GentleGiant350 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Health Issues Getting in the Way of Self-Improvement		GentleGiant350	/r/askTRP	26/12/14 08:04 PM

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5	This thread makes me so sick. Sexless marriage, cheating, hamstering, rape, threatening suicide, AF/BB...this story has it all. I don't understand. He raped her, and then she went back to him to have sex with him more times after that? I'm honestly wondering if we're dealing with a "no, honey, I didn't cheat, he, like, totally raped me!"	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/15 03:57 AM
5	This thread makes me so sick. Sexless marriage, cheating, hamstering, rape, threatening suicide, AF/BB...this story has it all. So you've got oneitis so badly that you'd risk an assault charge and a restraining order to either "save" your relationship, or avenge it's destruction? the affair was not the gym owner's fault. he doesn't owe the husband from the OP a damn thing. The husband's wife did... ...and she cheated on him. I've never understood the urge to blame a partner's affair on the person they're fucking. To "beat up" or otherwise threaten sumdood who doesn't know you from jack shit because he fucked your girl? H…	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/15 03:54 AM
3	It's Just (Post wall women ) Lunch It never ceases to shock me, the amount of fucking nerve and chutzpah it takes for someone to tell another sentient adult what they should REALLY be attracted to. Like trim women? No, you're wrong. REAL MEN like a woman with "curves" (read: disgusting fat body) Like youth and beauty? No, you're wrong. You should be attracted to experience and professional success. It really takes balls, and if you turned the tables, it would not go over well. Just try to tell a woman that she's not a REAL WOMAN …	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/15 04:54 PM
1	Female columnist in The Guardian yesterday: "It's disheartening that men in their 50s seem so focused on looks [...] They are not looking at me. They are looking at women half their age." Think Marlboro man. Some weathering on a man's face isn't necessarily bad. Neither is gray (George clooney).	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/15 09:58 PM
16	Female columnist in The Guardian yesterday: "It's disheartening that men in their 50s seem so focused on looks [...] They are not looking at me. They are looking at women half their age." It's called the alpha widow effect. Think of it this way: in everything else in life, you expect it to get better and better with age and experience right? You're going to live in a better house, drive a better car, have a better job? You know what I mean? The problem is is that with women, relationship wise and sexually speaking, it pretty much started going downhill the moment they started. This is the one case in the human situation where things don't get better the older and more experienced…	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/15 09:46 PM
2	Female columnist in The Guardian yesterday: "It's disheartening that men in their 50s seem so focused on looks [...] They are not looking at me. They are looking at women half their age." How could a human being possibly make it into her 50s and still be so incurably naiive? Jeebus cripes... Perhaps this is some insight into the true intelligence of feminism? That perhaps we've been attributing to malice that which would be more adequately explained by stupidity? Maybe that's all this is? Not evil? Just terminally stupid? Nah, couldn't be...	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/15 09:38 PM
1	Pro surfer texting your model girlfriend? Better call him out on live TV The guy lost frame, big time. Big time. He risked his job there. You think his bosses didn't have something to say about that? I don't know about Australian TV for sure, but I can imagine that the F bomb gets dropped all that often without there being repercussions. As for what he should have done? If he really believes her that he is making her uncomfortable, then he should help her draft a text message in her voice, from her phone, letting him down easy-like. If the texts don't stop, stop bein…	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/15 05:50 PM
7	What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter? You're right. I retract that part of my post. It didn't seem relevant last night, but it makes sense on second review.	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/15 01:59 AM
-1	What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter? Huh? Do you really think that my experience with male/female relations only started with my having signed up to post on reddit?	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/15 01:55 AM
-1	What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter? Huh? Do you really think that my experience with male/female relations only started with my having signed up to post on reddit?	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/15 01:55 AM
1	What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter? I'm talking biologically, not about the current family court system. That hasn't been around long enough to affect our biology yet. Maybe in another 10 thousand years or so...	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/15 01:54 AM
11	What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter? No, she is a woman who is mistaken about her own market value. She's that guy on Craigslist that bought his dream corvette back in 1988 and can't understand why no one seems to want to pay what he values it at. He sees a dreamy super car, where his buyers see a 1988 smogger vette. She's been convinced by her own misconceptions that she's higher value than she really is. Man you guys are hateful here.	/r/TheRedPill	11/01/15 07:15 AM
49	What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter? This is just a continuation of the misunderstanding that many people of both genders have regarding sexual interrelationships. Women generally try to sleep "up" from their own SMV. It's in their hard wired nature. Men, on the other hand, will sleep with whomever, within reason. It's all part of the biological imperative of both sexes - it's best from a biological success standpoint for men to spread their seed, because their ability to reproduce is essentially limitless, and reproductive consequ…	/r/TheRedPill	11/01/15 07:08 AM
1	Am I the only one around here not attracted to sluts and easy-lays? Good for you. Lots of guys aren't you though, and need help. What they don't need is to be talked down to. I agree with most of what you said with the exception of the trash-talking parts. Yes, lots of men have little concept of how to properly relate to women. But that doesn't make them "boys" or "children." Just guys that need some pointers. You know, encouragement instead of denigration. I'M a huge advocate of TRP being much more simplementation than many on here make it. It's not a series of…	/r/TheRedPill	11/01/15 06:56 AM
2	Am I the only one around here not attracted to sluts and easy-lays? No. No, you're not. Been married (and faithful) to my first officer for 16 years. As long as she continues to hold up her end of the bargain, I have no plans to change that. Sluts and easy lays hold no power over me. I could care less. That statement was not meant to disparage in any way any member on here that finds value in them. To each his own.	/r/TheRedPill	11/01/15 06:48 AM
50	On the absolute necessity of patriarchy for women's long term welfare. That is, indeed, why patriarchal values ruled throughout most of history. The attempt to control the baser nature's of both sexes, in order to protect them from the real consequences of their actions. Problem is that feminists want to remove both the control and the consequences. They haven't realized yet that the consequences exist almost by natural law, and could no sooner be removed than the concept of gender could be. You can't force me to be attracted to fat girls, and you can't force me to…	/r/TheRedPill	11/01/15 01:37 AM
9	You know how we mock posters about the whole "Her husband might hurt you" observations? Yeah... about that. Never understood why you'd be mad at a guy who banged your wife, unless he was your friend or family member. A guy that doesn't know you doesn't owe you shit. The same guy that will beat the shit out of the guy will forgive his cheating wife and take her back. She's the one you should be mad at, not the dude.	/r/TheRedPill	11/01/15 01:06 AM
0	Seeing a girl tonight. Girl last night gave me hickeys. How to deal with this? "Wassa matter-you jealous?"	/r/askTRP	07/01/15 04:21 AM
1	Vague question, but what's generally a good place to meet women at? Anywhere there are women. Don't go out expecting to pick up women. Go do what you do, and keep your eyes open. The idea of "picking up" women is too rigid and there's too much chance of failure. Too many failures wear on a guy. So just go out. Have a good time. If you manage to pick up a woman, great, if not, you had fun. What do you like to do? Laser tag? Then pick up women at the laser tag thingy. Fishing? Sports shops, boat shows, whatever. You get the point. Don't put yourself under the pres…	/r/askTRP	07/01/15 04:12 AM
3	Setting Boundaries / How to React This is more simple than you are making it. Don't explain boundaries, don't explain respect, don't explain anything. The word is "no". As in, "No, you may not take a vacation with abother man while you are dating me." Those words, and as little as possible else. My guess is that this is a shit test. You need to pass it, and the best possible way to do so, in my opinion, is to tell her "no" in as close to an attitude of "amused mastery" as you can muster. Don't act annoyed, perturbed, nonplussed,…	/r/askTRP	07/01/15 04:07 AM
1	Guy is best friend with girl for 10 years. She has a new boyfriend that threatens to beat his head in. Guess who she sides with? So, wait, let me get this straight... OP talks shit about this guy behind bf's back, orbits his woman trying to work his way in on her, wants to dance with her, puts his hands on her when he asks... ...and I'm supposed to be upset at new bf for not being super nice to this guy when OP was probably nice, deferrent, even civil to him after talking shit? I wouldn't even be able to look at this chickenshit motherfucker. That being said, I am very much a person who belives that violence and threats t…	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/15 11:50 PM
4	What to say when she asks where I was? In the case of "where were you?" I would recommend the honest, undeflected truth. Dont dance around it, just tell her. "Drinking coffee and reading a book. It was nice to get away and have some quiet time".	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/01/15 01:39 AM
2	Marriage and Kids... How to do it the RP way? The secret to marriage is get as much as you give. You accomplish that by being a man and leading, instead of doling out doting love and affection with no reciprocation. She stops reciprocating, you stop giving. Make her understand that. She'll come back, because doing this will show her that you are the man that she wants to be with.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 05:56 AM
13	Marriage and Kids... How to do it the RP way? Jerome; After 16 years of marriage, I can tell you right now that you are wrong about the red pill being part of marriage. You can not go blue pill in a marriage. It will end your marriage. You must maintain frame and be the man that she wants to follow at all times, and when you fall down and fail at that, fix it quickly. Marriage does not change the fact that a sycophantic white knight blue piller is not going to keep the girl. It's just going to make the breakup much, much more expensive. Wha…	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 05:53 AM
44	Marriage and Kids... How to do it the RP way? Here is how I did it. Play the field until you find a likely candidate. Move from dating to LTR while maintaining frame and always being ready to "next" if anything goes south. Be red pill. Don't take crap. Don't let her boss you around. Be the leader she wants to follow, and watch to see if she conforms to the role of first officer. If she does not fit that, then next her. If she cheats, next. If she starts to nag you, deny you sex, order you around, disrespect you, and you are incapable of hal…	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 05:47 AM
1	Friend asked if it was hypocritical that we prefer to LTR girls with low partner counts, but we ourselves spin as many plates as we want. Here's why I think it's not. It's more simple than that. Human mating game dictates that men will essentially fuck anything that is willing, within a certain threshold. Our imperative is to spread the seed, you know? I mean, we aren't going to fuck horribly fat, ugly chicks, but even a 3/10 is going to be able to find a guy who is willing to fuck her pretty much any time she wants. Women, on the other hand, have a different biological imperative. Theirs in hypergamy - or bagging the best mate she can find (and leaving her e…	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 02:58 AM
0	I Think Women Sharing You the Painful Story of Their Sexual-Romantic Past is a Shit Test, No Matter How Intimate Your Ambiance Is Anytime she starts going into excruciating detail of her willing sexual history around you, she's being a cunt. Treat her accordingly. The only exception is confessions of abuse, and then ONLY after you've established a long-standing, long-lasting rapport, and you've already determined she isn't crazy. If she's confessing this shit to you on the third date, it has far more of a controlling influence in her life than you should care to get involved with. Next her. If she's confessing abuse to you…	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 02:42 AM
2	Good ol rape hysteria hypocrisy Pussy pass. They all get it, regardless of the situation. My guess? She probably wasn't raped. I can't imagine having a violent crime committed against me and choosing not to try and get the dude punished because "I'd have to live through the experience over and over again." Even if I was raped by some bull queer. I would have the cops on his doorstep so fast he wouldn't even have his pants zipped yet. If for no other reason than so he can be stopped and he doesn't rape anyone else. What about t…	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 02:36 AM
1	What's the correlation with women changing their hair/getting a tattoo/piercing something after a breakup? It's a signifier of the change. That's all. It's a huge red flag when you're in a relationship with a woman who suddenly starts changing hair styles, getting tats, piercings, etc, because she's signifying change, and that change is about to be YOU... It really isn't that complex. What it IS is a sign of poor impulse control, short-sightedness (really? You broke up with sumdood at 23 years old and you think this is going to be a significant enough event in your life that at 80 you're still going …	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 02:33 AM
3	The making of a passive aggressive man aka a beta bitch She's a brat, yes. But it's not an incurable condition. It's really simple; "if you want the empties moved, be my guest. Move them. I'm not your slave" DO NOT allow her to make you her compliant doormat. your relationship will end so fast that your head will spin. You may need to just tell her fuck off a couple of times to get the point across. You aren't her pawn. She is not your boss. She doesn't own you, and she damn sure doesn't get to boss you around. That's not how it works. Does she boss …	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 02:28 AM
1	Love does not exist. No one is capable of loving anyone other than their children unconditionally. Yes, men love more deeply and with more commitment than women, because they are willing to put up with far more shit than women generally are before retracting their love, but everyone has a point where they will stop loving someone that they previously loved. (If sumdood's girl murdered his parents, would he still love her? Probably not. That is conditional love. Period). The problem is getting men to quit sticking by…	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 02:14 AM
1	Love does not exist. I disagree, to a point. Love exists, for certain. When I see my wife nursing my infant daughter, or taking care of me when I was so broken over the last year with my heart issues and illnesses - yeah, love is definitely a thing. I love my wife very much. The issue is the myth of UNCONDITIONAL love. Love is always conditional. That's the trick, and that's what you need to teach young men going into a relationship. Tell them there is no such thing as love, and they will tell you you're wrong, beca…	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 02:06 AM
1	Bought brother-in-law NMMNG and MMSLP for x-mas, pretty sure he's not going to read them... The essence of the red pill is self improvement and self awareness. It is setting yourself up to be the best "you" you can be. It is learning how to manipulate yourself to become better, higher value, etc. What it is not is a method to make other people do what you want. Too many come on here thinking that with these special "red pill cheat codes" that they will be able to "make" women do things that they want women to do. it doesn't work that way. Same goes for your brother. You can't make him …	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/12/14 12:34 AM
2	Woman creates a fuck list of Duke University athletes as a"thesis." Hell breaks loose. I hope they used a condom This is all i could think the entire time I read this. She didn't empower herself, she degraded herself, and she didn't even realize it. That people cannot understand that women, even sub-par women, ever ugly, fat women, can get sex pretty much any time they want to, because men will fuck whatever is available, within a certain threshold. In order to develop a high count as a woman, you've just got to open your legs to more men. Men, on the other hand, can not have sex …	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/14 08:48 PM
2	Lesbian, feminist, woman goes undercover as a male, discovers being a women is "a privilege" Any woman who cannot see how good women actually have it is a fucking moron. That's why I've never had time for feminists. They are trying to pretend that they are somehow oppressed when in fact, they are the most free, most choice-enabled, wealthiest cohort of people that have ever walked the Earth. It's the people on top complaining that they've got it just simply the worst. Men are expected to work hard, but still make time for family; to be driven, but not too single minded;, to be strong, b…	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/14 08:34 PM
2	Just another example showing that not conforming to her views and instead maintaining frame will lead to better results. Women are attracted to men who have a well-defined, strong frame in which they keep themselves regardless of input. They are attracted to a man, not the frame, but the attraction springs from having a strong, well-defined frame.	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/14 08:29 PM
1	What are your goals? get back in shape. i don't need to be benching 425 again, but if I could lose 70 pounds and get my bench max back up over 300 I'd be stoked; Get healthy, by any means possible, and get off the biologics. I take Enbrel for psoriasis and PA. It's nasty stuff. I want off it, but I can't live without it for now. I think it gave me a heart tumor, so I want off. I'm exploring some non-medicinal ways to handle this situation now Grow my retirement plan to minimum $250,000 by 40. I've got six years, and…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/12/14 07:27 PM
2	Alpha Beta balance? No LTR is about getting everything you want, anytime you want, whenever you want. Part of your frame as a man involved with an LTR is that you be willing to give up things that you are willing to give up in the best interest of the LTR. For instance, I gave up having sex with other women. That was not outside of my frame, because I determined that I wanted an LTR, and that I wanted it to be exclusive. Those things were more important to me than banging other chicks. The trick is, give up somethi…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/12/14 07:20 PM
1	Totally blue pill, pussy whipped, Nice guy beginning to build myself, and seeing glimpses of a happy, Red Pill life. Thanks guys, and a special thanks to /u/jcprta! I owe you so much! Yup, stop debating. Stop defending. Stop justifying. Just LEAD. THere was at least one instance where you said "Bye, I'm out for now" and she texted again and you responded. You're in HER frame. Not yours. She is leading the argument. She is leading everything right now. You want to be the leader, but you won't take the lead. Take the lead already.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/12/14 07:07 PM
1	Totally blue pill, pussy whipped, Nice guy beginning to build myself, and seeing glimpses of a happy, Red Pill life. Thanks guys, and a special thanks to /u/jcprta! I owe you so much! TL:DR: You cannot force other people to do what you want. That's not how red pill works. All Red pill can do for you is give you the tools to become the person that allows for people to WANT to do what you want. You are doing it wrong.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/12/14 07:03 PM
2	Totally blue pill, pussy whipped, Nice guy beginning to build myself, and seeing glimpses of a happy, Red Pill life. Thanks guys, and a special thanks to /u/jcprta! I owe you so much! You are trying to force herr to accept you as the leader. Ain't gonna work. That's not how any of this works. If you want her to respect you, BE RESPECTABLE. If you want her to follow you, BE A LEADER. This isn't a situation where you have a conversation with your wife and say "be submissive to my lead." This is a situation where you take the lead and create a situation where she willingly follows you. You are doing it wrong. Big time. And she's right about you not being able to just simply dict…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/12/14 07:02 PM
3	So I just read NMMNG... TRP is simple - don't take crap off of anyone. Not just women. Anyone. Don't compromise who you are, and what you want to do with your life, for anyone. Not just women. Anyone. Don't eat shit you don't want to eat. It's literally as simple as that. I told my wife early on that she wasn't going to get away with treating her Dad well, and me like shit. Your SO is the one person on Earth who you should be LEAST likely and LEAST willing to treat like garbage, and yet prevailing societal narrative ha…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/12/14 06:56 PM
1	How to handle this shit test She needs dread. She's secretly afraid that she has settled for a beta who can't pull ass. Flirt with some hot waitresses or bartenders when she's around. That sort of thing. Show her that you aren't a mincing sycophant for her, that you're a man who would be able to land another woman the day after she left you. She will never leave if you show her you are high enough value to stick around, and she will stop with the shit tests. As for the response at the time, if you can't think of one quickly…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/12/14 05:49 PM
1	Should I refuse her? As for "should I refuse her?" She's already refused you. You can choose to continue doing her coursework for her for nothing in return, or you can stop doing that and focus your time on improving yourself somehow. Shit, even if all you did with that extra time was play video games, you'd be better off. At least the time would be spent on you, and video games would provide some enjoyment in return.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 05:36 PM
3	Should I refuse her? but as most of betas would do I ignored her temptations and remained faithful to my GF. You are horribly misunderstanding what it means to be alpha and beta if you think that remaining faithful to a LTR, where you implicitly promised to remain faithful, is a failure on your part. Have some honor, for fuck's sake. I've been faithful to my wife for 16 years now. As long as she upholds her end of the bargain, i will continue to do so as long as we are alive. Since I ended my LTR she no longer shows…	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 05:32 PM
1	Killing desire? Why would you want to kill your desire? Just go fulfill it. Get laid. Don't act needy. Be the master of your own self - the master of your own desire. Go. Get laid. It is not that hard.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 05:19 PM
3	Need advice - Ex-gf is pregnant with mine, has intense emotional issues - Prepping for Custody Battle If custody is what you want, then this is what you'll do: 1.) Continue documenting all interactions. Not just crazy ones. All of them. Interact with her in writing to the extent possible, and keep records. Stay cool. Just the facts. Communicate only that which is necessary to discuss your kid - nothing more. 2.) Get a lawyer. Now. 3.) Stay cool. Don't lose your temper. Don't be in physical proximity of her, EVER, without a reliable witness present. She will SWAT you (call the cops and have you a…	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 05:17 PM
3	RPers in LTRs - What made you settle? Didn't settle. Decided to try and make a life with a woman who is truly exceptional, who is a good mother to my children, and who, as long as she holds up her end of the bargain, I will continue to love and respect until we are either dead, or she chooses otherwise. If she stops holding up her end of the bargain, I'll move on. Until then, I didn't settle for anything. There is more to life than screwing lots of chicks. A solid family, kids, the ability to be the paterfamilias; to pass on what yo…	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/14 04:27 AM
1	why do you think women find it harder to exercise. while guys find it harder to do proper diet Yeah, but give the devil it's due - how many men do you know have been pregnant and given birth to a human being? That shit can be hard to recover from for some women.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:43 AM
2	why do you think women find it harder to exercise. while guys find it harder to do proper diet Beautiful. They are less motivated because there is less motivation. Guys dote on women. All the time. Women can get laid any time they want. Why work hard to up SMV when you're already a hot commodity?	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:42 AM
1	Met an awesome hyperconfident girl, had a weird first date, now she's acting distant. Do I next her? Yeah, the "girl of his dreams" ignored him on a date and is ignoring him now afterwards... That's dreamy to him? To be ignored, in favor of a blacked-out drunk 35 year old stranger? Girl of your dreams, OP? She was super rude to you, giving you clear notice that she wasn't interested. Move on, lad.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:40 AM
1	Met an awesome hyperconfident girl, had a weird first date, now she's acting distant. Do I next her? 35 isn't middle-aged, motherf... Oh, wait. It is, isn't it... Holy shit, I'm middle aged. Damn you meddling kids! :)	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:38 AM
1	Met an awesome hyperconfident girl, had a weird first date, now she's acting distant. Do I next her? You aren't going to next her. She already nexted you. Move on.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:36 AM
1	Met a girl at the beginning of the year who had a lot of potential, her attraction to me seems to be dying out. Next. You are her orbiter now. You don't want to be that. It's shitty. You'll get to watch her fuck an endless string of other dudes waiting for your turn that will never come. Move on.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:35 AM
1	How do I proceed after a girl showed a lack of respect? STOP TEXTING! For fuck's sake, there is more drama between you young folk than us old guys can shake a stick at, and 99.9% of it is the fact that you insist on communicating through text messages. Have you considered that maybe, just maybe, she really didn't see your text until two days later, because, stay with me here - she really was busy? Call people on the telephone. I know that seems old-fashioned, but just give it a try...	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:33 AM
1	How to tell your friend that his girlfriend is a grade A bitch? You DON'T. Let him figure it out. Anything else will come between you. It's how white-knights work. "Don't you dare impugn the amazingness of fair lady!"	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:30 AM
1	GF has a guy on her top friends on Snapchat THIS ^	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:29 AM
2	Questions on shit tests Yup. She's just insecure because you aren't worshipping the ground she walks on. Probably never seen that before. She'll figure it out. If not, live with it for as long as you want, then move on. Abundance mentality, lad. Don't forget.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:27 AM
1	Do Emotionally Stable Women Exist? Emotionally stable women do not exist in a vacuum. Nor do emotionally stable men. Look at the violent crime rates and impulse control issues coming out of single mother homes, for a good example. You can make a woman emotionally stable, in the same way a father can make a child emotionally stable, by being the oak. My wife is more or less free of all the red flag behaviors now, but she had all of them when we first started dating. Show her they won't work, but what is more, show her that she doe…	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:25 AM
2	Plate said I have her... Don't overanalyze things. What she said was sweet, respectful to you... ...hell, in fact, it was even a little ego-inflating for you. Don't allow her saying something nice run you off. WAAAAYYYY over thinking things. Be watchful for other signs, but in the mean time, just enjoy yourself.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:23 AM
1	new plate is asking if I'm having sex with my ex-wife Pressure flip. Ask her "aren't you seeing other people?" If she says no, then ask "why not?" It will show her that you never considered the realtionship to be exclusive, and if she did, that it was all a big misunderstanding.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:20 AM
1	Diffuse a fight without losing frame Walk away without saying a word. Do not reward their bad behavior with the response they crave. They will try to stop you verbally. Ignore it and roll your eyes. Make sure everyone sees you roll your eyes. Be the bigger man. Don't allow them to enter your frame, which is "I'm not interested in your fake, trumped up drama, and I'm not going to fight you". Just walk away. They won't stop you physically. If for some reason they try to stop you physically, then your response should be as instantaneo…	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:18 AM
1	Should you ever compliment a girl you aren't yet fucking on her looks? I like this advice. Very well said.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:12 AM
1	How should i break up with a LTR if I'd like to get back together with her later in life? Can't have your cake and eat it, too, pal. Make your choice, then tell her what you want to do, and let her decide. You can't control her. You can only control yourself. Is getting some strange worth losing her? If yes, then do it. If not, then commit. This isn't a very hard thing, but you're making it hard by trying to control her reaction to what you want. You can't always get everything you want. I've been loyal for 16 years to wife. I wanted to bang other chicks countless times a day, but de…	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:11 AM
1	To LTR or to not LTR? Plate. No LTR. She's damaged goods.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:07 AM
2	Finally met a woman that clicks with me, but I think I fucked it up. Jesus H... You said it in your TL:DR - you fucked it up. It isn't going to work out. MOVE THE FUCK ON... You have oneitis so bad that it might be terminal. There are lots of chicks out there, man. I've been married to my wife for 16 years, but if I lost her tomorrow I wouldn't be thinking of killing myself. You never even had this chick and you've got a gun in your mouth? Holy fuck... Unplug, man! UNPLUG!	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:05 AM
1	Shit test. How do I respond to someone telling me I look good? Generally, when someone gives me a compliment, I say "thank you."	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:02 AM
1	"I'm cute all the time" shit test response? She was actually responding with A&A to YOUR unintentional shit test.... Kind of funny. I'd have just said something funny, like "yeah, SURE you are..."	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 01:01 AM
1	A "venting" woman. Is it beta to listen or a sign she's into you? Yeah, she got attracted, but she's a classless whore. Imagine doing that behind his back, to a guest in their home like that. I know from first hand experience that it feels good to get attention from a woman. After 16 years of marriage, it feels REAL good. I had a 29 year old redhead try to get my phone number at the park the other day. I was watching my kid play and we were chatting. I didn't realize it but she ended up scooting over to get close to me, and I casually mentioned my wife somethi…	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 12:59 AM
1	Found a girl on tinder that actually wants to meet up, how should I proceed? If she stood you up, then move on. No worries. Don't let it bother you, it isn't a big deal.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 12:54 AM
1	Weird battle for dominance from LTR Next. She is not feminine, she doesn't respect you, she is rude, vulgar, and the exact polar opposite of the girl you want to try out for your first serious relationship. Abundance mentality, lad. Move on. She isn't worth it.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 12:52 AM
1	should I change the job for woman? NO! DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH WOMEN AT WORK! EVER! IRON RULE THAT MAY NOT BE BROKEN! If you want to meet the young women at that other place of employment, figure out another way - find out where they go for drinks after work, where they golf or go to the gym... anything but getting a job in the place where you plan to start sticking your penis...	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 12:49 AM
1	Is caring about a woman's sexual past a good strategy for seeking a marriage partner? Caring about the past, sexual or otherwise, of anyone you plan to marry or LTR is just kind of common sense, isn't it? Bad decisions are bad decisions, sexual or otherwise. You don't LTR up with a person that makes bad decisions. Don't limit it to just sex. Credit history? Finances? Drug use/abuse? Alcohol? Tatoos? N-count? All of these things are totally relevant, and any history showing poor impulse control or bad decisions is a reason to plate it or next it, poste haste.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 12:47 AM
2	Female friend shows some damn weird behavior after i tell her, in confidence, I'm seeing another woman. She wanted an orbiter, and is pissed now that some other bitch stole hers. If you broke it off with your new girl tomorrow, this girl would not sleep with you. You would be re-installed in orbiter status, and status quo would re-establish itself. She isn't acting weird - what she's doing is totally predictable. I orbited a girl for a bit in high school (we were all a bit beta back then, weren't we?). She kept me on the hook, lead me along just enough, and I finally got sick of it and moved on af…	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 12:44 AM
2	Confidence in ruins Focus on you. Improve you. If you don't love and respect yourself, you cannot expect anyone else to. Fix that first.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 12:37 AM
1	Is it smart to not argue with angry and rude feminists? Arguing with people is the same thing as entering their frame. If you want to respond, do it on your terms, not in response to something they said. Ask pointed questions. Make sarcastic or joking comparisons. But don't fall into their frame and argue with them.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 12:36 AM
2	First Red Pill realization No. There are changes you should make when interacting with EVERYBODY. Be him. Maintain frame.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 12:34 AM
4	Premature Ejaculation Yeah, foreplay. I go off a lot sooner when I go in fast and get it done. Like I'm setting a goal to get it done ASAP or something. The more we fool around beforehand, the better my performance. Paradoxical? I don't know. Try it. I think part of it might be that wife gets wetter and so there isn't as much stimulation? Maybe? Also, stop masturbating so much. You've trained your pecker to go off at the drop of a hand. Retrain it.	/r/askTRP	30/12/14 12:33 AM
1	(Daily) [UPDATE] The neverending narrative of the headstrong hamster Maintain frame. SHE is disrespecting YOU, not the other way around. Demanding an apology for a dirty container? Fuck that noise. Have you attempted to express to her how silly you find all of this?	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 11:56 PM
1	This test is so easy to pass now that I understand it! Yup, the dismissive joke is absolute treasure. Don't tell her you don't care that she is upset. Tell her you aren't upset like she is about the BIG THING, and that you can handle it and that it isn't a big deal.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 11:47 PM
1	This test is so easy to pass now that I understand it! Yup. Keeping several things in mind: 1.) When your wife wants to use you as an emotional tampon, she doesn't want you to fix the problems she puts out there, she just wants to share her misery with you. It's kind of a shitty thing to do from a male perspective, but remember - Mars and Venus, lads. So just listen. 2.) You get no where by agreeing with her and saying "yeah, (co-worker X who is giving you a hard time) is just a bitch/jealous of you/whatever." You get somewhere by being her oak and …	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 11:45 PM
1	Wife ignoring stuff? You're not the boss of her. You're a team, in which you are team leader, but you don't get to go around barking orders and punishing her for not stepping high enough. That's what kids are for - :) This is not Red Pill. This is some obsessive compulsive control freak BS. Your kids should not have to fill out forms in triplicate for their morning routine, and your wife, unless she agreed to this, sure as fuck isn't in charge of making sure you get the right cover sheets on your TPS reports from yo…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 11:40 PM
1	I don't want to tolerate bad, disengaged sex anymore. "Well I'm busy! I'm in the middle of reading something!" The only response to this would be to paraphrase her earlier words: "that was not the assignment! When I ask for xyz it means you do it like [explains narrow view of how to perform a task]. As for the "assignment" thing, that's simple. I ironed that out with my wife early on in the marriage. It goes a little something like this: "Honey, you may either ask me to do something for you, and allow me to complete it my way, or you can do it your…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 11:34 PM
1	Red Pill Marriage: "Stop Calling Me That!" I call my wife "wife" all the time, and she refers to me as "husband." Why would either of those terms be a term of shame? She is my wife, and I am her husband. Anything less than that is not a marriage. It's amazing to me that men will marry these women. Truly.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 11:30 PM
1	Pointless little shit tests - at my wits end. You shouldn't get a barrage afterwards because you shouldn't be arguing and counter-arguing in the first place. See above. Ignore it. When the counter barrage comes, ignore that, too. If you must respond, respond in your frame, not on her terms. "My, aren't we feeling cunty today?" Call her out for what she is being. Don't argue to justify yourself and what you did. If she's being a bitch, playfully and with a smile on your face, call her a bitch.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 11:27 PM
1	Pointless little shit tests - at my wits end. That's why you don't stand your ground. I've made this point already. You can't fight back on her terms, because then YOU ARE FIGHTING ON HER TERMS. Roll your eyes, say something funny, and laugh. THe smartest teenager in the room, man. It sounds misogynist, but there is some truth to it. She is driven by feelings and emotions on a level that you cannot understand, and because of that, you cannot fall into her frame - you will get macerated. Don't stand your ground. Just ignore or dismiss with a…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 11:24 PM
1	Pointless little shit tests - at my wits end. It isn't that rational. She doesn't even realize she's doing it. Just like a pregnant woman who is nesting. My wife is re-arranging the furniture in our house three times a week right now. I give her shit about "nesting" because she's 5 months along, and she denies it with every ounce of her being, until she finally gives in and realizes that, holy shit, she IS nesting. All this lady is doing is nesting with her husband. She is trying to determine if when the lions come to eat the baby, that thi…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 11:19 PM
1	Where can I find some good examples of RP men (real life public figures or fictional characters)? Yeah, but "The Notebook" had women all teary eyed and whatever, but 50 shades of grey had them screwing their husbands like the world was about to end. Also, look at the net worth of those two franchises. 50 SOG could buy the Notebook 100 times over. Remember that TRP says that often times, women don't even know what they want. Most of them THINK they want a sensitive, sweet, sycophantic white knight. It's only after having to put up with those wimps for a couple years that they decide that isn'…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 11:06 PM
3	[FR] Merry Sh*t-test to Sexmas-Eve It would be nice to somehow stem her from acting different for the sake of her family -> in front of her family I know you know this, OP, but for the others reading this: It would always be nice to be able to change the way people act or get them to act in a manner according to your wishes, but that is not realistic. TRP dictates that you have control over your actions, and how you react to other people's actions. You cannot control how they act, but you can control what is in your frame and wha…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 10:51 PM
3	[FR] Merry Sh*t-test to Sexmas-Eve Interesting theory. And you're right, whether she means to or not, she's actually helping him out - he looks like an amused master, and she looks like a child throwing a tantrum. Family will respect him for what happened, not her.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 10:49 PM
1	Wife texting orbiter. What is the MRP way to handle it? This ^ Emotional infidelity is merely a tiny stepping stone to actual physical infidelity. She is being disrespectful to you. But above and beyond that, she is filling a need that you are not satisfying with this guy. She wants something you aren't giving her. Figure out what and find a way to provide that within your frame. If it's positive feedback, assurance, whatever... give her that.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 08:49 PM
1	Getting your wife to lose weight or get in better shape You struck a nerve. She's been nervous about this, and you proved to her that her nervousness was right. Time will tell if she cares enough about your relationship to make a change, or if being fat and out of shape is more important to her than staying with you. It's really that simple. As for the not being naked in front of you thing, that's her trying to bring it back into her control. Don't put up with it. Find a way to nuke that shit from orbit. Her only options for control in the end should…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 08:47 PM
1	I think she cheated. What now? She cheated. Period. No questions asked. Exit. Hard next. Divorce now before kids, and move on. She is no longer part of your life. The only contact should be through lawyers from this point on. If you try to stay with her, the guilt and jealousy and suspicion will tear your marriage apart eventually, and you'll regret the years you spent with her unhappy. Worse yet, you might have kids by then and she will divorce rape you for the next 18 years. Leave now. Your marriage is over. Sorry mate. Rem…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 08:39 PM
1	[Update] From crisis to crisis, making it impossible to redpill. Now marriage is the lowest it's ever been and it seems divorce is looming! I hate to one-up, but I'll make the exception here, because I want to show you that you are using all of this as an excuse for not doing what you know you needed to do. Crisis is THE TIME for RP, not an excuse to not apply it. In 2007 I got psoriasis over 92% of my body. By early 2008, i was literally crippled by psoriatic arthritis in my back. I was diagnosed with an auto-immune disease, and ended up almost dying twice of pnemonia. I managed to get the arthritis under control (thank God, becaus…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 08:31 PM
1	Apps for monitoring her period Excuse, not example. Autocorrect, i think.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 08:21 PM
0	Apps for monitoring her period To hell with that. Don't bother tracking it. She needs to figure out how to act like an adult when she is on her period. It's 25% of her life. I can't imagine going through my life with an excuse for whatever bad behavior you want for 25% of the time. I cannot tell when my wife is on her period or not. I don't care to track it, either. She manages to act like a big girl and keep her discomfort to herself, and not let it effect her and not use it as an excuse to be a terrible person. Put it this …	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 08:20 PM
1	Where can I find some good examples of RP men (real life public figures or fictional characters)? Han Solo. More or less any of the characters in the old westerns (Clint Eastwood, John Wayne). I could go on, but the upshot is that it is really quite simple: You don't eat shit for anyone, including women - no exceptions. You control your own narrative and your own fate. You are the man you choose to be, and you don't take crap off of anyone, or compromise your morals or frame for anyone, ever. Once you look at it that way, you can find countless red pill men in cinema. Hollywood isn't stupid.…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 08:14 PM
1	Pointless little shit tests - at my wits end. Sorry, forgot this - if she is TELLING you to take out the dog, then my suggestion would be to smile and say "ask me nicely. use your polite words". Be sweet about it, not a dick. Again, doing this makes HER look like the asshole, not you. She won't be able to recover and will stop being such a bitch about stuff.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 08:10 PM
1	Pointless little shit tests - at my wits end. OH MY GOD, yes, the "totally calmly pull the car over, get out, open her door, and ask her to drive" thing is absolute gold. it works awesome. Just make sure you're not mad or angry when you do it, or you look like a heel. If you're cheerful and accomodating, it makes her look like the asshole she's being, and she will defer and shut the hell up. It works like a charm.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 08:07 PM
2	Pointless little shit tests - at my wits end. I wish I could convey to her that I'm making the best decision possible that I know how. Again, you're going wrong here. Don't justify your actions to anyone. YOU know that you're making the best choice. You should not have to justify yourself to anyone, ever. ESPECIALLY your wife. You don't question HER every move. She doesn't question her Dad's every move. Why is it okay that she does it to you? It's not, obviously, and for that reason - SHE IS IN THE WRONG HERE, not you. So either ignore it o…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 08:05 PM
1	Pointless little shit tests - at my wits end. My wife is in her 1st trimester - so she's an ornery little turd So is mine, but she would never even dream of being disrespectful to me like your wife was to you. Don't allow that shit, and stop making excuses for her. I can't count how many times I've heard friends excusing their gf or wife being a total cunt by secretly saying "she's on the rag" or "she's pregnant". Fuck that. If she isn't grown up enough to not take her discomfort out on you, then you need to straighten that shit out right n…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 07:56 PM
1	Redditor's wife of 16 years has emotional affair with coworker, skips their anniversary dinner to spend time with said coworker If she doesn't respect you, and you are her last priority, then the decision is already made. Maybe you let it get there, but in the end, here you are. If your wife hasn't physically cheated on you yet, she is about to. Prepare yourself for the divorce. It's coming. Sorry mate. Try to remember abundance mentality and DO NOT fall into the "only oneitis" trap. Get a lawyer, and do what is best for YOU and whatever kids you've got. Don't worry about "taking care of her" or "doing the right thing by…	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/14 07:14 PM
1	Mothers-in-Law: How's yours? How do you deal? My mother in law is awesome, but like all MIL's, she can start to feel like a second wife awfully quick if I let her. A wife without any of the benefits. She'll give me honey-dos at her house, nag me about stuff, that sort of thing. She helps out a lot with the kids, so I try to be nice about it, but I always reframe the situation whenever it starts to feel too much like I'm being nagged by a wife rather than being asked nicely by a family member. Even to the point of being a bit of a dick, but …	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 07:07 PM
1	I know this is a test, but I am having a hell of a time figuring this one out. I was going to respond, but instead, I'll just say THIS^ You should not be competing with your first officer. This is unhealthy. It's a power play, and if you happen to lose, you're truly fucked. Nip this shit in the bud, now.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 07:03 PM
1	Need a pep-talk - wife is asexual??? Is she on the pill? If she is on the pill, get her the fuck off of that tool of the devil immediately. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING - not even PREGNANCY - wrecked my wife's sex drive like the pill. We wasted 6 years of our time together with her completely incapable of enjoying sex because of the goddamned birth control pill. She got off of it and became a damn sex tiger right up until she got pregnant, then was like that again until she got pregnant again. We're done having kids, so I'm getting …	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 06:58 PM
1	How do you guys react/handle when something you say hurts your wife (when you didn't mean to hurt her)? Do you apologize? Examples would be nice. Interesting set of questions. I feel compelled to answer them honestly, myself. <i>You mentioned in an earlier post that your wife has been known to fawn over movie stars and the likes. Tell me, do you earn movie star wages? Very good wages? Average? Below average?</i> Above average for where we live, but we're not insanely wealthy. My biggest asset is that I'm shrewd with money, so I managed to pay our house off in 8 years, so no mortgage means a lot more disposable income. <i>Following on from…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 06:46 PM
2	How do you guys react/handle when something you say hurts your wife (when you didn't mean to hurt her)? Do you apologize? Examples would be nice. Did you mean to hurt her at the time, and regret it later? If so, stop doing that. it's childish and petty and not befitting an unplugged man. Apologize. Don't explain, don't justify, don't try to make her understand why you did it - that's just compounding the problem. Just apologize. "Sorry I said that, honey." It's that simple. If you said something that hurt her, but didn't mean to, then you have to analyze what you said. If what you said was an objective truth that she took offense to, I'd …	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 06:16 PM
1	The Captain and First Officer Relationship Taking control when the captain is unfit for duty... ...man, did that ever strike home with me right now... ...God bless my wife. If there was ever proof that AWALT is wrong, it is her. I've had some serious health issues this year. Lost my job as a result around the first of december. Health problems caused me to get fat. Also covered me in a psoriatic rash. Heart tumor, heart surgery, medical bills to penury... If any woman ever had a reason to leave a man, my wife has a doozey. But instead, s…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 06:11 PM
2	How to become Outcome Independent using a Stoic trick There is also dread. You want to be somewhat careful about this, but if things get bad enough, instead of begging, you can indicate or hint that you're going to get sex one way or the other, with her or without her. You didn't enter a marriage to be celibate. You can even write it off as a big joke, but the point will be made. This I suggest would be the next step after OI is unsuccessful. At that point, you should be ready for her to serve papers, because she has well and truly lost attraction …	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 05:37 PM
0	Sex and outcome independence congruency Don't underestimate the power of straight up telling her that you're going to get the sex you want, one way or the other, and it's up to her whether it's with her or not. You can even make it a big joke, ha ha, wasn't actually serious, but the point will be made. This is more of a nuclear thing once it gets bad enough that you're actually considering leaving. Also, don't ever underestimate the power of refusing to take no for an answer and starting to undress her and take her. I'm not advocating…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 05:32 PM
2	Differentiating shit tests and loyalty tests - how to? Yeah, the difference is the answer to an honest question that you ask yourself: "is she being a bitch, or is she really insecure here?" To be totally honest, I answer both with generally the same answer, as stated below, but with a different attitude. In the insecurity times, I take her in my arms, and honestly tell her that I chose her, and that unless she gives me a reason to choose differently, I'm committed to being with her. This rides the razor edge of being a bit beta, but keeps it in my …	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 05:25 PM
0	Children and discipline God yes... Single mothers generally fail so miserably at raising kids properly. I know that this is a controversial statement, but even single mothers will agree with me, just not in so many words. you'll get them to admit that their kids walk all over them, that they don't have time to spend with their kids, that they are so busy they hardly see their kids, that they are poor and don't have money to properly take care of their kids, But they will still be adamant that they are "good mothers."	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 05:19 PM
1	Children and discipline Be consistent, be firm, don't let them have their way, don't allow bad behavior (whining, arguing) sway your determination, and most of all, make there be consequences if they don't listen or are disrespectful. If you don't want to spank, then fine, go with time outs and taking away favorite toys for a while. But the upshot is that you should never, ever, EVER take crap off your kid that you wouldn't take off an adult. If that crap comes your way (and it will) then there need to be consequences.…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 05:16 PM
2	After taking the red pill, cant enjoy favorite movies "It's a wonderful Life" or "Princess Bride" Worst part is that an entire generation of men grew up thinking "as you wish" and "she's the ONLY ONE FOR ME" are things that actually work in the real world. It's a fairy tale for a reason, and the fire swamps and giants have only a peripheral part of that. For my son, when we watch it, I'll make sure to point out that the ENTIRE MOVIE is fantasy, not just the fantastical parts. In real life, Prince Humperdinck would have probably fared far better than he actually did, especially after Buttercu…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/12/14 05:12 PM
2	What do you do when you clearly see her bullshit: speak up, let it go, do something else...? Don't sit there and pout. You're in her frame effected by what she does. She's driving the narrative. Leave the house. Don't return calls or texts. Do whatever. When you get home, make sure it's bed time then go to bed without saying a word. Go to work in the morning without a word. Go to the gym after work. Have beers with the guys. No calls, no texts. Switch it to your frame, not hers.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 05:02 PM
1	[XPost] Stood up to my wife, she submitted, but now I feel bad. This too ^	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 04:58 PM
1	[XPost] Stood up to my wife, she submitted, but now I feel bad. Morning calls are fine as long as you're doing them in your frame: ie you aren't calling her because she expects it, but rather because YOU want to. As for feeling bad... You probably did her a favor. Gave her tingles. She'll act like she's mad but my guess is she didn't mind nearly as much as she let on. How long has she been abroad and when is she coming back? Also, in a LTR its important to moderate your alpha with some beta. Especially when she's abroad and able to let her imagination run wi…	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 04:57 PM
2	Health Issues Getting in the Way of Self-Improvement I've never seen any coorelation between my salt intake and blood pressure, but when the guy with the scalpel cutting my heart says "do x" I listen. I've been drinking water like a camel. Thanks for your help.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 06:36 AM
1	Ex wife treats me like shit in public, how to deal? 100% this....^	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 06:32 AM
1	I've heard it's a good idea to know when my wife is ovulating and when she's on her period, so I can adjust how I display value at different times. You should be focused not on her cycle but rather when she goes off the hormonal therapy. Her entire attraction can change. Women on the pill tend to gravitate towards beta behavior since the pill mimics pregnancy and thats when women crave security and nurture. When she comes off it, she will likely prefer more alpha attributes, so be ready to stand and deliver, because shit you can get away with now are going to dry her up once the iud comes out	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 06:31 AM
1	I want my girlfriend to lose weight, what should I do? She loves you for now. That can change. You are not the only one with a cock. Don't rely on that. She could blow another dude three times a day just as easily. Times ten on "lead by example." Best case, it works. Worst case, it doesn't and when newly single you hits the dating market you'll be higher smv.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 06:27 AM
2	Best mate posting pics with my ex tagged. 2 kids together. How to hold frame when I would like to murder him? Talk to your kids. Give them the tools to protect or defend themselves from your mate if he really is the sort you don't want about your kids. I am not suggesting that he would hurt them, but if they know he's a bad influence they will stay guarded around him. As for your "mate" he's no sort of friend at all if he's doing your ex without checking with you first. I'd next them both. Sounds like influence you need in your life as little as possible.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 06:23 AM
1	Response to wall of text outlining feelings? Totally agree. Still, I'd meet up with her and at least try.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 06:19 AM
1	Response to wall of text outlining feelings? Don't respond to the words in her texts. Just ask her when she's available to meet up and set a date. Don't enter her frame by responding to anything in her text. She will probably hit you with some of it in person so read up and practice your responses beforehand. Remember, be a careless, funny, not needy dude who doesn't take cra off anyone and who discusses things on his terms.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 06:17 AM
1	AskTRP: Lying to Increase SMV? You do what you think is best. My opinion is that lying is to be avoided if at all possible. Brutal, honest truth is usually better. I think that our comfort with lying is a major driver behind the wholesale swallowing of the blue pill.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 06:13 AM
2	How does your game differ when looking for an LTR as oppose to trying to plate a woman? At first, no different at all. You shouldn't ever start something looking for an LTR. Start a one night stand every time, and let it evolve into plating, then LTR. If she really is worth a LTR it will slowly become less important to be 100% game 100% or the time, as long as you stay RP. As you get to know her and the LTR evolves, you'll learn how to moderate the necessary beta/alpha/trp in your personality. Just never, ever, no matter what, become a sycophantic beta, ever. Even after 40 years an…	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 06:10 AM
2	Found a girl on tinder that actually wants to meet up, how should I proceed? A girl? That ACTUALLY wants to meet you? The wording in the title is worrisome to me. Have some more respect for yourself. If you are going into this with any idea other than "damn right, she SHOULD want to meet me!" Then you're at a huge disadvantage. If you don't respect yourself then how will she respect you? Learn to love yourself before you worry about loving other people. Once the former is done, the latter is way easier.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 06:05 AM
1	Found a girl on tinder that actually wants to meet up, how should I proceed? Good comment.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 06:00 AM
1	How to fuck roommate without causing drama? How to fuck roommate without causing drama? Mutually exclusive ideas, pal. Shitteth thou not where thou eateth. Want to fuck her that badly? Move to another apartment first.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 05:58 AM
1	Two recent girls same outcome I'll do you one more. Unless it's logistics based discussion, ie "when are we meeting and where " and so forth, go 3 to 1 on texts, or at least try. Respond to every third text they send, or thereabouts. Use common sense, but remember that being ignored by a guy is more attractive to a woman than being constantly connected.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 05:55 AM
1	What do you do when you clearly see her bullshit: speak up, let it go, do something else...? Yeah, I don't think you're risking becoming beta by asking her to shower and shave. We're not talking about direct communication about feelings and emotions. It's a straight up "you've got time for these other things. Find time for this."	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 05:50 AM
1	Girl went crazy, do i next? Meant to add: when she said you still loved your ex, you don't deny it. You don't even justify the accusation with a response in her frame. I would have been temptied to either jokingly telling her she was crazy, or flip it back at her (again playfully) and make it about her being jealous, or agree and amplify "yeah, I'm a hopeless sentimental like that. I always end up falling for crazy bitches" or whatever. Straight up denial ends up allowing her to hold power in the conversation because you'r…	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 05:45 AM
2	Girl went crazy, do i next? Life is too short. She has you in her frame and is pulling the strings like you are her marionette. When she said you loved your ex and you denied it? You're in her frame. When she said you do what she wants? Well, yeah, you ended up in bad with her when she was obviously manipulating you. Don't put your dick in crazy lad. Go no contact. Find another.	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 05:40 AM
4	Thoughts on making cheating GF a plate? Hard next. My advice to any man who has a woman cheat on him is no contact. She is no longer part of your life. Move on. This is the deepest betrayal, and proof that she is actively looking to one up you. Why would you waste your time?	/r/askTRP	29/12/14 05:34 AM
1	Health Issues Getting in the Way of Self-Improvement I'm honestly not trying to be a smart ass when I ask, did you see the part about my heart surgery? My doctor would absolutely shit if he found out I was drinking salt brines. Salt+heart problems=bad mix. But hydration and acupuncture I'm all about. In all honesty I'm looking more for advice on maintaining my marriage when it's kind of hard to maintain frame and stay alpha and on top of my game when I'm rash covered, scabby, fat, and just generally not on top of things... trp...	/r/askTRP	28/12/14 04:21 AM
2	Health Issues Getting in the Way of Self-Improvement Salt baths help, but only to reduce the itching temporarily. Even when I did one every day for a month... I've also tried oatmeal baths, too, but other than clogging the drain in my bathtub... :) I want to try acupuncture. I've been doing EFT a bit, which includes tapping on some key acupuncture locations, and it seems to be helping.	/r/askTRP	26/12/14 11:56 PM
2	Health Issues Getting in the Way of Self-Improvement Intrigued. I just looked this up. Yeah, it's a piss test for (I assume) THC. So would one actually eat the hemp oil? Or apply it topically? Or both? And if one did so, would one fail a drug test as a result?	/r/askTRP	26/12/14 11:36 PM
1	Health Issues Getting in the Way of Self-Improvement Oh, yes, and as to the whizinator - I mentioned in the OP that my Dad instilled a brutal form of honesty in me - the proverbial "John Wayne" syndrome. I won't lie. If a prospective employer doesn't want me to use MM, and I want to, I'll tell him so and turn him down. His loss, not mine. But I won't lie to him. My opinion is that lying, and the comfort that society has with lying, is one of the reasons that we were all so easily fed the blue pill in the first place.	/r/askTRP	26/12/14 09:56 PM
1	Health Issues Getting in the Way of Self-Improvement Since auto-immune conditions hate stress, and my line of work is one of the top 5 most stressful careers in America, I've thought of changing careers many times. I'm thinking about it now, if I can make the opportunity present itself. This is the prospect I mentioned. Even if not, once I get established at the new job, I think I'm going to approach new boss-man about the idea of MM (assuming I have a boss-man at all). From what I've been told, it could be life-changing for me. Many good stories.…	/r/askTRP	26/12/14 09:49 PM
2	Health Issues Getting in the Way of Self-Improvement Brother, I effing wish. That's the one "miracle cure" that has been presented to me that I haven't tried, because employers in my line of work drug test, and most don't give waivers for medical use. Maybe if this one prospect that I've got on the line works out, I will give it a shot. Not to give too much away, here, but in my state, Marijuana is perfectly legal - medical or otherwise...	/r/askTRP	26/12/14 08:49 PM