flag bunting 🚩 He told a baby to shut up. Let that sink in. His baby! He tells her to f*ck off and criticises her appearance. Yet he wants more kids. What’s the bets once she has another he’ll leave her for a younger model? She deserves better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 09:06 PM
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Give them a google number. If they demand your address just give the map coordinates of the local comedy club and tell them to text you when they arrive. If they want to act like clowns, so be it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:06 AM
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I work with a number of physicians and they all take off their wedding rings on work trips. Glued to their phones for entire journeys. They are surprisingly reckless with their health and especially their sexual health. I wear a ring and pretend to be married to be afforded some respect. It sickens me I have to do this. I also work with a Reproductive Endocrinologist. He insists all patients get full panel STD tests in-house as he doesn’t trust men not to cheat. Literally pretends their results …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:59 AM
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So true. Boys are taught to become somebody, girls are taught to find somebody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:49 PM
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Learn how to magnetise men Perhaps if they were stuck to fridges they might reevaluate how they treat women? If not, hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 11:04 PM
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This is why you do the blood in the water test. You drop a hint about a flaw or insecurity (eg not confident about hair, boobs etc.) Men thrive on us sharing our trauma so use something you are not insecure about, that you like about yourself. High standards and strong boundaries are needed or they will steam roll you and insist you asked for it. You then wait and see if they exploit that fake insecurity and neg you. You insult their virility subtly-then you block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 12:30 PM
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My friends husband has 3 kids by 3 exes and a very blended family. Every Christmas, birthday, big day out is such a huge ordeal to keep everyone feeling like they have ‘won’ the negotiation. It adds a huge strain to my my friends life. Especially when he jokes about making her 4x4 if they ever break up. She knew what she was signing up for, but it is very hard for her in reality. This has taught me that choosing your partner is one of the most important decisions you will make as a women. Would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 04:11 PM
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I’ve missed this sub. It’s such a balm to the constant cultural misogyny we’re subjected to. Welcome back queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:38 AM
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I read this and was like what woman is 6-7 feet tall? Hmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:54 PM
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“PG-13 with all others. R-XXX w/me”. Sir, your Madonna-Whore complex is showing. Yawns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:52 PM
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I thought this was satire and was waiting for the punchline. Glad I’ve levelled up from excusing low value interactions with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:06 PM
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Exactly. “Safe just in case of divorce” smacks of keeping his options open down the line for a younger replacement too. I’m sure he’d be enraged if his wife put half her salary into her personal account ‘just in case’. They are married for years but it’s his money only? Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:20 PM
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WoMeN r GoLD DiGgInG wHoReS ! All right Steve. Go off. Hide your money from your wife who I’m sure excels you in every way. Some men are truly selfish and transactional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:14 PM
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Local man discovers effort ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:16 AM
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Please prioritise your happiness. Plan your exit. He is leeching the life and joy from you. You look after 3 children essentially and shoulder all of the emotional labour and financial strain. Your post is filled with excuses to minimise his low effort. He is a full grown man. You are not his keeper or carer. Who is looking after you and supporting you? Its blatantly not him sis. You are the main character and deserve better. Do not play a supporting role in the story of your one life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:30 AM
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A lot of criminologist think he was a repeat offender. This could be the tip of the iceberg. There is always an escalation of deviant behaviour. A horrendous reminder never to let yourself be detained or arrested by a lone police officer. Demand they radio for another officer, scream and make a scene so passers by will film you, resist arrest, do whatever it takes to avoid being moved to a 2nd location. Men are depraved. Police are no different. May she rest in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:03 AM
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Ladies, internalise the misogyny mmkk? The man has spoken. He will keep you warm with gaslighting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:36 PM
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This is why I say men can’t even find the clit with diagrams. It doesn’t occur to them that you come i.e. cum, first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:23 PM
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Every single shorter man I’ve given the time of day to romantically had major Napoleon syndrome. Starting a fight or having words for any perceived slight. Height was never the problem, their attitude was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:00 PM
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I’m 5’9 but have a ‘6’0 attitude’ apparently. These type of comments are a neg. They feel bad about their height and it’s all projection!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:30 PM
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The “How sorry is he?” Special. Adding indiscreet insult to injury by putting her on blast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:07 PM
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“Yall always trying to put us down and make us look worse” Read a history book for f*ck sake! Or you know, your whole tirade against us? He fears gold diggers and being played by evil ‘females’. Rejection above all deep down. We fear being stalked, raped, domestic violence and losing our bodily autonomy. My heart bleeds for this excuse of a man-jk. More guys than us is not the flex he thinks it is either. Men would stick their dick in cold beans to get off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:39 PM
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Her logic is if they won’t take the time or effort to find the clt-she will make them truly *waste their time looking for the shoe 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:28 PM
77

I have a friend who does this on one nights stands when the man doesn’t care about her pleasure or make any effort to make her c*m. She takes a left shoe! I’m not saying it’s right, but I do understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:00 PM
12

They tell on themselves. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:59 AM
19

Women don’t view loving and supporting their man as purely transactional. That’s the difference. 50/50 can take a hike when I get paid less for doing the same job and I pay pink tax. Can he go 50/50 on pregnancy? Does he pay 50/50 for our birth control? Makeup-hair-cute shoes and outfit costs for a dusty cheap coffee date? No thank you sir!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:17 PM
350

No is a complete sentence. I refuse to justify/over explain or do any extra emotional labour. Awkward silences are my new kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:43 PM
626

Big solid *breats* Like bags of sand?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:53 PM
126

I advise all the women in my life to attend female mental health professionals only if possible. I refuse to pay to listen to a man when all healthcare is catered to them! Don’t believe me-check out this book Invisible Women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:56 PM
41

Nope. I hope it ruined Christmas more than their dry ass turkey tbh :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 02:02 AM
124

For a low price I will pose as a couples counsellor and tell your man he ain’t sh*t lol 💡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:39 AM
120

Ladies, I slept on it in stunned silence. Then broke it off and blocked him. I sent the screenshots to his mom and sister and wished them both well. It was frightening as he was such a kind seemingly HV man. I was blindsided. We both applied for the volunteering project and he was rejected. He was seething and pretending everything was ok for months like a sociopath-all the while resenting me. He picked a day he knew I was emotionally & physically exhausted to tell me all of this. He showed me w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:13 AM
695

I was volunteering abroad (responsibly working with local grass roots orgs) and he told me not to get r*ped or he would never touch me again. Those few words spoke volumes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 04:53 PM
56

They think the price of dinner and giving us HPV are equitable 🚩 Pay for my lasagne sir or see yourself out and let me dine in peace!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 04:38 PM
16

Man gets 4 years of jail time for strangling vulnerable woman to death. Fixed the headline. Heartbroken for her kids and family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:19 PM
35

Mods please keep up the good work! Men can’t find the clit with literal diagrams. The only thing this man can hunt is pizza. Fingers crossed he has a machete accident soon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:21 PM
130

He literally belonged to the streets-he is not the prize! I wonder if a male specific term for goldigger exists? Men will mine every resource imaginable from women. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:30 PM
71

I think a fundamental issue is they don’t want to level the playing field. Even good men benefit from the actions of bad men by being ‘not terrible’ in comparison. Our being afraid and being careful only benefits them and their historical claim to what should be shared space. In my country our parliament has two bars and no child changing facilities. No crèche. Speaks volumes. It literally didn’t occur to them that half the population are women and now they get fined for a lack of female represe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:25 PM
149

Yet some men are too disgusted or embarrassed to buy menstrual products for their partners/daughters? Make it make sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:25 PM
453

Manipulative narcissists will always find a way to play the victim. He can’t fathom the consequences of his own actions? F*ck around and find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:57 AM
91

I like to ask ”What was your thought process behind that?” Your facial expression can be blank, baffled or disgusted depending on the context of the ‘joke’ etc. They wild fold, bluster off or mansplain to justify their tomfoolery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:48 AM
63

They are terrified to be alone with themselves and single long term. They do this because they think it makes them ‘win’ the breakup. Let’s them avoid any introspection. Most move on super quick to the next just to be partnered but will hit you up when lonely or horny for months. Most women take time to be alone and deal with the breakup-then move on and date when they’re ready not to drag old shit into a new relationship. Just my opinion. They need the ego stimulation the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:57 AM
36

My friends and I send each other books and flowers randomly as we’re currently all long distance. Why not value platonic love and friendship too?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:10 PM
184

This is not build a bastard. Level up for you. He is a narcissist LVM. He followed the pattern of Idealise (love bomb), devalue, discard. He doesn’t care about her love and support, only himself and the type of woman he believes his income justifies. I want to hug her and get her therapy for codependency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:49 PM
12

Nah. This ain’t it sis. People deserve healthcare and empathy at every size. This kind of thinking shames women (or anyone who identifies as female) into not accessing health care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:36 AM
9

Man fails to satisfy his wife sexually and finds a way to blame women. Legitimises his opinion with a professional qualification. Bla bla bla. We do not exist for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:24 AM
70

I empathise. Right now I’m in a state of mind where men aren’t entitled to touch me. You can tell when they want to bend you into a pretzel and have sex ‘at’ you rather than ‘with’ you. Everyone should learn how to ring the devils doorbell. Love yourself, literally!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:38 PM
37

Can’t make a housewife out of a hoe? No sir. Can’t make a fiancé out of a fuckboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:27 PM
115

Rejected women level up. Rejected man lash out. Women are not god damn rehabilitation therapists and sex workers that men ‘deserve’ for existing. Ugh. The sympathy for him is pathetic, misplaced and frankly-galling. Society has no issue labelling women as crazy or psycho-where is the care from our mental health?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:54 PM
123

Can we please stop dressing up violence as erotica! You can be sexually adventurous without being abused in the name of ‘kink’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:25 PM
85

Where is the lie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 02:02 PM
181

High standards protect you from low quality experiences. Temporary loneliness is better than settling. Men aged 30 do not want to date their age in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:19 AM
104

Let’s call them what they truly are: hobosexuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:02 PM
50

I’m cracking up at being collectively called ”stout bitches” ! The classic neg in a fight is commenting on physical appearances. Never mind if they could see us they would beg us to sit on their faces or some such. They want to invade our spaces and hate f*uck us so bad. In the words of Borat, their low value king: “You will never get this. LA LA LA LA LA!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:11 AM
33

This is a lesson, not a life sentence. Please allow yourself some self-compassion and forgive yourself!You were a teen and an adult man groomed you. Screenshot what you can and save to a secure drive-get him for CP*rn IF it ever leaks. Do not mentally torture yourself revisiting this-go fourth and thrive free from this NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:52 PM
185

Christ alive :( How do we “hate men” if we’re trying to date them? The clue is in the name!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:07 PM
50

The audacity! Imagine taking a vow to stand by your woman in sickness and health and his biggest concern is her weight? She growing a whole ass human. He doesn’t care about her mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:56 PM
189

Never forget women are the product being sold in online dating. Sick of bad dates I considered signing up to a match making agency where you pay €900 for FIVE dates. They do the vetting for you. Before I paid I did some research and I listened to this matchmakers podcast out of interest. Shocker-he was a total misogynist. His pick me wife even works for him shilling their ‘success story’. He said his most successful client was a broke, balding obese single-dad with 3 kids in his thirties. Appare…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 03:50 PM
201

Smile sweetly and comment ”My bloodline dies with me” OR ”I don’t want kids out of wedlock” Both make their brains explode. Don’t expand on either point any further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 12:29 PM
19

Reminds me of the Cool Girl Monologue from Gone Girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:38 PM
106

“What am I a stranger?!” ☠️ so many tactics to manufacture intimacy and escalate physical touch. We should all be proud we have progressed and levelled up. I can’t believe I used to let mf like this in my space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:04 AM
77

“The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off” Keep your head and standards high. We didn’t make it through the pandemic apocalypse to settle for mediocrity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:35 PM
100

She has the word wife in her flair/user name. Total pick-me. What’s worse is nearly 25 thousand people liked her statement too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:15 PM
431

If it’s so romantic for both parties why don’t men want to experience it? Strap-ons exist! They get a kick out of it being degrading, don’t romanticise rough face-f***ing 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:19 AM
47

She’d be filthy rich if she charged him for her emotional labour. You can’t fix a mean man 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:20 PM
103

Why do so many women think they need to accept violent sex now? This is not normal and a huge red flag for pornsick men 🚩 How did literal violence become an acceptable sexual template? :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:43 PM
75

The definition of “f*ck around & find out”. Neither is she responsible for him (not) graduating-that’s on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:59 PM
804

Men are obsessed with humbling women. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:53 PM
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