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A high value individual will not be engaging in sex especially if they do not like the person . Like actually use your brains
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:26 PM
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Quality men and women are not struggling to find other quality people to partner up with .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:24 PM
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But the reality is that they didn’t ask you . Everyone has their requirements regardless of if you think they are worthy of it or not . A stranger talking about their personal requirements did not ask you or challenge you to meet those requirements. So why get mad at random people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:10 PM
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The question itself also shows how lazy and incompetent the individual asking the question is. It’s up to you to figure out what it is you are trying to achieve by being in a relationship and what kind of person and qualities will suit you. Then you use that information to vet any potential romantic partner. By asking that question you obviously do not know what you want and do not have the ability to vet so you really shouldn’t be dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:06 PM
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They do not actually want to have kids and be responsible for them and do what the default parent does. They want to have the title and praise without having to raise them or financially contribute. This is why men can go on till their old age and not bother fathering a child if they haven’t had the opportunity to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:56 PM
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Before you start dating you need to get a clear precise idea of who you are , what kind of person you are looking for , why you are looking for them , what you are offering , what you need them to offer . Then use this list every time you talk to someone, if they do not match that list then move on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:45 PM
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I’ve felt that I could depend on my fiancé from day one as he naturally took charge whilst being considerate . He always does what he says he will and hasn’t let me down . It took a while for me to fall head over heels as I typically do not fall for anyone and I’m really picky. But I can honestly say I felt like I could genuinely depend on him and let my guard down before I fell for him , I think that’s what allowed me to fall for him in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:42 PM
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They go for quality men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:09 PM
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Date men. They will treat you how you are looking to be treated. Issue solved
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:58 AM
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Who in your family was telling you to do that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:32 AM
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I’m really confused to be loved you have to actually have positive attributes that people love and admire about you and want to spend time with you . When you say you want men to be loved for who they are . Give me an example of this that something people should generally look at and think this person is great but are not doing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:46 PM
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There doesn’t seem to be such a high level of dead bedroom in relationship dynamics which aren’t 50/50 financially. When the guy actually financially takes care of everything, the women in those relationships are always very appreciative and supportive of their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:37 PM
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I think normal relationships have more cases of dead bedroom once partners really get to know each other and loose that respect and admiration for one another especially after multiple disappointments and broken promises. With gold diggers they will always have that respect and admiration as long as you keep your end of the bargain which is funding them so yes there’s less chance of dead bedroom as they are forever grateful that you are keeping your end of the bargain
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:54 PM
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There’s also a rise of single women soho are not interested in dating . Women who get married and loose their spouse or even get divorced are more likely to not bother getting into new relationships compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:51 PM
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We have no kids and a bi weekly cleaning service . I usually wake up early to go Pilates or go on a long walk. We’re both adults who look after ourselves and choose to be together out of love not slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:48 PM
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Madness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:46 PM
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Carry on the way you’ve always have. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:13 PM
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Ok but what are these responsibilities? Traditionally the responsibility of men have been to provide and protect. If you are saying providing financially is not part of the traditional gender roles men want the exactly what is the traditional gender roles men are looking for ? And whatever they decide to off load do they expect the woman to pick it up. So women should be home makers , nurture and provide financially too ? Would you say this is still a traditional family?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:59 PM
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What is traditional gender roles for men which takes out financially providing for the family out of the equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:36 PM
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I usually hear this from men and in my opinion it’s because so many women are willing to put up with men who are down bad on their luck . But men don’t actually stick around for women they view as down on their luck or working progress. That’s why some stats like men are more likely to leave a partner who is sick or has cancer whilst women are more likely to stay and support . Women are more likely to stay and support any bum , broke , homeless etc and as a result some of these men would express…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:10 PM
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This also happens in none western countries. Sounds like you don’t travel or have never spent time with other cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:26 AM
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Who ever said that you were a bitch is wrong for that. she was absolutely right about the last part. If you want to unload something that is so heavy get a therapist. I do not know any average individual who will know how to deal with being told someone’s parent tried to kill them. It’s unfortunate you’ve gone through that but you also need to understand that it’s not something majority of people experience. Also what you are doing is emotionally dumping on someone who is probably not well equip…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:07 AM
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Op there’s nothing to tell. Instead of using all this time and energy on silly made up scenarios of random single mothers. Use your time wisely to actually get the wealth and focus on what you actually want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:19 AM
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He made her up in his head to write an angry post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:33 AM
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Can you name what these nonsensical shit were
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:51 PM
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Op just because you think low of yourself does not mean that everyone has to. Maybe start caring about raising your own self worth and self esteem instead of looking to lower everybody else’s because you hate yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:24 PM
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I am currently engaged. I have my own consultancy business which does very well. My fiancé is a business man and earns 10 times more than me. Everything about our finances is separate apart from a card he gave me with a £5k limit a month when we started dating and was increase to £10k when we got engaged. We’ve had discussions regarding finances and will be keeping it as it is once we do get married however the limit on the card he gave me will be increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:36 PM
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You planning on putting a woman through hell and back ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:25 AM
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A lot of the time when men get into relationships they stop doing all this and leave the full responsibility to women. So yes this is what women find attractive. A responsibility man. Especially when their partner goes from acting like an adult to a child. It’s not so hard to understand the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:33 PM
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I’m talking about the other guy who said he was fat with bad social skills and was attracting ghetto fat women with children. You asked if him being a high earner was equivalent to the choices he had . And if he is fat himself and all he is attracting is that then yes he is attracting exactly what he is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:49 PM
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That’s what you keep attracting. It doesn’t matter if you think you are above or below them. At your current state that is what you are attracting so yes you attract exactly what you are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:19 PM
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Well you are obese and have no friends . So you are attracting your match. A bit ironic , yes but logical it makes sense of another fat person who is a loner and socially awkward to attract another fat person who comes pre packaged with a family. If you are saying that you do not want these women. That means you know exactly what you want . However you also know that the kind of women you want do not want you. And that would be fit , social, fun women with no kids. These women want their equals …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:27 PM
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You are dating with zero idea of the kind of person you want to date and then you are complaining about the matches you get because they are overweight given the fact that you’ve mentioned you are also borderline overweight? Did I get that right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:44 AM
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Same thing with just being white overseas. Just being white is not enough. Especially in traditional countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:06 AM
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Re-read my comment and soak in the first word “just”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:39 AM
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I think what I’m asking is perfectly fine. But you should go ahead and make the post on what you think should be asked instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:43 PM
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As in what people should be looking , I’m not going to comment too much on that as each person is different and what works for me may not work for others etc . But I guess it’s good for people to look beyond the surface. Example someone mentioned that they bring being nice to the table . Being nice alone can aid attraction and can contribute to a good relationship but women aren’t going to get with you and stay with you just because you are nice . Same for men . It’s interesting that there’s so …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:36 PM
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I was looking to see what guys bring to the table and what they look for. I’ve learnt that in this sub people don’t really have much to offer and don’t look for anything valuable to sustain a relationship. Obviously this is not a representation of all men . Just in this sub. But I’m not surprised at the responses
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:25 PM
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Just being white is not sustainable for a relationship no matter where you are in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:21 PM
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There are plenty of people contributing to the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:50 PM
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So all you have to offer is the fact that you are white and male ? And when it comes to keeping these women . Especially the fact that you are looking for people who are not into casual sex so keeping the same person should be important. Do you think just being white and male would be enough to do so ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:26 PM
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You do not need to have a see of option to identify your needs when it comes to a partnership and what you are willing to offer in said partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:19 PM
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I think asking people what they bring to the table in a rude manner is wrong , however in this case I’m curious to find out what others believe they offer and what they require others to offer. It’s a good thing to at least be aware of who you are and what you offer the world and what you need from others for a successful partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:16 PM
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Elaborate according to the 4 questions asked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:13 PM
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Elaborate according to the 4 questions asked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:13 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:13 PM
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Elaborate according to the 4 questions asked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:03 PM
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Elaborate according to the 4 questions asked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:03 PM
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I get that . But I’ve not asked these questions in a hostile manner so not sure what that has to do with my port
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:57 PM
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Meeting a woman’s standards is like foreplay. If you meet her standards and needs , she will be happy to give it up. When you don’t you end up not having much sex . It’s all linked to emotions and needs being meet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:06 AM
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You thinking about a woman taking part of your wealth is you thinking of how you would deal with the situation as a person who hasn’t got access to such wealth . Wealthy people are not concerned about a woman walking away with part of their wealth . They are concerned with legacies and blood line and for that you need real women . And it isn’t just sex . It’s the whole relationship. I’m not sure how old you are or if you’ve ever been in a relationship but given the choice between a robot and a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:24 AM
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I guess lockeroom talk is a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:07 AM
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The robot will just be another reason to be stigmatised and it’s even harder to hide than an OF subscription. You can refer back to my post on this very topic https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/18i7ljh/robot_and_ai_girlfriends/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:57 AM
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Sex is easily available, the guys who are resulting to robots because they can’t date are not lacking in sex . They can easily access porn , sex toys or even sex works . These men are lacking validation from women and a lot of them also lack validation from society as they are seen and treated as losers. A loser with a new sex robot is basically just that, a loser with a sex robot . Having it won’t change the dating market or make them happy or provide them with the validation or status they see…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:19 AM
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Sorry to break it to you but I’m actually from these countries they go to and the guys are left over , they aren’t American or European middle class. This is why they need to go to a poorer country to make their money stretch further and on top of that they aren’t going there due to looking for traditional values, these values are everywhere where they are from , they are going there due to being failures and rejects in their current societies and want to use their money in a poorer country to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:16 AM
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Actually the good ones are taken , the one leaving are the left overs nobody actually wants
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:01 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:58 PM
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It’s really not dumb . If men are better listeners to other men then friendship and loneliness would be easier to obtain as men would be ale to easily form a brotherhood . The same way margilised groups are able to come together for a single cause
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:31 AM
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I guess if men are better listeners to other men then the rise of lonely men epidemic doesn’t exist as men are there for each other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:39 AM
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Do males also have a low tolerance for male sadness ? Do males also have a low tolerance for women’s sadness?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:12 PM
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How many of these do you lot have to write in a single week ???? Instead of screaming about being old and inexperienced and blaming women for your lack of experience. Maybe use this time to hire an x worker or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:48 PM
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Simple do not date long term. I don’t understand what the issue is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:46 PM
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Sounds like you are surrounded by losers who have very low self esteem and nothing to offer. They know it and accept the love they think they deserve. If that’s your friend group I would rethink keeping this kind of company
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:27 AM
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Amongst gen z and lower ( also some millennials ) this question become socially unacceptable. It’s no longer acceptable to ask when or if someone is going to be getting married or when or if someone is going to have children
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:10 PM
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He’s just not compatible with a home body. Lucky for him I love being out and about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:52 AM
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I second that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:49 AM
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Stable doesn’t have to be boring. My fiancé is stable , not the life of the party but at the same time he isn’t a home body , he’s always travelling because of work and when he’s back home he’s always out and about , planning dates , enjoying everything the city has to offer and I love that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:48 AM
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Is that because you’re not around women in real life and you’re only idea of women is the crap that’s recycled in these spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:14 AM
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Well maybe you can find some silence in the company of other men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:26 AM
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Do you really think all women say this ? And if you do why are you not dating such woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:17 AM
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It’s made up scenarios to try and call women goldiggers and get mad at women. Both the examples he gave are seen as creepy and are not socially acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:20 AM
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Best not to get in a relationship with women. Men provide a better companionship , friendship , support and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:31 PM
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Can you post some examples ? What are these girls with older men asking ? And what are the comments on the post
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:53 AM
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He said it at the end . For him a woman going 50/50 shows him that she appreciates him. What I don’t understand is why is he not focusing on those women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:25 PM
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i've never had this fear, but in previous relashionship i had the biggest fear of being stuck in an unfulfilling relationship with someone who refused to grow. it was so suffucating that i broke up with him just before my 27th bithrday
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:51 PM
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What is silly about someone asking for evidence of a statement you’ve made ? That’s literally the basis of science. Childishness is throwing your own opinions and trying to pass them of as facts then trying to deflect when asked to provide some evidence. Anyways I’m going to leave at that. I prefer to debate with intellectual equal s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:53 PM
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I don’t know where the sharing came from. I think you may have some issues when it comes to comprehension of what you’re reading . And yes you should be able to provide examples of this happening. Sure if this is true and it’s happening in society then there will be examples of this .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:33 PM
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Because you said it’s happening to a microscopic percentage of men , meaning a microscopic percentage of their female partners. In other words a small percentage. What did you not understand from that ? Like who , you didn’t provide any examples of these people . And being born a certain height is not an action. Also I asked for what actions are they taking towards their partner to get happy submission from them and what do both their lives look like and all you’ve mentioned is either the guy’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:07 PM
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Exactly!!! So many people confuse stability and maturity with boring
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:57 PM
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Name yours then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:49 PM
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Keanu Reeves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:39 PM
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What actions are those elite men taken to ensure happy submission from this small percentage of women and what does the lives of the women and these men look like ? Do you have some examples of these couples ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:31 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:28 PM
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Women do not want to be controlled and they know that. Or else they wouldn’t be working overtime trying to force women into submission by using all sorts of tactics. If women wanted to be controlled it would have just naturally happened
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:13 PM
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That’s for all redpill men to get together and discuss and strategise ways to that. Similarly to other groups like feminists or civil rights activists have done in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:01 PM
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Majority of these guys are single and lack control on their own lives , finances , love life , physical attractiveness and out of anger they feel the need to control and police women instead of challenging the system which has ranked them at the bottom whilst they watch their peers at the top
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:58 PM
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They only say that because they want to experience being approached and would probably use the opportunity to get sex but they will never respect a woman who they did not go and pick themselves and will always treat that woman accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:44 PM
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Nothing , i find actions attractive and act of service and quality time is my love language
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:15 PM
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This same wall also applies to men . Especially those in the manosphere who are delusional to think that they will magically become successful once they age without actually working towards that success. And when I speak of success I am not talking about going to the gym and aiming to have sex with multiple women. I mean the real measure of success for respectable men in society. Once they reach their 30’s and above they are in for a shock as the realisation kick in that they are still losers , …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:45 AM
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Actually studies show that women reinvest 90% of their income back into the family and men only 30% . They leave unhappy marriages. https://www.globalcitizen.org/en/content/10-reasons-why-investing-in-women-and-girls-is-so/#:~:text=Studies%20show%20that%20women%20reinvest,spend%20more%20on%20their%20children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:28 PM
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Actually it is beneficial because the loosing party is the one that is leaving the agreement. The other party benefits a great deal so they are not looking to leave the agreement
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:21 PM
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Simply do not enter in a relationship. Its obviously not beneficial for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:05 PM
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And this is the best comment from someone who actually has experience with women !!!!! Women like poc code switch. The attributes needed at work or at home or with groups of friends are all different and requires a different version of the individual. Whilst you can tell the men on here just from their responses have no idea about that and as a result not only have a heard time dating but probably have a hard time navigating life in general and are relatively low income as a result
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:21 AM
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A synthetic is only appealing to those who do not have access to the real thing . Every product is created with a consumer in mind . There are loads of other groups who would benefit from this product but for the purpose of this post the ones who we are talking about are the outcasts. They see it as a benefit because for the first time they have access to something they would have had to compete extremely hard in the dating market to achieve. But the thing is the moment they get it the goal post…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:11 AM
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Sweetheart. Anyone who spends this amount of time and effort on a post about why women are not pity fucking him is a lost cause but good luck for trying. At least you still have some passion in there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:44 PM
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It’s survival of the fittest and the weakest men’s genes are meant to die off. That’s literally how things work and unfortunately you are part of that group
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:40 PM
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We recognise just fine . And we focus on the men who are actually succeeding. If you are having an issue….. guess what ? You are part of the bottom of the barrel group
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:35 PM
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They would only appeal to the men who are already outcasts and can’t get a date let alone a relationship. Which is a very small percentage of the population. Majority of the men have no issue attracting women and enjoy their company so a sex doll they can programme will not interest them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:55 PM
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All this mental gymnastics can be spent on raising your value to actually reach your goal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:52 PM
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That’s so interesting. So how much do you pay on average? And when you say Latinas is that you paying for them in the west or when you travel ? Do you take them out on normal dates and pay for a girlfriend experience? Or just go in do the deeds then out ? Do you have a regular? How many times a month ? And what do you get up to when you aren’t with the hookers ? As in as a smart man as described by you , how do you manage your time better than a married man or a guy in a relationship ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:32 PM
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But the thing is average Andy may not succeed on his first few tries but he does succeed because he is not social inept. Also like I’ve mentioned before men’s sexual activity like Ron or only fan is usually hidden because these men are actually accepted members of society and revealing these activities would basically turn them into outcasts . Which is the last thing they want . And everyone has a pool of options . Even the average man . The only person who hasn’t got a pool of options to pick f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:27 PM
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But there’s loads of what you would describe as average men who are in relationships with partners. The only people struggling to attract anyone are really the kind of people that are kind of outcasts which is a mixture of low income , low physical attraction, no social awareness and general not good or fun people to be around . This is why this kind of people not only are having a hard time dating but do not have a great support system around them either due to people not wanting to be around f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:17 PM
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Then don’t improve yourself. It’s an active choice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:36 PM
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So reading my post you think the AI robots will be superior to real women ? How would that be the case ? And what kind of men would they appeal to because not every man would be interested in that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:32 PM
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Do you bang hookers ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:30 PM
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Op is it possible that you misunderstood the situation. Quite frequently when people on a date or a first talking talk about their dating preferences. It’s common for some people to say stuff like I like guys with nice eyes , to compliment the person they are sat in front of who also has nice eyes . Or I like tall guys to compliment who is in front of them and really show interest. Also your idea of tall could be completely different to her idea of tall . As a short woman myself. When I say I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:18 PM
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Is is because historically males escalated display of anger ends in violence and death
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:11 PM
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One more question for you . When you close your eyes and visualise anything . Are you able to picture every details that come to mind or is it just black but you can feel everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:28 AM
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Human beings who are accepted by their peers will always choose other human beings before a machine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:13 PM
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Me . I said that . For more information. Refer back to the entirety of my post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:55 PM
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Because these same human being are not happy because they aren’t able to sleep with other human being and providing them with a lesser version is still not going to make them happy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:45 PM
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thats a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:34 PM
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it really does thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:33 PM
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Sorry for all the questions was only so happy to just get some answers from someone who’s looking forward to. Thank you for being a good sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:18 PM
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Yes I saw that. I’m trying my best to keep this tread neutral and just have a healthy debate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:53 PM
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Thank you. 1. When you say you are an introvert and outsider, what exactly do you mean ? 2. What is your job occupation and if you feel comfortable could you tell us roughly your yearly income ? 3 have you been in a relationship in the past ? Any current relationship? 4 do you interact with people well in your profession ( both men and women ) 5 do you have a good circle of friends outside work ? How much will you be looking to spend on the sexbot ? What are the top 5 functions do you require ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:52 PM
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This is interesting. Do you mind me asking you a few questions? As we’ve not had any enthusiastic guys in the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:46 PM
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Majority of the people who argue for sexbots are the men on here who have a weird revenge fantasy. This is literally the whole basis of the post , to provide an alternative view and demonstrate that this technology won’t be beneficial for them and will in fact be harmful to them and not to the women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:40 PM
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i though it was more similar to the black mirror episide : ill be right back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:38 PM
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what happens if they want to take their girfriend to the cinema ? for a walk ? a dinner date or some casual food. I already said above that doing so will signale to everyone that they are low status. this can impact their frinedship groups if they had any. even their jobs. the same way married men are usually trusted and promototed and added to the inner group of decission makers in coorporate settings. men with AI GF will be judged in a way that can cap their earning potencial
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:14 PM
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these are the creators. I am talking about the other side of the coin. The consumers. regardless of what each creator is making there is a crazy number of consumers to be able to generate the total profit for all of these creators conbined. meaning there are a lot of men paying for these services and hiding it due to many reasons and im sure shame and judgement for everyone would be up there as some of the reasons. if that is the case AI Robots GF will end up being something to hide too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:04 PM
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what i am saying is women didnt care about them as a dating option. but they are still able to go out , hold jobs , have friends. after parading an AI robot around as your girlfriend. that's the rest of society treating you like an outcast. and we also have to remebr that it might take a while for society to accept this practice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:00 PM
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i mean if he can cleans and take care of you then why not looooool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:55 PM
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reminder drink lemon juice tomorrow" when they blow load in her. No hahahahahahahahahahahhahahaha oh lord that was too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:54 PM
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for them to be able to have the profit they have been getting , means there are more people paying for porn that keep it on the low. and this supports my points if men are keeping things like OF consumption secret. i doubt they would want everyone to know they have a robot AI girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:51 PM
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i dont believe women will share men openly. the whole reason why these sex bot are being created is because women are more and more no longer interested in pursuing relationships with certain types of men. maybe the full on sex robot may not be popular amonghst women but i can see an AI version catching on. kind of like a companignion rather than a sex doll
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:47 PM
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now this is a point i didnt even consider. i realy get the benefit of the AI robot doing things like domestic chores. i would even be the first person in line if it was for that. But do you really think women will be interested in AI for sex ? when i think about the biggest consummers of paid sex its always men. Even when the sex workers are men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:43 PM
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Thanks for the comments, you've provided some intresting points
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:39 PM
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Thank you. you're participation wasnt required.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:38 PM
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that could become a reality. you already see this in the dating world for example you get conservative men who swear up and down that they love concervative women who dress , talk behave in a certain manner only to spend the entire time chassing after liberal women and trying to somewhat cage them. if they ever succeed they end up cheating on these women with the opposite of what they were forced to become
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:36 PM
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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:30 PM
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i doubt that would be the case , those who are after AI are not sucessfull with women and there's no woman after them thats why they need the AI. the chads have no problem attracting women and infact pride themselves on having this ability so they have no use for AI
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:30 PM
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so you dont think men who have a hard time with women now will end up having having a hard time with the rest of society when they choose the AI route ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:26 PM
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not everyone who spends money on that have stable jobs and i really believe the AI gilfriends will also be heavely marketed towards that demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:19 PM
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With the amount of money men in the gaming world spend on consoles, games , special computers etc . They will find a way to get these girlfriends if desperate enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:10 PM
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Number 3. I think some of them could be on the verge of being outcasts . For example in this treat you get a lot of men who complain that they aren’t able to date because they are short , or ugly or whatever internalised reason they give themselves. But in reality it’s due to their attitude. If they could only shift their mindsets they will be able to date. These people can have normal jobs and even a few friends here and there. Having an Ai girlfriend would just push them to be completely outca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:48 PM
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So they have the same issue where they couldn’t get human women to sleep with them now they have to find a way to get the AI to do that . It’s very much counter productive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:41 PM
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This is definitely what I was thinking . But you have so many people in this tread alone who claim that this will replace women and women won’t be able to cope when they are replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:38 PM
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Yes . Meaning the small group of people who get excited about it should honestly concentrate on just improving themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:36 PM
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Thank you for this. Will have a look at the post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:07 PM
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i've just seen that. i thought that was in relation to title of a post ? i've only commeted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:32 PM
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Hi , sorry to ask but what does that mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:30 PM
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You know what ! you have blown my mind. i really didnt even consider that an AI with true human consciousness will be unatracted to a human. Especially a human who's already unattractive to other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:27 PM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:13 PM
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maybe but if that was the case there would be a high number of people falling in love with animals. We can argue that they are also like aliens but people do not , at least a large number of the population do not engage with this kind of relationship and its also illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:50 PM
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Actually it would widen the Gap between successful men and those deemed as unsuccessful in society. Successful men will be able to have normal relationships and have families and the unsuccessful ones will have sexbots or AI girlfriends. Even now men who frequent prostitutes and sex workers typically keep these activities hidden . Even in places where it’s legal and if given the opportunity they would rather boast about a dating success rather than a night with a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:50 AM
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This will only elevate having a real woman as a status symbol. Men who are able to actually court and obtain a real woman and have a family ( since there’s a worldwide reproductive decline) will be seen in high regards and those who aren’t able to achieve that will be regarded in low regards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:14 AM
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Of course old people date. But well adjusted adults usually date within their age range. When you start seeing huge age gap relationships this is when you know you are dealing with people who aren’t well adjusted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:14 AM
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Here is one of many . Google and common sense is your friend. Use it . https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201706/are-some-women-who-date-older-men-seeking-father-figure?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:02 AM
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And in general women who come from stable backgrounds do not look at older men as an option
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:43 AM
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I’ve never dated anyone above 3 to 4 years older than me. When I was dating I’ve always avoided older men. I do not find them sexy , I do not want to deal with their children, baggage or bitterness and I make good money I come from a good family so I’m not in a desperate financial situation that would make me want to trade my youth for the sake of survival
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:12 AM
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Yes exactly and these people who get left behind become isolated year on year till they have no one left . This usually affects more men than women . And they wake up one day with no friends, no family and no one wants to be around them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:47 PM
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Facts !
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:44 PM
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False ! If women don’t want you in your 20’s for whatever reason and you have not addressed this issue and tried to fix it. They still won’t want you in your 30’s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:43 PM
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This !!!! I cannot stress this enough. If you did not lay the foundations in your 20s nothing will magically change in your 30s and this is the case for men and women in every aspect of their lives . Wether it is financially or physically etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:41 PM
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Hahahahaha everyone is aware that they should walk away from anything that does not serve them . The only people adamant to stay are those who believe their efforts would make a difference in changing the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:51 PM
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It’s actually a minority. Most western women are liberals and believe in paying their own way. You only have to go through the comments on this sub to see so many women who agree that they are not comfortable unless they go 50/50 . There’s a specific type of woman who doesn’t want to go 50/50 and all these posts literally focus on bashing these type of women in a sick attempt to get them to change their minds when you can easily focus on dating your preference
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:19 AM
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You seem to have so many assumptions when you do not know me . I’m sorry you do not have the support you need . However you are an adult . It’s time to stop with the victim mentality and take some action to better your life instead of protecting onto people on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:08 AM
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There are so many women who are happy to go 50/50 with a man . I will never understand why men will spend day and night worried about the ones who do not want what they want . Focus on your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:05 AM
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Thank you for your response
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:34 AM
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So they are not lonely and are just horny , mad and jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:31 AM
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I totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:21 AM
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All those issues can be part of it , but the overall issue is that these people were not social or had any support system around them so they stay dead for a long time before anyone finds them. And men a more likely to find themselves in these situations than women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:55 AM
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https://amp.theguardian.com/society/2023/nov/22/rising-numbers-of-people-found-long-after-death-in-england-and-wales-study
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:53 AM
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when did i say that i have never been lonely or never felt loneliness ? i've said that i am comfortable being alone even though i do have a great frenship group and family. This hasnt always been the case and it's something that i worked on and managed to get past
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:34 AM
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who is society ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:01 AM
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yes , in fact with most western countries. I just saw the other day of a report about the amount of people being discovered dead in their houses after a long time has risen since the pandemic. The the biggest group who's affected by this are single men. they have discovered so many of them who have beilieved to have been dead since 2020 and no one knew because they didnt have a social life or a community to check up on them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:59 PM
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I think this is harmful, having someone who is unhappy in themselves seek out a relationship and go as far as producing children just for the sake of getting a sense of structure is a recipe for disaster . It will ultimately harm the wife , the kids and himself once he finds out that he still isn’t happy and having all that still hasn’t solved anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:37 PM
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I love this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:37 PM
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Thank you for this response.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:34 PM
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Thank you for sharing this. I hope you are feeling a lot less lonely now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:22 PM
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i get what you mean, but if these people started with getting more friends then there wouldnt be an epidemic. Think about it. There's an epidemic of lonely men , but some how the other half of women who are not in relationships or have children are reported to be the happiest demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:51 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:40 PM
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There’s so much you can do in these situations and I’ve seen many men do this . I have a friend I met at the start of the year who moved here from Germany on a year contract . As soon as he moved to my city he asked his new colleagues to organise a night out to show him around, he used websites like meet up and other sites to find like minded people and create new friendships. Him and I became friends as we were both in the same tennis group . I’m not saying every time you put yourself out there…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:38 PM
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My solution is to start small , start with yourself, friendships, family, pets etc . If you are lonely and unhappy. Expecting someone you are in a relationship with to fix all that is crazy. This is something you have to seek to resolve for yourself and then seek a stable relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:24 PM
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they have less social support and emotional support from whom ? so men do not believe in supporting men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:38 PM
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i think this is very accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:32 PM
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if frindships and family etc does not fill the void or helps with your loneliness , neither will a romantic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:17 PM
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Op I hope you’ve done your market research as I do not know a single woman who will be interested in an AI boyfriend. However there’s loads of women who will probably be interested in an AI best friend which they can confess their deepest thoughts and secrets to and the AI can act like a best fiend / therapist and could even provide style advice etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:43 AM
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Plenty of women are demanding better from man and there’s a rise in lonely men now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:22 AM
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They make these weird scenarios in their head to get mad at . No one says that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:56 PM
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You can call bs as much as you want , I’m in a happy relationship and you are here discussing your luck of relationship is due to you being ugly. Please re read your comments, it’s the fact that you are desperate for women’s attention and at the same time looking down on women and claiming that they are stupid because some women may have gotten involved with the wrong men. Not every woman gets involved with bad men and you can tell a lot from reading a man’s profile. That’s why you’re doesn’t ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:21 PM
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And this attitude is the exact kind of attitude which gets you no matches and will ultimately cause you to die alone. Instead of fighting what women are telling you you should be doing. Actually invest into putting in that effort and you will see the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:12 PM
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Because that’s not the case. There’s a million and 1 reason why you are not getting matches. Some of the common ones it’s not that you are ugly , it’s the fact that as a man you have zero idea of how to market yourself to women and make yourself appealing to them. Women are bombarded with how to attract men messages from a very young age , however men rarely explore how to attract women. Another common reason is no personality, no bio . Women can get away with posting pictures because most men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:58 AM
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They aren’t getting any dates with anyone. This is why they feel the need to be loud about their preferences out of frustration and desperation. People who do get dates would simply choose to date their preferences and get on with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:53 AM
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Being masculine doesn’t mean you no longer wash your clothes!!!!! Grow up .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:26 AM
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That I agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:27 AM
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They will still be able to date within their communities. I am a minority and I’ve never had any issues dating at all. Wether it’s dating within my own race or outside my race. Below average has no colour just like being above average has no colour either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:49 PM
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They are. You’re just below average. It’s ok , you can work on other qualities or do what a lot of women do and look into cosmetic procedures to enhance your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:42 PM
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Which is fine . But that would mean that you are able to start some what of a conversation with a woman and it ends when she figures out you are awkward. These guys are not even able to get a simple conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:41 PM
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There are plenty of below average men who shoot their shot at beautiful women. They are either confident or do not care for rejection. Those who claim to date below are intact on the same level as the people they are trying to date. I’ve seen plenty of men post about lowering their standards to include ugly women or fat women and these same guys will post their profile to be rated on the tinder sub and they are way below average in looks . But somehow they think they are a catch
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:38 PM
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What about it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:31 PM
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There were many women in history who didn’t reproduce and for those who did , it was part of the culture to be born and be married off somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:30 PM
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Those women you’ve described are not struggling. They are looking for something specific. There’s a difference between not being able to attract anyone and not interested in most because you want something specific
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:29 PM
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With a lot of people it’s to do with their social skills. But even with that , they need to look decent enough for others to be open to interact with them in a romantic way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:01 PM
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Average people are attracted to other average people . If you are having an issue with dating average then it should be an indication that you are below average
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:35 PM
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You want the advice of other people who have been unsuccessful at relationships to help you be successful 🤔 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:52 PM
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Like I said I can recognise that someone is attractive however it doesn’t mean that I am attracted to that person unless I get to know them and they have the qualities that I find attractive. This is for everyone. It doesn’t matter if the person is conventionally attractive or not . And based on the up votes on those comments, there’s a lot of people who agree . So you can carry on thinking your short comings are because of your looks or you can actually unlearn all these self limiting beliefs y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:38 PM
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You clearly didn’t read anything I posted . As I said it doesn’t matter if this man is conventionally attractive or not . Anyone interested in dating me has to fit certain conditions for me to be attracted to them. And just the way you are referring to women as being an object to be railed or giving away pussy let’s me know that women are repulsed by your attitude. And instead of bettering yourself. You try to rationalise it by lying to yourself that it’s about looks when it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:10 AM
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They internalised these redpill lies telling them that they have to be movie star attractive. When In reality attraction for women is completely different to attraction for men. I’m the end they are only limiting themselves with these false beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:12 PM
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I have never dated what anyone would describe as a Chad ever. I usually go for nerdy guys who are quite but confident. And I work in tech with my own business my bills are paid. Whatever you need to tell yourself to sleep better at night , instead of taking the initiative to become a better human being and a better partner. I really feel sorry for all these guys being a bit awkward but being further mislead by all these redpill lies .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:08 PM
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Literally all this !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:23 PM
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Like I said recognising someone is attractive and me being attracted to them are 2 very different things. For me to be physically attracted to someone we have to spend time together. I have zero desire to sleep with a man I do not know even if they are the hottest man alive. Whilst after date 3 with my fiancé hearing his voice alone on the phone was enough for me to cream in my pants
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:54 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:33 PM
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Can’t speak for anyone else but for me recognising that someone is attractive and being attracted to someone are two different things. I can walk around and see men that are attractive but I’m not attracted to them because I don’t know them . For me to be attracted to someone I have to spent time with them and see how they treat me . A guy can be average looking , but if he’s a gentleman, intelligent, ambitious and treats me really well , im really attracted to him. If he stops , the attraction …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:10 PM
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so you dont want women to like or love you for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:59 PM
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Attractive women complain everyday. Who do you think has to deal with all the attention from creeps and the backlash of rejecting them ? The Why is clearly stated in previous comments . And don’t feel sorry for him. He is having the time of his life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:09 PM
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You’ve only exposed yourself as someone who thinks some in the workplace are there to entertain men. And everyone in their 50 will have fewer options men included. The older you get the more invisible you start to become in society. Men are not excluded from this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:15 PM
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You can see from my other posts that I am planning my wedding. And of course I’m concerned. I have 2 younger brothers and I care about them and want them to have a great life. I have never tried to date at work because I care about my job and I have never had any issues with dating outside of work . When you are a well rounded individual dating becomes a lot easier
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:04 AM
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Unfortunately it’s become part of it. It’s very hard to have a conversation with redpill guys without them needing to escalate to anger , insults , excuses and blame
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:04 AM
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You can post what you like . But look at the comparison between what I’ve posted . Which comes from a place of discussion and what you’ve posted which is just pure hate and insult .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:47 AM
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There’s a lot of lies that’s further driving young men to failure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:44 AM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:43 AM
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I hope that also includes therapy . To unlearn the self limiting beliefs you’ve picked up about women. Women are literally telling you they are looking for good , decent men and you dismiss it by telling them it’s all about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:42 AM
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I just got engaged and I do not date at work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:39 AM
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Where is this risking a job for a woman coming from ? Who said anyone needs to risk their job for the sake of dating ? So average men are looking for 10/10 runway models and don’t care about these models careers or who they are as individuals as long as they are attractive. Doesn’t sound like a logical plan and more like a life of disappointment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:37 AM
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You call human beings in essence wanting the same things out of dating trolling . This is why you need to step away from redpill and logically access what’s going on in the world and you will have a lot more success
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:32 AM
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That’s what you tell yourself at night so you don’t self improve
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:28 AM
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Please visit the child free sub Reddit. This is actually a huge issue amongst the child free community where parents constantly target child free people for dating and get offended when we tell them a child free lifestyle includes not dating parents
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:27 AM
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This is what the other poster said men were looking for “ We want someome who believes in us and our vision. We want someone to confide in, encourage us and build us up. Someone to grow with and become a better person with. Someone who sees the end goal and wants to help us get there” are you going to tell me women are also not looking for the exact same thing ? Men and women are both looking for the same things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:10 AM
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Because I pointed out the same thing men are looking for in women is the same thing women are looking for in men . And that the average man needs to stop comparing their dating life to NFL stars as they start to think that women are groupies who just want to benefit from men’s success, when that’s not the case for everyday men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:51 AM
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If you understood female nature you would actually find it easy to get on with the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:23 AM
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How is this an insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:20 AM
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And ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:16 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:58 AM
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This is such a warped way of thinking . First of stop looking at guys in the NFL if you are not even a sports person . And saying women only want to reap the benefits. Are these women not working also ? Are they all living in caves looking for a man to fund their lifestyle? Or are you only referring to a very small percentage of women who are sex workers and influencers . Also women equally want men who will be there for them and , show love and support and encourage them . It’s not a one way st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:57 AM
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No. Just a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:52 AM
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I didn’t insult guys in stem . I was talking about redpillers who also happen to be in stem. You really need to put your emotions aside and actually understand what you are reading
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:50 AM
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I don’t know what that is . But anyone referring to people as lame or thinking people in a certain profession are lame isn’t worth arguing with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:29 AM
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Yes child free means not wanting children which includes other peoples kids. You are not child free if you are considering adopting or becoming a step parent . The clue is literally in the name . Free from children
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:20 AM
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Meaning ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:15 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:37 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:37 AM
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Here we go pointing the finger to women . What experience of women do you have to say that women as a whole do not value good men ? And do not mention sex workers or influencers as this is a very small percentage of women. You are telling me everyday women that you see on the daily are all running after the same awful man and are rejecting good men ? Men , good men are literally dating , getting married and building their careers and starting families. If you need to be taught seek out role mode…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:35 AM
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Yes !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:27 AM
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We all communicate from emotion . Men are not separated from their emotions and the men who do not know how to regulate these emotions displays it by using hate , anger , violence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:13 AM
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It’s not , as most of these guys would be embracing therapy and becoming decent human beings with solid morals instead of blaming everyone calling other men simps and women every ugly names under the sun
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:11 AM
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Because they are the loudest when it comes to blaming and hating the rest of society for their own failures . At some point you need to look inward and take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:45 AM
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If you read correctly I’ve said that you need to be a decent human being who actually love yourself. And you cannot get mad a people for not loving you when you yourself do not love yourself. Everything starts with you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:43 AM
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What traits are those ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:38 AM
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As woman who works in stem. A lot of these guys do not have it together. The same way they are unable to carry out a conversation with women or other people is the same way they perform in the workplace and it becomes very awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:27 AM
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There is no alpha / beta fork . There are just people . And yes you cannot hyper focus on a single area of your life and magically expect everything to work out for you . You cannot be hyper focus on education and not know how to socialise or network then expect to succeed with people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:24 AM
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But I’m not addressing most men . I’m specifically addressing the redpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:20 AM
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That’s because they are at the bottom and unsuccessful. If they were successful, they would get on with it. Because they are at the bottom and shift all blames towards everyone but themselves they mask their disappointment and anger as anti authoritarian
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:01 AM
5

??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:46 PM
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A lot of them are still not listening. You can see that from the multiple post they post hating and the minute you respond with advice telling them to better themselves. They respond with a mixture of excuses and misplaced blame
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:45 PM
5

childfree also means not becoming a step parent by not dating men with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:31 PM
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no idea i'm busy living my own life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:58 PM
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They make up fake scenarios in their head to argue against
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:45 PM
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This is beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:51 PM
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A man with very little appetite for life and everything it has to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:11 PM
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That’s the thing , men are being constantly lied to by other men and they get a rude awakening once they hit certain milestones. So many men think they will reach their peak magically after 30 and young women will be lining up . Reality is majority of women date men around the same age as them or 5 years older . The young 20 year old running after old men are the small percentage of women who have trauma and most of them are only interested in money . Which a lot of these men do not even have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:01 PM
5

Re-read my first comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:45 PM
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It’s definitely can’t . You cannot date someone who is not interested in you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:43 PM
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It’s always because of trauma . Trauma doesn’t always mean something brutal and violent. Trauma can be something as simple as being raised in a poor family and never being able to afford anything . As a result deciding to marry rich so as to never be in that situation again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:42 PM
1

How come ? You don’t like spending time together?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:35 PM
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Yes . If it happens again . There will always be a high percentage of followers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:33 PM
2

I laughed way too hard at this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:31 PM
1

Hahahahahah that’s true , like an extended honeymoon
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:02 PM
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Because majority of young women are not interested in a relationship with old men . There’s only a small percentage who do and this small percentage have this preference due to trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:41 PM
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Are you in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:09 PM
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And I know people who died after getting the vaccine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:11 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:04 PM
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I’ve never asked my dad and I didn’t have to ask my mum . She told us she never wanted children but she grew up in a very religious culture where women didn’t have any other choice than to get married and have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:22 PM
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Neither did I but unfortunately we have to rely on the masses and not everyone is questioning what’s going on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:18 PM
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How come ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:01 PM
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I’m child free so I don’t get anyone’s reason to procreate as they are all routed in selfishness. But people are going to do what they want. It’s not my place to judge other peoples choices
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:59 PM
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What line of work is that ? And do you both do the same thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:53 PM
1

Congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:52 PM
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Love this. How do you keep from fights or getting sick of each other ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:51 PM
2

That sounds like such a dream . Family bonding time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:51 PM
1

Me too !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:50 PM
1

This is so sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:50 PM
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Wow . I can imagine this would be a stressful situation for all. I do hope it doesn’t happen. But you never know with these people in power
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:49 PM
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This is amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:46 PM
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I know . It’s really sad to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:46 PM
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This !!!!! 10 out of 10
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:44 PM
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It’s gross but it was a thing with so many couples lockdowns at home with not much to do . That actually helped the birth rate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:42 PM
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This is cute . Do you have children? Or did you guys have a lockdown baby ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:42 AM
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That’s debatable, plenty of people accepted the first ones . Plenary of people will still go along with that mess unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:32 AM
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I love this . It really helps when both partners actually like each other and like spending time together . Unfortunately there’s so many couples out there with partners who do not even like each other . Let alone love
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:31 AM
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I love this . Yes I can imagine it not being easy but it’s great that you are both used to each other’s company
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:29 AM
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Too many men want mute maids/blow up dolls and not wives
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:29 PM
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As long as he can take the rejection regardless of wether it was nice or harsh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:40 PM
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Men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:16 PM
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Don’t you guys get tired of making up fake scenarios to get angry about ? Like use this energy on improving your soft skills and people’s skills
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:51 PM
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And the common thing with all these people you have mentioned is that they still need to put the work in at all those stages. Things just don’t come to them because they have begun a new stage in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:14 AM
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Yes it has dramatically changed . However in this scenario if you can cover all bills and food and the needs and wants of everyone in the household. You can hire help. Getting cleaner or/and a nanny is not that expensive for someone who can cover all that . And I am speaking as someone who covers all my bills and food and have a cleaner and a cat sitter. It’s not far fetched
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:09 AM
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We are talking about the present. In this present economy. If you can afford to have one person’s income cover 100% of bills and needs and wants etc then you can afford to hire help
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:59 AM
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What you think is unnecessary other people like myself know it’s very much needed for me to be able to operate my work and my business. It’s a different mindset once you achieve a different bracket. The time and energy it would take me to run my household I re-invest that into my business. My fiancée does the exact same thing . We just got engaged and when we do eventually move in together my duties as a wife will not be to cook and clean as we can outsource that. You cook and clean because you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:02 AM
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someone making that kind of money can hire help. i currently live alone and i do not do any cleaning i have a cleaner and a catsitter for my 2 cats. its not rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:36 PM
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like i said i know a lot of women between the ages of 22 and older and they are not laser focused on looks. and if you carry on with that mindset you will rob yourself of happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:13 PM
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yes i do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:01 PM
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Interesting. Sending me a chat we can work through it .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:40 PM
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None taken . I’ve just turned 30 . And the guys I’m talking about are around 30 to 35. I do socialise with women younger and older than me and they are not focused on these traits . Most of the women I know Who are younger than me are looking for guys who are funny , fun , kind and have some sort of life plan , hobbies and are employed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:17 PM
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With a masters in that field you should really be looking to work for companies like Jaguar. They literally take in none graduates for apprenticeship which pay about 50k so someone with a masters will get way more from either applying or a graduate scheme. What is it you want to do career wise ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:13 PM
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I never said it was too late. All I said was it will never magically change unless you take the initiative. And the longer you leave it the harder it becomes to make that change . Do work on reading to understand rather than reading to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:10 PM
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Again that’s poor mindset. I know a couple of average guys who had average jobs and all 3 of them are around 5”4 and 5”6. They are all in solid relationships. One of the guys I know is bald and is an absolute dick but treats his girlfriend like a queen. They have been together for years and just had a baby . The other guy got engaged before the pandemic. And the last one is a single dad of 3 who broke up with his ex and started dating a nursery school teacher and they are now engaged. All 3 of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:08 PM
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Start identifying what it is you are good at , what comes easily to you and what you find hard and need working on . Then use your strengths to help you develop your weaknesses. Also try to identify exactly what it is you want to achieve and start slowly working towards it . The plan to get there can change here and there but the goal will always be clear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:57 PM
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Wrong , plenty of short men are able to attract women without needing to have money. If you are waiting to become rich to attract women . You will be in for a shock once you get the money and you are still not able to attract women because you didn’t address the actual issue why you are finding it hard to attract the opposite sex and you didn’t put in the work in that specific area
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:54 PM
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It’s not made for lazy people to win. Those who put in the effort and work and plan to win do. Those who fall back on excuses and poor mindset do not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:51 PM
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I don’t have stats but I’m sure they would be something available online. However it is common sense that if you do not put the effort in now you won’t reap the benefits later on. I’ve never struggled when it comes to dating or academically however I did very much struggle coming out of school as the corporate world is very different to academic success . So I’m my 20s it took me a while to get used to things . I worked very hard to climb the corporate ladder and being a black woman in tech as w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:49 PM
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This !!!!!!!!!! 💯percent this !!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:30 PM
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Exactly but you only have to look through this sub to see all the young men who have this weird revenge fantasy that they will hit their 30’s and suddenly be rich , buff and successful with women falling at their feet. When you ask them about what steps they are currently taking to achieve this , you get a variety of excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:43 PM
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How old are you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:15 PM
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Yes it won’t work as they completely ignore that dating is a muscles too and ignoring this area then try to date after 10 years makes you a poor dater and a poor partner. This is why you get so many men in their 30’s and 40’s who complain about finally having a good job and money and looking good but are still having issues dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:22 PM
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I’ve seen it so many times on the sub men regurgitating the same thing “give it 10 years and you will be at your prime” etc without actually ever telling these people they need to put in the work now to reach that prime in 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:18 PM
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This !!!! There’s a lot of people on this sub who are being mislead into thinking their issues with dating will miraculously change when they are 30 or 40 because they are in their prime. Which is a lie , they need to address the issue now , if it’s a lack of confidence or poor social skills etc that needs to be addressed now and they need to start building this by going out , engaging with people etc and eventually they will become better at it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:03 PM
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For someone who’s says they have mental issues and you are not experienced but have the money . Going to a sex worker will be the most straightforward and logical option as they will be able to give you what you want with no judgement, without going through the effort of lying and becoming someone else just for sex and they will also be able to teach you things I’m the bedroom without any judgment or the risk of being caught in a lie. If you have to go through all this lying and scheming, you mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:48 PM
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Because he is broke . He can’t even afford that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:32 PM
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That’s if she is into you. Not every woman will be into you and you need to accept that instead of forcefully trying to shame women for finding anything that is not you attractive .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:57 PM
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They have crazy physical standards but want women to have zero standard and preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:55 PM
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only a small fraction of women go into sex work. majority of women have normal jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:17 PM
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A call is not a date . A call is to quickly establish if the person you are talking to online is someone you would want to be out on a date with . And a coffee date is a low effort date . I wouldn’t want to go out with anyone who thought they would rather a quick vibe check date or go for a walk . And usually the dating stage is how the tone of the relationship is set. And relationship which starts out as low effort never change for the better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:06 PM
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I think if you aren’t seriously dating then they are great . But if you are dating with the aim to get into a serious relationship and get married then I would say coffee dates aren’t what you should do. And you actually end up going on less dates but with quality suitors when you start better vetting people instead of accepting every park walk or coffee dates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:55 AM
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The point is there’s a lot of bs in this sub which is not reflective of the real life. And a lot of it is aimed at women , especially if she dares to have standards or preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:49 AM
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I love this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:41 AM
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Where did I say I don’t spend any of my money and feel entitled to his ? You sound like you’ve never been in a relationship with someone you like and vice versa. When you like your partner you do nice things for them and you enjoy being with them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:37 AM
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Where did I say I was expecting him to pay for everything and that I would be relying on his income? And we compliment each other we don’t need to have kids we do not want
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:44 AM
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That’s projection. Something triggered you to decide to comment and call a stranger names like simp and insecure and assume because I have beliefs and follow traditions that I automatically have no opinions of my own . Whatever your trigger was , don’t ignore it and address it. The sooner you do the sooner you can work on yourself and heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:31 AM
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If by a simp you mean a good , respectful and God fearing man who comes from a good family and loves and respects the woman he calls his partner and shows her that then yes. It is asking for higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:18 AM
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I wouldn’t date him if he made significantly less than me. I believe in dating my equal and that includes my financial equal too. Relationships where one person is making significantly less than the other can lead to financial abuse. I’m not with him because of his money as the lifestyle I have I’m able to afford it on my own and I’ve been doing that before him. However I wouldn’t want to date someone who made less than me and put myself in a situation where I either have to downgrade my lifesty…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:03 AM
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So love doesn’t work both ways ? And what makes you say that only one person gives and one person takes ? It sounds like you’ve never been in any relationship if you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:57 AM
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Not everyone. Others are happy with something else. And that’s great for them. My post is for those who may not be happy with their current results and I’m just encouraging them to raise their dating standards and raise their own standards too as you need to be able to meet the standards you set for others
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:55 AM
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Thank you. I’m glad I could help
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:46 AM
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Of course he cares. I’m his pride and joy. He introduces me to people and tells them what I do. He mentors and leads me when I’m feeling overwhelmed. I wouldn’t date him if he was a school teacher as we wouldn’t have much in common but I would date him if he was in tech like me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:27 AM
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Not sure where that came from but good luck to you too 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:21 AM
1

When did I say that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:05 AM
1

There is the option to video chat right on the app
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:02 AM
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It depends. We do not currently live together. He has his own place and I have mine. We will look into moving in together once we are married. I hardly cook and I have a cleaner who comes in bi weekly. Once we are married that will carry on as it’s the lifestyle I’ve always had for myself. When it comes to kids , we both do not want them and he has a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:00 AM
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That’s good. Congratulations 😊 there’s no need to try and change what’s not broken
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:47 AM
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hahahah plenty of women out there will be happy with less than a water date. in fact a simple walk will do. and my fiance is not a tech bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:40 AM
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if what you've been doing has been working then there's no issue. if it hasnt maybe you might actually benefit from adopting a new mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:38 AM
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you dont have to , you can call them or even video call them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:33 AM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:32 AM
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actually i get my self worth from the way i was brought up , my faith and the love i have for people around me. my standards are all thanks to my parents and my culture. it might seem excesive for you , but this is normal for me and the people around me and has the desired outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:31 AM
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it does. he just likes being treated by spending quality time and i love to love him the way he wants to be loved
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:26 AM
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i treat him but my fiance doesnt like that. he's not intrested in me spending money on him. instead he likes gestures which do not include spending money. hes preferes to spend quality time together. so if he has to travel he loves it if i can make myself available to go with him. and because i have the freedom to work from anywhere this works out really well for us
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:24 AM
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yes i have dated online and when i did i would use the app feature for video calls and voice calls to get to know each other better before meeting up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:21 AM
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sure is traditional. it's traditional for where i come from. and thank you. i hope nothing but the best for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:14 AM
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which is that we both love each other so we both give and take. and him paying for lovely dates for us to enjoy together great and as he shows me how much he loves and cares for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:13 AM
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paying is not everything , its a start. all relationship is transactional and yes i am happy that my fiance puts in the effort to show me how much he loves and appreciates me just as much as i do for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:10 AM
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vetting women before meeting them is a better way to establish compatibility. And we are both very traditional. this is why he has no issues paying and im happy for him to do so and show my appreciation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:08 AM
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because he's happy doing so and he actually can do so. infact he takes a lot of pride doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:05 AM
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i didnt lose any magic , i come from a traditional culture where men put in the effort and take women out on lovely romantic dates and respectfully bring them back home. my fiance still has to go meet my father and pay a dowry to marry me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:04 AM
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i love this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:01 AM
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he know i was in tech because i was at a tech conference and our first conversation he asked me what i was doing there so yes he was very much aware of my carreer and the fact that im very nerdy even if i put a lot of effort in the way i look
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:01 AM
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you get to know the woman ,what's stopping you from trying to get to know her before arranging to meet ? . and no i am london based which is also expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:57 AM
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he owns a hotel , a number of other real estates and he also invests in businesses
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:55 AM
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im not american and neither is he
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:52 AM
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i have a clit and he's already done that today :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:51 AM
1

Thank you. We both do and we both have chosen to commit to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:50 AM
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all relationships are transactional apart from a parent and child's relationship. there's nothing wrong with the man i love putting in effort to show me how much he loves , appreciates and cares for me. and i also do the same in a way in which he likes to be shown love. its pure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:49 AM
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if you dont care then just skip the post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:46 AM
1

if you love it and it works for you then that's great
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:45 AM
1

yes this applies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:45 AM
1

then a simple dinner date should not be an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:44 AM
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this is why you have to vet people and get to know them before asking them out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:44 AM
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he is not in tech and has great social skills. I'm in tech and i would say i do have great social skills too. i also have a lot of empathy for those who may not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:43 AM
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he is english and i am half english
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:41 AM
1

he is not a tech worker. i am
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:40 AM
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thank you. My fiance does not work in tech. and yes before getting in this relationship i really worked on myself and upgraded so many aspects of my life enough to be able to just be confident and live my life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:40 AM
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stupid comment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:37 AM
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orchestra/opera/ballet are all part of dates with a lot of efforts and are not coffee dates. and going on lovely dates and having great experiences together makes us both happy as a couple
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:36 AM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:34 AM
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Men do not care about this. I'm sure your fiancee isn't thinking "man, a career woman with two cats? Form a fucking line boys, this one is mine!" He is probably with you for your other qualities. I'm curious as to what he would say if we asked him. Do us a favor - ask him and get back to us. he said that the first thing he was attracted to was my face and shape and the way i dressed, i seemed almost out of place in a tech conference. but as he went on a date with me and got to know me he loved t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:33 AM
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thats good. being able to have someone who you can wow and spoil and is also down to earth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:22 AM
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yes if you are happy with your standard then there's no issue. if you are not then raise it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:19 AM
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i disagree, you are meant to vet people before meeting them. if you cant even be bothered to take the time to vet someone and get to know them before organising a date then i dont think you're really intrested in the individual and you are not serious about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:56 AM
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i agree with that. However there are young people out there who are interested in dating for marriage , for those people i would still say to say no to coffee dates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:54 AM
1

what do you mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:53 AM
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It’s a question because all the losers in here swear that the reason they are single is because they aren’t Hollywood movie star attractive with millions in the bank and are convinced women only care about these 2 things. When in reality there’s a lot more to it and the reason they are single is also the same reason they do not have friends. They are horrible negative human beings who nobody wants to be around. Let alone date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:25 PM
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Free
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:27 AM
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no not chads. women do not like chads. if you take the time to listen to what women want you will know that. I’ll give you the example of Jeremy allen white this guy is not conventionally attractive, however due to the character he plays in bear women are currently going wild for him and he has been branded the latest heart throb for women as a collective. they are attracted to the character he plays. someone ambitious, someone with a passion, someone confident. and they are attached at the way …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:51 PM
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This !!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:48 PM
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Look at the kind of men women as a collective are attracted to and why they say they are attracted to these men and emulate that. Also work on qualities that will help you be a better partner as this will be key in actually keeping the relationship working long term
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:30 PM
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Period !!! Unfortunately when it comes to men , they will say one thing and do the opposite. They will complain about women who want traditional gender roles but exclusively go after these women. Or they will complain about women being high maintenance and caring about materialistic things but ignoring all the non makeup wearing girls and pursuing the ones they claim they do not want then spending vast amount of effort , and time to try and forcefully convert them to conform to their beliefs. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:02 AM
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someone who makes around the same amount as me. Has no debts or doesn’t make silly financial decisions like gambling, drug addictions etc. and someone who's saving and investing for their future. Basically, someone who matches me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:29 PM
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i date men who meet my standars. and this includes fiancial standars and attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:23 PM
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i mean its as simple as dont do it if you dont want to and date women who want to do 50/50. there's plenty of them out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:03 PM
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The older women get the more their sex drive increase
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:27 PM
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A high value man has enough value and discipline in himself to not go to sex workers and see the value of a woman . It’s literally in the name. You can’t think of yourself as a high value man if you think the opposite sex is useless beyond sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:33 AM
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Hahahahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:24 AM
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Going to a sex worker would be easier and they do not do that. In countries where sex work is legalise less men use those services, even tho it’s legal and at a low price
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:09 AM
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All of that is being done for who’s benefit ? If men are having to convince women that much it means there’s something valuable worth Pursuing and benefiting from . If there wasn’t then no men would bother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:47 AM
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Actually the copper coil is not perfectly and it has a lot of negative effect on the body , when you take it off after 3 or 5 years it takes a very long time for your body to readjust.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:42 AM
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A while ago I asked a question on askmen sub which was along the lines of : for men who want to be dads , if you couldn’t have a partner would you be willing to have a kid alone , via adoption or surrogacy. Majority of the men said no. Most men are only will to have children as long as a woman is there to take the full load of parenthood
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:11 AM
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My boyfriend is like that. Except for the part where he is thankful that I offer to pay. He finds it insulting for a woman to offer to pay for dates so he takes care of that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:40 AM
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Just spent a solid 15 minutes laughing to this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:34 AM
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I don’t know what the stats are but on a day to day I see more couple dynamic where the woman is chubby and the man is thin or average built then I see the opposite. It’s very rare that I see thin women with chubby men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:23 AM
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The guardian 2019 - Women are happier without children or a spouse, says happiness expert. Phycology today 2021 - Why Many Single Women Without Children Are So Happy Psychology today 2022 - What's Behind the Rise of Lonely, Single Men Works economic forum 2021 - Bye, bye, baby? Birthrates are declining globally – here's why it matters
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:43 AM
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I can’t post links here but feel free to google the below articles . I’ve provided the website name and which year and article name : The guardian 2019 - Women are happier without children or a spouse, says happiness expert. Phycology today 2021 - Why Many Single Women Without Children Are So Happy Psychology today 2022 - What's Behind the Rise of Lonely, Single Men Works economic forum 2021 - Bye, bye, baby? Birthrates are declining globally – here's why it matters
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:34 AM
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It’s a wonderful thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:37 AM
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Statistics shows more and more women are no longer dating , which is resulting in a global drop in child birth , a rise in the single man epidemic and also a rise in women who are single and childless being the happiest demographic. This is also the reason why politicians are trying to force women back into relationships by taking away abortion rights and using other tactics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:35 AM
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