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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How Can I Shift My Happiness Away From Women? Specifically I Want To Stop Checking My Phone So Much And Dictating My Mood On Whether She Texted Me Back...You can text her all you want. But any time you are about to text her something because you are expecting a response or reacting a certain way, type it out and scrap it. The expectation is what's making you unhappy. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 03:34 AM |
| 1 | For those that felt they were not meeting enough women but are now, how did you fix it? I've found that as I focus on improving myself/my life, I tend to meet fewer women.You may meet fewer women while dream chasing but it'll be worth it mate. I appreciate hearing this... it's what I've been telling myself and hearing it reflected is comforting in some way. I actually stopped using porn a while back (similar experience), but tinder has not been good to me haha | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 05:38 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Spend Less Time Thinking About Women Between Dates? Why Do You Think I Spend So Much Time Thinking About Her/Them?How do you meet so many people? Honestly, I've been taking on different volunteer opportunities and attending different events and asking people out, but I have may 10-20 women total that I have talked to in the last few months. I think I've developed more skepticism than abundance after striking out with these women. Not that I haven't made friends, etc but my goal has been to find a girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Spend Less Time Thinking About Women Between Dates? Why Do You Think I Spend So Much Time Thinking About Her/Them?Man texting 1-2 different people at a time is taxing to me. Can definitely relate hahah | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 02:49 AM |
| 2 | What Are Your Goals In Regards To Seduction (especially in regards to longer term relationships)? How Can I Continue Working On Seduction Without Becoming Needy?This vibes with me... my goal is to find a companion, but I find that learning seduction has enabled me to interact with more women romantically. Thank you for sharing! Do you find yourself frequently imagining a relationship with girls you just met? ONSs don't appeal to me so much, but I find that I often get too excited when I just met a girl. This leads to me texting her too much or just being generally distracted throughout my day. | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Second date with Italian girl went well (I think) next move?No problem man, you'll get where you want to be with women! Just keep learning and experimenting. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Second date with Italian girl went well (I think) next move?You're taking lead/being assertive. When I "ask for a date" I always say "Let's grab a cup of coffee later this week" instead "Do you want to grab coffee later this week?" In a similar vein, I will offer two options on either the time or place depending on the conversation. For example, "How is CoffeeShop X at 6:30pm Wednesday? I can do Wednesday nights as well." Also here are a few misc. tips for getting more dates through Tinder... Just want to help a bud out, use them if they help: -Start goi… | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 12:37 AM |
| 10 | Do you think she needs to be physically attracted to you?Mark Manson does say in Models that you're probably only going to have success with 1 to 2% of women and that even the best of men only have success with about 10% (granted that is a big difference). Whether looks matter or not, I think you have the right idea with the numbers game. Something I am working on now (I noticed post NYE party that if I open a girl at an event [e.g. volunteering, party], I will tend not to approach/open a second girl because in my mind, I already "did the scary thing"… | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | How often do you text her out of the blue?I've had several women tell me they were interested in me because I seemed to be attracted to them but I didn't push to hang out, do stuff with them, or even talk to them like every other guy. Can you elaborate on this a bit? Not that you should be pushy, but it seems like you should get her to hang out in person if you want to move forward. | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Why hell do men of every race want white girls?!I get it. I really do. But there are 1000's, if not 100's of 1000's of men working on themselves. And many of them are not getting the results they want. You know why? Because no guy is attractive to 100% of women and no guy gets 100% of the women he wants. Most guys probably aren't pulling the numbers that they claim to be on the internet (and frankly, look around. there are a lot of posts by people who haven't had their first girlfriend, etc.). The guys that are pulling high numbers are spendi… | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 04:03 PM |
| 7 | Why hell do men of every race want white girls?!Why do you like white girls? White girls aren't magical fairies that give you three wishes if you capture them. Seriously what the fuck?? I hope that opens your eyes to how whiny you sound right now. stfu and work on yourself. Best of luck! | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Thanks seddit/rsd for helping me with my first lay and relationship. I'm now single, but learned a lot!How did you find the inner circle group? | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What makes men like Damon, McConaughey so confident? And what is it about them that we love so much? (X-Post from AskMen)Watch their interviews, the same confidence shines through in my opinion. Some people probably think their confidence/charm is what made them successful as actors, other people probably will say that being successful made them confident/charming. What do you think? | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 08:51 AM |
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