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GGrub8/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:43 AM
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GGrub8/r/askTRP26/06/19 05:55 AM
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GGrub8/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:16 PM
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GGrub8/r/askTRP09/03/19 06:34 PM
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You may not realize it, but the price you paid for this is forcing Asian genes onto your kids, which is anathema for boys.
/r/askTRP17/07/21 08:12 AM
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Girls who sleep on the first date are not relationship material anyway so that's not an issue.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 06:28 PM
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The correct course of action is letting her realize -through actions, not words- that the more she acts like a single woman the higher the chances she'll go back being one. Being dumped against her will is the single greatest fear any woman in a relationship has, use that to your advantage.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 07:13 AM
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This is an open declaration of war and it's a good thing for men, for we excel in overt, open confrontations, unlike women.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/21 07:59 PM
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There needs to be a global movement against this nightmare. Something incredibly artificial and dumb like BLM managed to recruit so many supporters across the globe, why can't we do the same? As long as we're fragmented we don't stand a chance. There are political parties everywhere in the world that share our values, we need a temporary alliance (it would degenerate in something undesirable if it overstays its welcome) to make the pendulum swing back before it breaks. This has to happen NOW whi…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/21 07:17 AM
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But BLM were heroes amirite?
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:39 AM
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You shouldn't have argued. The correct answer is "it's my right and you can't stop me" and leave it at that. You failed to assert dominance and got dragged into a pointless argument, this is the real reason she's your ex.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 06:23 AM
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This doesn't address the core issue here: men want to be loved, not just sex, and certainly not sex in exchange for money.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:35 AM
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Unsolicited nudes texting is considered sexual harrassment in developed countries. You'd best remind her of that.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:32 AM
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There is nothing wrong in complaining about an unfair system. Women get a free pass for everything, men are heavily punished for being men and desiring love and respect. The issue is when they complain and they still waste their time, resources and then wife up those women because they settle for used up pussy.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 11:27 AM
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Look at all this bluepilled advice on this topic. You people are bluepilled pussies who pretend to be redpilled, even though we've been telling you time and again that you can't use RP teachings for your BP goals.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 06:40 AM
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They don't give a damn about you. They already have their families, friends, jobs, interests etc. There is simply not enough time for you in their lives. This is why it's almost impossible to make genuine friends after school years.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:07 AM
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Silent demotion, don't talk about it at all. She'll get the message. If she gives you an ultimatum just say you're no longer interested in a LTR and let the plate break.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:38 AM
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They punish us all the time for things we can't change. They punish us for being men. You are encouraging psychopathic behavior in half the world population by not punishing it. A girl should not be allowed to act the way she did to OP, what the hell is the point of teaching us concepts such as empathy since childhood if 50% of the world can throw them in the trash without consequences? Everyone in this topic aside from obvious concern trolls like you agrees that such revolting behavior is unacc…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:57 AM
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"Words are cheap."
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:22 AM
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A girl exits the sexual and relationship market as soon as she either has the first kid or hits the wall, whichever happens first. Pretending this isn't the case is merely coping. Today's Feminism-mandated laws and narrative are trying to combat this wholly natural effect.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 06:35 AM
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"Stringing her along" is such an ugly expression, you are supposed to be the prize, she should be grateful that you're allowing her in your life, with or without marriage. Our job is not to provide marriages to women, it's to keep the relationship going. Nobody has the right to even mention a commitment such as marriage after only ONE YEAR of knowing one another, something like that isn't even worth of an answer. Let her figure out on her own if that dumb piece of paper matters more than you as …
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:17 PM
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Did you know human teeth are strong enough that you can kill someone by biting him in the neck?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 08:51 PM
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Corollary: it takes the knowledge of a SINGLE cock that has been inside of a girl to make her lose 75% of her perceived value. Even beta cucks feel disgust about that, let alone the high-quality men she has her eyes on. See why girls lie all the time about their n-count?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:24 PM
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The potential to give something of value. Keyword: "potential". Very rarely are favors actually dispensed and it needs to be that way for them to keep their power and influence. Does this sound familiar? Yeah, that's precisely politicians' M.O. More than half of the U.S. didn't vote Trump because they actually expected him to help them in any way, but simply because he had more potential to do so than his competition.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:53 AM
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The key difference is that the West's issues are unfixable by an individual. If you're redpilled and Indian all you have to do is lift and apply TRP concepts to become a more assertive individual and your parents will think twice before attempting to force an arranged marriage on you. If my dad tried to pull something that goes against my personal freedom he knows he's getting punched in the face at best. Now imagine having that kind of frame in a country full of betas. In the feminized countrie…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:47 AM
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Feminism is already telling the whole western world what to do. We're not nearly as free as you think.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:38 AM
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Lead by example. Show that you're repulsed by it, deny kisses and sex, demand to keep her distance from you. She'll quit in no time if you're more valuable to her than her silly vice. Alternatively if you're willing to compromise get her to start vaping instead. Most people who switch to that never go back to smoking because they realize how gross and smelly it is.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:34 AM
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We're not here to validate your thoughts. Think your life is worthless? Either end it or work on it.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:31 AM
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Standard "you should worry when/if I no longer want you for sex" answer applies.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:29 AM
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Even worse if the couple has kids. The guy might be a loser and deserve total humiliation, but the kids don't and this dynamic will fuck them up for life. And I can't even fathom the horror of having your dad decide to have a sex change, the feeling must be like witnessing his suicide and having his corpse displayed in front of you every day.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:34 PM
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Do you even read what you just wrote? The fact she was with him for EIGHT YEARS is a huge indicator that she's an alpha widow. Do you even realize how strong of a bond they built in that time? All the sex, dates, lovey-dopey words, physical contact, validation, social events and so on. The person might be gone from her life (or maybe not completely, hence she keeps his pics on her FB) but the FEELZ are still there and you're competing against them. 8 years vs 3 months, guess which one has the up…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:22 PM
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I'm going to assume you read a recent topic on the main sub about this subject. Word of advice: not everything there is quality material, even if it gets upvoted, especially if it's from past the golden age of TRP (which ended in about 2017). The sidebar and certain topics from highly respected users are all you need, everything else is either parroting the core concepts or outright broscience.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:07 AM
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She has your seed. She has won. She has complete power over you and is testing how much shit she can get away with. Don't let your guard down, keep your frame rock-solid, don't become her slave. Whenever she acts out of line be swift to call her out on her crap and re-establish your dominance. You don't have to be rude or vical about it, simple dread and withdrawing attention will work.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:03 PM
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Negative feelings are just as necessary as the positive ones, they give each other meaning. It's no coincidence that people who live an extremely easy, successful life eventually become depressed and find themselves on a self-destructive path - look no further than popstars and Hollywood celebrities to see countless examples of this truth. This is also why HB9, pre-wall girls, who are worshipped by the entire society, crave drama and "bad boys" who treat them like dirt instead of princesses like…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:55 PM
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Nose piercings are a red flag and quite unsightly to boot.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 11:31 AM
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Forget the incels, what's with blatantly blue-pilled replies that directly violate rule zero getting upvoted like crazy lately? "Settle down after only 3 years of dating, it's her right"? "Seek therapy for this or that ridiculously small issue"? "Your mom disrespects your dad but you shouldn't call her out on her crap"? "Work your ass off in a corporate job, it's the best way to get a promotion"? "Compliment your girl if she sends you unsolicited nudes"? "Become friends with your LTR's friends e…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:35 PM
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Pushing for long-term plans after only 3 years of dating is a red flag. If the LTR has solid foundations she shouldn't have any reasons to worry about that because she knows she has made the right choice and patience is a virtue.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 08:24 PM
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You don't really know a person after just 5 years, let alone 3. My father is the person I trust most and even he doesn't get to know certain things about me unless 20 or more years have passed, regardless of how important they are. An event might be just a single instant, but its implications might take decades to resolve and the chapter to be fully closed, at which point I may or may not decide to tell him. And I'm talking about my dad here, who unconditionally loves me. Now imagine the secrets…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:42 PM
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Insane in the past maybe, but today's world works differently and either you adapt to it or succumb. The risk of having a 20-something woman dump your ass and take your child away FAR outweighs the health risks associated to pregnancy in her 30's. Do you even realize how destructive being raised by a single mom is for a kid? I'd rather take an extra 1% chance of health complications over an extra 90% chance of a ruined life. A woman in her 20s who just had a kid from you is in a position of extr…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:32 PM
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It doesn't matter what and when the woman wants, they change their mind as easily as they change shoes. You need to make absolutely sure your offspring won't be deprived of their most important resource, namely their father, by a woman who can easily dump you after they're born. In their early 20's it's extremely easy for that to happen, which is why you wait until she's about to hit the wall or just hit it and therefore her power over other men has considerably gone down before setting down and…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:21 PM
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A therapist's job is to make you an average, functioning member of society who isn't one day going to kill himself or pick up a shotgun and go for a killing spree. If what you desire is an existence that goes above mediocrity, to be in the 80 percentile, therapists will not and can not help you.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:02 AM
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They do and it's mercilessly exploited by this feminist society. Part of the reason alphas are so attractive is because they don't succumb to this instinct but are capable of switching it on and off depending on the circumstances, while on betas (re: providers) it's on all the time.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 09:25 AM
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I have instructed my family to keep distance from the girls I'm seeing because I am the one who chooses if and when they can be considered part of it (spoiler alert: never unless 10+ years of stable LTR have passed). I refuse to allow some chick I'm seeing to participate to family events, only to breakup a few months/years later. Family is your clan, your tribe, and outsiders should be never welcome until they prove their loyalty, which takes a long time. Girls always push for commitment, it's i…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:20 AM
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I have multiple accounts and regularly drop subtle redpilled comments on various subreddits just to raise awareness. It's not my intention to "awaken" people there or anything like that (couldn't care less), it's just a reminder that TRP can't be stopped and it's futile to try to do so.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 07:59 AM
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You don't get promoted by working harder. The perfect gift for a good digger is a better shovel, not a throne. Promotions are all about office politics and women are naturally more advantaged in that regard.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 10:13 AM
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Do NOT have unprotected sex with this slut. Don't go down on her either. You WILL catch something otherwise.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:43 PM
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You promoted her to LTR after only 7 months? And she's a HB8-9? Dude she pretty much "won" you, got bored and started looking for a new cock to have fun with. You are just a toy to her.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:40 PM
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She essentially said you raped her. As others have said you need to get the hell out of this relationship but in a discreet way so she won't link it to this event. Start talking to her about your (real or not) problems, be whiny, ask her to take charge and make all the choices, cry in front of her, etc. Basically do everything in your power to seem as unattractive as possible. Meanwhile start gaming other girls and work on your agenda. Eventually she'll lose attraction and cheat on you, which is…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:37 PM
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4 years is absolutely nothing. Try 15.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 08:09 PM
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Fuck off. If I want my LTR to be my GF without cohabitation for 40 years either she's on board or she can GTFO. This is the askredpill sub, not to the "man up" sub.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:55 PM
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Blunt and to the point, without unecessary patronizing and contempt to OP. This is the kind of replies we need here.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:30 AM
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Do I want to fuck her? Nothing. Am I not interested in fucking her? "Have some dignity."
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:14 PM
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Don't. This is an interesting subject, way more than all the "how do I get my ex back" crap. As for OP, what kind of field do you work in that employers care about job gaps, especially in today's economy where they're pretty much expected?
/r/askTRP15/02/20 07:32 AM
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Properly executed squats and deadlifts can't give you herniated disks. It's anatomically impossible because there is no pressure in that area.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 07:25 AM
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Problem is that you know you're constantly making someone else, who barely works, a lot richer than yourself. I wouldn't mind 9-5 if I knew I would get 100% of my effort in return, instead of 1%.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 12:57 PM
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You're not even required to disclose HIV in several countries these days if you use condoms, let alone chlamydia. Yeah it was dumb not to wear a condom that time but what's done is done. From now on wrap it up and keep your mouth shut.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 06:28 AM
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You're the man, you're supposed to make 18-22 y.o. girls grow mentally and emotionally, eventually turning them into women worth spending a life with. If you don't do that someone else, typically multiple Chads, will turn her into a bitter, pumped-and-dumped, post-wall slut. We like to blame society for the sad state most women are in now, but a big part of the blame comes from people like you who don't have the dedication to raise today's girls into decent women, leaving them to drift aimlessly…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 07:18 AM
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Best answer to that shit test is always "And? Start worrying when I no longer want you for sex".
/r/askTRP30/01/20 05:32 PM
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You don't need a marriage contract to live a life with her and she doesn't need it either. If she values that contract above you as a person, above your love, then she's starting to show her true colors, especially now that the wall is approaching. Put your foot down and refuse to marry her. If your commitment isn't enough and she leaves you then you'll be better off without her.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 10:14 PM
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Start being unavailable, turn phone notifications off, start seeing other girls. Never outright say it though, let her get the hint that she's no longer your main option.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 06:47 AM
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Stop being selfish. He doesn't want to marry you, so what? Why are you considering that damn contract that gives you total power over him more valuable than his love and commitment? Oh wait. Maybe because... it's not about love, it's actually about the power, right? Either way, throwing away a relationship with a man who would probably give his life to save yours for a contract that ypu don't really need is probably not the best idea. Good luck finding a better man in your post-wall years.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 09:33 PM
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The best thing you can do for your son is to vanish from his life. His mother might be an abhorrent woman, but you are a felon, which automatically puts you below her and makes you more harmful to your son than whatever good you might bring to his life. I would hate your guts if I was your son and I wouldn't hesitate hurting you in the most painful way possible.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 01:42 PM
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It's normal. Women are supposed to be feminine, elegant, dignified, well-mannered, modest, bubbly, creative and stimulating. Nowadays they're loud, trashy, depressed, ignorant and masculine because society allows them to be like that. Of course you find them repulsive and you'd rather spend your time elsewhere.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 02:14 PM
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Their bitterness towards men isn't justified at all. If those women got dumped by their Chad once they approached the wall it's their fault for not being good enough to be lifetime partner material. They had about 5-10 years to invest into the relationship and show him they had more to offer besides looks. Just like you quit a job if you don't get a promotion after several years and look for an upgrade, you are absolutely entitled in your right to dump a wall-approaching girl if she has nothing …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 05:37 AM
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She deprived you of the single most important resource a kid needs: a father. Behind every single mothers there are always bad decisions, no matter how you rationalize it.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 05:31 AM
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Define intelligent. If she has a PhD but she rides the CC she's not a woman I would define as such, as she's deliberately working against her best interests by shrinking her mating pool and destroying her pair-bonding ability. A woman I would define as intelligent is Li Ziqi (go watch her videos on YouTube) as she's highly feminine yet has amazing creativity, domestic ability and a wide set of useful skills.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 08:04 PM
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They're shit tests. You're supposed to not even acknowledge them. All labels are synonymous with "Chadsexual".
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:06 AM
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You can see this mentality invading askTRP. Now posts such as "If your LTR says you should be friend with her friends then you have to do it" and "It's okay if your LTR goes on a vacation on an island with her friends" are getting massively upvoted and people who point out at how crazy this is by TRP standards get downvoted to oblivion.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 06:21 AM
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They're never for you, they're for the next men in line.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:06 AM
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No, it's not possible. The issue isn't even about her actually going, it's about even considering the option. A girl who is really into you doesn't do this kind of holidays without you, period. Yet another case of bluepill mentality invading this board. A comment like this wouldn't have existed a couple of years ago.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 05:59 AM
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Women aren't the dominant gender.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:51 AM
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She's being honest, except for one, small detail: she didn't finish the sentence with... ​ "...for you".
/r/askTRP30/09/19 06:50 AM
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"No." Less is more. Be blunt, direct and brief. The more you "talk" the more ammo you give her to use against you.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:58 AM
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Thanks for the reply. Very insightful.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:23 PM
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How do things change in the dating and future kids (if you want them) scenario? I would imagine it opens up an abundance mentality typically seen in 20-24 y.o. HB8+ girls because of the massive SMV boost you get from being a millionaire, but at the price of having to worry about gold diggers and having to guard your assets from LTRs who will push for marriage.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 06:01 AM
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They exist and are basically the alphas of the gay world, the most prized ones that feminine gays want commitment from (and never get). They're usually jacked, bearded, with tattoos and have lots of money. Since they fuck other dudes they typically have zero need for female friends. They're at best acquaintances for social purposes. You'd be surprised at how similar the gay dating scenario is to the heterosexual one, including the concept of "gay wall": can you imagine how awful a feminine gay m…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 07:10 PM
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Nothing wrong if she has a masculine gay friend, who basically treats her like a sister with the added bonus he won't fuck her. The problem is masculine gay dudes usually don't want/need female friends, so it's almost guaranteed they're the effemminate kind, which come with a list of cons you don't want your girl exposed to, such as a warped opinion of masculinity and excessive free validation.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:28 AM
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While I agree with you about plates and FWBs, I respectfully disagree with your opinion on LTRs. My commitment is to her, not to other people I don't care about. Caring about a girl and not caring about her friends aren't mutually exclusive. Edit: very disappointed by the downvotes for an opinion that isn't even remotely extreme. Another sign that something is wrong with this subreddit, no wonder there has been an exodus as of late. If you let a girl, heck any person, dictate who you should asso…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:45 AM
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This. I used to do covert contracts all the time and it wasn't for a lack of self-worth, quite the opposite. It was because society repeatedly and relentlessly told me that I was a bad and selfish person every time I voiced my dissatisfaction about something, that I should be grateful for the way I was being treated because it could be worse, I could be completely alone and unloved. Eventually I decided that being "alone and unloved" was actually preferable to the way I was treated and I truly b…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/19 02:35 PM
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Avoid sending messages longer than two lines and for the love of God no more than one emoji.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:44 AM
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He needs to speak up and sue these women for defamation. It doesn't matter if they're found guilty or not, the purpose is to warn other men that they're not LTR material, drastically lowering their chance of scoring high-quality men. Social image destruction is the ultimate punishment for a woman and men are much more capable of inflicting that than Feminism would have us believe.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 08:33 PM
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Ronaldo himself should be the one to speak up. If he's innocent, he's absolutely entitled to shame and publicly accuse this woman of defamation. It should be her punishment for a false rape accusation, so that no high-quality man will ever want to be in a relationship with her. She might not face any legal consequences, but being known as a woman with a penchant for false rape allegations is equally devastating to her life.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:46 AM
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I actually shamelessly say that I only like hot, young chicks and their personality is just a bonus.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:01 PM
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Talk about self-fulfilling prophecy. If they stopped eating like pigs, they'd have plenty of men who would gift them with real pleasure.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 04:59 PM
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How does a girl manipulate a man? With her sexuality. How does a standard girl manipulate a fit, muscular guy? Again, with her sexuality. The thing is, a landwhale can manipulate the average joe because he can't get any better, while she can't do it with Mr. Fit guy because he'll simply dump her for an attractive girl, whom he's not in shortage of. Since most girls tend to let themselves go after they locked down a guy, they know their agenda will not work so easily if he's in shape so they can:…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 04:56 PM
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Bodybuilder girls are repulsive but a small amount of muscles is what separates anorexic girls from those with a model body. If only men had it this easy...
/r/askTRP20/08/19 04:44 PM
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Have you ever seen a bodybuilder in a relationship with a woman who is out of shape? Me either. Being engaged to a bodybuilder is a lifetime commitment to maintaining a healthy lifestyle and attractive figure, which is too much effort for the average woman. Why would she do that when she can still have her cake and eat it too?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:17 AM
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A 10/10 woman is less useful to society than a 7/10 man, just saying. Feminism brainwashed people to make them believe the opposite but she has nothing to offer besides her looks and vagina. Unless you're a mediocre man you're definitely in position to say something like this if she's acting like a total bitch as OP described.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:08 PM
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Quite the opposite. It shows that you're not putting her on a pedestal and that she's disposable, which is a demonstration of high value and therefore fuels her attraction towards you. Also, this comment and soft nexting are not mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 10:13 AM
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Even if they're hot, they eventually hit the wall and they need to switch their looks accordingly. Post-wall women can't dress and look "hot", they need to be elegant, refined and classy to compensate for their fading looks. Tattoos on aging women look incredibly trashy which is why they're a terrible long-term choice. If you're plating tat'd young girls and you find them hot go for it, but I'd never recommend them for a LTR.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:51 AM
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"You overestimate yourself." Watch her hamster going nuclear.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:46 AM
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Make sure to selectively turn her notifications off. You'll be amazed at how much easier it gets for you if you just do that. You don't have to tell her either so if she wonders why you take so long to reply just say you're busy/working/whatever. I turn notifications off for everyone who texts me more than once a day unless it's my best friend, work related or my immediate family. It's not like anyone else will be texting me for an emergency (besides you make a normal call for that sort of thing…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 06:18 AM
23

Always a red flag. Tattoos on men are traditionally a symbol of power and control over your own life, though this has been perverted over time and now any loser can get tats. Still, on the right (re: muscular) body they can look amazing even past your 60's. On women however it's another matter entirely. Tattoos are ALWAYS unattractive on post-wall women (and arguably on pre-wall ones too) because, unlike men, they lack the muscular structure, collagen and skin thickness to support them. Tattoos …
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:37 PM
0

Dopamine in itself is not bad, quite the opposite. What separates a "bad" dopamine source from a "good" one is that the former has an unacceptably high time/money cost. Things like masturbation and music are perfectly fine because they're not lowering your productivity unless you j.o. for a long period of time or do absolutely nothing while listening to music.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 03:39 AM
-4

If she was really into you she'd find a way to avoid being sent away for 3 months, including quitting her job if all else fails. The fact she's ok with this implies you're not her top priority so she'll start looking for someone else.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 09:19 AM
1

I strongly dislike exposing my personal life in public, including relationships, so it's a major green flag is my girl doesn't advertise me all over socials and in her social circle. Sex frequency and enthusiasm are the only things you need to be concerned about. If she's clearly interested in you in a sexual way then don't worry about her not exposing your relationship in public, she might just want to respect your and her own privacy.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:28 PM
0

What the hell is with these humblebragging posts lately.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 06:59 AM
3

"That's cool. I wish you the best." She'll be back to you in no time.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 12:24 PM
5

The two aren't mutually exclusive. People who look sociable and positive can be incredibly coldhearted and ruthless without you realizing it. Like most girls, whom are natural machiavellians and narcissists.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 03:05 PM
3

The difference is you're not actively promoting those products 24/7 when you use them and not to the entire world, while social media is always up and available as free advertising for everyone with an internet connection. Consider how much money is spent for 30s ads on TV that are seen by a few million people at most. Social media takes that concept up to eleven while being completely free. This is why it's so incredibly powerful if used right and all these self-important people fuel it without…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 03:02 PM
1

Yeah, I either fuck them or keep them at arm's length. Friendship is for guys only.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 06:28 AM
61

There is a similar dichotomy in social media as the alpha/beta one we use here that follows the Pareto's principle: producers(20%)/consumers(80%). Producers post content that promotes their own business while consumers, mostly without realizing it, promote others' businesses. Girls are almost universally consumers since almost everything they post (food, clothes, makeup, tattoos and piercings, night life, vacations, weddings) promotes the products of other people and not something they actually …
/r/askTRP28/07/19 06:07 AM
6

In my 30's and never had one. I avoid female "friends" like the plague. I do welcome them in my social circle though, they can be useful for getting extra sex and information gathering.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:48 AM
4

Let's see how "improved" you'll be in 10 years after several breakups. Relationship-related hardship doesn't improve women, it spoils them. The only kind of emotional bond that makes a woman more mature is the one she has with her children. Everything else can at best preserve her innocence and purity, and at worst it can make her more jaded, negative and selfish.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:59 AM
13

Unless you have a good (re: expensive) lawyer.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 05:41 AM
14

This happened because the incels subreddit was banned so they had to find a new home. MGTOW is the closest thing to that ideology. Take the "improve yourself" part away and you're left with incels.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:21 PM
41

Yes, women and friendship don't mix well. There is a lot to be said about this subject but the main reason is society doesn't push on women many traits such as honor, loyalty, accountability and camaraderie, plus they totally lack empathy for certain things (a woman will literally not understand how a man can cry even for things such as the death of his dog) so they never have to learn them.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:11 AM
1

Don't downvote this post, he's right. A man who beats his own daughter will not hesitate shooting you.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:01 PM
1

Solid advice. If this was posted on ANY other sub, you'd be shamed and downvoted to oblivion. Listen to this guy OP, your relationship is extremely unstable even though it might not seem that way right now.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:56 PM
5

Because it's the most exciting thing about their lives. Yes, they're THAT shallow. This is your first clue that women are not nearly as "mysterious" as they would like us to believe.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:15 AM
23

We preach texting only for logistics because text game is a high-risk low-reward activity. Women are glued to their phone and while a guy needs to build his value by studying, working, lifting and cultivating hobbies, a standard girl has all the time in the world to text. She knows everything about it: what replies mean, what timing means, which emojis are acceptable and which aren't, when you're being needy, what kind of information to extract and use against you etc. This is easily observable …
/r/askTRP08/07/19 05:53 AM
4

Kids are fucking expensive. Easy to talk like that when you have money to throw away. Also, the idea of the kids being taken away from you and brainwashed by their mother to turn them against you isn't scary? Why bother having kids then.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:26 PM
3

Absolutely. Problem is baby rabies is very real and when the wall approaches she'll start throwing ultimatums ("put a ring on me or I'll find someone else who will"). Most men cave in at that point because they don't want to lose the woman they invested in for years. A high-quality man has better odds of getting a pass because she might think twice before doing something that leads her to lose him. Abundance mentality and rock-solid frame, as cliche as it may sound, are the the best tools to pos…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:57 PM
11

I get your point since marriage almost always leads to a decreased quality of the relationship, so it might seem like a good idea to not marry the mother of your children to preserve her attraction towards you. Unfortunately the moment she gets her kids, they'll become her #1 priority and it will be in her best interest to lock you down in a marriage in order to secure your commitment. Should you refuse to do so she'll simply take the kids away and find a beta provider to marry, while you'll hav…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 11:54 AM
28

It's because men enabled women's worst aspects to manifest. Peaceful times create weak men, which in turn create bitchy women. In an apocalyptic scenario, any woman who would dare acting like this will be swiftly put in her place.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:24 AM
114

That the red pill applies to everyone, not just women. You will be treated like trash if you're not a strong, powerful man. If you lack wealth and status you can't get through life by acting nice, you have to be proactive, bordering on aggressive to everyone or you will be taken for granted. Once you acquire those assets things get easier but only because people will start kissing your ass to earn your approval.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:21 AM
15

Rule of thumb: if social media advertises value that you consume (examples: pics of food, vacations, nights out, a new tattoo) and not that you produce (such as an enterprise you own, your artistic or musical talent, successful sport career), you should just delete it.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 10:29 AM
-1

The "gay best friend" is also a red flag. Either he's not that gay and will fuck your girl if he gets the chance ("Oops we were both drunk and it just happened!") or he's her wingman. As others have said, confrontation is pointless. If she keeps this up punish her with attention and affection withdrawal and if things don't change then silently demote her to plate.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 04:31 AM
3

By "talking" (read: being an emotional tampon) to girls who aren't interested in having sex with you your SMV can only go down in their eyes, never up. Be cold and distant and show through your actions, not words, what they're missing out on.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:18 AM
1

What if the relationship goes south? Who's stopping the girl from getting revenge by reporting you to HR? Unless you're an extremely valuable asset to the company, HR will ALWAYS favor the girl.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:23 PM
5

Correction: a feminine gay is one less competitor. To women they're just orbiters without the "dangling the sex carrot" part. Women still lust for masculine/alpha gays regardless of their sexuality and they do occasionally fuck them.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 07:00 AM
14

A good friend of mine is a masculine gay (actually bi, but he defines himself as gay, so whatever) guy who can easily slay pussy if he wants to, but according to him he can't deal with the drama and manipulation and it's 100 times easier to get sex from guys as "they go straight to the point". You'd never guess he's gay from his appearance (he's muscular and dresses well, but he never reaches the peacocking levels gay guys usually have) and mannerism, plus he has a legion of female orbiters who …
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:25 AM
3

Briffault's law. All money spent for a woman is always sunk cost.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:29 PM
1

Stoicism is considered bad? They want men to "express their feelings" in a feminine way, which anyone who is red pill-aware knows how destructive it is in a relationship. I don't have faith in psychology because they are forced to follow blue pill guidelines. These forums are the best kind of therapy for us.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:45 AM
7

This is a common fallacy I keep seeing and one of the points of the Red Pill I don't agree with. Eggs and sperm are actually equal in value and both are plentiful. Eggs can't be fertilized without sperm, one needs the other to procreate. In an apocalyptic scenario where humanity is going to be extinct if drastic action isn't taken I could see the point of putting eggs on a pedestal, but this is not how things are right now. If anything men are more valuable than women because we outperform them …
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:24 PM
1

Depends on why she's a 4. Ugly face because of genetics but she has a healthy lifestyle and pleasant personality? Sure why not. She's potentially a 6 or above but let herself go and she's fat? No, I'll not reward that kind of laziness.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 10:31 AM
7

I'll just shamelessly copy-paste my own post from a topic that dealth with this subject a few days ago: ​ Make no mistake, they're still CC-riding hypergamous sluts who are trying to score the biggest prize they can possibly get their hands on. However, it also makes them aware that men like femininity and that Feminism is their enemy as much as it is ours, so it's something at least. One thing that stands out is they never, ever mention the full extent of their flaws. On TRP you'll see men bein…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:04 PM
2

The big one is the Pareto's principle, aka 80/20 rule.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:15 PM
2

Of course no plate spinning in a LTR. Just be aware that if things start to go bad, don't subject yourself to a relationship you're not truly happy to be in. Trust your gut.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:42 PM
19

Men love idealistically while women love opportunistically. Men are supposed to fall in love with women and overlook their flaws, both physical and personality-wise. This is caused by the release of oxytocin in your system, it's as nature intended. This is why women can easily manipulate betas and why we recommend to spin plates, so you don't develop "feelings" for a specific woman that can be used against you.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:12 PM
23

Bonds are formed through struggle. In modern society, almost all struggle has been eliminated by commodities ranging from household appliances to public security services like the police. On top of that videogames, social networks and porn are easy and ready-to-use sources of dopamine to relieve pain and frustration. People can live their entire lives in comfort and no struggle if they settle for mediocrity. You'll find that most women engage this lifestyle which is a big part of the reason they…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 12:44 PM
-1

"You mean like any decent looking girl?". This immediately establishes that you're experienced and you're not putting her on a pedestal, both highly attractive traits to a woman.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:40 AM
8

One big reason to avoid them like the plague is they have unprotected sex with multiple partners, way more than your average slut (at least common sluts usually don't start fucking raw 1 month into the relationship), and as a result they have a much higher chance to carry STDs up to untreated (which means contagious) HIV. Always be wary of a girl who wants to experience unprotected sex too early in a relationship.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:08 AM
2

I never consider a former sexual partner a "friend". I do, however, play along sometimes just to witness more AWALT examples. If a plate breaks but she still wants my attention, if I find her to be of any use (i.e. she's rich or has useful connections) I just say "sure sweetie why not" but I never actually orbit her and never initiate contact. Most of the time they don't initiate contact either, but in the event they do I immediately steer the conversation into "come over and let's have fun". So…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:57 AM
3

I dislike the term "Friend with benefits". Sex and friendship are mutually exclusive in my book. She's not your friend, she's a plate who is trying to convince you to promote her to LTR. You want to keep her as a plate? Then stop treating her like a girlfriend. It's natural that after many years of sleepovers, cooking for you and vacations she wants your official commitment.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 07:58 PM
1

It's an infinitely more useful subject than "My oneitis is a slut, please help me" which accounts for 80% of the topics on this board lately.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:24 PM
1

But that's not true. I want to care about others, but only if it's reciprocated. We have a term for caring about people who don't care about us: it's called "orbiting" and it freaking hurts.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 03:00 PM
1

Outside of competition, a strongman is a bodybuilder who never cuts. It's seen as lazy by men and women alike.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 10:23 AM
1

If you really want to lie, just say you're in a committed long-distance relationship. But just like on TRP we consider LDRs a farce, so do companies so it's not a huge step above celibacy.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 05:48 AM
30

Single men are to companies what CC-riding, branch-swinging sluts are to men. They might be highly desirable and good at their role in the short term, but you're going to think twice before giving them your trust and commitment.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:31 PM
5

They mean it and they are absolutely correct. Reproduction is our biological mission, the closest thing to an extension of our own life.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:28 PM
2

She doesn't have abundance, she knows the wall is behind the corner so she's panicking. A marriage ultimatum is always a desperate plea from a woman masqueraded as something that makes her appear as a stronger person than she is. This is why submitting to such a demand makes her lose all the respect she had for you. If you cave you're no longer a "man", you're just her slave. No solid marriage can be funded on giving away all your pride to what essentially is a spoiled child in the body of a wom…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 08:14 AM
2

No woman is entitled to having a family, like no man is entitled to sex. They have to earn it. A normal woman doesn't pressure an unwilling man into marriage, she stays at his side and patiently waits for things to follow their natural course. If she's indeed a deserving woman she'll be rewarded with the commitment and family she so much desires. Women are like children, if you give them too much too quickly they become spoiled and make you miserable.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 07:58 AM
9

Dump her. The very fact she said this means she values your commitment and money more than you as a person. You're 30 and she's 29. Your best years are about to begin, while hers are about to end. SHE KNOWS THIS which is why she's trying to lock you down. This isn't love, she only cares about scoring the biggest prize she can. Is this what you want from the woman you're going to spend the rest of your life with? Or maybe she's just terrified you're going to dump her for a 20-25 y.o. girl in a fe…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 07:50 AM
5

You should definitely care but you shouldn't ACT as if you do. If she realizes that her past indiscretions can be a dealbreaker to you she'll simply lie and cover them up as much as possible. Instead, don't even mention this subject and if she brings it up pretend you don't mind if her n-count is high. You'd be surprised at how easily sluts start flooding you with stories of their escapades if they feel "safe".
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:31 AM
2

The problem with this line of logic is that women going crazy for validation is a relatively new phenomenon, one that social media is in large part responsible of. So it's not a gift, it's something that ENABLED this pitiful situation.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 10:59 PM
5

"Bastard kids" is a completely deprecated notion. What matters is how well-adjusted they are, not a meaningless label.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 08:53 AM
4

Someone who has striking training under his belt has been hit/dodged/parried hundreds or thousands of strikes. A punch from a random nobody without training literally appears as if it was in slow-motion to the trained eye. Training will give a ridiculous advantage, it's literally night and day. I do agree being outnumbered will screw you up though.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 06:48 PM
2

Precisely. From what you said, her feelings are focused on herself ("I can't see you fulfilling ME emotionally"), rather than you. She didn't say something like "I like you and I wish to be part of your life", plus the very fact she even mentioned another man is her way of saying "This is a limited time offer, if you don't commit to me I'll find someone else who will". She is trying to impose her frame over yours and she'll almost succeeded. I say "almost" because the fact you made this topic me…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 06:06 PM
4

Oh they do. 90% of the population is unable to win a fight against someone who has even moderate training. However resorting to that will make you lose in the long run in court. Therefore "expensive lawyer" truly is the best answer.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:55 PM
1

Prime example of AF/BB and betaization rolled into one. She has a clear agenda in her mind, nothing of what you described seems to come from genuine desire on her part.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:49 PM
1

The ones listed in the replies here are all good. I'll also add tattoos. NO woman looks good with tattoos post-wall (and personally I find them hideous on young girls as well), so they can be seen as the ultimate proof of poor long-term decision making.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 10:19 PM
-7

Her behavior isn't totally irrational. Women are naturally redpilled so she's well aware she "wasted" her best years in a relationship that didn't pay off, so she'd rather take you back by any means necessary than settle for whatever beta she can lock down as a woman who's about to reach the wall. You are in an extremely fortunate position right now because she'll do ANYTHING to please you, this is basically a reverse orbiter situation. If I were you I wouldn't waste a perfectly good pussy, just…
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:25 PM
33

As time passes, more and more redpill-aware men who don't actually practice what they preach keep showing up. Rollo is being accused of being such a man because he's married and doesn't (noticeably) lift, both things that violate many core concepts of TRP. We also know that men are supposed to communicate via actions, not words. So what makes him a better example than someone who doesn't say anything but clearly shows that he lifts and doesn't commit to the (many) women he fucks? Rollo might be …
/r/askTRP03/06/19 09:05 AM
3

In the modern world, men's role as protectors has been overtaken by the government, the police and the legal system. In the past, the single greatest demonstration of value to your woman was protecting her from danger and you could be damn sure she would latch onto you for life because her brain told her "If you screw this up nobody can save you and you die". Nowadays, most men are reduced to being glorified ATMs because she doesn't need to be protected. By sacrificing themselves, men demonstrat…
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:35 AM
0

Everyone is entitled to basic human decency.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 08:30 PM
1

You're not flirting, you're orbiting them.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:43 AM
2

Text only for logistics. Don't reply to her, you're doing fine. She'll eventually come back to you after getting bored of her legion of orbiters.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:50 AM
1

Self-deprecation reveals dangerous information that can be used against you. Ever seen a girl self-deprecate about stuff that matters? Nope. They'll say useless crap like "OMG I'm so totally fat teehee!" even though they look anorexic, but they'll never say stuff like "I'm such a slut who's slept with more men than my own age!" even if they're virgins because the risk of actually looking like a slut is too high, with potentially disastrous consequences. This is because women are naturally red pi…
/r/askTRP01/06/19 05:39 PM
7

It really isn't. Please answer my question or edit your post accordingly.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 08:00 AM
2

You don't owe her any explanation. Just say "I'm not interested in a committed relationship right now" and leave it at that. The more you say, the more ammo you give her to use against you. If you say she's not behaving like a proper girlfriend she'll put on an act to convince you she "has changed", only to revert to her real self after she locked you down. By leaving her with no information she'll show you her genuine self so you can make a more informed choice.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 06:43 AM
13

The medium is the message. The relationship died the instant she considered this. She wants other men to fuck her, or rather, she wants things to "just happen". If not a roommate, it will be some random guy at a party when she's "drunk" or something like that.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 06:36 AM
15

I find the last point you mentioned very interesting for my needs. What do you mean with creating a new narrative? Is there a topic or guide about it?
/r/askTRP01/06/19 05:46 AM
1

By making a different account, obviously!
/r/askTRP31/05/19 09:09 AM
15

Sluts will tell their slut friends in order to turn the "guilt" into validation.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:15 AM
2

Absolutely ridiculous. Is there a topic or something where people can post their criticism about this utterly insane system? Not that it would be of any help, just curious to see what kind of excuse besides "BEGONE, YOU HORRIBLE PERSON!" the mods can come up with.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:11 AM
1

I don't care what the waiter does to others. As long as he doesn't wrong me, as long as he does his job, I'll treat them with decency. Part of his job is in fact being nice to customers. This is a conscious decision on my part, I'm much less nice to people who speak rudely to me, even if they're stressed for their own reasons.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:06 AM
7

I make a point not to be needlessly mean to people who have never wronged me, so I would definitely not recommend bossing around a waiter, who is probably not too happy about the job and has done you no wrong. You should counterbalance the "niceness" with assertiveness yes, but your targets should be people who actually deserve that.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 09:49 PM
4

Make no mistake, they're still CC-riding hypergamous sluts who are trying to score the biggest prize they can possibly get their hands on. However, it also makes them aware that men like femininity and that Feminism is their enemy as much as it is ours, so it's something at least. One thing that stands out is they never, ever mention the full extent of their flaws. On TRP you'll see men being upfront about being total losers and asking how to improve. On RPW however you never read about girls wi…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:00 PM
12

If we lived in a world where you could use your confidence to protect your woman from physical threats then it would be good enough. In the modern world however, where we have every comfort and the police takes care of those threats, the only way to show women you're confident is by acting like an asshole.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:54 PM
1

This doesn't happen in practice for two reasons: Society portrays single mothers as heroines, while mothers who give their child away are heavily stigmatized, even if it was the best choice. A woman holding your child has tremendous power over you, as well as many benefits from the government. Women, despite being driven by emotion most of the time, are perfectly capable of chillingly rational thought if the situation calls for it. Why would they give up this powerful leverage to you? Why not ex…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:37 PM
7

I'm not pro-life and I couldn't care less about the ethical reasons, but there is a very important thing to consider: a woman who aborts has gone against her own maternal instincts and it's a huge indicator of her being unfit as a future mother. On the other hand, I'm strongly against giving birth to a child who is not wanted by both parents, and a woman who willingly deprives her kid of his/her own natural father, the most important resource in order to ensure he/she grows strong (and not a slu…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 11:42 AM
5

Men who are in a happy relationship don't commit murder, mass-shootings, rape, child rape, suicide bombing or just plain suicide. Men who are happily single and have a satisfying sexual life, or men who don't have sex but find happiness in other ways don't either. That leaves incels out of the picture, especially if they're young with raging hormones. Whether it's a catholic priest, a deadbeat drug addict, a basement dweller, an ISIS recruit it's what they usually have in common.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:26 PM
34

Men who don't have sex for a long time (years) go nuts too. It's not a coincidence that men who commit acts of appalling physical violence are usually incels.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 08:43 AM
21

"You must be an expert".
/r/askTRP26/05/19 05:12 AM
5

Mother's love is truly unconditional under normal circumstances. Only if either the mother, the child or both are seriously fucked up in the head there won't be love.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 11:34 AM
1

Tattoos of names, initials, dates or that were suspiciously covered up.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 11:30 AM
7

Which is why you just give her half-hearted red herring answers so she believes she got you figured out while in truth she still has zero power over you.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:51 PM
10

"I'll let my dick do the talking".
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:49 PM
5

Are you sure you took her anal virginity?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:21 PM
3

Never voted in my life. Pointless from a mathematical standpoint and politicians are pretty much interchangeable. I also don't like how my vote is equal to someone who is a borderline illiterate with a criminal record, I don't believe in equality and democracy.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:11 PM
12

This. I used to show basic human decency to "plates" instead of treating them like living sex dolls, but not only didn't they appreciate it at all, they kept demanding more. Once you realize that you can get better sex by spending less time and money you're never going to look back.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:10 PM
4

I had a girl like that once. She refused to blow me, so I simply said something like "Sweetie I have never had sex without blowjobs. It doesn't exist to me", got up, started to put my clothes on and she suddenly started to blow me like a porn star. However it seems like it's too late for you to correct her behavior. I'd just end the relationship and find another girl.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 08:15 PM
1

Shows poor long-term decision making. Tattoos and piercings look absolutely horrid on the post-wall female body. Men can get away with those even in old age because of higher muscle mass and collagene. Notice how male celebrities tend to get more tattoos as they age, while females have them removed.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 09:03 AM
6

Yup, that's more or less how rape victims end up.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:48 AM
42

The mother of all red flags is the "rape" word. If she mentions that she was raped run and don't look back: either she falsely accused someone and will do the same with you or she was actually raped and she's damaged beyond repair. As sad as it is, a relationship with a rape victim is a nightmare and must be avoided at all costs. "Damaged goods" doesn't even begin to describe these women.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:33 AM
1

He can just make a new account, no reason to make a big deal out of this.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 08:51 PM
1

Let's not trim around the bush: with 5-6 relationships a year she's not a "serial dater", she's an outright slut.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 05:53 PM
0

Honestly, it’s 2019. If you’re not including text into your game you’re an idiot and/or inefficient. ​ I respectfully disagree. You see, texting game has been around for how long? Little more than a decade? Girls don't need to work and build themselves to be desirable, so they have all the time they want to learn this "skill". Men, on the other hand, need to work their ass out to be worth a damn. I have spent my last 10 years studying, working, going to the gym and learning more practical skills…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:50 PM
11

So, what kind of deep, emotional and awe-inspiring conversation are you going to have via texting? What kind of long-lasting memory that gives her tingles are you going to produce with emojis and grammar mistakes? Why would a girl crave for text instead of real experiences that engrave your memory forever in her brain? Every time you say something "meaningful" via texting it's an arrow you deliberately choose to not to hit the target with. It's wasted time and ammo. It also makes you feel "commo…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 11:49 AM
48

Of course it's a thing, because a penis is required for sex. Lesbians don't really have sex, it's just glorified foreplay.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 03:52 AM
-1

"You mean like all girls who aren't ugly and insane?"
/r/askTRP15/05/19 06:09 PM
3

It's not an equivalence because women who dress slutty do so because they want to maximize their SMV. The reason? They're aware their RMV is complete shit so might as well min-max. High quality women don't dress slutty, they wear graceful and classy clothing while still looking sexy. Men, on the other hand, can enhance both their SMV and RMV by dressing well. A muscular guy who wears form-fitting clothing is signaling both his SMV and RMV so he's highly desirable on both fronts.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 05:03 AM
39

Once you become a man, you're supposed to be the role model. That's when you realize you want/need kids.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:05 AM
1

Yeah i have experienced that firsthand. I casually mentioned on an unrelated forum a redpill truth and I was brutally shamed and temp banned. For the record it was about a rich guy feeling sad because he can't find a woman to marry and I warned him about the dangers of divorce rape, especially since his attitude screams gold digger bait. I keep my mouth shut outside of the internet. You can never know if that polite person you're talking with will suddenly go into crusade mode the instant you me…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:47 PM
1

Since this current situation puts up to half of the world's population to disadvantage, an educated guess would be that sooner or later a revolution that makes the pendulum swing into men's favor once again will happen, at which point talking about these things will not cause you to be labeled as a dissident but will be common knowledge. How, when and why a revolution that counters feminism is going to happen is the real question here. I wonder if it'll take another world war for that to occur b…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:03 PM
2

If your goal is spinning plates without developing attachment, sure money will basically turn the game into ultra-easy mode. However after the honeymoon phase is over you'll be squarely placed into provider category if you developed feelings and that's where rich guys usually become utterly miserable. Money makes getting laid easier but it also turns girls into gold diggers.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:00 AM
2

...because ugly women are passing down their ugly genes to their sons.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 03:29 PM
3

Wouldn't recommend it. Minox is known to accelerate skin aging, which is why it's meant to be used only on the scalp.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:29 AM
6

This kind of red flag does. Think about it: in 10 years or so her tits will go saggy so unless she's retarded she'll take the piercings off in order not to look revolting when naked. Why go through an uncomfortable procedure that directly goes against women's herd mentality if not for the attention of men? Especially when nipple piercings only make sense pre-wall. Nipple piercings, like any form of body art, scream "I'M SEXUALLY AVAILABLE" despite what they want us to believe.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:23 AM
9

This is why women who want to marry to lock a provider down will pretend there is something wrong with the guy if he's avoiding marriage. They want us to believe marriage 1.0 is still a reality.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:04 AM
1

Bullshit. What did she "sacrifice"? She's been benefitting from his husband's commitment all these years and she still does thanks to the unethical divorce laws. What can she hope to accomplish as a single woman in her 50's? No high quality man will want her. Doesn't matter anyway, any woman who commits divorce rape deserves no sympathy. ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:51 PM
1

What can you tell us about her friends? Are they sluts?
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:09 PM
2

This isn't necessarily the userbase's fault. Feminism, SJWs and free speech impediment against anything that doesn't glorify women have gone out of control in the last 5 years or so, you can't really blame when a 18-20 y.o. boy who got treated like shit googles "how to get laid" and "how to be respected" and finds this subreddit.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:02 PM
3

European here. I noticed that virtually all single and not divorced post-wall women here have one thing in common: they have a strong masculine appearance and attitude. In other words, they're plain unattractive. From what I understand in the U.S. it's possible that a conventionally attractive woman still ends up single post the wall because of her poor choices (CC, partying), so an unassuming beta bucks will fall for her, thinking they finally found each other's soulmate. Here, this rarely happ…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:20 PM
3

When a girl says you're too muscular she isn't even shit-testing you, it's a straight up compliment. She has to word it in a way so she's implicitly saying "...but I'm not shallow".
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:35 AM
3

Also suddenly hitting the gym when she previously didn't. Might not be cheating, but it still shows she's considering branch-swinging.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 06:04 AM
2

It's not about the money. A divorce rape would easily destroy his career and motivation. He's right to protect his assets.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:55 AM
2

While I find it very appealing for the reasons you mentioned, part of me wonders if bringing to this world a child who was literally sold by his own mother is ethically correct.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:17 PM
3

Sluts are basically like disposable medical equipment. They serve a purpose, but you'd rather not need them and you sure as hell don't want them around after the deed. The "shame" part comes into play when they want us to believe they can be disinfected and reused. You certainly don't do that with syringes and gauze do you?
/r/askTRP16/03/19 06:48 PM
15

Which infect them with toxoplasmosis, turning them insane anyway.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 02:00 PM
1

Nope, I was pointing out how a woman is trying to slut-shame men, falsely equating that just like how a high n-count is harmful to women it HAS to be harmful to men as well, just to a lower degree. She fails to mention that it's being used as a provider and then thrown away that is what affects a man's ability to pair-bond, not the sex.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 12:30 PM
12

There is no linear correlation between the two, because a man's ability to pair-bond, unlike women, is not affected by his n-count. A man can sleep with hundreds of women but still love, provide for and sacrifice himself for his LTR. I would say that what slowly kills a man's ability to pair-bond with a woman is being repeatedly used as a beta provider and then discarded (possibly divorce raped), if said man is unable to learn his lesson and improve himself.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 12:11 PM
16

Bingo. Her phone is always the main tool when she plans an escapade. Because as we know "it just happens" is a lie and careful preparation is done beforehand. Whether she's organizing a "girls night out", asking for "fitness-related advice" to her gym instructor, "reconnecting" with some guy who turns out to be an ex or getting a suspiciously high number of texts for "work stuff", she'll do most of the work with her phone.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 12:07 PM
4

If she perceives her husband as "weak" she turns to Feminism as a "strong" role model. Feminism literally becomes her alpha.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:20 AM
38

This. I would go insane if I genuinely believed that my actions didn't matter at all and my life was completely in other people's hands. Hence the theory that women who fail to bond with a strong man (their "rock") go insane.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 11:17 AM
1

"Family atmosphere"? Good, take advantage of that. You can stick out from that swamp of mediocrity by being quiet and professional. If you were the boss and you had to promote someone, would you pick the cool, collected guy who gets shit done or the gossipy hen?
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:35 AM
1

Yeah, in ancient times rape was actually pretty common. I'd go as far as saying that most, if not all humans alive today have one or more ancestors who were raped.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:31 AM
13

Because she can and will sabotage their friendship. A "friend" who willingly sleeps with an ex shows he cares more about pussy than your friendship. He has all the right to be upset.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 06:49 AM
0

Cases like this however are useful to highlight that there is something seriously wrong about a woman who failed a relationship being rewarded with half the man's possessions, especially when he's dirty rich. The abolition of alimony is going to be men's most important goal to pursue in the next century if we want the pendulum to swing in our favor again. Of course not getting married in the first place is preferable but unethical laws need to go away regardless.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:31 PM
4

The key difference is that common folk who get divorce raped will most likely experience a worse lifestyle following the divorce, while celebs, politicians and VIPs in general have so much money to throw away they can afford multiple divorces. If you think about it, this is precisely why nothing is being done to eradicate divorce rape laws despite how unethical they are: the richest men are barely affected by them.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:20 PM
3

Divorce rape isn't a big deal for celebs because they're still outrageously rich.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 08:45 PM
2

Teach her accountability. Whenever she screws up because of her own choices she must never place the blame on others.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:02 PM
28

2 days isn't a soft next. Try 2 weeks. You're still in her frame because you're "talking" and not fucking.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:58 PM
0

If the situation was reversed she would dump you on the spot. Give her a week at most to find another job and if she doesn't end the relationship.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:35 PM
33

It might be a cheat sheet for the current generation, but it was common knowledge for our ancestors.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 12:15 PM
1

Just looked it up. Damn it's unbelievable something like this is possible under the current laws.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 07:40 AM
2

Even if a guy and a girl have a genuine friendship, the instant she enters a relationship she'll stop being your friend. She might SAY she still is, but her actions will show you otherwise.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 07:37 AM
3

Let me get this straight: a judge actually gave 50/50 custody, plus 60% of your assets to what is most likely a BPD psycho? Even though there is concrete proof she committed self-harm? This should be more than enough to utterly destroy the judge's career, yet in this crazy world it's perfectly passable. Is this really how it ends? Because your daughters will suffer tremendously if they grow up under the influence of this nutcase. Don't even consider a relationship with another woman until you la…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:59 PM
1

I'm not turned off by a woman who takes charge, as long as she doesn't attempt to undermine my authority. For example if she's the leader of a team at work I can only admire her leadership abilities and it's a green flag for a relationship, however I will not tolerate her bossing me around at home. Not once in my life since I was no longer a child have I ever submitted to a woman, not even my own mother, and every single attempt to put me on a leash has resulted in a negative reaction (to varyin…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 12:33 PM
1

Is it though? How about the correlation between birth defects and the mother's age? For example, it's scientifically proven that the chance of down syndrome increases with her age.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:02 AM
3

I find myself in your situation. Most people have little use for those they just met because they don't know how trustworthy they are since trust is built with time and they can't be bothered to do that. At best, if they see you as a resource they'll keep you around while putting the least amount of effort, just like girls do with friendzoned orbiters. Don't fall into this trap. Real friendship is built by struggle, so 90% of those people you see on a Saturday evening picture on social media usu…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:59 AM
3

It's possible she wants to create a situation where she can have plausible deniability so something can "just happen". Unless they truly love sports, girls usually don't care about BJJ, it's just an excuse like "traveling to find herself" or "going out on Saturday nights because I love dancing".
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:43 AM
0

I read somewhere that firstborns get the best genes because of fresher eggs/sperm. Does this theory hold water?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:25 AM
1

Nah, especially if it's clear I'm spinning plates.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:23 AM
4

Every single girl I have met who wanted to "try" BJJ just wanted the instructor's D.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:21 AM
3

However it's clear if a girl acts "nice" because she's interested in extracting your resources (time, money, validation) or because she's genuinely attracted to you. In the former case the focus will be on herself, meaning the way she acts will scream "Look at how amazing I am! I'm offering you peasant the opportunity of being my slave!", while if she's truly attracted to you the focus will be on you: she'll try to be closer to you physically, she'll try to spend more time in your company, she'l…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:52 PM
6

I just reply with "Well it's not like you're my girlfriend". Rest assured that if she's interested in the prospect of a LTR she'll think twice before saying that next time. Either way something like that pretty much kills any chance of a LTR.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:44 PM
1

You can play this to your advantage by politely saying something like "I don't enjoy this kind of talk". She might be offended at first, but this signals virtue (girls respect guys who are not into gossip) and you'll earn her admiration and possibly attraction.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:41 PM
1

We don't recommend hitting women out of pragmatism. The laws are so stacked against men nowadays that it's simply too risky doing that. Women are perfectly aware that the average man can easily kill them with his bare hands, and this is what kept their arrogance in check for ages. The bitchy attitude they have today is the result of these laws keeping men on a leash. Emotional and mental abuse is their dominion, so arguing with women is usually an exercise in frustration. There is one thing wome…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:27 PM
9

Problem is these sluts tend to be riddled with STD so I'd exercise extreme caution around them.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:13 PM
14

This is a perfect opportunity to to point this out: see this huge list of things to do for her cheating? None of this would have been necessary if you didn't get married. You could have simply walked away. This is exactly why everyone here recommends not to marry.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:22 AM
3

"The idea of being their own person and making their own choices terrifies them." And the opposite is what terrifies me.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:20 PM
2

Stop giving her validation.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:17 PM
2

No need for closure.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:34 PM
5

Advancement of technology and decline of religion are directly correlated. We're really talking about the same thing here, just from different perspectives.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:49 PM
8

The above is with the assumption the fight is happening in your own house. Most of the time it will. Women are smart enough not to go ballistic in public spaces. If you leave her in your house during an episode she can injure herself with something with your fingerprints on it and you're royally screwed if you didn't record that. Do not think for a second you're off the hook if you're leaving the house during an episode. All you're doing is giving her more options to screw you over. Setup those …
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:22 PM
7

Hypergamy has been contained for millennia. The advent of the internet, and by extension dating sites and social media, is what opened the floodgates.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:21 PM
2

As individuals we can't change the world and we're all aware of it. I think what the "triggered" group really wants is create a political movement such as feminism in order to make the pendulum swing to the opposite direction once again.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:28 PM
55

Social media is to blame. A standard Instagram model was seen as a Greek God come into existence roughly 40 years ago, but today he's just one of the thousands of handsome guys she's following. And all of them, courtesy of male hormones, would more than happily fuck her and she KNOWS this. She has top tier options at her disposal, so why even consider the standard ones?
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:48 AM
1

Men and women are different. Women love abuse (despite what they say) because they're subconsciously attracted to strength and aggression. Men on the other hand seek in women that kind of gentleness, grace, femininity and nurturing that the harsh nature won't give them. Basically men crave the same love their mothers gave them, but as we know, no other woman will ever love them the same. You just said it yourself: you stay with an abusive LTR because you hope she would revert to her old self, no…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:41 AM
213

You don't negotiate with terrorists. Words are women's weapons, facts are men's. What we can do right now is quit arguing and stop giving undeserving women attention, validation, resources and commitment. Instead of paying for some random thot's dates, gifts and plastic surgeries we should improve our own value, became as desirable as possible, fuck attractive and submissive girls and leave the feminist ugly bitches alone and miserable.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:32 AM
51

For this reason, should you, as a man, ever be on the receiving end of domestic abuse, the best way to approach the issue is to setup hidden cameras, record various episodes of violence and lawyer up. Never call the police first. They're not on your side. Words are ammo women use against men. Silence and cold hard facts are our best weapons against them.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:43 AM
1

Make the best out of a bad experience. Consider this an opportunity to hone your masculine, leading skills. Be strong for your family.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:38 AM
2

This. It's corollary to the harshest redpill truth (no woman will love you like your mother) and it's directly related to the lack of empathy women have towards male struggles (being a provider, expendable and lacking inherent value).
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:20 AM
4

Basically if she gets away with something you wouldn't have tolerated in the first few weeks.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 08:45 AM
1

These are the same women who'll want you to get rid of your dog should you reach the point of having kids together.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 06:54 AM
1

Never surrender to ultimatums, because more will follow.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 07:00 PM
1

...or that's what she'd want you to believe. After all she must have a better reason than "I'm not attracted to him anymore so I guess I'll just cash out" to make herself look like a good person in front of the judge right?
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:59 PM
2

For the most part, it's not their fault, it's nature. Women's skin has less collagen compared to men's and they have less muscle mass (plus, too much muscle mass makes them less attractive), so by the time they hit their 30's they start losing their youthful looks, while men can keep theirs for a longer time without resorting to expensive treatments and surgery. Plus pregnancy is absolutely destructive to a woman's body, while men don't have to go through that. Now, certain things are absolutely…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:53 PM
1

All relationships start as ONS. Men are gatekeeperks of relationships, so it's her job to work her way through the stages, eventually becoming a LTR, by showing you her value. The time between stages depends on the difference between your relationship market values: the higher yours is compared to hers, the longer it will take for her to earn a promotion. Unless a ONS goes horribly wrong, the gap between that stage and Plate is usually extremely short, so in practice most girls are almost immedi…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:39 PM
8

Alphas typically don't use social media. If they do (namely, they use it merely as a tool to enhance their value instead of a validation machine), they don't add the girls they fuck as friends.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:20 PM
70

Women are attracted to strength and power. "Good" and "evil" are societal constructs that do not exist in nature, where the axis is between "strong" and "weak". Women want a strong man, even if he's an asshole towards them. A loving man without alpha traits (physical strength, aggression, fitness) is seen as weak and repulsive.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 11:58 AM
3

Money isn't the only currency women crave. Attention, comfort and validation are also provided by betas.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:02 AM
2

The key difference is that Stockholm Syndrome is gender-neutral, while the War Bride effect is exclusively female-only, something that Feminists won't let slide in this age.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 07:47 AM
3

And yet this is just another case of women failing to be accountable because while what you say is true, since young age we're also constantly bombarded with messages such as "true beauty is on the inside" and "you must cultivate other values besides your looks". Countless movies, fables, books and legends teach women that beauty alone won't make them happy. Ultimately it's their own fault if they think that anything less than a millionaire jacked model isn't "good enough" for them, even if they…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:58 AM
5

So they don't get wrinkles.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 09:15 PM
-1

A platonic friendship can't be turned into a sexual relationship. It's platonic because there is no sexual interest from either side (otherwise it would be a friendzone, namely a fake friendship) and as it's well known that attraction must be spontaneous and immediate and that familiarity kills it. If at some point a platonic friend is "upgraded" to LTR the friendship wasn't genuine to begin with and the relationship has a very high chance of failing. Chances are you're just a betabux and she ge…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 09:11 PM
2

They absolutely can be demoted, I have done it multiple times. All girls nowadays have little self-esteem otherwise they wouldn't be addicted to social media and validation in general. You'd be surprised how often they come back crawling for your dick. They SAY they won't accept a demotion... but they can't say anything while they're sucking your dick.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 07:11 AM
2

Want to find out? Delete/deactivate your profile without saying a word and see how her hamster reacts.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 06:38 PM
7

By extension, nobody wants their mother to be a slut.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 07:39 AM
4

Nah, nice guys simply don't know better because they were raised with the idea that anything masculine is bad and toxic so they must be cautious, understanding and submissive when dealing with women. Eventually they start questioning why their niceness doesn't work, they confide in girls and they get "No you're amazing the way you are dear, never change" replies so the cycle continues. Whatever manipulation is at play very rarely is malign, they're just trying to fulfill their needs. That and th…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 11:01 PM
2

This, pretty much. Breast implants are not meant to please the current partner, they're meant to attract new ones. Current hubby gets to pay for them though, so it's yet another instance of AF/BB.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 08:31 PM
11

Black pill concepts aren't wrong. Yes it's true thst most women will throw themselves at a handsome looking rapist but will treat a decent guy who is short and ugly like a sack of shit. What is wrong is their defeatist attitude. It is your duty to live to your maximum potential even when the odds are stacked against you. Emphasis on duty.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 01:54 PM
17

And the honest ones are instantly dismissed as "plate only" material by high-quality men. That's why the others are lying.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:07 PM
1

Money is important for sure but lots of other factors come into play. I agree with most of what bourbonhipster said. Personally what matters the most to me is having kids only after I feel like I got the most out of my youth.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:06 PM
3

When you can give them the best possible life.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:14 AM
1

Therapists are blue pill, they can't treat red pill depression.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:25 AM
1

So "lipstick lesbians" are a purely fictional construct?
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:13 AM
0

No, what women who demand a marriage really want is power and control. There is no love involved in this and that is why no marriage should occur when the ultimatum is dropped.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 03:47 PM
1

Precisely. A marriage gives the woman outrageous power over her husband for the rest of his life. Do you hate yourself so much you're willing to give A WOMAN this kind of power over you?
/r/askTRP01/03/19 03:45 PM
1

She doesn't love you. A marriage ultimatum is NEVER out of genuine love.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 03:38 PM
-3

No, not even that. Dogs have short lifespans and your SO will wonder why you're getting upset for something you already knew was coming.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:43 PM
34

However in modern times women are more motivated to cheat and branch swing because of the societal changes triggered by feminism. In the past a woman would stick with her husband through thick and thin because of the stigma involved in leaving him, not to mention he would probably beat her to a pulp with no real legal consequences if she dared looking at another guy. Nowdays women not only are not penalized, they're actually idolized by society and rewarded by the government if they leave their …
/r/askTRP27/02/19 05:09 PM
15

She probably has something to hide.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 07:04 AM
23

All red pillers. "She's not yours, it's just your turn": does that ring a bell? One of the core principles is that all relationships, assuming you don't die first, are destined to end.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:07 PM
1

We're talking about safeguarding our future, so standards must be high. The chances of things going bad aren't low considering about 50% of marriages end in divorce. It's too much of a risk with almost zero payoff. Don't marry.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 12:43 PM
9

Just delete the topic. Banning is pointless because most accounts on this sub are throwaways out of necessity (you can be banned on other subs because you posted on TRP-related ones) so he'll just make a new one.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:18 AM
1

All women benefit from trapping a guy in an "oops" pregnancy because of child support, it's not even a question. Also baby rabies are a very real thing, regardless of whose frame is stronger. There is no amount of trust or holding frame that can save you if she decides to have kids if you're not using condoms or got snipped.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 05:37 PM
2

Happens quite often. If I can't deflect the question I usually just say "Privacy", which is typically followed by some remark like "We're having sex and you don't trust me?" (hinting that they're trying to manipulate me into opening up through sex). After that I say that it takes time to build that kind of trust and it's usually enough to defuse the situation. If a girl keeps pushing past this it's a red flag and I don't mind if the plate breaks at this point.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:41 PM
244

Her confession can be translated as: "Our relationship is dead but I plan on taking advantage of your commitment until I have secured a new one. You don't have the guts to drop me on the spot anyway so I'll enjoy this power trip as well." Little did she know that the last sentence isn't true 100% of the time.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:42 PM
2

As long as you don't get oneitis, sure have fun. Single moms are terrible human beings because they put their own insignificant pleasure over the well-being of their children and the happiness of the entire family. As long as you keep this in mind while she tries to convince you she's "different" you should be fine.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:08 PM
13

Don't bother with such questions because you'll never get the truth from them. It's like asking how to become successful with girls and getting "confidence and just be yourself" replies. Investments and smart spending are something everyone can do but alone they won't make you a millionarie. There is a lot of morally questionable stuff hidden behind a millionaire's money and they sure as hell don't want you to find out what it is.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:33 PM
3

Tough love here, you're just weak if this shit bothers you. ​ Disagree. I don't think I'm weak for believing that some girl who just met me isn't in position to criticize my life style, aesthetics or social status, especially when they're the product of sweat and blood. I know it's a shit test and I need to answer accordingly, but something like that just shouldn't be taken for granted. The right thing should be her shutting the hell up, be pleasant and politely ask after she has earned that rig…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:12 PM
85

Don't they realize that with all this shit testing they hurt themselves in the long run? Sure they can ensure they have a "strong" man, but said strong man will eventually get tired of putting up with their crap and dump them for someone less annoying. Nobody likes a confrontational woman. They also fail to realize that a man can fail a shit test because he didn't want to sound rude, but he can hold his shit together when something serious happens.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:32 AM
2

I'd say height is the least of your issues. A muscular body is far more valuable than height alone. Take advantage of it and stop being insecure.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 07:57 AM
1

Yeah ever seen that expression where they fake the smallest possible smile just enough not to get wrinkles, while their eyes have that "kill me" blank stare?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:43 AM
3

Yes, even if the girl majored in one of those fields. Anything philosophical/political/historical from their mouths is "women studies"/feminist crap, as for STEM fields they just parrot what they need to learn for the most part, without any real passion.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:40 AM
5

Should have replied with "What if it was 50 shades of grey?".
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:55 PM
49

Do you like pizza and ice cream? I sure do, but I like the body I managed to build in 15 years of lifting more. Will I never eat pizza and ice cream again? No way, in fact they're a staple of my cheat meals. But I don't plan on letting myself go and become a slob anytime soon. Girls are like junk food. Enjoy them, but know they're not meant to build you, they're just a pleasure.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:53 PM
7

This is like the 8th "plate/ex-LTR tried to manipulate me on Valentine's day" post. You'd think girls would know better than use such telegraphed tactics.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:47 PM
1

Writing more than one sentence about one specific girl is the telltale symptom of oneitis.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 12:15 PM
3

"Title says it all." Nope. Witnesses? Did she accuse you? Did your boss accuse you? What kind of relationship did you have with this girl? Did she have an insurance?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 12:11 PM
2

It isn't a problem as long the following points are true: you are not sexually attracted to her, you are not being taken advantage of. If her idea of friendship is you carrying her bags, being an emotional tampon, painting her house etc. while her contribution is merely gracing you with her presence, it isn't a real friendship.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:20 PM
12

"You should start being concerned when I DON'T want to have sex with you anymore." Always shuts them down.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:27 AM
2

I don't get along with my relatives so the one time they had this talk with me I shut them down with "One family has been more than enough". They got the meaning behind it and never asked again. Personally I'm not against having kids one day, I'm against having people taking it for granted.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 08:46 PM
1

You have the right idea, but treating them like men isn't the solution. That's the perfect way to get labeled as a sexist and have your reputation damaged. You have to treat them like women, but more specifically as women you're not sexually attracted to, the same way you'd treat a female relative you're not particularly close to.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 06:40 PM
1

She's going to clean up everything on her PC before you have access to it and if she finds out you spied on her she'll use it against you. If you want to verify by all means do it, just don't fall for such obvious traps.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 07:50 PM
2

Next her. It's the only Valentine's gift she deserves.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 06:04 PM
2

They don't care about their own height, short girls still expect to be in a relationship with a 6"+ man.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 02:59 PM
1

Drop this ungrateful and materialistic girl without a word.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 01:59 PM
2

LTR discussing your private sex life to others is a red flag, to say nothing about lying and disrespecting you. You're still young, so can yu picture this girl as the love of your life? I'd say just next her. ​
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:21 PM
5

We don't want this stuff to become the "norm" because I sure as hell wouldn't be happy in either of those guys' places.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:17 PM
6

What pisses me off the most is the insane validation and power trip the mother is getting off this trainwreck of an arrangement. She's guilty of mindfucking an entire family as well as another guy and she's passing as some kind of hero. Disgusting.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:16 PM
5

It might just be that you're not her #1 option at this time and she used the "too much texting" excuse to get rid of you.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 01:26 PM
3

Paying therapists to vent is the same as paying hookers for sex: sure it gets the job done in the short term, but the lack of genuine desire exacerbates the underlying issue.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:49 PM
2

Because they're pragmatic, out of necessity. Women are born with inherent but finite value, which peaks in their early 20's and then gradually fades away. Once they hit the wall at around age 30, most of it is gone, so in order to be a valuable member of society after that point they need to have a relationship with a high-quality man and have children. This is why they're biologically wired to seek out the most valuable man they can find before it's too late, so they can't really waste their ti…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:48 AM
3

Well OP was asking about "dating", which implies she would be more than a plate. Single moms are good for sex if they're hot, but that's about it.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 09:30 PM
20

Avoid like the plague. Behind every single mother there are bad decisions. Bad decision making is the absolute worst trait a woman can have.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:54 PM
2

I make it immediatly clear that I'm not looking for a committed relationship and the instant I hear that kind of talk it's over, so most of my plates don't bring that up. When they do I give a warning first (something like "sweetie, it takes years to build that kind of trust") and if they ask again I amicably end the relationship and wish them good luck finding what they're looking for. To answer your question: every girl is different, some will ask you almost immediatly, others can go on for ye…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:02 PM
30

Buy her a piece of clothing of her former size as Valentine's gift.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:24 AM
31

Oh men can be raped. It's called divorce.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:58 PM
9

The more you disclose about yourself, the more ammo you give her to use against you at a later time. For plates it doesn't matter, but I certainly wouldn't want a LTR to know that I fucked a crazy girl.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:29 PM
19

Precisely. It's no different than a chick riding the CC pre-wall, but then she hits that hard and the fun turns into misery. That's what drugs do to a man: they add the dreaded concept of the "wall", something we don't want. A man in his 20-30's who does drugs could be "fun" to have around, but a 40+ one is seen and treated like a smelly sack of garbage because drugs do cumulative damage to the body and mind and there's no way to hide that past a certain point.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 10:13 AM
9

In regards of drugs/alocohol, he should be. I'd never trust these people with anything important, whether it's a job or a personal matter.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:53 AM
8

I would demote her to plate if I were you. No LTR of mine is ever getting drunk and acting like that. Also if she lied for that supposedly harmless tinder, she'll lie for worse stuff.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:05 AM
5

Sounds like a recipe for being completely miserable after the wall. They should just cultivate themselves: learn housekeeping skills, stay fit, stay feminine, develop a personality, read books etc. Working is okay as long as they don't become bitter "career-oriented women" but they genuinely love their job and makes them a happier person. High-quality guys will automatically consider such girls for a LTR, no need to whore themselves out without actually learning anything useful.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:57 AM
181

All plates fuck other guys behind your back while pretending to be exclusive with you so they can ask for a LTR, that's not the issue here. The real red flag in this conversation is this: Her: “my friends always ask me what we are” Her: “I don’t know what to tell them though” She already sees you as an accessory to validate herself in front of her friends. A girl who was really into you would say something like "I want to build a life together". Also confirmed later with this: Her: “nooo... I do…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:42 PM
1

The Red Pill is a toolset meant for men so they can learn the means to improve themselves and be prepared to deal with a misandrist society. There is surprisingly very little here for women, despite a large amount of subjects about them. At best they can learn to lie and cheat better, but good luck fooling a red pilled man.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 07:25 AM
4

If you try to butt in too much in her personal life she'll start hiding stuff from you, so you need to be a strong and reliable father figure so she will be the one looking for your advice. Also remember women are emotional creatures, so no matter how good your advice is, if she finds a bad boy who gives her the tingles and he ends up treating her as a plate and nothing more, it's going to dramatically affect her future.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 09:48 PM
8

...or maybe he just cares about his sister and doesn't like seeing her in this sorry state? Whether she can actually be receptive of his help is an entirely different matter, though.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:48 PM
8

There is no need to fight it, it's part of a natural cycle. Everything is born, grows, reaches its prime, declines and dies. This society is no different. Let nature do its job, so the next society can be born from the ashes of this one. It sucks that our generation is the one that gets to live in this decadent phase, but it could be worse. At least we didn't get to experience a world war in our childhood.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:35 PM
23

"Think as you like but behave like the others". There are zero advantages in discussing TRP with people who are not capable of understanding it. Best case scenario they give you a confused look and forget what you said in few minutes, worst case scenario they damage your reputation.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:28 PM
4

Basically she's about to hit the wall and she's been drinking for almost 10 years. She WILL look like complete shit in 5 years or so. Can you picture this girl as the future mother of your children?
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:28 PM
4

Solipsism. No shit, of course you think his number is higher, because that's a good trait for a guy and you probably wouldn't LTR him if you believed it's lower than yours.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 05:32 PM
6

That's how society works but OP does have a point because being bossed around by women is something that goes against men's biology.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:22 AM
1

Even veritable landwhales with a bit of makeup and Myspace angles can manage to double their HB score to the untrained eye. It's sickening how those fatso recieve hundreds of likes and "You're so beautiful :)" comments.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:38 AM
4

Men who have any kind of dopamine addiction: food, alcohol, drugs (soft or hard), TV, etc.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:35 AM
4

Use another phrase. WNAB is widely assumed to be an euphemism for a complete breakup so she'll start fucking around if you say that.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:31 AM
5

Good. Anger is better than indifference.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:11 PM
18

Because they're used to being treated like princesses for their entire lives, dropping something like that to them is the same as saying "You have zero value to me and the entire world has been lying to you until now". You basically shatter her reality and the result is a complete breakdown. The hotter she is, the harder she'll take it. The equivalent for men is the instant a wife tells her husband it's over. He's not being divorce-raped yet, but those words shatter his reality because he now re…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:44 PM
6

Feminine gay men (who are basically seen as low-status and disposable just like sluts and betas) will validate them and encourage sluttiness as you said because they serve the same function as beta orbiters, but it's a whole different story with masculine types. The whole orbiter dynamic is usually reversed with them because masculine gays have even more abundance than women. I have a cousin who is a high SMV (good face aesthetics, muscular, 6 figures job and glamorous lifestyle) gay man and he'…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:31 PM
21

Homosexuality is a spectrum. Self-proclaimed "gay" men will happily fuck a girl if she's attractive enough for their standards and she's up for it. The difference between straight and gay men is nothing more than how low on the HB scale a girl can be before she's considered fuckable. In a way, gay men are naturally alpha and red pill when it comes to women and have an extreme abundance mentality because they're the category of people who gets sex most easily (even more than women). It's with oth…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 06:47 PM
2

By far and large, the rule that most red pillers seem to disagree with is #4 (no cohabitation).
/r/askTRP05/02/19 06:42 PM
11

Her "good" personality is an act. If you make the mistake of marrying her, she'll swiftly revert to her old habits.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 12:19 PM
5

My bad, I mean it was quarantined. It seems you can't find any links to that subreddit on Google anymore, so it's harder to access it now. As for the reason: reddit is run by feminists so they hate everything TRP stands for.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 12:16 PM
2

"Them". It just gets depressing knowing that so many women I bed are damaged as hell. I'll happily take the sex but damn that crap is so common.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:40 AM
12

It seems a common theme among the replies is: "I started researching online why people say nice things to me but then they treat me like shit". Always had a gut feeling that assholes were always treated better than "nice guys", despite everyone, including family and friends (who turned out to be fake) claiming otherwise. The red pill was very sweet for me and not hard at all to swallow. The foundation was already there, I just needed confirmation. All of you, be thankful you found your answers b…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:36 AM
1

Now this is an interesting perspective. It's true that almost all relationships don't end in a positive note (neutral at the very best), but what women tell us ("I suffered sooooooo much...") is a stratagem to dismiss the other side of the coin ("...but I had a lot of fun too!").
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:55 PM
5

As if. When I smell baggage I just place them under plate status and never promote.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:51 PM
13

Many girls will attempt to convince you to make an account after you say you don't have one. Very obvious shit test.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:07 AM
1

We're nor worried about you, we don't want you to give bad advice. Under any circumstance should you be cooperating with cops if you're falsely accused of anything. Their job is to find enough evidence for a guilty verdict. Don't talk to them, don't give them anything and if you're forced to answer a question always say you need your lawyer first.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:20 AM
1

About #3, if you made the mistake of distancing yourself from your friends because you got in a LTR, try not to make obvious that you're reconnecting just because it's over. When an acquaintance (I don't consider them friends) does that with me I can smell it from a mile away and it's annoying as hell.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:15 AM
1

Are you physically fit? If it's related to your muscle mass it's the best compliment you can receive.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 03:46 PM
11

Acquaintance of mine got in a LTR with a single mom "widow" who had recently moved to my town, tried to have another kid together but never could for unspecified reasons and after 10 years it turns out she wasn't a literal widow... just an alpha widow. Real dad (standard abusive alcoholic type with minor issues with the law) comes back and she instantly dumps the beta to go back with him. Even more shocking is their kid was all too happy to go back to his "real" dad, despite him being absent for…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:10 AM
2

The bigger elephant in the room here is about your alleged "best" friend dating your ex (regardless of her mental issues). Friends don't do that, let alone besties. Cut them both off.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 07:59 AM
77

Why did you LTR a cheater in the first place?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 01:57 PM
2

They also tend to be full of red flags. FWB at best.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:59 AM
5

This isn't just for plates. If I start finding someone annoying I stop calling them by nicknames. Seems like a subconscious thing people do.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:52 AM
1

People resort to fake "niceness" because the modern world doesn't offer many opportunities to show that you are a genuinely good person. There's no need to risk your life save anyone from danger, no need to share limited (emphasis on "limited") food with someone who is starving, no need to watch each other's backs. Basically in a world where genuine sacrifice is not required people automatically assume there is got to be something in for you behind "nice" gestures. In the past, when our comforts…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 07:22 PM
2

This is also why it's a dastardly effective tactic to sabotage relationships. Corollary: always block her after a breakup. She can and will do damage otherwise.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 12:44 AM
1

Yeah this sounds like an interesting read.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 11:50 PM
8

Biggest one in modern society is being addicted to dopamine in all of its forms (food, drugs, alcohol, porn etc.).
/r/askTRP29/01/19 11:37 PM
1

Certain girls will get mad at you if you don't feel bad for them leaving. Basically a last-ditch shit test.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 11:33 PM
8

Doesn't mean she gets a free pass. Society needs to wake up and punish this behavior.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:04 PM
1

Italian here. Left the country a couple of years ago so I'll give you my two cents. Non-white people are looked down upon in Italy due to the country's current immigration issues. While racism is not tolerated in public, it's extremely common within house walls. Older generations are by default racist, younger ones don't care much about the issue as long as ethnic people don't compete against them for a job or hook up with a family member, in which case they become just as hostile. An Italian gi…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 12:24 PM
4

You have to think in the long term. A man, as long as he keeps lifting and takes care of his own health, can look damn fine even in his 70's and tattoos don't detract from his looks. Tattoos on a woman, on the other hand, already look trashy in her 20's and I can't fathom how horrible she'll look in her 50's. Women's skin has less collagen compared to men's and they don't have our muscular mass so it's extremely hard for them to keep a toned body after they hit the wall. For these reasons tattoo…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:04 AM
2

First what she says is irrelevant. Out of the blue she could get baby rabies, "forget" to take the pill and have an "oops" pregnancy and you can be damn sure she won't go through an abortion again. Second, the very act of getting knocked up in her teens is a red flag that lasts forever for the reasons the other posters mentioned.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:46 PM
9

Someguys will say leave or kick her out, but that seems a little butt hurt or extreme. For a plate? No, it's the correct thing to do. Her job is literally to have sex with you. If she doesn't like that she has no usefulness. ​
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:41 PM
12

Withdrawing attention automatically increases attractiveness. People are naturally attracted to scarse resources and automatically lose interest for "common" ones.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:38 PM
4

Videogames don't need to be a mindless waste of time. You can learn a lot from them, as long as they have depth. I'm not a native English speaker and I learned the language thanks to videogames in my teens (they do teach English at school in my country but you don't really learn much). Perhaps you could try learning another language through them? Also if you're into math, computer science and/or economics, Youtube channels like Extra Credits are all about explaining how these fields factor in th…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:27 PM
1

Yeah it's for the best. My father was abusive towards his first wife and children and despite his claims that he would change he was abusive towards me and my mom as well. We cut him out from our lives and never looked back. A person who makes the same mistake twice, especially one that literally ruins other people's lives, is not worth reconciling with. Best of luck to you and your new family.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:12 AM
2

You know how expensive wife and kids are right? Now imagine if instead of using your money for them you spent it entirely on yourself (investments, clothes, car, house, hair transplant, aesthetic surgeries, gym programs and so on) until your late 40's. Only after you've done that does it make sense to have a LTR (don't marry) and kids.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:04 AM
1

Unless there is some soap opera-tier story behind the reason he couldn't bother to contact you for 17 years, I don't see why you'd want to connect with a person who deliberately chose to cut you out of his life for so long. Even if you make amends, don't expect a movie-style happy ending where he suddenly becomes part of your life and everyone gets along. In your place I would not allow him to see my kid until he earns the right to do so. How about 17 years of acting like a father? ​
/r/askTRP27/01/19 06:13 PM
1

Because the Church is so active in poorer 3rd-world countries, this would obviously be a good thing to help reduce poverty caused by the overpopulation. Thoughts anyone? Red pill truth of the day: they don't actually want it. A rich, sustainable population has no need for religion. ​
/r/askTRP27/01/19 06:05 PM
1

You can if you can genuinelly act cold and distant and just use her for sex. However if that "cold and distant" is actually an act to cover you being butthurt or vengeful, it won't work.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:57 PM
1

By "disrespectful" you mean women who run their mouth in order to belittle you while they themselves are underachievers? Play that to your advantage. Show your boss you are the quiet and reliable guy who gets things done (however never become a doormat, make it clear you'll not be taken advantage of) while they provide little value. If you end up being promoted watch the bitches suddenly become much more submissive to you.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:37 AM
2

Best thing you can do is showing her through actions (never through words) that you find social media addiction utterly pathetic. If she's serious about you she'll get the hint that she needs to tone down that shit. If she can't do that you have a good reason not to LTR her.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:29 AM
1

Notice how on any other board most of the responses you'd get would be "Oh no please don't kill yourself! Please keep extending your miserable life as much as possible! Validate my fake sympathy and total lack of helpful advice!" while here you have people who are not even addressing the suicide part while giving you real advice. This is the mindset you need to fix your current situation.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 07:48 AM
3

Stopped reading at "abusive ex". If she's telling the truth this shows poor decision making, if she's lying she'll label you as "abusive" at the first opportunity. No LTR material for sure.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 07:42 AM
7

I was social and friendly with everyone at work. I allowed some jokes That's where you messed up. Nobody likes being "downgraded" in a relationship of any kind so this attitude isn't entirely unjustified. It's really not any different from a girl downgrading sex with you ("no more BJs" -> starfish -> dead bedroom) or a guy downgrading a girl from LTR to plate. Understand that if you try to enforce a more professional attitude now they won't like you anymore. Co-workers in my opinion aren't real …
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:43 PM
1

I have successfully downgraded a LTR to plate a few months after the breakup but only because she's a slut and she's cheating on her BF. I have zero feelings for her now and I made it clear that she is not to call me unless it's for sex. She did try the "am I just a sex object" talk with me, kept frame and she accepted her downgraded status. However most girls will not accept a downgrade because just like men hate going backwards in sex, women hate going backwards in commitment. ​
/r/askTRP26/01/19 11:05 AM
1

Basically when you suspect that someone's (not just women) actions and words are contradictory, pay attention to the former and ignore the latter. Example: she says "I don't find muscular guys attractive" but then she sleeps with them.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 08:09 PM
8

The best time to have kids is when you can give them the best possible life. Sounds like that time has yet to come for you.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 08:06 PM
3

Your child needs to be your priority now. Your ex has already proven to be an awful mother so you must do everything in your power to avoid that she is the one raising him/her. You have two options here: Legally battle in order to get more custody rights. This is virtually impossible to achieve unless the mother has major issues such as mental illness or substance abuse. Dread game on steroids. Work on yourself in order to become the best man you possibly can so she might think she made a mistak…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 08:31 AM
22

Yes, though as always it's not completely black-and-white. I'm sure she still "loves" him in her own way but staying with him is more of an act of pragmatism because she understands that society views a wife who leaves a sick husband as completely worthless.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 08:09 AM
1

Holding herself back on first date might be ASD because she doesn't want you to think she's the kind of girl who gives herself to people she just met.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 07:13 AM
2

Just keep in mind that if you plan on having a LTR and kids, military life is quite possibly the most incompatible one for that.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 07:09 AM
109

She wants to leave but can't because she would instantly become social pariah. Abandoning a disabled spouse or child is one of the very few things that it is unanimously agreed to be unacceptable, having priority even on hypergamy. She vowed to be with her husband in health and in sickness when she married him right? Good luck hamstering an excuse to leave him because he's "abusive" now that he's a vegetable. Besides, not even the worst betas would want a woman who is guaranteed to leave you whe…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:55 AM
1

I wasn't disagreeing with you, but I don't think it's so black-and-white. Put it this way: a little kid of 4 years comes to you and gives you a cute flower then goes back to play without asking you anything in return. Would you honestly think they're planning to manipulate you later? No that was a genuine nice gesture. As people grow older it is assumed they become more scheming and manipulative so we develop a shield that tips us off whenever we see gratuitous "nice" acts. The question is wheth…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:54 PM
1

If an ugly/fat girl is genuinely nice I wouldn't find her niceness disgusting. The problem is I haven't met a single "ugly/fat but nice" girl in my life. It's painfully obvious they have an underlying bitterness even when they try their hardest to act in a nice way (and they do that because their ultimate goal is commitment from a man. They quickly turn into complete bitches as soon as they're married). Which is also the reason people tend to shun "nice guys", as it is automatically assumed that…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:37 PM
5

You'd be surprised at how unclean they become for the right guy (re: alpha). Anb by unclean I mean things like giving head after unprotected anal.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:20 PM
36

Depends how you do it. If you ask her then it's a submissive act, if you just take it (as long as it's consensual) it's not. This is something you should do with LTRs only, because with a plate it shows scarcity mentality (she'll think: "Why is he even interested in eating from a plate dozens of other men could have recently eaten from?").
/r/askTRP24/01/19 10:40 AM
5

if you're french kissing naked, without her screaming for help, it is more or less a consent Not if you live in Sweden, because he can't verbally express her consent while she's french kissing you.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 09:43 AM
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Not giving head strongly implies she's disgusted by you and she's putting just enough effort to keep you around for your commitment. If she was really into you there wouldn't be any part of your body she wouldn't want to kiss/lick/suck. Edit: as others have said, how long you've known her also matters. It's understandable if a girl doesn't want to give head on the first date, but if it's a LTR then it's the first sign you'll end up in a deadbedroom.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:30 AM
1

Why did you delete your post? It was actually interesting.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:09 PM
2

That, or a simple "Which one?".
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:04 AM
3

Just don't shit test them the way they do with us. When a woman shit tests a man, she usually makes a very confrontational and often rude remark that you can't ignore because that's an automatic fail. Classic example is when she asks your n-count, if you remain silent she'll assume it's very low and therefore label you as a low-quality man. You're forced to answer (obviously in the appropriate way, i.e. never reveal the exact number and make her believe it's higher than she thinks) to avoid her …
/r/askTRP22/01/19 06:31 PM
8

I think I should clarify: I'm talking about people who have let themselves go (stopped lifting, got fat, stopped practicing their hobbies/sports for reasons unrelated to their health, got overall lazy etc.). Nobody can escape aging but unlike women who hit the wall at around 30, we men have the ability to keep an attractive appearance and personality even in our 50's and possibly 60's as long as we play our cards intelligently in our youth. If you Google pics of successful and attractive 50/60 y…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:32 PM
1

The irony about women pushing for marriage is that no genuine act of love can ever be forced. The more they push for it the more it's obvious it's not about "love". Any self-respecting man would instantly walk away from a marriage ultimatum. This is where betas make the mistake of caving and thefore enabling these women because scarcity mentality kicks in, after she carefully groomed her man into her little pet (re: betaization).
/r/askTRP22/01/19 12:59 PM
9

A very common red flag is when guys often talk about how handsome and amazing they were in the past but it's obvious they're not anymore. If you befriend them, as soon as they realize you're improving over the years while they're walking in the opposite direction you can expect all kinds of negative shit from them.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 06:56 AM
8

Even more shocking is how quickly some of them drop their "passions" the instant they get locked down by some generic HB4-6 chick. You know, the very same passions that allowed us to become friends in the first place. It really feels like our friendship was founded on lies and it's really disappointing when that happens.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 06:51 AM
2

The idea of my own mother even thinking of kicking me out is inconceivable to me. If she attempted something like that when I was a teenager I would have ended up hurting her. Can't think of a worse form of betrayal in nature. Get out of that situation ASAP because if you do end up hurting her she'll have the law on her side.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 06:44 AM
1

Very true, so basically this is a systemic issue. As a man I believe the ultimate act of love is a life spent together by our own volition, societal conventions and peer pressure be damned. I guess a woman's version of such an act is expecting her man to sacrifice part of his freedom because she's worth it.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:39 PM
3

I wouldn't be opposed to a commemorative ceremony after a life spent together with my SO, and maybe even signing papers if there is some actual legal reason for that (i.e. inheritance for our kids). But of course that requires an actual life spent together, after mutual trust has been built and cemented over time and both partners realize that breaking up at this point would be crazy. Basically I don't see marriage as a pre-emprive contract with all the risks that come with it, but as a way to c…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:02 PM
3

Agree wholeheartedly. My father is a complete and utter loser (drunken jobless wife beater with a severe gambling problem. Lost all respect for him at age 12 when he attempted to use me for some car insurance fraud so he could use the money to further fuel his addiction) and for the longest time I tried to look for another model, with no success because every man in my life was either a generic beta bucks who was treated like shit from his wife, or in the event they weren't losers they quite fra…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 11:31 AM
15

They lived in a different era, when unrestricted hypergamy didn't exist. A woman could count herself lucky if she got engaged to standard BB without red flags (drunk, fat, unattractive, poor health, wife beater and so on) and she could consider herself blessed from whatever God she believed in if her BB also possessed Alpha traits or was an outright Alpha. Nowadays if women will always attempt to score an Alpha while keeping a BB for his resources if they feel their man isn't Alpha enough. That'…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:33 PM
10

"You make your own dreams reality. Dad doesn't owe you them."
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:25 PM
20

A wise man once told me that is the best possible compliment you can get as someone who lifts. Be happy when you hear people saying that, for your efforts are paying off.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:09 PM
13

This is pretty much what happened to me -- except she didn't even bother to vocalize her issues with my work times, she outright started to look for "excitement" on the side while silently demoting me to BB. At least when men silently demote their plates they don't drain resources from them. If you read my reply a few posts below you'll see that she didn't seem the kind of girl to do that -- yet another example of AWALT. Had I not been exposed to the Red Pill, I would have surely fallen for that…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:02 PM
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She was completely into me before that episode. She had no obvious red flags and many green ones (good relationship with parents, has a nice job, good at house chores including cooking, amazing sex). I don't know about her n-count, didn't bother to ask because we all know she can and will lie about it. Nothing changed about me. I'm decently attractive (I lift and despite being in my 30's everyone says I look like I'm 25 which is a big plus with my body) and I have a good job. She ended up dating…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:29 AM
1

Reading the replies here the "girl loses attraction upon seeing her man crying over a deceased relative/friend" story seems to be very common. The issue here is not about being dumped by some slut, it's about a display of sociopathy that is almost as bad as animal cruelty and racism (and maybe even worse than the latter, considering how personal it is). Society shouldn't tolerate such individuals at all. This is seriously disturbing stuff that needs to be talked about because it's perhaps one of…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 05:48 PM
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In addition to this: feminists hate it because men who are aware of red pill concepts can understand women more than women understand themselves. TRP is kryptonite to Feminism.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:27 PM
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