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False, they may be smaller based on average, but there are a ton of well endowed women here and since they are a little more rare they enjoy displaying their superiority.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 09:54 AM
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I needed this, I was writing to a particular annoying type of client that fucks up and then wants me to correct their fuck up because they didn't understand the "rules" and wants to not pay. Well my friend, life sucks. If you didn't read the rules you agreed to and now suffer for it, it's not my fucking fault. Your post reminded me of that incident because Black Knighting is almost certainly not going get you laid with the target (but in the case of the bus stop, explaining the gag to a few of t…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:57 AM
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It is important, but it is also important that you understand the difference between finding, and supporting, a man with the potential to make that or deciding to just find one that already does. Your choice in which way to go. However, one is looked upon in a favorable light and the other is called "gold digging" by every man who can't meet the standard and every women who is not being provided for to her imagined SMV standard. Best of luck to you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/14 08:40 AM
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not much more to say
/r/askTRP28/01/14 01:08 AM
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The idea that you spend this much time wondering what you mean to others is worrying. Why don't you think about what you mean to yourself and then after taking a small amount of time to find something to improve, go do it.
/r/askTRP27/01/14 07:38 AM
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I was married here in Japan. My wife's family paid for everything, but in Japan you don't get wedding gifts; you get cash. So, we made about $50,000 from all the cash gifts and gave 1/2 to her parents for costs and took 1/2 for a house savings account. Our wedding was two parts, a more tradional western ceremony (complete with fake pastor in a fake church built only for weddings) and a reception that was Japanese with breaking open the sake Keg and really good food. Since my family and friends a…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 03:47 AM
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You may never get this because this post is old. However, I feel for you. Hopefully you have been able to remain calm and it can be really tough. I have been married for 10+ years and I would struggle not to lose my shit if this happened. The good advice is lawyer up. I am not saying this just because she cheated, but because of the disrespect to you and what you have given up for her and your family. It really shows how strong the hamster can be. One an up-note. You have a good salary, and bein…
/r/askTRP26/01/14 10:42 PM
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One of the things I didn't see yet was making new circles of friends. You don't have to chuck any old one, but you should spread your wings and meet new people. Also, interesting hobbies and things that you like to spend your time doing. If you have knowledge about interesting things (cooking, rock climbing, a martial art, etc.) it keeps people interested and also directly contributes to a better quality of life (and its fucking fun).
/r/askTRP15/01/14 11:53 PM
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I love my wife, she's a good woman and although neither of us are perfect... we make it work. She is no unicorn, they don't exist. You seem to have a good idea about what constitutes someone as being LTR material. The qualifications are, and should be, different for every person and every relationship. She sounds dedicated to her job and maybe doesn't have many people she confides in or trusts. There is nothing wrong with an LTR, you're not rushing to get married again, so take it day by day. Yo…
/r/askTRP14/01/14 04:52 AM
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yea, I chuckled.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 11:33 PM
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The following exchange is making me consider not to post here OP: "I really love TRP and practice it well, but there is this one girl that put me in the friend-zone, can I get out of it?" TRP Community "look you need to forget about this one girl and go out and work on yourself" OP "But i am already perfect, why wont she fuck me... I really, really want to fuxk her, pretty please." TRP Comminity "Dude she knows your desperate, we know your desperate, go out and get something done for yourself, t…
/r/askTRP08/01/14 07:55 AM
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she knew
/r/askTRP07/01/14 11:35 PM
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Find another girl (make sure she is relatively hot) and bring her around. THe missing piece maybe that the flatmates see you as one who will be around no matter what. Many times, the desire to compete will be the last piece of the puzzle. When I was a young teenager, I really like a girl and did all those things to be a good "boyfriend", yet she still wouldn't get affectionate. I finally just gave up and recommended that she would be a better match for another guy and I was ready to move on, tha…
/r/askTRP07/01/14 12:02 PM
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It's never too late, but my advice would be this. Don't give a fuck if you fuck them or not. Concentrate on yourself first, get hobbies, get in shape and improve your social skills (this comes with practice). Once you do this, go out and get a steady girl, spin plates, or whatever and I bet the women in this circle will approach you. The real question will be, once you have really done this, will you still want any of them?
/r/askTRP07/01/14 11:05 AM
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How is cheating directly related to SS? As a married RP'er, I use SS (and other red pill knowledge) to handle a ton of relationships. Whether its professional or social, Sexual Strategy is a powerful tool in the tool kit. Every relationship you have (Hopefully outside of your family) is related to SS in some way. Sex drives the core of what people do, even if they don't admit it, and having intimate knowledge of that is a huge advantage. How you use that knowledge is where the amoral part comes …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 11:03 PM
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Agreed, I didn't come here until long after I was married and I think RP has little to do with how much casual sex you get. It was easy to get casual sex in my 20's, but I got bored even then. /r/becomeaman is a great sub and is where most of my focus on RP is.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 06:49 AM
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I agree, and many people have already pointed out that we have a ton of new folks in here posting (or just downvoting). It might not be a bad idea to make sure that as people post about the hamster and other issues that you go into those posts and tell them the same thing you posted here. I mean, you can try and outwit the hamster all fucking day, but the best thing to do is just be the best man on the block (eat right, style, workout, interesting hobbies) and you won't need to worry about it.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 04:46 AM
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That's a good perspective to have. I am glad that you and your husband have something special, keeping that in focus (as you seem to be doing) should be a priority. If you're happy, and he is happy, everyone else can go stew in their own misery. Good luck, OP
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 10:39 PM
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If your timing is like George Carlin/David Spade quick, keep the timing. If you're not that good, you should work on making sure that people are following you and then learn to change up your timing. As far as practice, if there is anywhere in your area where people are learning English, go there and volunteer to teach or tutor, it will help.
/r/askTRP13/12/13 07:53 AM
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Just as with anything else and just as if you chose the opposite of this and was a career woman with no kids, your real friends accept you for who you are. My wife went through this after we married. She wanted to quit her job and get pregnant and take care of me and our family. Her friends (who were all jealous that she had gotten married) told her about the huge mistake it was and she would lose her independence, etc. We were both in our early 20's at the time. She did what she wanted. Had som…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 03:57 AM
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My Dad was a good man, but not a father. He was as RedPill as it gets, when it comes to women and living HIS life. This is why I always temper my TRP thinking, with remembering that even though I have some new insight into how things work, it doesn't entitle me to be an asshole and doesn't mean I get to ignore my kids because I could be out getting laid. So I have Dad time and I have TRP/Me time; the two of them meet occasionally when I am trying to teach my son or daughter something about relat…
/r/askTRP13/12/13 03:49 AM
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I didn't dismiss anything, you might want to re-read my message. Your points are not wrong about the idea of who you are being important. Check out the lead singer of that old band "The Cars" and pulling down that model. I was merely pointing out that you are so quick to dismiss the kid in all this. Sure, he is not learning your brand of TRP and is learning a game style one; but either way he is learning lessons.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 12:14 AM
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Kids learn from parents, good and bad. The kid is surely seeing how the girls respond to him and his confidence, how Dad only sends him in first, and how the girls cringe when they see his dad. Don't hate because a 7 year old out gamed you with a magic trick and the fact that was 7, give him props.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 11:01 PM
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I would say you have lurked around here enough. I'd say "good job", but you don't need my validation.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 06:36 AM
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I am way late to this one, but good post and thanks for a new perspective of a similar view.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 06:44 AM
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I see a ton of bashing on this guy and saying it's only because he must be attractive. This isn't PUA, if the dude worked on himself and got into shape, wore the right clothes and posted picks that highlight his best features, that's pure fucking RP. I have yet to see a guy who had a real TRP mentality and took the time to have interesting hobbies and be in shape not get a ton of this. Good post OP
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 10:22 AM
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The best part of this whole thing is the comments. The author is getting blasted by other women in the comments. She had the audacity to associate being easy with something negative... grab your pitchforks!!
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 12:42 AM
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/thread go check out the side bar for Married Man Sex Life (MMSL) and point him there. Encourage him to be a better man for himself.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 08:39 AM
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The sad reality is that if it comes to them posing and doxing, they might kill the sub, but what else is new. They can't scrub the minds of the thousands who have found various truths here and they can't kill the idea, no matter how much they want spin the wheels of their cages. If it all goes to shit, I will just give a huge thanks to all the mods of this sub and the contributors, you have 100% changed my life!
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 07:55 AM
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Looks like you are understanding RP just fine. One of the key things that many of those who find themselves 30 and alone miss is that they had plenty of time in their 20's to settle down and get married, but the instead wasted it on casual flings. As someone who is still relatively inexperienced, it will show when you begin dating. Also, those who have taken similar paths will also be in the same pool (this might explain why I know so many Med Dr. Couples).
/r/askTRP31/10/13 06:45 AM
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I love women, what a horrible place it would be with no women. The fact is that in very recent history a group of women have told society that appealing to the negative traits (read that as hamster) in a women's programming is a must or you are bad person. I do feel however, that Newton's 3rd law of action/motion is revealing itself in the RP and MGTOW movements.
/r/askTRP30/10/13 10:47 PM
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When in your post did you discuss something as equitable as a couple choosing to adopt. You must be right, adoption is rising because men have a sense of honor and would not expect their wife to raise a child that came from the union of the husband and some other woman. So, with your original post, you have demonstrated how selfish and shady a woman could be and that men should just live with it and follow that up with a response that shows how awesome and honorable a man is, in spite of the sha…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/13 10:58 PM
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You have to be a troll. People procreate to pass on their genes. To be the most successful grandparent (evolution style). Let me go ask my wife to let me impregnate my younger sexy mistress because I want another kid and my wife is past 30, so I need to make sure the kid has the smallest chance possible to have any defects. She should do it right, because she is a great mom and loves kids, who the fuck cares if it is hers. GTFO
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/13 02:11 AM
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my condolences
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 05:21 AM
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Honesty really does breed contempt; as someone else said... "those comments". As a man, both of the articles were very well written and it reminded me after seeing so much of the Men Right's stuff about feminisim, that although guys get beat up if we write some hard truth like this; nobody gets attacked like a women who writes it. I remember that huge article where the ivy league mom told all the other ivy league graduates to get married or at least find your man with you in college and she was …
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 01:06 AM
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No, I firmly believe in not sticking your dick in crazy. I was on the same level (work wise) as her supervisor. SO, I had to help him deal with the husband, because she did not tell him until she went into labor (other guy was a different race than her and husband). Now that I look back on it, that one should have been a huge TRP wake up call, but it wasn't until later.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 11:09 PM
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The horse girl... shit, my mind just blew up. I knew one girl that was so into horses that when she had to travel and leave them behind for work, she brought her saddle. She was married and would always try to play some shit to get me to come over and talk about how she wasn't attracted to her husband (in the end her husband divorced her, because she was pregnant with some other guy's kid, 2 years later she is back with the original husband and her condition for the remarriage, dude had to adopt…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 07:31 AM
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r/becomeaman/ You are trying to find something when you dont know what you're looking for. Get over the Ex, work on yourself. Get in shape, get a hobby (or two) that you really like and gets you out in the world. Learn to be social and confident (yes, this can be learned). If you become the best man you can be, you will meet women that want to be with you for who you are (or least have some pretty good sex).
/r/askTRP03/10/13 02:56 AM
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The only thing I can say, since I don't know this women, is look at the statistics. More partners = faster divorce, period. Also, maybe self-esteem issues or just plain promiscuous. She lied... marriages don't work with lies.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 08:10 AM
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It's way too much work to go through for this chick, but man... that ending. Fuckin Right!
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 01:18 AM
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Dude... With the comments in here, you are still trying to prove everyone here wrong, even though we were right. Go look through your own posts, now try to read them from another persons POV. There is another man who gets to fuck your girlfriend whenever he wants, and you do not. She is not "your" girlfriend. She is now that guy's plate and you have hit orbiter status. Next up, you will come here and tell us how we are all wrong because you are happy in the "friendzone" or some stupid shit. Resp…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 01:15 AM
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This made me sad, I lost a friend in a similar way years ago. Nothing anyone said made any difference. I wasn't even redpill then (had no idea what that was) but knew it was beyond fucked up. He is miserable, kids treat him like a bank and wife gained about a buck after the marriage. Oh yeah and to top it all off, once they were married she told him she couldn't have any more kids...WTF
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 06:53 AM
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Great post, it will never sink in and the question always comes up again and again because what you wrote is not what media says is true. Still... great post
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 06:50 AM
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Push-Pull is correct, this was not meant to call you out or anything. I truly think you are on the right path and that this was a great post.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 04:19 AM
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For those of us one here who are married, many went through this same type of situation. I have never had a decrease in the amount of sex, but a decrease in enjoying it or the marriage. I think that one of the bigger items missed when people come here to troll or whatever is this, TRP is about self-improvement (in every area imaginable) and self-awareness. Good on you man, keep it up. Never stop making yourself better.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 10:41 PM
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"not like it doesn't show any lack of confidence in your leader standing or anything" So, you're basically saying... "You must be some Beta loser..." said every NAWALT, Defender of the Tampon, Respecter of All Women, who has come into this sub.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 04:21 AM
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I don't have a good argument for MRA. Not sure if I can put this the right way... Women have been and continue to fight their feminist fights. Society has so over-corrected itself that here in Japan the Prime Minister is telling companies he will give them tax breaks for hiring more women executives and the women are even saying "Fuck that, I don't want all that stress". Is the law (marriage and custody and other laws) biased and unfair towards men? Yes. Has any man ever changed things by whinin…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 02:04 AM
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It's good to see the other side and I try to not waste too much of my time on here just to bash others. I think seeing these threads does hold value though. Going too extreme is never a good thing. It was funny, but at one point while trying to define "TRP" as a blah blah, negative, blah, one poster wrote this: "It's obvious if a guy is acting a role, and I've noticed that the most attractive men I've encountered had some... carelessness to them. They laughed out loud with no restraint, they wer…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 10:57 PM
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Relevant
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 09:34 AM
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I don't always like my wife to cheat, but when she does, I let the man stay in my home and eat my food while I raise his kid.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 10:07 PM
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That one was more telling. She didn't give a shit about the beta dude and his "feelings" but she wants to be confident that the stronger guy who is just fucking her is "really happy"... but that is because he has a girl on the side. just...wow
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 12:12 PM
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Its like a laundry list of hamster rationalization techniques
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 10:30 PM
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Go check out /r/RedPillWomen/
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 11:47 AM
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I have the same fear, I have a 6 year old daughter. However, I now that as dad, I am the most influential male in her life and I don't intend to waste that. I will do my best to teach her to be a strong feminine woman. Story: I had a talk with my daughter before her bedtime about a story she told about her competing with the other girls for one guys attention and how she was better than that (at 6, no shit it shook me when she told me that the girls were fighting over this boy). So, the next day…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 09:32 AM
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yea, I laughed at that one
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 07:38 AM
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Look Sully, he is really trying to get you to prepare yourself. Every person in here whether calling you out or encouraging you is trying to tell you something... fucking listen. Best of luck
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 07:23 AM
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http://marriedmansexlife.com/blog/ Read through this and take some time to absorb it, I have been married 10 years (I have said this a bunch here) and it has only been the last year + that I have been learning about TRP. D-Fuck said it right at the top comment. Your wife needs to understand that you "could" go with someone else if you wanted to. My question for you is this, has it always been this way or is this a gradual change over the years? If your wife has always been passive, shy, etc. the…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 07:14 AM
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I was at dinner last night with the wife and kids. Sexy co-worker comes by and starts to chat. I play the usual, this is the wife, here are my awesome kids. Kids do their part about how awesome daddy is and how much they have fun with me, co-worker gives me the smile and walks away. Wife starts in on how no self-respecting Japanese women would wear clothes like that to the office, and I just look her dead in the eye and speak like I do to my daughter..."She knows she looks good, stop it". Shit t…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 04:22 AM
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This would mean I give a fuck what someone else thinks...
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 03:54 AM
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While I always feel that doing this to another guy is wrong (having been on the other side of this, long ago with an ex)... It is a really true report. No judgement here, thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 10:57 PM
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The lesson this has taught you is - invaluable - Never forget.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 09:49 PM
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When we link to a post in TRP, it is in the rules to use the np.reddit url. This allows us to review the content but not influence the discussion. Therefore, no brigading. If you feel the need to contribute you can remove the np. before reddit in the url but it is really necessary? Those who are ready for TRP will find their way here with limited pushing from us and I have learned the hard way that many are just not ready for this yet.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 10:56 PM
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I always wonder if the OPs in these posts take the time to digest how much BTB is giving them.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 05:42 AM
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This is a good analogy and similar to how things have now developed.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 10:04 PM
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It is hard to erase 30 years of this being forced into your skull. I am just glad that I woke up. No regrets from the past, just looking forward.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 06:46 AM
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Great Answer. I really wish I had learned this 10 years ago before I got married. I am currently turning my marriage around to this (and it really is getting better).
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 05:01 AM
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I forget where it was mentioned but my experience was similar.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 05:39 AM
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This. He has been given the tools. What he does with them now, out of our hands but at least someone tried to help. If trying to help another guy avoid the shit I dealt with long ago is "nice guy" then I will take that.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 01:38 AM
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Thanks everyone, some people asked what we could do to help this guy or why I cared. I think that those who posted or wrote to the guy about TRP or MGTOW have at least given him some tools to turn it around. Whether he can get out of the "trap" he is in, it is on him. I sometimes don't get all the hate in here. I expect those outside and the SRS brigade to attack me, but the idea that it is "nice guy" or negative in trying to help other guys get out of this forced BS seems against the whole reas…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 01:34 AM
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Why do I have to be a "nice guy" to feel bad. I don't like to see any guys in this situation; even if the situation is all his fault. The original post OP is so lost about how things really are (screw the Alpha/Beta/Zeta definitions). I think enough people posted to get him here or to even some MGTOW blogs (and suffered the obligatory negative votes... oh no my imaginary internet points, that if he doesn't read and learn he now has no one else to blame.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 01:31 AM
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Married for 10+ years. My wife is Japanese, and is although she pretended to be westernized, now that we have established our roles in the marriage, she is happier than ever. TRP is the way to live in and out of marriage. I do agree with everything you posted here, and I would never get married in the U.S.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/13 11:06 PM
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Why do I have to prove myself to anyone. If a feminist said that to me, I could discount it from a personal view (i have not cheated when I was actually in a LTR and I am a man, but maybe we have different ideas of a LTR) but how could I ever say that she was wrong and NAMALT, it would be silly to engage in the argument. Every rule has an exception, no exceptions... right.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 07:05 AM
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I think what you just said, is in fact "NAWALT".
/r/TheRedPill13/05/13 05:00 AM
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You the host clubs which are just the male version of a hostess club. Take some very dolled up wanna be tough guys and have them talk and spend time with the older single mid-level executive women who never had a real boyfriend. I have met some friends who have been hosts in the club and the good ones make some good money but you really need to be Japanese. There are few with Gaijin hosts but 99% of them are Japanese. The women who go to these things are basically trying to live their high schoo…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 09:07 PM
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I have been here about 13 years. It has its good and bad. It is a safe place and the night life is great. Great food and easy to get around. However, everyone who is not Japanese is... not Japanese. You will never overcome the stereotypes that come with it. If you can learn a bit of the language, everything is better and people will be much friendlier to you (especially outside of the clubs, you don't want club girls). IF you do come over, the most amusing thing you will find is the other foreig…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/13 01:05 AM
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Living in Japan for 13 years now, I will tell you that feminisim is 100% to blame for the issues here. Men were raised by traditional mothers and women were raised to be men... Now you have more grass-eating men and meat-eating women and the two can't do anything. My wife is trying to hook a friend of hers up with some guys from work (all Japanese). She gives them contact info and sets up a first date for a 3 on 3 singles meet up. They all go and talk and kind of approach each other (from the fi…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 10:56 PM
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Thanks WL, As a person who has taken TRP and yet I have been married 10 years, I know the two things are compatible. Women are the way they are to reproduce, same as men. That goal should not be lost just because of a "blue pill" society. You just need to learn to live outside of the bounds that others have created. You can pre-nup, separate accounts, etc. Or, as you have done, be patient and wait for the right one. I think you only know the "right one" or a "good one" if you have a large sample…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 10:52 PM
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Hence why I am married in Japan and my wife is Japanese.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 10:45 PM
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Well, since there are no downvotes anyway. I get the idea and marriage is certainly something to really think about. There was a great analogy on a blog about it being like playing russian roulette with only one chamber empty, or just not picking up the gun in the first place or something. I do love my wife, she is a good women and she is learning to understand how to do that as I learn to understand being a man. Do I sometimes listen to her whine a bit... yup but she also cooks and helps raise …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 03:40 AM
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Great post. As someone in a 10 year marriage, I don't have plates spinning (I do get some flirty texts and stuff but for the most part, play them off). TRP woke me up to taking control of my life, my future, my family. My sex life is 1000% better. I have begun to receive hate mail because I only have this one reddit account and I don't care. I am same person who has swallowed TRP and will still reach out in /r/deadbedrooms or talk in many other subs that I am interested in. The reality is that m…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 02:02 AM
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Move on Dude, it's not worth it. I think in the end Dale will need your help when her hamster kicks in for someone else and it would be good for you to help pick him up (bros before...) As for her, just move on as someone said, just not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 12:31 AM
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"mama"... fucking creepy, dude.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 05:49 AM
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There are many good answers posted in this thread and in some cases you are actively trying to upset people and get them to give you some shitty answer you can post on SRS or something. Posting crap like "I thought only women can show emotion" just shows how bad you are at this. Red Pill is more a philosophy to me. It helped me to not be angry at women for acting they way they do. I love women and I am happily married. Before I started looking at this side of things or "taking the redpill" I was…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 04:25 AM
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I am with you on having a daughter (I have one of each). I don;t want her to be dominant and alpha, I want her to be able to understand her hamster. I want her to know that she needs to focus on what is important to her and to understand what a real man is and what she should expect. I want her to above any game but to know it and play by her own rules. I do hope she find a good provider and can also make her own way and make her own choices. It's a ton to put on her shoulders but I know that I …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 03:41 AM
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This X 9001
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 03:38 AM
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This was me about a year ago! I went 9 years before I said fuck it and we weren't sexless but it was everywhere else in the marriage that I just rolled over and took it. Great to have a son, grats, and I tell you what... your marriage will turn around quick. Focus on doing the same things here that the single folks are doing. Get in shape, read some books, work on yourself and be a great dad!! Fucking proud of you man!
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 03:38 AM
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Yet you compared it to the type of epiphany that one could experience here. Which to me, can very much be a life changing, eye opening, experience. You can't have it both ways. Either this was some great revelation for this women or it wasn't and she knew it all along.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 10:10 PM
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There was no epiphany here, no taking a pill or coming to Jesus. She knew this all along and is only posting to get support for her rationalization of why she is doing this. She should dump the BF because he deserves better, but I am not going to make her into someone "just following her heart" when she does it... no fucking way.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 05:02 AM
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I don't always agree with this. I have been married 10 years and although I was beta for about 9 of them, my wife stuck with it. Difference, my wife is Japanese and comes from a traditional family. My wife can be very stubborn but knows and was taught that the burden of the family is on me, so the respect should be for me. We live in Japan and the constant stream of herbivore men on TV may also contribute to it. I think she suffered a lot of sleepless nights when I was at my most beta (here she …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:55 AM
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Great report, I couldn't have said it better than Sam here so... Welcome
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:30 AM
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I hate when arguments cite "experts", who the fuck is an expert on marriages and in what culture. I agree. having to draw a contract up for sex times, is just one step below prostitution. I mean you are providing XXXXX services and you want Sex in return.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 12:09 AM
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Thanks for writing this. I am glad things worked out in the long run and I truly sorry that your mother put you through that. Regardless of gender, parents can be bad and one day the courts will understand this and truly give priority to the children and really look at who can provide a better life. Good luck and give your dad a hug from the internet!
/r/MensRights30/04/13 10:39 AM
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He has posted a reply: http://bombsfall.tumblr.com/post/49106219582/some-concluding-thoughts-and-answers-to-questions I think the cartoon he made is the same type of straw man argument that he claims others make. The idea that the MRM just wants to have all the ice cream is beyond ridculous. This piece was not worth the program he bought to make it for him. IF he had real issues with TRP or a MRM other than trying to look like Mr. SuperBeta, he would make a good arguement and not post the word r…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 09:20 AM
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I don't know you personally, so take this as random internet talk, but "i just sort of gave up." sounds pretty bad. So your short, so am I. I never went to college as a young man, I joined the Air Force. I finished my BS in Computer Studies a few years ago. There is no magic to this sub, no secret club. If people who post here are honest about what happened to them or what they did (hey it's the internet so who knows) they worked for it. Stop making an excuse, who the fuck cares who is at the gy…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/13 05:56 AM
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Scuba it sounds like you are on the right track and it may seem to overwhelm you, but I think you need to just get in there and try. You don't need to seal the deal or become the PUA to understand what is behind TRP. I have been married for 10 years and spent 9 of those years being Beta. The last year has been the best year of marriage for me, ever, I just was promoted at my job and I am also getting my employer to pay for graduate school. TRP is about confidence with purpose. There is a ton of …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/13 05:20 AM
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We are raised blue-pill. It really is appropriate to call this an awakening. Great comment!
/r/TheRedPill29/04/13 02:27 AM
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Well, if you're single, go out and get working on your game. You seem to already know to hit the gym and work on yourself. Go to /r/malefashionadvice and work on the outfit and live for yourself. Most guys who go through a dry spell (relationship wise) and complain will hear the idea about not worrying and it will happen when you least expect it. I thought about this recently and I think that is a total TRP idiom. Outcome Independent. Just work on yourself and your social skills. You will make m…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/13 01:55 AM
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This is the comment that seddit needs. How many men have said through the years that when they get married to a woman she changes and gets fat, no sex, etc. Yea but that shoe goes on your foot too. If you are play acting as Alpha to interest a girl and then once you get her you revert to beta status, why are you butthurt that she left or cheated. She didn't change, you did.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 10:52 PM
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HI JB, I am in a similar situation until I wholly took TRP. Now I have a similar situation to what TDCRedPill wrote. I have not needed it because my wife has become the person I married again, and things are much better. At first I wondered if she would be able to handle me being a man, not only was she able to handle it but she is much happier. We are saving more money (both openly and in my own account) and we fight a lot less with more sex. The kids are doing better without the tension in the…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 11:12 AM
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Good
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 11:04 AM
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Great story, welcome to the fold. I think many of us are like you and still learning and adapting to what "alpha" is for us. I think many of the ideas you wrote are similar to how I see it. Enjoy it
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 03:58 AM
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Great FR, even from just the comments you can see the back and forth and chances to learn some real stuff here. The "IDGAF" attitude is the one to have; not pretend to have, but absolutely fucking own. This type of human interaction happens everyday and if people could just chill... man what a world. Thanks for this!
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 03:32 AM
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This comment right here: http://i.imgur.com/fTVW3Ia.png That's gotta sting in the hamster tail
/r/TheRedPill04/04/13 09:21 PM
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Ok, that sub is one of the strangest I have seen. It is such of mix of redpill hate, plus confusion and then they say shit that totally validates what is on TRP. Weird. I really am all for women to be treated equally and many of the TRP users here seem to be as well. Having an understanding of gender roles and identity does not make you a bad person or a woman hater. When I read the shit in there I actually rage. After reading TRP for a few months and acting on it with my wife she is 100% in fav…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/13 11:08 PM
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garybuseysmeds is on the right track. Sometimes the idea of the Kickstarter is not so much to actually raise all the money but to demonstrate to those who could fund/sponsor all the money can see that you are a viable investment. Either way, I would buy the shit out of anything you wrote and it would be my go to gift giving item of the year, so get going so I don't have to actually look for gifts this year! BTW, love the videos.
/r/MensRights28/03/13 11:28 PM
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You may never see this, but good on you to stand up for yourself. You don't need any of that shit and you are right. Best of luck, OP.
/r/MensRights28/03/13 11:05 PM
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I would concur, this is by far my favorite sub.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/13 09:48 PM
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Dude, you have to be trolling.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/13 02:53 AM
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I have a lot of sex (with my wife) but we have been married 10 years and still go at least 5-7 times a week. I think the part that always gets me with these posts is that people will sum up RedPill or Alpha-Beta as only applying to getting vag. Not true, I never had a problem getting it, it was always what I did with it and what I did with every other aspect of the relationship/life that turned me on to RedPill. TL;DR: Redpill/PuA is not just about getting laid, to me it is an entire concept of …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/13 01:30 AM
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I felt a twinge of regret for that one, her hamster really did a number on her despite what he parents said. I am actually mildly surprised that her dad's comments didn't make her think twice although she obviously remembered later.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/13 11:08 PM
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This is it right here in a nutshell. http://marriedmansexlife.com/2012/12/relative-vs-absolute-sex-rank-and-the-forty-year-old-wife/ Thanks for the blog tip TPM
/r/TheRedPill13/03/13 03:33 AM
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As much as it shames me to admit it, I went from being on the cusp of Alpha and having Game to being Beta as hell. After the kids were born I shifted so much to them that I lost who I was. In the past 5 years I have busted my ass making money and providing while I was being walked on at home. I still got sex and my own time but more and more I could feel little appreciation for what I did and it was making me frustrated, I was acting like a woman. About New Years time frame I stumbled into the m…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/13 03:03 AM
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I am a married man who discovered/took the red pill only recently. How would you see the theories and practices of this benefiting me? I have already flipped the tone of my relationship in just a few weeks and I am very happy with the results. Also, I have begun the conversation with my son on the red pill, even though he is young I know it will be good for him to understand things early. Also, thanks for all that you and this community have done.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/13 12:21 AM
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Nice report, good work. Lost it at "cry of a true slut", I am sometimes amazed by how easy it can be to spot this, and I have rarely been wrong during the close and finish (although there was one surprise time, but in hindsight I was new and should have seen it). Thanks for the early morning read
/r/TheRedPill08/03/13 09:58 PM
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This... there is so much posturing going on there. It made me think of the article on here just yesterday about the poor guy with child with CysF, and the whole recessive gene test and it not being his kids and he never knew. One of the lines in there talked about hospitals now putting disclaimers on genetic tests about paternity and the couples will always laugh and joke when they sign the forms... then comes the phone call the next day from the not so laughing mother about the very real possib…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/13 06:15 AM
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You're not alone. I am sorry this happened to you and I hope that this post made you feel a bit better. Have you shared this with your current wife?
/r/MensRights28/12/12 10:14 AM
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