How does your game differ when looking for an LTR as oppose to trying to plate a woman?

apskidb · 2014-12-28T15:04:59+00:00

There is slight nuance when picking up women but generally you shouldn't change your approach - calibrate after the fact. Treat them all the same AWALT. It could be that high-quality women aren't hanging out in the places where you're running game in which case try to mix it up and try day game.

tombreck2 · 2014-12-28T17:36:54+00:00

Read this

Guntlips · 2014-12-28T19:00:05+00:00

Its the same game across the board. IMO LTR's aren't found they are trained.

GentleGiant350 · 2014-12-29T06:10:49+00:00

At first, no different at all. You shouldn't ever start something looking for an LTR. Start a one night stand every time, and let it evolve into plating, then LTR. If she really is worth a LTR it will slowly become less important to be 100% game 100% or the time, as long as you stay RP.

As you get to know her and the LTR evolves, you'll learn how to moderate the necessary beta/alpha/trp in your personality. Just never, ever, no matter what, become a sycophantic beta, ever. Even after 40 years and 5 kids. Stay a man, and she will probably stay with you, if you're worthy.

OilyB · 2014-12-29T09:09:12+00:00

IMO, always begin with the plating game; if she's plateable, she's not LTR. There really are women who will withhold sex (the first couple of dates) as primary focus, while being fun to hang around with - just keep your brain working, observe her behavior.

The secret is in her having a visibly hard time withholding sex the first couple of times, while she's fun to be around because mental/emotional depth PLUS when you finally have sex - she'll give her all and she will be cooperative and enthusiastic first and foremost. Across the board, none of that 'that depends on how you treat me'. This will be an indication that she looks beyond sexuality while ultimately enjoying sexuality all the same with you.

A high value woman/LTR material will invest in both sexuality from a certain point on PLUS be very careful to be 'a lady in the streets'. Let me emphasize: she won't act like one, she'll be one. She'll know how to bring value to the bedroom and she'll know her responsibilities as an SO. She won't act entitled but will work hard at the relationship.

Does this make sense?

Title	How does your game differ when looking for an LTR as oppose to trying to plate a woman?
Author	Vagantene
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	December 28, 2014 2:57 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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