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Go swing dancing, youll meet women in droves who are looking for dancing friends, plus its also a great way to actually pick up women too
/r/seduction26/09/25 07:48 PM
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Why are we differentiating between left and right
/r/seduction28/07/25 07:53 PM
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I just unsubbed. Its not just the women either. All week the posts in here are just incoherent rambling from bitter hermits that never leave the house. This post is sad but there was another about how if a boy is born ugly they should just abort him because life will be too hard for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:02 AM
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As a result society respects mothers more than fathers, it’s why you’ll always have a bias working for you in the courts. It’s really just the duty of women to bear that burden even though it isnt fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:26 AM
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I mean for a romantic partnership, sex is an expectation definitely for a lot of people. Doesnt have to be right away but eventually for sure In terms of friendship, all thats required of me generally from my male friends is showing up and we have a good time no matter where. If I can get that from a friendship with a girl without any extra drama then Id love that. And i have some girl friends where its like that
/r/seduction03/03/25 04:21 AM
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Any girl that gossips to me about her own friends will gossip about me to them as well so thats something to keep in mind
/r/seduction03/03/25 04:11 AM
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Congrats dude! Dont get hung up on this girl tho. For a lot of people make outs mean nothing. Just be cool about it. Tell her youd like to see her again. If she doesnt respond, oh well.
/r/seduction02/03/25 07:32 AM
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Can you give examples of these mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:29 PM
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Go sit next to the hottest girl you can find thats sitting by herself. I did this in every class and theyve mostly been receptive to it because generally they dont know people either
/r/seduction28/02/25 07:03 PM
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Not wanting a boy be born because he has “ugly genes” because it’ll be hard to find a girl to like him is a crazy take though. Im of average appearance, height, and am bald, don’t have very much success on dating apps. I will say going out and hitting on girls in public works way better but guys are too scared to do it nowadays. Instead of competing with thousands of profiles online you’re competing against like 10 to 15 other single men in the immediate vicinity if youre at a bar (at least half…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:03 PM
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You can’t control the sex of your child lol Men and women have had unique problems since the beginning of time. Not getting laid often is a relatively mild consequence of being a man, when we used to be forced to go die on a battlefield at 18 years old. Life isnt so bad dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:49 PM
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I just read that and some of his other articles. Some good stuff there. Do you have any other resources? Maybe some info on having sex in general? Im pretty inexperienced in terms of variety and most of the shit people teach online is garbage
/r/seduction26/02/25 08:15 AM
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Is it one of those “things are given to those that have the balls to ask for it” situations? Like do you have to just go for it and hope she doesnt get weirded out
/r/seduction26/02/25 07:34 AM
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Yeah i learned too that while youre sleeping with a girl its easy to fall into the mindset of getting territorial over her/ claiming her, but in reality shes her own person and is gonna do whatever she wants. Some guys dont care and can share a girl with other guys with no feelings at all. Thats hard for me tho at this point so I had to step back
/r/seduction25/02/25 08:35 PM
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Everything was good, she was super into me, and I was sleeping over a lot, then… she came to our fav bar after she got off work, and completely ignored me and flirted with another dude all night. She tells me the next day she just likes to make her rounds. I saw the writing on the wall. I ended things. Sure enough she was sleeping with this dude. She dropped him a week later, and is now with someone else.
/r/seduction25/02/25 08:06 PM
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Dude I literally just spent an exhausting month with one of these girls lol
/r/seduction25/02/25 08:00 PM
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The line about marketing gave it away for me. “Oh so youre the reason I see all those ads to buy things I dont need?” That has chatgpt written all over it.
/r/seduction25/02/25 05:48 PM
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I understand youre frustrated and you want the same success as your friends, but you are obsessing about getting bitches too much. Girls will think you’re desperate by the energy you’re giving off. Focus on hobbies and school and making money. And whatever you do, dont juice yourself up with steroids at this age to get big for the girls its not worth it.
/r/seduction25/02/25 05:12 AM
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I wouldnt worry about it at all bro lmao. You are what 16/17 years old? Your job right now is to build your personality and make yourself unique. Figure out who you are now so you dont have to shit away your early 20s doing it. There are too many kids your age that all look and act the same because thats what they think girls like. You’ll have a ton of opportunities. Keep doin mma, get good grades, think about your future, talk to girls. Dont stress so much lol life is gonna get a lot harder lat…
/r/seduction25/02/25 05:06 AM
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One of the keys is act like her rejecting you in the moment doesnt matter. Dont get butt hurt, keep the same energy after she turned you away as you had prior. A girl rejected me at the end of the date and 2 days later she runs up to me at the bar we both go to and is at my side until I left the bar. Then calls me later that night asking me to come over. Sometimes her doing stuff like that is her testing you to see what your reaction is
/r/seduction22/02/25 08:38 PM
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I had to learn this after going from a cute kid who got girls in high school and college and looked younger than his age to bald by 22 lol. Was pretty surreal experience but I had to change how I interacted with women
/r/seduction22/02/25 07:21 PM
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Yours is good advice, i was just making an observation.
/r/seduction21/02/25 08:42 AM
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This sub is so silly. I see comments teaching people how to string other people along, and I also see comments teaching people how to avoid being strung along.
/r/seduction21/02/25 07:04 AM
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Idk how guys can get a girl away from her friends and decide to go home with them. Usually even when a girl is interested shes staying and moving with the girls and Ill get a number to work with
/r/seduction21/02/25 12:24 AM
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There is a toxic relationship for everything definitely. And hot people can get away with whatever kind of behavior they want and there will always be people who will entertain their antics. All i know is I’m not gonna compete to date a girl no matter how hot she is, I might still sleep with her tho.
/r/seduction20/02/25 10:38 PM
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When women say they create rosters, are they sleeping with all or multiple of them? or just one and getting attention/dates from the rest? Because if its the former, a-lot of boyfriend material guys are gonna be hightailing it away from you if they find out
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:49 PM
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Haha every time I go to a girls house to watch something and there is a mutual interest between us. I dont think we watch tv for longer than like 2 minutes before I make a move. The trick is to sit/lay down already cuddling basically. This might sound weird but if she sits far away I’ll be like “come over here” and pat the cushion right next to me and they always come and sit right next to me. If they didn’t it might be awkward tho.
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:35 PM
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Its so easy to wingman too. Literally when yall are talking go “hey remember that time you did this cool and impressive thing” And then he can humble brag without being a dousche because I brought it up instead
/r/seduction20/02/25 10:02 AM
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I was out downtown with a friend (horrible wingman) and we walked up to two cute girls. He said something stupid and they laughed and started talking with us. Turns out they were visiting and said verbatim “It would be nice if someone could show us around” My dumbass friend goes “well we have to go but I hope you guys have a good night!” And then I ask him what the fuck hes doing, they were asking us to hang out and he was like “No way really? No, are you sure? I didnt get that vibe” Mind you th…
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:18 AM
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Do you not get herpes if shes not having an outbreak?
/r/seduction20/02/25 01:08 AM
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I think there are valid reasons to either keep or remove those people entirely from your life. But man or woman, you better keep that same energy. If she expects you to drop your exes then she must as well
/r/seduction18/02/25 07:21 PM
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If youre feeling flirty you could say “youre cute” and let him lead from there. You could also just say anything thats not “hi” or “hey”. I feel more comfortable pursuing the girl, than the reverse, but the initial text being from her can help me understand that shes interested enough to talk to me.
/r/seduction18/02/25 07:11 PM
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It’s rough at first if you have never done it because men have to lead the dance. So if you ask a girl to dance and tell her you dont know what youre doing she may be polite and say “sure, thats ok” but women have told me it’s annoying dancing with beginners. Some women are really cool tho and will show you some stuff and be really nice about it. I kinda did a 50/50 approach where I tried stuff I watched people do at bars and also twice a week went to dance lessons at a dance hall. Funny, me and…
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:06 AM
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This is what i dont understand. I can get girls interested enough to sleep with me reasonably frequently but Ive never been with a girl longer than a month and I dont know why.
/r/seduction18/02/25 05:46 AM
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Im so confused😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:32 PM
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I go country swing dancing 2-3 times a week. And I try to ask 5 new girls to dance minimum a night. (There are girls I see there all the time that dont count lol) After each dance I try and talk to them. If theres something there, i ask to dance again and try and work on moves (so I can keep getting better), inevitably messing up and making her laugh. The entire time Im physically escalating. The girls that I dont end up trying to game, Ill befriend and theyll come ask me to dance whenever they …
/r/seduction17/02/25 02:36 AM
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I understand the mindset that you’re proposing. Focus on what you can control, have an abundance mindset, look at women as people not as something to fumble, let things go instead of attaching to them, live in the moment, etc. But our brains are flawed and fucked up and while I get in that healthy mindset for a moment, I’ll remember something and then spiral again. Ill get rejected like 3 times in a row and your mindset will tell me to stay the course and not worry about it, yet the evil voice w…
/r/seduction17/02/25 12:01 AM
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How do you value yourself after brutal events like going thru a bad breakup, or getting cheated on, losing your job, etc. Do you have to give up dating until you get your confidence back or is there a better way?
/r/seduction16/02/25 11:14 PM
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Yeah but he has to be willing to lose this girl as well, since this could also end with her thinking hes not into her
/r/seduction16/02/25 09:51 PM
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This isnt really related but speaking of taboo beliefs, I found out a really hot girl I was talking to a while ago grew up eating cat food as a snack. I roasted the shit out of her for it but for some reason it wasnt a deal breaker at all so I wonder if were all a little too hard on ourselves.
/r/seduction16/02/25 05:27 AM
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I feel like it comes in waves. Long stretches of little success followed by random opportunities. Also your mindset is probably affecting you somehow. Personally, I dont get girls from my looks lol, I just try and exude a really fun energy and Im good at talking so I just be my silly self and see if they mirror my energy and I can usually tell pretty quick if theyre into it or not. I dont really take rejection that bad and theres a lot of that for me too lol. Idk who said it but every day “you g…
/r/seduction10/02/25 08:37 AM
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My point: If you decide that you are unable to find a suitable partner (which is highly unlikely in the first place), then you have to decouple the need for dating from your identity entirely and find another purpose. You still equate passing your seed on as “winning” which is the wrong thinking. We are intelligent beings. We dont need to follow our base instincts of “must reproduce”, theres other ways to live. Not saying finding a partner and starting a family isnt a beautiful purpose, but its …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:42 PM
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This is not even true. This sub is full of sad doomers. I get it, life is hard, and some people get way more attention than others, but it isnt hopeless. 90%+ of the time its mindset holding yall back from finding at least one cute girl to be interested in you. Confidence comes from building on small wins. Talking to a girl is a win, making her laugh is a win, getting a number is a win, getting a text back is a win, getting her texting you for multiple days is a win. Unless you are severely disf…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:31 AM
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Lol maybe he was a bad example
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:58 PM
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This does happen. But I think this has a higher likelihood of happening if someone has their good traits showing more often. When people say “be yourself” or “have confidence” it sounds like a cliche and lazy answer, but its like there are people out there who will like the person you are, but if youre in your own head they wont see all your quality traits. Like what if your exact humor is exactly what they find funny, but youre too worried about coming off as a dork to let that humor come out. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:47 PM
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Lol ok if he can get laid then OP probably can
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:39 PM
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Most cases of men thinking they’re in this group are actually not. If you actually are in this group, youll have to suck it up and find purpose in life that doesnt involve women. Look at someone like stephen hawking. Dude was a savage and history remembers him and I dont think he got laid. Humans are survivors, thinkers, innovators, and beautiful beings. You dont need a woman in your life to make something of it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:27 PM
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Is some cases sure. I dont think its strongly correlated. Its probably loosely correlated tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:32 PM
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If he can afford to hold grudges im sure hes doing just fine in the women department. One common misconception I see is that if someone is being petty it must mean they have bad mental health of some kind and are compensating. That just makes redditors feel better lol, some people simply are doing great in life and get to have their victory lap too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:51 PM
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Battered is a crazy word to describe abuse lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:06 AM
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I think in this day and age a lot of people are conditioned to respond “I dont owe him/her ANYTHING” when anyone asks them to change, but sometimes its ok to change your ways for someone you care about. Obviously within reason though, don’t let them walk all over you. And if you ask your partner to change you better be willing to change for them as well. In your example, you liken watching porn to cheating. That is a very subjective opinion and one that could warrant a discussion, but honestly I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:19 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:38 AM
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You were giving responses equivalent to “la la la la im not listening la la la la” with your hands over your ears
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:37 AM
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Youre the worst kind of person on this app lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:31 AM
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Its not hard to be patient and be a gentleman for a few dates. It will be obvious by the third date or so if shes sexually attracted to you or not. If she still hasnt fucked you, or at least given you signs or a kiss or anything at all, either she is celibate for personal/religious reasons, extremely shy, or not into you. Dont beg her to fuck you, dont get mad at her for not fucking you. Just stop talking to her and move on, if thats a deal breaker for you. Until you find the girl you wanna comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:50 PM
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Is it hard to believe that some men can just appreciate natural female beauty and would rather a woman works out and eats right instead of getting a bunch of surgeries to compete with social media women? Just because I cant tell if a girl gets plastic surgery or not, doesnt make me a hypocrite. Granted I dont know much about it but I always thought there was a risk of permanently changing your face as you get older due to all the chemicals you put in your skin. Also, all else equal, id much rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:43 PM
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I am a man who has a bias against women in that I tend to assume many of them are narcissistic and selfish. But thats because my mom, sister and former best friend are all extremely narcissistic and selfish so it was all I see. However, Im very cautious about this when meeting women and if they display any toxic traits I get a signal to run for the hills. I dont think being angry and bitter towards the other gender is inherently sexist but it is your own personal problem you gotta deal with and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:49 PM
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Idk i think girls in that 26-30 range definitely date guys all over the map in terms of age. Maybe not the college age girls
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:32 PM
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In general physical beauty is more important for women than men. It’s why a lot of women have mental illness related to self image. Yeah men get old and ugly too, but it was never as important for men to be physically attractive in the first place. My dad is 54 and overweight but he gets hit on all the time by women of all ages it’s hilarious. Hes built like a wrestler tho and is mexican with good skin so he looks a little younger than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:15 PM
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Yeah but more girls are into older dudes than the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:12 PM
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I thought the same way you do, but then i saw my friend smile as she scrolled through all her old memories in her phone and realized that its kind of like sacrificing a small part of the current moment and save it for later. Im not a picture taker, and im not that sentimental. But as I get older my memory gets foggy and I think it mightve been nice to have more photos to look at
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:06 AM
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I will say the term “gaslight” has allowed delusional toxic people to be even more delusional and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:02 AM
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Paying 50/50 has zero correlation with how hot a girl is. Some girls are hot or not hot, some are traditional or less traditional. There is no correlation between the two. So hot girls with money definitely could pay for and plan dates, they might just not want to date average guys in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:23 AM
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Insta models do not reveal their boyfriends because its bad for business. I assume people like sophie rain will pay for everything tho because it makes her feel like a bad bitch, and its a power thing. Idk what your point is or where 50/50 came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:07 AM
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Theres no rhyme or reason to who people like and dont like. She could meet some random guy at a starbucks and think hes cute or something and he happens to not know who she is and asks her for her number. And from there who knows. Her specifically tho, she seems like super shallow and toxic but rich hot women in general i totally could see it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:48 AM
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If you wanna even the playing field you should be chasing 5-6 above average women at the same time until you find the one you really like. But since you only have so much bandwidth, naturally you wont come off as desperate since you wont always be available for them individually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:11 AM
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What does that have to do with anything lmao. If she really liked a normal dude shed fly him out to turks and cecos for an afternoon why not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:08 AM
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Yeah hes got the right idea. I think hes right that the first step is definitely mental preparation. The problem with pick up artistry tho is that it’s a numbers game but the odds are horrible. You are banking on sheer confidence alone to overcome a lack of connection with the woman youre hitting on. She knows that youre probably going up to any girl that will listen and hitting on them too. I like to be more strategic. Im telling yall, girls love dancing. Go somewhere they have dancing and youl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:09 PM
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My point was that you should worry about each part of the process one after the other. If you talk to women a lot you wont come across as nervous and thats really the big thing. Also just progress slowly. Try to make her laugh first. Then if she opens up tease her a little and then make fun of yourself. If she went from laughing at your jokes and smiling to immediately leaving thats your cue you said something weird. Idk why youre assuming shes not interested by default. She might think youre cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:34 PM
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Go to a place where women go. My male friend and I went to a country swing bar one day and saw there were insane amounts of girls there that just want to dance. So we started practicing with each other and tried to learn the basics. Went to cheap lessons, there were girls there too. Funny enough. Girls showed up paired up with each other with the same exact idea and the instructor called us out and made us couple up. If you can get decent as stuff like that, thats your easy excuse to go up to a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:18 PM
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When it comes to dating, you can split it up into getting better at the separate steps. Putting yourself in a position to meet women Actually talking to women Going from talking to bantering/flirting Escalation/tension/keeping interest Closing Assuming you get this far, you can keep adding steps from here for learning to get into and be in a relationship. You start with the first step and progress incrementally from there like you would with anything else. Some of these steps women absolutely ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:04 PM
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Im seeing a lot of similar comments so ill offer a different idea. I think a lot of women just want a man to contribute equally/treat her right and with respect. I believe thats true. While the above is enough for a lot of women, I also think subconsciously women do prefer the more decisive, masculine and tough guys. As an example if there was a home intruder and a man was just as afraid and panicked as his partner, I think most women would be disappointed even if they didnt tell him, whereas if…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:43 AM
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To some girls I know, if a man is unattractive and hits on a girl he’s creepy and weird, no matter how he goes about it. They dont even explain why, they just say it gave them the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:32 PM
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Those are red flags. I think OP is more talking about the icks about silly stuff like chasing after a ping pong ball
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:56 AM
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Lol every time people bring up being anti-circumcision, I just think about that rick and morty where their dog gets super smart and asks where his testicles are. Imagine I track down my surgeon all these years later, he comes home to me sitting on his armchair in the dark: “Where is my foreskin, doctor?” To stay on topic though, the times when ive seen feminists body shame men is usually when they are presented with an example of a man who is overly cocky and misogynistic or simply anything that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:38 AM
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