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| 2 | There really isn't a correct way to approach womenmarriage, and fertility rates there are still way higher than any western capitalist country, or its vasals (south korea, taiwan, singapore, japan) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 01:04 PM |
| 0 | There really isn't a correct way to approach womenlndians have arranged marriage, so theyre good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 01:33 PM |
| 0 | There really isn't a correct way to approach womenfirst, lf u aproaching females, then right off the bat, u desperate, and probably dont have much going for you second, females dont go for random guys off the street. they like familiar guys who they known for a long time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 01:32 PM |
| 2 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenor it sounds naive of you to believe that you can pull a female off the street? the fact that you havent shows that reality is on my side? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 03:28 PM |
| 3 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenwhy would a female off the street be atracted to you? l;ve never seen it happen. lf u can pull it off, u might be the first man to do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 01:58 AM |
| 3 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womencold aproach pretty much guarantees you;ll be single forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 01:57 AM |
| 2 | How many cold approached have you made in the last week?normal men do want to take time to get to know females over time, just as normal females want to get to know men over time. thats the only way you can actually know if someone is decent or not. lt;s the desperate ones who see a pretty face and rush over to the female. and usually desprate guys are desprate cause they never got any attention from females, and have limited options, therefore became desprate. the desperate guys dont care if a female is nice or not. as long as she looks good, it;s a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time?well u werent getting invited to weddings, birthdays, graduations, etc. l recently went to some july 4 celebrations and there were plenty of groups that were men/female all over the place. mixed age groups and all. l dont think l saw any july 4 celebrations that were only men, or only old people. lt was usually just mixed groups. old young, men, female, even mixed race groups if u in misouri | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time?how do u measure ur own likability though? lf youre not getting invited to parties, or celebrations of any sort, how likable are you? and also high school too. most guys who struggle with meeting females as adults had the same problem in hs, despite being surrounded by hundreds of fertile females. u rarely hear any guys say, l was real popular in hs, dating regularly, then suddenly after l graduated, l got no females at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 01:56 PM |
| 0 | How many cold approached have you made in the last week?l know guys who are successful with females, and u kind of see them with females all the time. with pua, u just never do. the guys who cold aproach even admit to me that no one ever calls them back, let alone meets up with them. thats why alot of guys who cold aproach consider it a success to get a number, because thats the farthest they ever get men who date, you see, they;ll post stories of themselves in situations or outings with females. men who dont date, men who cold aproach, you;ll see, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 01:52 PM |
| 5 | How many cold approached have you made in the last week?vast majority of men dont cold aproach, nor do they say its superior. l never heard any guys say that. most guys just date females they already know from their social circle, or someone they work with. u dont really hear about a whole lota couples who say they met randomly on the street. just look at your own relatives, which one met that way? all of my relatives had known their partners for a long time before dating, and usually ran with the same circles and saw each other all the time. the exa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:02 AM |
| 2 | How many cold approached have you made in the last week?l;ve never seen any females around guys who cold aproach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time?usually men who prefer cold aproach are guys who have nothing else going for them. ln other words, no one is introducing them to females, they got no social circles, no friends, etc, so they have no other choice but to cold aproach. another thing about guys who cold aproach is that they tend to have unlikable personalities, so anytime anyone gets to know them, they dont like them. because theyre peers dont like them, they can only aproach females who dont know them, hence the cold aproach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 02:57 AM |
| 1 | What is the next step?next step, u ask them if they want to have some babies | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Shoudl I have made a move or was I right to keep it chill?u shoulda said l got nowhere to stay tonight, can l come stay with u. l will keep u warm all night long | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Where do you go to approach women?l had similar reactions, and if youre a likable guy, it could take months for them to warm up to you. l dont think its a situation where you just show up, aproach them, and they get comfortable around u. and if ur an unlikable guy, then u can be there for years and still nobody will be comfortable around u, just like high school | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 02:11 PM |
| 2 | My only dates in the last 3 months have come from approaching. How can people say it doesn't work?unless l see op dating anyone, lm going to asume he is dating no one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 04:54 AM |
| 6 | How to know which dating advice is the true one?u cant listen to anyone online. got to talk to real people. what l do is talk to real life couples, but l also talk to real life pua too, not ones online. and they give me some insight. the pua l know all said that no one calls them back despite getting some numbers, which is very difrent to what pua online say. l am going to take the word of the real life pua over the online ones. the fact that none of the couples l know met through cold aproach makes me think that it doesnt work. also, the way… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/25 04:44 AM |
| 5 | My only dates in the last 3 months have come from approaching. How can people say it doesn't work?how u know it actualy worked for him. l can come on here and say l dated taylor swift | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | My only dates in the last 3 months have come from approaching. How can people say it doesn't work?anyone can come on here saying they got dates from that. l will believe it when l see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.maybe u would get a date if u didnt spend all ur time reading mens comments on redit l dont know if ur in a position to give advice though given how u never been on a date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:54 AM |
| 0 | Is cold approach worth it?ur a huge proponent of cold aproach, especially when ur not the one dealing with the consequences | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it?which romcom was cold aproach? | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it?vancouvers mostly asian though | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:19 AM |
| -1 | Is cold approach worth it?what u want is a connection. my landlord was a ubc student at the time l was renting, and she set me up on 3 dates in a month. thing with ubc students is they have plenty of classmates they know | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:11 AM |
| -1 | Is cold approach worth it?l remember looking for an apartment there, and l was just going up to random females asking them what they think about vancouver, and most of them were pretty friendly, but l mean theres a difrence between being friendly and attracted to you. l was talking to females around english bay also when l talked to them, l had a reason to talk to them. l wasnt just going up to them, and saying that they were cute, nor was l trying to ask them out but l do think city people are harder to deal with in gen… | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it?l asked myself the same question a few years ago, so l started talking to pua, and all of them told me they don;t get any calls back. l also observed a few of them in action, and alot of females responded well to it, but not well enough to keep in touch with these guys. l would also notice alot of the same pua out there day in and day out, and l;m thinking if it worked, they wouldnt be out there still. l remember one time, a pua was doing a cold aproach. this guy had to have done thousands cause… | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Why was there no PUA for women?most guys only become pua if theyre not achieving any results. for females, they will have guys asking them out regularly, so why would they need to become pua? lf u look at the vast majority of pua, most of them are loners, have no social circles, and do not attract females by nature. also there are females who will chase guys. theres no doubt about it, but they only chase guys such as athletes, or guys who are good at something. theyre definitely not walking around parks going up to handsome m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Why was there no PUA for women?lf theyre having sex with men from dating aps, then who needs lonley, off the street puas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | What is you cold approach success rate?no l want to see u with an actual female | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What is you cold approach success rate?l;ll believe it when l see it | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | What is you cold approach success rate?lf l had a $ each time a female gave her number without any intention to stay in touch | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 04:28 PM |
| 1 | What is you cold approach success rate?ln what universe is getting a number considered success though? | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | What is you cold approach success rate?he likem young | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What is you cold approach success rate?wow if getting contact details is considered success then we;re all successful | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 04:03 PM |
| 0 | What is you cold approach success rate?anyone who gives above 0% is cappin | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Single Ladies, is there a general consensus regarding approaching at the gym?u can still meet females without social circles. just depends on what your routine is. lets say u an amazon delivery guy, and u deliver packages in the same neighborhood, and u see the same females each day, and build a relationship off that. lt;s possible. the key is to be familiar with people, and let people be familiar with you. problem with guys who aproach random females is that they are doing the exact oposite of talking to people who are familiar which is why pick up artists usually get n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 04:12 AM |
| 1 | How should I approach girls in public and how can I flirt with them with out being creepyyea ur doing something wrong. ur cold aproaching | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Single Ladies, is there a general consensus regarding approaching at the gym?l dont know if aproaching anywhere is a good idea. l never talk to anyone unless l have a reason to. l think u have the same probability of getting rejected at a gym as you do in a bar. at the end of the day, youre aproaching a person who doesnt know you, and theres no reason for someone to be attracted to you if they dont know you, and chances are, theres very little you can say in 5 minute to change that. every person whos ever liked me has done so after months of knowing me. l have seen insta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appsl know a guy who did thousands of aproach. he said nobody answers his calls when he get a number | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 03:22 PM |
| 4 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appsthe vast majority of females from cold aproach wont even stop and just keeps walking. the fact that she even stops is considered an achievement for most pua | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 03:19 PM |
| 5 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appsfor a moment, he thought he was johnny depp | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appswhy would she be flattered? thats like you being flattered if a bum is begging you for change | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Men, what's the worst thing that happened to you after asking a woman out?well like l said, hes not doing it to 1 or 2 people. he;s probably doing it to 10, which is what gets him noticed, but at the same time, as l said, he comutes an hour to do this, therefore he has to stay for that long. he;s not going to comute for an hr just to aproach 1 or 2 strangers. lt;s a double edge sword. being a pua is a bit like being a thief right. lf u just steal 1 or 2 things, u might get away with it, but if u are a habitual thief, that;s what gets u arrested. another thing to keep … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with cold approaches?usually guys who make the excuse of "l;m new in town" were never popular even in the last town he lived in. 99% of the guys who say "l work in a job with only men" were not dating anyone in school where 50% of his peers were female | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/25 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Men, what's the worst thing that happened to you after asking a woman out?well, l mean there isnt much variation when it comes to cold aproach. here are a few things the pua say. "l saw you from over there, and had to come meet you". "l've had a crush on you for the past 10 seconds". "where;d you get that? all that beauty". lt's basically doing that over and over until you get the cops called on u. most men who cold aproach will set specific times to do it. as l mentioned before, they will comute up to 1 hr to neighborhoods where attractive females frequent. because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 04:53 AM |
| 5 | Men, what's the worst thing that happened to you after asking a woman out?yea. lf u look at pua, the overwhelming majority of them will cold approach in difrent neighborhoods. this is because its been tried and tested. well first of all, cold aproach is an unwelcomed activity. lf you cold aproach in your own neighborhood, this creates a bad reputation for yourself, and before you know it, your whole neighborhood hates you. this is why you will see pua comute upwards of an hour, JUST TO COLD APROACH! lve actually even seen folks post instagram, and snapchat stories abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | There aren’t really that many opportunities to meet people in 2025l think most people in general will denounce cold approach. people dont like whats unfamiliar to them. thats just how we are. even animals are that way as far as meeting people goes, l dont know if 2025, is that much difrent than 2024. lt always depends on your life style. lf youre religious, for example, you can meet people all the time. lf you have a likable personality, you will get introduced to people all the time. most of the guys who complain that its hard to meet people are guys with bad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:37 PM |
| 12 | Men, what's the worst thing that happened to you after asking a woman out?l dont really ask out anyone who l dont already know likes me, but l heard of pick up artists getting banned from malls, colleges, cops called on them, cussd out by females, whole communities turn on them, shunned, lowered self esteem, phone numbers blocked, creep rumors, stalker rumors. lts also my understanding that some females wont even let it get to you asking them out, even when you start showing signs of interest, she will be as mean as possible to you, so that you don;t even think about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you think cold approach is still relevant today ?l never listen to claims, and never listen to what people say online. dont care what google says. l only go based off what l hear in real life. but 10% doesnt sound too far off from what l hear. l think it might be a little higher at around 20%. this includes meeting females through gaming. l dont think reuniting counts as meeting online. you just used the internet as a tool for communication. chads do not get action through cold approach. as a matter of fact, chads are the last ones in the worl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you think cold approach is still relevant today ?still a big difrence between old and cold aproach as 99-100% of the folks being cold aproached dont want to be aproached, whereas everyone on old does also a huge difrence as l mentioned are couples who met through old vs the non existant couples who met through cold aproach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you think cold approach is still relevant today ?old is almost the exact opposite of cold approach. with old, both parties, men, and females are voluntarily signing up, putting up pictures, and creating a profile. theyre both looking to meet someone, or looking for some kind of response . with cold approach, ONLY the guy is interested in initiating an interaction. the female is usually just going about her business, and did not go out to meet anyone, whereas the pua is going out there just to cold approach this is why you see way more couples … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Do any of you guys cold approach?l know a bunch of guys irl who cold aproach (not online guys with made up stories). never seen any females around them outside of cold aproach. and they told me that although they get numbers, no one ever calls them back, or answers their call | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Some girls are not into cold approaches, and that's ok99% of the time when guys say, l cant meet people, lm new in town, they probably werent meeting anyone in their last town either. just saying | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Some girls are not into cold approaches, and that's okwell alot of pick up artists are 30+, so theyve had ample time to join classes, and be a part of something. chances are, these guys were in school, and never were very popular. school will usually give you all the time in the world, and opportunities to meet female counterparts. lf youre in school with hundreds of females and none of them were attracted to you, then that is telling. so it;s really more about their personality rather than being at the right place, at the right time. you can place… | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Some girls are not into cold approaches, and that's okthe fact that you dont get invited to bbq, parties, picnics means theres something wrong with your personality. 99% of the time when guys say they have trouble meeting females, it has more to do with their personality than their circumstance. when l was in school, there;d be guys who went to all boys schools and still had girlfriends, so... | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Some girls are not into cold approaches, and that's okyou mean all girls | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | I turned religious then stopped Cold Approaching altogetherlf ur religious, u dont need to cold aproach. theres plenty of people to meet at your mosque or church in a more socially acceptable way. you also get way more introductions when youre in a religion | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Attention PUAs!! How do I record my cold approach sets?u get another pua to hide in the bushes acros the street with a dslr. dont forget to get a mic with the really long wires so it;ll reach | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Men of Reddit who have successfully gotten plenty of lays through cold approaching? What have you learned and what is your most effective methods for doing so?theres guys who get laid from cold aproach? | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 05:12 PM |
| -1 | First cold approach at the bar last night ended with me getting the double hook upu got a wild imagination | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Women, would you find it inappropriate for a man to cold approach you at a nice restaurant?l call cap. u think we were born yesterday or what man? anyone whos been alive for 20yrs can obviously see that no couples ever meet from cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Women, would you find it inappropriate for a man to cold approach you at a nice restaurant?even if it was appropriate, what reason does she have to be attracted to this pick up artist? people dont generally become attracted til after several encounters. pick up artists do not understand human behavioral patterns | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching Women in SFhow exactly are they flaking if they never agreed to do anything with you in the first place? | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | For the guys who don’t want to cold approachfor some reason, l cant picture u being smooth | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | For the guys who don’t want to cold approachwho;s we? u the only one flirting. she was probably scared | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Went out to try a cold approachl call cap on ur 80% | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 03:02 AM |
| 2 | What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years?alot of the current ideas being spread is based on the goal of population control, and therefore limits people from getting together, however, there is a population crisis, and as much as the current oligarks do not care to share resources, they're at the brink of having no other choice, and it;s only a matter of time til they have to reverse course, and start promoting reproduction again. they will therefore have to give the green light to influencers who are procreation, and change education p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 03:29 PM |
| – | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manguys who cold aproach usually have no social skill which is why theyre out there blindly panhandling. men with social skills get invited by peers to parties, bbq, and picnics, so don;t need to circle around malls cold aproaching strangers. the only guys who cold aproach have been shunned by their peers, and it;s usually cause they have bad personalities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 02:34 AM |
| – | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manhe calls cold approach talking directly to females, but you can talk to a coworker, neighbor, or classmate directly, but that;s alot difrent from stopping someone who is out for a jog, and saying "l saw you from over there, and thought you were cute", which is what the pua are doing. that;s what people haven';t liked 50yrs ago, and they don;t like it now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by anotherl wouldn't say it can definitely be done. that sounds as unrealistic as "you can get any girl you want". l;d say the vast majority of men will just go through their entire life with a bad personality if that's what they had growing up. some guys are able to change, but most do not. most people;s personalities are set by the time they hit puberty | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 02:10 AM |
| 4 | The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by anotherlt;s really not that we depend on our parents to create networks for us. that definitely helps, but it;s more the behavioral patterns that we learn from them that influence the way we act in front of our peers. lf you have healthy, or likable behavioral habits, then creating social circles is easy. lf our parents gave us unhealthy, or unlikable behaviorial habits, it gets us isolated, and shunned by our peers. changing that is like swimming up stream and is too much work for most people, so they… | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 01:50 AM |
| 2 | The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by anotherwell, if what u say is true, then there;d be no pick up artists left, and no one would be cold approaching cause everyone has a bunch of female friends who will put them on | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 01:45 AM |
| 13 | The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by anotherlt;s hard, depending on how you were brought up. lf you were born into a family with a decent social circle, then chances are you are going to have alot of the habits of your parents, and that then leads to decent social circles. lf you were born into a bad family, one that was isolated, and didn;t really know how to socialize then, you probably will follow suit, and even if you tried to work against that as an adult, it;s relatively difficult | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 03:10 PM |
| 6 | The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by anotherl;ve met a few couples who met through snap, and ig, but none through cold aproach | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.l will believe it when l see it papito. u down to do a 3 way call? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.what does it say about your "friend group" (if it even exists) and your ability, if you still have to cold approach? here;s what l can see. if your friend group is even real, none of them are introducing you to females, forcing you to cold approach. and if you;re not delusional, let;s do a 3 way call right now with anyone you cold approached | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.that;s how low value men are filtered out, and why you;re not a part of any social circle. because people generally date, and socialize with people from within their social circle, lt;s a natural selection if you will. they've filtered out all the wierdos, misfits, and outcasts that way. the low value guys are unable to keep up. they lack the mental health to be able to have any kind of proven social track record. lf you ask me, l think it;s a great way to filter out the wierdos. pick up artists… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.low value men just circle around shops like a shark. also hanging out at malls with your friend is alot difrent than going up to random females saying "l saw you from over there, and thought u were cute", hoping to get a date out of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.you;ve put in the work, but are still dateless. aren';t u a walking advertisement against cold approach? that;s what l noticed about guys who swear up and down by cold approach is that they usually have nothing to show for it l knew another guy who sounded similar to you, and l never once seen him with a female, and by his own admision, he only had sex with 1 female, and she was a prostitute, and at the time he was already 25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.l didn't see u deny it though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.not really. the only guys l know who cold approach are low value guys. men who date never cold approach. men who cold approach never date. maybe the reason why you yourself is on the "manosphere" so much is because you don't get any females, and probably never have. lt would make no sense for a real man to be debating on the manosphere if he actually attracted any females at all u don;t have to worry about meeting through social circles cause you got none u sound like u got a pretty big mouth. s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.lol beneath u. bro. u cold approach man. that;s practically panhandling. never heard of u, or rolo. don;t think i;d be any better off if l did either. lf u were actually dating anyone, maybe u wouldn;t be writing on the "manosphere" instead, dreaming about what it;s actually like to attract females | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 09:31 AM |
| – | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.that;s correct, and also may l ask if you;re mentally ill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.lf l wanted to give you false bs, l would tell you that females love it when random lonley guys go up to them, and try to pull conversations out of thin air | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.sounds to me like not only have u never dated anyone, but now u sound u got abused as a child, and bullied in school look at the types of low value dudes who are cold approaching. men who are willing at any given time debate random guys off redit. u ever notice how guys who cold aproach seem to have all the time in the world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.dude ready to debate a random rediter at any given moment. yep, definitely someone who never dates lol set up a debate. notice how you didn;t offer to come on cam with any females that actually like u. notice u didnt offer a 3 way call with any female that is even remotely interested in you. the only way you can embaras me is by showing up with a circle of females who have something nice to say about u, which by the way will never happen. but hey, if you are not embarased at getting turned down … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.l witnessed alot more and also never seen anyone reciprocate the interest shown by the pick up artist. lt;s always like no thanks, like when someone tries to sell you something you don;t want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.l call cap. u sound like an incel. anyone who gets dates won;t have that level of discontent with females. men who don;t get dates, however..... would react exactly the way you do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.cold aproach is. "l saw you from over there, and had to come meet u" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.lt;s obviously never hapened to u, that;s why u gotta be out there cold aproaching. l;m going to put $100 on you living your entire life, going to school, parties, etc, and no one who met you through those chanels ever felt like they knew you forever, even felt a connection to you, or even wanted to reach out to you ever again, which is why you had to resort to cold aproach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.thats why all pick up artists are permanently single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.a female really has no reason to be attracted to a random guy on the street. a pick up artist to her is just another bum off the street. lnstead of begging for change, he;s begging for dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.l think op is straight up making up stories and delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.thats why guys don;t cold aproach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.so do most pick up artists. all guys who cold aproach r terrible at reading people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.75% of young females aren;t even single. so the odds are against u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.anymore? when did females ever want to be cold approached. l;ve never seen it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.well, first of all, you;d have to be pretty desperate to cold approach right. essentially cold approach is for guys with no social circle whatsoever. so you have to think, how did you get to a point where you had no social circle. your personality must be so foul that no one wanted to mess with you. so essentially, the guy who cold approaches is one who is/was alienated by all his classmates, coworkers, neighbors, and maybe even relatives. so if you;re someone who alienates everyone in your life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.we;re more similar than not. most people don;t like being cold approached, which is why pick up artists never actually get anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.most pick up artists r literally delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.l;ve never heard of any confident men cold approaching. all the guys l ever met who do cold approach are outcasts, misfits, and loners who were/are never included in any social circles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.l call cap. lf he can prove that any females even returned his calls, let alone dated him, l;ll give him $20 straight up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:45 AM |
| 6 | Cold approaching is the answer to every man's problems when it comes to dating but most men don't want to put in the work it takes to get to the point of being able to do it.lf cold approach is the answer, there;d be no incels, pua;s, or losers left. lf it worked, then everyone'd be doing it. the reason why so few people do it is cause it;s a waste of time. almost all guys who cold approach never date, and almost all guys who date never cold approach. see the pattern? l;ll even take this one step further. all the guys who cold approach are not only never dating, but never get invited to parties, bbqs, picnics, or pretty much anything. they;re usually excluded from a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manyou know whats funny is awkward guys cold approach females, they get a phone number, and consider that a success, even though he never got a response. meanwhile, they ignore the fact that the female gave him the number just to get rid of him men who date never cold approach. men who cold approach never date. that;s the pattern | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manwhat;s most odd to me is that men who advocate for cold approach usually never date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 02:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manl disagree. throughout most of human history, our wives were chosen for us by our parents. so most of our ancestors were just having sex with whoever their parents paired them up with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 02:02 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manor 0% which is what l saw, and believe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manthere;s no such thing as a successful pua | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manl know a bunch of pick up artists, and l never heard any of them get even a call back, let alone a date or hook up. they told me that they get lots of numbers, but no one responds. and they;re not doing 1 or 2 approaches. they;re doing thousands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:48 AM |
| 2 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average mancold approach isn;t like tinder because on tinder everyone signed up to be there. when females are walking down the street, they never signed up to be cold approach by some pick up artist wierdo, just like when you are walking down the street, you never signed up for a bum asking you for money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average mannot really, even 100yrs ago, it was quite common for couples to be arranged into a marriage in their teens, and once you got married, you were;nt messing around outside of marriage. lf u go back 1000yrs ago, it woulda been even more strict. the further back you go, the more conservative they woulda been, and no one really messed around before marriage, not that there woulda been that much time between puberty and marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manmost pua know deep down that cold approach is extremely unpopular, this is why they usually will go to locations far away from where they live, where no one knows them, so that they don;t receive any backlash for cold approaching | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:41 AM |
| 0 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manonce u heard one pua, u heard them all. that;s why most pua are permanent virgins. what;s there to like about pick up artists or cold approach? 99% of pua were unpopular all throughout school, and there;s a reason for that. they;re unlikable people, so it doesn;t matter what aproach they take, whether it;s cold, or warm, it's going to lead to failure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:05 AM |
| 8 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manhow many genxers do u know who met their spouse from cold approach. l know 0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:34 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average maneveryone knows real life couples. ask them how they met? through friends, at school, at work, playing video games, getting high, snapchat, ig, hinge. never once have l heard of any couples who met through cold approach. nor have l ever heard of ladies saying l like it when random men come up to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:31 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manlf they wanted to be approached, then there;d be no pua left | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:30 PM |
| 4 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average mancold approaching people to develop social skills is like learning how to swim in a bath tub. lt;s just ridiculous. what would u get from awkward responses? nobody;s gonna say, he bro, you cold approached me, welcome to my social circle now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manlf such a place exists, then you would hear of, or know of wives who said, l met my husband cause he cold approached me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manyou should. don;t mean the persons you;re talking to are going to like it, which still at the end of the day puts you back to where u started, being alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:26 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manwhether sexual or not, what reason does a female even have to even text a random guy she met off the street. what have you done (off the street) to make a female interested enough to keep texting you back. l know men who have done thousands of approaches and they all say that none of them respond. lf no females are responding, then meeting up is even more out of the question. sex is basically a fantasy for most, if not all guys who cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:25 PM |
| 6 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manl mean you could literally walk into the offices of google, microsoft, the pentagon, or boeing, begging for a job with the reason of they might say yes, but is that really a good idea? and also any pua will know that just cause a female says yes to you doesn't mean she will actually ever contact you again. ln fact, the vast majority of females will actually say yes just so she can get away from u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manhere;s a few reasons not to. 1) observe other men who are doing it, and look at their results. 99% of them get nothing. lf it worked, everyone;d be doing it. you may even observe pua social media stories, are they ever invited to parties? females houses? are females ever at their houses? do you ever see females around them? lf the answer is no, then why would you want to follow the actions of losers or men who are not respected in the community? observe the social circles of the pua, and see how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?there are several reasons for this. 1) lt doesn't get many results. most of the guys who cold approach simply do not get anything out of it. either they tried it themself, or saw someone who did, and it didn;t lead to anything 2) lt lowers your self esteem. by getting rejected, you feel like you have no self worth 3) lt gets you a bad reputation 4) people don;t like the unknown. that is why most people date people they;ve known for a while 5) most men don;t like talking to strangers. therefore, … | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | need someone to explain me why it happens (regarding cold approach)l think what u meant to say was, from your experience, you texted her once and got blocked | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?and u replying to each and every one. good boy! lt;s what l expect a guy with no gf to do. haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?bro u been empty handed man. stop the cap. u don;t get how people work, that;s why u think cold approach is a good idea. l ain;t never heard of no attractive dudes cold approaching. lt's always the bottom of the barel who are doing it. l'd love to see even an avg looking female respond to u, let alone a hotter one. l give u $20 if anyone even responds to u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?on the one hand, u got a wild imagination about having gf's, but on the other hand, you lack creativity, repeating back to me what l already told u. at least u letting it sink into your head. good boy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Getting whatsapp or Instagram after a successful cold approach?better talk to ur doctor about increasing your meds | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | I Almost Went Home After 7 Rejections - Then I Met Herthey got the magical solution. all u gotta do is pay them $4444 | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Getting whatsapp or Instagram after a successful cold approach?l;ll give u $20 if a female ever even calls u back. gf aint never hapening, not in this life time | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Getting whatsapp or Instagram after a successful cold approach?if u ask for whatsapp, she;s giving you her number which requires some level of trust. when she turns u down for the number, then if u ask for an instagram, it doesn;t show any self respect on ur part if she has already comunicated that she don;t trust u. on the other hand, asking for an instagram will expose that you have very little going on in your life, ie, no interesting pictures (no pictures of you at bbqs, parties, celebrations), and low follower count (small, or non existant social circl… | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?lt doesn;t make sense, and that;s why ur single. a man who cold approaches likely has been turned down by each and everyone of his peers, and that;s why he;s on the street panhandling for dates. think about it. ln order for a man to cold approach, no one would;ve liked him. not his neighbors, coworkers, classmates, cashiers, waitresses. nobody. because he;s a pariah, he has to take time out seperately to approach a female for the sole reason of asking her out. basically it;s bottom of the barel … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 11:46 AM |
| -2 | Early 30s looking for advice on cold approach as a beginner.they probably led to nothing (ie, they discovered he had nothing of value to offer) which is why he;s on here asking us, random folks on the internet for advice. my assumption is that he never even got a call back, let alone a date. you think it;s an accident how vague he was about what happened with those 15 cold approaches? my assumption is that he purposely left out key information because things turned out less than ideal for him, but he really has no one to blame but himself. lt really isn'… | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?l think the better question should be, why would anyone like a random guy that they just met off the street. l mean what reason would there be? only an autistic, and delusional guy would think that if he goes up to a random attractive female on the street that she is going to be attracted to him. let;s face it here, no one was attracted to said pick up artist in his day to day life, yet by some miracle, if he goes up to a random ATTRACTIVE female on the street, she;s going to be attracted to him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?how many socially aware people are cold approaching though? cold approach is precisely trying to ask someone out who has never even acknowledged your existance, much like those guys on the street asking for donations, or even those guys in the mall who ask you if you need your shoes cleaned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?a man who asks out a random stranger on the street is just straight desprate, and shows that he has no choices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?most of the couples l know met through social circles, and this is across the span of several generations. lt was that back in the 80s, and it is still the case with teenagers l know. one thing is for sure, no one is dating random guys off the street | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?well l mean, women must be doing something right, cause it sounds like they;re turning him down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Do women prefer meeting men through dating apps, mutual friends or being cold approached?that;s why it;s hard for him to make friends as he said. it;s not his age, or hobbies, it;s his personality. throw someone into a community with no hobbies, as long as he has a good personality, he;s golden. throw someone with a bad personality into a full time job, and a dozen hobbies and he still gonna walk away a loner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 03:12 PM |
| 0 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.men complain about lonliness for several reasons. 1) western society is not set up to facilitate dating. some countries have alot of matchmakers, and a matchmaking culture. some countries even have parks where people can go to meet their mates. either the person can go themselves, or their parents can go on their behalf, and they would walk around with a sign advertizing themselves with their age, job, etc. some cultures like seeing people together. western countries do not have this. some peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 12:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.not really. people still have interests like they did 30yrs ago. there;s still alot of people who go to bars, and clubs. lf you go to parks, there are still groups of people sitting on the grass socializing with people they already know. you go to things like the county fair and still, you see plenty of people socializing with people from their social circles. what has changed is mental illness. because the post boomer generation is having kids later, what you;re seeing is more kids born with me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.well l;m sure that there have been people who jumped into the ocean to grab fish and caught some, but that still doesn;t mean that is an effective, or traditional way of catching fish l would hardly call going up to stranger in a pub old fashioned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.introductions is like, you know my brother, so therefore, l;m cool with you. most of the zoomer l know met in school that;s the most common way, but they;re not circling around the cafeteria going from table to table saying you;re cute. lt's usually people they've already known for years. l know a zoomer who said that he meets people mainly through his college alumni. l also know people who met through fraternities, sororities. there are millions of ways to do it. cold approach is not really one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.youre expecting a dude to keep in touch with you based on you stopping them in the middle of the street, and "l like your outfit"? that doesnt sound realistic, nor have l ever heard of that hapening. cold approaching is easy, getting something to come out of it is hard, and probably non-existant. way easier to say l like your sense of style to someone already in your theatre group than walking into a mall specifically to say that to someone and hoping they will keep in touch with you maybe the l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.depends on who you are. how you meet people depends heavily on your own lifestyle and preferences. so if you are religious, then obviously youre going to meet people through church, mosque, etc. lf you an athlete then obviously you going to meet people through your team mates. what l found is that the more specific the better. so from the college perspective, you going to meet people through frats, dorms, sports teams, theatre groups. lt;s not going to be simply by walking around campus (which i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.you can use your environment or situation, don;t mean will necesarily want to respond on your light hearted jokes. l;ve observed lots of pick up artists at work, and they never get an ethusiastic response, and they;re response is almost always like what you would get if someone was panhandling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 02:20 AM |
| 7 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.old fashioned has always been meeting through introductions and dating someone you;ve known for a long time. cold approach has only become a thing in recent decades because society has fallen apart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 02:18 AM |
| 3 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.none of my ancestors ever met that way, and it was always through introductions, or they had known each other for months, if not years. even zoomers l know meet that way. lt;s never actually through circling around the mall looking for cute strangers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 02:08 AM |
| 2 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.cold approach isnt just having conversation. lf you;re at a store buying something and asking the cashier how she is, that;s just having conversation. when u go out there specifically looking to talk to people, ie, circling around the park cold approaching females. that;s not just conversation. and it;s really not about the skill level. lf you look at outgoing, and social people. they;re not walking up to random people talking to them. they talk when they have a reason to, ie talking to the nurs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 02:06 AM |
| 5 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.finding you attractive, and dating you are 2 difrent things. most people will not meet up with someone just cause they;re attractive. lt's usually other virtues that take a longer period of time to show which is why cold approach doesnt work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 02:01 AM |
| 11 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.l don;t get how going up to random strangers to try to pull a conversation out of thin air is supposed to be fun going skydiving; playing volleyball; disneyland is fun. trying to convince a random stranger off the street to date you in 5 minutes or less. that;s not fun. lf that;s fun, then u might as well become a hari krishna | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 01:59 AM |
| 10 | CMV: If done correctly, there's nothing wrong with cold approaching.there;s no right way to cold approach. what is a person supposed to say to someone they don;t know? people don;t like the unknown. they like what;s familiar. that;s why most people date those who they;ve known a while. lf cold approach worked, everyone'd be doing it, but if you look at men who actually date, none of them cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching: Do You Stop After Getting a Girl's Number and Setting a Date, or Keep Approaching Other Women?oh he knows all about getting blocked | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 04:42 PM |
| 2 | opener for every situation to talk to women, spelled outnot u. l;m talking about op. that;s why if u look at the way he frames his posts, it looks like some pyramid scheme, or get rich quick. most of the guys who post like that are trying to get something. same thing with guys who post tiktok videos using hidden cameras doing cold approach. op probably gets no females either, but his target audience l;m certain are lonley men looking for a solution | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 04:31 PM |
| 3 | opener for every situation to talk to women, spelled outbros trying to con lonley, desprate men into paying him for dating advice, not actually trying to get females | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all?yea but if you want to set yourself up for rejection, why not just beg for change? people are much more willing to give pua change than date pua. at least u can use that money to buy food where begging for dates will probably yield no results other than alienation, and stigma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Tried a few cold approaches at a beach but no successhe probably just saw a hot female with no signs of of even acknowledgement, let alone interest, and tried to ask her out | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching men?lt;s way easier to approach a gay guy | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching men?as long as you said no homo after ur cold approach, u should be good to go | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Back to College: Grad student on campus. To cold approach or not to?depending on your interests, there;s lots of better places. lf youre a sports fan then at a football game | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Back to College: Grad student on campus. To cold approach or not to?l;m not saying it can;t work or that no old guy has been able to seduce a college student. l;m just saying that the tiktokers l've seen have never scored. they were full time pua, so didnt go to college, and were/are already past that age. but you have to think though. lf age wasnt a big deal then they wouldnt have to lie about their age, but l;ve never heard the tiktok pua tell the truth when asked about their age. lt must be that many students (not all) consider age to be a big deal. my observ… | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 02:26 PM |
| 4 | Back to College: Grad student on campus. To cold approach or not to?there;s a bunch of guys on tiktok who do this. erick ronaldo, itspolokid, izzy, and ayokiss to name a few. they never really stick around campus for too long because they don;t want anyone to call the cops. l think a few of them had the cops called on them, and got trespassesd. l;ve never seen anything (ie calls back) come out of the cold approaches these guys did on campus. l also witnessed a pick up artist at college do a cold approach. he looked to be about 29, but had a backpack on to pose a… | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all?l called you out on a contradiction. ls there a way to be wierd, or unwierd about it. u said that cold approach is how people meet. then you said everyone you know met through mutuals l;m sure lots of people meet through cold approach, but if nothing comes out of it, then it;s an ineffective method. that;s what l;m saying also l don;t think cold approaching would make society better at all. ln fact, the best days were when people just knew each other in small communities. people are tribal creat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all?well here;s the thing, people who sign up for dating apps are looking for some kind of interaction. a person exercising in a park is not. unfortunately, pick up artists are unable to make this distinction, and it;s one of the many reasons why they;re loners. arent you being incredibly naive by thinking that walking up to a random stranger in a cafe, and being respectful is all that;s required to score a date? aren;t pua being naive when they think that just because they ask a random stranger for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all?who;s bitter? u sound like ur getting triggered because l noticed the contradictions u were making. why would l want to improve my game? lf what just being myself works perfectly fine. lf cold approach worked, everyone;d be doing it. there;s a reason why the vast majority of men dont do it also why you never heard of a couple who met that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all?you;ve met plenty of people through cold approach, but you know no couples who met that way. what does that tell u about the effectiveness of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all?thats how people meet implies that cold approach (going up to random strangers in parks) is how people meet. you do realize what a cold approach is right? awkward guy going up to random stranger in a mall, saying "l saw you from over there, and had to come meet you" meeting someone through mutuals is the exact opposite of a cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all?really what pick up artists are trying to do is condense what is normally months worth of social interaction into 5 minutes which is unatural and never happens. that might happen on omegle, but usually those people you will never talk to again, so youre back to the traditional way of either meeting someone through introductions, or dating someone who u knew for a long time guys who entertain the idea of cold approach are looking for short cuts, like guys who can rub some cream on their bald head… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all?when was the last time u ever met a couple who met in a cafe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all?that;s just what came to my mind when l thought of cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 02:13 PM |
| 0 | Women , are you ok being cold approached in public at all?ask yourself this. lf cold approach worked, wouldnt everyone be doing it? then ask yourself this. have you ever heard of a couple who met through cold approach? are you ok with being a approached by a charity asking you to donate money? would you ever befreind a guy from a charity just cause you gave him some change? do you see yourself calling up the guy from the charity to talk about life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 01:55 PM |
| -6 | First ever cold approachwow if thats considered a win then l;m a 3 time world champion. now let me get this straight here, if getting a number, with no response, and no date is considered a win; AND getting a response, a date, invited to her crib, and meeting her family is also considered a win, then is there really a point distinguishing between wins and losses? maybe thats the problem with the pick up community is their inability to distinguish between attraction, and politeness | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I cold approached a girl and today i got rejectedlets go have some fun. lma pick u up in my van | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good idea for how to respond to rejection?u aint gotta make up stories | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good idea for how to respond to rejection?firstly, females dont normally approach men, secondly, theyre even less likely to approach pua. therefore, since most pua have no social circles, this is even less likely to happen because people generally ask out those from within their social circle. therefore, pua will never turn females down, only the other way around. l dont know if men want sex all the time, but certainly desprate ones do because they get it so seldomly | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching in the South Bay?youre not going to get alot of people of nyc levels in sf unless theres an event. delores park has huge amounts of people but its mostly gei guys there. l dont know any straight parks with that volume of people. l dont think theres any busy parts of mountain view. downtown palo alto can get pretty busy, but it;s a short stretch. u can only walk back and forth so many times | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching in the South Bay?lsnt there tons of females in santana row? sjsu sporting events, santa cruz boardwalk | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet many women to cold approach?sports games like nfl, nba, mlb, parades (ie st patys coming up), comicon, santacon, airports, ski resorts, or concerts. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 04:23 AM |
| – | Men not approaching women anymore is a good thingl see it more now than the 90s, when people met through introductions. these days, men pop up out of nowhere and say "l saw you from over there and thought you were cute". then they proceed to ask for a number even though no interest had been shown. most are denied the number, but for those who get numbers, they get blocked, or are simply unanswered. l expect more men to do cold approach as mental illness continues to rise, as men who are shunned by their peers (for acting wierd) continue to see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:52 AM |
| – | Men not approaching women anymore is a good thingwhen was cold approaching ever acceptable? l think it was always seen as harasment, and people always viewed cold approach with suspicion. lf anything, l think people are doing it more now than 50yrs ago because people these days just mind their own business. lf you were known for cold approaching 50yrs ago, the whole community and your peers would turn against you, and back then, most people knew each other. with that said, since people no longer know each other like they normally do, l think l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Trying to get back into dating, is cold approaching still relevant or is their a better way?thats almost the same reaction when ur begging for money | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 01:16 PM |
| 1 | second time cold approaching, alt girl in live music baru want to do a 3 way call? | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 02:02 AM |
| 1 | second time cold approaching, alt girl in live music bargood luck on the date | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 01:43 AM |
| 5 | second time cold approaching, alt girl in live music barthings arent going well til she actually shows up. lf l had $1 for each time a pic up artist "set up a date" and no one showed up, i'd be a bilionare by now | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good idea for how to respond to rejection?u going to be waiting a long time for that to happen | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 01:22 PM |
| 1 | I have trauma from cold approaching, have a hard time getting back to ithow do u rate him from a 1-10 | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Seriously, where do people meet?l'm not saying you should step forward and say l make $10k a year after taxes, but l think that even if someone says, l don't make a lot of money (thats showing that at least youre addressing the question, and not avoiding it completely), it's better than saying, oh l live in a city of 500,000 people, and those dating groups in austin have no men. even when someone says they make 10k a year, l respect that theyre being honest about that. or even if l despise rich people, l would still respect a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, where do people meet?l dont think its where hes located thats the problem. lts the way he carries himself. people pick up on little things that make people unpopular. sometimes it;s not even anything bad, like low self esteem. you see, you asked him a direct question, and he completely ignored that, and talked about some other nonsense. as per my own experience, l've found that people like that are usually not worth talking to, and who knows maybe others may feel the same way. while he thinks it may not be important… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, where do people meet?lf u a parent, and u picking up your kids. thats also an exelent way to meet people, and create a social circle that way, by talking to other parents who are picking up their kids. again, it wouldnt matter if you were new in the city. what matters is that youre a decent human being with something valuable to offer. lf you arent a decent human being with anything valuable to offer then you can live in the same place for 30yrs, and still have no social circle. case and point, the colombian guy l w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, where do people meet?people can meet each other anywhere, but generally speaking, people keep in touch with people they see on a regular basis. problem with meeting people at malls is you dont see them regularly, and even if you have a good conversation, or there is some level of attraction, it doesnt lead anywhere. so there is no universal place where people meet. if youre a scientist, then youre going to see people at the labs alot. if youre a mailman, youre going to see people on your route regularly. lf youre li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What's your WORST cold approaching experience?forget about a date, youre lucky if you get a call back | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 02:27 AM |
| 0 | What's your WORST cold approaching experience?lts more fun to do it to men anyway | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valuemen who cold approach are the bottom of the barel man. like that orange at the super market that no one wants to buy. men who believe that females are attracted to men who cold approach are delusional | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 03:53 AM |
| 0 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valuecome on bro. theres no need to make up stories to gain validation. lf anything it just makes u look like a try hard. lt's odd how you can consider yourself high value when all u do is get rejected, and blocked. females are just responding to u out of politeness. lt's never attraction. dont kid yourself | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 04:31 PM |
| 0 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueyou hear plenty of stories of men who met their girlfriends/wives at a bar, coffee shop, some event, etc. It happens, dude, unfortunately, just not to you. Accept THAT. lf anything, if you want an argument on why cold approach doesnt work, just look at your own life you cant force a female to like you. accept THAT | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 04:26 PM |
| 0 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valuecouldnt you say that if it was viable for men to walk around parking lots asking for dates, everyone would be doing it? but the vast majority of men dont do it. one pattern you will notice is, men who date regularly dont cold approach. men who cold approach dont date at all | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valuewhats really nonsensical are guys who cold approach, get no results, yet insists it works lf you look at the vast majority of married couples, they dont meet through cold approach. ln fact, l go through the list of married couples l know and 0 of them met that way | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 04:16 PM |
| 0 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueyet even with all these discusions with females, you have to keep going out there and panhandling. either they feeding you some bunk info, or something must be going wrong. lf a guy has it all figured out, he'd probably be dating instead of out there begging for dates? | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valuewell l've yet to see any female say, wow, l'm really attracted to that one guy, you know luca, the guy who goes around malls trying to ask out random females. now saying, wow l'm really attracted to brendan, that guy who works as a lifeguard down at the beach. yea l've heard that, but definitely not the pua | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 04:07 PM |
| -1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueadvertisement is not walking into a parking lot asking if they need work done on their car which is what cold approach is. a good mechanic however, will have customers finding him, instead of him finding customers. which is why guys with no value will walk around parking lots trying to ask out random females? kind of like how a mechanic who isnt in high demand will also do something similar | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valuelets be real though, most guys who cold approach is gonna approach out of thin air. shes walking in a mall, park, or college campus. he pops up, says l saw you from over there and thought u were cute. she says, lm not interested. guy congradulates himself. repeat and rinse until he becomes an incel. and how would u know what females want? lf u knew what they want, u wouldnt be cold approaching. cold approach isnt seduction, it's just panhandling | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:54 PM |
| 0 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valuel mean l see guys trying to create logic to justify approaching females, but the results speak for themselves though. you see these guys trying to talk to females like salesmen, coercing them into getting a number, and then get no response. then they congradulate themselves for that. meanwhile, everyone else is saying, what was the point of that. cause you back to exactly where u started cold approach is not meeting someone and getting to know each other, it's you approaching someone who didnt w… | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueguys who say that. adventure, fun, good sex, my uniqueness, usually have no connections? social circle? parties? good family? good job? nice house? so if l'm a female and presented with a guy with connections? social circle? parties? good family? good job? nice house? AND adventure, fun, good sex, my uniqueness. why would l choose the guy without connections? social circle? parties? good family? good job? nice house? | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:20 PM |
| 1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueyea but if u walk into a coffee shop, asking coffee drinkers if you can buy their tv, then where does that put you? cause that's what most pick up artists are doing isnt it? also when youre buying a tv, you have money to offer, but what does a pick up artist have? connections? social circle? parties? good family? good job? nice house? the things that females have traditionally valued. usually not | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:01 PM |
| 0 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueshe can talk to you, and alot of females do, talk to men who cold approach, some even give their numbers out, but whether or not she responds to you, or ever talks to you again is a whole other story and cold approach does show low value. lt's like those guys who pull up to you in a parking lot and say, hey you have some damage on your car, do you want to get that fixed, l can fix it for you. that's basically the same thing. realistically, if you were a good mechanic, you wouldnt be in a parking… | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Confused with poor results in OLD. Relatively good results in personl call cap. lf cold approached you got relatively good results, or any results at all, you wouldnt have had to do old. lt simply makes no sense for a person to try a method that is uncertain if they have already found one that works. lf cold approached worked, you'd be out there dating females instead of on here complaining about old. even if u were dating just 1 person a week, you'd be focused on her instead of why old doesnt work | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 02:29 PM |
| -2 | Is swiping and lack of results on apps bad for your irl game and cold approach?l doubt you are doing much better on the streets though which is why you conveniently didn't mention any of your street experiences | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 03:32 AM |
| 3 | I finally did it !lm sure this will lead somewhere. haha | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I’m not having fun talking to girlstalking to strangers is not fun. lf you think about the vast majority of your friendships. how many of them came from cold approach? lt usually starts with a hi, then you see them a few more times, and you talk about other stuff. you dont instantly become friends. same thing with females. lf you ask couples how they ended up dating, the vast majority of them had known each other, or had some kind of mutual friendship. lts never from cold approach. lf youre not having fun as the man who initiated… | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Asked out a woman at the bookstore *Cold Approach*if thats a win, then i guess we're all champions. lt's odd how u talk about confidence, yet are so insecure when challenged. theres a reason why u single | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 03:27 PM |
| -1 | Asked out a woman at the bookstore *Cold Approach*lol u on here celebrating getting turned down by a female. shows the kind of caliber individual u r. its always the bottom of the barel doing cold approach | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 05:07 AM |
| -1 | Asked out a woman at the bookstore *Cold Approach*yep u definitely never going to score | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 03:14 AM |
| 0 | Asked out a woman at the bookstore *Cold Approach*u an inspirate on what NOT to do. if u had social skills, u wouldnt have to cold approach | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 02:34 AM |
| 0 | Asked out a woman at the bookstore *Cold Approach*1) well she was nice to you cause she worked there 2) you got turned down. so whys that story an inspiration? | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Campus cold approachhey I’m bored what’s ur name, wanna just talk. wow thats smooth. theres no way u did that naturally | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Too old for cold approach?when ur 12, its cute, when ur 48, people start talking | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Too old for cold approach?notice u said approached, not dated | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Too old for cold approach?lol older bro. u mean older uncle | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 03:43 PM |
| 7 | First proper cold approach with a 10lf a female is interested, she will leave her number. even if she leaves her number, that doesnt guarantee a response. so the fact that she didnt leave the number means nothing will come of it which is why he didnt give any updates because theres no update to give. l also dont think that getting a females name is anything to celebrate. if she gives you her number without you asking, then come back and celebrate | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 07:21 PM |
| -1 | First proper cold approach with a 10reminds me of that movie 40 yr old verjen | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | First proper cold approach with a 10well. the fact that he is getting hyped up over an interaction that didnt particularly lead to anything just goes to show that he probably hasn't had many interactions with females, let alone dates, and is probably a loner | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | He’s handsome, in shape, has a good job—but women don’t stick around.most likely, theres a personality problem | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Here’s what I learned about cold approaching in general.that wasnt a w. the result woulda been the same if u had never approached her. being on the clock isnt an excuse actually. lve had employees at hotels, and computer shops, give me their socials without me even asking. what we can gather from this whole thing is that you were unable to distinguish between friendliness and attraction. that ability will be far more important than doing 10000000 approaches | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Those practicing their cold approach game, do you ever have some really bad days to?or maybe the older u get, the more desprate u become | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Those practicing their cold approach game, do you ever have some really bad days to?im still waiting for a good day | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 03:49 AM |
| 1 | why everyone who claims to be slightly good in attracting women claims to be a coachproblem with alot of coaches is theyll tell u that if u dont vibe with a female, u should still try to pressure her into dating you. this is why you see so many guys keep talking even after a female shows no interest | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 05:32 AM |
| 1 | why everyone who claims to be slightly good in attracting women claims to be a coachits cause they trying to make money off you. youre low hanging fruit | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | why everyone who claims to be slightly good in attracting women claims to be a coachyea l think that if l knew how to seduce females, i'd spend my time hanging out with females l seduced instead of trying to teach men. alot of men have underlying problems, and theres actually too much work that you would have to do in order to coach them. like for example if someone is autistic, or depresed, you would have to solve those problems before you can coach them on how to chase females. lts like how u gonna coach someone in basketball when he has a broken arm | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 05:44 PM |
| 2 | why everyone who claims to be slightly good in attracting women claims to be a coachactually if u were really good at seducing females, then you can live off of females. in fact, lots of females live very comfortably seducing men. they get gifts, jewlery, vacations, etc. you see it all the time. | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 05:39 PM |
| 0 | why everyone who claims to be slightly good in attracting women claims to be a coachi seen this one asian coach. he was hilarious. autistic looking guy. he films his "student" walking over to a female like 50 meters away. looks to be the great lawn in central park. the "student" gets scared. then the coach walks over to the female. conveniently cuts the audio. it shows him laying down in the grass next to the female. all this is filmed from 50 meters away, so you cant see any of the body language, or much of anything. then after a few seconds, the audio cuts back in with the "c… | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | why everyone who claims to be slightly good in attracting women claims to be a coachthats why they call them grifters. hey, u might as well claiming you can help men grow back their hair | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | why everyone who claims to be slightly good in attracting women claims to be a coachif u were slightly good at attracting females, your time would be spent dating females, not coaching other men for money | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach then Instagram.. thoughts?u gotta be consistent | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach then Instagram.. thoughts?but you said no harm done, so why not keep going that same route | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Texting after cold approachsend a family portrait | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach then Instagram.. thoughts?got your eyes on anyone else on the bus? | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 03:31 AM |
| 0 | Did cold approach todayi would love to hear your response to this pick up artist being arrested https://www.tiktok.com/@happierabroad/video/7358137160949665066 | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach then Instagram.. thoughts?hey notice how op never said what hapend after he sent the message, most certainly because nothing hapend, and he probably got blocked | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach then Instagram.. thoughts?u can forgive yourself. im sure she wont though | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach then Instagram.. thoughts?what u gona say to her on ig? hey i said hi to you on the bus, then i found your name and looked it up on google. yea, im sure she gona be all over u man. she definitely saving u a seat on the bus next time | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Did cold approach todayhow did it work if nothing ever came out of any of these approaches? if you keep trying the same thing, and getting the same results. thats insanity | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach then Instagram.. thoughts?Thats not a cold approach. a cold approach is when u see someone on ur feed, and message them. what youre doing is stalking. | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?high value men dont cold approach. when was the last time u ever seen a high value man do a cold approach. high value men have social circles which is much more useful than cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?you know actually another thing that people dont talk about is, alot of females have ill intentions, and they get off on being able to push the buttons of men. lve seen females who will ask men to beat up other men over cold approaches. there are lots of men who are more than happy to do that to show how much of a man they are, especially in the night life scene | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?even if she simply went to security and said u were harasing her, they will always take the females word over yours. lve also seen pick up artists get kicked out of malls, and college campuses. as a matter of fact, if u doing cold approaches on college campuses. all that needs to happen is 1 female reports u to campus security for harasment, and u can get permanently banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?a streamer named carl ii actually got arrested for that, and it is on video. and it hapened in ny, a city of lawlessness, chaos, and tyrany, so for them to arrest him, it means they took it seriously. ny is a city where they barely even investigate murders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Changing the way we engage in cold approachbut notice how the good businesses, they dont have to advertize right? a good barber shop doesnt have to go up to people on the street asking if they need a haircut. likewise a high value man wont need to go up to a female on the street asking, "can i take u out on a date"? likewise a real man doesnt need to ask females where a kebab shop is in order to ask them out, just like a legitimate business doesnt need to lie, or make excuses to get people into their store. what kind of businesses need t… | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Changing the way we engage in cold approachyou are literally a scammer. look at your content, it's all these get rich quick schemes. why does it not surprise me that a guy doing cold approach is ALSO doing pyramid schemes, and get rich quick schemes? your entire aura is like a spam email. if you want to know whether something is worth doing or not, look at the men who are doing it. if scammers, and other undesirables are the ones doing cold approach, then that really calls into question the cold approach method. does anyone want to be lu… | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | 95% cold approach rate and here's my takesounds like you are a scammer. and theres a reason why u have to cold approach, it's cause the females in your everyday life don't like you. reason for that is personality problem. think about it man. a normal guy comes in contact with lots of females. at the gym, cashier, restraunts, clinics, stores, work, school, church, etc. if you were a likable person, someone would've expressed interest in you. the fact that no one expressed interest in you in those circumstances shows a personality proble… | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Changing the way we engage in cold approachwell. l mean couldnt l also say youre afraid to beg for money? why beg for money when you can get a real job? you beg for money because you dont have a job, or cant get one. there are ways in which you can yeild good results or bad results. its up to you to choose which. im sure i could make a living by begging but it's just not a respectable way of doing it | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Changing the way we engage in cold approachthats cause youre not a part of a community and a loner | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 06:13 AM |
| -1 | 95% cold approach rate and here's my takethe only ones who like cold approach are men | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | 95% cold approach rate and here's my takel think he tried to seduce them, albeit, it didnt work | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 07:26 PM |
| 0 | 95% cold approach rate and here's my takel think it means he got turned away by 95% of the females. the remaining 5%, well, they just called the cops | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 07:24 PM |
| 0 | 95% cold approach rate and here's my takeprobably meant he got turned down by 95% which sounds about right from what ive seen with other pua. the other 5% just ran and didnt even bother to turn him down | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 07:23 PM |
| 0 | 95% cold approach rate and here's my takehow were you friend zoned if they never hung out with you? correct me if im wrong but dont friends invite each other to their houses? when has anyone from cold approach invited you home? | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | 95% cold approach rate and here's my taketalking for 1hr usually means nothing. l know lots of pick up artists who talk for 1hr, and get no calls back. in all honesty, if u look at couples, the vast majority of them dont talk that much. when someone is attracted to you, not much has to be said | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached a girl at a public placealot of females will follow and unfollow. even if they follow, still dont mean she will want to meet up, or even talk to you again. its not a beginers thing, or being rusty. l know a guy whos been consistently cold approaching for years, and he gets no results. people just dont like being cold approached | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Changing the way we engage in cold approachheres another problem. most guys who do cold approach are isolated men in the first place. then they do cold approach, and that earns them a creep reputation, which isolates them even further. this is why alot of guys dont do it. before you know it, youre shunned by both men and females. while guys who are already isolated dont have much to lose in terms of popularity, it's definitely something to consider | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Changing the way we engage in cold approachpeople dont cold approach for 2 main reasons. 1) they tried it and it doesnt work from their own experience. 2) they saw other guys do it and get no results | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowfew of them smile, and fewer will have conversation with him, but none call him back. yea that neighborhood has alot of females. tourists, influencers, students, models, actors, etc. this neighborhood has alot of people moving in and out, and many people actually only live here for a few years to live the excitement, just to say i lived there, and then they move onto their little white picket fence suburban neighborhood after that. i usually only have 5 minute conversations with him when i see h… | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?and yea. it is alot harder to build a social circle which is why females let their guards down within the social circles because they feel you've already passed one hurdle, and you've been pre-screened. the idea is, if you are alfa enough to build a social circle, then youre a higher value guy than the guy who has no social circle. and well, people are always impressed by people who can do things that are hard to do. if anyone can do it, then it just wont be impressive. the main reason why pick … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:08 AM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowwhy would he, so l would feel sorry for him? everytime i talk to him, its out in public. and any time he sees an attractive female, he says youre beautiful. most of them ignore him. ive seen him talk to females for as long as 1hr, but according to him, they never call him back, and l believe it. aside from when he does cold approach, l never see any females talking to him, and l run into this guy alot because l work in the neighborhood he does his approaches in | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?it;s facts right there. most of the pick up artists do not read body language, so that also puts them at a disadvantage. they have this salesman like mentality, and it works great if youre trying to sell magazines, not so much if you want a female to designate her time to you. it's that very reason why so many females give their numbers out but don't ever call these guys back. putting a female on a pedestal without knowing anything about her automatically makes you low value. it's just sad to se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?U cant really blame them. people have been very selective since the begining of time. it's how they would ensure they could find the best mate. going back even further, you would even have to get the approval of their parents, so it was one obstacle on top of the social circle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.cold approach is a greate way to meet women, however, the women, will most likely not want to see you again after that meeting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:58 AM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowdowntown atlanta is beyond dead. if u approach 100, u have to wait for events, and those r usually not downtown | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 03:48 PM |
| 2 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrow100 is ok for big events like the super bowl, or even new years eve count down in ny. the approaches are doable. whether or not he will get results is a whole other story. i know a guy who did 30k approaches with no results. of course it doesnt help that hes mentally ill either | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach - How to stop running out of things to sayawkwardness. it;ll make it sound like u desprate. look at the guys who are popular with females. theyre not particularly talkative. theyll say a few things to indicate interest, and then just chill, whether the female is shy or not. when u talk when there is nothing to say, and u just keep babling, it makes u look bad, as in nerdy, geeky, dorky, however, you want to put it. of course if youre going for geeky females, then it's all good, but if u going for those alfa females, then being talkative… | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach - How to stop running out of things to sayif u try to force a conversation, it's going to have adverse effects | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 06:40 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?lm old enough to be their dad but no one questioned me. l could pass for an employee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 07:01 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?they usually assume l work there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Why Cold Approach Doesn't Work Properly?most of the men who got into cold approach, at first they feel like, wow, getting rejected sucks. let me try something else | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/24 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach - How to stop running out of things to sayif you run out of things to say, then stop talking. if a female likes you, you wont have to say much | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?if cold approach worked, everyone would be doing it. theres a reason why 99% of people dont do it. also, think of all the confident guys you know if your life, and ask yourself how many of them actually cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?just because a guy claims cold approach worked for him, doesnt mean it actually did. l know an avg looking guy who did 20k approaches and said he got no call backs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?it's probably even worse to cold approach abroad. many countries like india are very conservative, and do not do that to seek mates. for them, theyre more likely to do arranged marriages, and or introductions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?l disagree, there are certain body language a female will display if she is open to talk, or exchange information. the problem with most pua is that they dont look for signals and approach when uninvited. an even bigger problem is, guys who do cold approaches generally have underlying problems to begin with, so even if they are able to succeed with a cold approach, their underlying problems make them an unsuitable mate anyway. if you observe, animals and humans you will see some dogs will gravit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?if youre doing cold approaches, then it means that you are not getting girls through your every day life. that is, youre not able to attract females at work, school, church, etc. so right from the begining, it puts you at a disadvantage, because if you were able to get girls in your normal life, you wouldnt have to take time aside specifically to approach females. with that said, youre now a guy who doesnt attract females in your every day life, so why would females miraculously, and magically b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in Mallsyou can get thrown out of anywhere for any reason. they call this a free country but its anything but that. you can sit in a parking lot, not bothering anyone, and still someone can call the cops on you, and you will get harased. meanwhile, real criminals who are handing out cd's and demanding money go unchecked | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching in Mallsyou can walk up to a female in a mall, and say hi how are you. as long as she feels threatened by that, she can report you, and theres a high probability that security wont care about your side of the story, and can attempt to remove you | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in Mallsalot of smart pua tend not to do the same venue over and over again because they dont want to get noticed. if you keep going back to the same mall, then people will notice you, and that could get you banned. this is why alot of guys do parks instead because its alot harder to get kicked out of those | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in Mallsl saw some teenagers selling chocolate for their basketball team. one of the people they approached reported them to security, and they got kickd out | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in Mallsalot of people get kicked out of malls. there is a famous tiktoker who got kicked out on stream, and all he was doing was eating chinese food in the food court. malls are alot more strict than people think, and because we live under capitalism, private property trumps personal rights | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in Mallsteenagers are more likely to be removed than anyone else, because they act a fool, and stalking females probably falls under that category | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in Mallsi dont think theres anything wrong with it, but whats right with it? most females are not going to say, wow this guy asked for my number, so let me date him. theres nothing wrong with you walking up to a manager and say, hey im looking for a job, can you offer me a job, but that isnt the way things are typically done, and theres really nothing that prompts a person to say, let me offer this random guy a job. and even if he did have jobs, he will not offer it to you simply because of the way you … | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in Mallslve noticed guys in crowds that will do that, comment on a place or store. you can tell these guys make a habit out of this. despite this, they almost always sound forced, and u just see that guy walking around the whole venue doing that repeatedly, but no groups welcome him in. no ones going to say, yea, thats an interesting observation, why dont you join my group, and lets chill. it kind of reminds me of when a small animal loses his herd, and just approaches other herds trying to join them, a… | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in Mallslm wondering how someone who spends his days, and nights on redit will know about what happens in a mall, or anything outside ur moms basement | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:58 PM |
| 0 | Cold Approaching in Mallswell maybe u might try leaving your mothers basement every now and then, and find out | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Why Cold Approach Doesn't Work Properly?cold approach doesnt work because people are suspicious of other people by nature | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/24 05:16 AM |
| 0 | Cold Approaching in Mallsnot really, you can get bannd from malls for any reason. in fact, just standing there can be interpreted as loitering by the guards | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:15 AM |
| 0 | Cold Approaching in Mallsmalls can be extremely strict on people who are not there to buy something. malls are fashist along the lines of airports, and can throw you out for any reason they want | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching in Mallsactually you shouldnt ignore creepy wierdos, you should observe, and learn from their mistakes | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching in Mallsit;s true. all it takes is 1 female to report you to security and you get kicked out. if they see you around some more times, you get banned. you can also get kicked out of colleges too | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Cold approached for a few days. Need helpintroverts are people who feel pain when interacting with strangers. in that case, those people should just go through social circles. in fact, even extroverts, when given a choice will go for the social circles. doing cold approach not only gets you rejection, and embarasment, but it also ruins your reputation | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:10 AM |
| 1 | New to Cold Approaching.. I need advice on success with womenor just desprate | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | New to Cold Approaching.. I need advice on success with womenl know 10 guys who do cold approaches. none of them get anywhere. lts not you. people just dont like being cold approached, and even if they do, they dont know how to respond, so most people will just keep walking. lm pretty sure if you were approached by an avg looking female, you wouldnt know how to respond. in fact, thats one thing that l noticed about most pua, they can be good in their pitch, but whenever theyre approached, they act like a deer in head lights | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 05:26 AM |
| -2 | Cold approached for a few days. Need helpif ur an introvert, u shouldnt be cold approaching. thats like telling a tiger to be a vegetarian. cold approaches rarely work, even for extroverts. this is precisely why most people choose social circles | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach (Bay Area)what are some spots you had in mind? | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Why is cold approach so addictive?actually l know a bunch of guys who used to cold approach but stopped because they were either getting no results, or females were being aggressive towards them | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Moving to NYC in late 20sdepends on what u mean by experience, but l have seen guys from the outer boros try to sit down, and chat with the white folks from out of town who live in manhattan at central park, and they were turned away. lve also heard female models (the blond hair blue eye type) from other states (like pa) who live in ny tell me they dont talk to any males they dont know | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Moving to NYC in late 20sthere are waves that come through ny. often times, during the weekends in ny, even during the summer it's dead. one thing you;ll notice is that alot of nyers leave town for the weekend, and leave every chance they get. and actually if you look around most weekends during the summer, it's visitors from nj | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Moving to NYC in late 20sthere are waves that come through ny. often times, during the weekends in ny, even during the summer it's dead. one thing you;ll notice is that alot of nyers leave town for the weekend, and leave every chance they get. and actually if you look around most weekends during the summer, it's visitors from nj | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Moving to NYC in late 20selite people are much less likely to invite you into their circles though. you have to be keyed in somehow, and unless you have something to build off of, you're going to be side lined. i knew a female who paid $5000 a month to roomate with others so she could meet elites. thats how bad it is | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Moving to NYC in late 20sl dont think finding a wife is something that you randomly do by pulling up to a city where you know no one. finding a wife is very much about social networking, and you;ll always have an advantage where you know the most people. when you move to a new city, youre starting from 0, and as l said before, nyers are defensive. theyre not looking to make friends, or even say hi to anyone. so its hard for you to create a social network that would enable you to find a wife. on the other hand, you could… | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Moving to NYC in late 20sl agree with you. people move to ny to make money, not to find husbands. l really havent noticed a difrence between ny and any other city when it comes to meeting females. although ny does have more to choose from, the defensiveness of nyers will negate the advantages. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Moving to NYC in late 20sny looks great on paper, but the reality of it is, theres ALOT of lonley mofos there, and as i said before, it's very cliquey. you try sitting on the grass with someone in central park, and see how fast they dismiss you | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 04:41 PM |
| -1 | Moving to NYC in late 20show do u know its their loss? u dont know what this guy has to offer. problem with this mentality is, if you have nothing to offer, but think you do, youre going to keep running into a brick wall which is probably why you dont get many dates. know who you are, and have realistic expectations. stay in your lane. from a females perspective, i;m going to want a guy who knows where the parties are. lf l was an elite attractive female, l have my choice. l'm going to want a guy who is well connected, … | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Moving to NYC in late 20sim assuming the marraige material females woulda been taken early on, and wouldnt show up on dating apps. im no expert but it seems like a desirable female would just go from one guy straight into the next. probably have a guy lined up before the previous relationship even ended. it's kind of like the good houses dont get listed on mls because theyre sold privately without ever listing | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Moving to NYC in late 20si never knew ucla was elite. the elitists in ny usually wear usc shirts, heck even michigan before ucla | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Moving to NYC in late 20stheres a few problems here. you mentioned marriage material. you joined a gym looking fo this, but what makes you think females with money are marriage quality? alot of people with money have their priorities set on making money, thats why they have money. more often than not, relationships take a back seat for them. as for nyc, heres the thing. nyc has alot of hot females, and amongst them will be marriage material. however, heres the problem, ny has alot of crime, so people dont trust each oth… | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Weren't all the bullying that autistic guys went to cause and become assholes, which women would find attractive?normal females dont become attracted to bullies. bad females are attracted to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 01:40 PM |
| 0 | Don't lots of rejections hurt your self esteem?two things here. doing cold approaches can increase your confidence in delivering your approach. like a salesman can do his pitch well, but not necesarily be confident in other ways, or overall confidence. getting rejected, for most people, just makes peoples self esteem go down, because people dont like you, if they dont like you, why should you be confident? if you get rejected 10 times, youre going to assume that the 11th will also reject you. i know a pua who used to do cold approaches, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How to make girls stop in cold approachshe'll stop if she likes you. heck, if she likes you, she might even walk towards you if you are just standing or sitting. i remember walking into a gabes, and i see this real attractive young female there, probably the best looking female i'd seen in a week. and she walks right towards me after she saw me. as u can see, im not the most handsome man in the world, not to mention the age gap, but she was feeling me. | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Daygame Cold Approach Field Reportsanother day in the pua world | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 02:37 AM |
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