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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
69	Focusing on being "hot" (I mean, being attractive doing nothing). Is it possible? Is it worth the trouble?		Galvan123	/r/seduction	06/11/13 05:00 PM

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10	Focusing on being "hot" (I mean, being attractive doing nothing). Is it possible? Is it worth the trouble? You're like the spirit of a possible, future me that warns me to not fuck up, right? Thanks man.	/r/seduction	06/11/13 10:46 PM
1	Not sure how to listen correctly without being an emotional sponge Well, I was thinking on that too. I came into conclusion that there are times that empathy is counterproductive. Dont' get me wrong. Empathy is a must in social relationships. But there are some exceptions. If you want to level up the mood of a group, you need to not get into their mood and focus on a fun thing to do. This is similar. Don't live her story. Listen to what she says, think logically "Why is she feeling bad?" "What did she do behind her story?" "What will make her smile considering …	/r/seduction	06/11/13 07:53 PM
6	Focusing on being "hot" (I mean, being attractive doing nothing). Is it possible? Is it worth the trouble? You're right. Thanks a lot.	/r/seduction	06/11/13 07:22 PM
3	Focusing on being "hot" (I mean, being attractive doing nothing). Is it possible? Is it worth the trouble? Ok, I was talking about an inner deside. I don't mind being open, spontaneous and funny. However, there are points I like to make: 1) I like being a nerdy guy. I love videogames, science and technology and I don't mind that things being part of my identity (just on the outside, I'm sure they really arent). I just dislike the social anxiety, the hermit and the self abandonment part. Even if that means not being the "party hard" or "popular" personality. 2) Being the leader is nice and something o…	/r/seduction	06/11/13 06:23 PM
1	Focusing on being "hot" (I mean, being attractive doing nothing). Is it possible? Is it worth the trouble? Thanks for the answer. That's something worth to note and remember all the time. With "I want to be like them" I meant to attract girls by doing nothing more than attending to myself, not even having to talk to or look at her. Like my example of minding my own bussiness in the bus.	/r/seduction	06/11/13 05:54 PM
1	Hitting on too many girls at once. Lot's of rejections. A bit of embarrasment. ok, you won	/r/seduction	05/11/13 05:43 AM
0	BE HATED. I disagree, but I see where are you going. It's something deeper than being hated or praised. What are you talking about is to be important and valuable, regardless of the received approval. An important nice guy is a hero. An important *sshole is evil. So, don't try to be evil. In fact, try to be good. You're valuable, and so does people. Be good in an assertive way. Focus on what you value and become good at it. And don't forget social and leadership skills. Everything else will come on it's o…	/r/seduction	04/11/13 06:43 PM
1	Want to be confident? You already are. Never heard of it.	/r/seduction	20/09/13 02:36 AM
3	Want to be confident? You already are. The best "trick" to gain confidence is to get rid of all tricks. Confidence is a matter of skill against challenge. You can brag more or less, but clever people will see you as a bragger regardless you're good or not. To be confident on something (anything) you just need to become good at it. It applies to cooking, to warcraft and to socializing as well. And a good start to become good at something is to accept who you are with optimism. After all, being bad at something doesn't mean you're less…	/r/seduction	19/09/13 08:40 PM