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Fucty_Artsy/r/RedPillBooks23/01/14 08:34 AM
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Thats awesome, much respect. I would consider DL 10x4 as a HIIT, cardio training includes steady state aerobic training as well as HIIT. My endurance sucked doing only lifting weights and never any cardio since school. My vo2 greatly improved since picking up running/cycling. I guess as a former pro endurance athlete you got your cardio bucked filled for the rest of your life and are in a much better position than any lifter never having done any cardio.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 06:16 AM
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Im afraid you dont know what cardiovascular workouts means. Its a steady state exercise at medium heart rate. It enables your heart and lungs to transport more oxygen. I lifted for several years and have been in perfect shape until I realized I cant even go for a hike without getting exhausted pretty quickly. Im not saying become an endurance athlete but doing your cardio makes you a more healthy and complete package.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/21 08:54 PM
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Maybe your in good shape but not necessary healthy. If you limit your exercising on lifting exclusively your cardiovascular health is maybe only mediocre. Ever tried to find your vo2max? It probably sucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/21 07:39 PM
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Please delete this nonsense. TRP has come a long way to approve insecure and controlling behaviour. Posts like this makes it feel like being a conservative religion for insecure men from the middle age.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 12:25 PM
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Dude you got some severe confidence issues the way you are thinking. Vaginas are a very sensitive thing with many nerves and first thing you think when she „can barely feel“ anything is you are at fault? There are a million other things why she didn’t give you the reaction you obv wanted from her. Stop getting into your head over this and enjoy the fucking.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 10:50 AM
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Make sure she went to the toilet on the same day.
/r/askMRP01/05/19 12:17 PM
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Read DiCarlos Escalation Ladder https://www.slideshare.net/vhie130501/16768511-vindicarloescalationladder
/r/askTRP21/03/19 12:57 PM
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I struggle with some of the DLVs you have as well. Especially physical affection and lazyness. Youre not alone dude. Doing well now though in my relationship. Your text reads like you seem to be rather stressed by all these things. Maybe you could improve by getting calmer and practicing mindfulness. It should also help with your forgetfulness.
/r/askMRP29/11/18 07:12 AM
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Pay attention to your facial expressions. Many guys come off as creep by an angry looking resting face. Try to genuinely smile a little.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:32 PM
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Apologize cincerely, then move on with your day.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 10:49 AM
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If you like her less because x or y give her less attention. If you like her more because of x or y give her more attention. What you like and don't like is up to you. You are the ultimate ruler of your own decisions. Personally I would not sweat it as long as she is feeling good again when you see her next time.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:50 PM
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You are asking her too many questions which makes you look insecure. You should never ask her what she thinks about you. It does not matter what she thinks about you because you are self content enough so you decide yourself what impression you make to others. If she thinks there is something wrong she should tell you and then you decide if it's valid or not. Edit: All girls will make you feel that something is wrong from time to time because they simply feeeeel like it. Get accostumed to it and…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:07 PM
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"Yes, cause I'm that type of guy." Edit: Should have read the context first but generally this is the way to go.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 11:40 AM
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Please elaborate on juding people and comparing yourself to others. I've actually read the book multiple times and did not come across such things. I also don't see how it can be beneficial for becoming a better man by judging and comparing. It's a virtue of failure.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 05:54 AM
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I understand your concerns about privacy, at least an audio recorded version would be awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 07:52 PM
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Good to hear. Keep it up now, you got a very bright future before you.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 05:05 PM
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Thanks for this elaborate comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 04:48 AM
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Thanks for pointing this out and confirming what I believed.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 03:55 PM
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Sounds like you mostly react instad of act. You worry too much about what she's thinking about you. Judge for yourself what is appropriate in which situation. Don't care what someone other thinks about you. You're a grown up man and can decide for yourself what you think is appropriate and what is not. Go in with zero expectations. From there take the frame that you lead her and that she is probably nervous and insecure herself so you try to open her up. Think of it as guiding her the way you wa…
/r/askTRP20/07/15 07:55 AM
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Get a trainer for a few hours showing you how to do the basic lifts properly. It's possibly you're doing something really wrong. If trainer tells you heavy lifting is generally bad go get another trainer. If you still experience problems after that then go see a doctor. Chances are you got some chronic stuff going on and he can tell you what you should do against it and which movements to avoid.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 06:21 AM
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Yeah thats hypertrophy, thanks. But I cant see why compound lifts are "absolute shit for aesthetics" if you do them in high reps and I cant see why compounds are solely limited to powerlifting. Not to begin with that building base strenght with lower rep and complementing them with high reps should be much more efficient for building more muscle and more definition. Please clearify.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 05:17 PM
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So then tell me where is the difference between doing more reps on one musclegoup to doing more reps on multiple muscle groups?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 01:34 PM
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Deadlifts (and the other 3 big compounds in general) are absolute shit for aesthetics. So how can a bodybuilding program where you mostly work on single muscle groups be more efficient than a compound lifting program where multiple muscle groups at once are targeted?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 11:43 AM
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You're putting yourself down in your whole text. This is the way you're thinking and how you're talking to yourself. First step is you change that immediately. Think positive about yourself and especially the things you're not able to change. For every negative thought pattern there is one positive equivalent. You must practice being more mindful to catch yourself when those thought patterns are running through your head. Now man the fuck up and don't put yourself down any more because of stupid…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 04:55 AM
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What about shy and insecure girls? Seems like effectiveness of teasing is also dependant on these factors and thus not completely in our own influence. Or is this rather tied with social skill - to read the person and adjust the teasing accordingly? But then again with the shy and insecure I find the teasing completely inappropriate. I feel like making her even more insecure and uneasy.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 05:02 AM
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Could be a few things. What worked for me: Practice yourself in empathy. Becoming more empathic let's you read the feelings of other people much better and you will realize that most people are nervous and insecure when talking to you as well. You become better in being more empathic by becoming more aware of your own feelings and being able to acknowledge them. Meditate to increase this awareness. Dont judge other people. Your ego might be strong and may want to get fed by convincing you might …
/r/askTRP24/04/15 06:22 AM
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I see where you're coming from. For me a way to overcome this was to become more open to criticism. You have to actively allow yourself to confess having done something wrong when being accused for something. Or you agree with the odds or in principle. What you're doing with the critique in the end you only decide yourself so you may still do what you want. Learn that it's not you being criticized but only actions in a subjective way. The key is to open up. Read When I Say No I Feel Guilty.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 08:23 PM
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I would not advise to wanting to be rewarded with sexual things where you can also frame it as pleasure for her. The better frame is that you reward her with a BJ. You are the price. If she wants something from you she must ask nicely first of all. If it's easier for her to do than for you then don't do it no matter what. You could ask her to flash her boobs for you or to show her underwear. This is something solely for your entertainment and you can give her some value if she does accordingly, …
/r/askTRP22/04/15 08:30 AM
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Do not overanalyze and get in your head too much. It's all about the frame you're displaying. You're getting insecure because of this and it breaks your frame. It doesn't matter what you say or what you do as long as you're maintaining your frame. Look for some activities to excite yourself or work on something important or create something to be not as easily entertained. It helps discerning the trivial from the really good. Also practice self discipline.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:17 PM
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Don't discuss so much. You must understand first that opinions and arguments of other people means nothing to you. Read When I Say No I Feel Guilty to get a better understanding of this concept. The answer for all of your questions is to counter by FOGGING/A&A.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 09:11 PM
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"Ok we're not gonna flirt. Tell me: What are the things you call flirting?" If she tells you do all of that things.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 06:59 AM
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smooth
/r/askTRP13/02/15 06:51 AM
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You can only be embarrassed about things you're insecure about. So take a few seconds and think about why you'd be insecure about being asked about your shoes. Is it because you think you are too small? Well fuck that, you cant do anything about that but acknowledgeing it to yourself. Is it because you're wearing shoes you don't really like that much or feel uncomfortable with only to compansate for your height? If you're unable to incorporate this fact for yourself then don't wear the damn shoe…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 12:37 PM
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Talk more about yourself and your life. Be more emotive when you talk and listen. Use body language and facial gestures. Learn what the other person is interested about and relate through your own experiences/interests.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 12:37 PM
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It gets better over time, just stay the course. You'll get plenty of shit tests in the future so don't worry about that. I don't really see how you failed but what I would have done differently is to not discuss that much. Just state your opinion right in the situation in a calm but stern way and then leave it as it is. You have to pull it off in 1-2 sentences. E.g. "I understand why you're getting angry but I feel very disrespected and I don't want you to ever talk to me this way." Then do some…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 08:55 PM
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There is no way in discussing such things logically with a woman. It all depends on her current mood and arousal. When you're in the situation just do what you feel like. There will be a reaction. Act according the reaction. Dont become angry like a pussy if it doesnt work out the way you want, own it and make the best out of it.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 11:59 AM
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Frankly you can't do anything about her being less disciplinary. It sounds like she's brought up like this since her childhood and you have to accept her being like she is. If you don't accept it you will build resentment towards her and thats toxic for your relationship. Pick your battles wisely and if possible not in front of the children. Sit her down once in a while and tell her your concern to the point. Read "When I Say No I Feel Guilty" and use BROKEN RECORD. Educate yourself in childcare…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/14 08:25 PM
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Stop that. It teaches you to not need any self control. Limit it to one time a week. Sex will get better and you gonna be more confident.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 11:58 AM
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You stepped in her frame when you engaged in her passive aggressive muttering. Don't do that. First of all demand respect for yourself. Tell her if she wants to tell you something she can do so in a calm and grown up manner, otherwise you won't listen. Do this consistently. If you slip one time she will fall back to those manners no matter what. You've got a very hard way before you so good luck with that. Remember if you aren't ready to walk out of the marriage she has the upper hand in the rel…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 10:50 AM
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He got trained from some popular PUA once.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:35 AM
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So what if he's the funny guy and everyone likes his jokes and he makes fun of yourself? If you react like described above you would come off as the mood killer and butthurt which would be interpreted as weak.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 08:06 PM
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If you're in a LTR: Well, the bad news is she doesn't want to have sex with you. The good news is you can change that - by working on yourself. Read Red Pill material and become more attractive. Hint: It's not by agreeing in contracts with her to get to have sex. First frame sex as something that is your basic need and demand it for your relationship - unconditionally. Then reflect the things she's told you and think about if they're valid. Most of the time they're not and serve the sole purpose…
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:57 PM
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So you made a point in letting her know you don't like fat girls in a P/A way and now she's all over you? Didn't know it would be that easy!
/r/ThankTRP06/07/14 11:13 AM
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Most commonly this stems from her not getting as much loyality from you as she would wish. What you wanna do is to raise your beta and comfort her more. Too much alpha with too less beta does no good in a relationship. Reading MMSL Primer and getting to know her love language is a good first step.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 08:06 AM
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That's not limited to just rubbing her clit but overall rewarding her through raising her dopamine. There are several alpha-moves to do that, eg. grabbing her by the back of her neck, pushing her against the wall and making out with her furiously, give her a good smack on her ass, grab her hair to pull her head back gently to kiss her bare neck etc.
/r/becomeaman06/06/14 07:29 AM
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Establish proper boundaries, don't let you get walked over by anyone. Don't try to be liked by other people. People either love you or they hate you, if you want to get liked by everyone you don't get either of love/hate. Always stay in your own frame. Don't let your mind believe you're still a child. Make yourself believe you're a grown up man. Let loose of your self doubts. We often get treated the way like we think from ourselves we are. Do more manly stuff. Fix things (house, car, home etc.)…
/r/askTRP03/05/14 10:44 AM
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I wouldn't consider mate guarding as week. Always depends on the situation. If it's obvious he's trying to make a move it's actually better if you step in. So when he touches her look him straight in the eyes and say something like: "Touching not allowed, that's mine, get yourself your own!" and then smile. Maybe read http://marriedmansexlife.vanillaforums.com/discussion/10518/heartiste-on-mate-guarding-a-dlv . There's a distinction between mate guarding as single man and mate guarding in a rela…
/r/askTRP29/04/14 02:48 PM
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I actually watched the first episode just yesterday. Spoilers in this thread probably ruined the whole show for me. Misogynic bastards!
/r/askTRP26/04/14 07:30 PM
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It's your own responsibility to judge your actions. If you believe you fucked up then go by it and apologize once. Don't go here next time and ask if you fucked up. Trust in your own decisions and go by it. It will build your trust in yourself. In your particular situation you could have 2 choices: 1) If she's just a plate and doesn't mean that much to you agree and amplify her text or just don't respond. Next time when you come over bring a new pan and joke around about it. 2) If she means much…
/r/askTRP23/04/14 07:55 PM
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Learn to play an instrument. Get into a band.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 07:31 PM
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Hey there, first good thing is you try to do something about it and already acknowledged to yourself you did something wrong. So stop being passive/aggressive (-> ignoring her), sit her down and tell her straight out your demands. Also make sure there's no medical reason causing her low sex drive. Also rule out an affair. Her being all over you when you're coming home could be caused by guilt. Don't give her anything if she doesn't appreciate it. Induce some dread. Become more alpha in her prese…
/r/askTRP23/04/14 02:24 PM
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Well done and congrats. Be careful getting all logical with her. A&A instead of using too much logic.
/r/askTRP18/04/14 11:45 PM
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Thats not the point. Point is you gonna hold frame. If he wants to hit you he's gonna hit you anyways no matter what you say. In this case you make him look like he's being the bad guy if he escalates further because you've just been joking and having a fun time and big guy is all but being fun. Remember him getting angry about being made fun of him will only display him as being weak in front of all others. You've already won by then.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 01:30 PM
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He did well but best thing you could do if a bigger guy wants to fight you or being aggro is to frame him as gay. It's even easier to deliver a solid comeback if he wants to isolate you. "No thanks dude I'm not into this kind of stuff! Not at all keen for getting dragged behind the bushes having your way with me. Sorry!"
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 10:52 AM
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You can be more forward and bold in your statements the more attractive you are. See creepiness factor: http://www.reddit.com/r/cringepics/comments/21gf9b/i_get_more_pussy_than_u_ever_will/cgd2x3b Don't ask questons, use statements. Be witty and funny, turn conversation to becoming more sexual, then escalate. The more attractive you are the faster you're able to escalate without coming off as a creep.
/r/askTRP15/04/14 01:54 PM
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1) You've waited way too long to ask her out 2) Looks like you have to work on your self esteem. Your text does not make the impression as if you were leading and if you had control in all situations. Be more bold and don't look out for her reaction. If you make a move make it obvious so she can reject you. Be OI if she does. Your text soothes from insecurities. Stop that and build your own reality. 3) Stop doing self destructing habits like smoking (pot). Value yourself and your body. 4) Don't …
/r/askTRP14/04/14 07:11 PM
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In such situations I'd always go with her. You can never trust a woman after a few drinks and a little bit isolation. Remember hypergamy, you don't even know these guys. she's your fiance and a grown woman Don't listen to what this guy is saying.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 07:28 AM
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Being called an asshole is always a good sign. Thank her and tell her you're doing your best. Also when she's angry on you tell her you know you're an asshole. Keep up the good work!
/r/askTRP10/04/14 07:06 PM
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This could mean two things, dependent on how she was delivering it: 1) She meant it as a loyality test to see if you are faithful to her. This occurs if you are alpha in your relationship and your SMV trumps her SMV. Give her light assurence you won't cheat on her ever as long as you're satisfied with your current relationship. If you fuck this up and deal it as a shit test chances are she's becoming more distant to mitigate her pain in case of a break up. 2) She meant it as a shit test to see i…
/r/askTRP09/04/14 08:57 AM
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You confuse TRP with PUA. Please tell us where TRP says anything against relationships. It's more of a guideline/philosophy for becoming better and regarding human evolution. It will improve your life and relationships and is not only reduced to making you better with picking up women.
/r/askTRP02/04/14 02:54 PM
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Gaming measured by SMV depends on your social group as every other hobby. Sure if you're a master in guitar playing chances are you gonna DHV more often in various social groups than when you're a crack in your favorite online game. But in the end it only depends on the interests of the group you're socializing in. Just be sure to never overdo it. Too much of anything is a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 01:52 PM
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It doesn't matter how she meant it. Only your own perception of things matter to you. So if she says she wants dessert now although you didn't ask and assumed she meant to don't want dessert absolutely you say: "You said you never eat dessert. Big girl ..." blah blah see above. If she gets angry don't discuss. It's really not that big of a deal. If she wants to discuss you tell her in a calm way that that is what you understood and the discussion is over. If she proceeds to talk about it and tri…
/r/askTRP27/03/14 09:08 AM
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It depends on the situation. If you go and prepare a dessert you can be expected to ask if she want some too since you're already in the course of preparation it wouldn't make a hassle to make some for her. If you don't ask and she gets angry although it would be an alpha move it won't do much for your relationship happiness. So best would be to ask when you're preparing a dessert. If you only go to the fridge to grab a yoghurt it doesn't matter if you ask if she wants some as well. If you ask y…
/r/askTRP26/03/14 10:11 PM
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The key thing here is to don't take yourself too serious. I'm INTJ myself and once realized I come off as weak in front of other people because I take myself too serious. Don't care if someone makes a joke of you. What you wanna do is agree and amplify and go on with your day. But don't make a big story out of it, instead change the subject or challenge the other person. People with high self esteem aren't afraid to getting embarrassed. They embrace the challenge. Try to open yourself up more in…
/r/askTRP22/02/14 09:53 PM
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What's it about? So the book is all about self esteem, where it's coming from and how it's built. The six pillars are psychological stages upon self esteem is built. It's described very detailed and there are practical exercises where one could train himself getting more self esteem. Who's it for? It's best suited for individuals with low self esteem or people who wonder how to be more confident. PROS It helped me a bunch being more self aware and minding my actions. Exercises are helpful to int…
/r/RedPillBooks23/01/14 09:16 PM
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Tricking your mind into thinking she's lower SMV is the easy way to do. The proper way would be to get more resources of fun so that she's not that important for your life. Build a proper social circle, find exciting hobbies in which you can improve, work on your career to gain more money, work on yourself to gain more self worth and you'll get the mindset of being a reward for everyone.
/r/askTRP01/01/14 11:29 AM
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Cause that's how you connect with people in a healthy way and ultimately get drawn to each other. Empathy is only an example, it could also be with excitement. If she's excited about this or that thing you could either respond with an "OMG you're right thats really awesome!" and draw her into your positive frame or you could respond like supercool guy with "Uh, yeah, thats kind of true.". You connect with her emotion in that you feel the same way like her. Of course you should always be true to …
/r/askTRP18/12/13 11:22 AM
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Show empathy, don't converse on a logical but on a emotional level. For example, if a woman tells you how bad xyz was you don't want to tell her to do abc to make xyz better. Instead, respond like a female friend of her would respond: "OHH NOEZ THIS IS SOOO BAAAD HOW IN THE WORLD COULD HE/SHE?!". Also, this helped me a bunch: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwgu369Jw
/r/askTRP18/12/13 09:56 AM
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He obviously got issues. Compensating for various issues != alpha. He should work on his relationship game. Proper alpha/beta balance is key. Don't invest emotionally in the relationship if he can't provide you with safety.
/r/askTRP03/11/13 08:55 AM
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Deal with it when you're in the situation. You were reacting passive aggressive because you didn't speak up and told her right away what you don't accept to be treated like. Coming back later to stand your ground would make a weak move. You'll come off as a butthurt wimp. Next time focus on your feelings, sort your thoughts and tell her right away with what you're not approving in a calm but firm manner. Each time you let someone run over you you gonna lose self respect. Don't let this make happ…
/r/askTRP09/10/13 09:07 AM
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Not sure what you are talking. I don't think a husband would think less of his wife although she's being enthusiastic yadda yadda. I rather think his wife would stay more interesting for him if she's playing hard to get once in a while.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/13 06:44 PM
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Haven't had time to comment yet. I'm originally coming from MMSL as well so the advice I'll give might be also found there. I personally think a default yes could be a bad thing because he could get desinterested. So if you don't feel like having sex and aren't attracted to him at all but still have sex with him he might feel like you're low value. You are virtually lowering your self worth to please him. So he should alpha up and work on building attraction. You as a girl force that in having g…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/13 11:06 AM
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Work on yourself and become a better you. People feel drawn to people who are similar to them. Chances are this is the case for you. A good source for relationship advice and self improvement is http://marriedmansexlife.vanillaforums.com/ .
/r/askTRP02/10/13 03:11 PM
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Be submissive, be in the moment, show him how much you enjoy xyz, be enthusiastic, be open for everything, tell him how you want it. If you don't want to do xyz suggest him doing abc instead of giving him a streigt out 'no'. Wear nice lingerie, groom yourself well. Suprise him now and then with some kinky stuff if you want to reward him. Don't let him feel like you're an easy lay, make it a chellenge for him at times.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/13 09:16 AM
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"Bring tha movies, I'll get you some skittles." In all seriousness, tell her in what clothes you'd like to see her in. As in "Yep, wear a short blue dress and something hot underneath." It's assertive and makes a point where the evening should lead to.
/r/askTRP10/09/13 07:56 AM
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