Gantolandon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
86	Men and consent	double standards	Gantolandon	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/01/24 09:09 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Pick-Me It’s mostly a status symbol. Plenty of those beautifying procedures are simple things that the elites loved to show off that they’re not commoners. For example, long nails were a mark of elite in several cultures. They showed that you’re rich enough to not have to work with your hands (and have servants who take care about trivialities for you). Nowadays they’re a status symbol for another reason: having them costs a lot of money and time spent in a beauty salon. High heels also used to be a nob…	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/07/26 02:22 PM
7	Pick-Me Oh, that’s easy. If you ask any woman, the beauty industry was something that men imposed on women to make them look attractive to them. But what about the fact that many of those things women do to themselves are disliked by men? For example, nearly universally reviled lip fillers that make their mouths look as if they were just beaten up? What about those long talons that make wiping their ass an hazard, or slightly less disgusting acrylic nails that bulge out of their fingers? This is where y…	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/07/26 02:05 PM
9	Pick-Me “With men there’s this toxic masculinity thing about forming identity through your body and you have to be bigger and more muscular,” said the conventionally attractive, muscular actor in a tight shirt.	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/07/26 09:35 AM
13	Is there any point in labelling a society as 'Patriarchal'? It’s classic motte and bailey. No one really believes in patriarchy being the dictatorship of the few powerful men; it’s only when you question the idea. When it’s used in everyday feminism, it’s almost always the ridiculous idea of the brotherhood between the ruler and the ruled, the street thug and his victim, Elon Musk and the guy who cleans the toilet in SpaceX headquarters.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/07/26 08:22 PM
95	I’d rather let my organs rot than allow a man or boy to survive. Remember, this is considered acceptable on Reddit.	/r/EverydayMisandry	15/07/26 03:32 PM
5	No They’re Not They really don’t understand the point of misandry. It isn’t to avoid you or other men, it’s to create a situation where every time they interact with you, they’re doing you a favor that must be repaid. If you and every other man are trash, you can’t have any expectations and must accept whatever they deign to give you and understand it can be taken away at any moment. Misandrist women will happily claim their man is different when they still want him, and then turn it around and claim he was al…	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/01/26 04:44 PM
6	Imagine If a Man Said Anything Similar And women are puzzled why men aren’t enthusiastic about their career and “financial independence” when they’re picking a partner.	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/01/26 08:17 PM
20	Destroying The "but that's not real feminism" Argument It’s not even a unique argument. You can see this when people defend their religion, too. Oh, Catholicism did something bad? Those people aren’t true Catholics, you see. No, that vicar is a bad Catholic. The bishop is, too. And the Pope. Who’s a real Catholic, you ask? There’s that priest in Nowhereville who lives in a cave and cooks meals for the homeless 20 hours per day, and then he prays for the remaining 4 hours.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/01/26 09:14 AM
33	Misandrist and feminist lore I’m not sure if it’s the issue with most women, but with feminist, yeah. The ideology pretty much suppresses the empathy and makes them unwilling to even try to understand the problems of men. As in, you can couch them in as neutral language as possible, avoid generalization, provide explanations that are designed to avoid blaming anyone, and they’ll still try to condescendingly tell you that you’re wrong, or immediately pivot to their own problems and demand you to admit they’re worse.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/01/26 11:11 AM
109	Misandrist and feminist lore “Emotional labor” looks like an example of mass gaslighting, because the proportions are so skewed to the opposite side it’s not even funny. Most women I knew better than as passing acquaintances regularly expected me to listen to them complain and vent. Very often they had to be consoled, too. Some would literally trauma-dump on me. Very few of them allowed me to do the same; most would feel uncomfortable and try to change the topic, or give me the most generic advice possible — literally the t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/01/26 08:15 AM
3	Reducing male loneliness to the status of being or not being in a romantic relationship is incredibly dehumanizing. Don’t do it. It’s less “Loneliness Epidemic” and more “Undesirability Epidemic”. It’s not that hard for a guy to get into a relationship if he accepts being replaceable and liked only for what he can provide. There’s plenty of Cluster B girls who will throw themselves at a guy much below what they can pull just so they could feel superior to them. Plenty of single moms looking for a father to their children, young women looking for a sugar daddy, or desperate immigrants. The problem is that they don’t just w…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/01/26 12:36 AM
4	Which prostitution legislation model do you support? I’m not sure if it’s better if it was completely legal, or completely illegal; I flip-flopped between both positions a lot. The only model I explicitly don’t support is the Swedish one, where selling is legal but buying is not. I consider it fundamentally unjust.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/01/26 08:34 AM
8	oh yes because Female writers don't do this to male characters too “Jonathan Prescott III stretched millionairly in his satin sheets, the sun shining on his toned naked chest through the large window of his mansion.”	/r/EverydayMisandry	12/01/26 09:56 AM
5	Has misandry ruined the left? Identity politics, including feminism, did. It divided the left into a caste society of “victims,” who are always right and whose every word is sacred, vs. “oppressors” whose job is to “listen and learn”. The former cannot only lecture the latter, but also treat them like shit without fear of retaliation, or even being reprimanded. This had no chance to work long-term. No well-adjusted person would willingly join and stay in a community which pushes them into the role of perpetual underclass. Mo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/01/26 11:02 PM
1	On "Bourgeois Pseudofeminism" That sounds to me like “no true Scotsman” fallacy. Enough feminists seem to agree with misandrist views to assume that this is the true face of the movement, and the ones who want goodwill or equality for everyone are a minority. It’s like defending religion — how many times you’ve heard “oh, but they’re not a real Catholic?” And when you apply the charitable definition of a Catholic, it turns out that neither the vicar, nor the bishop, nor even the Pope and plenty of saints deserve to be called…	/r/EverydayMisandry	31/12/25 01:57 PM
87	The mainstream left-wing acts like feminism is beyond criticism That’s because feminism (and a lot of other identity politics ideologies) is set up in a way that makes its criticism illegitimate by default. First of all, there’s the issue of patriarchy that makes every criticism of feminism invalid if done by a man. All men are defaulted to having privilege and wanting to keep it, therefore every time they don’t like something about feminism it’s because they hate how effective it is in safeguarding rights of women. In fact, it’s even good if they criticize …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/12/25 02:20 PM
57	Seeing my naked husband in bed is revolting and worse than waking up to a dead rodent on my pillow, to my house being on fire, or beside my ex I was only meeting for closure At this point, boomer men seemingly hating their wives and joking about it became a well-known and disliked phenomenon. But honestly, Millenial and Gen Z women had long surpassed them in hate toward their male partners.	/r/EverydayMisandry	06/12/25 08:22 AM
1	Women, like men, show an aversion to potential partners with “high body counts”. How many cases you know where trauma in someone manifested with just promiscuity and nothing else? Where that promiscuity isn’t a way to get attention from other people, or a way to feel something despite dysfunctional emotional regulation, or a lack of ability to connect with others emotionally?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/12/25 07:45 AM
2	Women, like men, show an aversion to potential partners with “high body counts”. That’s what I wrote? Promiscuity from trauma usually comes with the full package.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/12/25 12:48 AM
3	Women, like men, show an aversion to potential partners with “high body counts”. The problem is that for every one cluster B person who had really worked on their problems and got them under control, you’ll find ten who will claim to have gotten them under control, only to spring them out on you when your guard is down. It’s really unfortunate, but given that manipulative behavior is one of the core traits of those disorders, the people with them who have no intention about doing anything about their problems will fake it anyway.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/12/25 09:42 PM
52	Thoughts on the whole warzone between men and women (Especially the "When you're privileged, equality feels like oppression" sentiment) The “…equality feels like an oppression” sentence is a thought-terminating cliché to preemptively dismantle any sort of criticism of the movement. Feminism has a lot of them, and their entire purpose is to set up a discussion where it can’t be wrong. You just can’t criticize feminism, period. If you’re a man, being born with the original sin of privilege means you by default want to take away all the rights from women, and any opinion you might have is just hostile subversion of the movement. If…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/12/25 05:25 PM
13	The Feminist Pick-me I think neither of these things. Just that being rejected often makes you get desperate for acceptance, and radical communities are good at pretending they wholeheartedly accept you.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/12/25 12:38 PM
29	The Feminist Pick-me Classic intersectionality, which in my opinion is a complete bullshit. Where people embrace several different identities, it doesn’t create a new identity that magically knows all the struggle of all the ones that compose them and some new ones on top of that. That’s self-congratulatory bogus. What they do instead is that they choose the one that appeals to them the most, usually the one with most mass appeal. Intersectionality is simply a tool that larger and stronger identity politics groups u…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/12/25 10:36 AM
5	Women, like men, show an aversion to potential partners with “high body counts”. I’m on the completely opposite side. Promiscuity for any other reason, I don’t care about that much. I’d even consider a woman with sex working past. Yeah, it would be a problem, but not that much. Promiscuity because of trauma, especially connected to a Cluster B personality disorder? My interest reaches a negative number as soon as I realize that. Because it very often implies present promiscuity along with an entire set of other problems.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/12/25 08:20 AM
4	"Get a vasectomy or else you hate women" That’s the secret behind the personality disorders that make people do such extreme things. It’s intense self-hate, but projected on their partner for the audacity of loving them. It sucks to be in such position and often is a result of the trauma. That said, their way of dealing with it is inflicting trauma on others. That’s akin to catching AIDS and trying to spread it as far as possible. Absolutely horrible behavior.	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/11/25 11:11 PM
5	"Get a vasectomy or else you hate women" It was supposed to be an agreement with that post, not criticism.	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/11/25 08:44 PM
4	"Get a vasectomy or else you hate women" That’s pretty much the consequence of how those disorders work. These people hate themselves and demand more and more proofs that they’re loved, but it’s actually impossible to prove. The only thing it achieves is them losing all respect for their partner for loving them.	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/11/25 06:35 PM
9	"Get a vasectomy or else you hate women" Imagine getting a vasectomy for your partner, getting left because “it’s not you, it’s me”, meeting a woman who wants to have children and trying to tell her that you can’t have any, because you sterilized yourself for the previous one.	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/11/25 06:18 PM
11	"Get a vasectomy or else you hate women" I can’t imagine permanently changing my body for someone who might as well leave me in a year or two. It’s stupidity on par with tattooing your partner’s name on your skin.	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/11/25 06:14 PM
9	"Get a vasectomy or else you hate women" That sounds more like some Cluster B personality disorder, like narcissistic or borderline. Getting someone to sacrifice something for her and then losing all respect for him because of that is very typical.	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/11/25 06:11 PM
57	Zohran Mamdani's take on the male loneliness crisis is probably the most fair take by any Western politician so far, acknowledging systemic issues and economic pressure as the driving force. This is surprising for the Leftist misandry he's surrounded by, and hopeful. It might not be a primary cause, but still a significant contributor, that also makes fixing the issue a lot harder. Currently, the misandrists oppose solutions that could fix male loneliness, even at no costs to themselves.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/25 01:48 PM
222	Zohran Mamdani's take on the male loneliness crisis is probably the most fair take by any Western politician so far, acknowledging systemic issues and economic pressure as the driving force. This is surprising for the Leftist misandry he's surrounded by, and hopeful. But women embracing the misandry is something that absolutely contributes to male loneliness and it’s something that’s on them to fix.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/25 11:19 AM
19	Mankeeping Is Why Women Are Done With Dating Funny, because that completely contradicts my experience. A lot of women I’ve met expected me to listen to them vent. If not about their traumas, it was about another woman they hated for the pettiest reason possible. Of course, I was supposed to treat whatever they said as true, their feelings as completely valid and warranted, and never ever criticize them. This rarely worked in reverse. Even in the best case when they were interested in what I had to say, sometimes they’d get annoyed and try …	/r/EverydayMisandry	16/11/25 08:11 AM
9	I'm so tired of Vaush's take on male loneliness I wouldn’t expect a nuanced take from an online celebrity. These people’s earnings depend of how much views they get, so they’ll mostly say whatever’s popular. An influencer with a feminist audience will alienate them if they say male loneliness is the fault of anything else than patriarchy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/11/25 09:10 AM
2	They say patriarchy also hurts men, but if patriarchy hurts men do we really live in a patriarchal society? I’m saying it’s a religious narrative, where patriarchy is just a different kind of sin. Hence, feminists who say patriarchy hurts men can both blame them for it and claim they want to help them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/25 12:12 PM
-6	They say patriarchy also hurts men, but if patriarchy hurts men do we really live in a patriarchal society? In any religion, a sin is considered harmful to the sinner. This doesn’t make the sinner any less culpable.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/11/25 07:18 PM
44	Our relations with feminism In my experience, feminism is very deeply enmeshed into a dualistic vision of the world where women are oppressed, and men are oppressors. You can temporarily become one of “the good ones”, but it’s a target that’s constantly moving, and if you ever show any hesitation at meeting it, you’re back among the bad guys along with Donald Trump and Andrew Tate. In my opinion, it makes dealing with feminists hard. Not only their belief system tells them you’re not to be trusted as a man; it also tells t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/10/25 05:17 PM
4	So Emily Ratajkowski is incapable of befriending straight men? Not even an actor, any man saying something like this in the social media would be (rightfully) branded a mysoginist and an incel.	/r/EverydayMisandry	21/06/25 02:22 PM
11	Is Slut shaming purely hatred for Male sexuality? It’s one of those terms that used to describe a real thing, then was co-opted by unreasonable people to validate their behavior. I mean, it’s one thing when a guy can’t stand the fact that his 29 year old girlfriend isn’t a virgin, another when a 26 years old alcoholic with BPD wants her partners to see nothing weird in the fact she’s with a new guy every month.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/05/25 12:14 PM
6	Anyone else sick of the "young men are being radicalized by online misogyny bs"? Yeah, that goes both ways. Nothing brings out a fanatic in someone than an insane person on the other side. Radical feminists and rabid red/blackpillers live in perfect symbiosis, pumping out new soldiers for each other. It’s a similar relationship as between neonazis and militant islamists.	/r/EverydayMisandry	30/04/25 09:07 AM
6	Transphobes and trans activists united in their misandry. The whole conflict was all about which offshoot of the same movement would dominate identity politics, and which group of people would protect its status as perpetually victimized angels.	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/04/25 01:45 PM
2	I'd rather be single and take care of myself than with an arrogant shmuck Whenever I see a rant like this, I could bet real money that this particular person is unable or unwilling to provide the very thing she’s ranting against. She gets pissed about “having to” manage a house? You can bet her house looks like a hoarder’s wet dream, and she lives off takeout food and an occasional dinner at her parents’. She’s riled up about the “emotional work” she would have to provide? She’ll trauma-dump on you during the second date, but will expect you to get over your parent’s …	/r/EverydayMisandry	20/03/25 03:31 PM
5	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic There is no moral high ground here, sorry. The identity politics-related movements did fuck all to get those people who flocked to the right. More than that, they treated them like shit. Instead of building a broad, popular movement fighting if not for socialism, then at least for some sort of social-democracy, they made a play at becoming a new official religion enshrined by the corporations and tech giants. They stabbed the working class in the back, so they don’t get to be upset now that they…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/01/25 11:04 PM
5	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic When you lose someone because you couldn’t even be bothered to treat them like a human being, you lose the moral high ground and the right to tell them who they should or shouldn’t join. The right-wing resurgence isn’t just about Trump winning elections; this was just a culmination of a slow process that happens since at least the 90s. The left abandoned its egalitarian roots and sold itself to capitalism, so other ideologies slowly filled the void. The identity politics is just another way for …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/01/25 10:28 PM
0	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic That’s a very stupid take, literally the left-wing version of “I didn’t want this hideous whore anyway” after being rejected. You’re not owed popular support. No one is. Whom you can bring to your movement is whom you’re going to get. If all you can offer is scorn and the position of an emotional punching bag, people will rightly avoid you and want nothing to do with you. Deal with it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/01/25 09:56 PM
48	Trump has basically made it impossible to be anti-DEI policies without sounding like a racist lunatic Where have you been for the last few years? Criticizing DEI policies, or anything related to identity politics in any way, pushed you to the fringes of the left, if not making you an outcast. Even if you were extra careful and preceded everything you wrote with progressive credo, people still would jump at any chance to prove you a racist, misogynist, transphobe, homophobe, and, of course, a Nazi. One of the reasons why the right gained so much clout in recent years was that it was impossible to…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/01/25 04:07 PM
2	Permabanned from a sub simply for being on a sub they don't like No. Is that another auto banning bot?	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/01/25 02:40 PM
9	Permabanned from a sub simply for being on a sub they don't like From what I heard, banning the bots that do the autobans solves the problem. It won’t unban you, but will prevent more bans coming. The bots’ usernames are safebot, saferbot, and safestbot.	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/01/25 09:09 AM
23	Another shaming single men post. Shame them by suggesting they don’t fuck. My, don’t you love progressives and their enlightened approach to gender norms?	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/01/25 10:54 AM
3	From a Thread Asking People Their Opinions on Women Proposing The best thing about it is that the women who want to be rewarded for doing stuff other don’t do it themselves. They feel entitled to a reward because other women do it, or used to do it in the past. The “emotional work” is my favorite idea, because it’s often brought up by women disgusted at the idea that their partner might have feelings not related to them, and completely uninterested with helping them with that.	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/12/24 08:41 PM
5	From a Thread Asking People Their Opinions on Women Proposing The undercurrent of coercion is often present. It can vary from just being pushy and not taking “no” for an answer, to outright rape which every court would classify as such.	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/12/24 05:50 PM
7	From a Thread Asking People Their Opinions on Women Proposing About the “submission in bed” part: the dude who wrote that third slide has NEVER heard of femdom. It’s probably the most popular amongst men in their 20s who cant get laid, and possibly, horny teenagers. While plenty of women like BDSM-related stuff, they overwhelmingly prefer being the submissive side. There’s a reason why erotic fiction for women often is about a buff, attractive, high-status guy overpowering the initially reluctant heroine.	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/12/24 04:24 PM
24	From a Thread Asking People Their Opinions on Women Proposing The third screen is such a crock of shit. Plenty of women don’t have, nor they plan to have children in the future. They expect at least an equal share of chores. The ones crowing about “emotional work” the most are hilariously bad at providing any kind of emotional support, to the point where opening up around them means the end of the relationship or ends up with the guy having to console them instead. The only thing that’s true in any way is the “submission in the bed” part, but not because o…	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/12/24 03:56 PM
7	Exterminate Men When she gets relased from jail I already like this remake of Spawn with a female character.	/r/EverydayMisandry	17/12/24 03:03 PM
13	The biggest threat with false allegations is not women who have the intentions of lying. It's women who feel regrets. Schroedinger’s boundaries are also a pretty cozy setup for someone with a support network that would never hold them accountable to their decisions. Immature people love to blame everyone around them for their bad decisions; this is especially common with some personality disorders. And not communicating their needs clearly means always being able to claim whatever fits the aftermath: if it was great, it was their decision; if it wasn’t, it was someone else’s.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/12/24 02:34 PM
41	The biggest threat with false allegations is not women who have the intentions of lying. It's women who feel regrets. The case of this OF streamer is really annoying. She decided to get gangbanged by 100 men for views (and maybe because it sounded fun to her). She organized the entire event, sent the invitations out, and got it streamed. She seemed to have a bad time, enough to seem regretful during the interview, but not enough to not follow with a similar event involving 10 times more people. Now it’s on those 100 men that dared to treat her as a mature person who knew what she wanted, instead of seeing her a…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/12/24 12:27 PM
1	Recognize financial abuse against men This seems incredibly lopsided. Is there any pushback against this tradition especially among men, or do they generally accept it as something that just happens?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/12/24 02:56 PM
1	Recognize financial abuse against men Where does the husband get an allowance from his wife from the money he earns? I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, but I’m getting morbidly curious. An arrangement that’s more common where I live is shared money, but with one of the partners getting pissy whenever the other buys something “unnecessary” while spending it themselves like there’s no tomorrow.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/12/24 02:52 PM
1	More Karens Acting Like Women Proposing to Men Is an Insult to Them Personally https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/the-myth-of-consensual-sex This meme. Substitute Jesus with an angry feminist.	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/11/24 09:39 PM
2	More Karens Acting Like Women Proposing to Men Is an Insult to Them Personally The myth of consensual proposal by a woman.	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/11/24 11:20 AM
50	“It’s literally every man.” Some definitely do. I used to be in a disciplinary committee of a small left-wing political party. I’ve seen some shit. Once, a girl accused her former partner of sexual and emotional abuse. She brought it up on a support group with the other women that belonged to the party. The problem was that a lot of her accusations didn’t make a fucking sense. For example of her examples of emotional violence and controlling behavior was that he scorned her when she read her phone in the bed while he tried…	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/11/24 11:17 PM
8	As leftist neurodivergent men, do you feel unwelcomed in leftist spaces or rejected in dating even with your best foot forward? The spaces for neurodivergent people were taken over in an extremely short span and made into an extension of the women rights and the LGBT+ movement. It’s shocking how fast that went. In one moment everyone is welcome, in another “akshually, neurodivergent women have it much worse” completely dominates every space. Self-id got pushed as more valid than the doctor’s diagnosis, which brought a lot of people role playing autism according to most outrageous stereotypes I’ve ever seen. If you don’t …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/11/24 11:38 AM
1	Worries that the election and subsequent results will continue to drive the divide and double standards of men and women even further. I think this whole scenario has nothing to do with reality. It’s a common bugbear on the left that if their partner’s beliefs aren’t thoroughly examined beforehand, one day they’re going to take out their SS uniform from the closet and triumphantly announce they were Ilsa, the She-Wolf of SS this entire time. This isn’t what usually happens. The actual, honest-to-god fervent Nazis are easy to spot, because holding that sort of beliefs nowadays self-selects for people that had already fell down t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/11/24 09:31 AM
3	Worries that the election and subsequent results will continue to drive the divide and double standards of men and women even further. I really think that “the same set of values” is overrated. I’ve been in a political organization full of people who ostensibly had the same values as me. There were plenty of those I wouldn’t want to sit next to me during a long train trip, let alone be their friend or date them. I’ve never seen so many toxic persons gathered together. Nearly every single one of them thought it important that everyone they associate with has the correct political views, or at least that’s what they told to other…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/11/24 08:38 AM
5	Worries that the election and subsequent results will continue to drive the divide and double standards of men and women even further. It’s a red flag no matter the gender, because more often than not, it signals being a terminally online busybody obsessed with their brand of politics. But tell that to Reddit, where even cutting out one’s own family because they voted for Trump is considered normal.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/11/24 03:27 PM
27	Is There A Word For This Level Of Delusion? Because The Word "Deluded" Doesn't Quite Cut It. Posting the content from TwoXChromosomes here is like shooting fish in a barrel.	/r/EverydayMisandry	09/11/24 02:59 PM
13	Worries that the election and subsequent results will continue to drive the divide and double standards of men and women even further. They have been swearing off MAGA men since I remember. Every dating sub was always full of assertions that they’d never date a right-winger, and that interrogating the guy on his political views as soon as the date starts is imperative to their safety. What’s going to change now, they’re going to double not sleep with them? Are they going to erase the memory of one sexual encounter from the memory of every MAGA man they meet, so their body count goes lower?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/11/24 12:49 AM
51	Worries that the election and subsequent results will continue to drive the divide and double standards of men and women even further. 4B unironically could be the best thing radical feminism could give men. If someone really believes men need to be punished for Trump being elected or considers interacting with them so unsafe it must be completely avoided, she’s already through the looking glass. At best she might consider you “one of the good ones,” which might change at any moment notice. At worst she’s an abuser who gravitated toward feminism because it provides her acceptable targets she can triumph against and still get sy…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/11/24 12:42 AM
2	Another Day, Another Deluded Misandrist Article men having sex with dead corpses even when Egyptians used to practice mummification. Jesse, what the fuck are you talking about?	/r/EverydayMisandry	08/11/24 09:53 PM
22	Progressives are so determined to learn nothing from loosing like this. "I hate you, vote for me" is not a winning strategy. I love how they try to convince themselves they’re not doing it, not really demonizing men and treating them like shit, while the same thread is full of absolutely insane takes.	/r/EverydayMisandry	08/11/24 11:55 AM
3	Found this comment on a post titled “What Advice Would You Give to Boys Becoming Men” I’ve been once accused of mansplaining for disagreeing with a woman and stating my own position.	/r/EverydayMisandry	02/11/24 07:29 PM
12	No this is no satire Every time I see a uniquely Japanese take on an average Western ideology, it’s something batshit crazy. When they had a period of fascination with communism, one party killed their own members during a struggle session, and another put extermination of Japanese people as their goal. This is apparently some Japanese woman’s take on feminism which already focuses on world domination in the timeframe of less than 10 years.	/r/EverydayMisandry	30/10/24 09:55 AM
44	Transactional actions for men =misogynistic. And transactional actions = valid FDS was a cyst that unfortunately burst into the Internet at large.	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/10/24 05:46 PM
8	This is just pathetic! Even the media doesn't call her out for being a creep!! While the reaction would certainly be different if it was a guy chasing girls, I don’t think she should be called out for this. She was a child, and children do dumb shit all the time. It doesn’t sound like she hurt anyone or traumatized them for life; at worst she was just obnoxious.	/r/EverydayMisandry	30/09/24 01:52 PM
7	The phase "feminism is for men too" can't coexist with the oppressed vs oppressor dichotomy. Because it's a major contradiction. “It helps men” in the sense it offers some limited freedom from the Satan of Patriarchy they’re otherwise doomed to worship. If you believe that something is the root of all evil, of course getting rid of it makes you a happy person.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/09/24 12:20 PM
44	I refuse to believe this as anything but a fearmongering, a thin veiled remarks to demonize boys. On a video of a bunch of teenagers stopping mid waterslide, and apparently having fun. (They were leaving as they noticed there's someone sliding down at the end of the video.) A man: breathes Social media activists: I’d be sobbing and screaming and trying to get back up.	/r/EverydayMisandry	04/09/24 12:15 PM
18	Menslib being menslib You’re living in a dangerous area and you never leave your door unlocked. So do most of your neighbors. Burglars sometimes target one of the houses around here, wait until its inhabitants aren’t there, then pick the locks, cut through it, or just climb through the window. It doesn’t happen often, but no one wants to be stolen from, so people worry about it a lot. One of your neighbors, however, thinks it’s stupid. “With one, maybe two break-ins per year, it’s stupid to worry about it!” he claims…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/24 08:54 PM
23	Reddit doesn’t care about you. The rule against brigading is mostly used to shut down those subreddits the admins don’t like.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/24 09:51 PM
3	Do you ever worry about your employer penalising you for speaking up for men and boys’ issues? Never ever fill out your employer in your social media profile; it’s nobody’s business where do you work. Not using your real name is preferable. These two things should keep you safe from any retaliation.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/07/24 01:40 PM
9	How do you all feel about evolutionary psychology and it's play in male-female interpersonal relationships? There was that meme I can’t find anymore; it had a dog’s nose pointing at the camera on the left side, and a blind guy on the right one. The first image was captioned “Women, when they try to figure out if a man has autism,” and the second one was “Women, when they try to figure out if a man is going to abuse them.” And that’s the crux of the problem: actual abusers and manipulative people are very good both at finding gullible partners, and at hiding their toxic traits until the other person is…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/07/24 09:48 AM
4	How do you all feel about evolutionary psychology and it's play in male-female interpersonal relationships? People often hide or doctor those beliefs that make them look bad.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/07/24 09:19 AM
5	How do you all feel about evolutionary psychology and it's play in male-female interpersonal relationships? Autism is similar to looks in how it mostly ruins your chance on making a good first impression. People with horrible personalities can pretend to have desirable traits, so they usually can get into a relationship, but are horrible at staying in it unless they use a plethora of abusive tactics on a partner that had already learned to accept it. Autism just makes you subtly off-putting or awkward, which tends to rub women the wrong way.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/07/24 09:17 AM
22	So, I happened to come across a forum concerning Tobey McGuire (49) hanging out with an influencer 29 years his junior. The comments summarily bashed McGuire, so I wanted to ask you all what you think of significant age gaps between consenting adults, but from a male perspective? The older you are, the harder is finding the partner your age for a simple reason: the dating pool gets smaller and smaller. The people who are the most sociable, most likely to land up a partner and stay with them, tend to be in a stable relationship before they turn 30 and mostly stay in it. Sometimes their partner dies, cheats on them, or does something that warrants leaving them, but they usually have little problem with finding someone else, so they aren’t available for long. The ones who s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/07/24 08:50 AM
6	Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensored It’s a cult with a caste system built-in. As the member of the inferior caste, you’re tainted with the sin of privilege, which forever bars you from being a priest. You are to believe in feminism the same way people believe in Jesus Christ or Allah. You have to earn your salvation by quelling your doubts and obey the priestly caste unconditionally. Even if they treat you like shit, this is a just punishment levied at you for being a man. I’m glad that she spelled it that plainly, because it rare…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 07:08 AM
35	Female narcissism and domestic abuse: New psychology research reveals dangerous tendencies From my experience, female NPD and BPD havers are very drawn to feminism; nowhere I’ve seen so many downright malicious and insecure women as when I was in a left-wing political party. This includes. A nearly 30-years-old woman who got so pissed at being mildly insulted by some guy on his own wall, that she accused him of misogyny and eventually got him expelled. She also would crash the threads on the party forums where he wrote anything and paste the screenshot with the insult, demanding him t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/06/24 11:43 PM
2	Small or big acts of male advocacy that you do ? To add to this, lawyering up or anything related your health isn’t something where you want to involve activism, because of consequences of choosing a wrong person might be huge.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/06/24 08:24 AM
18	Why are men turning to the right? If you want to really feel used, join any left-wing organization as a heterosexual cis man. Enjoy slaving away for the people who hate what you represent with every fiber of their being and don’t always have the decency to hide it. Have your work being taken for granted, while getting collectively blamed for the things that go wrong. Let your friends colleagues coworkers treat you as their therapist and an emotional punching bag. Enjoy providing unconditional support to every minority group in e…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/06/24 10:40 PM
19	Feminists hate being women almost as much as they hate men. What the fuck is this. It’s one thing to believe in gender stereotypes, another to imagine all men as Hulk.	/r/EverydayMisandry	13/06/24 10:01 PM
4	what are your thoughts on transbros in men's advocacy: [only men/amab answer the poll please] Given that intersectionality has been used in the past to capture weaker and less numerous advocacy movements by the stronger ones, it can go either way. Just look what happened to autism advocacy. First it was really about Asperger’s/autism, then it was more and more about women and other marginalized groups with autism. Especially after the influx of “self-diagnosed” autists it became unrecognizable. Cis-men with autism were pushed into the margin of the movement which became pretty much an ex…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/24 11:23 AM
2	What do you think of male misandrists? You mean the ally caste. Pretty much every idpol movement is divided into two castes: the priests and their loyal flock they call “allies”. The priest caste has the monopoly on truth by the virtue of being a minority of interest. They’re the only ones allowed to create their own doctrines, as opposed to parroting the movement’s official talking points. They read and interpret the holy scripture of the movement, pronounce people and organizations virtuous or sinful, and can be only disagreed with…	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/05/24 10:20 AM
24	Man Bear Megathread A society obsessively worshipping a particular religion will always consider itself more sinful, than the an atheist one, despite the latter obviously adhering to the tenets of the faith less.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/24 09:23 AM
19	Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them. The problem is that men and women use a completely different definition of “hurt” right now. Imagine someone asking you if you were ever assaulted. They think it means you get beaten up, or attacked with a knife, so they naturally expect you to say “no”. You, however, decided to count every time someone asked you in a threatening way “Got a problem, bro?” as an assault. You also going to count a classmate pushing you when you were both in elementary school. So you say “Yes, many times.”	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/24 09:18 AM
3	Man vs bear still going on. The worst thing at this narrative is that it’s completely fake. Not only none of those women would actually choose a bear, but most of them aren’t that afraid of men at all. They date them, spend time alone with them, ask them for favors, and demand them to be their allies. The comparison with a wild animal has no leg to stand on. I wish they got what they want. Not meeting a bear, just so they don’t have to suffer the male companionship and attention they ostensibly fear so much. I’d like no ma…	/r/EverydayMisandry	01/05/24 10:52 PM
9	How to respond to people who choose bear over man. „Good. Date a bear then. Befriend a bear. Find a bear and ask it to drive you home at 12 AM. When you’re at it, ask it politely if it would like to support your reproductive rights.” Don’t waste your time and effort on people who value you less than a wild animal. You don’t owe them a proof that you’re not a rapist or a murderer. Just cut them out of your life if you can, and concentrate on finding someone who sees you as a human being, instead of a potential Jeffrey Dahmer.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/05/24 08:45 PM
2	Abuse has no gender Fortunately, I only experienced the first stage. The girl I was with overplayed her hand, so I realized I’ve been duped pretty quick.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/03/24 11:42 PM
16	Abuse has no gender There’s one more thing why the “man should be strong enough to fight back” trope is bullshit: physical abuse is pretty much the finale. Abusers choose partners that won’t fight back and escalate slowly. It usually starts with lovebombing and isolation. With grandiose gestures of love, they establish themselves as perfect partners, which later means it’s harder for the victim to believe they are with an abuser. They also try to make them alone by portraying the victim’s family and friends in nega…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/03/24 07:50 PM
5	sigh One of the oldest trick in abuser’s handbook. You don’t want to be abused? Here’s an arbitrary checklist of things you have to improve to be considered worthy being treated with respect. Have you considered politely enduring shitty treatment until I decide you no longer deserve it? Now prove that you’re not like the other man by policing what others like on Twitter. It really looks like a lot of identity-focused ideologies aim to create a class of people that will accept abusive relationships wi…	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/03/24 03:16 PM
3	“All men have to fear is liminal space” Early 2000s too. I was robbed twice, once at knifepoint (or rather boxcutterpoint). Where I was at the uni, there was a place which was famous from having local dresy shaking students out of their cellphones alternately with municipal police giving out tickets for illegal crossing the railway. I got almost jumped in Wrocław while walking with a group of friends; some guy grabbed my jacket and tried to pull me away.	/r/EverydayMisandry	15/03/24 03:08 PM
26	A Look at Heterofatalism What you call “heterofatalism” is pretty much devaluation: a cornerstone of every abusive relationship. Someone subconsciously feels they don’t treat their partner well, so they exaggerate their negative qualities until they look like a saint for even being with such a piece of shit. This lets the abusive partner not only get away with horrible treatment (at least in their mind), but also look for a replacement while still enjoying the full benefits of a relationship, only to discard the devalue…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/03/24 01:15 PM
7	What are the limits of feminist theory for male advocacy? From what I’ve seen, it’s not even functionally possible to actually advocate for those men issues that are 100% under the lens of feminism. Your primary audience, the feminists, won’t give a fuck and they might even accuse you of trying to distract everyone’s attention from women issues. What you are allowed (and even encouraged) to do is to preach to the men outside the movement how the traditional gender roles hurt them and how better they would be as feminists. It’s the mirror image of the s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/02/24 09:15 AM
11	Guys Opinion about this last statement? Honestly, this is what I hoped to happen when feminism started to gain traction. I’m pretty risk-averse, with ASD to the boot; I missed a lot of opportunities either by being too passive, not even figuring out someone’s interested in me, or saying a wrong thing and coming out too intense. It would feel nice for someone else to take care of this shit. Little I knew that it would be even worse; I’d still have to do the same shit, but with more ridiculous expectations and added hostility.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/02/24 11:29 PM
22	Guys Opinion about this last statement? It’s not even the managerial class they care about; their goal is a quasi-religious society where they get to be the priests. As in, deciding what’s right and wrong according to the holy books only they understand, excommunicating heretics and apostates, legitimizing organizations and authorities according to how they conform to the faith, etc. This way, the ruling class would have to appease them, because they could easily mobilize the masses against them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/02/24 06:02 PM
19	Guys Opinion about this last statement? I don’t think they care about those votes. They bought their own narrative where the men are always tainted with their privilege, so trying to bring them on their side is a waste of time. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy at this point: the more alienated men flock to the right, the more the identitarian left thinks they were right all along and is even meaner to them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/02/24 05:56 PM
28	Guys Opinion about this last statement? Bold to assume that the identitarian left even wants to abolish capitalism, rather than become its official religion that props it up in exchange for benefits.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/02/24 05:08 PM
5	Why do people believe that presumption of innocence shouldn't be a thing? I think the main problem is that in case of such tweets, the unspoken part is nearly always “Social media struggle sessions should be universally supported.” It’s never about actually believing the victim, but believing her enough to support a campaign of harassment against the guy they point at.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/02/24 04:18 PM
21	Why do people believe that presumption of innocence shouldn't be a thing? Used to be in a disciplinary committee of a party that was very vocal about believing all women. I’ve seen sexual assault accusations used as a cudgel against a former partner or even a disliked colleague several times. Once it was a guy with very clear ASD accused by multiple people of things that turned out either didn’t happen, or happened very differently than they were presented. Among other things, he was accused of trying to enter a bathroom where a woman was taking a shower during a stud…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/02/24 08:33 AM
9	Working class men just don’t matter First of all: avoid alcohol while you still can. It will make you feel more miserable, cause all sort of completely avoidable health problems, and make life even harder. Drinking to cope is pretty much killing yourself in a way that’s not only slow, but also painful. Don’t do it. Also: we grew up in a society that simultaneously pushed the idea that men who don’t have sex are worthless, and promised us is the way to true love, intimacy, and companionship. Both notions are false. There are people…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/02/24 11:28 PM
3	What are some little known men's rights issues? The reason it exists is because the retirement age for men is still 5 years higher than for women, and the issue of draft was put in the forefront because of a war in a neighboring country. If you see women being let through the border while men are forced to stay in a war-torn country as cannon fodder, it will naturally make you nervous. Especially if your country is the next one on Russia’s shitlist.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/02/24 03:00 PM
9	What are some little known men's rights issues? It’s worse. Even if you distance yourself from misogynistic screed, have very mild demands that don’t hurt anyone and back them up with actual statistics, people will jump at any opportunity to prove you’re an incel who hates women and wants to put them in the kitchen. There’s a recently created association in my country, which is all about men issues. They discuss them in a very civil manner, promote an equal model of partnership, actively encourage men to use the paternity leave to spend time …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/02/24 01:06 PM
10	What are some little known men's rights issues? The conservatives are, at very least, openly contemptuous and disinterested, which at least makes things perfectly clear: pretend to be normal or get fucked. The identity-obsessed left frequently pretends to be accepting, luring them in with grand speeches about neurodiversity, while creating a hostile environment with hidden hierarchies, propped up by arcane rules of behavior, appeals to authority and the implicit threat of ostracism and harassment. Pretty much all the groups dedicated to autis…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/02/24 12:32 PM
15	You don't need to show or concede any sympathy to either Feminism or 'Women's issues' in general What we should aim to achieve is full equality. As long as they don’t detract from that goal, there is no reason not to support women rights. Remember that the misandrists are perfectly OK with you being against women rights. It is what they expect and need to maintain their numbers. If they can’t have you as a broken follower parroting their talking points unconditionally and meekly tolerating abuse, they’d rather have you as an enemy. The more vehemently you oppose women rights, the more women…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/02/24 11:31 PM
11	You don't need to show or concede any sympathy to either Feminism or 'Women's issues' in general Is something that puts the future of the relationship in question, in my opinion. After five years, if you’re not able to trust that your partner won’t abuse you or cheat on you, it’s high time to figure out if you even want to be with this person. And your partner should figure out if they want to be with someone who suspects them and is ready to bolt.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/02/24 11:11 PM
17	We must pay more attention to young men The flight of South Korean men to the conservative side might be explained with several scandals mostly involving a certain site: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Womad_(website) It doesn’t help they are also salty about their 2 years long conscription.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/01/24 09:30 PM
14	Intersectionality is not coming to save men. Intersectionality is a tool which identity politics movements use to subjugate the weaker, less populous or powerful ones. It lets them take a subset of a particular group and make them loyal to theirs: “You’re not only disabled, you’re a disabled woman, and you have different needs than all those disabled men who dominated your movement to their benefit.” I’m not sure who thinks intersectionality could help men, because they’re considered a dominant group; if they ever appear in the context of …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/01/24 03:37 PM
12	Gen Z men are leaning more conservative while Gen Z women are much more liberal To be fair, there’s no being more pathetic than a male feminist. Those guys fully embraced the role of a bootlicker and attack dog in hope they might be one day patted on the back as good allies.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/01/24 10:02 PM
2	Gen Z's gender divide is huge — and unexpected I think this is a dangerous narrative. This isn’t a war between men and women, despite both sides desperately trying to frame it as such. It’s a bunch of opportunists with loud voices vying for prestige, power, and money, trying to recruit people in their crusade. It’s not even a war they wage, because they need each other and destroying one side completely would also end the other. To be honest, most of them are more dangerous to the people on their side who trust them, than their enemies. The …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/01/24 12:30 AM
27	Gen Z's gender divide is huge — and unexpected The problem is that it’s not that they can’t grasp what they’re doing. It might not be what they want, but this is the exact thing their movement needs. It benefits from you getting angry and lashing out against them. That’s how they get members. There are no better friends than misogynist men and misandrist women. They live in symbiosis similar to radical islamists and rabid nationalists, because the more hostile one of them is, the more neutral people of the opposite gender who see them are li…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/01/24 10:35 PM
107	Gen Z's gender divide is huge — and unexpected The reason for this is obvious—not many people want to have anything to do with an ideology that not only doesn’t offer them anything, but also considers them the root of all evil. But don’t bother pointing this out to the idpol left, because they have the universal answer for that—the privilege. It became the universal gaslighting tool. You’re not being treated unfairly, you’re just upset that you’re bo longer getting special treatment. You weren’t insulted, you’re just uncomfortable because a …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/01/24 06:22 PM
5	Societies financial/success expectations of men IS their version of bodily autonomy. Such women absolutely exist, it’s just a coin toss, because it doesn’t seem to reflect their declared beliefs in any way. I’ve seen some self-declared feminists—and not ordinary ones, but activists who championed for women rights and organized protests in their defence—whose idea of partnership was to be a tradwife, but with all the benefits and none of the obligations. They would either not work, or get some shitty job beneath their qualifications where they didn’t have to do much, attaching th…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/01/24 11:13 PM
11	Male feminism is a great extent just re-packaged chivalry. It’s a consequence of how identity politics movements (including feminism) treat their “allies.” To be a good male feminist, you have to be OK with being treated like shit—at least in practice. If you’re allowed to say anything, it’s what your betters told you to say; otherwise you can shut up and listen. You have to take insults against your entire gender in stride (while responding in kind will get you cancelled), express guilt for the sins of other men, and serve as an emotional punching bag …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/01/24 01:35 PM
5	Men and consent It has been removed, either by the mods, or by its author, unfortunately.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/01/24 03:01 PM
29	Feminism isn't for everyone, it's just for women. People that say it is for everyone, are either naive or deliberately manipulative. How does a movement that considers one group of humans privileged oppressors by default, ever going to be good at helping said group? Viewing a person as a privileged oppressor isn't going to precisely do wonders to help you empathize with their struggles, right? If anything it's going to make it harder. That's the key to understanding the problem. If someone, by default, is considered an oppressor, they can't be allowed to have an opinion. Their every need and every demand is suspect because th…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/01/24 06:32 PM
20	Feminism isn't for everyone, it's just for women. People that say it is for everyone, are either naive or deliberately manipulative. Sorry, but feminism has nothing to offer to men, as most identity politics movements do. They're only welcome as meek, obedient "allies."	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/01/24 06:06 PM
36	I absolutely hate term "Emotional Labour" This checks out. I was in a brief relationship with a woman who unironically used the term “emotional labor.” I couldn’t really vent about anything, not only because she was never interested in listening to me, but also it was too risky. It was too hard to predict what would set her off. On the other hand, she never had any problems with expressing her negative emotions, talking about past traumas, the people who made her angry, past relationships, etc. My opinion was, of course, unimportant unl…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/01/24 11:53 AM
36	young boys swinging to the right. let’s talk about it. The problem is that we’re not supposed to have our own movement. According to the idpol narrative, we’re unwitting agents of the Satan who can’t help but work for him. Anytime we get close to a leadership role, or even have our own opinion, we can’t help but sin. We’re supposed to listen to our priestly caste and wait meekly for salvation.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/08/23 07:53 AM