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Why on earth would anyone be bothered to convince someone they don't know to live differently? No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:16 PM
2

Now that I’m much older, my answer is very different to when I was younger. My main concerns now are my partner living a long, fulfilling life and the stress of dealing with his toxic father.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:28 AM
1

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 10:00 PM
4

My country doesn’t even have alimony. I don’t fully understand what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 01:49 PM
7

Without sex, you would not be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 01:46 PM
6

Chastity is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 01:10 PM
0

How is it a trap for women. In the English language, a question mark is used at the end of a sentence when the sentence is a question. It looks like this: ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 11:13 AM
20

Any woman can feel that way at any age. I’m 47, and I definitely think young women rushing into it is akin to walking into a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 10:53 AM
1

🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 09:58 AM
24

And many women see marriage as a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 09:33 AM
54

Marriage just isn’t as high a priority as it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 05:25 AM
1

The poly person I know in real life was always a garbage human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:47 AM
1

I can’t say who is happier, because I only know one poly person. She’s completely fucked in the head, but I’m not sure she should represent an entire community. That said, I have looked at the poly subs to educate myself on the subject. Every time, I have left having a lower opinion of the lifestyle than the last time I looked. But, you know, I’m not them, so I live and let live.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:55 AM
3

You have to realise most of the rants about women on here are complete and utter nonsense. Don’t take ppd as gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:21 PM
0

Just because she did something for someone else, doesn’t mean she will do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 04:33 PM
1

Enlighten us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 04:22 PM
0

Beautifully put.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:38 PM
0

😂 I’m starting to think this womaning lark must be a leadership role.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:36 PM
1

In America, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 02:10 PM
0

Yes. Who do you think straight women are fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 02:08 PM
1

Is that an American thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:14 AM
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r/badwomensanatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 09:51 AM
1

I agree. I’ve had three babies. They never wash their own arse, sit around eating all day, and contribute nothing financially. Edit: for the down voters here: it’s a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 07:37 AM
7

Childlessness will definitely continue to rise, which is understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 04:38 AM
3

It would be work!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:27 AM
2

Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:43 PM
7

Snort! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:08 PM
1

It does if he’s super critical of the cc. It’s quite a glaring double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:05 PM
3

I was referring to assumptions made about women not working out just because they are not at the gym. And yes, it can be as effective for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:55 PM
2

No, lots of men haven’t stopped objectifying women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:54 PM
1

Op was discussing a plan to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:53 PM
2

No. You can’t just blame everything you don’t like on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:48 PM
2

Op had a lot of sex in his 20’s and now has a girlfriend 11 years younger than him, three children, and wants a sugar baby harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:39 PM
2

Sorry, I choose anonymity on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:34 PM
4

It seems odd to moralise about the cc, then make plans like this when you have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:32 PM
2

Spoiler: I take care of my appearance AND don’t look like a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:21 PM
2

Not even for your own health?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:17 PM
2

You don’t have to go to a gym to workout. Lots of people workout at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:16 PM
5

Women have jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:10 PM
4

That sounds quite a bit more realistic than what op seems to think happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:08 PM
5

Maybe you should have worded it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:07 PM
3

😂😂😂😂 I’m wheezing over here!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:02 PM
3

What is your opinion on sugar babies/prostitutes falling madly in love with their client and agreeing to bear their offspring, as op claims can happen ‘more often than you think’? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:00 PM
2

I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 04:45 PM
1

‘Will be?’ And let me guess, women will owe you sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 04:13 PM
2

Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 04:05 PM
2

Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 04:05 PM
5

Op apparently has 3 children and a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 04:01 PM
1

Oh god.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:52 PM
3

No. That’s not what google is telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:26 PM
2

Why would you wish that on your friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:19 PM
0

Oh, please. Women have JOBS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:16 PM
3

Does your girlfriend know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:15 PM
12

Usually payment is made upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:15 PM
2

Why didn’t you mention your children here? Later, you say you have three.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:09 PM
0

Citation?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:01 PM
1

Except plenty of sugar babies don’t have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:58 PM
8

Oh, no, sweety. That’s not true at all. Also: not all of them have sex with their clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:27 PM
6

No. You either are fertile, or you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:26 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:25 PM
13

How many would be down for it? Surprise me. I imagine you wouldn’t be her only client. Her other clients would not tolerate a pregnant sugar baby. She would lose money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:24 PM
5

It really makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:22 PM
13

Tell me then. How many? What happens when her other sugar daddies find out? She’ll lose work. Not worth her while.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:21 PM
2

Heaven forbid a woman in her 20’s has sex! 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:20 PM
8

One of my kids was born in my 20’s, the other two in my 30’s. I don’t see why I shouldn’t have had them 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:18 PM
2

Oh, I know what I was doing 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:13 PM
1

TIL I look like a whore 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:11 PM
3

How old are you? And how do you personally define cc behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:10 PM
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I’m pretty sure sugar babies don’t offer a surrogacy service. It would be bad for their other clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:08 PM
7

Ok. So why is it ok for you to do it and not a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:05 PM
1

Yep! Dress for the job you want, not the one you have, but apply it to dating instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:05 PM
1

‘Ascend.’ Isn’t that Incel language?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:03 PM
4

You said it would be bad to marry one, so that gave me the impression that you don’t approve of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:00 PM
5

Oh, I have no problem with it, I just don’t understand why you’re complaining about women doing it if you plan to do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:56 PM
2

Yes they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:54 PM
6

So, you will ride the pussy carousel and that’s ok, but it’s just bad when women do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:53 PM
1

Men treat women who are casual sex candidates very differently to how they treat Ltr candidates. So do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 06:51 PM
9

I’m here for the shitshow. Some people watch reality tv. This is my substitute for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 06:48 PM
1

It’s not that much different to how men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 06:37 PM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:57 PM
1

I have seen them say they will still go on dates with other guys until they’re exclusive. I personally have never and would never do that. If I’ve dated a guy and wasn’t sure if I was going to be in a relationship with him yet, I wouldn’t be dating anyone else until I figured it out and then stopped seeing him. I also expected the same in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 12:11 PM
1

I don’t think anyone of either gender should put up with that. I noticed you mentioned FDS; as far as I know, they don’t encourage that behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 12:06 PM
1

I’m confused. In this scenario, are you talking about the woman having a one night stand before you met, or while you’re dating her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 11:49 AM
1

Ditto for penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 04:35 PM
1

You’re a woman with a dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 12:36 PM
2

That’s because I run a beauty sub. It just means I end up making a lot of posts on one sub. My youngest daughter is actually 12 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 10:54 AM
3

Possibly why 😂 I am indeed an Aussie woman with an arm in my profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 08:24 AM
1

I am indeed a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 08:12 AM
2

I don’t know who that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:55 AM
1

You’re welcome 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:54 AM
3

I just looked at OP’s profile, and he’s a good looking dude, for the most part. All he needs to do is work on leveling up his grooming and confidence, so this post is kind of sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:40 AM
4

Birth control can also have detrimental effects on the mental health of some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:34 AM
10

Or, people could treat attractive people with the same respect as everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:33 AM
4

I have PTSD from my childhood. Also, I’m going through peri menopause, and the hormonal fluctuations make me suicidal at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:29 AM
1

My partner doesn’t seem to think so 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:22 AM
3

You mean mothers of newborns 😂 it levels out once they get bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 07:00 PM
4

My 19 year old daughter towers over me. My 14 year old son is the same height as me and my 12 year old daughter is only a few centimetres shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:54 PM
9

So don’t choose them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:50 PM
3

They’re all gonna tower over me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:47 PM
3

Can confirm. Am a short chick who has bred thrice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:22 PM
6

Who is doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:50 PM
16

Those women seem really happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:06 PM
0

I think women’s standards haven’t gone high enough, yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:06 PM
3

No, I asked you if you were talking about rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 04:59 PM
3

No, I didn’t. You should have made your point more clearly. And I checked first to clarify what you meant, so as not to jump the gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 04:50 PM
2

It depends on what you meant by that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 02:28 PM
6

It’s tough, but satisfying work. Really hard to get that balance 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:55 AM
7

And you complain about not getting sex handed to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:50 AM
5

They can get a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:42 AM
4

Yes. Bow to our power 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:41 AM
2

I...what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:39 AM
8

So...you have this attitude towards women AND expect one to have sex with you. If only there was something you could change about yourself to make that more likely to happen...🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:38 AM
2

Are you peeping in everyone’s bedrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:36 AM
6

What you are proposing is a rape drug. To take away our free will, our ability to make choices. If someone isn’t in their right mind, then they’re not able to properly give consent. You want to tamper with our minds to be able to fuck us? That’s rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:35 AM
7

Do you just refuse to believe women work, or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:33 AM
5

Women are paying for those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:31 AM
6

No, there won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:30 AM
6

That’s no excuse for giving women a rape drug en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:28 AM
3

There's barely any sex going on as is. Lulwat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:26 AM
2

And again: I disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:24 AM
8

You get a PAY CHECK. Jesus fucking Christ on a pogo stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:23 AM
5

He actually thinks a woman not having sex with him is ‘trampling all over him.’ Woah. 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:20 AM
3

I’m assuming you’re talking about welfare. Both genders benefit from welfare. Also, as a tax payer, no one gets to pick and choose where their tax dollars are spent. Paying tax doesn’t entitle nor guarantee anyone to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:15 AM
6

Your wording about ‘taking’ is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:12 AM
5

Nope. Having a job doesn’t make sex fall out of the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:09 AM
3

I’m not going to agree with you the more times you repeat yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:05 AM
5

Right? I’m a woman, and I’m not going to think about a solution to this imaginary problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 10:57 AM
8

You spouting off your spiel doesn’t change the fact that women also work, and they don’t owe you jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 10:55 AM
5

Are you advocating rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 10:50 AM
9

Everyone benefits from the hard work of both men and women. You do get something in return for working: a paycheque.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 10:48 AM
8

Yep. Anything that prevents a dude from having to put the effort in himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 10:27 AM
7

No, thank you. I prefer making my own sexual choices without being forced to do unwanted things against my free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 10:16 AM
3

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 09:18 AM
3

As someone who probably knows a lot more young women than you do, and who was once a young woman herself, I can assure you it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:07 PM
2

Loads of young women enjoy hiking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:06 PM
5

This is alarmist nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:57 PM
1

99% of the time it’s not necessary/appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:41 AM
18

I definitely think the guys who are bitter inflate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:34 AM
1

No. They’re rejecting losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 01:32 PM
0

They are trying to not date losers and would rather be single if that’s what it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 12:34 PM
0

It’s not about men. It’s about what women can improve upon for the betterment/happiness in their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:53 AM
2

That’s fantastic! I’m 47 and the glow is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:22 AM
0

They also have a sister sub, r/femalelevelupstrategy which is solely about self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:19 AM
2

Unless you use tret.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:02 AM
2

That’s a problem both genders are facing at all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:00 AM
5

You should listen to the song to be able to form an informed opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:18 AM
2

The lyrics are an absolute scream 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:14 AM
1

It’s not talking about all women. It’s just two women singing about things they like to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:47 AM
1

Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:42 PM
2

Oh, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:36 PM
0

Well... I hope not! 😂 but it’s far too commonly discussed on reddit for my comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:36 PM
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There are tonnes of reddit posts about men who don’t wash and wipe their arse. Thankfully, I’ve never dated one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:32 PM
1

Pornhub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:27 PM
3

Our sons aren’t incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:25 PM
2

Let us know how it goes!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:57 PM
6

I would object. I would prefer all my adult children, regardless of their gender, to have a sexual experience because both parties are attracted to one another/like one another, than being intimate when one party isn’t attracted to the other. Of course, there wouldn’t be anything I could do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 09:46 AM
2

Definitely!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 08:55 AM
4

I wish more people went to the gym on a first date. You’d learn so much about each other, really fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:42 AM
2

What is happening here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 03:43 PM
1

Too late!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 02:57 PM
3

We never gave a shit, to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 01:28 PM
2

I repeat: I don’t want a big arse. I already work out and am happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 01:12 PM
2

What was your point, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:16 AM
2

Yes. We all loved that song, but none of us women took the advice 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:15 AM
2

Ok? I still don’t want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:13 AM
2

Don’t procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:25 AM
2

The fitness industry had a huge influence on women’s bodies in the 80’s and 90’s too, but small butts were in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:23 AM
2

What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:09 AM
2

It’s not clear if he’s talking about the dealing or drug taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:05 AM
2

In what way are they trying to ruin your life? Edit: it’s not a good look, inboxing verbal abuse towards people just because you don’t like what they post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:02 AM
1

Repulsed. Not gonna happen. But I’ve never been nasty or rude about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:50 AM
3

I’m not suggesting you get rid of drug dealer friends for women. I’m saying it’s in your child’s best interests to do so. If you can’t comprehend why it’s irresponsible to have people like that around your child, you shouldn’t be having them. And yes, all of us parents have had to completely change our lives for our children. Also, not liking drug dealer friends is not exclusive to women. Most decent people, men or women, are not going to choose a romantic partner who is friends with drug dealer…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:48 AM
2

Ok? I’m still not interested in having a big butt 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:33 AM
3

Your child will be negatively affected by being around those drug dealer friends. Do you do drugs yourself? Edit: I checked his profile; he does do drugs. Therefore, he’s not ready for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:31 AM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:28 AM
4

Oh gosh, I wonder why anyone would hate drug dealer friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:25 AM
2

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:22 AM
7

I don’t think you’re ready for kids. Don’t bring a kid into this drug shit. A child deserves better than those types in their life. What sort of events are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:22 AM
2

Of course they are. But there is still a fad for it at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:11 AM
2

Why do they have a problem with your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:03 AM
1

Because then you wouldn’t have to deal with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:48 AM
6

I’d be indifferent. My body is not clothing that I change with fashion. I have my own preferred aesthetic and health goals. Body fashion is irrelevant to me, and I think that’s healthy. I was a young adult in the 90’s, during heroin chic, and I still did my own thing regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:46 AM
6

Exactly. I could easily chonk up and get a big butt, but I care about my health too much. Also, I genuinely don’t like the way it looks for me. If other women like looking that way, they’re free to do it and have my blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:18 AM
4

What sort of lifestyle do you have that they can’t handle?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:09 AM
9

This has been my experience, too, except for height; I’m shorter. But yeah, most people enjoy people in a healthy weight range. You can’t go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:04 AM
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My partner is 5’10. 😛 Thanks for explaining my feelings to me, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:04 AM
5

Meh. I work out and have a small butt. I don’t care what anyone else thinks is attractive; I do what I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:37 AM
9

As a woman, I hate the big bum fad. I keep it small, the way I prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:10 AM
4

Yes. This particular man’s beliefs would be an instant no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:24 PM
8

Being a stay at home parent isn’t a belief. It’s a thing a person chooses to do for the time period it’s needed. It doesn’t necessarily mean that they have permanently given up their career.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:00 PM
1

Being in shape is equally important.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 02:47 PM
1

Well, lots of guys get the fit wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 02:43 PM
10

Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 02:34 PM
1

Oh goody, we’re at the stage where first world people compare themselves to third world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 02:31 PM
1

I don’t hear them complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:26 AM
1

I believe I have already answered that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 09:36 AM
1

My assumption has always been that all pills love good looking people. Everyone deep down knows this fact. It’s just that certain groups of people are offended that it takes effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:56 AM
1

In other words: people make choices and you don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:17 AM
1

Going by the reactions to this basic fact, many seem to think this is just pure evil. I don’t get it. Why is it so offensive to so many guys here? How did they not know this? Why are they shocked?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:16 AM
5

No. I’m a monogamist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:33 AM
1

You should have worded it better, huh? I have no problem with anyone looking good to increase their chances of sex. Why would I care? That’s pretty much what anyone should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:48 AM
1

Ok, keep your guard up. You claimed women use looks to get money. You said trp is doing exactly the same thing you claim women do. you said, trp uses their looks to get from women what you believe women get from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:20 AM
0

I’m sure there’s some women doing that. I, and all the women I know, don’t. I’m also not giving those things to men for their looks, either. Calm down. I thought trp was just trying to get pussy, I didn’t realise it was an elaborate plan to take women’s money 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:01 AM
1

In what way? To make their partner’s penis hard? I guess 🤷🏼‍♀️ is that a problem? People like beautiful people. Why is this so offensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:53 AM
1

This just in: wanting to look good is just what some men and women do, and it happens to attract someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:47 AM
0

You don’t have an accurate understanding of FDS. How is trp using women’s tactics? Women don’t act like trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:37 AM
1

FDS is more about vetting heavily and if that leads to staying single, then so be it. FDS doesn’t need seduction tactics; they already know how to do that. Why are you even talking about FDS or red pill? This topic is only about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:32 AM
1

Not true at all. There are ugly people in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:25 AM
1

The mental gymnastics you made to jump to that conclusion is staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:24 AM
1

That’s because finding someone with looks is the easy part. Finding someone with a compatible personality is harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:23 AM
1

Not particularly, no. I don’t agree with everything they say, but most of it, I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:11 AM
2

You got a woman, so what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:11 AM
1

They both matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:08 AM
2

How will you know until you try?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:54 AM
1

I didn’t lie at all. You can disagree with me; that doesn’t mean I’m lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:54 AM
1

Why bring up FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:53 AM
1

I chose my partner on looks and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:45 AM
1

There are people with Down syndrome who are getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:44 AM
2

Probably because it doesn’t treat women like human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:43 AM
1

Yes, we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:43 AM
1

Why do you want me to lie? You realise all women are different, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:42 AM
2

They don’t know their full potential. It’s not about becoming chad. It’s about living up to your own potential for yourself and the confidence that comes from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:41 AM
1

My skincare is from the pharmacy and is dirt cheap. Except the tret. It’s a little expensive but not unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:38 AM
1

But what sort of jeans and t shirt? That’s where some guys get stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:38 AM
1

Poor analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:37 AM
1

Nope. My partner had three kids when we got together. We went on to have three more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:28 PM
1

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:03 PM
1

I don’t want to ... do whatever nba is? And I don’t complain about missing out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:07 PM
1

Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:35 PM
3

Neck beard can lose weight and shave. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:12 PM
14

That is the other excuse 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:10 PM
2

True, but if someone gives up they don’t get to whinge about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:07 PM
1

Why? Once he’s gotten my interest with looks, I can find out the important stuff, like personality. Both are important though. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:37 PM
5

Elliot Rodgers was good looking, but his personality made him a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:35 PM
0

I disagree. If ugly men want to find someone, they need to lift their game and try harder to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:22 PM
2

It’s more about, why don’t they have any pride in themselves? Lots of guys don’t even try to look half decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:21 PM
1

Personality does matter more than looks, but looks are important to get our attention and to be able to have sex with someone. Looks get the woman interested in seeing what your personality is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:19 PM
22

I’ve told tons of men to hit the gym, dress well, look after their skin and get a good hair style and look after the condition of their hair. It always falls on deaf ears, and usually they say, ‘why bother? I’ll never be Chad.’
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:18 PM
6

I’ve seen photos of incels who look attractive, but the things they write are a complete turnoff. I believe that’s why people tell them it’s their personalities holding them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:16 PM
9

Why do trad women do anything they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 09:37 AM
6

That was beautiful. Thank you for that, haikusbot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 09:34 AM
1

Not on Apple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 08:35 AM
4

As a woman, erect size is all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 08:01 AM
3

It’s pretty easy to talk about things you don’t care about. Just because it’s mentioned, doesn’t mean it’s a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 07:06 AM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:48 AM
2

Ooh, handy! 😂 and if you move your fingers apart? Zoom out!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:40 AM
4

Yes, I should have worded it differently. They’re both to do with different parts of the clitoris, but the g spot isn’t located where the cervix is visible on the outside. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:20 AM
2

r/oddlyspecific
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:12 AM
3

G spot and clitoris are two completely different things. I’d be impressed if a guy could access the g spot with his tongue! 😂 Edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 06:11 AM
3

Agree. Some women are into small dicks. Just find someone who is into that and stop stressing about something that can’t be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:59 AM
1

What’s the success rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:56 AM
8

Lol. It’s an attitude, not a body part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:52 AM
13

It matters a lot. Medium is a must. Slightly large is acceptable, but not too large.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:40 AM
2

I so agree. Women, if you’re single and straight, be ruthless with your vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:37 AM
1

I’m an Aussie. I feel like we’re a lot more chill about dating than Americans, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:35 AM
4

I like lots of people. Some of them are men, some of them are women. It depends on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:31 AM
0

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 12:41 AM
1

That’s pretty cool 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 08:31 AM
2

Meh. Lots of people like to watch things like Dancing with the stars, or shit like that. This is kind of my replacement for reality tv, which I cannot watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 08:28 AM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 08:24 AM
2

Exactly. What I want to know is, if people aren’t here for the train wreck, what are they here for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 08:18 AM
2

I’m not even here for the debate. I’m literally here just to watch the train wreck. I’m sure everyone has better things they could be doing, but you can say that about all of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 08:16 AM
3

This sub was not one I searched for. I came across it, thought, ‘what the hell is all this?’ I stayed for the shitshow. Obviously, I have learned a little about pills since being here, but I actively try to remain ignorant to them all, because the idea of pills is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:54 AM
2

I still don’t really know what the blue, red or purple pills are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:47 AM
0

Any. All.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 01:16 AM
4

In my school, no one actually liked them. They, and the male equivalent of them, all thought they were popular. The reality was, everyone else stayed out of their way because no one wanted to deal with their shit. They made everyone else’s life hell, and this was what made them unpopular. The truly popular people were the high achievers at our school. Everyone respected them and they were genuinely kind to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 11:06 PM
3

That’s fine if it’s actually true. But it’s not necessarily always the case just because a woman complimented a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 03:43 PM
5

Men often get the wrong idea if you compliment them. They think we want their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 12:51 PM
7

Flattering them is like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 10:54 PM
5

Because they’re crushing their goals and don’t want some guy getting in their way. That’s why I always dated guys outside of college. When I was physically at college, I was there to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 09:41 AM
1

I wonder, if the guy who is afraid his girlfriend is cheating on him thinks what she’s doing is cool? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 04:00 AM
1

We are in a pandemic, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 03:51 AM
4

Yes. Their behaviour doesn’t bother me, but it seems to bother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 11:14 AM
3

Why are you concerned about their happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 11:04 AM
6

I’m not a part of FDS. I’m in a long term relationship. It doesn’t matter what you think of FDS women. They’re happy, they don’t care because they are vetting guys who won’t wait. I do discuss FDS ideas with my daughter, and we talk about which parts we agree with and disagree with. For the most part, I think it’s great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 10:54 AM
3

Who says they are even looking for a college guy? When I was in college, I never dated anyone from my college. Ever. But I was always dating (except when I was 18. I didn’t want to date). And I wasn’t FDS, we didn’t have that back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 10:51 AM
5

It does work anywhere. It simply involves being choosy about who they fuck. You can be choosy anywhere. It doesn’t matter what anyone else is doing. They’re vetting the majority of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 10:43 AM
3

46.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 10:40 AM
4

You say this like you don’t realise they’re vetting these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 10:35 AM
3

Don’t fall into the trap of thinking you need proof before you’re ‘allowed’ to break up. I never found out my partner was sleeping with other women until after we broke up. You don’t have to accuse them of anything. You can just say that this isn’t going to work out due to incompatibility. I wasted two and a half years on my cheater, because I couldn’t get proof. It was a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 06:15 AM
3

I imagine with technology it would be easier for them to slip up. Here’s some red flags I didn’t pick up on at the time, that I worked out in hindsight (pre today’s technology): The guy was screwing so many women on the side, it was disgusting. He used to tell me about recent conversations with women he seemed to talk to regularly, on topics where they had opened up to him about things that had happened in the past (sexual things) I was only 19, so kind of clueless at the time. But I didn’t see …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 06:00 AM
0

I post on r/MinimalistBeauty which would be a heads up that in fact, I wear a small amount of makeup. Minimal, if you will. However, even if I am ugly, it’s irrelevant to the topic, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:32 AM
8

We both classed it as cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:30 AM
11

Woman. I have been cheated on. One guy cheated via sex, the other, via kissing. It didn’t change my interactions with the opposite sex, because I don’t believe all people cheat. However, I did become better at reading the signs and avoiding them, which I think is common for both genders. It did have a negative impact on me after the guy who cheated on me sexually. I ended up being paranoid about STIs, particularly HIV. Every month or two, I kept getting blood tests, even if I wasn’t sexually act…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:46 AM
4

It’s my body and my physical and mental health. I make no apologies for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:26 AM
1

I don’t know my brother’s specific height, because I haven’t seen him in a few decades, but he’s taller than me and shorter than my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:06 AM
10

Women don’t generally care about evening up the score in that way, but go off, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:33 PM
20

It’s no great loss. He can be replaced with someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:27 PM
27

I agree. I tried anal once, hated it and I refuse to ever do it again. My partner knows this and is cool with it. Edit: no other sexual partner ever had a problem with it, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:10 PM
26

Life doesn’t work that way. Women can make choices about their own bodies and should immediately leave a relationship if someone can’t respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:06 PM
3

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 11:09 AM
2

Good. You should certainly not expect us to take his assvice, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 10:49 AM
4

I don’t think it’s possible to be less attracted to them than I already am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:17 AM
2

Looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 04:44 AM
7

He’s a blob face with a hair-don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:36 AM
2

Nope. We all think each other has shit taste in men, but we’ve never let that stop us from dating who we like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:35 AM
1

My mother is 5 foot, my dad is 6 foot. My brother and I are both taller than her. You may say, ‘oh, you’re only two inches taller than her.’ Well, yes. But I’m grateful for those extra two inches from my dad’s side 😂 My eldest daughter is taller than me by 10cm, and my other two kids haven’t stopped growing yet, so it’s hard to say. That said, I didn’t choose my partner for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:33 AM
2

I’m old. I have never found George Clooney attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:25 AM
1

I’m a woman. Looks are important. Most of us on here have always been upfront about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:21 AM
3

So hang on: without watching the video, is this guy in the picture giving this woman in the picture dating advice? If so, that’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever seen. Oh. I just checked, and no. However: why on earth would anyone take advice from this guy who looks like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:11 AM
1

Yes, all my relationships were like that until I met my long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:03 AM
3

Yep. No other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 03:54 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 01:37 PM
4

It’s a joke, Joyce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:43 AM
3

What difference does it make what her reason is? You make it sound like women have to tell you everything to protect your ego. It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:23 AM
1

I don’t need advice from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:08 AM
3

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:01 AM
1

For me, I have always been hesitant to use the term, ‘the one,’ for years and years of dating. I’ve even been in love and not called them ‘the one,’ because while I loved them, I knew the relationship had a use by date, and they weren’t someone I wanted to spend decades with, have kids with, etc. So, I’ve only ever had one ‘the one,’ which is my current partner. Be wary of people who think you’re ‘the one’ too quickly. They usually end up being more hassle than they’re worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:57 AM
23

I have never had a height preference, except after my first six foot tall bf, I made a policy of only going for guys under six foot after that. I’m 5’2. My guess with other petite women, is two things: 1) they can have taller kids. 2) they get help reaching stuff. My partner is 5’10, and his extra height does come in handy to reach things I can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:49 AM
2

Personal boundaries are not immature, they’re the opposite. Refusing to tell someone about their menstrual cycle may be due to embarrassment, but often it’s got nothing to do with that. Sometimes you want to keep your personal stuff to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:40 AM
1

Hang on. I didn’t mention rape. Typical. Blame the woman for choosing the wrong dude instead of criticising the dude’s bad behaviour. Honestly, is there anything guys on this sub WON’T blame the woman for? At what point do you hold a man accountable? I brought this up, because I don’t know any women who have played hard to get. It’s more common that men don’t believe our no’s. This is not an autistic trait, it’s a trait common in lots of men, because they have been raised to believe women playin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:37 AM
1

I don’t know if it does happen, but I DO know that many times, I have SAID no, MEANT no, and the guy deluded himself into thinking I was playing hard to get, instead of LISTENING to me telling them sex was DEFINITELY NOT happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:37 AM
3

She might not be seeking progress. She might not be planning to ever see the dude again, which might be another reason she’s not taking things further. Any reason for not wanting to have sex is a good reason, for either gender, and nobody has to explain themselves this early on with dates. And as for periods, sorry, but it’s our body and our business who we choose to tell or not tell, or at what stage of a relationship we start telling a guy about our period. No dude on a first date is entitled …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:29 AM
2

Reading Facebook on a date is not subtle, it’s blatantly rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:41 AM
5

I expect the man to be understanding of me not wanting sex for any reason. If you barely know a woman, you’re not entitled to an explanation unless she wants to give one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:39 AM
0

If she says she’s not, she isn’t. I don’t give a fuck what red pill says about it. Red pill shit is for losers. I’m talking about the real world. If she was open to sex, she would just have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:02 PM
2

Oh, I see what you did there. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:56 PM
1

Yes, and she will probably walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:55 PM
1

Last minute resistance is the entitled attitude/assumption that sex was even going to happen. She may only be willing to do certain things at the time and not others. Sometimes, you just want to make out and not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:54 PM
2

I didn’t ask you that. You don’t need to continue if you don’t want to. But if someone ignored me during a date, rather than talk to me, or had your pathetic on/off attitude of, ‘sex or nothing,’ I would reject them completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:52 PM
3

Saying no to sex is always a boundary. Even the term LMR is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:46 PM
3

Yes. It’s quite normal to get enjoyment from turning your partner on. For normal people, that is. Especially if you’re looking for an easy way to find out what their size is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:44 PM
2

If someone started reading on a date, or giving me an on/off lecture, I’d happily leave and never return.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:41 PM
2

r/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:40 PM
1

That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:39 PM
1

God, I hope not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:36 PM
5

She can choose to divulge that if she chooses, and she might also choose to keep it private. It’s her business.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:35 PM
2

Right. Getting a woman off would be the worst thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:35 PM
6

Or, she might have her period.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:29 PM
3

It’s not playing games to only agree to certain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:16 PM
1

Ok, cool. So you wind up with nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:13 PM
5

No foreplay = no sex. Sex with no foreplay means you’re going in dry and the sex will be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 04:51 PM
1

My theory may not be popular, because I’m old 😂 But, when I was growing up and a young adult, there were no internet dating apps, but we did have dating agencies and dating ads in the classifieds of the newspaper. There was a stigma to using these services. It was understood, by observing the customers, that they were for people incapable of dating the normal way. It may have been because of their looks or social skills; usually it was both. There was always an element of desperation. I still th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 06:50 AM
2

I so agree. I wish I wasn’t born to and raised by abusive parents, but there is literally nothing I can do about it. It’s been traumatic and still painful to this day, but it’s my problem and nobody else’s. I don’t make it the problem of other people and I take responsibility for my own coping with the situation. It’s not the fault of people who got great parents. It’s not my fault. It’s just that sometimes life is unfair in what it hands you, and you have to make the most of what you do have. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 06:38 AM
5

I think it’s changing with this generation. Both of my daughters don’t want kids, and my son sometimes wants kids and sometimes says maybe. Honestly, if I were gen z, I wouldn’t want kids, either. Why bring kids into the world as it is, right now? I definitely think it’s more socially acceptable for women to refuse to have kids than it’s ever been before, and I think this is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 06:27 AM
8

I wasn’t approached for sex when I was pregnant, but cat calling increased, whether my children were right next to me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:36 AM
2

There is a lot in between too, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:17 AM
1

I think free love was a 60’s phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:42 AM
3

Oh. So, like any other decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:43 PM
9

I’m also sick of guys complaining that all hot guys are arseholes. Some are, some are lovely people. And someone being ugly doesn’t automatically make them nice, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:32 PM
3

What were they like?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:27 PM
2

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:05 PM
2

Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 04:26 PM
2

Support for them is rapidly dying. See r/fatlogic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:41 PM
2

r/shortcels
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:40 PM
2

Fat positivity is the female equivalent of incels. No one takes them seriously, except themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:38 PM
10

Every woman’s 5% is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 11:11 AM
9

Yes he does ❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 10:45 AM
1

😳
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 09:09 AM
5

You can’t expect your PARTNER to be thirsty for you???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 09:03 AM
6

Hey, I think I have a better idea of what a man could whisper into a woman’s ear to be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:38 AM
4

Yeah, I wouldn’t settle for that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:35 AM
2

I feel like your story is changing as this progresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:30 AM
2

I have dated short guys. I don’t like guys over six foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:24 AM
9

I’m a woman. From experience, I can safely say he probably said a lot more than ‘sup’ in her ear. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:23 AM
5

We can’t help what we are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:13 AM
3

Unless they date IRL instead, which you stated does work for ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:12 AM
5

Of course you need to look good first. That’s literally what I have been saying. But when he leaned in, I’m sure he said other things that got him through the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:09 AM
3

But you said you have a good personality, yet as an engaged man, went on tinder? You’ve already said those same guys could get a relationship offline, so where’s the injustice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:08 AM
12

It’s not moronic. We find 5% of the male population attractive, we only need to find one guy, this is no problem for us and easily doable. And every woman’s 5% is entirely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:06 AM
5

Why even worry about it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:58 AM
6

How closely were you watching, that you could hear the full extent of a conversation between two people?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:57 AM
3

Are you currently in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:53 AM
10

That’s why appearance matters. You’re not in the door until you show something appealing personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:49 AM
5

I mostly see men and women saying OLD is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:44 AM
2

Hm. That’s never been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:43 AM
7

Again: if she isn’t physically attracted to a man IRL, it won’t go beyond friends. If you prefer IRL, just do that. Why worry about OLD? Also, people are free to express their personality on their OLD profile, and it’s my understanding that many fail to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:37 AM
17

It’s no different to dating offline. Your looks grab the person’s attention; your personality and interactions get you through the door. Also, dating online is not mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:26 AM
6

Exactly. The women would just shut up shop if there were no suitable applicants.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 04:32 AM
6

Easy. The women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:40 AM
6

Ohhh yes. I wonder when the next purge is on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 03:04 PM
1

It shouldn’t matter what sub the post linked to, what matters is the content, and it had an excellent point that many men here haven’t yet grasped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 02:59 PM
5

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 02:03 PM
3

I like how he accused you of insulting men even though you weren’t, then went on to insult you 😂 Also, if someone does insult another person, it has nothing to do with their personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 07:36 AM
2

Oh, good pick up!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 07:30 AM
2

There is nothing good about cat calling. Cat calling is a guy’s way of letting women know he’s a scumbag, whether he realises it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 07:13 AM
1

I feel the same way as if a woman cries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 07:07 AM
3

Women are dating realistic options already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 06:28 AM
2

What does that have to do with men stopping cat calling?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:15 AM
2

I was talking about behaving better, such as not cat calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:15 AM
3

Your previous posts implied you were at least in your thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:45 AM
2

Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:19 AM
1

I’ve never heard of anyone using this in an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:03 AM
1

Yes, and there’s a big difference between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 07:02 AM
5

Well, then you live the single life, and go get some experience. Don’t make it your girlfriend’s problem or job to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:41 AM
3

Dang. Now I’m hungry 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:40 AM
3

The agreement is, get over it or get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:36 AM
2

Lol. It makes me think of being a kid in a group. Food is being handed out. Op reminds me of that one shitty kid in the group who always screamed, ‘she got more than me!’
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:35 AM
3

Why so defensive? You made a post inviting discussion, and people are doing that. Why actively discourage discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:33 AM
3

I don’t understand what it would achieve? He would increase his count in a three some, but so would she.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:30 AM
3

No, I meant asked for a three some simply based on body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:19 AM
7

Isn’t it on you to be able to express your point clearly? Let’s turn this around: what if you were the guy with the higher count than your girlfriend? Let’s say she asks YOU to have threesomes with her, involving two guys. How do you respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:18 AM
4

Right? How on earth would any well adjusted person arrive at this idea? If I was asked this, I’d have to restrain myself from slapping them in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:13 AM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:09 AM
5

Nope. I’m still not seeing a connection. Just because she has slept with more people than you, doesn’t mean she is into threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:08 AM
2

I’m an Aussie woman, but no, I don’t feel betrayed. I support feminism and the sexual revolution, and I look forward to future improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:01 AM
6

I don’t understand why this information would make someone jump to asking for a threesome?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 05:54 AM
2

They’re gonna CUT him with their severe haircut 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 04:28 AM
2

All of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 04:26 AM
2

Nope. I so disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 03:30 AM
9

Since women have this power, maybe don’t catcall them when you know they hate it. Doesn’t seem like a smart strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:49 PM
10

Yep. And I don’t see how this behaviour would even up the ‘inequality’ op claims exists. It would drive them further away from their goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:36 PM
2

Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:23 PM
2

I was blown away by how different the women in my bracket all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:17 PM
2

Oh gawd... You need to read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:40 PM
1

You make it sound like those are the only two options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:37 PM
1

I don’t see a need for this. I’ve never needed to use sex to try to get the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:23 PM
6

How about those men who behave that way just...be better?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:19 PM
1

Right??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:50 PM
2

I wouldn’t. My partner might choose to, but I would discourage it. My partner has a unique way of handling things, though. When his daughter (my step daughter) was dating an older guy who was abusive, but she wouldn’t leave him, my partner got creative. The bf was sitting on a lounge, and was sunk real deep in there. This was at an airport. My man shoved his arse hard into bf’s face, smothering the fuck out of him and let out this god awful, sloppy, noisy, smelly, looong fart as he pressed his b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:45 PM
1

Yep! My dad wanted to visit this guy’s house with a cricket bat! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:44 PM
2

I can’t work out if it’s incel rhetoric? 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:38 PM
4

That’s a you problem. I’m protecting my own self interests, sure. My self interest is keeping my 19 year old daughter away from losers. And so far, it’s working. She is disgusted by older men, and I like to think I had a hand in that. Although I think that disgust also comes naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:37 PM
2

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:30 PM
4

You are really hamstering the fuck out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:29 PM
1

That’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:17 PM
3

The same way anyone can figure out someone’s age by looking at them. Looks don’t matter here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:17 PM
1

It was weird. I was only with him for about 2-3 months. There were zero red flags. He took me out for a nice lunch as our first date, took a flower from a neighbouring table to give it to me. Didn’t pressure me for sex at all. When I achieved something good with my studies, he sent me a huge bunch of flowers to my door as encouragement. He had a high paying job, which didn’t matter to me, but it certainly made me think he had his shit together, so drug addiction was the last thing I could imagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:14 PM
2

Easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:57 AM
3

Nailed it. Except, he ruins his own reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:50 AM
2

Hmm.. I was 19. At first, the problem wasn’t obvious. But when it revealed itself, yes, definitely. I very quickly discovered that was not only not possible, but it wasn’t my job, and it wasn’t worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:49 AM
1

Based on the fact that I was once a young ‘buyer.’ 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:41 AM
3

No need. Most young women have their heads screwed on straight and won’t be dating old guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:40 AM
2

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:30 AM
3

Do you honestly think I would encourage her to date a drug dealer? Of course I wouldn’t. But she is anti drug, so it’s not likely. Funnily enough, she’s also anti-old dudes hitting on her. It’s a privilege to be a positive influence on her, and she is reaping the rewards by staying away from losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:29 AM
3

‘Ima turn into a silver fox, like Decaprio and Clooney! Ima be the KING! Ima have aalll this money. Yeah, bitches love money... don’t they?’
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:26 AM
5

Predominantly to keep those dudes as far away from our daughters as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:20 AM
1

Hm. And older men don’t have those?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:18 AM
2

I agree. When I was 22 and the 67 year old tried to hit on me, he was: married with children and grandchildren. Balding. Grey hair. Flaccid body. Wrinkles. His top two front teeth were missing. He was NOT looking for a long term relationship with me, or to give me children. He wanted to have an affair while he was married. If that ain’t low value, I don’t know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:16 AM
4

The magical thinking that fuels this theory is laughable, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:12 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:10 AM
1

And what debts do these older women supposedly have?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:09 AM
1

What makes you assume the older woman has debt and the older man doesn’t? Defend your bias. What specific debts do you think they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:07 AM
3

She literally doesn’t care. She’s not coming across emotionally at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:06 AM
1

You’re being obtuse. The men in your example are low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:02 AM
2

Yep. Low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:00 AM
1

How young are we talking? And how old?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 10:54 AM
10

Speaking for myself as an older woman: no. Hell no. I’m in a happy relationship and not seeking out new prospects. However, I have a 19 year old daughter I will walk on glass to protect. That’s my dog in this fight: sharing my life experience with the generation coming up. Older women don’t want these bottom feeders, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 10:49 AM
1

I like the cut of your jib.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 10:44 AM
4

This. And that female waiter you think wants your body, boys? She’s nice to everyone. It’s her job to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 10:01 AM
3

Or don’t date at all 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:52 AM
3

Haha, go for it 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:46 AM
2

Which brings the young woman back to OP’s first point: they can’t help that they’re not attracted to old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:15 AM
5

Sour grapes make the best whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:10 AM
2

Yeah, but let them think it means something 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:09 AM
8

All you young women reading this? Take note. Vet accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:06 AM
7

👊🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 08:57 AM
3

Thanks for drawing my attention to my body gallery 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 08:55 AM
2

r/fatlogic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 08:47 AM
3

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 06:10 AM
8

That’s one teenage woman. It doesn’t represent all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:56 AM
3

I don’t use dating apps. However, I think each user should be required to show proof of their height and weight, regardless of their gender. I think it should be mandatory that this information is provided on their profile. I say this for entirely selfish reasons: so everyone can shut the fuck up with their whining about it. You’re all so boring with this shit. Anyone can have height and weight preferences. I’m just over such a big deal being made of it. Edit: to really shake shit up, let’s add …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:36 AM
12

Oh, the audacity is blinding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:28 AM
2

Oh, yeah, you can 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:28 AM
6

You’re #welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:24 AM
7

I was pointing out that not all 18 year old women give a fuck if the dude has a car. I didn’t want a home and family at 18. I wanted that later in life. I was too busy hitting all my goals. Edit: AND the house was on the waterfront of a really smelly, polluted lake. I lived in a beach resort town at the time. The town this house was in, was a town that we always closed the car windows and blocked our noses when we drove through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:47 AM
10

It depends on the 18 year old’s personality. When I was 18, I didn’t want a boyfriend. I went on one date. He owned a car and was building a house. He thought he had me locked down due to these things. He openly showed disrespect for my studies and career, and made it clear he was looking for a stay at home wife/breeder to put into his new house. Someone who was prepared to give up all their own goals, ambitions and interests. I was NOT buying what he was selling. I considered a second date just…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:34 AM
3

Never date a stoner, ever again. Or any other type of drug addict, for that matter. That lesson served me very well, once I got out of that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:03 AM
2

Funny. My 19 year old daughter has never touched tinder, not now, not when she was 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:02 AM
9

Exactly. An older woman shaming a man for this is merely an ex young woman trying to help out the women coming up behind her, because we’ve been where she is, we know how gross it is, and we’ve seen how these things go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:01 AM
3

Life is not tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:58 AM
3

No, sweetie 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:50 AM
2

The hot 30 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:49 AM
3

I disagree, but the topic is not about marriage. And when I said ‘equally attracted’ I was referring to the fact that most 18 years olds won’t date 30 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:40 AM
10

We established in your last post that you haven’t dated with this type of age gap, therefore no one has shamed you for it. Bottom line is, you want to do it, and when it doesn’t work out, you have a ready made excuse prepared: ‘it’s the fault of the Karens! They went behind my back and told the 18 year old not to date me!’ No. Those young women will be creeped out without the help of older women who look out for them. Don’t you think they have minds of their own? I can say this with confidence a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:41 AM
9

It’s interesting you didn’t say you had no intention of manipulating these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:37 AM
3

I think men and women age and it’s not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:35 AM
3

How do I reconcile it? That’s simple: BOTH parties need to be equally attracted, which usually cancels out your second point. (Assuming we’re talking about men in their 30’s dating 18 year olds, which I’m guessing we are, based on the person posting.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:25 AM
2

But no one was going for op in his youth, so what’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:46 PM
2

Most people, when they want to attract someone, work on becoming more attractive. They don’t blame the other party for not being attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:27 PM
2

Those guys are below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:16 PM
1

I wonder why that is? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:14 PM
1

This is pointless. News at 7: people know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:39 PM
0

No, it isn’t. If someone doesn’t want a relationship, they shouldn’t be in one. It’s very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:10 PM
6

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 01:12 PM
6

I don’t understand why you posted this. No one is entitled to anything? Why is this post worthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 11:19 AM
2

Omg. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 10:24 AM
1

I don’t think I would have. I’m capable of knowing what I need and making decisions accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:33 AM
1

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:42 AM
1

If I’m happy and healthy, then what does it matter about the other side?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:31 AM
1

I totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:30 AM
1

But... I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:30 AM
2

We got together at around 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:47 PM
1

I’m not married. I’m cohabitating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:28 PM
2

It was never a concern. I’ve lived my 46 years on my terms and have zero regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:25 PM
1

When you’re an 18 year old woman who works out rigorously, the type of guys you attract aren’t the type to give you space or alone time. They also weren’t the type to respect my career and studies. The one guy I went on a date with made it clear he thought we would marry and I’d give it all up for him. He didn’t even workout. If I found a guy who could fit in with my lifestyle and do my activities with me then maybe I would have considered it. But even then, I doubt it. I was having too much fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:22 PM
1

I already met him when I was 12. And no. I didn’t want a relationship. How is that unclear? Sometimes you need alone time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:11 PM
2

You do you, boo. I’m happy with the man in my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:20 PM
2

So, because I didn’t let anyone touch my boobs at 18, I’ll be alone? But wait... I’m not alone. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:19 PM
5

Happily so 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:16 PM
1

When I was 18, I was a virgin. I hadn’t let any guy even have access to my boobs. I went on one date right before I turned 19 and thought, nope. This is a trap. I want to be single. In my 18th year of life, I pashed some guys in a night club a few times and was happy to leave it at that. I wanted to be single. I wasn’t ready for sex. I was focusing heavily on my career and my studies and enjoying the huge success that resulted from that. I was also enjoying my casual job, my workouts, my swimmin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:15 PM
1

I’m following the theme of the topic. It’s a lot of pressure to put on an 18 year old: decide who is ‘the one’ right now. I didn’t have a ‘the one’ in mind and I didn’t want a ‘the one’ so young at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 05:58 PM
9

Betabuxx on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 05:49 PM
1

No, nobody is controlling our bodies and it’s wonderful. What choices have consequences, pray tell? And what are those consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:56 PM
2

I’m seeing it become slightly more prevalent in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:37 PM
1

Maybe 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:36 PM
6

And attractive young women are only attracted to attractive young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:59 PM
2

Which is lots of 18-22 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:56 PM
2

He doesn’t. But he’s still gonna throw a tantrum about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:24 PM
6

We’re only interested in the attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:18 PM
4

No! It’s the women’s fault, obviously. /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:13 PM
1

Yup. Cos women are hot shit. 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:05 PM
3

Giiiiive meeee yoooour yoooooouth! Giiive meee eeeeeeeet! 😈 😈 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:03 PM
2

Why on earth would any woman think about some dude she never intends to be with, getting access to her 18 year old tits? It’s our body, we will do exactly as we please with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 01:58 PM
3

Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 01:31 PM
0

Meh. Some do, some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 01:18 PM
6

Why are you talking about baby animals? Why not just say what you mean in a clear way, so we know what you’re talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:55 AM
3

You think being there is equal to showing respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:30 AM
2

Such as? Because I’m a woman, and I know I’ve been only friends with dudes in the past, wasn’t flirting, but they thought it was love or sexual attraction. Some guys don’t realise women are nice to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:28 AM
2

Nope. Men who do this simply need to stop deluding themselves and wake up to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:24 AM
5

What happens when her ‘most valuable asset’ (🤢🤮) runs out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:20 AM
2

I’m glad you’re very happy 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:15 AM
10

Usually what is happening is that the woman is friends with a man, and treats him as such. Usually, the man thinks she’s in love with him and she is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:09 AM
2

How old were you when you met him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:00 AM
4

No. I knew a lot of Christians when I was 18. Lots of the Christian 18 year old women were marrying straight out of high school. And who did they marry? Their high school sweetheart, who were also Christian. Edit: and one of my Christian friends didn’t marry until 24. She married a Christian dude from high school who was the same age as her. Only one couple from this group of people are still married. I’m 46. I’m talking about 4 couples. Side note: you’re still ‘beta buxxing,’ by seeking out a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:00 AM
6

And why would a trad con type of 18 year old woman choose someone so much older than her to marry? She will find someone closer to her own age who is also attractive. She’s gonna want pretty babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:53 AM
4

Absolutely. My first boyfriend was 21 and I was 16. That was as old as I would go. When I was 18, I went on one date with a 21 year old. There wasn’t a second date, because he made it clear he wanted to lock me down into marriage ASAP. My next boyfriend was 22 and I was 19. Those are the types of age gaps I was into. I did have a brief fling with a 32 year old when I was 23, but he looked and acted my age. But that fling didn’t last long, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:51 AM
5

Is a med student’s ability to become a doctor deteriorating like an unattractive man’s looks? Tell me: what is your plan? How are you going to attract an 18 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:43 AM
12

I think these dudes underestimate just how much an 18 year old considers a 30 year old dude as a NPC. Straight up: when I was 22, and a 67 year old dude started trying to get me to have an affair with him, I had no idea until he took it too far. Because it NEVER in a million years would occur to me to see any dude that age as a dating prospect. I read something entirely different and more innocent into it, which led to getting cornered into a really bad situation. I would have been the same at 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:40 AM
1

Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:34 AM
7

Right. So why haven’t you achieved this with an 18 year old thus far, if it’s so easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:32 AM
2

So, let me get this straight: When you were 18, 18 year old women wouldn’t fuck you. You think they will now, even though they never have before, even though you’ve aged and probably don’t look as good as you used to. You think an 18 year old woman (who, let’s face it, most are not interested in marriage at that age) is going to suddenly be attracted to you and want to marry you. Even though you’ve never attracted an 18 year old and have aged quite a bit. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:29 AM
5

Yeah, they do deserve it. But if you weren’t attracting 18 year olds before this, you won’t attract them now, so your reputation will be fine and no one will be shaming you for something that is never going to happen. Why are you so worried about this ‘shaming’ that you will never endure? Also, why do guys like you blame older women so much for judging this behaviour? Men the same age are just as disgusted, and you should be more worried about them kicking your arse, because they are these women…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:25 AM
2

You haven’t even attempted this, though, by your own admission. Why can’t YOU leave women alone to date who THEY are attracted to? You’re the one making the sub’s millionth ‘women make choices and it’s not faaair!’ post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:21 AM
3

That’s different to the same woman changing her mind about someone she wasn’t attracted to in the past. If a guy is getting general women’s interest later on after nothing previously, he’s probably lost weight or moved to another town or something. Or he’s finally learned how to socialise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:19 AM
3

It depends on their age, whether or not a woman cares about/wants marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:14 AM
5

So, you’ve never actually been shamed by anyone for dating younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:13 AM
2

Yes, they can. And sorry, but a 30 year old dude pursuing an 18 year old woman is a borderline pedo and deserves a bad reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:12 AM
3

I don’t believe that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:10 AM
2

How many times has this actually happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:04 AM
4

When I was 16-18, it was men trying to push me into marriage. I was not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:00 AM
3

I’m a woman who never had high school sex. I didn’t want it. I have no sympathy for this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:56 AM
3

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:52 AM
5

How many younger women have you personally been dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:49 AM
2

Stop blaming ‘Karens’, feminists and women in general for your own shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:40 AM
1

It wouldn’t just be older women talking them out of it; it’d be their same aged peers, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:39 AM
1

Have you actually experienced this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:37 AM
1

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:36 AM
1

I very much doubt those women notice or care what men like that are doing. And those men? They’re not attracting young women now, if they couldn’t in their own youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:36 AM
6

Oh, yes you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:18 AM
5

Women are not plotting to deny dear men of our Sacred Youthful Tit. No you just don't even take the time to consider it Nope. And nor should we.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:11 AM
3

What are my thoughts? Indifference. Do it. It’s not going to stop any woman doing what she does. Certainly not me. And honestly? The guys I didn’t want when I was younger? I sure as hell didn’t want them later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:07 AM
2

Self care/enhancing products are getting better and better. How is this a bad thing? I intend to use them, enjoy them, and reap the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:01 AM
8

Yes, we are having conversations with actual human beings here. And when we discuss women, we are having conversations about actual human beings, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:08 AM
1

Why didn’t you use condoms? Seems stupid not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:48 AM
1

Can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:46 AM
1

I agree with that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:35 PM
6

True. I think it’s important for women to educate themselves about sex before jumping in. I had read up about sex a lot as a virgin, and I had a firm grasp on what I wanted from the experience. I was empowered from the get go, and have always been demanding. That said, I was painfully aware that my first time was with a very unskilled man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:45 PM
5

Those cases sound sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:35 PM
2

Did you, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:06 PM
3

That ‘word’ conveys all that? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:40 PM
3

Fair 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:39 PM
2

It’s not just the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:37 PM
2

Explain ‘outchea.’
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:35 PM
14

The main objection being, ‘she won’t fuck me.’
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:33 PM
22

When did shaking your arse on a Saturday night become a crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:32 PM
6

A virgin woman can still tell if the sex is good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:29 PM
4

Yeah. A guy like that won’t throw a tantrum about it or become aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:11 PM
9

If they’re naturally generous, that will shine through and not go against them. If they act like it’s weak to let a woman pay and somehow makes them less of a man, that’s fragile masculinity, and I don’t fuck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:04 PM
5

I believe in either going Dutch, or taking turns paying. But for a first date, Dutch is best. It’s a good way to weed out men who think you owe them sex, or are fragile in their masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:53 PM
2

I’m not. I was answering the question that was asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:40 AM
2

This topic only addressed advice about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:21 AM
2

I don’t think so. If a man feels emasculated by it, then their masculinity was already hanging by a thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:54 AM
3

I’m a woman. One of my daughters is lesbian, so no advice there except for preventing sexual assault. I also have needed to give her lots of advice on dealing with sexual harassment from classmates. My other daughter is pan sexual. Same advice about preventing sexual assault, and dealing with sexual harassment from classmates. We also talk a lot about standards with men, red flags to do with incels and the red pill, etc, in terms of what to avoid. I’ve talked to her about some of the good stuff …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 08:35 AM
6

Some would refer to building rapport as ‘friendly.’
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 04:41 AM
2

For the most part, I’ve never believed in leagues. Except when I was in high school. My current partner and I were both attracted to each other, but neither of us ever acted on it because we both thought the other was out of our league. We ended up getting together at about 25 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 03:09 AM
2

Speaking as a woman, I have always been completely disinterested in having a relationship of any sort in the work place beyond friendship. Work’s work, personal life is completely separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 02:57 AM
3

Why don’t you give us an example of what you’re talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 02:54 AM
1

You need to learn the definition of tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 02:51 AM
1

🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:46 PM
0

I’ve never felt a need to ask men for dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:16 PM
1

Women: ‘Wash your arse.’ Him: ‘oh my god, that’s for RICH people, you gold digger!’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:59 PM
4

None of this advice is about being rich and hot. You don’t have to be rich and hot to do these things, nor will doing these things make you rich or hot. They simply take you from crusty basement dweller to baseline level human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 07:14 AM
2

Who cares? Is anyone taking trp seriously in the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:03 AM
2

At all ages, life is what you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:01 AM
1

Thanks for that 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:37 AM
2

No one should be faking an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:20 AM
2

It’s not difficult for me to have an orgasm, and if the sex is good, I will have multiples. So, yeah. In the past, if a guy couldn’t even give me one measly orgasm, they weren’t good at sex, therefore I didn’t go back to a dude like that. It didn’t ruin my sex life as a whole, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 02:26 AM
3

Self proclaimed r/niceguys are always the biggest arseholes of them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:58 AM
2

Thanks 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:42 AM
3

I should also add that my current partner and I no longer use them, since he had a vasectomy. And, of course, we didn’t use them when we were actively trying to conceive. But for the rest of our 21 year relationship? It’s always been condoms. For anyone interested, this is the ad that was drummed into us as young people during the AIDS epidemic: https://youtu.be/OJ9f378T49E
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:38 AM
11

I was a young adult during the AIDS epidemic. I was always militant about condom usage, except during a long term relationship (I used the pill for a while, until it was no longer an option). It terrifies me to hear of people who don’t take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:34 AM
5

That, and sunscreen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:50 PM
9

She’s right. I’m on tret at 46, it’s great stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:32 PM
2

I have no idea. I’m not a bible person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:16 PM
7

How does virginity relate to finance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:51 PM
14

I would assume Dave Ramsey is not discussing virginity because he talks about finance, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:54 AM
4

Fingers still exist 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:55 PM
0

Have you tried turning her off, then turning her back on?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 07:00 AM
1

That’s perfect motivation. Yes, I decided to change my flair, because I was tired of explaining the previous one 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:02 AM
4

Haha! I love it 😂 I’m enjoying seeing such a positive post on this sub for a change. Seriously, go for it, though. Don’t do it for anyone else. Do it for you. Everything else will be a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:19 AM
5

Yes, the last one was hardest, because by that time, I was also struggling with a chronic illness (still am, of course). I was really starting to feel like the disease was taking away my life, stopping me from doing what I wanted to do and not letting me be the person I know I am. For the last one, I really had to fight back, because I didn’t want my illness to win. I still don’t. I think that’s what I like best about glow ups: they build your character, give you confidence and then you carry th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 01:28 AM
3

I’ve had about three glow ups in my life. First one was when I was 17. I was thin, but I had a fat bum, due to exams at school. Also, my mother had this weird thing where she would buy all my clothes a few sizes too big for me. I read a magazine article about women who lift weights and I felt this urge to get into it. I just had this feeling I would fall in love with it as a hobby, and I did. That led to me caring more about my nutrition, then I added cardio to supplement my weight lifting. In a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 01:19 AM
3

That’s not the same as saying all women are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:46 PM
2

My point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:33 PM
2

If they need lube, that’s a bad sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:26 PM
6

Lots of us haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:16 PM
5

Thanks 😊 I also get annoyed online, if I say something that someone else disagrees with, like, I don’t know, I don’t like trump, and am called a Karen. I don’t get offended really, it’s more like I get irritable when I see memes used incorrectly 😂 I’m the same way when I see ‘incels’ or ‘boomer’ used in the incorrect context. But that’s just me being picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:52 AM
2

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:22 AM
10

I believe Karens exist. But she’s a very specific type of person. Karen is 40 and over. She is white. She’s overweight. She’s a wine mum. She has what she thinks is a ‘nifty’ haircut. She is either in peri menopause or menopause, and takes it out on strangers and service staff. Her political views are right leaning. She’s usually racist, but not always. She likes to write essays on business pages on Facebook about the APPALLING service she received that day. I have seen some left leaning Karens,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:17 AM
0

She only needs one man!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:43 AM
2

My boomer parents were abusive, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 05:44 PM
3

I know that, and I stand by my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 05:18 PM
2

Exactly. Most women do lots for their loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:56 AM
-3

r/niceguys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:06 AM
8

Listening to a boomer was your first mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:05 AM
1

I would feel indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:38 AM
1

I’m 5’2. Everyone taller than me is a giraffe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:36 AM
1

I don’t care about a man’s height, as long as he’s not too tall. I’m slim as well, so I don’t have a dog in this fight. I know height can’t be changed and weight can. But in terms of attraction, they are both the same. You don’t like what you don’t like. And if being overweight is a dealbreaker, there’s no guarantee that the woman will choose to lose the weight, so you go for who has what you want right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:36 AM
3

Women bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 02:20 AM
2

Women pay tax.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:43 AM
2

That’s very ‘woe is me.’
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:29 AM
1

Women are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:20 AM
2

You haven’t met me. You don’t know my life 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:20 AM
1

But you can choose the ratio of internet to real world interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:10 AM
2

Who asked them to? And no, they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:02 AM
7

Why should I change my perspective? I’m a woman who does love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:22 PM
0

It’s already fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:13 PM
4

So... you tried out the ideas from the echo chamber and now you’re complaining about the results. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:06 PM
101

I think you would benefit from forming your own personal opinions on women by spending time interacting with them away from the internet, instead of blindly parroting the RP. Think for yourself. You have been in the echo chamber too long, and the claims you make about women are false.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:51 PM
1

Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 08:22 AM
3

You didn’t answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 11:04 AM
3

So, there are literally no consequences, despite your warning us about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:30 AM
3

I have never been accused of deceit by any man when I have worn makeup. Not once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 09:37 AM
3

I’m a feminist. This claim is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 09:31 AM
3

Why do you think we need to wear a disclosure t shirt? What do you expect it to achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 09:29 AM
7

It is, for the woman. It’s for her feelings of accomplishment and financial security. Not everything women do is about men. And we already know lots of guys have disdain for it. Knowing that, women do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:22 AM
2

That’s what this dude is talking about. And when anyone improves themselves, they are making changes. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:19 AM
1

Thank you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:18 AM
1

It has nothing to do with attraction for me. I don’t expect my partner to be my minder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:14 AM
1

I think most women here get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:13 AM
2

Wouldn’t you be offended if someone tried to change you anyway? I would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:41 PM
5

Lots of women love a dude with grungy black eyeliner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:36 PM
2

Men are wearing makeup now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:33 PM
2

It doesn’t mean they’re a troll, it means they feel strongly about their opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:13 PM
3

No, it’s not deceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:00 PM
2

I’ve seen tons of posts over there praising hvm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:48 PM
2

What are you going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:01 PM
2

You brought up ‘scrotes.’ That sub also talks about the good guys frequently, but people like you never seem to acknowledge that. As for lifestyle changes to help women: FDS has a sister sub called r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy. That’s where women are going to be the best they can be, for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:24 PM
3

Scrotes are low value men. If they’re not bad, what are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:14 PM
13

Right?? Women are blamed on this sub for becoming single mothers, not fucking men, and now this? we’re now responsible for some man’s fucking shortcomings? Oh no. Not today, Satan. We’ll always choose the better man. Women are not a charity. Men can shape up or ship out. The sooner these whining piss babies realise this, the sooner they will get laid. Now, I’m sure someone is going to counter my remarks with, ‘but what about women? Shouldn’t they have to shape up or ship out, too?’ Yes. Yes, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:01 PM
2

Just because you disagree with someone, doesn’t automatically make them a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:54 PM
2

It wasn’t a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:50 PM
5

Everyone should be doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 01:34 PM
15

I agree. One is guaranteed, the other is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 10:13 AM
6

Why shouldn’t you be responsible for working on being your best self? Everyone else is too busy doing just that, they don’t have time to change a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 10:11 AM
3

Lol! That would be perfect. It’s something that shouldn’t ever happen during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:59 AM
5

The dude I lost it to spat on my genitals, rather than do foreplay. I didn’t go back to him after that, and I vowed I would never have sex with such a low value man ever again, and I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:55 AM
4

That’s how I took it at the time. I always avoided letting dudes know I was a virgin, because it was bad enough that they suspected it. It’s so stupid though, when guys think a virgin will be so happy with the sex, because they have nothing else to compare it to. My first sexual experience was with a guy who was really bad at sex. I didn’t need any experience to know that my body was completely dissatisfied and he was unskilled. Also, even as a virgin, I had read up a lot about sex, and I knew e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:33 AM
4

Definitely. I was unfortunate to not have fantastic early partners at that age. And they were in a mad hurry to secure the marriage as quickly as possible. Mind you, after my abusive upbringing, I really did need to make my own way in life, first. I was happy to have relationships, but early marriage just felt like a trap to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:08 AM
2

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:14 AM
16

It’s great for people who are into that. I’m not. When I was between 16-18, there were guys trying to do the ‘wife her quickly’ routine. I wasn’t having it. The thing they had in common were a disdain for my studies and career. I grew up in an abusive household, and I was just desperate to, for the first time in my life, do what i want to do, and feel totally safe and free. I wanted to study my passions, get my dream career, swim, workout and party. Plus, whatever the hell else I felt like. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:09 AM
2

I think you’re overthinking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 01:29 AM
3

I don’t care what a man’s number is. It doesn’t interest me. As long as he’s a good person and std free, it doesn’t matter. Most men aren’t concerned about a woman’s number either. At least, that’s been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:48 PM
1

Lol. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:20 PM
3

You’ll get whatever we give you and be grateful for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:43 PM
1

Ridiculous, isn’t it? My partner of 21 years and I waited quite a few months before doing the deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:42 PM
3

Nah, just get married on the first date 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:30 PM
2

Wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:25 PM
2

And why won’t they? Because it’s those men’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:19 PM
5

No one is holding a gun to your head to use or pay for it. There’s lots of free porn online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:16 PM
2

Right? And these blanket statements are just blurted out as though they’re absolute, commonly known truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 11:43 AM
1

Maybe, as a lot of people on this sub like to claim, it’s just biology? 🤷‍♀️ 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 09:35 AM
8

It’s never happened, because I’m quite small. But I wouldn’t really care. I don’t have a male partner for protection. That’s what my dogs are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 09:33 AM
1

Ok. I think you’ve had enough internet. Go get some sunshine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 08:29 AM
3

I’m pretty sure everyone is treating their long term relationship better than their flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 08:13 AM
3

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 08:01 AM
3

What if our Ltr is chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 07:50 AM
2

You don’t have any say in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 07:41 AM
10

Women don’t ONLY care about looks. Just because it’s important, doesn’t mean it’s the only thing we care about. I think it’s a good thing that women don’t marry early anymore, if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:19 AM
11

‘Women should...’ Do whatever the hell they want with their own body.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:18 AM
1

No skincare routine has makeup in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:03 PM
1

You will have robots and be grateful for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:31 PM
1

Koreans also wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:10 PM
3

I take it you’ve never heard of the Korean 10 step skincare routine 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 09:32 AM
3

Some of this sounds like beer goggles tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 09:19 AM
1

I think if your only contact with women is looking at them on Instagram or YouTube, then for those guys, their perspective is heavily skewed. I’m not suggesting you are one of those guys 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 09:18 AM
2

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:42 AM
1

I hear what you’re saying, op and I totally agree. For makeup today, I’m wearing a nude coloured tinted spf lip balm. I can assure anyone who is concerned that I look like exactly the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:34 AM
3

Or a glutton for punishment 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:37 PM
1

I simply answered it because you brought it up and said it as if it’s a negative from a woman’s point of view. I presented a positive point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:19 PM
2

It’s not a shot at you. Technically, it’s a compliment if a woman won’t let you do anal. Why are most dudes on here such pessimists?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:16 PM
1

People will stop breeding, the human race will die out and planet earth will be better for it. But then, I’m an optimist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:15 PM
2

And many different situations might also not be what they seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:12 PM
2

I tried anal and decided I hated it and will never do it again. Do you know why I let the dude do it? Because he had an extremely thin dick, and that made it feel like there’d be less damage. I was wrong; there was still damage. But thank god I didn’t try it with someone larger. It’s not always the compliment you think it is, to be chosen for anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:07 PM
1

Oh, that’s right. This happened 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:44 PM
4

I think it’s a phrase that is said about both genders, by both genders. It can mean lots of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:23 AM
7

A wolf whistle falls into the same category. But with cat calling, it can be crass comments, such as degrading names, saying lewd things about your body, talking about the sexual things they either want to do to you or you to do to them. Crass demands to get in the car with them. It’s not, ‘that’s a beautiful dress you’re wearing.’ Cat calling is not ok. It’s degrading, disrespectful and scary. What groups tend to be observed doing this the most? There’s no set group. Is the issue of catcalling …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:02 AM
3

You say, ‘I’m sorry, but this relationship isn’t going to work out.’ Wish her well and move on. You don’t need to give reasons. If someone pushes for a reason, keep repeating, ‘it’s just not what I want.’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:50 PM
8

What does spinning have to do with cakes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:27 PM
1

It’s so weird. A virgin can still tell if the sex was bad or good. Comparison has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 09:56 AM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:53 PM
4

You obviously haven’t heard about all the nursing home sex going on 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:49 AM
2

Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:45 AM
2

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:03 AM
5

It would worry any sane parent. Maybe you could go to some al anon or nar anon meetings (it’s support for friends and family of addicts). That would help you to learn the signs more now that you’re not living with her (but also try to remember what her ‘tells’ were when you did live together), and often have excellent advice on how to deal with that side of things. I hope everything goes ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:27 PM
2

I don’t know if this depends on where this guy lives. I live in Australia and what he’s saying about jobs women can’t do is preposterous to me. I see examples of women doing all these things everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:23 PM
3

The same can be said for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:19 PM
3

As a mum: what I would be keeping an eye out for is drug abuse, whether or not this takes an unreasonable amount of time from your child and whether or not she’s keeping it separate from the child. I don’t know much about sugar babies. I was offered to be hooked up as one in my early 20’s and said no. Maybe you could google sugar baby mothers and see what comes up? If you’re on good terms with her, ask her to clarify your concerns, then keep watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:56 PM
4

Amy Schumer is always held up as an example of all women being unfunny. She’s not the only female comedian.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:52 PM
3

Why are you talking about men quitting these jobs? They aren’t. Women can do all those jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:51 PM
5

The way you describe her made her sound that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:19 PM
5

Oh, you meant an actual garbologist. I just meant I have started doing it at home because my partner stopped. Not only could women easily be a garbologist, but men aren’t quitting those jobs en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:18 PM
1

I already have a happy love life, but thank you for your concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:11 PM
3

If men stop taking out the trash, women do it. Source: I’m a woman who currently does this job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:06 PM
3

He deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:00 PM
5

You amused a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:59 PM
3

I always laugh when I’m asked for anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:56 PM
3

You’re upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:49 PM
3

So, how many egos have you destroyed thus far?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:43 PM
2

To deter chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:38 PM
3

So just an equal opportunity troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:34 PM
5

I noticed in another thread, you mentioned you enjoyed ‘destroying women’s egos.’ I guess that’s the explanation for this trolling here? How embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:25 PM
2

I bet he needed a DEGREE to get a job to afford them, too. No other explanation would make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:17 PM
2

Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:16 PM
3

That’s very large indeed. God bless chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:09 PM
14

Personality and looks, or remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:07 PM
4

Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:06 PM
4

My ego is as big as Chad’s thunderous cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:05 PM
2

And how revealing are the clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:03 PM
6

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:02 PM
6

I totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 11:23 AM
4

First, you need to learn what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:58 AM
4

Learn what projecting means.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:47 AM
5

Right...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:36 AM
4

How do you feel about women attracting Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:31 AM
4

Right... so, if a woman IS spending money on looking hot for Chad (and let’s be real, not all women are), what is the problem with that? Edit: and why would they earn a degree to make money for makeup and revealing clothes for Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:18 AM
5

Oh,oh, oh! I can guess what you think the answer is. Chad. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:15 AM
4

I know he must wear makeup, because he’s a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:55 AM
5

I was answering the op. How women spend their money is irrelevant to the topic and not only have you not given a reason for your concern, but you also don’t seem to understand all women are different, and therefore all spend their money differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:30 AM
5

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:18 AM
6

What a low point we’ve reached when YOU’RE assessing MY spelling 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:17 AM
7

That’s... what you implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:09 AM
6

What is the point you’re trying to prove? That nothing we spend money on is important, so we shouldn’t bother having jobs, qualifications and careers?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:59 AM
6

That’s not an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:07 AM
3

Why did you mention snickers, if you don’t eat chocolate? Edit: oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:03 AM
4

Jeans, chocolate and shirts. No bills? Other food besides chocolate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:54 AM
8

How is the spending habits of women relevant to the original topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:53 AM
11

You asked what women spend their money on. Why do you care? It’s their money, not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:12 AM
12

It’s women’s money and none of your business what it is being spent on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:10 AM
8

Whatever we like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:07 AM
27

We do those things for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:56 AM
6

Hang in there, because it will happen. All the unattractive women I grew up with have managed to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:50 AM
1

Ok, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:02 PM
3

I assumed that ‘investing’ meant marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:59 AM
2

I’m happy to comply, but I don’t understand how it’s circle jerking? Like, what if I do it again without realising?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:58 AM
2

It’s never occurred to me that ‘starter wives’ is a thing, or to fear it. As for why I didn’t stick with a guy I met when I was young? Because the relationships I was in when I was very young didn’t work out. Mind you, I never wanted to marry super young. In fact, if I could see that’s where a guy’s mind was heading, I was out the door fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:46 AM
1

Men can have whatever standards they please. That is, when they actually have any. What happens if they can’t get a woman to their standards is their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:43 AM
0

Sure. And those men make up the 99% I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 11:10 AM
2

It’s not a problem. It’s Darwin’s theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:51 AM
0

Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:21 AM
1

Thank you for saying this. I can’t be the only person reading this who thought, ‘hang on, isn’t sex free?’
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:17 AM
2

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:12 AM
2

It won’t work, because he and I are often laughing about shit like this from this sub. He wouldn’t believe it to begin with. Just because n count matters to you, doesn’t mean all men are like you. Edit: also, you are the 99% I mentioned. Thanks for proving my point so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:03 AM
2

I’m not going to lie to my partner! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:54 AM
1

When talking about n count? Yes, totally irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:52 AM
2

Solution: don’t marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:28 AM
2

Name the different lands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:45 AM
1

No, they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:30 AM
1

Because nice food is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:52 AM
1

No thanks. I’m an adult woman who has been ordering my own food since I was a child. And we WILL be talking politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:49 AM
9

After watching a friend’s truly awful relationship, I learned to vigilantly avoid man babies who are looking for a bang maid. Once I learned to avoid that, it filtered out the right guys. There were other things I learned from my own relationships, but watching my friend’s relationship was the most priceless lesson of all that served me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:18 PM
2

Lol! Mine isn’t at the moment, but it usually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:58 AM
2

Yes. Yawn. And when men neg us, we yawn, too. Thanks for proving negging doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:33 AM
2

You mean the same sub you’re on, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:31 AM
2

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:16 AM
2

Rant away lol! I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:16 AM
2

Well, it’s good that you’re being realistic in your approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:14 AM
1

I have a fetish for ice cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:43 PM
3

before all that women did indeed appreciate a compliment even from random and uglier men. Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:35 PM
1

We’re not married. I never discuss my current sex life with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:34 PM
1

It didn’t ‘work.’ She was probably very drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:29 PM
7

I think your attempts to understand women is admirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:28 PM
16

I wouldn’t give two hoots if someone asked me if my bag is from target.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:18 PM
4

Not just nowadays. They always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:15 PM
5

Gotta turn those negatives into positives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:13 PM
8

This is why I’m kind of a fan of negging. It’s always easier to filter out the trash up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:07 PM
4

Women who have experience being hit on? So you want to find a plain woman no one else is interested in? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:04 PM
1

None of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:00 PM
14

Negging is self inflicted cock blocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:59 PM
3

That’s known as a red flag to experienced women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:56 PM
1

My partner is very agreeable and I’m still very much into him after all these years. And he’s probably made me a thousand sandwiches in that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:54 PM
10

I would just assume they’re interested in makeup? 🤷‍♀️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:49 PM
1

You’re really reading too much into women’s behaviour. When I ask my partner to make me a sandwich, I’m not testing anything; I’m simply hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:40 PM
1

All this over a question about a sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:10 PM
5

There MUST be a way to worm in a good cock carousel comment somewhere on this thread? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:06 PM
1

Yes. But he rarely asks me, because he’s usually offering to make me a sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:01 PM
5

When I was single, and a guy negged me, I would walk away from them before they finished the sentence, laughing. Their friends always seemed to find it amusing to watch, too 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:42 PM
3

Matriarchy is an old tradition in many cultures. It’s not a new thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:13 AM
1

It doesn’t matter what a woman is wearing, nobody has any right to treat her in a way that makes her feel degraded or in a way that disregards her feelings as a human being. Some men don’t seem to understand the difference between that behaviour and being attracted to a person you respect. Those men are not quality men. Being an adult means you should be able to express your attraction to someone appropriately, without making a dickhead of yourself. And if you can’t do that, it says more about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:27 AM
1

1 and 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:23 AM
10

The first I ever heard of it was in the 90’s, but didn’t know anyone who was actually in a relationship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 12:34 PM
1

Maybe those women are sleeping with men who are shit at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 05:35 AM
1

Not only is it possible, the clitoris already wraps around the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:49 AM
3

Thank you for saving the rest of us from having to point this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:47 AM
9

Chads bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:32 PM
2

Plenty of men act entitled. I’m saying it’s not sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:11 AM
3

I totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:52 AM
1

girls like to be fought over. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:44 AM
2

And I’m saying that it’s not somewhat understandable. I’d even say that’s where you contradicted yourself. If you think a woman who agreed to go on dates is ‘stringing you along,’ then that’s entitled. That’s why I believe it’s best to split the bill on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:40 AM
7

I don’t think it’s sane to expect sex just because you took someone on dates and did things for them. Dating is a vetting process, not a sex contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 07:32 PM
0

It all sounds very old fashioned. Both genders hold the door open for others. I’ve seen (and done it myself) both genders carry bags for someone struggling. These things are just manners, being a decent person. And those actions are vastly different to having sex. We don’t give out sex because someone is struggling, or to be polite 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 07:29 PM
7

Again: what you’ve described would not fly where I live. We hold people to the standards of helping within whatever their personal capabilities are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 07:05 PM
13

I live in Australia, and yes they do. We have a strong sense of community, and it would be shameful to not lend some form of support/assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 06:59 PM
3

I have a friend who is a woman who works at a steel mill 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 06:57 PM
12

Of course I would. I’m a woman who does whatever I can in an emergency. Most people I know are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 06:54 PM
14

I would expect any decent human being of any gender to step in and help in whatever way they are capable of helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 06:50 PM
3

Which is funny, because this topic seems to be complaining about women closing their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 08:49 AM
7

I said I could and would acknowledge they were upset. But I still wouldn’t have anal. I did see that post. The boyfriend was the arsehole. The girlfriend even gave in, and was worse off for it afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:29 AM
5

My male partner isn’t sad about me refusing to ever do anal with him, because he’s an adult, he respects my boundaries and can imagine how much anal fucking hurts. HE cares about MY feelings, which, considering I’m the one who would get hurt/damaged from such an act, is the one whose feelings matters the most. I always care about his feelings. But thankfully, he’s not upset about this, and if he was, it wouldn’t be enough for me to go through with it. But I could acknowledge his feelings if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:17 AM
8

It’s our body, and it has nothing to do with the partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:06 AM
10

I just hate it and refuse to do it. I regret ever trying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:02 AM
7

Women bad. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 09:27 AM
2

We should all treat people with respect, regardless of what’s in it for us personally. Why? Because we care about the well being of the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:06 AM
4

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:03 AM
1

Equality. Although to be fair, I end up taking the lead when it’s needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:17 PM
5

🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:36 PM
7

I haven’t explained your sexual preferences to you. That would be ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:34 PM
10

Wow. Mainsplaining a woman’s own preferences. Now I’ve seen it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:26 PM
2

5’10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:25 PM
11

Yes and I have. Don’t tell me what I can and can’t handle. I’ve given birth three times, and it was hard enough without adding a Sasquatch child to the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:23 PM
11

As a 5’2 woman, the last thing I want to do is push out a large child. Not all women want tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:18 PM
2

You realise you could easily find it via my post history, right? Or reading the full thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:31 PM
1

You brought it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:24 PM
4

Why do I have to type it out again, when you can simply read it? Yes, in the past, there was a problem with intersectional feminism not being understood, accepted and encouraged. We have learned from this and are improving on it accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:24 PM
4

I mentioned two already. No one here has brought up man spreading but you. If you don’t know about the women’s rights movements, you could google the history quite easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:04 PM
1

I’m old and taken and I use insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:00 PM
2

‘Hello? I am looking for a beautiful angle like you to make me smile.’ 🤢🤮 (It’s never ‘angel.’ Ever.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 02:51 PM
7

We fight for our own rights and those of others. In non western countries, feminism exists in most places, but depending on safety issues, much of it is hidden. Also: Australia is considered a westernised country.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 02:47 PM
9

Feminists fight for the rights of all women. And plenty of posters here probably live in the ‘rest of the world.’ You’re on the internet. The WORLD WIDE web. An example: I live in Australia. Abortion is legal, but say if my 19 year old daughter wanted a tubal ligation to PREVENT an abortion, she would be denied, and probably be told to wait until she has children, because her future husband may want children. This is not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 02:43 PM
8

Sure, men gave us rights after we fought for them. And how disgusting that one gender had all the rights and power in the first place. Now that we have more rights, women are getting into positions of power. In time, women in these positions will increase, so there will be a more even distribution of power among women and men. As for your religious comments: I’m not sure what you’re talking about there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 02:21 PM
6

There are still too many places in the world where abortion is illegal and tubal ligation is extremely difficult to access when needed. Those are just two things that come to mind quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 02:06 PM
8

It’s not a hate group. And any rights women have are here thanks to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 02:03 PM
9

What on earth does the attractiveness of men have to do with basic human rights? I like having my name on the title deeds to my house. I like having the option of being able to work, despite the fact I’m a mother. I like that the fault free divorce exists and that rape inside marriage is now illegal. These are all important products of feminism. No, I would not like to get rid of any of them, even if all men were attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 02:02 PM
11

Yes, I would still be a feminist. I want rights and choices, what human being doesn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 01:42 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 08:27 AM
4

Would you go out with her if she said yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:47 AM
2

Did she reject you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:38 AM
1

I wouldn’t assume anything about them until I got to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 03:32 PM
1

I’m a woman and the answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 03:29 PM
3

I’m an Aussie. This is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 03:50 AM
2

When you find out why so many women avoid online dating, you have your answer. It’s really quite obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:58 PM
6

Is it purge week?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:14 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 03:19 AM
2

This is why I wear so many men’s shirts. Not that it stops guys from staring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:33 AM
1

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 04:32 AM
11

You want us to go to uncomfortable, often painful lengths to look good to make your dick hard. You would be happy, we wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:14 PM
8

Exactly. I still have a vagina and breasts. I identify as a woman. Therefore, I am feminine and I embrace it. The catch? I embrace it in a way that suits ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:11 PM
7

You’re so right. I forgot to think about my future husband when I got my tattoos 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:09 PM
6

My mother is 66 and she still doesn’t know what a condom is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:06 PM
5

We pick and choose which aspects of our appearance we want to spend time on. But nothing is feminine or masculine anymore. Men wear makeup. Women wear pants. They’re just things without gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:59 PM
2

I care about things that actually matter. Lots of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:56 PM
4

am funny blah blah blah Well, you made me laugh. 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:45 PM
2

I am against the body positive movement. I’m a regular poster at r/fatlogic. I don’t expect anyone to find me attractive. But my partner does, and that’s nice. So do some other men, and that’s annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:43 PM
7

Well, he’s changed my mind! Back to corsets I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:40 PM
8

Oh, bless your heart. 5 whole workouts a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:38 PM
3

Why would I let any other person, man or woman, dictate what I do with my own body?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:37 PM
3

I have an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:35 PM
2

Sure. But it’s not all men and I give zero fucks either way. Let a dude be turned off. It’s not their body, it’s mine, and I will do what I please with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:33 PM
5

True. She spent waaay too long describing the scene where someone got someone else a glass of water.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:29 PM
2

First off, when I choose whether or not to decorate my body, what men think of it is the furthest thing from my mind. Because it’s MY body. Secondly: some men hate tattoos, some are turned on by them. I got my tattoos before I got together with my partner. He has tattoos and loves mine. We want to get more together. Also, as a bonus: my partner has a full head of hair but chooses to shave it bald and I think it looks hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:27 PM
3

Well, then, I got my tattoos because I’m an idiot, not to prove a ‘point.’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:22 PM
2

LMAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:17 PM
6

Well, that’s what certain men reduce us to. But they’ll still carry shit for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:13 PM
3

It’s a shitty Twilight fanfic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:12 PM
4

Dang. We just wanted some tattoos. Why must we need a reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:11 PM
7

Women intimidate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:10 PM
3

Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:08 PM
7

Ouch. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:03 PM
9

Wrong! Different women have different likes and dislikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:03 PM
6

Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:00 PM
5

Wrong. But who are you to assume all women even want a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:59 PM
11

I’m a feminist. Some of my appearance fits the stereotype, some doesn’t. My hair is my natural colour: blonde with some grey streaks. I’m skinny. I wear men’s shirts and jackets. (Edit to add: I also wear men’s tracksuit pants, because they actually have pockets.) I wear women’s shirts and pants. I wear skirts and dresses. I have pierced ears but I don’t wear earrings anymore, because I don’t want my active dogs to rip them out. My navel was pierced but it’s closed up, now. I don’t own pyjamas, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:57 PM
5

These are things feminism successfully fought to change. So, yeah, so far, we’ve won, and we’re happy about the outcome. Die mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:48 PM
6

Right?? Fuck’s sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:47 PM
3

A HOT roadie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:46 PM
10

Lots of feminists find 50 shades of grey to be problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:44 PM
1

When people say personality is important, they’re talking about a decent one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:42 PM
7

You’re welcome. Enjoy. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:41 PM
14

It’s weird how you think all feminists look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:41 PM
13

To women of quality, it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:33 PM
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Speak for yourself. I’m happy for the most part. I’m confused though. You said we won? Now you’re saying we’re unhappy? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:31 PM
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I think life was better before they brought in the fault free divorce, rape in marriage was legal and women couldn’t vote, dammit! Now we’re just....undateable 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:29 PM
13

People are nice to us simply because we have tits. It doesn’t matter what we wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:27 PM
14

Oh, can’t we go back to a simpler time, when we wouldn’t be allowed to own a home? wrings hands
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:24 PM
8

Like you said: we won.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:22 PM
20

We’re not done yet. But it’s nice to hear some positive feedback for a change. PS: we also fart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:16 PM
5

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:04 PM
1

Can I just say, I fucking love your work! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:58 PM
2

I have read the contents of the sub extensively.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:53 PM
2

If the guy’s hot, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:23 PM
1

Do you have property?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:20 PM
1

Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:16 PM
1

I locked down my alpha at 24 and had my young, crazy lifestyle before that. I wouldn’t call myself the top 20% either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:14 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:03 PM
2

Well, it means you painted an inaccurate picture of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:56 PM
2

You said I was ‘coping,’ for one. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:55 PM
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It is if you’re fat. If you think it’s all ‘poor me’ over there, you must have skimmed the sub. Sometimes women bring up problems, but that’s with the intent of fixing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:51 PM
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It’s not unique at all. I know some men like to try to scare young women in an attempt to control their choices. But a: it’s a lie. And b: it won’t work. Women will continue choosing who they want and doing what they want and they will be fine. And what do you mean, I acted a certain way? How did I act?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:48 PM
2

I mean sure that's cute and all and clearly an exception to the rule, but you've still hit the wall. Where did I say otherwise? I’m the age for it. But the wall is bullshit, so... I highly doubt at your age you're able to attract men that are part of the 20%, since those men are going after 20 year old bombshells. And as much as you love your Romeo, you can't lie to me and tell me you wouldn't LOVE to fuck a young 25 year old stud right now. I’m not looking to attract anyone else because I’m wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:40 PM
3

I think getting/staying in shape is an important part of self improvement. They set lots of goals across all areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:36 PM
1

Probably. I assume everyone does things for reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:33 PM
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My partner, when we were in high school, had the nickname, ‘Romeo’, because he had lots of girlfriends and most girls had a crush on him. We’re both the same age, and he still has women who get silly around him. So, no. I didn’t settle and I’ve never needed to. Someone on this thread mentioned we’d be alone. I know very few single women my age and older.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:28 PM
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FDS has a sister sub called r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy. I’m not in FDS, but I am in FLUS. The sister sub is all about self improvement in all aspects of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:14 PM
2

FDS advocates making the men pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:10 PM
2

I’m 46, so I believe I qualify for the so-called ‘wall.’ I’m not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:07 PM
2

Focusing on other people’s sex lives will not get you sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:05 PM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:33 PM
7

All the single women reading this diary entry? Take note of this behaviour so you can avoid it like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:00 PM
2

What sort of slang is, ‘most bitch is heightist?’ I could amuse myself by answering that, but I’d probably get banned 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:03 AM
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I feel like too many people on this sub are too obsessed with the sexual habits of others, instead of figuring out how to get their own sex life. I don’t know who the ‘top 20% of men’ (whatever that is) are sleeping with. Who cares? I just focus on my own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:00 AM
1

I don’t agree with you often, but this is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 10:57 AM
7

If you tried it, you’d know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:31 AM
1

Personality is important. So are looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:27 AM
3

I haven’t tried online dating as a man or woman. It seems like garbage from my outsider’s perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:46 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:37 AM
3

That’s not what women are here for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:47 AM
2

Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:47 AM
4

Women and men can be wildly attracted to one another and wait to have sex. It’s called self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:46 AM
3

Not true. It’s been a running gag with my friends and I for decades that we honestly believe each other has terrible taste in men 😂 because we’re all attracted to such different types.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:48 AM
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Sure. But that doesn’t mean women are obligated to have sex earlier. There is still a risk of getting pregnant. Have you ever been pregnant? I have. It’s a fucking big deal. And again, birth control is not an option for every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:45 AM
3

Good plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:31 AM
9

Women didn’t fight for birth control to serve men’s sexual agendas. They did it so they could choose if and when to have babies. Gigantic families used to be the norm. Birth control gave women other options. Not just that, but no form of birth control is 100% effective. You’re still risking pregnancy and stis every time you have sex. And not all women can use birth control or want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:20 AM
8

You are entitled to that opinion and are not in any way obligated to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:17 AM
5

Sure, I guess. But it has nothing to do with the original topic you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:02 AM
10

Honestly? Why am I expected to know what is going on in someone’s else’s relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:49 AM
12

High five!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:48 AM
9

I don’t know, because I’m not in those people’s relationships. I’m guessing the guy let himself go? 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:36 AM
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Low effort refers to expecting sex without having to do anything much. We’ve been together 21 years. Can you let me know when the ‘disaster’ is due to happen, because it hasn’t yet? 😂 FDS did not exist 21 years ago when we got together. Lots of women choose to do this and have done for a long time. I’d also like to reiterate that my partner wanted to wait as well. He had ended a messy marriage and needed time for his own mental health. It wasn’t me just forcing it on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:25 AM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:22 AM
2

For every woman, that top 20% is vastly different because we all have different tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:51 AM
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I think lots of men don’t like FDS because they know it removes/reduces their options for low effort sex. I’ve said this before, but I’m not FDS. I don’t agree with their stance on making men pay for everything (I prefer an even split), but they are right about everything else. And I think that’s scaring lots of men. My partner and I both wanted to wait a few months before having sex and we’re so happy we did. Prior to us getting together, I had decided I was so fed up with lvm that I was perfec…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:44 AM
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He can fight someone off if there’s no alternative, but he does try to either walk away or talk his way out of things first. He can do it, but chooses to leave it as a last resort. That’s what we’re teaching our children, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:26 AM
1

How do you know it’s caused by penises and not something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:32 AM
2

Libido was about the only thing that wasn’t impacted, for me. I can’t take the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:30 AM
1

A short woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 06:15 AM
1

I prefer shorter than six foot. The closer to my own height, the better (I’m 5’2). My partner is 5’10.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 03:19 AM
1

I don’t think it’s a certain type of man or woman who has ONS. It’s more that someone is in a certain situation at any given point in their lives. I haven’t had very many ONS at all, but there were a small number of times that I simply couldn’t think beyond a moment. Funnily enough, some of those guys came back looking for a relationship, and that was a shock 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:11 PM
5

I honestly don’t know where they get these ideas from. ONS aren’t anything special.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:44 AM
6

It’s definitely not as bad as they make it out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:41 AM
6

Cynical men in PPD? Say it ain’t so! 😱😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:39 AM
3

All acts are things I would have been comfortable doing in general. There was no difference. But a relationship becomes more over time, because it’s more than sex, it’s a full relationship (edit to add: companionship) The motivation for a man to wait is that he also wants a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:36 AM
2

Find someone who only has eyes for you, and accepts you as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:34 AM
2

I’ve never done fwb, but I have done the other two. Of course the ons will get sex straight away, it’s there in the title. You’re just there with the intent to hit it then quit it. It’s not a certain type of guy who gets chosen for a ons, it’s more that I didn’t want a relationship at the time, but did feel like some quick stress relief. A relationship means I had completely different intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:24 AM
1

Yes. I’ve always meant it when I said it. I haven’t said it to many guys at all. Probably only the guy I’m with now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 02:52 AM
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I’ve always chosen guys I was attracted to. I don’t think in terms of leagues, not for me, not for the guy. All that matters is I like them and they like me. My perception of how attractive I am has nothing to do with any guy. I have my own opinions on what I look like and I don’t put too much importance on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 02:50 AM
1

‘High caliber.’ 😂😂😂 Usually, they can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:52 PM
1

My point is, it’s not ‘spoiled’ to dislike them. Plenty of other women would go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:35 PM
1

She might be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:05 AM
2

Not everyone wants a CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:00 AM
2

Some of us find footballers gross. I’m one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:28 AM
2

Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:19 AM
2

Of course she’s going to be upset. She wasn’t making money. But lots of women are more than happy to stay single if their standards aren’t met. I see no problem with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 06:02 AM
1

Can you leave us 40+ year old women out of this? We don’t want incels either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 06:11 AM
4

If a woman doesn’t know you’re interested, how can she be expected to reject them? It’s up to the person with the attraction to bring it up with the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:36 AM
6

Clearly, I know more about the female orgasm than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:09 PM
4

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:09 PM
6

Are you sexually active?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:05 PM
3

Oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:04 PM
8

I’m a woman. Yes it is. Lots of us enjoy multiple orgasms. You’re a trip, op.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 12:54 PM
4

Yes. I believe all women are capable. The potential is there. Edit: with the exception of FGM victims I’m guessing and other medical problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 12:47 PM
2

Which half of reddit got banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:06 AM
6

I’m not complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:06 PM
1

I think it depends on the size of the age gap. A small one is not so bad, but a big one is not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:29 AM
2

Why did you expect to get sex because you served food to someone? 🤔 And what does that part of the story have to do with your overall topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:25 AM
1

Do you think asexual people shouldn’t be in relationships? Or is it ok if both people are asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 07:06 AM
1

This doesn’t factor in asexual people at all. What you’re saying is if they’re kissing someone, they’re obligated to have sex. They are not. If you can’t see how dangerous this is for your daughters, I feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:41 AM
1

Even if it means they feel obligated to do sexual things they don’t want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:00 AM
2

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:42 AM
2

Lots of women complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:41 AM
3

No. I haven’t asked the actual number because I don’t care. I have a rough idea. He had a life before we got together, and so did I. We both are STI free, that’s more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:38 AM
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If you raise your daughters that way, I guarantee it will lead them to feel obligated to do things they don’t want to do. A relationship is not a contract. No one owes anyone sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:27 AM
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No. I didn’t. He was a 21 year old virgin and was in a hurry to change that. That’s not my problem and I never let him think I wanted sex. Kissing is not always sexually intimate. Teenage girls are not obligated to have sex just because they are in a relationship. I didn’t want to have sex because I didn’t want to risk a pregnancy at that age, but I still wanted a boyfriend. For me at the time, this was about learning about relationships through experience. And as for, ‘you should’, I can do wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:14 PM
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But lots of women are also hit on by high value men. Most women aren’t complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:10 PM
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I wasn’t ready for sex, I was 16. So it was perfectly fine to date someone I was attracted enough to do the things I wanted and not attracted enough to do the things I was too young to do anyway. It wasn’t for attention, it was for companionship and the level of intimacy I was interested and capable of having. I certainly didn’t give him any reason to think we were going to have sex. I eventually found out he wanted to marry me as soon as I turned 18, because he was saving himself for marriage, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:56 PM
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No. You don’t get to tell others how they feel. My first boyfriend was someone I really wanted to be in a relationship with when I was 16. I knew that I would never have sex with him because I found him slightly attractive and liked his company, but the thought of having sex with him was gross. I didn’t ever have enough attraction to him for sex. And we never did have sex. And that feeling of disgust at the thought of having sex with him never went away, after all these years. I only wanted to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:38 PM
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I have not always had the ‘would bang’ subconscious thought before asking someone out, or when saying yes to a date, or even starting a relationship with someone. Attraction isn’t an automatic ‘would bang.’ But god, your beliefs in this really explains a lot about why some men are so delusional and entitled. You think everyone else thinks like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:17 PM
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We’re all different people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:12 PM
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Every woman is hit on by low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:10 PM
1

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:05 PM
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Why is anyone attracted to anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 01:24 PM
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I’m not talking about average guys. I’m talking about dweebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 01:16 PM
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Because they are attracted to them. It’s no indication that they will ever have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:59 PM
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I literally said why. To get to know them. To decide if they’re someone they’d like to have sex with and/or have a relationship. That’s what the early dates are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:41 PM
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Not always. Sometimes it’s just an interest in going on a date and getting to know the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:30 PM
4

We choose which things we want/like to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:23 PM
3

Noooo! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:20 PM
4

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:14 AM
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We hit on the ones we find attractive, which is the 1%. Unless, of course, they hit on us first, which is usually more likely to happen, so we don’t often need to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:03 AM
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No. How you gleaned that from what I said is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:59 AM
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Women do hit on men, we’re just much more selective about it. Edit: and it doesn’t stop dweebs from bothering us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:54 AM
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I like to let individuals decide what’s best for themselves and choose what they want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:49 AM
2

Single or partnered, I will always own dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:48 AM
1

So, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:48 AM
1

If that’s what they want, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:43 AM
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Have you dated many women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:42 AM
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Not true. Both parties determine when a relationship starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:34 AM
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You find it sad that women are now being treated like human beings who can make choices for themselves? We aren’t here to be provided to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:33 AM
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People can complain about whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:32 AM
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Why do women have to be stuck with cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:24 AM
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