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1

Stop looking at everything through the lens of strength or weakness.
/r/seduction22/07/26 11:44 AM
2

Lol you are playing with fire. I'm committed—post results OP.
/r/seduction22/07/26 02:48 AM
10

You can be jacked and still be an emotionally-stunted retard. Not saying this isn't good advice, it just shouldn't be the only advice.
/r/seduction20/07/26 12:30 PM
2

I love Double Your Dating. One of the old PUAs who you can tell actually had genuine game. I also recommend reading anything from Juggler or watching interviews with him. He has his own chapter in The Game that Neil let him write himself. He's a gem. Also pick up Models by Mark Manson, that one's a no-brainer, life-changing book.
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:19 AM
12

Honestly I've gotten into the sugarbaby/high-end escort game a bit. Tired of spending endless money on dates that go nowhere. At least I get what I'm paying for the other way. As others have said, though, hit the gym or go running (do literally any exercise), do some inner work, and especially try to find some joy in life outside of wanting sex/relationships—this will counterintuitively lead to more sex.
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:15 AM
1

Black Pill isn't true. /thread
/r/seduction07/07/26 10:33 AM
1

I agree with this. Problem is if a guy is not well socialized then he doesn't know what these cues are. He may very well have to crash and burn to learn these signs and associate them with "this one is not interested".
/r/seduction06/07/26 09:39 PM
1

Yup. It's that simple. You WILL get rejected, by the way. Just talk to a bunch of women until you don't care anymore.
/r/seduction03/07/26 03:15 PM
1

"Hey, what's up? I'm (your name), I just thought you were cute and wanted to say hello." Gauge her receptivity, then start a conversation genuinely trying to connect with her. Try to find something you could ask her to do with you sometime.
/r/seduction02/07/26 06:44 PM
3

Awful advice. Women know what negging is now and actively dislike it. This isn't the 90s.
/r/seduction02/07/26 06:41 PM
1

It's less about what you say and more about how you say it. But most importantly, THAT you say it at all. Assuming you are not completely awkward or anything, simply increasing your amount of approaches will get you more phone numbers than worrying about coming up with the "perfect" approach.
/r/seduction02/07/26 06:40 PM
2

Yeah I'd recommend just becoming a regular to build anything, otherwise you're just taking a shot in the dark. It's pretty hard to stand out on one brief encounter unless you're like wicked good looking or insanely socially charming.
/r/seduction23/06/26 04:15 AM
2

You can try it, yeah. I would recommend not trapping her in that interaction, though. Leave her your number on the receipt (with a nice tip, of course). If you really want to do it verbally just don't make it a question and do it on your way out. Say your piece (ex: hey I really enjoyed this interaction, I left you my number, text me if you'd like to get together sometime) and then leave it at that. I think that's respectful. Source: Been a waiter for 10+ years and my fellow waitresses get phone…
/r/seduction22/06/26 12:18 PM
5

Maybe she's an android bro
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:29 AM
4

That was autistic as fuck, dude.
/r/seduction21/06/26 07:20 AM
16

Skipping foreplay is a huge mistake.
/r/seduction19/06/26 12:33 PM
22

"tried to thrust as aggressively and powerfully as I could" It is a common male misconception to believe that women like/want this. Usually it comes from learning about sex from porn. SOME like it but this is mostly an inexperienced man's idea of what women want from sex. Do yourself a favor and read literally anything on the topic, I recommend "She Comes First". Also, she's probably just trying to hurt you. Don't take what she's saying right now to heart. And never try to be fwb with an ex - th…
/r/seduction19/06/26 11:00 AM
1

You're falling into the trap a lot of newbies do, which is you keep trying to pass shit tests that aren't shit tests. 8 months. She isn't testing you, dude.
/r/seduction09/06/26 10:38 AM
1

What a weird thing to care about.
/r/seduction09/06/26 10:36 AM
3

There's a lot of wisdom here. Thank you for sharing it when you didn't have to ♥️
/r/seduction03/06/26 04:26 AM
2

I appreciate that, man. I could even pass for 26-29. I just get in my head about aging.
/r/seduction03/06/26 03:58 AM
4

I'm 33. I'd kill to be 26. Go out and slay, king.
/r/seduction03/06/26 03:21 AM
1

You don't need to seduce your girlfriend back. She's in a relationship with you for a reason. You have this mindset that your friend is like the supreme alpha species all women want, and that's just not how that works.
/r/seduction03/06/26 03:16 AM
-1

You unironically told OP to run disarm AMOG on his friend. You need therapy and a reality check. Life is not The Game.
/r/seduction03/06/26 03:14 AM
1

Listen to this guy, OP. You are way too old to be thinking all that alpha beta bullshit still. It's actually that framework that is hurting you more than any one of the people in your story.
/r/seduction03/06/26 03:12 AM
1

The only other one I like is David DeAngelo
/r/seduction01/06/26 01:11 AM
2

I hope you're referring to Juggler.
/r/seduction31/05/26 12:17 PM
3

That feeling where your stomach drops and your brain starts talking you out of it? Disconnect from that. It's not you. It's your brain trying to return you to a comfortable state. Lean into the discomfort and you will be so glad you did.
/r/seduction29/05/26 05:16 PM
5

Refreshing to see such a good post in this sub. Killer advice, man. Cold approach is underrated.
/r/seduction29/05/26 05:14 PM
2

Todd V is complete ass. All the RSD fucks just want to sell you their shitty overpriced courses and they're all remnants of Mystery Method, which is also complete ass and only works on insecure women with anxious attachment styles. Reading The Game is terrible advice unless you actually have no clue about anything. And not plugging Mark Manson's "Models" is crazy, since it's the only thing you need for inner game and what most guys lack.
/r/seduction26/05/26 10:02 AM
2

Erick Ronaldo made cold approach make sense to me.
/r/seduction26/05/26 09:59 AM
2

This. Stop overthinking it.
/r/seduction26/05/26 09:57 AM
1

This needs to be higher up.
/r/seduction22/05/26 06:03 AM
1

Okay 👍
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:13 PM
3

I admire your "don't give a fuck" attitude. Awesome, man!
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:00 PM
2

And now she gets disrespectful. What gives?
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:47 PM
2

It takes 30 seconds to scroll your social media wall...
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:45 PM
3

You like what you like and it's totally legal 🤷
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:44 PM
2

I don't think obese women are useless. I'm just not physically attracted to them. I get that metabolism slows down as we age and women aren't going to have a 20-something figure forever, but like you said, it's not that hard to discipline your food intake and get moderate exercise. This is uniquely a USA problem. EDIT: And I want to add that even an "average" build is still attractive to me. I don't expect model bodies, hell, I think many of them overdo it. I just like a natural, slim look, what…
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:35 PM
2

Okay 👍
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:32 PM
-1

Anecdotal evidence is not the same as statistics, but okay.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:30 PM
2

We all struggle with it, my man. No worries.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:27 PM
1

Honestly, this is good advice to consider. It might not be worth the headache.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:26 PM
0

Yep. It's torture. It's even worse on the apps.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:23 PM
3

Eww, having children? No thanks.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:22 PM
2

Similar interests is actually one of the worse metrics to consider for compatibility.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:20 PM
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You guys love saying I do or think things that I don't. https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/strawman
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:19 PM
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I don't "need" an 18-21 year old. You love inserting words I didn't even use into the discussion. Your low-quality posts have been getting cooked this entire thread. Take the L and hobble on in to your Walmart shift. If you're lucky, you'll only get a slap on the wrist this time.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:17 PM
4

Where did I say to target inexperienced women? Yes, I do prefer to date women my own age, in fact. "it's because women your own age can see what you're like" this is such tired rhetoric lmao. Preferring sexy women of any legal age is not evidence that someone can't date their own age. Literally such a weird, baseless take.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:12 PM
3

How'd you guess? 😏
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:09 PM
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A young woman actually being mature for her age vs. you using that language to groom her no matter her maturity level... You are being wildly obtuse if you can't tell the difference.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:06 PM
2

Man's jealous he can't pull
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:02 PM
4

Appreciate the level-headed response, friend. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:56 AM
1

That is grooming language, and that is *actually* gross.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:55 AM
2

I like how you had to zero in specifically on 18 year olds to make your point. You do get how exceptions work, right? They're few and far between?
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:44 AM
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I totally agree with what you said "unless you're immature, you probably are not going to have much in common with women that young once you are in your 30s". I do find women in their 30s have a much richer inner world. It would just help if more of them took care of themselves. I get women age, we all age, it's unavoidable. But the selection is so damn poor in this country, the obesity rate reduces the options for someone who wants someone reasonably physically attractive at this age.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:43 AM
4

Dating can be casual or serious. I don't know why you guys continue to infantilize adult women. The line has to be drawn somewhere. At what specific point is it no longer cReEpY then, sir?
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:42 AM
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Right. It's a decent generalization but it's not always correct. It depends on the individual more than the specific age.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:40 AM
2

Oh, the irony.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:39 AM
5

Yeah, man. All I'm saying is have your fun, and like you said, forget the naysayers. If the maturity difference is really that bad then you'll know and go next on that one. The whole point is the find someone you connect with and, even if unlikely, that can happen with a younger woman.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:38 AM
0

What are you guys not getting lmao. I'm saying it's not inherently off the table, there are outliers in that age range. Yes, you're generally right otherwise.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:32 AM
6

You're gonna be late for your shift at Walmart.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:30 AM
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Not ONLY, no. But if it's casual sex, mostly, yes.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:29 AM
2

iTs gRoSs
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:27 AM
7

The white knights are coming to their chubby defense!
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:26 AM
6

"Why would you want to fuck someone that age?" Is that a serious question?
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:25 AM
0

We got a chubby chaser here, boys.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:19 AM
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First of all, it would be "ironically*" if I'm describing myself incorrectly and unaware of it. But when you copy paste fashionable diction like a robot you kinda forget the meaning of the words you're actually using, huh? Second, nice agree and amplify. Exaggerating what I said is a lame and lazy straw man. You're either mad jealous you can't pull 18-21s or you still think dissenting by default makes you cool, which is utterly sad. Third, post your pic. Go on.
/r/seduction19/05/26 10:59 AM
1

I'm not suggesting to exclusively go for 18-21 year olds. There's nothing wrong with the age range you mentioned and you shouldn't rule it out. I'm just saying don't rule out the 18-21 range either based on a couple whale's opinions. EDIT: Yeah, you're going to run into maturity discrepancies and it's important to be cognizant of that. And you're right to point out that intent matters, as far as whether you want a long term relationship or something casual. The whole point of this post is to sto…
/r/seduction19/05/26 10:55 AM
1

It doesn't matter what we think, it matters what the law says, or otherwise, what a privately owned resort area's rules and regulations are.
/r/seduction19/05/26 10:41 AM
1

I fucking love it, He's either a homo or he's selfish in bed.
/r/seduction19/05/26 10:17 AM
4

"Hey, I think you're cute, could I get your number?" Simple, bold, no bullshit. Adjust as needed. For example, if they are working, hand them YOUR number instead of asking for theirs. Do not trap them at work. I've tried a few different ones but this line always seems to get the best responses. Edit: seems you're looking for an opener more than a closer, but you can pretty much do the same thing. "Hey, I just saw you from over there and thought you were cute, wanted to say hi." Then just go into…
/r/seduction17/05/26 02:37 AM
13

This dude fucks.
/r/seduction12/05/26 06:19 PM
1

On second thought, I think you're right. I was painting with too broad a brush there. It can definitely go both ways.
/r/seduction12/05/26 09:10 AM
24

Women don't get baby trapped. They do the baby trapping.
/r/seduction11/05/26 05:19 PM
1

Dating in the early 1900s is vastly different than it is now, 100 years later, after women have rights and autonomy in the Western World. I don't think it's about control, it's about access to touch, which is important if you want her to be your girlfriend someday instead of your friend. Also, there's no way you spelled veiled "vailed" in one of your other comments in this thread and then wrote the above just now. Why are you shitting out AI responses?
/r/seduction01/05/26 08:27 PM
1

Both can be true. You really shouldn't pick a date where you're going to be stuck sitting face to face across a table for your very first meetup. But he probably came off autistic as hell trying too hard to be cocky/funny as well.
/r/seduction01/05/26 02:24 PM
2

No one's gonna point out that a restaurant is a terrible first date idea?
/r/seduction01/05/26 10:37 AM
1

Just be up front about what you're looking for. If you go on a date it's okay to ask what her intentions are. "So what are you looking for right now?" She might be looking for a long term relationship, she might be looking for something more casual. As long as you are honest about what you want, you don't come across as needy or performative. If yours and her current intentions don't align, then you're not compatible and you just move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction27/04/26 04:31 PM
2

Dating is about connection. It is a spectrum. Your goal is to figure out "do I connect with this woman or not?", not to try to manipulate the response you want out of her. Seeking a connection comes from a place of honesty and vulnerability, and that's where real relationships thrive. Seeking to "win her over" comes from a place of insecurity and the egotistical male desire to play god. Ask yourself this: in the end, what is it you really want? To just fuck a bunch of women who might care about …
/r/seduction26/04/26 02:55 PM
2

Stop treating dating like it's a video you game that you can win with the right inputs. Don't invest time in a woman who is not on the same wavelength as you. She sounds overly careful/mistrustful and probably needs therapy. You don't want to deal with that.
/r/seduction26/04/26 11:06 AM
-7

Every rule has an exception. Good for you, man.
/r/seduction23/04/26 03:55 PM
0

Lol keep treating dating like a video game, bud. You sound like an autistic child. You'll grow out of it someday.
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:24 PM
-2

It's 2026 and people are still saying "shit test" and "frame" 🙄
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:00 PM
3

Sounds like a you problem, not a cold approach problem.
/r/seduction20/04/26 01:29 PM
8

You need to forget this idea of masculinity and needing to not look weak and shit.
/r/seduction20/04/26 11:55 AM
1

Why are you copy-pasting your same reply from 20 hours before and deleting the original reply? Is it to dodge the down votes people gave you?
/r/seduction20/04/26 11:51 AM
8

Being apologetic is not inherently a bad thing. It's about honesty and respecting boundaries. If you crossed a line and she called you out on it, apologizing is appropriate. It speaks volumes that you have the balls to admit wrongdoing and not be a defensive bitch about it. If you are constantly tripping over yourself apologizing to avoid the possibility that you might cross a line, however, then that is needy behavior. You should make a distinction between these two, because it's very important…
/r/seduction19/04/26 10:42 AM
1

Knowing how to format correctly doesn't automatically make something AI generated.
/r/seduction19/04/26 10:38 AM
1

What happened to this sub...
/r/seduction17/04/26 09:22 PM
4

So you judge the man for expressing his frustrations? No wonder men don't express their emotions...other men like you are their worst fucking enemy. Goddamn.
/r/seduction14/04/26 11:28 PM
2

Am I the only one who has no idea what the fuck this dude is talking about?
/r/seduction09/04/26 11:57 PM
2

What is happening to this sub...
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:02 PM
7

You sound young and inexperienced. You need to forget all that bullshit about "masculine frame" and wishing you looked like a male model. Being honest with her about your feelings was a GOOD thing and you should continue to do that in a relationship.
/r/seduction29/03/26 04:39 PM
2

1000%.
/r/seduction11/03/26 01:51 AM
7

When she didn't respond to your Sunday date pitch, you shouldn't have called her. It's a bit surprising she even responded to you after that but she ignored the proposal about Sunday in that text. Don't respond to her at all. There's no "saving this" if she's just not interested. Say nothing and see if she reaches out. In the meantime, assume she won't and start talking to other women. Good luck
/r/seduction10/03/26 12:46 AM
-1

"I lean more right sided" Translation: you're a 19 year old boy
/r/seduction10/02/26 01:27 PM
3

Using the term "shit test" unironically in this sub in 2026 is max cringe. They're not "shit testing" you, they're expressing their relationship goals, something you should have talked about the day you met. Maybe you feel guilty because you're being wishywashy and dishonest. You're obviously incompatible with these women and shouldn't continue leading them on if you don't intend to turn anything into an LTR when that's what they want. Grow up.
/r/seduction04/02/26 11:59 AM
1

It's not that being a nice genuine loving guy doesn't work, it's just that men who think they are entitled to a woman simply by virtue of being nice to them usually are just wildly insecure and treat women like grand prizes to be won. Being "honest" is one of the best things you can be, and that starts with learning more about yourself and the world you live in. I hate that I can tell the average age of these OPs is usually like 22. Seduction isn't a game, and women are not playthings. Read Mode…
/r/seduction04/02/26 11:54 AM
3

Saying "your belly size is a bigger concern" to a woman is autistic as fuck.
/r/seduction04/02/26 11:50 AM
15

I came for this comment.
/r/seduction31/01/26 08:48 PM
2

In my experience, this problem almost always occurs because of the man (you) being afraid to touch her (socially).
/r/seduction18/09/25 01:16 PM
1

Stop using ChatGPT to make Reddit comments. Are you completely helpless?
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:09 AM
1

Nah, she was already flaking before that with the bad weather comment.
/r/seduction13/09/25 07:30 AM
2

Oh I missed that part...he offered to pick her up. OP, don't do this. You are a stranger to her. Let her meet you somewhere instead, that way she has her vehicle and has an escape in case you're a weirdo. Of COURSE she's trying to bow out of this.
/r/seduction13/09/25 07:28 AM
1

You don't need to make something up, you can just say "actually I was hoping to get to know you more". When she came out with the bring a friend thing, to me either you didn't make it clear enough this is supposed to be a date, or she's feeling a little uncomfortable. It's already not what you wanted (a 1-on-1 with her) so probably best to just cut your losses and meet more women.
/r/seduction13/09/25 07:25 AM
2

Is this for people who don't know how to talk to humans IRL?
/r/seduction12/09/25 09:32 AM
16

I agree, this reeks of AI.
/r/seduction01/09/25 07:24 AM
14

I'm still shocked sometimes to find comments this good on this sub. 👏 YES. OP, you're looking at it the wrong way. Stop thinking of dating and sex as a video game where you complete the objective if only you do the right inputs. If she's back at your house, she's probably already a bit horny. By now the touch barrier should be broken, I would think, so either reintroduce that or it's time to break it. And focus on connecting with her because that's ultimately what we all want. Some of the commen…
/r/seduction28/08/25 03:56 AM
9

Well, then we're not sure why you're surprised by the response you got from that girl.
/r/seduction28/08/25 03:51 AM
1

Her: I have a boyfriend You: *completely baffled* what, you don't want a better one? *look genuinely confused* - if done right, this usually gets some laughs, especially if it's a group
/r/seduction22/08/25 09:11 AM
2

Hell yes. Bonus points if the observation of yours is genuine rather than contrived; it comes across as way more honest, and women sense that pretty easily.
/r/seduction21/08/25 10:35 AM
1

Funny how you never write like this in any of your comments listed on your profile. It's also funny how much this reads like ChatGPT wrote it.
/r/seduction19/08/25 12:45 PM
-9

Not to mention they're all overweight
/r/seduction18/08/25 04:46 AM
2

She sounds immature. Probably just best to next her, like you already have. I don't know that there's any great wise answer to your question except that some humans are immature or inexperienced in dating, and you just need to keep dating until you find someone more on your wavelength.
/r/seduction17/08/25 05:51 AM
15

Are you like 19 years old? Responding cold makes it sound like you're bitter. Ask yourself why you're bitter about a relationship that lasted two dates and was ended respectfully.
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:39 AM
1

Charisma is something that helps with seduction. There are many things that help.
/r/seduction17/07/25 06:04 AM
1

Big facts.
/r/seduction13/07/25 04:17 AM
10

Bingo. Mystery and intrigue is always nice, but boldly showing interest can be VERY attractive. There must be something in your approach or process that isn't working.
/r/seduction09/07/25 06:28 AM
1

John Anthony Lifestyle on YouTube
/r/seduction09/07/25 02:36 AM
3

You can tell this dude is like 19 years old. Still stuck in the "looks matter above all" phase and wants to die on that hill. mY bRoThER
/r/seduction07/07/25 05:52 AM
2

they fall into my lap That's great, but do they stick around? That's the 90% he's talking about here. That's what inner game gets you.
/r/seduction07/07/25 05:49 AM
2

Well now we know how OP actually feels about women. It's okay to dismiss everything he's said.
/r/seduction07/07/25 05:46 AM
1

You're bald, dude.
/r/seduction06/07/25 05:48 PM
0

It also only works effectively on anxiously-attached women and plays on their fears. Something PUAs were woefully ignorant about back then and probably still are now.
/r/seduction06/07/25 12:06 PM
6

Lol. I know exactly who you're talking about and that guy is a fraud.
/r/seduction06/07/25 11:59 AM
1

Yo, just want to say good on you for having the balls to approach and polarize her like that! That's awesome! You keep doing that, you won't be single for long, my man. This is a win, not a loss. Keep approaching girls, brother.
/r/seduction04/07/25 05:48 AM
4

This is the biggest pseudo-intellectual post I've seen in a while. Lots of posturing, no depth. Misspelled words or words used incorrectly. You can tell this was written by a 20 year old male who just read The Game for the first time.
/r/seduction04/07/25 05:42 AM
1

Based
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:31 AM
2

My man, you seem young. For one, you are massively overthinking this and need to take a breather. For two, after reading some of your replies, you need to understand something: ChatGPT is not an encyclopedia. It does not know everything. It is not a seduction coach. All ChatGPT does is try to guess what a human would say to your prompt. It is damn good at that. But it is also your own personal sycophant, and it will say anything to make sure it is sparing your feelings. It would even tell you th…
/r/seduction30/06/25 06:01 AM
2

This.
/r/seduction29/06/25 12:21 PM
0

No worries, I figured it was a language thing.
/r/seduction28/06/25 01:20 PM
1

💀 💀 💀
/r/seduction28/06/25 01:18 PM
-2

The plural of woman is "women".
/r/seduction28/06/25 01:15 PM
1

Literally written and revised by hand for over an hour. Thanks, though.
/r/seduction22/06/25 06:27 AM
4

Completely agree here. Building rapport is always going to benefit you in the interaction - and like you said, you might find you don't like her all that much. So yes, to amend my post, after stating your intent to get to know them better, you can (and should) totally strike up a conversation if you're comfortable with that! I think my goal here was to help those who are scared to take that first leap. They get their feet wet with a quick, easy approach (it might even work!), and they can build …
/r/seduction20/06/25 01:25 PM
3

Ask as though you already know she's going to say yes. With that level of confidence.
/r/seduction15/06/25 03:02 PM
1

I've never been turned down on a first kiss initiation, and many of those times I simply asked "would you like to kiss me?" Asking was not the issue here.
/r/seduction15/06/25 03:01 PM
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Polarize her. There are several ways to do this. One is to be direct and say "I think you're beautiful and I'd like to take you out." This is bold. She is now in a position where a decision about you must be made. Life goes on no matter what she says, but I've had some of my best dates with women who were complete strangers to me 5-10 minutes before I said something akin to the above. Flirting is also polarizing. It's much more subtle than the above but it's a way to gauge her interest in you. I…
/r/seduction10/06/25 09:15 AM
11

You said it better than I could have. I love the modest nature of this post. Instead of fancying himself a full-blown sex god, here to benevolently lay the holy grail of pick up advice at our feet, he's just some guy who has a decent amount of relevant experience and incite to share. It humanizes him and makes me take him more seriously than I would other posts. Thanks, OP!
/r/seduction02/06/25 04:19 AM
1

Not dominance. Value.
/r/seduction08/05/25 01:14 PM
1

Vulnerability.
/r/seduction04/05/25 12:39 PM
1

I'm not the one who downvoted you just so you know, but I still think there's a difference between relying on credentials and experience and acknowledging that that is coming from an informed opinion. You can be a "neutral/original" thinker and still trust in expertise. You wouldn't go to the vet for dental advice, would you? If you're in a room of people and half of them are dentists, and they all give you dental advice, whose advise are you more likely to take? Now - of course you should trust…
/r/seduction04/05/25 12:31 PM
7

Not really. It would be an appeal to authority if we ONLY listened to credentialed posters, or if we automatically assumed they were correct about whatever they are posting based simply on their experience/credentials. Being able to sort posts by experience sounds like a marvelous idea, actually. It would be more likely to lead to a higher quality post (though not guaranteed, of course). Then there's the other obvious problem with how do we know someone is actually as experienced as they say the…
/r/seduction04/05/25 08:35 AM
1

Herpes is literally no big deal - but the problem is it is widely stigmatized and will destroy your dating pool. If you could see yourself marrying this girl at some point then sure. But I don't think I would risk narrowing down my already narrow dating pool.
/r/seduction30/04/25 10:25 AM
2

This sub is definitely more Mark Manson than Neil Strauss these days. And it's better for it. May I ask from what or whom you developed your new approach? I'm always curious to expand my resources.
/r/seduction28/03/25 01:57 PM
1

Women factor looks into the equation, but it's a far smaller piece of the puzzle for them than it is for men.
/r/seduction28/03/25 01:23 PM
1

Maximizing your potential looks is important, but it is not the #1 thing you should be prioritizing. Being hot as a model isn't going to get you anywhere if you're dumb as hell and a colossal pussy. You should be building inner game first and foremost and working on your looks on the side.
/r/seduction28/03/25 01:22 PM
1

Pretty uncompelling, irrelevant analogy.
/r/seduction28/03/25 08:45 AM
0

Interesting. Source?
/r/seduction28/03/25 08:44 AM
9

Huge game changer.
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:16 PM
4

Sorry, isn't he trying to say that getting women is 70% being a physically attractive male? I dont think he's discussing what we look for in a woman.
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:15 PM
30

Best response in the thread.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:12 PM
17

Maybe this is just semantics, but I think that number is way too high. And it's not universal. It's higher than that for men, who are visual creatures. It's much lower than that for women, who select for confidence over literal genetic looks all the time. That's not to say the gym doesn't help, but it's not 70%, and confidence informs your physical attraction more than the gym ever could.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:07 PM
0

Depends. Were you connecting with them on something? Just tell them you think they're cute on your way out and hand them your card/ phone number on paper, and to text you if they'd like to go out sometime. Now the ball is in their court and you aren't trapping them.
/r/seduction25/03/25 04:46 AM
1

Shouldn't we be asking you? Sounds like a case oneitis developing. Try go next?
/r/seduction09/01/25 01:38 PM
2

Best comment. Your focus as a man should be learning how to give women what they really want: a strong emotional connection. And you do that by focusing on yourself and learning how to be vulnerable. Go to therapy. Read books about shame and trauma. Get yourself sorted so you aren't this cold husk of a man.
/r/seduction24/12/24 01:04 AM
22

Oof...I would never approach a woman alone on the streets at night. What was bro thinking?
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:35 AM
1

That's fine if you want to treat that as a cardinal rule for yourself. In my experience, asking out women while they are working works just fine if you know how to read body language and read the situation.
/r/seduction08/12/24 02:58 AM
1

One turned into a FWB, another one we slept together with intentions to date until life circumstances got in the way of that one.
/r/seduction07/12/24 10:09 PM
1

Again, the win is taking action. Sometimes it's a rejection, but it's a dub no matter what. That chip on your shoulder isn't fooling anyone, bro.
/r/seduction07/12/24 05:21 AM
1

Project more, buddy.
/r/seduction07/12/24 03:50 AM
2

Guys including me prefer this because we're introverted, we're not the type to be out at the bars for hours on end; it is mentally exhausting and usually doesn't have the type of women I prefer. A bookstore might have more introverted women - the kind I'd like to meet - so it's not a bad place to look. We all have different approaches and strategies that work for us, and I shared mine. I don't get what is so difficult to understand about this.
/r/seduction07/12/24 02:56 AM
1

Yeah... you don't sound like you're here to help, you sound like you're here to be right. And ironically, you couldn't even manage that. You also can't spell. I hope people know not to listen to you.
/r/seduction07/12/24 02:50 AM
2

I wonder about you guys parroting this rhetoric. Do you know this from experience or are you just regurgitating what you hear on this sub? I've had experience asking women out in retail and it has not been uncomfortable for them. Quite the opposite, in some cases.
/r/seduction07/12/24 02:22 AM
2

I appreciate the kind words, truly. It's hard to root through some of the comments in this sub. You never know who's badly motivated here - but the encouraging types are usually a good sign.
/r/seduction07/12/24 01:59 AM
1

Apparently not if I've gotten these women to go out with me.
/r/seduction06/12/24 10:16 PM
1

Well good thing I gave it to a woman and not a women.
/r/seduction06/12/24 10:14 PM
2

Because I did it. The success is in taking the action, getting the outcome I want is a nice bonus.
/r/seduction06/12/24 10:14 PM
7

Hey, I like that a lot. Thanks for the suggestion!
/r/seduction06/12/24 11:52 AM
6

"Oh my god... it even has a watermark" 💀 Just watched the clip. Damn I need to see that movie again.
/r/seduction06/12/24 11:51 AM
2

Ahh. Forgive me - it's been a while since I've seen that one.
/r/seduction06/12/24 11:45 AM
2

I'm not sure I follow?
/r/seduction06/12/24 11:38 AM
2

That's fine that you would never tell her you thought she was cute, maybe this approach is not for you. But then why does this strategy work for me if you think it is not a good one? It's worked for me multiple times in the past, and it helped me meet my favorite woman yet in the past few months. I think it's a good strategy because it's very simple, it doesn't rely on any specific pickup lines or routines (you're just being honest, and anyone can be honest) and it's direct/bold. I wish I could …
/r/seduction06/12/24 11:30 AM
4

I'm not 100% convinced of anything. I just know I've had this sort of situation work out for me in the past, so I'm going off of past experience. I didn't simply hand her the card, I told her I think she's cute and that I'd like to get to know her (making my intentions clear). Yeah I'm not running game haha, this isn't a game. I know what I'm looking for, we had a decent conversation and then I asked her out. If it's a no, it's a no. If we go on a date, I'll definitely be turning on all the flir…
/r/seduction06/12/24 09:47 AM
1

😂 nice. I also like the one where if they say "I have a boyfriend" you say "what, you don't want a better one?"
/r/seduction06/12/24 07:36 AM
3

Yep, that's right! See the other comment for details.
/r/seduction06/12/24 06:26 AM
12

I think so. I do this for a couple reasons: When they're working I don't want to trap them, they're supposed to be kind to us so asking for their number seems wrong to me in this situation, and Just in case there's no pen and paper around, it seems convenient to have a business card on hand
/r/seduction06/12/24 06:26 AM
1

Seduction sub, whether the goal is casual sex or a relationship. Just depends what you're after and why you're here.
/r/seduction06/12/24 05:37 AM
2

Hell yeah, bro. I'm 6'2" and not bad looking at all, slightly toned body. I'm not pulling women hardly at all, maybe a couple a year. My bane is anxiety disorders that prevent me from going out much. That is to say, you can be tall and attractive and still not pull girls much - and so it truly is an excuse men use.
/r/seduction06/12/24 04:29 AM
3

I think this approach works for attracting women with an anxious attachment style. If that's what you're looking for, go for it, nothing wrong with that. But if you have an avoidant attachment style, and she's an anxious type, you are gonna make each other's lives hell. Women who respond this way to men who act cold and standoffish are not the kind of women I want to be with, personally.
/r/seduction06/12/24 04:27 AM
2

There are respectful ways to do this. Give her your number instead and then exit the situation in a polite, timely manner. In other words, do not trap her, but put the ball in her court.
/r/seduction06/12/24 04:15 AM
3

How? It's the foundation to all of this. Expressing your attraction through honesty is the cornerstone of seduction.
/r/seduction06/12/24 04:14 AM
4

Yep looks contrived as fuck, he's obviously reading out of some The Game spinoff manual
/r/seduction03/12/24 12:52 PM
10

I'm so proud of this sub. This is the right answer right here.
/r/seduction03/12/24 12:52 PM
4

Tell her you have more chromosomes than the number of kids she wants. Oh wait, you already did that.
/r/seduction03/12/24 12:48 PM
1

I have a harder time taking John Anthony Lifestyle seriously than I do astrology and tarot combined
/r/seduction24/11/24 11:02 AM
1

Palm reading is a great way to initiate touch. Very fun to have that in your back pocket on a date.
/r/seduction24/11/24 11:00 AM
1

You don't have to believe in it to play around with it.
/r/seduction24/11/24 10:59 AM
2

Read "How To Not Die Alone" written by Logan Ury, a woman. You need to hear everything in that book.
/r/seduction24/11/24 08:08 AM
5

You really need to examine why you think this exorbitant height standard is such a dealbreaker. And this coming from a 6'2" guy.
/r/seduction24/11/24 07:40 AM
1

It does put you at the top of their stack, though.
/r/seduction22/11/24 09:40 AM
1

I see them go to my normal feed when the standouts refresh. Every time.
/r/seduction22/11/24 09:39 AM
1

Like leaving douchey, discouraging comments on Reddit posts?
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:06 AM
1

Best answer 💀
/r/seduction06/11/24 11:02 PM
1

Quit playing games and learn to be vulnerable. Stop trying so hard to be a hard ass.
/r/seduction06/11/24 11:01 PM
1

"Nice try FBI"
/r/seduction22/07/24 12:51 PM
5

It's pay to play, folks. Many will enter. Few will win.
/r/seduction16/07/24 02:21 AM
2

There's a 100% chance that at least 3 of the girls he got with were the prime rib. He just passed them up because he "wasn't interested in a relationship", whatever that means. Probably regrets it now.
/r/seduction14/05/24 02:37 AM
0

This is a terrible example to support your argument, and I disagree with the premise anyway. I think there's never been a better time to master cold approaches with so many fewer men actually doing them. Women appreciate a good approach. Remember this - she WANTS you to be the one. The sexy, confident, attractive guy to sweep her off her feet in an approach. She doesn't want to have to reject you, so don't give her a reason to like the guy in this terrible video did. Never approach a woman from …
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:23 AM
4

"Words meet consequences" Lol dude...she is a girl on the street at night. She has every right to be terrified of men approaching and to ward them off in a hostile way if she wants to. What, you gonna beat her up for being rude to you? Jesus christ lmao "consequences"
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:19 AM
2

Man, Attached was a game changer. Just finished it not too long ago and it gave me so many "A-ha!" moments.
/r/seduction23/02/24 10:16 AM
2

Man some of those are so good lmao. Do you have like a spreadsheet of these or anything?
/r/seduction23/02/24 10:14 AM
1

I've been in two relationships that lasted over 3 years (lived together with one of them for 8 months), but the breakup I had with a two month relationship hurt the most out of them all. Let's not gatekeep oneitis.
/r/seduction29/09/23 08:25 AM
1

I love this post. You have to learn how low quality people think in order to understand what they're doing. It's a projection of their own insecurities onto you when they say "hot girls are shitty", or "rich people are scum". They're unhappy with their own mediocrity and by urging you to choose the same lifestyle, they feel less shitty about their own lifestyle. Remember: Misery loves company. However, I have to disagree about the reading books part being framed as a bad thing (unless you're tal…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 11:22 PM
1

There's that classic female narcissism. She thinks she deserves to be forgiven for an unforgivable act. Nay, she feels entitled to it. You did the right thing man, good work.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 11:08 PM
2

If you're that worried but the guy for whom you'll work loves you, then this is what I would do: Ask him if he has a moment to have a semi-serious conversation. Explain the situation, show him the texts up front so he knows the ammo, paint the situation in a "no big deal" fashion so that if she does show up she sounds like a lunatic. Guard your reputation with your life.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 03:40 AM
3

I'm just curious how you even stumbled upon this subreddit with such a blatant lack of understanding of female nature... Anyhow, you certainly need the help, but what you honestly ought to do is head to TheRedPill and read the sidebar. Put two and two together. Then come back and be a MGTOW because women are generally dreadful.
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 10:23 AM
2

Lol. "Tough guys" like yourself usually have no integrity and are so dysfunctional and insecure that they have to constantly jack themselves off in public for attention to feel any self-esteem whatsoever. You're just a giant grab for a attention. Log off, big guy.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 11:09 AM
1

Implying you can sell a real libtard feminist on red pill Yeah, so she actually just wasn't that feministic or liberal. There are varying degrees of brainwashed feminazis and your example probably was less so than his example. You also sound like you have a huge chip on your shoulder, tough guy. Chill out, your dick's not that big.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 12:02 PM
1

THANK you, this is going to save me loads of time and money!!
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 07:11 AM
2

Avoid them at all costs. Their incorrect opinions cannot be changed. If you must correspond with one, do so sparingly. As for your disparaging image, of whose opinion about you do you actually give a fuck? The answer should be no one, but at the very least, your dear friends and possibly a few relatives is also reasonable. Essentially, you shouldn't give a dead rat's left testicle what the general population thinks about you. That's true alpha behavior. Is it smart, however, to paint a strong re…
/r/askTRP20/11/16 06:58 AM
4

Think of Red Pill as you would Fight Club. This is reasonably your smartest option, especially if it is as you say, you go to the most liberal college in the United States. TRP is not popular among the average person; even SJW manginas will out you for preaching RP philosophy. My advice is this: if you're trying to influence people with RP philosophy, do it in a subtle way rather than stating X philosophy because of Y evidence. Let them reach the conclusion you have on their own by leading them …
/r/askTRP20/11/16 06:46 AM
1

What ThatKassiusGuy said. These are also PUA terms, and PUA is a lot more mainstream than TRP for obvious reasons.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 06:42 AM
-2

I have been wondering if this book is Red Pill compatible. It seems to require listening and giving praise to reach goals, which seems beta at first, but perhaps that's just a manifestation of amused mastery? Someone throw me a fresh perspective!
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 04:58 AM
2

Check the side bar - there should be two articles on Shit Tests alone.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 06:58 AM
1

Thank you! I'm happy to admit I didn't handle things early in our relationship as well as I do now. I was still educating myself on Red Pill when our relationship began.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 06:23 AM
2

To whom it may concern, I'm 23 years old. I appreciate the warm feedback, brother!
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 03:51 AM
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The thing is, man, this behavior from her is somewhat typical. And while I tend to react the same way I have illustrated in my above post, she seems anything but malleable. I deal with this behavior of hers weekly, sometimes more often. And this was one of her biggest infractions yet. I agree that there is no need to hard next someone who makes one mistake. But this isn't her first and certainly won't be her last. While she was quite apologetic in the aftermath, I will be putting her word to the…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 02:10 PM
7

Perhaps you're a little more naturally attracted to this woman. Pheromones, chemistry. Nothing wrong with that. However... Don't forget the true nature of women. When you say something like "I don't think she'll ever disrespect me" that makes me think you see her as your unicorn, your evidence for NAWALT when most certainly AWALT is how it is. So be cautious. Make sure you're prepared to enter the realms of a relationship with a Red Pill mentality. Reevaluate your perception of her and remind yo…
/r/askTRP14/11/16 02:01 PM
1

Why on earth are you going to marry one of them? To exploit his resources?
/r/askTRP14/11/16 09:42 AM
2

Deny that you showed them to anyone. Tell her if she tries to tell, you'll get her for distribution of underage nudes.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 07:15 AM
2

The two that text you that every night are two men who have never stumbled upon this sub and have exactly zero game, period. That's why they don't know. The guy fucking you on the side for fun has by far the best deal of the three men. Also, once you hit 30, it's game over. Better find your beta boy with somewhat alpha traits or you'll be unhappy forever.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 07:11 AM
5

Dexter really nails the "mysterious" aura, but that's obviously because he bears an enormous secret. However, it's obvious why he attracts women so easily. They want to get in his head because he lets nobody in, yet he doesn't cower like a queer beta. Watch it, it's a fantastic show.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 07:05 AM
1

The quickest and easiest way to getting laid with quality pussy is to not have "getting laid' as your main goal. The less you want it, the more easily it comes. Annoying, I know. What should you focus on, then? Self-actualization. Yes, the cliché "hit the gym" is part of that. So is educating yourself. Read a LOT, and I mean mostly non-fiction, but fiction is good for learning a wide variety of storytelling and having a dumpster of knowledge on common popular books to talk about with bitches. Cu…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 06:56 AM
1

I walked in and asked if they were hiring, they said yes and explained they do online applications only. It's very easy to get a job at a restaurant like Olive Garden especially in a populated area and especially now that we're entering busy season. You don't need prior experience and you need to have open availability. They'll work with your school scheduling usually as long as you're willing to work one of the weekend days each week. Interviewing is no biggie; as long as you're competent and s…
/r/askTRP10/11/16 01:40 PM
1

I've been waiting tables at Olive Garden since August 2015. I make over $400 a week (working about 20-25 hours a week only) and I'll be seeing a steep incline in that number with my new server job at a 5-star restaurant here soon (probably double). I met a ton of women including my current LTR and have become infinitely more sociable and confortable opening strangers. I would HIGHLY recommend this job for both social skills development and money.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 12:53 PM
2

MGTOW is a direct response to women taking roles in society for which they aren't meant. Feminism tells women they don't need men when they most certainly do. MGTOW means you're calling their bluff. Once MGTOW becomes the norm and society falls under the control of women, they will realize they do indeed need men and we can all move forward. This will not happen for several hundred years, maybe even thousands.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 11:43 AM
2

Women generally like rough sex. If they think they don't they're just lying to themselves. Also, feminists generally have no qualms about sex. If they respond angrily then fuck them. Not worth your time.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 07:32 AM
1

I'm at work so this is a short response, but reduce the amount of time you spend around her for a bit - as an experiment. Make plans with friends and leave her out. Don't tell her where you're going or when you'll be back. Don't worry - she's not gonna leave you for it. Try it for a day or two and see if the sex returns. Don't half ass it.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 07:20 PM
1

Yep, sidebar. Your post here makes it obvious that you haven't the slightest clue about Red Pill Theory and that is first and foremost your task. Educate yourself in the "required reading" material and start applying the knowledge to everyday life. Once you notice the changes, you'll feel more motivated to continue and succeed. I could go over all the things wrong with what you're currently doing (from what I could gather from your post), but it's not gonna help in the long run if you don't know…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 09:22 AM
1

Here's what I think - and I don't think you'll like it. My theory is that this whole funk she's in has nothing to do with death phobia and everything to do with the state of your relationship in her mind. It really struck me when I read you quoting her as saying "I'm just not happy" and then the withdrawn sex to boot. I would hypothesize that she is considering other options and perhaps feels somewhat ashamed or unable to follow through. This is strange to me, however. If what you say is true an…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 09:13 AM
1

Society loves (for lack of a better term) love. It makes us good little sheep.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 02:12 AM
2

This 100,000%. See: Amused Mastery. And stop making a woman a goal in your life. They're easier to land that way.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 10:37 AM
2

Alpha bucks, beta fux? What HAPPENED last night?
/r/askTRP05/11/16 10:32 AM
2

Hi, Music Technology major here. PM me and I would be happy to discuss with you some routes you can take for exposure and success.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 11:33 AM
1

Rollo, My question pertains to the future in regards to red pill philosophy and feminism. In your opinion, when can we expect feminism to die out and the western western world to move towards a more healthy culture of gender dynamic acceptance and aclnowledgment? I'd be very interested in any further reading into this topic as well if you can provide me with any.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 11:18 AM
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