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Can you add to this? Or provide a link?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 02:23 PM
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I'd go. Only way you'll look beta is if you don't look like your having a good time. If he's running around throwing money trying to get everyone's attention, he'll come off as the beta one. If you just go, have a good time, and hold your frame, you'll come off as the alpha one. If you do say we're not going, you'll come off as insecure probably. "No way. Going to a club to sit in VIP and have free drinks and watch you dance on me is for losers." How does that sound to you?
/r/askTRP07/08/15 01:30 AM
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Keep up your lifting and work on your game. I've got a baby face, get double looks when being ID'd at bars. Women don't usually believe my age(26), but it goes away if you take care of everything else.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:20 PM
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First off-- You aren't eating like a beast. Double your protein servings at each meal. Add more milk, and better carbs. And something besides a veggie burger. Some general guidelines: -Shoot for 6 eggs in the morning. - For lunch and dinner, shoot for 1/2 pound of meat each, with potatoes for a good carb. -Keep your fruits and veggies where they're at. -Drink more milk. A few gallons a week. -Take some protein powder if you can. -Keep up your snacking. Turn it into an extra meal if possible. How…
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:18 PM
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Military officer might be worth looking into as well; They'd help pay off your school loans, as well as pay for higher learning while you're in service.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:27 PM
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Your logic echoes the general consensus of TRP. It does sound like you are in the Anger phase though. Some men want a family. They want kids. Maybe they want a companion to travel the world with. Its hard to say how an LTR would benefit you specifically; that depends on what you want. If you just want a sexual release, probably no reason. Generally, it doesn't seem worth it to me to have a serious relationship until mid 30's, or when you're established in your career, and want a family.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:12 PM
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You could also try inviting her over and watching 50 Shades; see if she's into that stuff.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:07 PM
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If you haven't, Check out the ebook Sex God Method as well... You might need to change things up a little. Theres also the alternative that it had nothing to do with you. She may have been dehydrated or hungover too.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:00 PM
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Play some light dread game... Be very busy for the next week. Act like you have 100 other women texting you; Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:58 PM
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Is nursing a possibility? Are there any professional certifications you can get with a Bio degree that will let you work in the med field? How about Medical sales? TRP is very similar to sales... Sales can be very lucrative if you're willing to become good.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:51 PM
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Might be that they know you get it, and they appreciate that you do get it. That said, your game isn't tight enough, and they aren't buying.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:45 PM
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If you have some capital, may be worth looking into buying a franchise. For me, I like this option because I have zero experience running a business, so I want the proven framework to run my own business. In the future, its my goal to go fully independent.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:44 PM
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Pretty much this. With tinder, pof, okc ....You've got to plant a lot of seeds. Theres a few good Tinder guides on TRP, check those out, see if you're doing glaringly wrong.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:39 PM
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Think about your interactions. Is she polite to you? Ie: she briefly answers your questions, occasionally says 'How bout you?' Or does she actually initiate? Conversations, she leads interactions. Maybe she touches you. If its more like the first, she's just not that into you. If its the second, she could be--but you have to be careful not to put yourself into a friendzone/orbiter. If it's the second, start practicing more of an abundance mindset around her... see if her attitude and signals to …
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:05 PM
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When I lived in the barracks, these were a staple of my diet. I ate tons of tuna, salmon, and chicken. In the barracks, I would heat, and mix the meat with some fresh spinach leaves and dressing. I did that for a few months. Quesadillas were a favorite too. And lots of milk.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 10:33 PM
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I did make that assumption because of your reference to being in college. If you're in college and have these qualities under control--Awesome, way to go. I think Abdada's ideas on hosting are awesome; Level 3 type stuff. Better than I can help with. You are now organizing events for people. I think you could apply his tips to other things besides just parties. Group hikes, travel plans, fitness competitions are a few things that come to my mind.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 03:18 PM
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This. When you're with this secondary group, stop comparing yourself to them. Instead just have fun, and chop it up. Don't be a wallflower, but don't be try hard either. That's great that you have interesting hobbies. That's something you are bringing to the group.* If the girls go for other guys, whatever. Don't let it get to you. As someone in high school, start lifting if you don't. People respect muscle. Starting Strength, Strong lifts, 5/3/1...Start training. The amount of HGH and Testoster…
/r/askTRP25/07/15 02:59 PM
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If ya'll are in college, I doubt she's an alpha widow. As stated before, don't change your approach. Don't overthink this. She sounds cool, great for you. Remember AWALT. Just because she shows emotion in her texts, doesn't mean you should. Keep your game tight.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 02:48 PM
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Looking forward to it. I've liked your approach to various subjects and replies on TRP over the past few months.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 02:43 PM
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"People are that simple-minded, perception to them is reality. When they see that Asian and Indian men are getting with white girls at much lower rates than other minority groups are, it just means to them that white girls hate those races and nothing else even if that is far from the truth." I second this. Its very easy to make broad generalizations like that, instead of taking responsibility for your self. I'm Hispanic, and have spent some time in Egypt and the Middle East. While not Indian, I…
/r/askTRP25/07/15 02:40 PM
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I like your ideas...Any chance of turning this into a separate post?
/r/askTRP25/07/15 02:24 PM
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Look into being a guy that people want to be around. I like abdaba's hosting ideas; here's some other basics... Lift: People respect muscle. (Starting Strength, Stronglifts, 5/3/1 if you aren't training already) Be Funny/Entertaining: Read books 'Comedy Writing Secrets' by Helitzer, Watch some stand up comics. Socially Saavy: 'How to win friends and Influence People' by Carnegie. Game: Be good with women. Men will respect/envy this. Read more Red Pill, check out the books Bang and Rational Male.…
/r/askTRP25/07/15 02:20 PM
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I'd add The Red pill Handbook to your list; its a compilation of some of the best articles from here on reddit. If you search, you should find a thread with a link. I haven't read all of it, but I didn't enjoy Pook as much as everyone else seems to. Bang by roosh is another good one to add to your list. Once your done with 48, I would think of what you want to work on next. Pick up? Pook or Bang TRP Mindset? Rational Male Monk Mode? Mastery Little bit of Everything? Red pill Handbook
/r/askTRP25/07/15 02:01 PM
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Short answer.... no. Check some of Rollo Tomassi's writings on Hypergamy and Solipsism. You'll find a good explanation there on motivations.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 01:57 PM
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Might be 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' by Robert Glover. Good Book.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 01:49 PM
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Seconding the neediness part. Go monk mode if you need to. The more your game/status/looks improve the easier it will be.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 01:48 PM
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I have two... If I'm going to make plans with her right away, I use the first. If I don't plan on making plans for a few days, I'll use the second(I use the second because girl's don't seem to want to talk if I don't text them in 3 days or less when in get their number.) "What's up Katy, this is Futuretrophyhusband" Followed by conversation setting up a date. Or "This is futuretrophyhusband, just touching base" I don't usually follow this with a conversation unless they ask me questions. Again, …
/r/askTRP18/07/15 09:45 PM
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Well said. OP, if you want further reading, there's a writer named 'Dalrock' that is held in regard. He writes about RP topics from a Christian perspective.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 09:39 PM
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What would you do if you had 100 other women texting you to hang out? Don't think of it as punishing.... Instead approach it from an attitude of abundance. Taking the attitude of "punishing her rebellious behavior" is unhealthy, and will ultimately lead to a dysfunctional relationship. Instead, stick with a dread approach, and just tell her "never mind, don't worry about tonight."
/r/askTRP18/07/15 09:32 PM
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What would you do if you had 100 other women texting you wanting to hang out? Think of it with an abundance mindset. "no problem, another time" Wait 1-2 weeks, then try again.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 09:25 PM
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What would you do if you 100 other girls texting you, wanting to hang out? Think of this from a point of view of abundance. In my experience... don't text her back. Sounds like it was a good date, so I'm sure she'll text you in a couple days saying "blah blah blah I had a good time." Just tell her cool, that ya'll will do it again. Text her a few days late and schedule again. I've been in similar situations. I've never regretted not texting a woman first, but have been the first one to text back…
/r/askTRP18/07/15 09:21 PM
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Looking forward to your articles
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 06:59 PM
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"But only in relation to how she felt in that moment." Exactly.... this is important to remember as this is the same as 'She's not yours, its just your turn.' Nicely done, way to hold frame OP.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 09:04 AM
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Just remember, you were fine before her, and you'll be fine after.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 10:32 PM
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Yeah, naturally big dudes are definitely a shoe in...next best thing at a rowdy bar is a gym rat not afraid to jump on the mix.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 06:55 PM
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6', 200 pounds lean muscle. At the time I was into Oly lifting...260# C&J. There was smaller and bigger guys than me.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 11:59 AM
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I bounced for a summer when I was in the military--It was a blast. Its a pretty liquid position... people come and go often. If you aren't yet, start lifting and get bigger. No one wants a scrawny bouncer. Once you're bigger than the average dude, just go bar to bar in the afternoon(before they're busy) and ask to talk to the manager about it. Dress well and speak well, and make it clear that you aren't looking to instigate any violence, just make some extra money. After that, just make sure in …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:31 AM
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For any engineers, veterans, or trade skill guys, another possibility is to work on oil rigs. I work 3 weeks on, and then have 3 weeks off. This way, you can travel a lot and still work on your career. I'm just starting to backpack around Europe in between rotations. My company pays for my airfare, and I'm actually saving more money doing this versus having a lease and living in a city.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 12:57 AM
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This is obviously true because there is for sure 100% no such thing as a quality black or latino man. Sarcasm
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:18 AM
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I tell them no job interview questions until we meet. Then its just having fun with answers when you do.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 12:52 AM
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Take it as lesson. Roll with the punches, and move on. If she hits back up, sure, spin that plate. You'll be smarter the next time though than to let yourself get overly invested.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 12:48 AM
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Keep doing what your doing. Its similar to muscle memory... Its awkward at first, and you have to think and be conscious of it. Sometimes you make mistakes, its difficult. But soon you get better at it. You begin to internalize it. It takes less effort, and then eventually it will come naturally.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 12:45 AM
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I wouldn't go. Tomorrow afternoon, I would text her and say "Let's meet at a bar instead." Just tell her you don't really feel like sitting through a movie, and instead would rather go out in town for a bit. If you still go to the movie, you'll probably just sit there awkwardly for 2 hours. Instead, go out for drinks. I personally like to meet somewhere like a café for some cake, then walk over to a nearby pub/dive bar for a drink, then go somewhere more intimate like a lounge, park, boardwalk, …
/r/askTRP20/04/15 11:04 PM
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The most influential idea for me was the differentiation between alpha and beta, and for better or worse, internalizing that I am truly the master of my own destiny.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 02:34 AM
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And besides... if it turns out she sucks, at least you got some cake.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 11:36 PM
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The closer the better. If a girl is wearing regular shoes, 15 min isn't a big deal. If she's in heals, you might want to keep it under 10. You can always drive together to another part of town, but usually this kind of messes with the logistics of parking etc. The key here, is that at the first place you're meeting. The second place, you're going together.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 11:35 PM
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There's a lot of writing going on about having a purpose, and you have to chase after it and let it be your passion. Briefly, I'd like to offer an alternative view. Set goals for yourself, both short and long term goals. Let them be your purpose. Not everyone has dreams to save the world, or change it. Instead, make your purpose one of self evolution; continuously growing and evolving into a better person. Instead of having a passion, be a passionate person. Take your passion with you, and put i…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 11:00 PM
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I've read two books that were pretty helpful in making good decisions for the future. They're both by Aaron Clary. Bachelor Pad economics, and Enjoy the Decline. One is about personal finances, and the other is the economy as a whole. They both talk about shaping your life to be the best it can in regards to each. They talk about topics ranging from fitness, health, budgeting, investing, majors, careers, women, dating, and marriage.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:30 PM
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Its not the ideal text, but it doesn't mean its over. People have lives, she might be studying, at the gym, driving, or any number of infinite tasks that will keep her from replying. DO NOT BARRAGE HER WITH MORE TEXTS. Don't soya anything until she texts you back. If you don't hear back from her, soft next. Hit her up next weekend, maybe something like "Hey X, never heard back from you.... What's upon with that?" If you text her anything else before she replies you WILL push her away. Between no…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 05:22 PM
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I would not send pictures... I never do, I feel weird about taking a selfie and sending it. It seems crass to me... amateurish. Even if you're in good shape. I'm ripped, have been lifting for 7 years now. I don't ever take shirtless selfies. Or selfies. I have a few shirtless pics, but they're ones other people took while at a beach or hiking or w/e. Think of it as teasing. Your profile with nice imagery is a good hook, but take it away like teasing, and let her imagination run its own course. I…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 05:03 PM
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Discipline. You have to cultivate and develop it. I keep a big white dry erase board in my room, and I write out important tasks that need to be taken care of each day, and then I do them. There's no magic formula, its just discipline. Put one foot in front of the other, and move forward.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 04:26 PM
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"It sounds like she has a lot of orbiters" If you go visit her, you'll be grouping yourself with them. I've been this guy before, and have also dated bartenders/strippers. They do this to build a clientele, inviting people to see them while at work. If you go visit her at work, it will become the only way she will ever allow you to see her.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 04:19 PM
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Unless your text game is on point, and you're a vivid writer, I would avoid the conversation. Saying the above is your best bet, and sends the right, TRP, message.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 04:16 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 04:13 PM
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Ok, couple things. 1) Question timing. 2) How to ask. 3) You need to do something different for the date. 1) Mileage varies, but the general consensus is a 2 day wait before texting. Same day can work if you play it right, but more 3 I've found just annoys the girl and she won't text back. Tomorrow is fine. I like to text girls Sunday or Monday, so its easy to plan something for the week. 2) Keep the convo light. I generally keep it simple... You: "Hey this is (name) from the party. Just wanted …
/r/askTRP19/04/15 04:10 PM
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I used be in the Navy, and now I work offshore on oil rigs; I can relate to a love of the sea. Relationship wise, its just putting one foot in front the other. Start dating again, turn abundance theory into reality. In future relationships, keep emotions in check, and don't get too attached. Follow the advice here on red pill--it really works.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 05:16 AM
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If you aren't yet, I would start lifting. Its generic advice, but it works. Sounds like you were pretty attached to her. I think time will eventually heal that wound, but you can pretty much eliminate it on your own by dating new women. Tinder is great for meeting new women to accelerate the process; just make sure your game is on point since you've been out of it for a bit. Abundance theory.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 05:09 AM
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I've been there before after some bad breakups. At the time, it was always hard; I felt like a huge part of me was ripped away. To answer question, stay the course. Continue reading TRP, and push progress. If you aren't yet, start lifting. Start dating other women too. Tinder is great for that. "Lost in how I should move forward in life" Are you questioning your career choice? Your relationships? Can you be more specific?
/r/askTRP19/04/15 05:04 AM
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For me its getting back in the game. Making the abundance theory a reality. Have you been dating other women since?
/r/askTRP19/04/15 04:58 AM
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This
/r/askTRP18/04/15 10:54 PM
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I can relate a little bit....I usually just tell people I'm tired, maybe make a joke of it.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 10:52 PM
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You bet. At your new job, don't be overly eager. If you're a cool, chill dude, the friendships will happen naturally.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 04:35 AM
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Agreed. You don't have to get specific, but just say "lets' shoot for Xday, and we'll hammer the details out later"
/r/askTRP04/04/15 04:33 AM
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Don't do it. Its no longer a date if he comes. Offer to see it with him later. Really I wouldn't recommend a movie date... but that's up to you.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 04:30 AM
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Just don't expect a reward or anything. Don't go and be a white knight about it, just help her out, tease her a bit, and then carry on. There's difference between helping a girl with a flat, and doing her homework every week.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 04:28 AM
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Ever gotten so nervous that you become paralyzed? It happens to girls too. The more RP you are, the more they'll get nervous around you. Yeah, some girls are just terrible kissers. A lot of times they're just nervous.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 04:25 AM
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Being socially awkward is a self esteem issue. As you become more confident in yourself, the awkwardness will go away. As the awkwardness goes away, that's where the 'techniques' come in handy...the stuff like building rapport, cracking jokes, etc. After self esteem, the best thing you can do to be a good conversationalist is listen, be funny, and be interesting. "how to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie, will make people want to talk to you. "Comedy writing Secrets" will teach …
/r/askTRP04/04/15 04:21 AM
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The best way to make this workout in your favor is to soft next her. If you start chasing her, your just going to push her away. If you give her space, and approach it with a mindset of abundance, it may work out how you want it to.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 04:13 AM
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I think the reply is good. Are these girls you've already smashed? If a girl said that to me, it sounds like an invitation to escalate.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 04:00 AM
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If there's a party going on, just say "lets go chill out at my place/in my room. Its too loud out here." Or, start escalating in public. Then make the move to bedroom for privacy. The confidence will come naturally as you do it more, just don't get paralysis by analysis.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 03:58 AM
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Sometimes guys are pretty hostile towards other bros going for girls in their groups. These guys are probably some BB's who are orbiters. Happens to me sometimes. If its outright hostile(fight threats), I usually ignore them. They then precede to repeat themselves make themselves look foolish. After a minute or so I say to the girl to come say hi later when her boyfriend cools off. This just makes her annoyed with him, and makes him look obsessed/over protective. (This works for me though, as a …
/r/askTRP04/04/15 03:53 AM
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No, do not have that convo. That will kill any attraction there is.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 03:41 AM
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In my experience, I have to initiate sex the first time the majority of the time. After a sexual relationship has begun, when girls come over they all act pretty similarly if I'm just watching TV or reading a book. If you're at a girl's place, bring a book. You're not there to entertain her.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 02:04 PM
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Haha thanks for the reply. If nothing else, I will definitely be spending a few weeks there.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 09:17 AM
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Thanks for the reply....Will definitely spend some time in Warsaw.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 09:15 AM
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No reason. The more I think about it, it seems to sound like it would be better every way to backpack around before picking a place.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 04:23 AM
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I've heard Krakow a few times now....I'll have to look into that more. Thanks!
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:36 PM
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I definitely plan on visiting Tallinn, I'll have to look into croatia more.. Thanks!
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:35 PM
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I definitely plan on Backpacking, but I'm not committed to going full nomad, and I would kind of like to have a home base to crash at. I've never done this kind of extensive travel by myself, so I want to see how it goes.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 02:32 PM
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Any particular reasons?
/r/askTRP04/03/15 10:31 AM
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Yeah, I'm going to look into Budapest more...You're the second person to recommend it. Thanks.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 10:31 AM
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I'll look into Budapest more...Thanks for the rec. I hadn't given Amsterdam much thought, mostly I've just heard Eastern Europe is a better experience to live in. Is the cost of living there as cheap as Eastern Europe? Why do you think Amsterdam?
/r/askTRP04/03/15 10:30 AM
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From what I've seen I like Norway already, but I want to be able to save a good bit of money on the side too, and live comfortably.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 10:27 AM
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I'd pay up to 50$ an hour, or maybe 300-500 day rate.
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