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Red Pill Theoryapskidb/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 10:53 PM
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Red Pill Theoryapskidb/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 02:34 PM
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Metaapskidb/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:56 PM
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apskidb/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 11:32 AM
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Field Reportapskidb/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 12:48 AM
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apskidb/r/askTRP03/01/15 09:53 PM
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apskidb/r/askTRP14/12/14 02:06 PM
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apskidb/r/askTRP17/04/17 02:35 AM
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apskidb/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 01:28 PM
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Red Pill Theoryapskidb/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 09:04 PM
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I would encourage you to find out what a therapist could do for you.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:25 PM
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Making yourself your own mental point of origin. Decisions and actions etc are taken with your needs at the origin.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:21 PM
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This guy gets it. Quality post.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/20 07:50 PM
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why do we fall? so we can pick ourselves up again. it’s a trope but a useful one
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 09:05 AM
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You’re on the right path man. Face the fear and make the right decisions for yourself. May take time but you got this. That’s your purpose.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:11 AM
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I would ask you about your idea of someone doing as you said to be a loser? According to what value system? That’s a very plugged in mindset. Have the confidence to define your own success. A lot of people chase the city bachelor pad and busy lifestyle and realise that they just want to be left alone in peace. That doesn’t make them losers.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:04 AM
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Find your mission is too high-level an objective and many people struggle to translate that into something tangible. I would urge you to go on a journey of discovery and self-awareness. Get to know yourself. Read some therapy related books. It will give you a better understanding of our developmental needs and what drives us. Hopefully things you’ve read will spark some things like ‘damn i remember i used to love xyz’ and you should give yourself the permission and freedom to delve into that a b…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:53 AM
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What’s half in dollars? ppm
/r/askTRP20/10/19 05:16 PM
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^ came here to say this. books won’t give you purpose but they will sharpen your sword. for purpose you need to face your fears and look into yourself.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 07:22 AM
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sounds like she's demanding a lot of attention
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:44 AM
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HPV is known to cause throat cancer in men
/r/MGTOW07/06/19 06:15 PM
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HPV is, however.
/r/MGTOW07/06/19 12:38 PM
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We need a heartiste archive link - the site has been taken down
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 10:49 AM
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You're just another grain of sand at Hoe Beach Perfect
/r/askTRP28/04/19 09:03 AM
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Ooh superman where are you now
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 07:41 AM
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Am I the only one who sees that OP is still the deepest of ocean blue, as are most of comments so far?
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:16 PM
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What skills do you have?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 05:15 PM
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can you expand on the “semen can get extracted”? i’ve always wondered this but have never been able to get a clear answer. i always thought that if it were possible to syringe some sperm from your balls (if you wanted kids later) that more people would do it.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 02:12 AM
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And again. You’re at the beginning. You have a long road ahead of you. Accept it and you’ll become stronger.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 07:40 AM
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Download Apollo on iOS
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:33 AM
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Excellent way of explaining frame. But if an Alpha is a stone could it be that he’s too predictable? How would you piece strong frame and a “you know what you get” attitude with managing some machiavellian traits?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/18 11:33 PM
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it’s not about the cock. it’s about the attention. and she’s hedging her bets by having multiple conquests bc she’s super emotionally needy. that’s my interpretation.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 06:21 PM
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Number 5 really hit home for me
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 11:33 AM
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right, so what’s a fella to do? not get intimate? just fuck aimlessly and enjoy the decline? or find a middle ground fully understanding the risks on both sides?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 03:57 PM
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What’s even a slut today? In a big city most women have had their fair share. N count 10+ I would say is baseline. Would that suggest you can’t get intimate with a woman since they’re all sluts?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 03:21 AM
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Just let them know. It's not an STD. Could have got it from hotel bed sheets or wherever. Treatment sucks. You need to wash all your clothes and bedding and do the full body cream treatments a couple of time every week or so. It's a bitch. But being clear about it is the best way so that they get treated too. This applies potentially to people you live with. If left unchecked it can get nasty and then takes even longer to treat.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:09 AM
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That's good. You have to mix in a little trial and error now. Try to eat a little more and see how that changes.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:45 PM
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Bro are you serious? Is jumping off a ramp on a skateboard different to watching someone else do it? Is being on a rollercoaster different than watching one on youtube?
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:43 PM
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he has spent a lot of time thinking, reading and researching these various topics. having read his work you can’t deny greene has tremendous insight and value to offer.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:10 PM
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Yeah I was under no impression that she only fucked 7 guys in her life.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/18 12:51 PM
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go cold turkey and do stuff so you get the dopamine and validation from your mission. which means work on your mission more. it takes time but you’ll hit a point where you get a kick out of it more so than pointless pussy.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:56 AM
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Most women would generally think Mia is worse than them in terms of honour and chastity. I'm saying most women are no better than girls like Mia.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 08:03 PM
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This is why i keep coming back to TRP 👍
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 12:42 AM
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I no longer feel the need to associate the amount of sex I’ve had lately to my success, which is the best part. This is progress, bud. Keep going.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 01:41 PM
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Bed is for sleeping only. And fucking.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 01:35 PM
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It means it's up to you to lead the interaction to sex with learned charisma. For her it would have just happened naturally.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 01:31 PM
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it gives him plausible deniability...
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 01:48 AM
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yeah seems similar. i remember the answer being that she saw him and realised she lost tingles.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:59 PM
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These stories are heart wrenching but you can feel the blue.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:46 AM
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But I am indoctrinated to believe that if your woman is acting up, you're doing something wrong. This is a good attitude to have. It keeps you on your toes in terms of maintaining your SMV for yourself. But go one step further and the real question is "Do you really want to?" Do you want to put the effort into the LTR. If you're more focussed on your work and don't genuinely want to do it. Don't. Do you think she herself is cheating? Most likely. If not physically then emotionally, lined-up next…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:39 PM
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For whatever reason, throughout the relationship, she has gradually become increasingly paranoid that I am cheating on her. She's projecting. My goal here isn't necessarily to save our relationship... I remain outcome independent and know I can get other women without too much difficulty. Around the five year mark a TRP guy has v good emotional control and sense of abundance but still their LTRs go awry...
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:17 PM
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I've heard that reversal success rate is very low if not impossible. Is that just scare tactics? I've never really understood why they can't just syringe some sperm from your balls.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 11:24 PM
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You don't like it because you've tried it or you don't like the idea of it?
/r/askTRP31/08/18 12:25 PM
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It happens. Use it to learn about yourself. A lot of guys are terrified of being beta. Learn to master your feelings about her. You can enjoy her company and the time you spend together but you have to be resilient enough to also accept when it goes bad or when it's time to bail. Plate spinning works, but I see it sometimes used as a shield to shy away from fears of attachment/vulnerability. Example: I've heard some guys push girls away and won't let them cuddle for fear of them (the guy) catchi…
/r/askTRP31/08/18 12:24 PM
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Discipline is a muscle. It gets stronger by being used and pushed to its limit.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 12:17 PM
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I came inside of her. You met this girl today and had sex raw and came inside her. Smart move.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 10:56 PM
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don’t tell people. they don’t need to know.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 12:07 AM
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But now, it's like I see the blueprint of everything, and it all seems so dull, nothing is exciting anymore. You've plateaued. You haven't figured everything out. There's always more. More money, more cool shit, more girls, more mass... You need to challenge yourself. You're previously unattainable dreams have come true. Time to get new dreams. Life is a motherfucker. But the satisfaction comes from getting 1-up on it. if you slip-up just once as a dude, it can cost your fucking family, even you…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:20 PM
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Like you said earlier. There's probably some BP still left in you. And you connecting with this chick brought it out and you're hoping that maybe she's the one to finally fulfil your BP fantasy. Enjoy them for what they are. But build the fortress around yourself. Lay the rules for the relationship and function on the assumption that she won't cheat. Trust but verify. If her behaviour triggers you and you don't believe her. Cut it off, for your own sake and sanity. Girls need to work. And most d…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 11:02 PM
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Tell me how he is so sure about it? That's the million dollar question. Sometimes you know. That's why we vet and don't give women the handles to rip our lives apart. It's tough when you catch feels but you need to put yourself first. Maybe you need this journey with this chick to learn the lessons, just don't let it cost you too much.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 10:54 PM
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Dude toothpaste? Either you rode her out or she was sore from another night (possibly not with you). I'm not suggesting anything. But it wasn't toothpaste bruh.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 10:37 PM
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Because you fuck for validation. Because you’re addicted to it. And she needed to be fucked by a man who “just gets it” Damn, that's some potent shit right there.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 10:33 PM
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But I'm going to do it at a pace where I'm not simultaneously self-destructing. What were the signs that you were pushing too hard?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 10:27 PM
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bravo. more power to you. good luck for the future.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 11:18 PM
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OK, but I think we can all agree that no one will ever get rich slinging concrete no matter how hard they work. It's not about mindless toil when trying to figure out a business. It's not a job. It's not a task. You're solving a very high-level problem here that involves scalability. Example: Coca leaf farmer worker (non-owner). This guy busts his ass 12+ hours a day tending to the farm doing what's he told by his boss. One day it may be picking leaves, the other may be pouring fertiliser. The o…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 08:54 PM
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Seriously, read this on the toilet. This post is best viewed on a computer! I sure hope I'm alpha when I sit on the toilet with a computer in my lap (he he he).
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 07:31 PM
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"He spent all his time trying to fuck and sometimes it worked out." this hit home. it's a hygiene factor. once you know how to get laid, focus on something bigger.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 01:22 PM
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there is always somebody out there who's had it easier than you. putting themselves through the painful conveyor belt that churns boys into men. here's the rub. you're also the one doing the churning. it's your job to push yourself through the line and do put the pieces together. you think the iphone factory workers have it bad. on your journey, a McDonald's binge can be good comfort while you recharge and take the reigns again the next day. growth doesn't have to be gruelling punishment everyda…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 01:21 PM
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it blows my mind how a women can be financially dependant on someone and be like this. it’s the highest gift someone can give to her i.e. not having to worry about being a breadwinner.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 09:21 AM
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It’s up to you to nip it in the butt nip it in the bud. and if you're really horny, nip it in the butt too.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 02:40 PM
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It's all a battle with yourself in the end. Don't give her handles to rip apart your life. Have fun with it but maintain boundaries. Be honest with yourself when she crosses one of them and act accordingly - either with a withdrawal of attention, a reprimand, or a NEXT.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:55 AM
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people missed what you did there 😏
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 12:18 PM
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On Tinder I keep matching with wall or post-wall women instead of the young hotties. Set your filters to <24 years of age. how do I use the fact that I make good money and have a prestigious job to my advantage? I don't want to seem like beta bucks and I don't want to be paying for anything. Don't flaunt the job. You'll probably have a nice place or a car etc but start the first few dates simple. Dress well but casually, she pays for drinks if you can swing it. No fancy places. etc. They have to…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:42 AM
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that’s par for the course for CS. ignore all that. immerse yourself and learn the hard shit. if it’s not obvious CS is a killer degree. understanding how and why computers do what they do can give you a lot of power in life. sure the world of warcraft dweebs will go on and become code monkeys for some corporation. you’ll have that option too, and for good money. not a bad backup. but learn business, and people and product and apply your skills and you might just be able to start a business or ma…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 02:48 PM
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leave. why make life difficult for yourself. unless you really must. but must you really?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 02:33 PM
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50 Cent's - Too Rich For The Bitch is another great track that sums up the RP/BP attitude.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 08:37 PM
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There is no magic pill to success. The answer really is buckle down and do the hard work it takes to get there. And even then, success is not guaranteed. It's nice to hear a real story that doesn't hide from this fact. Most people like to sensationalise their success. Congrats and thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 02:23 PM
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I’m not great at story telling and talking about myself. Learn storytelling. This will help you immensely, in life and in business. Being able to weave a narrative over a project pitch or keep guests entertained over dinner will add max value to your life. The rest of the stuff can be mined from the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:38 AM
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came here to say exactly this. amused mastery.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:31 AM
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get rejected more. you'll soon develop calluses. that's a good thing.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:26 AM
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Pain is growth. Don't shy away from that. Become the guy where people wouldn't believe that you were once like this.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:25 AM
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tinder, bars, libraries, supermarket, the street, public transport. wherever you see someone you like, have the balls to go up and start a conversation.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:22 AM
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it depends. here are some scenarios: what you felt was accurate and you probably weren't able to be the fun happy guy who can entertain a group of chicks. maybe they trash talked you or maybe they want their friend to be happy. they did like you but you couldn't tell and now you're potentially fucking up a good situ bc of your insecurities. 100 other pointless possibilities. Text the HB8 as if it was all dandy and if she rejects you that's her loss. Work on yourself so that if this sort of thing…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:18 AM
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I remember going through that... that was mind altering. i'd love to hear more about this or other realisations you had at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:30 PM
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This is the most low self-esteem shit ever. You are implying that you are never good enough to keep a women long-term. you must concede that there are forces beyond your control as to whether you can keep a woman or not. do your best but up to a point it's out of your hands and therefore AWALT applies. When reality is making you more happy then ideology, that is the sign that the ideology is wrong. Nothing in the sidebar is written in stone and you are free to accept or reject any part of it. i …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:21 PM
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i leave my bio as if i was interested as per usual. i just divert the dates and the vibe to a more let’s do stuff type thing. if you can get laid too why not.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 12:57 AM
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could you elaborate on that?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 12:55 AM
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i wasn't suggesting that it was. i just think that guys who have come to TRP through a really bad breakup or experience usually then avoid it. they just wanna fuck bitches and get money. which is fine. i guess in some what i was saying was that it's ok to give it another chance provided you sort your shit out first and it's something that you want. i will say though, that this came out of the blue for me. It was something that came about from having a life full of great girls and one just starte…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 07:43 PM
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i love that analogy. thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 07:35 PM
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thanks. the anger phase is a necessary evil. we don't have everything figured out. but it gets easier. and it gets better which should motivate us all to keep going. there is always someone out there further along than us. learn from them. that's what this sub is about.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 07:34 PM
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TRP can forget the benefits of a good relationship, and especially having a woman who really loves you. I'm still skeptical that this is possible. She can love you in the moment or the way you make her feel. And I guess you can relish in those emotions in the moment. Love wouldn't be enough. You still need to steer the relationship etc. the next frontier of what TRP needs to evolve into: a more developed understanding of our needs for love and real connection and trust with women while still mai…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 07:32 PM
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be the life of the party. your openness to new experiences will be attractive to locals. they can show you what seems to them the boring parts of the city and you'll appreciate it just because it's different. tinder is great but you have to approach it from a frame where you don't mind friend-zoning girls just to get them to take you places or be more open about doing things. of the few people you meet don't be afraid to merge groups of people. if you set up a dinner or drinks be open and sugges…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 07:23 PM
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the nuance hopefully comes from the fact that not everything is black and white. you're not simply alpha or beta and girls aren't just sluts or unicorns. it's useful to think this way when you're just starting out bc it saves you a lot of pain but everyone is on their journey and life has a certain irony to it. walk your own path and understand that rules are meant to be followed until you're ready to make your own.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 07:15 PM
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It is bullshit. It steams from the Abrahamic notion of having to sacrifice something. Give up some flesh to God. Doesn't help that religions despise anything that bring us pleasure, like sex and alcohol etc. Removing the foreskin, similar to FGM, takes away a lot of the pleasure/sensitivity during sex and also changes the mechanical aspect of sheathing and sensation that the foreskin provides. It may have been a hygiene concern 200+ years ago although I wonder how many boys died from post circum…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 03:08 PM
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really enjoyed this post and the post you linked to from before. good to see what life is like on the other side of the TRP journey. as others have said, check-in in a year, curious to know what learnings you'll have then.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 12:53 PM
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I'm sure it can be but compare a 1 hour lifting session to a 1 hour run in terms of wear and tear. Pick your poison I guess but don't fall into the trap that running is 100% safe. That's what sneaker companies in urban cities want you to believe.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 01:43 PM
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Running is terrible for your knees long-term.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 01:39 PM
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Keep at the lifting and re-focus on diet as that will maintain some semblance of structure in your life which will do you good. It will prevent you from ending up a slob on your couch. Depending on how in need of money you are, you could take some down time or just buck up and look for a new job 100%. A fresh start is always good if it leads to improvement.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 01:49 PM
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You guys had fun, but those fun feelings do not make her special. I'm under no illusion that she's special or unicorn-like. It's in mens biology. What I mean by not real is that that this feeling can happen with literally anyone. I know there a probably a lot of girls out there like her that I could have a similar connection with. It's in mens biology. What I mean by not real is that that this feeling can happen with literally anyone. I've met a lot of great people in my life and there are some …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 01:26 AM
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I've been on TRP for 4 years and have been living a great life. I've had multiple plates throughout the years, many of which were and some still are really great. Here's the problem: One of my plates from another country who i met travelling recently visited me. Out of all the plates I've had the connection with her stands out. She's gone now so I'm back to my usual routine but thoughts of sliding back and oneitis do haunt me. We had some intimate moments and I wonder if there was something legi…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 01:55 PM
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Damn that's some dark shit right there. Don't Trust Anyone™.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 04:29 PM
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what was it about that bag scene that changed your perspective?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 12:57 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I'm assuming that when you have a flare up you either wear condom or abstain completely? Do condoms even protect you against it i.e. wouldn't other skin contact in that region also transmit?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:04 PM
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your appetite is bigger than your belly. go and have sex with the average chicks because lo and behold, you're average right now (but beware pregnancy). no sex for 2 years is outrageous. the read the sidebar and start working on yourself. manifest your internal standards externally. that means doing the work to become the guy that deserves the 9s and 10s.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 12:21 AM
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love the depth and balance of this answer. it's true. see the bigger picture. your fucking around maybe because you're not so excited about why you're being disciplined. take some time to to align your thoughts and action and uncover the real reasons for doing something. at the same time, having balance is very important. i know a lot of guys on here say they crush it 24/7 but burn-out is real and will cost you down the line. everyone is different so try different things and see what works for y…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 11:52 AM
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I've been on here for three years and this sub has changed my life in ways you couldn't imagine. would love to hear your big turning points in the past 3 years?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 04:45 PM
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Asian chicks are some of the most desirable women out there. And there are some real smoke shows out there. Plus they squeak like ikea furniture! perhaps you haven't read u/GayLubeOil 's How To Stuff Your White Meat Into Asian Girls
/r/askTRP02/11/17 02:25 PM
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I realize being an extremely detail oriented person, I don't see things as a whole but rather a collection of individual pieces It takes different temperaments to see things in detail or the bigger picture. I find it hard to do both at the same time. perhaps take some time to reflect and train yourself to be able to switch modes. start with a big picture for yourself and then break it down to its parts. then look around parts of other things and try to think what part they would play in a bigger…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 01:47 PM
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i think you're still in LTR mode mentally. i was following and agreeing with everything you said until the LTR stuff. it's possible you didn't connect with her. it's good to get sex out of the way and then develop a relationship (fb, plates, LTRs, etc) why don't you want to see her again?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:36 PM
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this made my day. fuck yeah. the buck starts and stops with you. you are responsible for your own life. that means you’re responsible for your happiness, your misery, your sex life, your porn addiction and everything else in your life. good and bad. don’t externalise blame. even if it was someone else’s fault, you should have accounted for that and made adjustments. take control and get over yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:21 PM
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surprised there aren't more comments here but looking forward to rest of series.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 11:43 AM
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I applaud your frame, sir.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 10:30 PM
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because i'm not touchy-feely. if i want to hold a hand or kiss in public i do. but generally it's not my thing. most guys do it bc it's expected or she wants to. i don't agree with that.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:43 PM
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I no longer feel like women have any power over me. I no longer feel like women take up 90% of my brain power. I no longer see women as a prize to work toward. Congrats, you've won at life.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:09 PM
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LOL, no.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:07 PM
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excellent comment. notice how you've accepted there is no meaning in relationships yet look for meaning in a career. meaning is what you give it. take the small steps and move forward. e.g. if you enjoy computer programming pick a little project to move you forward i.e. develop your skills or challenge you a bit. going through that little journey will teach you more about what you enjoy and what value you can offer which will then inform your next project/focus. life is lived forwards and reflec…
/r/askTRP29/05/17 04:26 PM
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this. you have a few close friends that you can rely on. but you should be busy with your life. socialising is a part of it. the rest is doing what you enjoy.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 01:19 AM
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30 here. on trp for 3 years or so. everyone around me is getting married, so much so you start to question yourself but i remain steadfast. cute girls, lots of awesome experiences abound. i always put off the lifting but did well despite it. started a few months ago and can tell you lifting is the last piece of the puzzle. lift!
/r/askTRP28/05/17 01:14 AM
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there are two parts to this. 1) being genuinely engaged in an interaction but not being able to convey it and 2) being able to 'facilitate/manipulate' an interaction so that members are more open and receptive to each other i.e. be the social lube. focus more on #2 and you'll begin to see how best to present yourself.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 07:27 AM
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re-frame and take control. but don't blow it up. she gave him an in. if he's smart he'll know what to do. if not, he'll get butt hurt and say she's not worth his time (which he's already said).
/r/askTRP19/05/17 07:23 AM
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yes backhanded but a compliment nonetheless. OP shouldn't go begging with bowl in hand but it wasn't her disrespecting him. don't you love the nuance of social interactions.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 07:20 AM
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looks like we have a good few pond slugs here that agree with OP's take. smh. you're 100% right tho.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 07:18 AM
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no, it's not common. spitters are quitters.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 05:34 PM
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are you trolling. life can be over at 30, if you want it to be. there's that quote that most men die at 25 but are buried at 75. do you really want those things? marriage, kids etc. you don't have to do anything that you don't want. grab life by the balls and your thirties can be awesome. you have 3 years. work your ass off and make sure you enter the next decade of your life raring to go.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:54 PM
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depends on the girl. sometimes i feel like you but with others it gets better.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 06:44 PM
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unless she's a virgin someone has always already been there. at least you know the reason and have an idea of std risk etc. i wouldn't let it bother you. better the devil you know than the devil you don't.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 05:32 PM
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sounds like you're after a red pill disney fantasy to watch. mad men is v good but is based in 50s/60s/70s.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 05:30 PM
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would definitely agree the chase is exciting. but sex is good too. sometimes i get bored of the chase and just want to skip the dance to the bedroom and vice versa. first time lays aren't that great most of the time. have sex a few times with the same person and things might get more interesting.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 05:29 PM
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LOL you've found yourself a unicorn. Should i even go back to jamba juice and not give a fuck if she works there? yes. go about your business as usual. in which i replied back a couple hours later to ask if she wants to kick it again and she straight up ignored me. next. you weren't the first person she let into her holiest of holies so easy. enjoy the easy lay and if she comes back, she comes back.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 07:54 PM
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A lot of stuff is pointless in the grand scheme of things. I saw a comment a few days ago that may help you. Get back to the things you wanted to do when you were younger. Do things for the fun of it. Have the discipline to dabble and complete things. Even if they're pointless, they'll guide you to the next thing and the satisfaction of doing things and finishing will be worth it plus the learnings of where to go next. Trust the process. Nietzche's guide out of nihilism was that we should live a…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 07:18 PM
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100% This. Take the job and clean cut with the gf. You will meet so many new people and have new experiences and challenges at work that you'll forget all about her. Oh and work on yourself and read the sidebar so that one day you'll understand the advice you're being given.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 09:58 PM
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if you're serious about doing the work, PM me.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:46 AM
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agree. if you have a very intense life/career, it can help speed up mental recovery. and the psychedelic properties will deffo help you appreciate the small things or see things differently. just use it as a tool sparingly. remember the good old christopher hitchens. make sure you get more out of it than it does out of you. master-slave relationship.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:41 PM
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I don't have an agenda. She was just cool and a good presence in my life. Seems unnecessary to cut good people out of your life because of a principle.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 09:45 AM
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Im thinking I am at a point in my life where I just want companionship? No. You're not happy with many aspects of your life and she was the spark that blinded you from this truth. You need to do the hard work and build a better life. Companionship is OK if it doesn't come from a needy place. We all slip up from time to time but this is a good wake-up call. In a few months you'll be on a high again and you'll laugh at all of this.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 06:01 PM
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good time for you to re-learn how to be happy with yourself. you're doing good bro, keep at it.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 05:35 PM
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Sad but true. This just goes to show that if you just put in a little effort it can snowball into something you're truly proud of. Otherwise you'll likely end up like one of these guys filled with regret.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 09:57 PM
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It is all mundane bullshit but there are peaks and troughs. You can't enjoy the meaningful highlights without a good portion of suck. You can go to the gym, spend time and have a half-assed diet and look OK. Put in a little more effort and you'll look amazing. It's those little differences that add up and make the BIG differences down the line. While developing your dieting discipline you'll be building pathways in your brain that will help with other things that require discipline and you'll fi…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 07:20 PM
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It's good that you got that wake up call. Don't rush to achieve other people's goals. Unshackle yourself from societies grip on what you're supposed to do and think about what you want. Living with parents isn't a bad thing if it's temporary or part of a larger plan. But heck, if you're exes property motivates you to get your own, cool. But like I said, do it for you. You don't wanna end up getting the property and then thinking, I didn't actually want this.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 04:25 PM
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I'd love a episode summary or breakdown of topics and theories covered much like podcast notes does. I'm interested in evo psyche but your titles aren't exciting.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 07:17 PM
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If he says something mean, I don't speak to him without an apology (unless of course, it's an emergency). This seems a little passive aggressive to me.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 11:40 PM
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Thanks! I tried pomodoro today with very positive results.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 03:41 PM
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This is true. I've a friend who recently moved to Australia and he found the transition tough since everybody goes for coffee instead of a beer.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 09:05 PM
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Do you have an interest in yoga? If you do, and it's something you want to go deeper in you could use that as your in with chicks. Say you do classes, or want to discover yourself or have been to india and did cool spiritual stuff there - all that would be awesome stuff to do and have stories about. But don't do it for the chicks. Do it for you.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 12:29 AM
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I skipped ahead to chapter 4 as it was most helpful with office politics. I'll go back and read the rest as I think you have a point.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 06:59 PM
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I'm interested in hearing more about the hyper-minded ADD types and how to approach this.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 06:56 PM
1

Interesting view. Who would you say would be a suitable paragon of masculinity?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 10:54 PM
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He's become obsessed with the loss. He wants to ensure that he doesn't lose again. But it's unlikely he'll be able to beat Diaz, a black belt in jiu jitsu. Mcgregor maintained his frame but ultimately UFC held out and still rejected his statement and the fight has been canned. He took a risk and a gamble and it didn't payoff, yet. Watch this space.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 08:48 PM
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There's a fine line between opting out of the game trying to justify it that women are shit, people are shit and that society is is shit and actually having YOUR shit together where you are OK with being alone. Learning how to be alone and how to thrive alone is important. There will come points in your life when you'll be travelling or people in your life will be busy. You can choose to chill and have some me time or you can decide to go out and charm your way into a bar and make friends and ma…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 08:43 PM
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As with most things in life, you only get better by doing.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 08:35 PM
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There's lots said about setting goals but some guys who have been told what to do their entire lives, once free, have a hard time choosing goals. How do they choose (aside from healthy eating, working out and reading) what to focus on?
/r/askTRP21/04/16 05:31 PM
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Thanks, I really appreciate your viewpoint. Your comments on MoneyStatusLooks thread earlier in the week helped cement some of your ideas in my head. Work hard and a plan will emerge.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:45 AM
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Thanks this helps. It's funny because it kind of goes around full-circle. BP guys who just want to play video games or find the one get told to lift, read the sidebar, improve themselves. As you say, once you're free of the shackles and with RP values, it's on you to decide what to invest your time and energy to.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:22 AM
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It depends on sex drive and the dynamic of the relationship. But your woman should initiate at least some times.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 06:25 PM
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This next business I'm planning on starting will be almost DOUBLE or TRIPLE the work required for the first site. But the way I feel when I'm starting it is the same as I felt when I started the first one. What this is an indicator of is that my context has expanded. BIG insight here. Start with small obstacles/projects and you'll eventually work your way up. Most people go for the big pay-off right away which is very hard to pull-off.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 12:54 AM
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Wow what a story. I wonder if there's any research about taking too many psychedelics and it's effects. I've read that backpackers after partaking in ayahuasca rituals sometimes lose their shit and even commit suicide. Psychedelics are always touted as a fun experience but your example is a cautionary tale.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 12:44 AM
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This. But there might be dissent in the ranks if you keep them around for too long and they try to dethrone you via politics. Employ /u/abdada's policy but cut 'em loose as a final nail in their coffin. You'll know when the time is right.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 01:38 AM
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Tyler's Truth About Success series is worth watching. And the one where your gf is a raging slut as the title is decent. Julien imo has turned into a total douche since his scandal.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 01:30 AM
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Why you cuffing ma nigga? Iz you da police? Cuffing is holding hands. I did not know this.
/r/TRPOffTopic03/04/16 01:15 AM
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What's up with everybody on TRP having a blog now? I get it and it's cool but I largely stick to TRP reddit as good content filters up the chain.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:59 AM
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Brilliant post! This really resonated with me. I had a similar experience where I started learning about Napoleon, probably one of the most important figures in history. How the fuck did I not learn this in school? Because Napoleon is a case study in the skills that lead to success - being able to manipulate, posture, lead, and pursue a vision. These are not skills the Elite want to instil in their citizens. When you start to research other narratives and reasons for the way things are it's very…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 12:17 AM
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There are a lot of stupid responses here. None that will actually help you. Rich people are just that: 'people'. Are they self-made? Are they rich trust fund kids? Bottom line is that people with money have abundance mindset handled and as you point out IDGAF. They're willing to take more risk (that's how you make money) and don't let it bog them down. They approach life differently and that somewhat leads to more money. Character is destiny. Behave as normal. Have fun, bust jokes, add value and…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 10:48 PM
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What challenges do young professionals face that others don't? One way to get them into a serious relationship would be for them to marry up a 30s chick who's seeking a provider. Most young professional guys wouldn't struggle to find that imo.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:49 PM
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You're mortgage free. Work on your career to bump up that salary and enjoy yourself. There are plenty of women out there. Don't get sucked into one. Learn how to live single first.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:43 PM
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You're probably dealing with a lot of low-level stress and it's affecting you. Meditate, go to the gym to let of some steam and go from there.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:39 PM
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I think you're a beta and you need to man up. Read the sidebar and start your journey.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:38 PM
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Nice - any specific things that you'd want to hear more about or explained?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 12:17 AM
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Four, five who cares. Read the signs man. You're deluding yourself. Cut and run.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:35 PM
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You'll have many more realisations of how the world works to come. As you start to unravel the truth, life will start to make a lot more sense. You'll begin to understand why certain people enjoy the position in life that they're in and how they may have got there. The anger is a natural psychological process. Keep reading and keep experiencing it, and over time you'll begin to accept it and move forward. You're still holding on to your old views wishing deep down that they be true and you're an…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 11:27 AM
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and don't put yourself in a situation where a woman feels scorned that you didn't marry her. This is a whole 'nother dynamic to beware. yikes.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 06:42 PM
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Keep your eye on the prize. But keep in mind that we all need balance in life. Don't seek out your scientific goals at the expense of honing your social skills and everything else life has to offer. Make a concerted effort over a few months to improve or expand in certain 'softer' areas. Your life will be better for it and will payoff big in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 09:04 AM
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To continue your analogy, you can't go from A-Z without going through the rest of the letters B,D,E, etc etc. So if you're a Warcraft incel with little social experience you're gonna have to start with baby steps. You need to be comfortable with speaking with strangers about basic mundane things before you can dazzle them with your oration and storytelling. Read books like How to Win Friends and Influence People and get to grips with the basics. Then apply it in real life and take action and bui…
/r/askTRP12/03/16 08:48 PM
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As many other commenters have pointed out, Napoleon was a pitiful beta bucks. However, in terms of ambition and carving out a legacy he's an excellent RP example. Funny how such a figure can be a crippling cuck. To your other point, there is a difference between education and schooling. It was the Prussians who introduced compulsory schooling not Napoleon. The Prussians had figured out that schooling via regimented and boring lessons delays maturation and keeps young adults in a child-like depen…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 05:20 PM
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Visualisation is a powerful tool. Having the mental strength to stick it out is awesome. Kudos.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 04:26 PM
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I wouldn't agree that you can't achieve great things because you're not a genius. You're just not gonna be the next Einstein but you can still do great things - check out Richard Branson - that guy is dyslexic and look at what he's been able to achieve.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 04:25 PM
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Thanks for sharing. That's really interesting. It's great that you're handling all the areas of your life. On the outside it seems like you've got it made. But perhaps you need to work more on yourself, your character and your personality. Maybe your missing a hobby or interest to give you a purpose so to speak. Maybe it's 'giving back' that'll do it for you. As they say, you just end up growing into bigger problems, and that's a good place to be. I've being reading a lot about levels of psychol…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 04:22 PM
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The bar for social skills is so high that most people are completely unaware it exists. Sure, we have smartphones and the internet that makes socialising technically easier but being able to skilfully navigate the social landscape around you is much harder. I'm hoping to put together a post about this since I'm seeing lots of people mention it as a problem for them.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 04:15 PM
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just wanted to say thanks to OP for your post. I had an interview today and closed with your 'is there anything about my candidacy that you perceive as a weakness?' question and it worked a charm and led to the interviewer asking me in for another round.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 11:12 PM
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When I got into pickup initially I met a lots of guys to wing with and my friends laughed that I was getting more dudes numbers than chick's initially. This reminded me of that. Strategies to setup effectively dates with dudes. Playing it cool and friendly and offering value goes a long. If you're fun or have value, guys will meet up of come to your drinks/dinners/activities.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 11:57 PM
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This. OP raise your standards and face the music. It's time to move on and improve your standing.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 09:40 AM
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Agreed it's all situational. But if you have game and charisma it will carry you far even if you're out of your element. People will be able to imagine your high value in whatever circle they believe you belong to.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 07:48 PM
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Send her a funny pic in a few days. See how receptive she is and setup another meet if you sense she's down. Oh and don't forget, keep spinning more plates.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 08:04 PM
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we are in a phase of fighting This shouldn't be happening. Don't allow her drama to take over. i do not feel like getting her anything. Then don't. Be a man and hold frame. When she throws another shit storm because you ignored her birthday think about if you want someone like this in your life.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 08:02 PM
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Keep it light hearted. If you have your head on straight and are genuinely busy with life and are non-needy she'll pop up in your head a couple of times a week and then you can send a msg - a joke or funny pic. If you've set the correct frame, she'll be the one initiating a lot of msgs.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:59 PM
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I used to think 27 was old because society tells you it's a time to settle down and all that jazz. In fact, as I'm approaching 30 I'm beginning to get that youthful vitality back because I see my 30s as an opportunity to live the best fucking life while my peers are getting baby-trapped, divorced or just plain giving up on life.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:57 PM
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Sucks bro. Glad you're back on track.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 07:51 PM
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Curious about what you're working towards if you wouldn't mind sharing.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 09:10 PM
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Do it. It's not just about women. If you lose your phone, someone will have full blown open access to everything on your phone and everything your phone connects to. Think about that.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 07:35 PM
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Yes it's needy and what you should do is next her. If I had to explain it id say she's looking through your phone because she knows she has a capacity for it and it's triggering her own jealousy or she's hoping to catch you so she can justify her actions.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 07:34 PM
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You're not friends with both. Friends don't fuck other friends finances. I know TRP is amoral. If you were his friend you would tell him what happened.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 03:24 PM
1

Why would an alpha female be attracted to a sigma specifically?
/r/askTRP25/09/15 11:09 AM
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Get tested to see if you have it. It's very easy for a guy to catch so if she had it before its very likely you'll have it too. Like another poster I also had symptoms very quickly. If you don't have it, thank your lucky stars and move on. It's not worth the hassle to try and manage in your mind whether she cheated or not.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 11:01 AM
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This. You should be using condoms to prevent STIs (I've heard someone once refer to parenthood as sexually transmitted mental illness). Don't think because you get the snip you can fuck rampantly and not worry about babies. True but you also need to worry about STDs which in some ways id say are worse. Only once you know for sure you don't want kids or you're a little older and run the risk of being baby trapped should you get the snip.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:59 AM
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Your title and question are two different things
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:35 AM
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If you ever watch nature shows you'll notice how certain animals will butt heads, nudge each other or use some display of potential aggression to assert dominance. humans can do that do with body language and taking up space in an environment. that's the physical realm. We also have our mental faculties and here you can use amused mastery and wit to show your mental dominance. Mix it up.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 11:00 PM
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I kind of want to fuck her. Do you know what you want? Still I'd lose no sleep even if she said no. so what are you fussing over? Invite her over simply, escalate and if you get a flat out no you'll know where you stand and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 10:54 PM
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Women are attracted to masculine traits. They don't care how those traits are exhibited as long as they are exhibited. If you are passionate, confident, and have vision, women will find a way to fuck you. If you imitate those attributes without actually possessing them, women will see through your bullshit and avoid you like a used tampon. Bravo. Nailed it. Ashley has no clue how to dice an onion so instead she pulls out her phone and begins finger fucking it. Enjoyed this also.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 10:50 PM
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This is 100% the correct mindset.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 08:57 PM
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Something's gonna have to give. You need to sacrifice something in the short-term and if there's no wiggle room with work then you'll have to work around that. There have been days where i've got home, hit the sack straight away and woke up refreshed for the next morning to go to work. Didn't get to do anything else but I felt better. Other times sacrifice a social weekend and really focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 08:06 PM
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She's providing me with all the assets I need in a girl. You shouldn't need anything but only want. And is she really? You clearly want more head. Lead her. And dread. If she senses she'll lose you she'll start doing it.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 04:00 PM
1

Dude you have the internet at your fingertips. There are tonnes of resources online about form etc. Strength Training Anatomy by Frederic Delavier is good at explaining and showing what exercises target which muscles and how.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 03:57 PM
1

Man you fucked up. Move out and plate other girls.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 03:54 PM
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You're suffering from burnout. Take a week or two and catch up on solid sleep, diet, mental rest (meditation), and allow yourself to do dumb shit like play video games. Once your mind and body get a chance to reset and rest you'll feel more like yourself again.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 11:19 PM
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Man up. Men aren't supposed to be weeping, emotional pussies. Yeah you can have a connection with someone but your purpose and achievements in life are what should be bringing you to tears if anything. You've moved to a new country. You should be so busy meeting new people, exploring the city etc that you don't have time for longing for a chick you left back home.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 11:16 PM
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You're a man. You're supposed to lead and initiate. Suggest a meet afterwork or if it's too late for when you get back. It's not rocket science bro.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 11:12 PM
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Humblebrag but I enjoyed reading it. Shows a lot of the nuance in pulling something like that off.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 04:35 PM
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You did fine but you should have persisted and taken the pressure off. one reply example off the top of my head: (monkey covering mouth emoji) <-- you used the wrong emoji ^^ It's not always as easy as asking a chick to fuck. Show her your personality and you'll be golden.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:16 PM
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u/FlyWieAdler you're just starting your journey. Experience the ride and enjoy it. You're here so you have all the tools to not fuck yourself over in the long run.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:09 PM
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Definitely agree. OP will soon see that she'll find a cookie-butter BP to move-in with and marry very soon. I've seen it happen. u/abominable_douche, make a promise to yourself that if you do cut and run that you do everything to make it worth it. that you go on an upward spiral and reach your full potential. that way you'll never have to look back and think 'fuck, what did i do'.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:44 PM
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Then I say, "I actually did but thanks." That's loss of frame right there. You should have agreed and amplified: "omg i so totally made that up so you'd fall in love with me" with a smirk on your face and get up and spank her. Feisty girls like this give you the opportunity to really up your game. Use it. Don't be butt-hurt. When it becomes too much hard work, next her.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:33 PM
2

Don't dress like everyone else. Pick a style or a number of outfits and add your own flavour to it. You can be street/urban casual or hipster lim fit. Mix it up and add your own spin on it. As long as things fit well and you have a good physique, you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:30 PM
1

Exactly this. And OP, ask yourself why are you the one who wants her commitment?
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:22 PM
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She has clearly demonstrated she's not worth your commitment. Downgrade to plate and find new girls or boot her completely and find new girls. She's done. Any action aside from this and you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:20 PM
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The good news is that you're really young. Try do as much research about social, conversational skills, even old school PUA stuff and just go out there and make mistakes. Talk to girls and see what happens. Join a club or talk to guys at the gym and ask questions. Learn how to banter. You'll figure it out. Young guys even if they fuck up are given some leeway for still being wet behind the ears.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:18 PM
2

Just call it collateral damage of a bad relationship, move on and go 'no contact'. Next time don't leave stuff or don't get so emotionally attached to objects.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:15 PM
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I like the idea of paying your dues and then giving back when you can. We're all in different stages of TRP and life as a whole. While I don't like the idea of established bureaucratic hierarchy in TRP, I take your point about waiting for the right moment and seeing where you fit in. It boils down to respect for others within your group, respect for experience, knowledge and wisdom. That's not to say you shouldn't voice your opinion if it adds value.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 09:09 PM
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Cheers dude. Good reminder. Don't get complacent and stay on the the upward spiral. Downtime is necessary but always keep your wits about you. Live for your goals, not someone else's (i.e. women's).
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:52 PM
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I'd love to hear more about this from TRP members also
/r/askTRP27/08/15 10:31 PM
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The writing is very clearly on the wall here. Yes, she's an alpha widow and the fact that she regular meets up with him is a big red flag imo. Detach yourself and plan an exit strategy before you get too emotionally invested or end up with having to raise the other guy's kid.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 08:11 AM
1

Make her feel comfortable with expressing herself and discovering what she likes and you'll be very pleasantly surprised.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:36 PM
2

Love, as you describe it, does not exist. You're seeking something (this love) that is external to you. Don't go back to the relationship. Work on yourself and do things just for you for now to learn more about yourself and the world. Keep reading and it'll all fall into place for you.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:33 PM
1

I think in terms of platonic/professional relationships this may work. I would say this is more focused on business and written at a time when it was more male dominated. Definitely not applicable in sexual relations imo.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 03:15 PM
1

Do some introspection to understand yourself. Once you have a clear idea of what you stand for, what you want and what you'll refuse to put up with you'll confidently walk your path.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:37 PM
1

Abundance and maximising your SMV.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:28 PM
3

The fact that you're considering it and clearly not 100% happy with your situation means you should get rid of her. How she takes it is not your responsibility. Break-ups are always tough.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:26 PM
1

Don't worry about things outside of your control. You can do your best to optimise the hair loss by either shaving it or styling it better. Accept it, own it and carry on as usual. Don't let it get in the way.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:23 PM
1

♂ This. The truth is : Get to a point in your life where you'll be happy with or without her. And then you just don't care man cause you'll know that if you lose her she'll be replaced by better. And if she's smart enough to realise that she won't betray you.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 12:17 PM
2

No, the complete opposite in fact. There are no rules to life. Things just are a certain way because of our past as humans. Evolutionary pressures have created the world around us - women's sexual strategy and 'survival of the fittest'. Once you understand the underlying currents of life and accept that you're not entitled to anything, you'll grow stronger and begin to forge your life. Being a weak person, expecting to float through life is no way to be.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 01:27 AM
3

If you make full use of this opportunity in your life right now, you'll look back in a few years and realise that it was the best thing that ever happened to you. Go find yourself, your masculinity, your passions and push to reach your full potential. The money, women and respect and most importantly self-love will all come in time. You have the resources here...
/r/askTRP30/03/15 01:03 AM
2

Showing boundaries is very worthwhile. Sometimes you need to be stern but don't ever 'break frame' and 'lose it'. Show her your boundaries and be willing to walk if she's doesn't fix up. You should punish swiftly and reward slowly. If you don't like something that she's doing let it be known e.g. 'what you're doing is really unattractive.' or 'i have no time for people who do [insert what she just did]'.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 12:49 AM
1

It could be that your current chick is a good one. But you're not ready for her. This current relationship will be really tough for you. What you lack is abundance. Once you have that, you'll be grounded as a man and you'll have solid boundaries in your life. One of the best ways to establish this is to spin plates. It'll show you that you're in demand and that you have value as a man. You'll see yourself as the prize. No matter how 'good'/unicorn-like a girl will be you'll have yourself as your…
/r/askTRP21/03/15 09:09 PM
5

could you combine the pdfs and upload them for all?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:16 PM
2

♂ This 1000x.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 11:27 PM
2

The fact that you're asking the questions shows that you're not cool with it. You have to establish your own boundaries and be resolute in keeping to them. Be prepared to NEXT. Change your frame to be one where you don't put up with that and you're willing to walk away. Don't LTR a slut. Keep to your standards and be sure to screen heavily on the next one.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 01:40 AM
3

It doesn't sound like she's into it at all. Your texts are very needy and beta. Push for a meet and if you get nothing, NEXT. Don't waste your time on girls that aren't into you - it's time better spent developing new prospects.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 01:37 AM
36

Age difference is perfect. Don't let anyone convince you otherwise and/or shame you into thinking that it's 'wrong'. It's not. You're a man approaching your peak SMV and you've found an undefiled woman in her peak SMV. Perfect match imo. Best advice I can give is be a man. Be the man that she'll never be able to replace because you're so awesome, dominant, masculine and everything else TRP. You get to mold her and influence her in the best way because you're her first. That also means certain th…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 08:19 AM
12

When you're girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with you anymore find one who does.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 12:29 PM
1

'Yeeeeaaa I hate that shit. [changes subject] You need a real man. Come here...' pull in with amused mastery and fuck
/r/askTRP29/01/15 12:17 PM
3

You are the prize. Don't be fooled by their being Muslim and special snowflakes. They're not. AWALT. You make the effort as a man to make your intentions known but if you get flakiness, and mixed messages, better spend your time on girls that want to be with you. If you want just the lay then you can maybe chase a bit more to close the deal. But if you're after something serious then this courting and her behaviour is a VERY good indicator of her future behaviour.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 12:15 PM
3

What exactly did you find out? It does sound like you have a beta mindset. If her past displeases you and breaches your tolerance you should be comfortable to act on it i.e. walk away. Work on your inner game. If her past is just a few normal experiences then it seems like it's your insecurity. Have the mindset that whoever she was with before, bigger dicks and all, you know how to capture her mind, dominate her thoughts and fuck her right.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 12:11 PM
1

The problem is that you think you're doing something wrong. When plating you're non-exclusive and you can either state that implicitly or explicitly. Don't worry about being seen. If anything, it will work in your favour. You're a guy that's in demand and didn't make promises of exclusivity. You can do what you damn well please. Overcome the internal hurdle and establish your personal boundary that you're well within your rights as a man to do as you please. You shouldn't mourn the loss of a pla…
/r/askTRP29/01/15 12:06 PM
2

For the overthinking start meditating. This will help greatly. Secondly, take action. Do stuff. Go out and socialise and talk to women and get some hobbies. You'll be too busy living an awesome life. Reflection is good but keep in mind the law of diminishing returns. Which brings it back full circle. Meditate.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 06:36 PM
1

Yes. This will work if you fuck anyone other than her too.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 06:30 PM
1

I'm going to follow this very soon
/r/askTRP28/01/15 06:28 PM
3

In that case you should have angled for a blowjob... Don't treat her differently. Reward her good behaviour but maintain your frame that you're the prize and that she'll be dropped as soon as she stops bringing you value.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 06:26 PM
1

If your girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with you find one that does.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 01:01 AM
1

While these are noteworthy questions, I think the exercise is pointless. Deep down women don't know the answers to most of these questions themselves. Watch their behaviour instead. By the same token I think you'll know her answers better than her by observing her.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 12:58 AM
2

Yes to all. I don't practise enough but suffice to say that when I'm clear and present life takes on a whole new dimension. Can't recommend it enough.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 06:17 PM
1

2 at the very least so you have somewhere else to go. 3 or more will give you enough variability to mitigate slipping up. Remember re: plates. Always be replacing or bringing new ones into the rotation.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 02:02 PM
6

Don't write the 'Never call me. Do not visit me. You know why.' part. It just seems butt hurt. Get her out of your life ASAP and fill it with time with friends and hobbies. It'll be tough bro, and you'll want her to suffer and pay for what she did but there is no respite. You have to endure this and grow stronger as a result. Your revenge so to speak will be all the better girls you'll get after you've re-built. All the best brah.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 11:52 AM
3

/u/tombreck2 has it right. How long have they been in touch for? You should've nipped this in the bud a long time ago by making it clear that you don't tolerate this kind of behaviour.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 09:08 PM
2

Excellent frame to have here.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 09:05 PM
1

I've been on crutches for the past few weeks and I was concerned about how it would affect my ability to game. What I've learned is this: if you let it be a problem for you, it'll be a problem for her. I've shown up to dates with a cast and crutches and absolutely killed it. I don't play the victim and behave as if everything were ok. If you still lead e.g. I insisted they hold one of my crutches when going up and down stairs, they respond well to it. Just own it and don't make a big deal out of…
/r/askTRP13/01/15 05:59 PM
1

You can't force someone to swallow the red pill. They have to want to do it of their own volition. Tell him about /r/seduction and Game and let him discover TRP himself.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:27 PM
1

Escalate with something you're comfortable with but do escalate. You could also flip the script on her and maintain that you are in fact the prize by chastising her competitiveness e.g. 'Don't be such a ball buster/don't be so competitive. It's unbecoming.' Don't be afraid to escalate or move the interaction forward. Keep the texting minimal. Just get the next meet going and build your attraction in person. But a text like the two I suggested should establish a strong frame for you.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 02:58 AM
1

This is drama and emblematic of you not maintaining frame. She shouldn't be in the mindset of challenging you about ignored texts. I wouldn't bother trying to salvage tbh and if anything I'd ignore until she came round with something positive and move onto other plates.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 02:23 AM
2

Up the ante. Tell her that if you beat her again she owes you a BJ and a dinner. If she comes back asking about what if she wins just stick to the dinner ;)
/r/askTRP10/01/15 02:18 AM
1

Banter is good and learning good story telling will get you far. Learn to read social cues and know when to spike her interest or release tension. However, keep in mind that you have to let/make her work for you too and invest in the interaction. Learn to become comfortable with awkward silences and let her make the effort to come up with conversation threads and things to say. Masculine energy isn't about being a chatty little girl. Allow her to tell silly stories that make her giggle and go in…
/r/askTRP07/01/15 04:36 PM
2

Good to hear. One thing I'd suggest is that you give back to the community either by posting/commenting or helping out guys in /r/AskTRP. It does a lot of good to help the next batch of RP noobs build themselves up.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 07:57 PM
1

AWALT is women having the capacity to be AWALT in terms of sexual strategy. A lot differ in terms of intellectual interests and hobbies etc but the hotter the chick, the less she had to do that stuff because she got a pussy pass in life because of her looks and in those cases you'll notice they are all basic bitches.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 04:36 AM
1

It doesn't matter. Guys who have a lot of sex may have a few 9s and 10s in their harem and also definitely some 5s and 6s. As long as she passed the boner test and you wanted to fuck who cares? Sometimes you eat junk and most times you eat healthy. Same thing here. No big deal.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 04:32 AM
1

She doesn't respect you and therefore doesn't deserve you. Get rid of her. In your mind plate her and focus on getting new girls. Once you see that you can, dump her.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 04:29 AM
1

♂ This. Surround yourself with high quality men and you won't be so tempted to use a woman's presence as filler for what's lackluster in your life, which is an expressway to codependence & betafication anyways. OP, you need the masculine polarity in your male-female relationships. Read The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:19 AM
1

You should be the oak tree and not let her pull you into the argument. Holding frame doesn't make you an asshole but it also doesn't mean that you argue your point over and over. You state your case and leave it at that or change the subject. I think you're misconstruing what frame is. You're clearly not a genuinely sweet and thoughtful guy all the time if you can be a total asshole. That's fine. Embrace it. But the crux here is that you let her get to you because you're too emotionally invested…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:13 AM
3

Kegel exercises and just before you reach, squeeze as hard as you can. With practice it'll work and you'll last longer. Be in the present moment and almost meditate when having sex - be calm and just take it slow initially.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 02:30 AM
3

I don't think you can un-know TRP but you can definitely relapse into blue pill fantasy. I think enough RPers went through too much shit being BP that they put a lot of effort into bettering themselves and stay the course.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 02:27 AM
1

There is no end game here. You'll fluctuate between 'phases' during your early days. Some times you'll be completely accepting and others you'll be angry. Just keep going.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 02:25 AM
-1

She should be calling you to setup a second date. At the very least, she should text saying she had fun blah blah blah. If her interest level is low i'd leave it for a week to 10 days and hit her up with a proposition and go from there.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 02:22 AM
3

Why do you want to plate her? She's postwall, divorced and a mom plus you mention she's overweight.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 02:17 AM
2

You really need to work to internalise TRP and make it part of your mindset. If you had that you'd know how to respond. From what little context you gave it sounds like you asked to meet up and see kinda blew you off saying she'll see how she's feeling. The 'alpha' response would be either 'cool i'll text you tom' and then text her a few hours before your meetup and say 'i'll be at [place] at [time]'. If she's replies positively, you're ok. If she replies and says she can't make it just ignore a…
/r/askTRP30/12/14 02:14 AM
15

This makes perfect sense. We all know women are controlled by their emotions and I guess this is just further proof.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:44 AM
1

CH literally wrote about this a few days ago: The Difference Between Game And The Red Pill
/r/askTRP30/12/14 12:38 AM
2

If a girl is out having fun and she got all dressed up she won't really want to cut her night short. The night is her foreplay and she'll get amped up and ready for a close/lay later in the eve. There are exceptions but you don't want to come across as the desperate guy. Work the floor and get to know people. You'll have social proof working for you and then girls will come to you. I've had girls ask me how I know everyone in the club and how often I come here. Funny thing was that it was my fir…
/r/askTRP28/12/14 04:58 PM
2

Try to line-up another job with a nice break in between which will give you the security of having source of income and the comfort of a break to go what you want.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 04:08 PM
2

Plenty of betas get pussy but again, who cares? Go get your own 4-some if that's a goal for you and i'll happily read your follow-up FR.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 04:06 PM
3

Not paying or at least showing that you're not some punk that she can free-ride will pay dividends and best/worst case will help you filter out the gold-diggers. If you end up splitting or paying, it doesn't matter. But by bringing it up you'll be able to judge her character and decide for yourself if she's worth it.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:42 PM
1

Go to her place if closer but if you have separate cars that's weird. Drive her to your place (you're only going for a quick game of cards or whatever) and drive her back to her car. If you've built the tension then you could just bang in the car. Logistics are important but if you make it sound like it's not a big deal 'oh it's just 15 mins drive' but it turns out a little longer no worries. Stop off on the way to pick something up and use that as a venue bounce. Get creative, make it fun, make…
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:40 PM
1

In this day and age if you don't fuck her first date, someone else definitely has. In which case how do you feel about that?
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:32 PM
1

Tyler's runs a pickup company - not a relationship company. His goal is to help guys get laid and if that's the end game then a girl's history really doesn't matter. He's not talking about commitment. In fact Tyler never commits to women - he has multiple girlfriends on the go and has 3-somes. When framed this way, do you care one of your plates is a slut? TRP says don't commit to sluts which is sound advice but there's nothing wrong with plating them.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:30 PM
4

It will take some time but you should be going out to have fun. Make strong eye contact, extend your hand and twirl her around. Dance a bit, pull her in, ask some simple questions (what's your name), if you see she's into it carry on with your usual game. If not, just segue or merge into a new set and get them talking. Don't focus on closing early in the night. Just get to know the girls and then you can hit some up later. But if you see that one is DTF, feel free to go for the close early. Don'…
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:25 PM
1

While logistics are a factor it sounds like these chicks aren't investing enough in the interaction. push/pull. create vacuums in the interaction that give her the opportunity for here to win YOU over. Lead the interaction in such a way that taking you home is her idea i.e. casually ask how far away she lives or callback later to a funny video that she should watch at yours later that night.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:18 PM
3

♂ I must say that despite people complaining that the TRP subs are going down in quality, recently the answers given in /r/AskTRP have been on point.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:14 PM
3

Turn off notifications for updates like that so you don't see them in future.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:10 PM
3

There is slight nuance when picking up women but generally you shouldn't change your approach - calibrate after the fact. Treat them all the same AWALT. It could be that high-quality women aren't hanging out in the places where you're running game in which case try to mix it up and try day game.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:04 PM
2

Also, given that you're not happy with her level of investment in you focus on spinning other plates and just keep her around as a side thing otherwise you'll get annoyed again. You can't fix her. Just enjoy her for what she is.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 02:51 PM
9

I feel like I rode the beta-carousel and I'm now a reformed slut.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 05:06 PM
2

Lower your standards or raise your SMV.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 05:28 PM
2

Hit a bar before as your warm-up and try to socialise with very short sets to get yourself in the groove. You can then either stay at the venue or if you really messed up you can go the other bar and start again. You will feel more loose regardless and it will help you get more comfortable as the night progresses. Focus on the process and not the end result.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 05:22 PM
0

Hero.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 01:40 PM
0

This needs to become a sticky to remind guys to keep this under wraps. All it takes it for one person to be all arrogant about his new found knowledge and have it leak onto mainstream to ruin it for the rest of us. http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/dec/13/online-dating-wandering-into-the-manosphere
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:17 AM
1

Start early. A lot of companies now recruit from their spring programmes aimed at 1st years. And if you can demonstrate genuine interest i.e. by starting early it will reflect well when you then apply for a summer internship or a full-time position. Otherwise, build up your skills and CV and all the other RP related stuff.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 02:53 PM
2

A ship is safest in the shipyard but that's not what it's made for. Similarly your penis is safest in your pants. Just be careful. You can still catch certain STIs like herpes through skin contact or if any bodily fluids transmit before sex. When in doubt, bow out.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 08:27 PM
1

Women don't want knowledge from men. They want your energy, sexuality, and fun! ♂ This.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 04:55 PM
3

Consider this your off-season where you knuckle down and get to work (on yourself) ready for the upcoming season's kick-off. I too am in a similar situation and injury has rendered me on crutches for a while so can't really go out etc so have decided to focus on my personal projects as the RSD guys would say - a period of immersion vs a period maintenance.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 04:52 PM
1

Has she said she wants you to chase or are you just getting that vibe? Men act, women react. Don't expect that because you banged her once, you can sit back and she will rain pussy down upon you. Initiate. Send her a text 'What are you doing tonight/weeekend/whatever' and setup a hangout at your place.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 02:13 PM
1

What's your issue here? That she's talking about it or that she's insisting you pay for her drinks? It's true - girls can and do go out with the intent to bum drinks off guys the whole night. FACT. Just don't fall into her frame. Acknowledge and change the subject. If she's saying she won't go out with you unless you pay, tell her to hit the bricks and move on.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 02:05 PM
1

You're having this problem because you're too invested in her. If you only her saw as a hookup or some fun you wouldn't care aside from the associated STD risk. You're still swallowing the pill. Plate her (maybe) and meet other girls and live your life. Do not get hung up on this one chick. But as others have said already... 11 dudes by 16 yrs old? FML.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 02:01 PM
2

You're putting the cart before the horse. A lots of guys on here used to be very BP and dreamed of finding 'the one' and sticking with her. But unchecked female sexual strategy being what it is, guys have realised that LTRs are not worth it and so we plate girls instead. The general churn and attrition in harem maintenance results in you having been with many women. There are guys who out of insecurity, etc seek out to slay as much pussy as possible but there comes a point where your N becomes i…
/r/askTRP12/12/14 01:56 PM
1

This. Sums it up completely. I'm not going to risk half my assets and earnings just to have access to a body part.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 12:04 PM
1

Think of it this way - if you don't get off your ass, your life will be as you described: So here I am, 8:00 PM on a rainy night in England, where I could be at the gym, or doing something that could benefit myself, yet i'm sitting in my flat alone watching Kitchen Nightmares. And i've watched a few episodes because it beats cleaning the rest of my room, or mopping up the water in the kitchen that defrosted from the freezer. Take the steps necessary to build yourself a new life in the UK so that…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:44 PM
4

He will not listen to you. He has to realise for himself. Lead by example and if you inspire him to re-evaluate his situation, great. I have a friend who's in a similar shit gf situation and he will get baby trapped soon enough. Every time I've warned him or explained what will happen he agrees but continues to stay with her. It's sad but for your own sake, understand what you can and can't control.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 07:15 PM
2

I'm a self-proclaimed badass in the kitchen and had a phase where I would try to emulate the great chefs and learn their techniques. One thing to note about the food scene is that it's very theatrical. It's primary goal isn't to nourish you but to scintillate your taste buds and give you an experience. Similarly with fast food, the goal is to sate your hunger for the lowest cost/greatest convenience. Cooking for yourself i.e. to feed and nourish yourself is a slightly different ballgame, and sur…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 06:52 PM
1

As CH says '...rejection is the badge of honour worn by womanizers'. The fact that girls are approaching you is a massive plus for you. Work on your game and social skills - how to tease, escalate, hold conversation and emanate a masculine vibe and you'll be well on your way.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 04:53 PM
2

I have an issue with how the #TakeDownJulienBlanc scandal was mismanaged by RSD and I think that their silence somewhat tainted and discredited them in my eyes. But having said that I attribute most of my gains and improvement to having watched many of Tyler's and Julien's videos. They've helped me solidify my inner game and my sense of entitlement - that I am the prize. I know Owen has been trying to shift into personal development and his videos reflect that, and so the value is applicable to …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:56 AM
48

Examples like these give me hope that one day there won't be any more betas left to wife-up rundown CC riders.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:47 AM
2

You hit the nail on the head. Excellent comment.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 01:38 AM
1

Aren't all girls in big cities on Tinder nowadays?
/r/askTRP10/12/14 01:27 AM
1

As slut is a woman who isn't very discerning in her choice of sexual partners - who offers her highest value (her pussy) without requiring much, if any, commitment from men.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 01:20 AM
2

Sluts don't change. It's called baggage for a reason and it will rear its ugly head when you least expect. We use the past as a predictor of future success in every other facet of life. Do not make the mistake of believing you can turn a ho into a housewife. Even if you do manage to tame a slut against all odds, the risks associated are just not worth it.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 01:14 AM
6

You should never show your hand. From what you say it's clear that she's not really into him and is only replying out of politeness to the beta-alpha dude. You could take a hard stance and say that she shouldn't even be entertaining his messages but we're all fallible - how much you tolerate is up to you. You're doing well in terms of handling her shit tests so just maintain your frame. Maybe she needs a little bit more comfort from you? But be careful with that. Bottom line is don't mention tha…
/r/askTRP09/12/14 02:48 PM
1

'Thanks' works wonders.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 07:58 PM
2

I don't understand why all the hate. I was being sincere. Oh well. At least you 'got' it.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 07:55 PM
-2

You know I've never thought of it that way. You sir, are a gentleman and a scholar.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 04:28 PM
0

You need outcome independence. You shouldn't seek validation or happiness from women which is what's happening here. Treat them all the same because remember AWALT and just meet up to have fun. Don't try to change who you are so she likes you. Maintain your frame and she'll come around soon enough. If not, no big deal. Her loss, right?
/r/askTRP07/12/14 03:48 PM
-1

Sounds like you've used too much dread to the point where she's now freaking out. Comfort her a little bit. Take the lead, tease and off to the bedroom ;) Reward good behaviour and punish bad. Don't dread her if she's being an angel - it confuses them. The odd compliment here and there can work wonders where appropriate but don't become a supplicating bitch. Hold a dominant frame and stay on top of your amused mastery and things will line up for you. First and foremost be clear on what it is tha…
/r/askTRP07/12/14 01:14 PM
1

Are you kidding me? Men's lives are an uphill battle but at the same time things just get better as you age if you're doing things right. Not to mention the growth and personal development. Sadly, for women it's the opposite. After their prime, it's all the way downhill for them and deep down they know it.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 01:10 PM
3

I want to take this time to re build myself. Learn skills, continue to develop my design skills, draw, finish my graphic novel. Learn to play my saxophone again. Read. Workout. Make myself and awesome person again like I was when I met my ex. Do this. Join hobby clubs and get involved with the local social scene. You may meet some cool people and if not, at least you're keeping your social skills fresh.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 01:02 PM
2

LTR should be an upgrade you give to one of your existing plates. If this new prospect isn't a plate, you need to add her to the rotation and screen her properly. And what would happen then naturally is you end up spending most of your time with the LTR option plate and the others kinda fall by the wayside.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 12:58 PM
1

It denotes the unit you're measuring like kilograms KG or time secs/mins. HB7 is a quick way to understand in the PUA community that we're talking about an attractiveness rating of a female.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 02:17 AM
14

You don't really want Rick to change and do all of those things. Accept and enjoy him for what he is and live with that. The minute he does change to hang out with you more and tell you he loves you, you will find that your attraction for him will dwindle a little bit. As he placates you a little bit more every day you'll start getting wet at the idea of some other guys and Rick will no longer be special to you and you'll either dump him or cheat.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 12:08 AM
2

♂ This. Clean, simple and non-needy.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 11:07 PM
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'Because I'm taking you out for a drink this week' OR 'Because you're taking me out for a drink this week' You decide how cocky you want to be.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 11:06 PM
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Get her something where it's very obvious that you will benefit the most i.e. tickets to the cinema to see a movie YOU want to watch or massage oil for men so that SHE can give YOU a massage and go from there...
/r/askTRP06/12/14 11:03 PM
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You should have either ignored the first text or re-threaded and started talking about something else. You fell into her frame here. You shouldn't be entertaining notions of other dudes with her. Did you close on your date?
/r/askTRP06/12/14 11:00 PM
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You are being a little naive. Stick with the program and get to the 100K club. You'll have free time to spend as you wish building a life outside of work. Save money and after a while you can decide to take some off for some adventure. Just don't get roped into a relationship and get beta-buxed with baby and expensive mortgage.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 10:56 PM
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Frame is having yourself as your mental point of origin. You can factor other people in your decisions but ultimately you should have yourself, your needs and wants as #1. Holding or maintaining frame is not wavering due to external forces e.g. complaining gf or social pressure. The key to frame is understanding that you have to first know what you want (establishing your frame) and then following through with that with a purpose (maintaining frame).
/r/askTRP06/12/14 10:51 PM
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This. Think about what could have possibly triggered her reaction... Either you changed and are really on top of your shit and she has realised that you're a catch OR She had attention on the side that went away or she was shown that her SMV is on the decline and the guys she used to get are no longer interested so she's doubling down on the guy she still has. You know the details but it's one of these two reasons 100%.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 03:52 PM
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Take massive action. Do something. Write down all the things you want to improve in your life and take small steps everyday in that direction. Success in anything is borne out of successful habits.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 12:21 AM
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Probably taken down because of the Julien scandal. But it is a very good video that shows you how women perceive the lover vs. the provider. Sounds to me like OP is coming across as a provider and when he goes for lover fruits is told to go back into his provider box. You want to hit the AF side of the AF/BB spectrum with women: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2dj2rn/how_to_ensure_she_sees_you_as_af_rather_then_bb/
/r/askTRP06/12/14 12:19 AM
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I think you're confusing what TRP is. TRP isn't new. TRP sheds light on human nature which has not changed for millennia. Think about the book The Game which is pretty mainstream by now - do girls call you out when you try to pickup and accuse you of using 'game' tactics? Highly unlikely unless you're still using Mystery Method. Do you think a girl is going to call someone out for being Red Pill just because they're masculine, on their purpose, living life and have their shit together? No. TRP i…
/r/askTRP06/12/14 12:13 AM
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You could send out a feeler text in the new year but it seems that this is dead wood. GFTOW.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:15 PM
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Remember that everybody's journey is unique but the main tenet is to embrace true masculinity in the face of today's femcentric society. We're here to support each other but everyone is walking their own path. I don't see us banding together and rioting in the streets any time soon.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:12 PM
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Also known as the Madonna-Whore complex
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:02 PM
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The Blue Pill version of love does not exist. Also keep in mind that a woman will not love you. She will love the tingles that you give her.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:00 PM
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Take the job. That will give you an abundance mentality in terms of money and use your spare time to work on your dream. When you see good progress you can decide whether you want to go all in or not. High risk is good but be smart too.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 08:58 PM
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Things which will make her leave: If you get needy and clingy and on the flip side if you make her feel like a slut. You'll have the sense the vibe you get off her and calibrate. Send her a funny meme and see how she responds. Don't reply to all her texts immediately. Create a vacuum and you'll be surprised how they fill it themselves. This also makes you seem high value because you have shit going on and you're busy.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 01:29 PM
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OP has all the answers he needs here already. Cut and run and don't look back.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 01:19 PM
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The only gifts worth buying are those that benefit the both of you i.e. Sexy lingerie and champagne Massage set An outing for the both of you Otherwise stick to something small and relevant to your relationship. A lame card you made yourself that is kinda cheesy and alpha/beta at the same time (similar to skittles) can work wonders. Plus you'll get to see if she's a gold-digging whore.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 01:17 PM
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This. It's unlikely that the guy will appreciate the heads-up and so you really have nothing to gain. Understand that life isn't zero-sum and that the best thing for you is that you cut her out of your life so she won't do any damage to you...unless you can keep is casual.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 01:12 PM
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This. Small wins and positive reinforcement. You'll notice that as you start being a little more friendly to the cashiers in your life, you'll begin to enjoy it which will give you the confidence to do more. Then you can start making statements about things that should help 'hook' a short conversation and go from there. It doesn't have to lead anywhere - you're just exercising your social muscle. Be bold. You'll soon realise that we're all human and meant to be social.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 01:06 PM
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The most potent step you can take is to dump her ass. You haven't mentioned what makes her a good LTR and worth the time and effort to turn around? A lot of times an LTR is too far gone when the guy starts asking for help and the best course of action is to leave the relationship and focus on yourself. You really need to be content with yourself first so that you can have an inter-dependant (Stephen Covey) LTR. However, some remedial tips include the usual slew of TRP principles: Be a leader in …
/r/askTRP05/12/14 01:00 PM
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It is definitely possible to overgame at which point you become a performance monkey. She gets used to your quick wit and entertainment value. It begins to feel like you're seeking validation and can totally backfire on you. A good retort will work wonders every now and then but don't over do it. I'm not sure what you mean by the first part of the question - surely the higher your SMV the better. If you mean by SMV the whole package then as you rise up the ranks in terms of your game proficiency…
/r/askTRP11/11/14 07:05 PM
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It's a good sign that she gave you her number. Text her something light, an inside joke or something so that she has your number too. Don't text for a hookup so soon. See where the text interaction goes - she may suggest a meet if you keep it light and fun.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 04:34 PM
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I mean specifically what topics in conversation should you avoid. I find that mentioning things e.g. like a successful job seem to quickly signal provider.
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