Premature Ejaculation

GentleGiant350 · 2014-12-30T00:33:41+00:00

Yeah, foreplay.

I go off a lot sooner when I go in fast and get it done. Like I'm setting a goal to get it done ASAP or something.

The more we fool around beforehand, the better my performance. Paradoxical? I don't know. Try it.

I think part of it might be that wife gets wetter and so there isn't as much stimulation? Maybe?

Also, stop masturbating so much. You've trained your pecker to go off at the drop of a hand. Retrain it.

anoobaccount · 2014-12-30T05:12:34+00:00

If you continue to masturbate focus on the ride versus the destination. I've gotten to the point where I wack it for about an hour each time and then cum. That helps me out in bed because I last about as long (~hour or less). One time I didn't though, and lasted like seven minutes. Just focus on how it feels, and don't try to rush it.

K_ofHearts · 2014-12-30T08:49:50+00:00

Focus on your breathing.

No, seriously. When you fuck a woman and you feel yourself about to hit the Point of No Return, check and see what your lungs are doing - you're probably taking short, panicked breaths. Purposefully take longer breaths and lengthen out your stroke.

RPthrowaway123 · 2014-12-30T13:34:00+00:00

Whenever I'm really close and I know its too early I pull out and focus on her for a bit with fingering, eating pussy or whatever. Unless she is really close to cumming, this usually just builds the anticipation (her desire for your cock) and of course chicks LOVE when its all about them.

Heartlessmac · 2014-12-30T00:12:17+00:00

Stop masturbating everyday.

apskidb · 2014-12-30T02:30:35+00:00

Kegel exercises and just before you reach, squeeze as hard as you can. With practice it'll work and you'll last longer. Be in the present moment and almost meditate when having sex - be calm and just take it slow initially.

SergeantDickhead · 2014-12-30T00:42:17+00:00

The Fleshlight STU™ (Stamina Training Unit) masturbation product is a sex toy for men specifically designed to replicate the incredible sensation of sexual intercourse in order to help you find your rhythm and obtain peak sexual performance.

I have one of these for everyday use, I didn't get it to last longer, I got it because I'm more MGTOW but after using it, I could see this as way of hitting the gym-but for your penis.

Don't cut out masturbation, that raises sensitivity and while that isn't bad- a person with your situation would definitely not benefit from having a dick that explodes upon insertion.

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DownvotesCatposts · 2014-12-30T07:09:57+00:00

If you feel like you're about to come, do these two things: One, open your eyes wider. If she isn't looking at your face then snap them things as wide open as possible. Two, focus on your breathing. Breathe in deep through your nose and out of your mouth. Think about that process as well. You'll find you've inched back from the edge a bit. You can slow down some and change positions, God knows there's a million ways to have sex. Also, you can practice these things while jerkin' it. It works.

RP_Student · 2014-12-30T14:54:08+00:00

Alright thanks guys. I especially like the thicker condom idea (the few times I've raw dogged I didn't last long) and focusing on breathing ideas. I have been pulling out when I'm close and fingering but I always thought it was kind of lame and turned the girl off, even though I'm good with my hands.

creatineboss · 2014-12-30T21:14:18+00:00

fleshlight, try and edge for 20 min everday, train that shit.

-low dose SSRI like palox at 10mgs a day -Priligy, I ordered some off of a Research chemical site, haven't tried it yet but will report

-Used to have a problem with not finishing, then had a PE problem. Now I'm in a happy middle

RetardsInc · 2014-12-30T04:15:43+00:00

Along with what others said, during intercourse try forgetting your having sex and focus your mind on something else that's not related to sex.

For instance, being a student, I review some of the concepts viewed in class in my head.

Title	Premature Ejaculation
Author	RP_Student
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Date	December 29, 2014 11:55 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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