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FDS SUCCESS!Gasperca/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:27 PM
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RANTGasperca/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:10 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYGasperca/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:00 AM
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Oh yeah, I think they sell the anger management issues as a standard equipment with the BMWs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:04 PM
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No instagram addicts. My ex would spend literally hours on it, following and liking what has seemed every single girl on IG. Posting all the time to his feed. Usually his car, which leads me to the next point. No car obsessed guys. I also love cars by would not spend every dime I saved to 'improve' the shitty 15yo car or base my whole personality around it. And the third one connects, no BMW drivers. Proved myself like 3 times that they are unreasonable. Pure coincidence that I met them, all 3 p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:03 PM
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Honestly, IDGAF if they get offended, I love big dicks and won't lie about it. It's the girth for me. I hate what I call 'breadstick' dicks and had the luck to only run into one of those. Did not come back to it though 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:27 PM
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I did the same thing after pledging here for Valentines day. Buying myself a reminder to be in love with myself. I love it and has worn it every single day since. It looks amazing and good for you Queen! Keep growing ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:26 PM
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Preach!! So happy that queen Cici made it to our page, she is such an FDS Queen and is preaching self love and improvement. Yass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:51 PM
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I am so happy you find it to be! Thank you so much ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:13 PM
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I am so glad. If you are ever wondering if you should do it - please do not hesitate at all. I was so cought up in everything him related, I didn't even notice how I was bering brought down. I know you can do it. Keep shining Queen! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:40 AM
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Thank you Queen! I'm definitely planning to! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:38 AM
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Thanks so much!! ❤️ I am so happy that you find my story encouraging, it is exactly why I posted, I really want this community to see that it works, and that focusing on ourselves will not fail us! Much love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:17 AM
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Thank you so much Queen! We are all worthy of it and we need to do it for ourselves! I tranferred the love, she sends lots of kisses back! Much love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:12 AM
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Exactly!! There isnt a man who was this happy to see me, every single time 😂 😂 sending you love and kisses! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:08 AM
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Yaaaas, thanks Queen for remembering ❤️❤️ Thank you so much, she brought so much light to my life 😍 sending you kisses! 😘😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:49 PM
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Yeees! That's why I shared, I love seeing women thriving without the LVs bringing them down! Much love Queen ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:43 PM
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Thank you so much Queen! My heart is filled knowing that my story resonates with the strong females here! ❤️ Go get that license! 💪💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:58 PM
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Thank you, this means so much! Pup is sending kisses ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:53 PM
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Thank you so much Queen! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:53 PM
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Thank you so much! We are still getting used to each other and being just 'us two', but its going great so far! Mine was actually complete opposite - you dont need to drive, you dont need a car - meaning keep depending on me to get around. So happy I am turning that around! Much love Queen ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:52 PM
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I wouldnt be surprised at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:20 PM
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7 milion people. The town I live in has less than 25 thousand. So you can imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:10 PM
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Yup, my LVX did the same. Also following and liking random models pics on IG. When I confronted him about it, trying to explain how by doing that he becomes a part of the problem the women are dealing with every single day of our lives, he turned that into my jelaousy, and me not being comfortable that there are other women willing to share their bodies with every man on IG. Depraved POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:48 PM
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Just to provide a gist for you of what is ACTUALLY happening... Not only they share the photos, but in my country these days there is a huuge affair, as there was discovered a Telegram group which was intended exclusively for men. There, they shared hundreds of images of women. Not porn actresses and nude modela, OF girls, but real every day women, their girlfriends, EXs, friends, random girls on the streets, etc. They would find a random girl on IG, take the photos from her profile and post it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:45 PM
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Yuck, he can be the male of the highest value, I aint submitting to shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:48 PM
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This is so true! I had just remembered, the very first time I met my LVX, when we were going back to the car from the restaurant we were in, I was wearing very small heels, but it was cold outside and slippery on one uphill. He definitely saw me struggle, but never offered to take my hand or help me up the hill. Just continued walking. Later in the relationship, he would always walk before me. He would complain sooo much how we look bad because I am always few steps behind him, but never made an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:33 AM
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So beautiful and thoughtful! Thank you so much, wishing you a lovely Valentines! Much love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:41 PM
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Keep him in the past where we belongs! 🗑️ I'm so happy to see women grow and won't put up with that kind of BS anymore! Much love Queen ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:17 AM
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Word. I even remember telling my LVX that sex felt like him using me as a masturbation tool. That didn't seem wrong at all to him. I was so stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:52 AM
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On point sister. I also saw the post and commented on it, it striked the same feelings. My advice: get out. He acted like a dumbfuck, and now he's mad at her for exposing (accidentally) his dumbfuckness. Told her you dont wanna be Mrs. Dumbfuck 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:04 PM
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Much love Queen ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:30 PM
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Happy birthday OP! 🥳🥳 You are some serious, serious goals. Here, you dropped this: 👑 You inspired me to do the same for my 30th, coming in a couple of years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:31 PM
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Louder for the scrotes in the back with their heads up their asses! I wrote something similar on a post that was dealing with the hate towards FDS on other subs. I am not here long, but from the very first minute I became active here, I was welcomed with understanding and support. Not one, I repeat not a single post or comment was preaching hate towards men. Every single one was pointed towards our improvement, and bettering ourselves. And I must admit that it kinda hurts and sucks that there is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:56 PM
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The same, once or twice a month, depending on the stress level, and how my anxiety has been that month. For me it is also the feeling that does it, really slows my mind from overthinking, thats why I love it xD I also roll myself, but my friends who hate rolling turned to bongs and they're saying its pretty good as well. Maybe you can try it to see if it suits you. Cleaner hit, no burning etc. Nice job with the takeaways! I also had problems with it, so I made myself cook as a part of my improve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:52 PM
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Actually, now that you're mentioning it, I could agree. But exactly as you said, that time of not caring (also lets me introspect) is like a gift for me. I also sleep much better so am kinda better prepared for when the anxie comes back xD and eating, omg munchies are the best, while it lasts. I usually regret it tomorrow lol, but at the time - the best time 😂😂😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:19 PM
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Not directly related to the money issue, but I have seen other subs that are dealing with what is being written here. I wanted to ask you, why is there such hate towards this sub? Since I got here, I have never seen one post which message or intention was "hate men". All the posts were directly related to improving ourselves, bettering us and making us stronger, for ourselves. At least thats how I perceive them. Not one post was hating on other subs, and yet there is one dedicated specially to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:13 AM
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A promise ring idea is soo good, I included it in my VD's plan. Thanks for sharing! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:36 AM
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I hated VD as I would usually end up disappointed. Last one I spent fighting with LVX. So this one (thanks for great ideas in the comments!) I am going to be spending alone and I am actually looking forward to it! The 'promise ring' idea from one of you really struck, so I am going to buy myself one, to promise myself that this year I am focusing on me, my goals and my happiness. I am scheduling a massage from one of the best studios in the city that has been praised for their covid measures and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:35 AM
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Hearing you, as I also had the issue with liking naked girls photos. I was gaslighted for soo long about it. At one point, I was considering posting the AITA for making him stop liking other girls photos. Like am I too jelaous or not trusting? Is it stupid that it bothers me? FDS has literally saved me from misery. Happy that you are here with us now, and wish you tons of happiness working on yourself scrote-free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:12 AM
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Yes yes thousand times yes to this!! My LVX's bathroom was always dirty. Like, I have seen it more times dirty than actually clean (I've spent too much time with the scrote, my hopefully completely behind me pickmeisha days). Any time it was clean, I knew that his mother visited (poor lady). F I was dumb!! Another thing to add: beard hair. He used one of those machines that trim the beard. He would do it over the sink. Small hair everywhere. Always. Like, you cannot even bother to wash it down t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:04 AM
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Exactly. The voayeurism part of it is what disgusts me the most. Like, you are literally looking at other people having sex. While they're doing it. Pleasuring yourself alongside. Isnt that the definition of voayeurism?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:52 PM
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Never, NEVER aspire to be a 'Dream girl' for anyone but yourself. Let alone a NVM. By trying to achieve it, you are letting him project HIS expectations of what YOU should be. If you're worrying that he ended up with his 'dream girl', just remind yourself that he is with someone who lets him project his own view of 'perfection' on her. What he expects by no means should be something you should comfort to. Only what you expect and aspire to be your own Dream girl. For yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:47 PM
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Oh oh mine ex scrote had the same issue. Severe addiction to porn, but he defended it as it was 'amateur' and 'he's lookind at stuff he would usually see in real life'. Then why look at it on screen? Yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:32 PM
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When I wrote it out I realised how ugly that really is, to tell something like that to someone. Let alone your girlfriend that you supposedly 'love'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:38 PM
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Thanks to the kind stranger for my first ever award, much appreciated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:08 PM
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Yeees, the "dont tell me what to do" was cold af, made my eve hihi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:08 PM
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The same. You never even know what you did. Weird creatures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:05 PM
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Thank you, will do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:02 PM
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The old Lady was such Queen energy! I wish the same energy upon all of us! Thank YOU, I have never felt more welcomed and understood anywhere else. Much love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:14 PM
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Exactly why I decided to share. I overcame the embarrasment of being with such person to share the experience, as it may help other girls here recognise the same behavioural patterns and know that it is not okay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:11 PM
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Me too! Dodged a bullet there! But it is important to note that I would -never- recognise it, or do something about it if it wasnt for the FDS. Much love Queen❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:08 PM
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Exactly! Like if you're so in touch with your feelings and emotions, you wouldnt put up with the 'torture' from my side. But yet, he decided to do it (since he is a bigger person), and then punish me for it. You dont even know how glad I am, you really made me take my life back! Thank you! Much love. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:06 PM
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Thank you for this. This explains soo much, and thank you for opening my eyes. This: And what they deem worthy of punishment is always changing for them depending on their own mood and maybe, sometimes, for fun to feel in control and powerful over you. Exactly this! You never know what you're going to be 'punished' for, what you did wrong. Well I am tired of picking at my every action to see what may have stepped on his toes. F that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:39 PM
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Thank you! I was starting to get used to it, which scared me to the bones. But the gaslighting, unbearable. Much love for shining the light on this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:28 PM
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Me too. Still makes me wanna puke. And turning it on me, so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:15 PM
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Yeah, and he said it like soo nonchalantly, it made me sick. The 'turd rod' is soo on point and made me laugh, thank you for this! Much love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:14 PM
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Well I was always very vocal, in terms that I cannot simply keep quiet when something feels not right to me. Like not being treated fairly. So I was vocalising it pretty heavy that his behaviour is not good, and is not a proper way to treat a woman you're dating. In his view, I was bugging him. He didnt like to hear that he was doing something wrong, and pointing at it felt as an attack to him. So basically I was bugging him with my complaints, and every time I did it, it 'ruined his day'. So I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:13 PM
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Thank you dear, it felt like the right thing, and still feels, so to me that is a confirmation I did what is right for me. Hahaha and the 'punishment', I totally deserve it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:06 PM
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Lurker at the sub for some time now. Thank you all for the strength I am getting from your words. Also jumping in here to ask if we can (pretty please) make a Deezer equivalent, spotify is not available in my country? Thanks and keep up lifting each other!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:09 PM
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Having to imagine that a person like this is indeed existing at this very moment, is so traumatizing for me, to the point that my brain wants to believe that this person is a troll or something like that, just so it can explain to itself why would someone write something like this... I cannot wrap my mind around these words coming out a person's mind, it really makes me scared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:18 PM
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