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Funnily enough I was suppose to meet her as well at a jazz bar when she was considering a college I went to. I did try to come up with something funny to say but realized it might not be the best idea. Having had a chance to meet a few celebs in the past I figured it's always best to not even mention it and treat them like any other person. They are probably tired of these same reactions and questions everywhere they go.
/r/seduction05/12/11 04:07 AM
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I suppose they might find your sophisticated look a bit more intimidating. For example it seems easier to speak to a regular girl than somebody who is dressed up like they are attending Oscars. I'm from England. For the last 8 odd years I've been out clubbing/baring almost every week and I've never seen a girl hand out her number to anyone by herself. I think women are a bit more conservative here whereas american chicks are go getters.
/r/seduction28/11/11 02:02 PM
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Maybe it's not your looks but the attitude and behaviour that comes with it? Have you tried acting like a bad boy while dressing smart? I noticed that people treat you much better when you suit up. You get more smiles, quicker service, more people approach and speak to you. Every time I wear a hoodie I get the opposite. I suppose there might be a cultural clash. Girls don't hand out their numbers here either.
/r/seduction28/11/11 03:18 AM
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Weed used to make too slow and too chill to give a fuck about anything. It's difficult to meet women when you are sitting in the corner quietly giggling about the most random shit. Unless you are one of those people who can be fully functional on weed, I would not do it.
/r/seduction26/11/11 02:29 AM
1

Some good points here, thanks!
/r/seduction15/11/11 09:58 PM
-1

I think I'm an excellent wing because besides from a few experiments I carried out I only ever encourage him to pick up chicks and I always deal with their friends if he decides to isolate. This is probably why I'm his favourite person to go on a pull with. I'm not hating on him, I hate the current situation. A few years ago I realized that jealousy is a weakness and it does not lead to anything good so I always try not to make others jealous and look for sighs of jealousy in myself in order to …
/r/seduction15/11/11 05:12 PM
1

I know what I'll do. I'll swap some of the nights out for gym and use that frustration to motivate myself to become better, slimmer, happier.
/r/seduction15/11/11 04:02 PM
2

The opposite works better for me. After not fapping for a week I make sure I go out on my testosterone peak and then I'm fearless. When it comes to cuming early try training your PC muscles. Not only you'll be able to have multiple orgasms without cuming, you'll be able to stop yourself from blowing your load early. It's the same muscles you use to stop yourself from pissing half way. All they need is a bit of training.
/r/seduction15/11/11 03:59 PM
2

I might order some right now :D I get sushi cravings if I don't have it at least once a week.
/r/seduction15/11/11 03:23 PM
6

TIL: There is a pre-sex fap. Please do explicate. PS: You are pretty young aren't you? Just judging by your language and the fact that talking about cod to a 30 year old woman might give her an impression you are into sushi.
/r/seduction15/11/11 02:51 PM
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Have you noticed how whenever you are in a relationship all of a sudden every chick you meet wants you? It's because you no longer give a fuck and you are not there to chase them. It's as if they can smell it on you.
/r/seduction24/10/11 01:56 AM
3

I posted regularly from this and another account but stopped because there is not much to talk about really. Go out, approach women, get better, feel more confident, approach more women etc. You don't need openers, you don't need advice just go and make mistakes, learn from them, keep at it and become a natural. Everyone sits on their ass and talks about seduction here while everyone who is getting laid is out getting laid. How do you get better at something? Practise! You suck at everything for…
/r/seduction12/10/11 11:35 PM
1

She does have a few interesting stories of men hitting on her from a female's point of view. Take a look at some Amazon reviews. It was worth a read but nothing exciting.
/r/seduction24/09/11 01:31 PM
1

She wrote a book on pickup from a woman's point of view which was not that great.
/r/seduction24/09/11 01:16 PM
5

I was more worried about my parents than the girls so I used to pretend to date them. My parents are pretty conservative people and I would be more worried to have them disown me.
/r/seduction01/09/11 12:20 AM
6

A bit of advice: 1) 3somes ruin relationships. It might seem like a bit of fun but various insecurities and other shit might pop up as a result. Make sure your gf is 100% cool with it. Speak to her about it. 2) 3somes are overrated. I don't know how serious it is between you and your gf but it may not be worth risking it. PS: On the other hand we only live once ey :D
/r/seduction28/08/11 03:04 AM
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From my experience this is what I no longer neg. Their work place or university/college. You can joke about their profession or what they are studying but never the establishment. I also never neg smoking or drinking. I used to call them "a dirty dirty smoker" with a huge grin on my face and that never really got me any bonus points. In fact any bad habits should be left alone. Don't fuck with their clothes either. Women spend a lot of time getting ready and making sure they look perfect. Same g…
/r/seduction28/08/11 02:57 AM
1

It's important to make eye contact whenever you are making a point/move or asking her something. Don't worry about the rest. Smirk, half smile, full smile... It's all good. Besides from that do whatever you are comfortable with. Different people have a different eye contact comfort time so it does not really matter.
/r/seduction28/08/11 02:47 AM
2

At the end of the day there are some nasty rude people out there whether you are buying a beer, sorting out car insurance or approaching a girl. They come in all sexes, ages and looks. Don't let those fuckers bring you down. Next time just laugh at her :D
/r/seduction22/08/11 02:45 AM
1

Redbull works a treat for me. I have no idea why but it makes me very sharp. I can find a perfect response to every line they throw at me instantaneously.
/r/seduction22/08/11 02:40 AM
1

I'd be prepared to change your number, identity and move if you are not planning on having a relationship with her.
/r/seduction22/08/11 02:34 AM
3

What they say on their profiles is a load of BS. I would put that as well if I was internet dating (18 to 50 just does not look normal) but that does not mean I'm not willing to go higher or lower. They also say they are looking for serious relationship etc. but by the looks of it they don't have any problems with banging some random guys now and then.
/r/seduction22/08/11 02:23 AM
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The thing about young chicks is that they have not yet experienced all the stalkers, clingers, players etc. Their bitch shields have not developed yet properly. On top of that they are not quite looking to settle down either. Direct game works a treat. Just tell them they look cute, kiss them, fuck them. Simples!
/r/seduction22/08/11 02:18 AM
1

It can be tons of things. Anything from her being a cunt to her friends hijacking her phone. I would try and guess whether she wants me to react to that text or not and do the opposite keeping in mind that I may not actually want to be associate with her after that text. Or get more clues from her with something along the lines of: "Curiosity piqued".
/r/seduction16/08/11 01:25 AM
3

Use this opportunity to give your mum a call. Keep talking for at least 30 minutes.
/r/seduction25/07/11 12:01 AM
1

It's not necessarily the method but the fact that there is a PUA trying to get in her pants. If she is able to recognize somebody as a PUA she won't go along with it out of principal. You can indeed break it down and get away with it but try telling her that you slept with 100 women and you go out every night to get laid... On a side note, you ever open your sets with magic tricks?
/r/seduction22/07/11 01:41 AM
2

Forgive my abstract choice of words for act of pickup.
/r/seduction22/07/11 01:30 AM
6

Just be yourself. Don't worry about anything. Don't be afraid. Don't give a fuck. Show your confidence. There is all there is to it. You can be loud and outgoing or you can bee cool and chilled out like Hank Moody. You can be a geek for all people care as long as you take pride in who you are and what you do regardless of what others think. PS: I know, it's easier said than done. It's not for the faint of hearted. This is why you work to develop these qualities over time.
/r/seduction20/07/11 10:27 PM
2

Good! An average redditor is a socially awkward virgin by the looks of it. You don't want their approval. The fact that they disapprove is actually good news for us. Besides, don't we preach not giving a fuck?
/r/seduction18/07/11 11:59 AM
1

She sounds pretty passive. I think you would have had different results with somebody a bit more assertive.
/r/seduction17/07/11 12:50 PM
3

Next time somebody flakes and goes MIA on you sent her a text along the lines of: "Sorry, I could not get hold of you so there was change of plans. I'll make it up to you some other time.". Whatever you say leave whatever you are doing a mystery. If she texts you half way though the night don't reply until the next day.
/r/seduction16/07/11 04:48 PM
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You are out and about when all of a sudden you see a good looking girl. She looks at you and smiles. You think to yourself: "I need to approach" and you do this within 3 seconds. Basically the longer you take to "man up" and approach, the less likely you are to actually do it. You are less likely to get into a set of mind where you start wondering and asking yourself: "What if?". If you don't hesitate you can't appear hesitant either.
/r/seduction15/07/11 12:48 PM
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It does not matter what you say. I've opened chicks with some ridiculous nonsense before and it worked out just fine. You're supposed to have something ready and awesome to say Oh no no no :( Conversations never go the way you would expect them to. You can approach a girl with something prepared but what are you going to do when she says something you did not expect? What if she gives you a shit test right there and then and you just lock up? Do you need more than 3 seconds to formulate a senten…
/r/seduction15/07/11 12:20 AM
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Back in the days we would get together and point out hot chicks to each other. The other day I'm at the bar chatting to somebody and notice a table of 4 guys sitting there, staring at all women that walk in, giving them a grin and telling their friends something along the lines of: "Oh yea, look at her, she is so hot" and "I'd bag that one". I thought to myself, oh this is exactly what we used to do! And then I realized why I'm chatting to a hot chick and they are sitting down and spotting chick…
/r/seduction14/07/11 09:37 PM
2

Yea, I would have tapped her as well. I don't hit on married or engaged chicks but if they hit on me, I give them some with clear conscious. If she does that to you, she does that to everyone. She probably cheated on her fiancée/husband already and will do it again too.
/r/seduction14/07/11 04:38 PM
3

Here is what I realized having dated a few very beautiful chicks and having approached some taken chicks myself... Beautiful women get hit on and approached all the time. They may like you, they may even be in love with you but as long as other good looking and sufisticated men keep on hitting on them they will always be thinking at the back of their head... I could be with him or him, have I made the right choice? And if you relax and let yourself go eventually it will sink in. By the way, I'm …
/r/seduction13/07/11 12:43 AM
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being in my own reality, but not in my head This is it. On a good night you don't think about saying this or doing that. You just go with it and it always works out better than if you were to follow some sort of routine. It also shows you are on the right tracks.
/r/seduction12/07/11 07:21 PM
1

Every day I learn something new. Imaginery fluff is a great idea. You can even stroke it out of her hair.
/r/seduction12/07/11 07:17 PM
2

Once you hooked up with a chick and got hold of her contact details you simply arrange to meet. Take them out or move on. You are not looking for pen pals, entertainment or somebody to play online games with. You already hooked up. By having those meaningless conversations on FB you are moving backwards. You ask for their contact details to take things forwards. And the last thing you want is to be turned into a friendzoned rant/cry shoulder on FB.
/r/seduction11/07/11 06:42 PM
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If I come there won't be any women left for you :P I'll stick to England for now.
/r/seduction09/07/11 02:13 PM
2

I always imagined you looking like Quagmire. It would be cool to put a face to your name. But it's cool if you would rather stay anonymous.
/r/seduction09/07/11 02:36 AM
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No shit Sherlock. It's like going to a hospital and telling everyone there that healthy people don't need hospitals.
/r/seduction08/07/11 03:34 PM
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If an AFC approaches a girl I'm out with I'll be on his ass in no time. I won't be aggressive but I will definitely bust his balls a bit. I think everyone should do this. There is however a difference between aggressively protecting somebody or being intimidating and establishing who the alpha is and making it clear that they are invading your party. It's a shit test for bros. If they pass and they seem like a fun person then they can stay, have a drink, have a laugh and I'll even introduce them…
/r/seduction07/07/11 11:17 PM
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Do your friends ever wonder where all those beautiful women come from yet they never see you with them? Also, what happens if you end up starting a serious relationship with a girl and she wonder who all these women are? I'm sure this does work but do you really want to be doing this? Hmmm...
/r/seduction05/07/11 01:54 PM
1

Just friendzone her they way women friendzone us. I started doing that myself and it actually works pretty well.
/r/seduction04/07/11 07:40 PM
0

It's usually the other way around here. The second you sleep with a girl they want to date you. Either that or they want to date you before sleeping with you.
/r/seduction03/07/11 07:19 PM
3

That's a good point. I just thought about it. Does anyone remember from the top of your head any embarassing situations that your friends have been in? I certainly can't think of any. But we all probably have those random nighmares when you suddenly remember an embarassing or fucked up situation you were in years ago. I guess it's the same with fucking up your approach.
/r/seduction03/07/11 03:22 PM
2

My friend and I were thinking about creating a fake modeling or even adult modeling type of website, filling it up with random pictures, making a bunch of great looking business cards, renting out a sweet looking office room once a month and holding fake auditions. The plan was to end up surrounded by beautiful women willing to do anything to get that job. Or something along the lines. My friend got married before we had a chance to do it. Yet again it was one of those "Let's buy a nightclub" ty…
/r/seduction03/07/11 03:16 PM
-2

How big is your bucket?
/r/seduction01/07/11 02:43 PM
1

Ha I've go to remember this one. :D
/r/seduction01/07/11 02:40 PM
9

I see what you mean. I hate that too. You basically end up competing against your buddies and some of them may have better luck that night which can be a bit of a mood killer. I personally just separate myself from the group whenever I need to make an approach. I can later on introduce the girl to the rest of the group and with some bro code in place nobody will try and steal your girl. Otherwise, if you meet chicks as a group usually the conversation initiator/loudest person gets all the attent…
/r/seduction01/07/11 11:55 AM
3

Now the trick is to keep at it, stay consistent and build your confidence even more. Soon you won't be describing yourself as shy.
/r/seduction01/07/11 11:36 AM
13

Oh yea. Once you have the balls to approach random women you won't have any problems approaching everyone else and because you can apply certain aspects of game to pretty much anyone you will soon find people genuinely liking you and doing things for you, you never thought they would. You can tell a girl you think she is cute and crack a joke or you can tell some random dude you like his bike and crack a joke. Both will start to like you. Just to give a few examples we now get served pretty much…
/r/seduction30/06/11 01:36 PM
1

I personally think that jealousy in you is a weakness and jealousy in others is dangerous. I try not to make others jealous and I avoid being jealous myself. I agree with OP about encouraging certain behaviour that may make your jealous. Not only they will stop acting that way, you will also feel better about it yourself because you are the one who suggested it. Like, a girl you are in an open relationship with tells you how some dude took her out for a nice dinner, tell her she should blow him.…
/r/seduction29/06/11 04:00 PM
1

First of all there are two types of eye contact. Casual, when your eyes meet for a fraction of a second like you would with any stranger and sexual where you would maintain eye contact a bit longer and smile. It's OK to casually look at people but never give chicks that sexual eye contact multiple times. If she responds well to the initial sexual eye contact you approach right away and whatever you do, don't start giving her prolonged eye contact over and over again unless you want to freak her …
/r/seduction28/06/11 04:11 PM
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If you decide to walk away don't go back to her. Either walk away for good or until she comes to you. When she tells you you need to do more to impress her ask yourself what an alpha would do/think. Why should you impress her? What will you get out of it? Why is it YOU who has to impress her and not the other way around? Then act accordingly. The other night we had this HB9 walk around the club asking every man she saw for a kiss in the chick because it was her birthday and she was doing some ch…
/r/seduction27/06/11 05:00 PM
0

Start playing live poker. I've met so many people playing poker because all you do is pretty much chat. Eventually you will get to know all the regulars and start going out for drinks with them after you are done playing. You don't even have to gamble a lot of money. Most places will do small tourneys throughout the week. Just have fun and reach up to people.
/r/seduction26/06/11 03:35 PM
1

You are constantly improving, growing as a person and developing new skills, unless you are one of those people who chose not to do that. Like most other subjects the more you learn about pickup the more areas you discover that you need to work on. I think I've made some great progress over the years myself but every single set I open and look back upon, I'm able to pick up on various mistakes I've made and areas I could improve on. I've never had a perfect game. Every girl I opened I screwed so…
/r/seduction24/06/11 07:14 PM
3

What did you do/say when you bumped into her again when she gave you a cold shoulder? I find that awkward situations are only as awkward as you make them. I used to bump into girls I've met the night before and kinda just awkwardly say "hi/how are you" and did not really know what to do. They used to give me a cold shoulder too. I now give them 100% energy. Smile when you see her, give her a kiss in the chick, say something like: "Hey baby, where you heading?" or something like that. Stay chill …
/r/seduction24/06/11 06:24 PM
3

And thank YOU for Reddit gold. Far too kind. I'll do something nice for a stranger too.
/r/seduction19/06/11 08:16 PM
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I went out with my best friend's HB9 girlfriend and her mates while he was away. We get wasted and she starts bombarding me with complements so I'm playing along without giving it much thought. We get back to hers for more drinks, she casually grabs my head and gives me a quick kiss in the lips. I was a bit WTF but whatever, we were drunk. I go to sleep in the separate bedroom and a few minutes later she walks in topless, tells me she is cold and climbs into my bed. She then asks me if it's OK i…
/r/seduction19/06/11 06:14 PM
2

Noooo! Wanna blowjob?
/r/seduction16/06/11 11:03 PM
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She is obviously one of the sluttier ones. There are on the other hand girls that want to get to know you more and get comfortable before fucking. As to escalating from hooking up to having sex, she is kinda right: We've been kissing for a half hour and your hand keeps grazing my ass. That's nice, but it's time to move forward. I always push until she says stop. Then it's fair enough. If you are already as far as kissing somehere comfortable and private, try and go all the way until she stops yo…
/r/seduction16/06/11 10:36 PM
1

fuck social proof Exactly! You have the best excuse in the world. You are new in town. You are not suppose to have any social proof.
/r/seduction16/06/11 02:08 PM
4

Have you tried showing her that you are sexually attracted to her? At the end of the day negging and kino is just that. You took a piss out of her a bit and then touched her a few times.
/r/seduction16/06/11 02:06 PM
1

Fuck it, when all the other suckers are too afraid to make an age joke you go ahead and make it. Do you know what I usually say? When she is younger than me I say: "Meh, too old" and when she is the same age or older I say: "Ah cool. Have you sorted out your pension yet?".
/r/seduction16/06/11 01:55 PM
4

You would never know :D
/r/seduction14/06/11 02:01 AM
3

Smile, joke around and take a minute of your time to twirl them around. Then make an excuse and politely evac. Something like... It was lovely to dance with you but if you excuse me I need to get back to my friends. They will get the message. This move alone will get you a ton of attraction from any chick that was watching. What do you think they see when you do this instead of looking annoyed/uncomfortable/freaked out and running away or confronting? In fact, if you are ever on a big wedding/ba…
/r/seduction13/06/11 09:56 PM
1

You approach girls for yourself. Not because your friends expect you to, not because seddit tells you to, not because random women want you to. If you don't think you would enjoy somebody's company, don't approach them. There is nothing wrong with that. It's all about you having fun with fun people. There are tons of crazies out there. Some of them are fucking hot too but you may wake up with a missing bollock the next morning. Approach people you actually like.
/r/seduction13/06/11 02:57 PM
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Try and stop with negging. It's not really a necessary thing to do but if you get it wrong it will backfire. If you ever feel like negging again do it sarcastically, with a smile and half way into conversation. Girls spend a long time getting ready and they want to look their best. It's one thing you should complement them on, not neg them. Also, in my personal experience best negs are made up negs. You can tease her but at the end of the day she does not give a fuck because it's simply not true…
/r/seduction12/06/11 02:44 PM
1

You can just sit down and come up with 20 or so interesting questions to ask if you want to have something to fall back on.
/r/seduction10/06/11 09:54 PM
7

I would not be here without you.
/r/seduction10/06/11 09:52 PM
3

Baby, why should we? :P On a serious note, you can't exactly seduce a stubborn girl who refuses to be seduced out of principal. Most women that we meet actually want to be seduced.
/r/seduction10/06/11 09:50 PM
2

I get this as well sometimes. It almost feels like she is only talking to you out of politeness. If you are not having fun and she is not really engaging there is nothing wrong with calling an evac. At the end of the day, you do get boring and unsociable chicks as well. On the other hand if this is something that happens to you all the time, something might be going wrong.
/r/seduction10/06/11 05:52 PM
7

That's not a way to go. What happens if you approach with a prepared/structured conversation and she changes subject or things don't go as planned? Ask yourself this. What do you want to know about a girl? Just ask her the questions, relate and branch out. It's very simple. Ask her anything. Like... Are you a cat or a dog person? She says she has a dog. You ask her what kind of dog? Tell her a funny story about your dog and branch out into how dogs are faithful and how you value this quality in …
/r/seduction10/06/11 05:35 PM
2

Thank you dear sir. Do you show geotargeted results? I changed profile location to UK and chicks did indeed get uglier but not for long. I guess you've run out of Brits as the site is new and started showing results for other countries.
/r/seduction06/06/11 06:45 PM
-2

Can't be bothered doing the whole bottle thing. Is there an easier way? :P
/r/seduction06/06/11 03:13 PM
3

Somebody join it and tell me if there are any brits on there.
/r/seduction06/06/11 03:02 PM
3

It takes time to stop giving a fuck. When you find yourself in an uncomfortable situation remind yourself that you don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction05/06/11 08:47 PM
1

I was talking about the situations when you do just that but they just tease you and move their head out of the way at the last second. You carry on grinding and after a while go for another kiss the way you mentioned but she pulls away at the last second and smiles. I'm sure you know those teasers. If you know a better, none douchey way let me know.
/r/seduction05/06/11 09:24 AM
1

That's a good way to look at it.
/r/seduction03/06/11 08:30 PM
18

This is exactly why I did not go for her in the end. It's all about spending quality time with quality people.
/r/seduction03/06/11 02:38 AM
2

How does game in Japan differ from US game? Surely chicks are way more conservative there. If not, there has to be a cultural clash.
/r/seduction31/05/11 01:05 PM
5

I say go ahead and make all mistakes you like until she dumps you. Then some time will go by and you will look back at your relationship and actually grow as a person and realize what went wrong. As much of a paradox as it sounds, you will only repel her by trying harder to keep her. You will appear needy or even desperate. The better option would be to repel her yourself and make her feel like she is about to lose something great and it's her that needs you, not the other way around. However, a…
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:25 PM
2

Basically, men like dancing next to pretty girls and hate dancing in a cock fest. Also, there isn't much to look at on the dance floor. You can look at a DJ, look at your friend, look at the pretty laser and then check out a hot chick. Which one do you think most men pick especially when drunk? There is however an extreme situation you are talking about where, as it was mentioned already, AFCs would surround a girl/group of girls and hope she likes them and gives them some sort of sign to move i…
/r/seduction23/05/11 11:59 AM
1

Get right back at her. At least I do. At one time it got to the point I was calling this chick a street walking herpes infested cumdumpster after she was bashing me and she found it funny so it kinda stuck. I would call her that whenever she got out of line and usually people who overheard me were all WTF and offended for her lol Obviously we never meant to hurt each other's feelings and it was all done jokingly but it just shows you how low you can go by negging each other and still laugh about…
/r/seduction19/05/11 11:21 PM
3

I don't mind both as long as I get a message across.
/r/seduction19/05/11 12:29 PM
25

You fucking kidding me? This is seddit! Go back to pics or some shit and post these comments there. Get into the right mindset. Demonstrate abundance. Start by not putting cute chicks you see in videos on a fucking pedestal. Yea, she is cute and she made a cool video but have you met her? What if she is a bitch? With your soppy attitude you might as well hunt her down and start sending her flowers with little pink hearts and cry yourself to bed every night thinking of her. Man the fuck up! You a…
/r/seduction19/05/11 11:28 AM
2

lol she reminds me of Marcy from californication.
/r/seduction19/05/11 11:20 AM
1

I watched a documentary about PUAs and one of the dudes pretty much just lived off women he hooked up with because he did not have a job and was homeless.
/r/seduction18/05/11 11:07 PM
0

I have this rule where I would only call her once or text her and if she does not reply I simply stop. Besides from that, shit happens. People go away to do things, they lose phones, they get caught up in things. It's only been a day. Either way, don't worry about it.
/r/seduction17/05/11 07:26 PM
5

I'm pretty sure willingly having gay sex makes you gay. Maybe you are struggling because you are not actually interested in women?
/r/seduction15/05/11 02:48 PM
6

What's that PUA guy's name who always wears a leather jacket and preaches this excessive eye contact game? Well, after trying that out myself I found some girls taking eye contact refuge in their phones. I have no idea what happens with you. I was not there to see it. I'm just saying that some people do this when uncomfortable. Fuck knows, maybe the sight of you makes them so wet they get all brain fucked and reach for their phones in confusion because they don't know what to do with themselves.
/r/seduction14/05/11 01:20 AM
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Some people do that when they are very uncomfortable. Might not be a good thing.
/r/seduction14/05/11 12:11 AM
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Girls who are at work are your best targets if you have AA because they have no other choice but to be polite to you even if you freak them out :D
/r/seduction13/05/11 12:39 PM
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Make sure you look into the side effects etc. because I know somebody who ended up extremely sensitive to sun after taking it. Just took a quick look and it does check out as one of the side effects. It also looks like you are not advised to take it with certain foods.
/r/seduction13/05/11 02:19 AM
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I sometimes take chicks out for a game of pool and most of them suck at it. I usually lose a game, win the other two and tease them for it. You can also get some sort of inside joke going with her seeking revenge or going away to practise/get lessons.
/r/seduction12/05/11 09:59 PM
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This is just a way to make somebody feel more confident. Even from my own experience I used to think of women as those intimidating, master race, cunning, unpredictable, heart-breakers who rule our emotions and manipulate us. Everything changed when I started thinking of them as my toys. I played around, got laid, gained the confidence and now I'm able to find long term, compatible girlfriends I respect and treat like an equal. I never cheat either. If I was an AFC I would still be a virgin. Thi…
/r/seduction06/05/11 11:00 AM
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"Ugh, I can't believe he made out with her! Hey, you, come here!" /female bitchy voice. lol yep, that actually sounds like one of them. I've red it in her voice. Oh, I'm just out to drink and I don't really have AA.
/r/seduction06/05/11 09:34 AM
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I see what you mean. If the group leader is missing somebody else usually takes that role who would usually act a bit more conservative. But yea, he is just shy.
/r/seduction05/05/11 01:09 PM
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Other people say he is shy when I'm not there to see it with my own eyes if you are implying that I intimidate him in some way.
/r/seduction05/05/11 01:23 AM
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How long has this been going on for? I did the same thing as you at school and I left it too long. I promised myself that whenever I fall for another girl in the future, I'll get to work right away. My only advise is to gradually get more chatty and sexual at the same time. You can start by talking about celebrities for example and then mentioning that you find some celeb sexy. You can then start complementing her. She wears a new dress? Casually tell her she looks hot in it. Then escalate from …
/r/seduction04/05/11 03:48 PM
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Take Phenibut before going out but you can't mix it with alcohol unless you want to be pissed for 3 days. Basically it was developed by Russians to stop cosmonauts from freaking out/panicking. I used to take it when I was losing my mind over some important work project and it stopped me from giving a fuck. Basically, nothing happens. You don't get any side effects (Normally) and you feel 100% normal, except from the fact that you no longer give a fuck. When I was doing some research I realized t…
/r/seduction04/05/11 03:29 PM
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Yea, he is fine with his friends but he does not seem to be too comfortable with new people. Women actually approach him and he just locks up and does not know what to say.
/r/seduction04/05/11 11:44 AM
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I sometimes give them a quick casual wink and watch how they act over the next few minutes. Even though I usually don't get into the who IOI thing. Over-thinking does not usually help me personally. Gut feeling ftw!
/r/seduction04/05/11 12:35 AM
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There are a lot of awesome people with low self-esteem or confidence though. I know somebody who looks like a model, plays piano, earns good money with a fun job, clever as fuck but just too fucking shy. I was watching some program about psychology where they did a bunch of experiments on kids/toddlers and some of them were just naturally shy. I guess some people are just born that way.
/r/seduction04/05/11 12:24 AM
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OP is talking about acting alpha all the time. I'm saying that even though majority of the women will indeed like that, some of them will prefer the shy guys. There are women who go marry convicts doing life or idiots because they like feeling smarter and in charge. I'm trying to explain why his alpha friend won't always win against a chill guy in the short run. So even if you are a shy guy who does not want/can't act alpha all he needs to do is approach enough chicks. Even though you obviously …
/r/seduction03/05/11 11:20 PM
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Next time take a look around. Everyone dance like idiots in clubs. I've seen geeky guys go mental before, after getting drunk for the first time or taking something else and they were just jumping around and throwing their hands all over the place then doing some kung foo shit yet everyone was like yeeeaaaaa! Cheering them on. I can't dance for shit to trance/house music but I fucking enjoy it so I just fist pump Jersey Shore style or move my hand to the beat and that's it. At the end of the day…
/r/seduction03/05/11 12:43 PM
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No woman is the same. There are some guidelines based on what most women dig but everyone has different values. You can even find dominant women who love being with awkward AFCs. There is no do x get y. At the end of the day if you are just being yourself and you go speak to a bunch of women, eventually you will find one who will love you for who you are even if you are an arrogant cunt, serial killer or an idiot. It all comes down to meeting the required number of women. In your case they simpl…
/r/seduction30/04/11 04:09 PM
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There are a few ways to go around this. You can carry $100 or whatever in your wallet in case you are about to get some and then say that you are staying in some hotel tonight for whatever reason and bring her with you. Alternatively you can just be straight forward and explain the situation. I live with my parents myself for exactly the same reasons. The money I would have spent on rent are being saved and in a few years time I'll be able to buy my own place, whereas all my friends are going to…
/r/seduction29/04/11 04:28 PM
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It would help if they actually knew what you were talking about. Unless of course you pick up all your women on raves and hippy festivals, most of them would probably despise any type of drug or even nicotine for that matter.
/r/seduction26/04/11 12:47 AM
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