| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 123 | I got my daughter back!!! | Gemsix | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/23 02:17 AM | |
| 102 | Reminder to my fellow man. | Gemsix | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 09:40 PM | |
| 12 | It’s crazy how | Gemsix | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 03:10 AM | |
| 0 | Get it together. | Gemsix | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 07:11 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| -4 | Get it together.Alright bro, that last sentence hit way too close to home. I don’t think I’ll ever get married again after the women I’ve slept with. Married, kids, house, perfect life - but wants a one night stand side with a “bad boy” to relive her younger days and to feel “alive”… then she realizes she made a mistake, blocks you out because she’s scared her husband will find out, all while you’re sitting there like 😐. I’m not even bragging or anything, I’ve definitely hated myself for the relationships I alm… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 09:53 AM |
| -6 | Get it together.That’s my ex wife’s boyfriend’s title. Don’t disrespect Jamal like that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 09:31 AM |
| -4 | Get it together.This doesn’t make sense. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 08:42 AM |
| 0 | Get it together.2/3 are inaccurate. Made it 2.5 years, what a hellish situation it was. Your 100% is more like 33.99% Very poor accuracy, I’m sure your ex wife would agree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 08:39 AM |
| -6 | Get it together.Imma dispense whatever advise I have amigo, that’s America for ya. Take it or leave it, that’s up to you. It seems like you just spewed out the same quality bullshit I did. I’ll leave it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on account resetsYou scared of her or what? If she pops up, tell her to fuck off. Idk why you’re so adamant about running away from her. To your last question if “thoughts”? Get therapy man, I’m being real. Your thought process isn’t even close to working on yourself, you’re being haunted by your ex wife and need to put your blinders on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Wife cheated on me with my fatherI agree with your sentiment but no matter how much my ex wife fucked me, I’ll never be okay with violence towards women. It’s weak. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Wife cheated on me with my fatherI was speaking on karma. She’ll get it, don’t worry - I’m watching it happen in front of my eyes as we speak. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Wife cheated on me with my fatherSorry man. That’s an incredibly backstabbing thing to do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 05:15 PM |
| 0 | Wife cheated on me with my fatherSmashing his wife. Did you not read the damn thread? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 05:15 PM |
| -1 | Wife cheated on me with my fatherNah, just the dad. What a piece of shit father. The wife will get what she deserves, but just not violence. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Grew an inchWell shit dude, why didn’t you specify that?… Kind of an important specification lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Grew an inchThe Ashwagandha doesn’t do shit for growth but as you stated, used to reduce stress and I’m assuming performance anxiety. Beet root thins your blood and drops your blood pressure, and the cayenne opens up your capillaries. I’m sure OP’s claims are legit, I’ve taken something similar for cardiovascular health and my shit was like a bricked log. 🪵 Either way, I don’t want to see any dick pics on here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 05:01 PM |
| 9 | Grew an inchIf you’re the reason I see a dick pic posted here I’m going to be angry | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Did you file or did she?Well I figured you were asleep in which it looks like you were. Me saying tomorrow was meaning today lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Did you file or did she?Who cares man, it’s done. So what are you doing to better yourself tomorrow? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Did you file or did she?I want to banter you for not seeing that coming or being naive, but I’m sure you’re like me and just believed your SO wouldn’t do you like that - but she did. Sorry to hear that man, you don’t deserve that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/24 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Getting back put there sucksThe older men get, the more valuable they become. The older women get, the less valuable they become. Once a woman is past 30ish and after she’s done having kids, she’s basically just “there” for the kids long term. Men are different though; society laughs and puts us down but when she’s 50, she’s gunna be realllll sad. When you’re 50? You’re going to be building your legacy so your generations after you know who the fuck you are. Can you give me a ride in your McLaren please? (This sounds super… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/24 07:13 AM |
| 2 | ED after divorceNgl man and this sounds contrary to “professional” help - getting off of lexapro and Wellbutrin was the best thing I’ve ever done. Sometimes we really do need to feel the feelings of pain to progress, it stopped me from feeling that. However, I would have probably killed myself if I didn’t have them when I needed them - so there’s that | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/24 05:43 AM |
| 1 | ED after divorceIdk man, I had to stop taking Lexapro because I could fuck for hours - but couldn’t even feel my dick. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/24 05:00 AM |
| 3 | How much money did you lose in your divorce?Unfortunately if you marry crazy af - $280k is cheap | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/24 12:18 AM |
| 1 | How much money did you lose in your divorce?Sorry man, that’s rough | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/24 12:17 AM |
| 10 | How much money did you lose in your divorce?15k, best investment of my life | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/24 12:17 AM |
| 2 | She is apologizing for cheating and begging to withdraw from divorce.Fucking A bro after all the shit we’ve gone through, I hope it’s worth something to someone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/24 05:12 PM |
| 2 | She is apologizing for cheating and begging to withdraw from divorce.Listen to this man | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/24 05:10 PM |
| 6 | She is apologizing for cheating and begging to withdraw from divorce.You start by prioritizing your children’s mental health instead of your need to “fix” your wife due to insecurities within yourself. Don’t damage your kids any further. Just being real with you, DAD. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/24 03:03 PM |
| 15 | Getting back put there sucksTbh bro? Fuck all of that. Grab your fucking sack, hit the gym and be the demon you’ve always wanted to be. You don’t need a woman to make you happy and that’s why you’re feeling sad. As a friend, shut the fuck up, go to the gym to clear your mind and become the person you’ve always been scared to be, that’s the guy your wife married to begin with. Get it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/24 07:42 AM |
| 1 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileIt’s not about enforcing the law or getting anyone in trouble, it’s about how difficult it is to get out of a marriage - so most people stay. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/24 11:28 PM |
| 1 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileBro… when it comes to marriage, the law will absolutely come after you. It is what the contract says. Have you even been married? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileWhat’s “committed” to you though? And who’s going to enforce these commitments? That’s what’s marriage is dude. It’s the commitments on paper, that’s it. But it’s legally binding so there’s actual consequences to making stupid choices. Marriage is literally just a contract bro, it’s saying you won’t fuck the other person over and you won’t fuck them over. If you break the contract, you’ll have repercussions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/24 01:20 AM |
| 3 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileNo, unfortunately you can’t. The thing about marriage is that it’s a legal contract. There are certain things you can and can’t do, and there are things that if you do them - you get in trouble. Divorce is very expensive, messy and can ruin lives - most people would rather work things out than have to get a lawyer and fight like hell… so they stay, and work it out. That’s what marriage is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 07:26 PM |
| 4 | I’m just gonna disappear for awhileBecause sometimes… she’s “the one”. She’s the one who will be different and won’t take advantage of you, she loves you and prioritizes you. Why wouldn’t you want to lock that down for the rest of your life? That’s gold! Until she starts taking advantage of you, tells you she doesn’t feel “in love with you anymore”, and starts prioritizing her family and friends over you. None of us thought we get divorced man, none of us would have done it if we knew. The majority of men here are honorable guys … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 06:44 PM |
| 2 | The Gym is NOT the Answer for Everyone…and Could Even be Dangerous…I agree | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I got my daughter back!!!Meaning the entirety of august is to see if she’s able to get a job to support herself and my daughter or not. I’m able to with ease so if she can’t, it’s obvious I’m better suited to be the stable primary for our daughter. My wife won’t last here without tons of help, she’ll be going back to her family in the other state and I’ll be here with our daughter. The judge set this up to challenge her and she’s going to fail, he just gave her a chance to see how serious she is about providing for our … | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/23 12:12 AM |
| 1 | I got my daughter back!!!Thanks! Texas | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/23 02:45 PM |
| 3 | I got my daughter back!!!Good advice and well received, thanks brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/23 04:08 AM |
| 3 | I got my daughter back!!!Yep I agree and my lawyer said the same thing. I’m ready to be super cautious. Thanks for the heads up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/23 03:34 AM |
| 9 | I got my daughter back!!!Oh yeah man, she got caught lying a few times in court because I had evidence. She thinks she can play games but I’ve had enough of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/23 03:32 AM |
| – | I got my daughter back!!!Meaning? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/23 03:24 AM |
| -9 | Come to the realization and its not goodSounds good. Thanks for letting me know. -Gem | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Why didn’t I get the talk?Same here | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/23 08:58 PM |
| 50 | Why didn’t I get the talk?“If he cared and paid attention he’d figure it out” It’s crazy logic | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/23 08:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm entirely innocent, but I might be going to jail. What do I need to know?That’s if he doesn’t get raked over the coals and has false allegations in the meantime of him “creating a game plan”. Women will screw you so fast it’s stupid and if you take too much time to plan, you’ll get fucked in the meantime. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/23 04:40 AM |
| 1 | I'm entirely innocent, but I might be going to jail. What do I need to know?These dudes will say “my wife is a lying bitch who is trying to take everything I have” and say “I want to keep them in their mother’s life for their own good” in the same sentence. It’s fucking sad, spineless shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/23 04:39 AM |
| 2 | I'm entirely innocent, but I might be going to jail. What do I need to know?Whatever man, stay in your feelings if you want but don’t be surprised if you get the shaft when it comes to seeing your kids. It’s not revenge dude, it’s fighting for your rights to be a dad. The welfare of your children is to have a dad who will fight tooth and nail for them, not a dad who will let them be subject to your wife’s abuse due to your passiveness and neglect. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/23 04:36 AM |
| 3 | I'm entirely innocent, but I might be going to jail. What do I need to know?Quit being a fucking lay down and destroy your wife with whatever evidence you have. God, some of you guys are so fucking spineless and wonder why you have allegations against you. Divorce is not peace and love, it’s fucking war to the core. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/23 02:34 AM |
| 13 | Filed a response to the divorce petitionOne thing I’ve learned by being in sales is to be even keeled. Don’t let the highs get too high, and don’t let the lows get too low. Enjoy your small wins but don’t gain arrogance because pride cometh before the fall. Best of luck to you brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/23 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Reminder to my fellow man.Oh yeah while you’re in the process of divorce, I’m talking about right before. That’s a good distinction though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Reminder to my fellow man.Contempt of court for what? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Reminder to my fellow man.Good for you man, wish you the best! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Reminder to my fellow man.There’s not a crazy amount of an upper hand but there’s a few that come to mind. 1) You are on the offense throughout the whole thing which psychologically is empowering, instead of feeling like you’re always on the defense. 2) You’ve had more time to gather evidence and get your ducks in a row as opposed to being surprised with getting served and only having a certain period of time to get prepared for court. 3) If you have the chance to speak in front of the judge, you’ll be the one speaking f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Reminder to my fellow man.Well said | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Reminder to my fellow man.There’s not a crazy amount of an upper hand but there’s a few that come to mind. 1) You are on the offense throughout the whole thing which psychologically is empowering, instead of feeling like you’re always on the defense. 2) You’ve had more time to gather evidence and get your ducks in a row as opposed to being surprised with getting served and only having a certain period of time to get prepared for court. 3) If you have the chance to speak in front of the judge, you’ll be the one speaking f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 02:14 PM |
| 6 | Should I delete her texts?It can be seen as you tampering with evidence and if you have the texts, her lawyer can request them from you in the discovery. Don’t do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 05:54 AM |
| 9 | Reminder to my fellow man.You gotta drop everything on em and if you think she’ll lie, hit those lies head on so the judge knows she’s lying. Make her look absolutely incompetent, because she is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 02:35 AM |
| 7 | Reminder to my fellow man.Go nuclear day 1 or else you’ll look like a clown and you’ll need to bend over. Attack with everything you have day 1. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 02:33 AM |
| 8 | DivorceSounds like you’ve been too giving and passive | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 08:07 PM |
| 24 | Did anyone else’s ex become a “strong independent woman”?It usually comes from their shitty mom | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/23 02:12 AM |
| 1 | My wife of 17 years just left with my 9 year old sonMy heart goes out to you brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Don't we all just want to be loved?I can’t fuck my dog though. Well I CAN but it’s highly discouraged and I’m sure he wouldn’t appreciate it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/23 05:32 AM |
| 11 | Anyone else cry and do a bunch of embarrassing shit when their wife asked for a divorce?I feel like if you haven’t gone to this extent then you truly didn’t value your marriage, but that’s just my opinion. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/23 02:35 AM |
| 33 | Anyone here feel like they're just never gonna date again?Say it louder for the naive young lads in the back! | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/23 03:13 AM |
| 1 | my 14 years old princess wants nothing to do with me boys, it's over for meMajority of Reddit users are very young and naive to reality. Just gotta forgive their ignorance. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/23 01:07 AM |
| 6 | Paperwork finalized, depressedMove and live however you’ve always wanted. She set you free amigo, sounds like a blessing in disguise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/23 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Spinning the wheel of emotions…Have you eaten something lately? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/23 10:47 PM |
| 10 | Wife Blames me for everythingIt feels like women these days want to be “independent” and “strong” but don’t want the responsibility that comes with it. I feel for ya man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/23 09:50 PM |
| 5 | Satan Promised WomenShut up dude | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/23 12:22 AM |
| 2 | It’s crazy howThanks so much for your support | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Just curious to know. How many of y’all had people who thought you were a lucky guy because your wife was attractive but in reality the only thing you were getting was starfish sex and she never initiated ?I hate this for you but thank you sharing. Best wishes to you brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 03:21 AM |
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