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You reap what you sow GALATIANS 6: 7-9
/r/askTRP23/04/19 03:11 AM
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A bona fide widower. I think the fact that you feel bad means you got a genuine good heart, mixed with "alpha qualities" and girls pick up on that. You gotta suppress the boyfriend vibe man.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:17 PM
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I find alot of girls have the consumerist mindset. They tend to derive value from the clothes they wear to the vacations they have been on.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 01:41 AM
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first thing is... why, did she wants to date you know? You need to answer this questions to understand her motivation? The girl got pissed off over sleeping with someone she determined to have an inflated SMV, therefore she fucked with your social life. Take that as a warning sign, if the relationship goes south she will create a fallout.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 05:02 PM
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LOL... this guy whats advice on the hoejabi's
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:43 PM
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Those this happen often... girl thinks your SMV is too high so she proactively nuke the relationship because of her insecurity?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:39 PM
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Why do 2 strenuous excersizes in one day when your just starting out? Rome ain't build in a day. Take it easy and just alternate between the 2. 3x a week MMA and 3x a week lifting, if you have two drop the 2x a week for both. Small steps over a long period of time is better than trying to jump over a building and crashing. Not my best metaphor but you get the picture.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:15 PM
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Like other's say it's a common feeling. I going to offer a different viewpoint that has not been mentioned. You stated that with certain people who are superior to you in your line of work, you feel comfortable with them. But with people you meet socially, you feel inferior and uncomfortable with them. Reading that forced me to reflect on myself because you helped me to realize that I feel the same way. For me, and I am sure it is the same for you, growing up, alot of people who I deemed superio…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:49 PM
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Do you need the money? If you don't, focus on other areas on your life. It's as simple as that.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:31 PM
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To be honest, I don't know what you should do with the side chick. She is proving a point by showing she has more control over the social group than you since they are siding with her over you. It's her way of nursing her ego. Since you clearly don't have control of the group, your best bet is to work on yourself and maybe get a better looking girl. You gotta give them a reason to respect you. And to be honest, you need a reason to give yourself more respect. Seems like your settling for drama f…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:15 PM
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Shallow yes, but remember one of the biggest lessons of the redpill. No matter how the sjw's try to spin it, a women's primary value is based on her looks. So to be honest, you should expect that comment from her, don't be surprised. Also it seems like your girlfriend doesn't really have a great personality, which is why your friends are siding with the side chick. And honestly seems like your group of friends have maturity issues... which is why the shallowness of this situation doesn't shock m…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:16 PM
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Exactly bro... if your girlfriend was in the same ball park, she would be fine sharing you. In fact she would take pride in the fact that she was able to "steal your time" from a girl that is just as attractive or more attractive than you because it's a validation of her worth. Anyways here the list. You tried to have your cake and eat it too. If you have morals if you tell someone you are exclusive don't go behind your back. And if you don't have morals, well, do a better job of hiding the fact…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:02 PM
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I was in the middle of listing out a bunch of shit that went wrong here, but then i thing that stood out to me is... this girl wasn't about you having a girlfriend, she was pissed that she is ugly. She thought your SMV was high, but then she saw your gf she thinks lower of you... So bro, be honest, how ugly is your gf? Also drop the side chick, she has shown she could f your life up hardcore, stay aware from her.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:34 PM
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1) The sexual marketplace in tinder is skewed in favour of women. So your pictures need to be like, high end instagram worthy to get matches. 2) If your pictures are good, then play the numbers game, and be direct.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:24 PM
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Yeah that's what I thought, if you have the need to get revenge on her after YOU FUCKED UP, you've need some serious introspection dude. You need to understand why and how she gets into your head and then figure out how to let her go. Normally we become obsessed with people when they provide an emotional value we think were not getting else where. So find out the supposed "benefit" you think you are receiving from her and then unplug yourself.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:55 PM
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Agreed. Coming from a competitive sports background, in the heat of the moment, the guy who gets emotional makes stupid tactical mistakes or fouls which cost the team. The guy who remains completely focused and channels his emotions ends up saving the day.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 11:57 PM
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Yeah people don't care about what you say, it's the vibe and the relationship context that matters. I got a friend that says stupid shit all the time, but he says it in a joking, authentic way. Even if he says something offensive, it's just him being who he is and doesn't mean to hurt you. I got a friend who always knows how to frame a situation and is always right, but his authentic vibe is, he understands your situation, he understands how you feel and he genuinely wants to help you.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 04:36 PM
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Yeah I am wondering whats the a difference between 22.5k a night and 2.25k a night...
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 03:58 PM
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I see your point. Every guy wants a girl who is craving begging for the D and the seed out of raw aninamlistic desire. But that type of desire doesn't exist in transactional sex, the ho just wants the dough.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 03:55 PM
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Agreed. AWALT if the environmental conditions to trigger her the behaviour are true.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:04 PM
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So, basically the ability to give attention is a form of leverage.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 02:50 PM
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Understood, I am just saying at the end of the day being "just a jerk" shouldn't be the end goal especially one that doesn't seem to have life anything beyond, fucking, smoking there life away and probably netflix and chilling.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 02:47 PM
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A man can age like fine wine if the man doesn't let himself go. I am 26 and there guys over 40+ who still give me the run around on the basketball court and the soccer pitch due to experience and muscle memory because they keep up their activity level.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 02:40 PM
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I find that normally happens, when I am really stressed out in other area's in my life or I have too much going on and I just want to get through everything as fast as possible which leads me to lose sight of the bigger picture, of how I should approach what I do.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 02:33 PM
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Yeah that threw me off two, that's fucked up, that's a huge red flag.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 02:30 PM
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First time, I have heard of a story like this, the way I see this: 1. This isn't the type of "alpha" you want to model yourself after, sure seems like he oozes confidence and game, but this guy clearly doesn't have his shit together if he accepts a rent free offer from you in a studio apartment. 2. You clearly lacked self-respect for yourself and gave him and your sister no reason to respect you.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 02:27 PM
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I was thinking of making a similiar post on this, based on my own personal experience where my girl tried to betafy me. She was trying to take control of life decisions such as where I live, in Toronto and how to spend my money when we didn't even live together. Her choices was the complete opposite of my financial, career goals and it pissed me off and I struggled to hold frame. I altered my course but I struggled to convince her I was doing the right thing, I argued using facts and it was not …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 05:20 AM
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Excellent first post, you shed light on something that has been overlooked, but it is a fundamental life concept. I think congruency is a big part of trust. No one likes a phony. If you say you can do x, you better deliver otherwise the trust is broken. Women are pretty damn harsh when it comes to judging congruency, but beta men tend to be lax in expectations of congruency, which is why they tend to be screwed over.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 04:26 AM
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"A woman told me once that a "well fucked woman" will never leave you. I took it to heart." does he mean that literally, metaphorically or both?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 02:55 PM
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To not be afraid of losing something or anything... Don't you need to go through certain experiences to reach that mental state?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 02:51 PM
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Damn this may be the funniest shit I ever read. And the funniest thing is, this is actually plausible...
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 02:59 PM
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Another thing, I read, and I am having trouble swallowing is that the feminmie imperative is so pervasive, that society is practically designed to allow girls to have like 20 beta orbirters to make her feel secure while girls can be jumping from one "alpha" to another "alpha". So she gets what is needed from her fem imperative... at the expense of like 20 guys??? While the unlucky ones are taught to be blind to all of this and are considered "good men"???
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:04 AM
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I see what you mean consciously but it's still not hitting home. I guess if currency is attention from men, then the best way to gain that attention is to be as sexually appealing as their bodies allow. What I am getting from Rollo is that the feminine imperative has socially conditioned society to allow women to cheat the market by conditioning men to not be so shallow, fat acceptance movement and hiding the fact that a women's value drops in age. You know the more I think about all the ways th…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:51 AM
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wtf, did I just read. How is this hypothetical? This story feels so real, I can feel your fear and despair. I'll be praying for you before I go to bed. I hope you learned your lesson.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 02:45 AM
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This post was needed for someone like me. My natural personality was actually really good at creating tension and having the appearance that I am really calm in that tense moments when I am interacting with the girl, but inside I am kicking myself for creating the tension, and somehow I believed it was bad. I refereed semi-pro and amateur soccer for 10 years which is a high pressure situation where emotions are high and people say whatever they want to you to knock you off your horse. So I devel…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 01:35 AM
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I am not putting her on the pedestal, I just want to know where I went wrong so I can apply the lessons I learned on the next girl the piques my interest.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:48 AM
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I thought about that for awhile, but we are in totally different departments and people I know that hooked up each other in the workplace generally don't have minimal drama. Also, I accept whatever blow back happens from this, so I would appreciate feedback on my interaction with this girl for learning purposes. Thank you.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:41 AM
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Dude... witness the frame control this man has...
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 02:09 AM
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10 men approached me and 1 woman (software engineer) about forming a group to invest. The difference in risk posture and interest is palpable. I literally was just thinking this. I got into weedstocks early and I had a lot of naysaysers, but there was some men who were interested in my sales pitch and requested for more info and sources. Now that it has become practically mainstream, more people have been asking for me for advice and there are all men. The women, I tell, give me the googly eyes …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 01:41 PM
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I share your thoughts as to why people get jealous whenever they see someone in their circle rise. I would like to add, that I think people take it personally because if you are in the same social group, your more or less in the same environment with the same resources, and that person who's social, economic or cultural value went up while yours is still the same, will give you a negative self-perception of yourself and other people may perceive you negatively because it becomes a case of, this …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 03:44 AM
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It would be hard to find people that will have your back no matter how high your rise and still treat you the same. I think people fear when someone they consider close to them that they deem, below or at the same level rising up in social, cultural or economic value because they fear the dynamic between them will change and they are afraid that you will think you are better than them. And it's true, in that aspect of w/e endevour your took and the traits required to reach the goal you are bette…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 03:18 AM
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Your story reminded me of the time, when me and 2 other guys were talking about investing. One guy stated that with his index funds growing at a standard average rate of 7% a year, he can retire a millionaire. I replied, that's it, why not aim hire, there are mutual funds and stocks that can give you better returns. They were taken aback and they replied with, "Really how do you plan on doing that". I told them the best way to make money long term is to find an undervalued company in a growing m…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 02:56 AM
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Agreed, what a way to short circuit the primary reward system of men en masse.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 01:34 PM
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Porn is distinct in that the majority of the experience is fundamentally based on the female perspective. The penetration, the excitement, the domination, and the “blissful”masochism, ie the “surrender”; these are the foundation elements of the pornographic experience This line resonated with me because I think it describes the effect on porn on me and I think many other men. I think so many men are so used to watching sex from the perspective of the submissive, they subconciously think this is …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 01:17 PM
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