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| 2 | They settle down when they get old. #geriatricI’m thinking it’s social conditioning. No matter how classy and successful she was, she was probably made to feel less for being single in her thirties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:49 PM |
| 14 | How to stick to practicing celibacyAlso remember that you can get HSV2 even with a condom (and even if he has no symptoms) and that most people don’t know they have it per the CDC. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 04:43 PM |
| 91 | More young men are living at home, not participating in the workforce, and playing more video games. What a surprise! /sYou’re onto something. Women should beware of an adult male who lives with friends (many are squatting) or rents a “room” from friends. Some will put a facade that this is temporary when they’re first trying to date you, but the reality is this arrangement works too well for them to level up. When we think about it, it’s the homeowner who has to deal with paperwork, paying the actual bills, looking after home improvement projects. While the “boarder” just leeches off. If it’s a college kid or a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 05:46 PM |
| 7 | FDS isn't about giving the benefit of the doubt. It's about being smart women who don't get played.“Well he actually calls when he says he will” never mind that he called to use me as his therapist and emotional punching bag…ugh I’m cringing so badly at my former Pickme ways 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 05:52 PM |
| 7 | Don't use OLD if you are not comfortable with itI work with a lot of high salaried directors and one of them, in his late fifties, who I used to think was a HVM, constantly shows his colleagues all his bumble matches during executive staff meetings. He does this at work 🤦🏻♀️ He calls these women, “all my girlfriends.” Be careful ladies, even nasty old scrotes do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:58 PM |
| 7 | Why I only accept dinner dates when vetting a man.LOL some 🤡I met on OLD invited me to his house for a first face to face meeting date during the height of COVID. He said it was out of “concern” for my “safety” because he was worried I’d catch COVID in a restaurant lol. I really relished blocking and deleting him after that comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:41 AM |
| 3 | OopsPreach! The 2 worst relationships I was in, with complete narcs, started off with them telling me they don’t like make up and thought I was overdressed (like if I wore jeans with a nice top). Yet they loved staring at other women and scrolling through insta profiles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:33 PM |
| 9 | To My Divorced Women- How Are Things?I couldn’t agree more! My cats give me more love and amusement than any LVM. I’ve gotten the “crazy cat lady” label from scrotes. Don’t care. I think it all goes back to the whole “witch in the woods” with a bunch of cats narrative men have used against women for centuries. The Queens of FDS are writing our own narrative and I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 03:26 AM |
| 11 | How to detach from men you have crushes onI have an unfortunate amount of experience with crushes that didn’t pan out. I had a neglectful and disruptive childhood so I indulged in daydreaming a lot. I think this caused a lot of these crushes later on. What broke me out of the pattern is realizing that crushes are like addictions. We’re not really addicted to the object of our crush as much as we’re addicted to the dopamine rush our brain produces when we’re around the crush. So really I was crushing more on my brain chemicals than any s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:08 PM |
| 29 | RANT: Has anyone else noticed white western men becoming more petty /desperate/catty? It’s seriously such a turn off. They seem to froth at the mouth with rage over confident women.I think many see themselves as a James Bond type of figure despite being betrayed by their receding hairlines and dad bods. As an “exotic” (blech hate that word but that’s how some guys describe me) immigrant woman I attract a lot of these clowns. The slap in the face is that they’re pretty racist beneath the surface, but they see immigrant women as less powerful and easier to control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:15 PM |
| 32 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"A while back I found out my boyfriend of 4 months was active on Tinder and Hinge. The advice I got from another sub, one geared towards age 40+ folks, was to sit him down and ask him to stop swiping on women’s online profiles. That maybe he didn’t understand that was hurtful to me. I dumped his worthless ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:58 AM |
| 17 | Bullet Dodging Chronicles: Where Are They Now?My ex clown used to love gas station food and used it as an excuse to never take me to a restaurant—“ a spoiled brat like you think she’s too good for my lifestyle”. I think he still eats that crap now 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 06:29 PM |
| 9 | Bullet Dodging Chronicles: Where Are They Now?Hehe the clown ghosted me not too long ago. This was after a lot of verbal abuse I took from him like a pickme (he was always calling me weird and insulting my intelligence while belittling my work ethic). Ashamed I even got caught up with him but I was going through a low self esteem funk. Anyhow just heard he got kicked out of his friend’s house, his ex wife won’t take him back, he’s back on weed and vaping (he has a horrible cough from it), living between cheap hotels and his car he can barel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 06:23 PM |
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