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There's nothing I or anyone can do, she wouldn't listen to anyone at this point but the more I learn about him the more suspicious I get And when literally everyone is saying the same thing it gets me worried. And I am trying to better myself and move on with my life I really am but she's completely changed and I know that if or when this fails she's going to be a wreck.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/22 01:59 PM
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I'm not trying to get her back and regardless she couldn't be further away from me I can see that in the way she looks at me. And I dont think my daughters in danger I don't have that feeling my feeling is he's going to hurt my ex I ant explain why it's just he doesn't seem the way she's making him out to be. I just don't want her to crash so hard she won't recover the first time they split she was bad if there's a second I don't k ow what she'll be like.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/22 01:42 PM
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Thank you and I won't and can't she's done too much for me to go back I was just a comfort blanket for her at the end of the day. and she made me feel terrible and blames me for it being over for snooping through her phone and instagram when she was the one messaging him inappropriate and intimate things. And I will remember this especially if or more likely when he does a runner on her again because he's done once before and it hurts her I'm better than that I'm a good man and I will learn to f…
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/21 07:16 PM
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😅 it's a bit late to give me a slap now haha and my problem is I'm a soft hearted idiot. when I commit I commit I'm traditional in the sense I belive marriage and love is worth fighting for. I know it pitiful but now i know its over for good I see that I'm worth more than that and even if she does try to come back (I don't think she will considering I "betrayed" her trust and she even said we're not right for each other and nothings going to happen between us) it's not worth it but thank you any…
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/21 06:51 PM
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I'm sorry you've been treated like this it's not right nor is it fair and I belive in the universal law of what goes around comes around. Stay strong and be happy be best parent you can be and know you didn't do anything wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 05:05 PM
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I couldn't agree more brother
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 04:13 PM
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Thank you and I don't think you were being a jerk as for my situation when say shes still lying to me and hiding things from she's doing it to avoid looking like the bad guy (which she is) and she is also still trying to string me along. and as for the facetime I know it's because the guy she's seeing which is the guy who did a runner on her is going to be there and again she doesn't want to look bad as she said to me she's doesn't want a "serious relationship" with him or anyone everything she …
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 04:08 PM
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Thank you and I hope all of us men who have been wronged by our former loves receive the justice we deserve. And the best of luck to you my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 03:32 PM
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I understand taking solace in the little victories but for the people who have caused so much damage to those who have loved them a big explosion of karma is due. And I love my daughter and this whole experience will help me to be a better father and a supportive friend for if or when she goes through this herself.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 03:15 PM
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No problem we need to stick together and it is a messed up system we have, and it makes you thinks about the phrase "it's a man's world" and it makes me laugh because it really isn't. There's a lot of us guys out there who gave 110% to the women we loved and got screwed over as a reward, so talking about these things and making friendships is important. Stay strong my friend good things will come they have to.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 03:08 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about the horrible shit you've been going through, this is just so wrong I just don't understand how people like yours and my exs can do this and get away with it. I hope and I pray your life gets better soon and your ex pays for everything she has done to you because it has to happen soon if you need to talk drop me a message brother.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 02:57 PM
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I dont think he will dump her he has strong feelings for her and has even said he loves her and she feels the same so she won't be coming back
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 07:33 PM
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I dont think she's coming back this time anyway they really do have feeling they have even said love but if by some chance she does I won't
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 07:32 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about your situation next month would of been our 5 year anniversary so I can't imagine what you are going through right now. I love my wife very much and if I could make her feel the same way about me I would but her heart is with someone else now and that has brought me closure that its really over. I realise what I did was shitty bur at the same time I don't feel I was wrong in doing it and if she loved me and wanted to mend us as much as she said she did when we got back to…
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 08:36 PM
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My wife is choosing the man she has feelings for over me. We separated 3 months ago and one month in she had a one night stand that turned into more and there been dating for a month. He broke it off a couple of days ago because he was not ready for a relationship and got scared because of 2 pregnancy scares. The day he broke it off was the day we got back together trying to mend our marriage and friendship and yesterday they were talking again about their feeling towards one another. I looked t…
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 07:26 PM
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Thank you being on here and talking to people who have been in similar situations or have had advice has helped me. And like I said before I don't know if my actions ended it or if she would of gone back to him anyway regardless of what I said or did. The people in my life who know about all this say I'm not in the wrong and I acted like a normal human being for doing what I did. and she would have shown me the messages if there was nothing to hide I still feel ashamed for going to that level bu…
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 12:04 PM
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He wasn't supposed to be staying there for Christmas night I was but because I looked at her phone we took a step back and slowed down and they were in contact because of something I can't talk about if I had the power to stop this I would trust me and she didn't admit to cheating she admitted she had feelings for him but because of what going on with her she didn't know if they were as strong but know of what's happened she knows her feelings now and it's over and mate don't be such a dick when…
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 11:21 AM
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I don't know why I posted this either I guess I was looking for some understanding and maybe some advice on how to move on I know this is a journey I have to take alone I was just looking to hear from people who have lived through this experience.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 11:12 AM
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That maybe so I did want to be with her and the last few days felt natural and I did think she genuinely wanted to work things out from what she was saying and the honesty she gave me but so long as he was in the picture I don't think I would've been as trusting as I could be and the feeling she has for him speak for themselves in the messages they exchange I still feel as if I screwed it up and I just have to live with consequences of my actions
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 10:37 AM
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I'm sorry to hear about that and I have the closure of knowing its over for good and she wants to be with him and he wants the same and it hurts yes but it's for the best I think it would of hurt much more if it was a month or so down the line I just hate that I stooped so low
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 10:29 AM
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I didn't trust her but I trusted she wanted to work things through because of her honesty about things and the stuff she has said to her friends and that's why I think my actions have let it end
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 10:24 AM
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You're probably right it just seemed like we were going to be back together. The things she said the comfort she brought me when I was having my doubts it just seemed she was serious about us
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 10:18 AM
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I did betray her trust I let my myself down and stooped to a low point and the things I know that they said to each other maybe we wouldn't of been together long but I made the choice easier for her by doing what I did they were going to talk about things and I would of found out Monday where I stand but I know where I stand now
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 10:13 AM
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I know what you meant I was saying that they do want to be together he broke it off because his head was screwed up and he was scared he's very much like my STXW in the sense of 1 he's separated and it's messed him up and 2 he over thinks things but they have talked about the future together and from what I've read they will end up together if I didn't do what I did I would of stayed there over Christmas and he wouldn't be coming down and staying Christmas night
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 10:11 AM
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He does want to date her and she wants the same thing and like I said I don't know if it would of worked out between us but I feel as if I've made it easier for her to choose him it doesn't matter anymore anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 10:02 AM
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I just feel as if I didn't betray her trust we would of worked things out I don't know whether that's true or not given her emotional situation but we talked about our future and it seemed genuine but I know now that it's over for good and maybe thats for the better.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 09:46 AM
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It's gotten to the point where there's only a part of me that wants to be with her the other part of me doesn't want it because I Don't think either of us should be repeating history. Maybe once I've worked on myself long enough and grown as a person and found how to be happy by myself maybe then I would think more on the subject. thats to say she even wants to come back and she's done some growing as well. But everyone and everyone's situation is different I don't belive they will end everybody…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 06:18 PM
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She is on medication (20 milagram sertraline) but not receiving therapy and she said her mental health got worse this past year. But she has always been hard to live with in the sense she wanted me to change and said she couldn't because of her condition and she can be controlling and manipulating.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 04:57 PM
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I see her 3 days a week because we have a 2 year old her reason for wanting a separation was because she fell out of love with me and we drifted apart. We both had our problems her mental state wasn't the best in the sense she had ADHD and OCD and my attitude wasn't the best as being the sole provider and working a shitty job on top of being a father but I always loved her. We argued alot but always made up and it was always the same arguments she said she gave up on us months ago but the messag…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 04:15 PM
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I am so sorry to hear about your situation I feel mine isn't that bad compared to yours but if you can see the light at the end of the tunnel and tell me not to give up and tell me that I will get through this really means a lot if you ever want to talk just drop me a message and you stay strong as well my friend
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 04:54 AM
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She was diagnosed but she wasn't given any specific treatment and the only medication she is on are anti anxiety
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 03:27 PM
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Shes a good person and yeah I do have alot of soul searching to do
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 03:16 PM
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She does
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 03:15 PM
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Thank you for your honesty
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 03:15 PM
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