GKoala Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Got love bombed by a women who suddenly pulled away	Field Report	GKoala	/r/seduction	13/01/26 07:48 PM
14	Vent, girls are weird	Field Report	GKoala	/r/seduction	10/03/22 09:08 PM

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1	How do you stop putting women on pedestal for their beauty ? Well that's a bit disingenuous to say. Good looking people do infact put effort into looking good lol. A very very small percentage of people are "naturally, woke up like this" beautiful. But for OP, the true way to get over it is by getting one. You'll realize that beauty alone isn't enough and that they're not much different from less pretty people beyond the first time you saw them. People can tell you all this and that, but you can't truly believe it until you've gotten it.	/r/seduction	23/07/26 07:26 PM
1	3.22TB of Dating courses, All RSD courses and youtube videos. The most complete file. What happened to the classics like models	/r/seduction	13/05/26 07:53 PM
2	Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps? GL to you brother, I hope you find someone that is compatible to you.	/r/seduction	09/05/26 05:49 PM
2	Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps? Because you make a move, touch them, go for a kiss, and they dont resist but rather kiss you back.	/r/seduction	09/05/26 05:44 PM
2	Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps? You don't know what they want relationship wise in the moment. All you know is they want the physical intimacy in the moment. Don't worry about what they want after. Girls enjoy physical intimacy just as much as guys. Its not your righteous ass's responsibility to worry about it. Girls are grown too, they as a matter of fact know what theyre doing. Its not your responsibility to worry about it. If they don't want to hook up, youll know. If they do, just hook up with them. If you both hooked up a…	/r/seduction	09/05/26 05:11 PM
1	Is there an ethical way to really find FWB without apps? There is nothing unethical about hooking up without having spoken anything. Its the natural way, you go based on the moment. Nothing ruins the mood more than talking about it. Talk is generally saved for after you've hooked up to decide what itll be.	/r/seduction	09/05/26 04:47 PM
1	Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partner When I say your age I'm sinking down to late 20s- early 30s. Like I said, 40s is gonna work against you trying to have a real relationship with anyone younger that won't be simply sugaring whether you guys call it that or not. They'll expect you to provide and do everything. Anyone around 30s might not, but any below definitely will even if they deny it to your face. And just read your other comment about making only 38k, I'm sorry but that's barely enough for yourself. I'm not saying this to be…	/r/seduction	21/04/26 10:55 PM
1	Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partner At this age, I'm only in my 30s, I imagine you need to have your traditional shit together. Meaning, a stable career/finances. That is gonna be the biggest point imo if your target is a real relationship with woman around your age. Otherwise you better look good for 40 if youre tryna sleep around with some youngins. There is a market for younger girls who want an older man. Its very common, though most of those don't last.	/r/seduction	21/04/26 10:46 PM
2	What actually makes a guy instantly attractive? You can sit and wallow about being short or you can focus on the other things you can control. It's your choice.	/r/seduction	16/04/26 05:35 PM
2	How can I, as a man, get girls to pursue me For just hooking up it mostly comes down to the environment you meet them. For example girls on Vacay are more down to hook up than girls going through their daily life. You want easy hookups, be at popular tourist locations and have status there, ie know a lot of people and are a regular at the bars/clubs.	/r/seduction	16/04/26 12:06 AM
1	How to stand out on a singles event? Honestly the idea of these events sound terrible. Think about the demographic who would go to these things, you're essentially admitting youre one of them. Why not just go out to any local bar/club. Those are social locations intended for socialization. Meeting people is the point of those places.	/r/seduction	14/04/26 11:47 PM
4	What is the “hair done, makeup and gorgeous outfit” equivalent for a short king (as opposed to the ladies)? Men can dress well too, look at malefashionadvice. Most women also appreciate a well dressed guy like we appreciate a dressed up woman. You're kinda contradicting yourself, if you think you dress well like you say then you're already doing the equivalent of female dressing up. You have access to look better just like they do.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 04:07 PM
4	Is this normal after a one night thing? Keep it low key and see if she reaches out. Never ask to do it again without concrete plans. Like others said, the come down from partying has different effects for different people. Just reemphasize how you felt in this post and next time you ask her out have actual plans.	/r/seduction	10/04/26 03:53 PM
6	how to avoid hitting on minors when running day game? Kind of a pointless worry. Especially because you're 20. Like any approach, just talk to them. Eventually they'll reveal their age.	/r/seduction	07/04/26 12:55 PM
59	Best hobbies or jobs to get girls? Don't revolve your life to something because of other people's perception of it if you don't enjoy it. You'll end up feeling like you wasted your time even if you end up getting the girls. And if girls are the only thing youre interested in in life, well good luck to you brother.	/r/seduction	06/04/26 02:10 AM
4	Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up? Status probably not much, but it might just be the little confidence booster you need if youre in a slump. A little something to remind yourself everything's gonna be alright.	/r/seduction	29/03/26 05:24 PM
1	How to control paranoia that a girl might post me on social media or compliant to police? Nothing but exposure therapy brother. You need to experience experiences that prove otherwise. That is far from the norm of what normal people do. Those scenarios are edge cases.	/r/seduction	19/03/26 02:25 PM
4	Time wasters Keep playing these games, hope it works out for you. Sex is a step towards a long term serious relationship among all the other things. Everyone's time gets wasted the longer you withhold just for the guy to realize the sex wasn't that good and leave later instead. Better to just do it upfront and invest in the ones that stay. Women who treat sex like it's only for the guys benefit boggle my mind. If you don't enjoy sex just be upfront to the men, let them go find the women that do.	/r/seduction	18/03/26 06:21 PM
4	23yo Algerian looking for fun (Algiers) GL brother, but you're fishing at the fountain. I recommend somewhere else.	/r/seduction	15/03/26 03:21 AM
1	People who use wingmen for night game what are the benefits? A wingman is for the most part social proof. It immediately eliminates any idea you might be a creepy loner if youre with a friend. But of course, no help is better than bad help. It all depends on the wing and what he does. It generally is easier to approach groups as a group yourself and your wing can occupy some of the attention of the others while youre on your target. But also, just find someone you enjoy hanging out with as opposed to a "wing" specifically. People naturally gravitate towar…	/r/seduction	24/02/26 10:12 PM
11	Went to a bar last night, panicked, and immediately folded What are you talking about lmao. Most people at bars are pretty open to talk to other people. Like those places you mentioned, bars are a social place. Nobody goes to bars with expectations of not talking to others. Maybe you lol.	/r/seduction	21/02/26 06:29 PM
1	What are your most effective ways to make a woman horny? Unfortunately brother, it doesn't work that way. Just because she had sex with you once doesn't mean she'll do it again. It does require continued effort.	/r/seduction	16/02/26 04:36 PM
3	How to become good at texting It all comes down to intent and purpose. If you're just texting to text, that doesn't go well because its not going anywhere. And like conversations in real life you gotta match the energy theyre putting. They take long to respond, you take long to respond. "What" to talk about depends what youre doing. Imagine a random stranger just starting talking you, youd be asking why theyre talking to me and what they want. Its the same for girls, if youre messaging out of the blue be clear that youre int…	/r/seduction	14/02/26 08:04 PM
3	25 m looking for late night chat Not the place for this lmao. Try omegle for strangers or look for an escort on tryst or whatever and only ask for chat services. Maybe a therapist instead would help.	/r/seduction	12/02/26 04:58 PM
3	Seeing/teasing an old flame tomorrow. Read for details. But you're already a relentless tease, why do you need help?	/r/seduction	11/02/26 08:12 PM
6	date multiple women Because life isn't an exact science. Of course in an ideal world the one you want wants you as well and you guys bond. But unfortunately we live in the real world and not an ideal world. I have an ex who is engaged and currently pregnant still hitting me up to chat and occasionally drops a flirt. And its not like this is unique, I'm pretty sure one girl I was with dropped me out of the blue to go back to get ex. You can't exactly prepare for shit like this. The point of not getting attached as m…	/r/seduction	11/02/26 07:40 PM
5	Is Cold Approach Even Effective in the Long Run? My last girlfriend was a cold approach. Didn't last long, and truth is not much different from girls from dating apps. But point is, you gotta meet them somehow and meeting them in person is much easier than online imo.	/r/seduction	02/02/26 08:19 PM
1	How do you guys setup a meet ? Yup, after getting the number you have to lead. It's best of both worlds because you find out sooner rather than later after having invested.	/r/seduction	16/01/26 04:32 AM
1	A few issues about going out alone Yeah this is the thing that became apparent immediately, he goes out to pull. Not to have fun. OP you have to first have fun. People like being around people that are having fun. If going out clubbing isn't inherently fun to you, try going out doing things you actually enjoy.	/r/seduction	15/01/26 03:45 PM
3	Got love bombed by a women who suddenly pulled away She literally told me she wanted to be alone lol. So I left her alone. I offered if she needed anything. How does that even make sense being so affectionate with someone then not wanting to be vulnerable when youre sick? Did you even read my post? She isnt responding, pretty much went to ghosting. No communication.	/r/seduction	14/01/26 05:06 AM
1	Should I even go to the club if I feel every guy there is better looking than me You need to actually enjoy going out clubbing. It'll feel more natural when you're actually having a good time.	/r/seduction	27/12/25 06:56 PM
1	Is there any way that telling a girl you're gay could actually help get you laid? Its like you telling a restaurant youre vegetarian and being surprised when they give you the vegetarian only menu. Bruh.	/r/seduction	12/12/25 08:26 PM
2	Figuring out how to text girls. Advice? The best advice, because you sound young is to just keep texting girls and learn like you did here lmao. Texting isn't the be all end all. It is only the stop gap until you see them in person so treat it as such.	/r/seduction	11/12/25 09:23 PM
23	Has anyone flirt based on Menstrual cycle? Women are generally more aroused during the start of their cycle, it's just nature calling. But I've never heard of the 10 days plus birthday thing to determine their cycle. And generally not very practical for gaming. Like how are you going to know this information when trying to approach a girl? Pretty pointless in that regard. Best you can do is apply this with your gf/wife if you want to time when theyre more likely to be horny, but at that point if theyre not constantly turned on by you, wh…	/r/seduction	10/12/25 03:36 PM
9	How do you get girls on IG Ime it really only works with young girls. Girls I've spoken to that have made connections through social media all seem to have done it at a younger age, like teens. And I can't recommend hitting up teens on ig.	/r/seduction	05/12/25 03:28 AM
1	Here are few open ended questions I came up with that sound interesting Your first mistake is even focusing on asking questions. Dont ask questions. Do what is called "cold reading". Make an assumption about her, i.e. doctor, you must hate talking to people after seeing patients all day. You will either A: bond because wow how did you know that or B: be corrected and get insight about her.	/r/seduction	02/12/25 11:42 PM
2	How to potentially reconnect with ex after dumping her The best start is usually something along the lines of I saw x and it reminded me of you. But you can go for something more forward depending on the break up. But also it generally isnt worth it, regressing to an ex usually stems from a dry period in my experience and its better to push yourself forward than to go back. My 2 cents.	/r/seduction	02/12/25 03:11 AM
4	How is game in the UK? My British friend told me foreigners generally do pretty well just because theyre different from British guys. British guys in general are a lot more reserved and hardly make moves. So just approaching will be a nice surprise for them.	/r/seduction	29/11/25 12:20 AM
4	I rejected by a girl in my class because “she didn’t wanted any relationships right now” what this supposed to mean? Ultimately doesn't really matter. You're young, there is plenty out there. Move on to the next. It's best to get these early so you don't waste anymore time on it. People will tell you this, but only your experience will make you believe it, it sometimes really isnt about you. People are at different phases in life all the time. Don't take everything personally, it'll be a lot less stressful living that way. Of course continue seeking to improve.	/r/seduction	28/11/25 05:07 PM
2	Men who are into younger women age gap I wouldn't put 30s and 40s in the same bracket of older guys haha. 30s is when they say men are prime. 40 not so much.	/r/seduction	28/11/25 01:17 PM
1	Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way around I agree, but none of what I said was meant as dating advice. And if you fully read it, I even said the term dick appointment lol.	/r/seduction	27/11/25 10:37 PM
9	should i text her? Let me tell you no one is that special my guy. It might seem like it, but what you had exists out there with someone else as well and often than not even better.	/r/seduction	27/11/25 03:02 PM
3	Don’t Let Women Use You For Your Non Sexual Time and Attention!!!! Yeah it doesn't need to be said the majority of the time. You can talk about sexual experiences and likes. But it should never be "do you want to have sex?". That part is implied through your actions.	/r/seduction	27/11/25 01:55 PM
3	Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way around What do you mean act through that? Lol this part doesnt require "game". If she is already down to meet you its purely logistics. She shares what times she's available and you either are available or youre not then share your alternatives. I mean ideally you have an event or something set up at a specific time like dinner/coffee/whatever at x time. They're either available for it or not and if not agree on a date/time you both are. Edit: and I just read your other comment that youve already fucke…	/r/seduction	27/11/25 12:46 AM
1	Feeling like I have to fit around her schedule and not other way around Get over yourself? As long as she is still meeting you you need to chill out. It screams you got nothing going on yourself and will make you come off desperate. And trust, you don't want to be the full attention of a girl, that shit is fun once. You'll never want it again.	/r/seduction	26/11/25 11:34 PM
3	Met a girl on reddit You don't, you cut your loss and move on. This is the most important thing with seduction. You must make your shot knowing it might miss. So that you can move on and shoot your next shot. No girl, no one is that special. No point sitting around until the stars align, the world will end before that. Find out sooner rather than later. Always be escalating.	/r/seduction	25/11/25 02:13 PM
1	How to pull women on a cruise Yeah i can't imagine the single demographic taking a cruise lol. I always imagined it as a family activity. Unless its their daughter or something.	/r/seduction	24/11/25 10:26 PM
1	Are clubs decent environments to meet women? Or are bars better? Me personally I prefer clubs because the atmosphere is more fun imo and more conducive to game. But it varies venue to venue. Bars ime are more acceptable to approach and talk to people but clubs I've found if you're having a blast and dancing, girls will come approach you.	/r/seduction	21/11/25 06:17 PM
1	What do you talk about on first dates? Spring board from one to another. Pay attention to what they're saying and build off of it. Like they said they visited X city. Ask them what they liked about it or would they recommend. Then they say they tried this really good x food place. Then you can share your best x food you've tried or ask about their other food likes. But most importantly, always try to make your questions open ended, rarely should they be yes or no questions. But ultimately, don't try to force it. Feed off their vibe, …	/r/seduction	17/11/25 04:14 PM
5	Female Boobs or Ass for clothing? A woman getting men to approach is less about appearance and more about your body language. Of course showing off YOUR best assets will get their attention, but if you want them to approach you gotta give them eye contact and that smile. Thats how you give a guy the go ahead to approach you.	/r/seduction	17/11/25 03:54 PM
1	I feel my age is a -ve factor Thats why theyre neets lmao, they prefer to be the victim instead of admitting they can improve 😂	/r/seduction	16/11/25 02:09 AM
21	I feel my age is a -ve factor Man's literally made the account to comment that lol	/r/seduction	16/11/25 01:33 AM
2	I’m not super fluent in English yet, but I’m living in the U.S. How do you approach women when there’s a bit of a language barrier? Would love to hear your experiences or tips! Lean into imo. I know american women aren't as big on foreigners as other countries are, but it is still a thing. As long as you're understandable and give off cool weirdly vibes, you'll be fine. Talk about where you're from and have been and try to get them to share the same. Best line is always, I'll have to show you x, y, z where I'm from or have been.	/r/seduction	13/11/25 07:19 PM
1	People don't have to give you a valid reason for rejecting you, not even out of courtesy Long rant to say not to take everything personally. Applies to other interactions as well, not just seduction. Sometimes chemistry just doesnt match and its okay. Not a fault on you or them.	/r/seduction	13/11/25 12:08 AM
4	How To Get Good At Sex (Aside From Having It)? Learn how to play with the clit, it more than compensates for penetration if lasting long is your issue. If she came before you even put it in, it doesnt matter as much how long you last. Treat the clit like a tiny penis, because really that is what it is.	/r/seduction	07/11/25 02:41 AM
9	Do women expect you to try to kiss them on the first date? Everyone's expectations are different and it takes experience and awareness of body language to have an educated guess about what they want. General signs I look for are if they linger when they are leaving. They face you directly face to face. And of course you should have a good feel of how the date went, if a lot of laughs were shared during the date and kino happened, I will always go for it. But you know, people are people and some even with all that won't want to for whatever reason. If th…	/r/seduction	03/11/25 10:13 PM
0	How do I initiate something with my boyfriend if I get nervous every time I try to? 🤣	/r/seduction	17/06/22 08:30 PM
7	How do I initiate something with my boyfriend if I get nervous every time I try to? Androids have had nfc share way before airdrops lmao	/r/seduction	17/06/22 01:30 PM
1	I don’t know what she wants Make your intentions known, that you want to be with her, and let her do the rest.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 02:30 PM
1	Avoid the "what about you" question after every sentence is the most powerful tool on chat To an extent yeah, what about yous should be natural when you want to know if she's into whatever you're talking about.	/r/seduction	05/04/22 01:45 PM
1	Avoid the "what about you" question after every sentence is the most powerful tool on chat Sadly take the hint, then maybe they just don't care for you. Move on.	/r/seduction	05/04/22 01:31 PM
13	Avoid the "what about you" question after every sentence is the most powerful tool on chat Use that as gauge to switch topics. If she doesn't ask it's most likely she doesn't care about that topic or question.	/r/seduction	05/04/22 01:25 PM
7	Looks, money or social status? Social status is a result of both. Two hards make a harder?	/r/seduction	05/04/22 12:08 PM
2	Did getting a car really changed your dating life ? That's what I meant, if she's already agreed to go out with you a car definitely makes it easier.	/r/seduction	31/03/22 07:44 PM
2	Did getting a car really changed your dating life ? It makes logistics easier once you've started dating, but it shouldn't be a tool to get the dates because you don't want those types of woman anyways.	/r/seduction	31/03/22 07:41 PM
1	What are good topics to talk to girls about and how can I start conversations with them? Drop that Spotify playlist	/r/seduction	25/03/22 12:15 PM
40	Success is 80% Showing Up Asking for an instagram is a no Brainer, try this more often and you will notice that almost every girl will give you her instagram. Temper your expectations. I'm not trying to rain on your parade, but I don't want you to be upset later when you try to hit her up and she doesn't respond nearly as well as you might be expecting.	/r/seduction	22/03/22 03:17 AM
36	Girl flakes but invites me to a house party next day. Need some advice. Bro are you in a small town of 10 people that all know each other? Why the fuck are you worried about your reputation with strangers...	/r/seduction	18/03/22 06:10 PM
1	How to flirt and sexually tease after a long term relationship has made me boring? I don't think you blew that one, she responded with an lol. Seems like she was playing a long to me.	/r/seduction	16/03/22 03:38 PM
2	Approaching women, getting phone numbers, but 0 text backs? 21(m) 🤣 you want advice or do you want to dismiss everything that you disagree with? Clearly what you tried isn't working. Try something else before you write it off. Like I said, something simple. Name 😄 or Name, it was nice to meet you. My bad, I misread your message. I was going fast.	/r/seduction	13/03/22 11:19 PM
0	Approaching women, getting phone numbers, but 0 text backs? 21(m) Always always follow up with a text the night you get their number with just your name and a smiley face or something simple. This serves two purposes, it keeps you in their mind and gives them a second opportunity to learn your name because could've forgot and this saves them the embarrassment of having to ask should they keep talking to you	/r/seduction	13/03/22 11:13 PM
4	I'm 28 she's 19 is that too young? Age is just a number, does her level of maturity match what you're looking for? Don't know? Then find out! How do you find out? Date her and get to know her.	/r/seduction	13/03/22 11:08 PM
1	Can Quiet girls be alluring? You can be quiet but you have to signal to the guy you're interested when he talks to you otherwise nothings gonna happen. It takes two to tango, if a guy you like is talking to you you have to give some sort of feedback.	/r/seduction	13/03/22 09:53 PM
1	23M who just moved to NYC and am looking to finally begin my dating journey. What advice can you give? Manage expectations. Do not expect immediate results and continue pushing.	/r/seduction	11/03/22 10:33 PM
11	Fall Back guy disguised as Male Best Friend? Physchological Trick. Are you having fun? Are you glad you came? Do you want another drink? Any question really where the expected answer is yes. Gotta find your own through experience.	/r/seduction	11/03/22 05:57 PM
12	Fall Back guy disguised as Male Best Friend? A PT. Essentially you get to say yes enough times ro random things. Each consecutive yes makes her more likely to say yes to anything else.	/r/seduction	11/03/22 05:11 PM
12	How to improve general confidence? Good. Acknowledge it. Embrace it. Are you going to be a little bitch and accept it and continue to be sad or are you going to use it as fuel that drives you to be better and not what they call you? If you're making friends like you say, are you expressing your desire to party to them? Have you invited them to come party with you? Dont sit around waiting for an invite, hear about and ask if you can go. Worst they say is no, ask another group. (Applies to women as well). Rejection is part of the c…	/r/seduction	11/03/22 02:41 AM
33	How to improve general confidence? Set and hit goals my guy. It's the only way. Gym is touted because it is the most easily available goal that is easily set and hit. Ever wanted to achieve anything simply to say you did it? Go and do it. Then find something else and go do that too. Confidence in anything comes from repeated success. You're confident you can brush your teeth, you're confident you can put your clothes on. You're confident in those because you have done it many times with success. What do you not feel confident abo…	/r/seduction	11/03/22 02:15 AM
6	Emotionally unstable girl The sayings as old time, don't stick your dick in a crazy	/r/seduction	11/03/22 02:08 AM
0	Vent, girls are weird Yeah that's what I'm settling on, I'm not gonna waste my mental energy/time. If she comes around she comes around, but in the mean time there's always more fish. I just wanted to vent it out.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 09:18 PM
3	How To Respond To Old “Friend” Still See Me As Below Them How old are you? You should never want to peak, you want to keep growing and being better than you were... if you take peaking as a compliment in this context then idk	/r/seduction	10/03/22 08:43 PM
2	How To Respond To Old “Friend” Still See Me As Below Them You can't control other people's action, but you can control your own reactions. Fuck how they see you, worry about how you see yourself. But if you want to be on the petty side, hit him with the reverse. He says you got a lot to grow, tell him he peaked years ago.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 08:37 PM
1	How long should the first kiss be? The only general advice is that the first time you kiss a girl you should be the one to pull away making her want more.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 05:56 PM
2	best places for Day Game in San Diego? Lamplight or gaslight district. I forget the actual name, but that's where all the clubs and things were.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 05:45 PM
1	approached a hot girl today, need feedback on interaction I wouldn't say it's a hard rule. Clearly it didn't affect him too much if he still got the number and asked to hang after break.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 05:43 PM
2	A Funny Example of a Bad Suggestion for a Date Think of it the other way, if you're really interested in someone would you do something you might not be interested in? Just take it as a sign she wasn't that into your anyways. Her lost.	/r/seduction	08/03/22 03:25 AM
8	“Fake it till you make it” and “Women can tell when you’re being fake and it puts them off” It's all internal. Everyone reaches self confidence their own way. But the most practical way to get confidence is through repeated success. You are confident you can shower, brush your teeth, whatever because you have done it successfully plenty of times. Having confidence holistically to me means I am confident in who I am as person/ my status in relation to a majority of the population. A big part of that will just come through age and life experiences. The other part comes from what you do t…	/r/seduction	08/03/22 03:00 AM
–	Anyone have good tinder text sequences? Hate to say it but there really is no formula, gotta taylor every approach. The best you can do is find the approach that works on the type of girl you like.	/r/seduction	08/03/22 02:40 AM
1	Being attracted but not putting her on a pedestal This is just something you will have to develop over time. Constant exposure to women you find beautiful will eventually lead it not having such a big effect on you anymore. There is no shortcut unfortunately. Acknowledge it and eventually you will get over it. You will adopt the mind-set "she's beautiful, but what else does she have?" It has such a big effect on you now because you don't have the abundance mentality to be able to look past it. You will be able to look at women and find things a…	/r/seduction	07/03/22 07:09 PM
13	“Fake it till you make it” and “Women can tell when you’re being fake and it puts them off” The saying is "fake it until you make it". Meaning you're faking having confidence until you have it. You're not faking confidence until you don't need to be confident anymore. I think that's the idea you're struggling with. You ultimately have to want to be there so you fake it until you actually are there.	/r/seduction	07/03/22 02:59 PM
2	Am I clueless or just never hit on Most guys are nervous to approach, especially if the girl doesn't seem approachable. Meaning she dead stares him or something. Try making eye contact and giving a little smile, they will feel more comfortable to approach.	/r/seduction	07/03/22 01:06 PM
1	Serious question for the women? Not every lesbian has no standards with the women they date and not every straight women has all those standards for men they date.	/r/seduction	07/03/22 12:47 PM
9	Serious question for the women? Well there's your issue. You're looking at two extremes of the spectrum. The reality is in between.	/r/seduction	07/03/22 03:09 AM
1	Sending a shirtless pic to a girl? Really will depend on where the conversation is going and overall vibe you two got going on. Ime most younger girls wouldn't really know how to react if it was out of the blue. Have you two already explicitly expressed sexual interest? If so then yeah its probably fine, but if you're not sure if she's sexually interested it's risky. Definitely feel it out and find a good opportunity, like for example after a what are you doing kind of conversation. Say you just got back from the gym then send it…	/r/seduction	06/03/22 11:58 PM
1	What’s your opinion on status symbols like a cool car, fancy clothes and nice apartments and how much do you think they help your game? Don't think of getting things that you think might impress others. Get things that you enjoy and will be impressed by. That will help boost your confidence and its the most important thing honestly. If you like fancy clothes buy fancy clothes, but don't get them because you think someone else will like you for them.	/r/seduction	06/03/22 08:17 PM
4	How to keep an extended conversation going? Conversations serve a purpose, talking just to talk is something couples or really good friends do. What is your intention with her? Once you know that you should be trying to always move the conversation towards that. Your goal shouldn't be to keep the conversation going but rather use the conversation as a tool to move towards what you want instead.	/r/seduction	06/03/22 07:31 PM
1	Do you guys ever feel like you HAVE to make moves to keep her interest (even if you're not really wanting to make out at the time)? Yeah this feels like a you problem. Dating should be fun and something you want to do, if it feels like work you're not that into it bro.	/r/seduction	06/03/22 05:50 PM
1	New to the game. 6’8 btw Anything and everything that will get you in contact with a girl, it's about increasing exposure. Do online dating passively, go out and be active at the same time. If you feel like paying for a photographer sure, but if like you said you aren't bad looking then I don't think the quality of a professional photographer will matter that much. For in person events I recommend you look up social events around you that you are interested in and just go check it out and you can always talk to girls ab…	/r/seduction	06/03/22 03:37 AM
4	New to the game. 6’8 btw Confidence, where do you get confidence? Practice. You want to get better at talking to girls? Talk to more girls lol. You can read advice until the end of time, but if you never actually go out and practice you won't get better.	/r/seduction	06/03/22 03:18 AM
3	Left on read don’t know what to do Have yall ever fucked/hung out at your place before? My guess is no. That dictates how you invite a girl over. Was it out of the blue you invited her like that or were you guys on a related topic? But I agree it is a little fucked up to just ghost someone after two months of dating. Best bet is to steel your mental and be glad it's happening now rather than later.	/r/seduction	05/03/22 11:28 PM
2	Advance text conversation Like no guard said, what do you want? Decide and move towards that. Don't sit hoping she initiates, because girls in general aren't good at that. And it's better that you make the move sooner than later because it might get stagnant and you don't want to be there otherwise you'll have to work to spice things back up.	/r/seduction	05/03/22 11:10 PM
2	Guys, one of the most important things to women that is never mentioned here is having a HIGH VALUE FRIEND GROUP. Like I said, context context context. If you want to demonstrate value in the office then you better be the coolest guy in the office or in a high position. If you want to demonstrate value at a club be part of the group that is laughing the loudest and having the most fun or have your own private table.	/r/seduction	05/03/22 12:50 AM
10	Guys, one of the most important things to women that is never mentioned here is having a HIGH VALUE FRIEND GROUP. It's an old catch 22, women like guys who a lot of other guys think are cool and men respect guys who get a lot of girls. But in reality it isn't so much about being in a high value friend group or not, it simply boils down to being high value. It's easier to make friends when you have a lot of friends. Being in a group (any group really will demonstrate value depending on context). Like you said being in a fraternity group in college is high value. Being in a fraternity group at an upscale bar …	/r/seduction	05/03/22 12:39 AM
1	Most of the advice here is either too broad or too specific Do you feel like you have a lot of strong connections? Perhaps there is a correlation?	/r/seduction	04/03/22 06:41 PM
1	Most of the advice here is either too broad or too specific Yes lol, even outside of seduction eye contact is vital in human interactions. Notice in yourself when you talk to people. Is the person you're talking to making eye contact and how focus on how it makes you feel.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 01:01 PM
1	Should I ask her out? The strategy is if you give her your number and she texts you, she is investing and reciprocating interest. If she doesn't it's pretty clear interest is low and up to you to decide if it's something you're willing to put effort in.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 12:53 PM
3	Miss miss miss FACE CLAP Yeah that seems a bit of a stretch, I felt like the police HAD to charge them with something since it got leaked	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/10/19 05:22 PM
1	Semi-denied, 14 days is a joke. I never heard of a sentence for 14 days, have you? With honors	/r/PussyPassDenied	14/09/19 05:10 AM
12	Cops treat woman how they would treat a man in that situation Mr. White Knight Sir, did you even watch the video?	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/04/19 06:48 PM
1	Logic was slapped. Weird flex but okay	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/03/19 09:45 PM
1	A woman allegedly intoxicated who was stopping traffic was arrested after she decided to face an officer. You keep driving past jay walkers too?	/r/PussyPassDenied	18/10/17 06:08 AM
-2	A woman allegedly intoxicated who was stopping traffic was arrested after she decided to face an officer. No, I just think you’re blowing it out of proportion. Wouldn’t you think it was the people that kept on driving knowing full well they might hit her be the danger to the public? People would stop their cars if they saw a jaywalker. A drunk wild women? Nah let’s keep driving. 🤔	/r/PussyPassDenied	17/10/17 10:52 AM
-2	A woman allegedly intoxicated who was stopping traffic was arrested after she decided to face an officer. A pile up with cars stopped at an intersection? You wouldn’t call a jay walker putting the public in danger would you?	/r/PussyPassDenied	17/10/17 10:21 AM
3	Experience with escorts 100% solidified my doubts- no woman is trustworthy A sellers gonna try to sell even if there's almost zero chance of it working. Why? They lose nothing even if it doesn't get sold.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/17 06:00 AM
9	LPT: Leave evidence of other girls' presence at your place in order to increase pre-selection tingles Wet paper towel? What are we looking for? I assume hair but still	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/17 08:00 AM
0	"I'm OK with sharing you with other girls, although I don't like it" I had a similar experience. I was 19 and she was 18(freshmen in college). I met her drinking at a friends dorm. I teased Her cus they called pretty girl, so when she showed up I said "Hey pretty girl!". Drinking goes on and I leave to pee and when I came back I sat right next to her on a beanbag chair. We talked for a bit then she got up and moved to a different spot. I ignored it and continued talking to the other people and teased her when the opportunity came. A little later I go out to smoke…	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/15 08:35 PM