Full_Worker_9821 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Game is just finesse	Lifestyle	Full_Worker_9821	/r/seduction	04/07/24 05:40 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Nightgame struggle Ever heard of the cat analogy? Cats do not like to be chased. I would suggest if the spark is not there to move on and perhaps work on creating a social group. The problem I notice is you need to open yourself to the group with other people. The reason she pulls back is because you pursue her to much. Instead use distance to your advantage and create spacing and allow the person to either get closer or not.	/r/seduction	29/05/26 05:21 AM
-3	Oversimplified Guide that tells you everything you need to know about seduction. Exactly	/r/seduction	11/10/24 10:24 PM
4	Did I give up too early? No, when a women gives you her instagram it’s a show sign she wants a follower, I wouldn’t push it any further.	/r/seduction	03/10/24 07:59 PM
1	Beauty shop number-close I don’t think you where so close buddy.	/r/seduction	03/10/24 07:52 PM
2	What is Warm approach and how can i do it well? Cold approach is just conversation in the same way a stranger converses with you. There shouldn’t be any intentions derived at first until you can open a conversation and comfortably read a person. How do you know if a person is comfortable. You give them space and see how they respond. You know a conversation is going well when a person speaks more than you. If it goes well imply interest indirectly and offer a social event. Of course it’s easier said than done but, this is the rough course wor…	/r/seduction	01/10/24 08:36 PM
1	Is this an flaking attempt? From what I understand she made plans with you tomorrow and moves the date after tomorrow. I would just play along and agree on it. If she cancels on you again then it’s a flake. You could also add a time constraint to your meeting. Something like this “ I have to meet so and so, so I can only stay so long.	/r/seduction	30/09/24 02:42 PM
1	I struggle with closing I would keep the convo short take down her number and wait. Just give her some room and if you see her again approach and escalate from there.	/r/seduction	30/09/24 03:39 AM
1	no friends.. how to go out/meet irl women I am very close to the childhood the op described and the pandemic made it worse. I would guess joining groups that have a large involvement of women helps.	/r/seduction	23/09/24 02:46 PM
3	I approached 100's of women, here's what I learned I will say this great job, other than that I disagree with the point of awkwardness, sure at the beginning it’s fine but Mid game you must be in control or else it looks off. Being in Colombia before yes it is way easier to meet women but there is a trade off to is she meeting you or your passport lol	/r/seduction	30/08/24 05:04 AM
1	Game is just finesse I tend to overthink stuff but, I feel writing my thoughts down helps me reflect more as well as listening to others replies.	/r/seduction	08/07/24 06:03 AM
6	Game is just finesse It was a moment thing sorry	/r/seduction	04/07/24 02:30 PM
2	When do I escalate? You know that a question a lot of guys ask. It might hurt what I am going to say but, you can’t escalate without flirting. You have to take the initiative of creating ideas to lead her to that conclusion. For example you need to get a ladder to get to the attic. Draw a conclusion like this and it will get escalation. Her” yeah my dog is turning 10 next week” you “ oh really we should totally have a dog get together and maybe… never mind. her” what? Like this but maybe a tad more casual.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 09:47 PM
2	Meeting girl tomorrow and could use some advice/help I think your on the right track but, if what you say is true there no need to hold tension for so long. Eat some ice cream and go back to your place and watch some tv and drinks and done. No need to oversell it.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 09:37 PM
3	Complimented my eye doctor on her hair and eyes Excellent!	/r/seduction	06/06/24 09:33 PM
0	Daygame Cold Approach Field Reports Hey man great job. Approaches are hard. I want to give you some advice that might be willing to try so something comes out of it let me know how it goes. When approaching try to come off with communality which you have been doing. There has to be a flow and a reason of you to be there. The reason cold approaches are hard is the communality. She probably is thinking “what the hell is this random guy doing?” You have to play it stupid or be direct. Example “ Excuse me I am lost can you give me dir…	/r/seduction	01/04/24 01:41 AM
9	I pulled my neighbor now she ghosted me. You gave her the ick. It might be just me but, I wouldn’t have followed up anymore since you’re showing the want. Best place would have been in the moment of things. I would relax and go with the flow of things.	/r/seduction	31/03/24 10:02 PM
1	How do I become more seductive? The guy who says you can’t be taught is speaking in contradiction. Seduction is basically questioning someone’ thoughts about you. The first thing is you have to feel comfortable with yourself. Next go up and start a conversation and mention something you notice different. The best thing I can say is humor and playfulness go a long way. Good Luck	/r/seduction	17/09/22 06:29 PM
1	Getting back into game, any pointers? Listen I understand man. The best advice I have is find a mentor or someone who helps you. If not go to a bar and just sit and observe. Understand how conversation fourms and how girls are approached. Don’t make it a challenge just breath it all in and write down what you see. Smaller steps lead to better outcomes.	/r/seduction	16/02/22 04:00 AM
1	Is this a case of “a magician never reveals his secrets”? High level game is learned in the real world. Sure reading is one thing but trying it out is another. All I can say is don’t be afraid it’s all in your head trust me.	/r/seduction	16/02/22 03:57 AM
1	(21M) Please share your best methods for a college student who wants to build a solid rotation of girls who are interested in fuck buddies. I feel you. The best answer I can give is act with congruence. Example I see a girl I really like and I ask her if she knows where the cafeteria is so and so on. When your asking her the question your automatically looking for IOI indicators. According to her IOI you can use game or fourm an exit point. For example she answers I don’t really know or she is busy and doesn’t fourm interest I say thanks and move on. However she’s nice and she answers your question and shes flirty start a small talk…	/r/seduction	16/02/22 03:52 AM
2	Approached 2 got 2 numbers don’t feel good about it tho I am new here but I can give you a fresh look on this. The biggest key to learn is body language. Based on what you said the girls seemed receptive enough to give you there number however I wouldn’t expect anything more if she seems to not show IOI. Learning body language is higher fourm of seduction and it is incredibly under-looked. One test I have for you is try the same thing again but look for IOI and then attempt to ask her number. Chance are if she see value her IOI will be massive and yo…	/r/seduction	16/02/22 03:35 AM