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I took TOK, Don't talk about TRP. Even in that atmosphere.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:46 AM
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How is the anger phase going?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 06:38 PM
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For about seven months I was cycled through four different SSRIs. They helped short term. I became addicted to sex though, and required around three times a day to feel normal. My gf at the time noticed this, and things went south. Originally I was diagnosed with major depression, which is actually caused from my ADD. I took Adderall, and felt pretty normal for a male. No anger towards self due to inability to concentrate. The best non-medication I have taken is lifting, daily. I usually get a '…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 08:21 PM
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There are different types of love. A mother's, and a lover's.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 05:43 PM
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Was done with the bullshit, told her what is happening and what will happen
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 05:23 PM
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Was done with the bullshit, told her what is happening and what will happen
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 05:23 PM
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Figures. Honestly, unless she makes major changes I won't get back with her.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 05:20 PM
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Of course. I might still be in love, but fuck the bullshit. Not worth.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 05:18 PM
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Before I told her about the various dates I have planned I told her all she'd be from now on is a casual date with the understanding that I would be seeing other girls.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 05:07 PM
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I haven't thought about it like that. Thanks man, first time for me walking away but I'll just walk without saying anything next time.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 01:20 PM
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This is my current situation. Away for X weeks due to job, still go and see her for a weekend of fun every now and then.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 10:42 AM
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This isn't good advice. Using drugs to mask an inner-game issue is stupid. Using drugs to alleviate medical condition is ok. Glad you're not using it anymore.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 07:33 PM
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part time bouncer here - any dollar amount is a really kind gesture
/r/seduction11/03/16 12:50 AM
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part time bouncer here - you are correct
/r/seduction11/03/16 12:49 AM
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Someone who loves me just as much as I love me.
/r/seduction23/01/16 11:50 PM
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Stop being in contact with her you twat
/r/askTRP09/01/16 08:51 PM
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Go to a gym, try stronglifts or something. Could even ask a personal trainer for a workout structure. Don't go cheap on investing in yourself.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 10:32 PM
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I hope this isnt a troll post. Yeah dude, in a healthy relationship shit like this doesn't happen. If a girl really wants you, really badly she'll do whatever you want. This includes sex. Well, mostly.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 06:40 AM
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There are no tricks to TRP. It's a sexual strategy that ultimately will produced a man suited for the current society that we live in. You need to sit down and ask yourself what you truly want. Once you have that in mind, you go and work towards that on the daily.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:48 PM
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Can confirm, was addicted to sex (it isnt awesome btw) due to SSRIs.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 08:00 PM
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You'll be fine. If you plan to LTR one of them, think of what could happen when you graduate. If you're at a STEM college, highly unlikely that both of you will get a job in the same area. Because of the above I don't LTR STEM girls, and also other reasons.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 07:18 PM
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Man this would be great if I wasn't currently at the gym. Seriously I can't stop going. Don't help me because this addiction is good.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 03:29 PM
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I've also observed that typically the average- intelligence girls (at the STEM college level) seem to be less happy than the average intelligence guy. Although they just love to eat up all the attention from thirsty guys. Sometimes I do think that's why they stick around since it seems like most of them got passed up for the prettier girls in highschool, but they instantly become very attractive when the average girl here is below-average looking elsewhere.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 11:06 PM
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1) no 2)no 3) no 4)Invictus cologne/ Noire from Bed Bath and Beyond (i think) 5)no.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 12:53 AM
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I've asked, they usually say something like "you just dress like one, you were "x" brand and brotanks and lift all the time" Which is true, I wear brand name clothing because I get them discounted at 60% their sticker price. I do lift every day, and when I'm not I'm going full hermit study mode, tucked away in the quietest corner I can find to concentrate better. When I'm not doing either, I'm banging my current plate or just chilling in my room playing some World of Tanks.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 05:37 PM
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Its a mix of both in my fraternity, but most of my friends are of the former.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 04:27 PM
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You know man, if you really want to get into lifting check out local gyms. I personally hate my university's gym, so I go to a local one and pay like $35 a month.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 05:41 AM
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Maybe I should mention that I was her first sexual partner.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 05:59 AM
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Having sex was/is a given every time we see each other. I've never known of a girl that was like this, but they exist?
/r/askTRP24/09/15 05:26 AM
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Flip the script, go no contact, see another girl (if not in serious relationship). You got options dude. Best thing about life is the freedom to make your own decision.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 03:17 PM
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Yeah I have. I've also had people hate me because of this. I've also had people so vindictive that they want to go out of their way to screw with my life because I went onto the trp forum. It does suck, I just keep moving forward with my mouth shut since they don't want my thoughts anyways.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 03:14 PM
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Lets be real for a second; the feels are real, and if you did have them for this girl you will feel them for a short while after this breakup. Something biology pair bonding etc., regardless, you don't want those coming back after you've made your decision to end the relationship. That's why you shouldn't plate an ex.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 03:11 PM
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I see it as vindictive. The one time I gave a girl closure it was for my conscience.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 03:09 PM
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Man you handled that really well. Yeah, the best thing would be to next her.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 03:07 PM
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I see your point. I'll play it by ear
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 07:05 PM
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You know, I think I'm getting something mixed up, as I was half awake when I heard the tweet about her fiance. I gotta edit it on the main post, she said she wanted to hide the fact she was still awake from her BB. The HB8 said that he hated her for reasons, keep in mind I still have yet to sleep and its been almost two days. My bad Im going to fix this asap.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 06:48 PM
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Yeah. Crazy, he just comes home one day sits down and tells me "well I did it" and puts a pack of ice on his junk. He can't do anything for at least another month.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 06:37 PM
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Thank you! Also, I cringed at her friend saying she hates her fiance, that's wild crazy. You're about to spend the rest of your life with someone, although we know she's looking forward to that divorce-rape, and you "hate" him? That's just wild. I asked the HB8 why she is with him, she said verbatim "Military men have good benefits".
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 06:33 PM
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Ok thanks, I did some work on it. Does it look much better?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 06:32 PM
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I've never read something so, so eloquently phrased about love and life. You give me hope man, for real. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 03:44 PM
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It should be obvious, but unfortunately it is not. You are right; but not very many would ask themselves "why does this group exist?"
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:13 AM
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If I can be entirely honest with someone, my end goal is to have a woman that I love and that loves me. She'd be my first mate, and I'd be her captain, and life would be good. I'd gladly steer the ship through her storms, and she'd be glad to keep her ends of the ship up to par. We'd be fucking happy; me being the man and acting as such by nature, her being a woman and acting as such by nature.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:03 AM
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I don't think I've ever read about love on TRP. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 03:17 PM
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If you have options you wouldn't get hung up on your girlfriend not putting out. Even if you will be alone, being alone is better than being with someone who isn't attracted to you.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 12:16 PM
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That's never going to happen lol, no girl wants to be seen as a slut. The seed of interest, just game them. Be upfront about what you want. Tell the one you are most interested in "dinner my place, 9 pm on x day? I'll cook you bring the movies". That tells them a) you like them and b)you want to get to know them. If they have the " seed of interest " (which sounds lame tbh) they will accept the date or decline and make a counter offer if the first time didn't work.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 08:02 PM
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There is some good advice already here. Personally I wouldn't live with a girl unless I intend on marrying her soon. The other girl basically gave you IOIs though.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:35 PM
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You're over thinking this. STOP IT. Just game her, game the female friend, GAME ALL THE BITCHES. Outcome independence. Do you give a fuck if you get laid or not? If the answer is yes, you're not doing it right.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:34 PM
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This is "ask"TRP. is there a question in any of this?
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:31 PM
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Yo this is common. Everyone is happier after sex.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:30 PM
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The best thing you can think of is that the girl you were in a relationship is "dead" she no longer exists.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:27 PM
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In general, have more value. Be busy with work/hobbies/school. That makes your free time more valuable. Have a date when you can (notice I said you) and show her your interest then.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 04:34 AM
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Make your dates have a sexual vibe if you want to get laid on them easily. I.E. Pasta and Wine at my place is a good one. You cook the pasta (cheap and easy) supply the wine, tell her to bring the movies. When she comes over have her help out with finishing the pasta, start your escalation when it feels natural, and have fun. While you are eating you can qualify her as to why you are interested in her, and in general make her feel comfortable in your domain. When you have decided you are having …
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:28 PM
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That would be a real fuckey sight to see man.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 07:02 PM
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Yeah I know, I'll figure out what to do when I need to stop them. They do suck when you go through withdrawal on accident though lol
/r/askTRP18/05/15 09:06 PM
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Yeah I've switched to lexapro, things are more normal now
/r/askTRP17/05/15 04:36 PM
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My frat brothers are good people. Most of them are complacent, but I do what I can to push them. Effexor is what I was on. It ramped up my sex drive and helped kill my relationship.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 02:30 PM
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Well now that OPEC is still waging war with oil prices, the oil industry has slowed up north.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 02:11 PM
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Well yeah one antidepressant made me addicted to sex, but I'm.getting another opinion. I'm doing OK. Hanging with my friends has helped a lot
/r/askTRP09/05/15 07:10 PM
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Start small dude. Don't sweat it because if you put in effort, you can change. Do small things, its how I started. Go up to a girl you think is cute, say something like "nice hair/shoes/earrings" and walk away. She will smile back or say thank you, women love validation/compliments. Eventually it will get easier to hold conversation, which will just flow naturally given time. But pairing a new stimulus (small compliment) with a positive reinforcer (smile/ IOIs) will help you out.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 09:14 PM
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My gf has said I'm one at times. I smile and spank her on the ass and say "yup!". OP there are two types or douche bag. One a girl wants to fuck, and the other that isn't.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 09:05 PM
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I'll just go shopping through her friends. Girls and their friends sometimes don't last long anyways.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 11:05 PM
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Will do
/r/askTRP16/04/15 02:35 PM
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Ok
/r/askTRP16/04/15 02:34 PM
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Could find a personal trainer and ask them, they would have the most experience. It;s what I ended up doing. He's helping me out with a neat diet plan & workout structure to get me from 18% bf to 10% bf.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 04:45 PM
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I've never apologized but I was really surprised She was too.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 05:32 PM
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In my experience it does. Something about the chemicals in my brain just get all screwed up, and I'm much less alpha than normal. So I never whack it anymore, when I get horny I fuck my girlfriend. Sometimes multiple times in a day, and then I'm good for about a day.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 11:14 PM
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OK. Know any attractive females? Invite them to go cologne shopping with you. Tell them you will get them coffee afterwards, you just want a female's opinion on what scents smell good on you. Which is why you want cologne, to smell good for them hotties. Flirt with said attractive female, easy escalation (she's going to touch you and flirt back if she thinks you smell good). Thas it. You now have cologne that works for you. Additionally if she is attracted enough you could bang her for bonus poi…
/r/askTRP01/04/15 03:12 PM
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Lots of old engineers going to retire in the next ~10 years. Best degree you can get IMO. Currently going for MET/ materials science if that adds any credit to my comment.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 01:23 AM
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Hm OK thanks
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:48 PM
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Oh this was a shit test? I didn't even take it seriously. I just didn't care that she didn't want to have sex and fell asleep. Thanks dude
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:41 PM
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no dude this was a simple shit test. but who gives a fuck if you lose a plate, pick up another. no biggie
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:50 PM
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had something like this last night. gf is on period, having a terrible time, so i grab her some tylenol from my car. she then says "we can have sex if you want" (already fucked twice so far, i know she is sore). i realize what she is doing, tell her "no, ill tell you when i want a bj tomorrow instead". always keep sex on your terms, not hers. thanks for post though.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 05:13 PM
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I'm just looking for advice/ clarification. I've never had her like this longer than a day, and was hoping to hear how others handle their GF/LTR's time of the month.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 02:09 PM
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She tried to start some arguing, but I got it under wraps. I'm just confused man. Periods are weird.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 02:08 PM
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I have been, thanks though
/r/askTRP15/03/15 04:13 AM
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Dude thanks!
/r/askTRP15/03/15 03:18 AM
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It worked
/r/askTRP15/03/15 03:18 AM
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Got the period sex
/r/askTRP13/03/15 09:53 PM
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Dude anal feels pretty good. Plus we all know women don't poop /s. But condoms are a plenty, why not both?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 05:33 PM
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Ha, eloquent. I'll do that, see how it goes. The only thing I'm concerned about is her being very, very sore quickly.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 05:32 PM
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PIV? Penis in vagina? Yeah, I don't know if shed be down for period sex. I am. It might be super sore or some shit, and since she never turns down sex when she is able to fuck I don't mind not having sex during the period week. Basically whenever I want it, she just submits and we fuck unless she is legit not feeling well (recent concussion). Sorry for going off on a tangent. I've started to like conversation more since trp.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 05:31 PM
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Yeah, I fuck her pretty well. She acts like she is upset that her pussy and legs are sore, but she definitely enjoys knowing I have that capability. She loves to ask "master do I get to come?" And stuff like that, fucking fun as fuck. She will let me do anal, but it gets very painful for her. I won't get off from anal, as I take a long time normally. Just want to use all her holes like the little fuckdoll of mine she is (refers to herself as such lmao). Also hate putting her in pain man. I have …
/r/askTRP12/03/15 05:27 PM
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Lol read the first comment and go get laid bro
/r/askTRP06/03/15 08:24 PM
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Loud and obnoxious chevelle or GTO is just raw masculinity. Maybe that's why?
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:33 PM
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Dude I think you are over thinking this. Yeah, some cars are more masculine in nature, but that is on purpose. As long as you like what you drive don't give a shit about other's perception about your car. Your car doesn't make you alpha. Unless you want to show off how much you make, then get a lambo. Just to give an example, I drive a '97 Legacy GT. Might not seem alpha, but fuck I love my subie. My gf doesn't like Subaru's in general, but who gives a shit?
/r/askTRP05/03/15 02:19 AM
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Hi John, thank you for your post. Please fill this 'butthurt' form out, and stop wasting your time shitposting on this sub. http://nexua.org/niji/butthurt-form/
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:10 PM
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My current gf was a virgin before me. I just told her that sex is sex, don't put so much pressure on the first time. It gets better after the first time. Just say no if you get weirded out. Fucked her after smashing through LMR. Said something like "imagine what this would feel like without clothes on" while foreplay. She said "OK, I'm ready". I leaped off the bed, ripped open nah condoms, flipped her over and fucked hard for almost an hour. Not sure if what I did was trp or not. But it worked, …
/r/askTRP28/02/15 02:38 AM
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Adding on to seeing a medical professional, don't view them as a doctor/ someone that cures problems. I found it best to view them as my "personal self-improvement guide". My ego held me back from getting meds/therapy, and it only made it worse. Go seek a professional opinion, as I'm not a doctor.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 05:53 PM
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Is this guy qualified to make this video? I question his credibility. Look at his sources, none are primary sources! Terribad. As someone that has chemical related major depression, yes they are very real. Believe what you may.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 05:50 PM
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If I don't break it off, this will happen again I assume. I doubt I can trust her anymore.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 06:11 PM
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I partied every other day my first semester. It was fun while it lasted, but I got it out of my system. I find more enjoyment in lifting, learning about myself, and following my passion; the stock market and engineering. Its a risk honestly. I lose out on short term fun, but sooner rather than later my body will be a muscular arrow pointing to my dick as my current girl blows me while my friends that drink and don't take care of their bodies wonder why they can't get laid. I find more intrinsic …
/r/askTRP21/02/15 08:22 PM
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Ah I got it mixed up then. Thanks for the correction.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 11:03 PM
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Seriously. Ever heard of the bulls parable? Young bull and old bull sitting on a hill. Young bull notices a bunch of cows and tells the old bull "hey lets run down there and fuck them all". The Old Bull tells the younger one "No, lets get them to come up here and fuck us".
/r/askTRP17/02/15 09:00 PM
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A man cannot remake himself without suffering for he is both the marble and the sculptor. A quote from Alexis Carrel. You can do a quick google search and a fantastic image of a man carving himself from marble appears. This is a man. This image is the idealization of our aspirations manifested into reality. We create ourselves because we can, and we must.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:50 PM
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BJJ has helped my testosterone skyrocket.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:20 AM
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I don't know much about this but what I've always done is hand her your phone and have her put in her number. It makes her perceive you as confident and not shy (like you have more options).
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:14 AM
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She wants to feel that a man is going to fuck her brains out
/r/askTRP09/02/15 03:12 PM
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Well what happened with the whole tinder thing is that I picked her up because she wanted to talk, I'm driving a bit and then ask her what she wanted to talk about. She asked why I was on tinder recently, I told her I wasn't and I probably opened it by accident. I said I used it when I was in Utah over the summer but I have no need for it since we are dating. She started smiling from ear to ear and grabbed my hand. I don't plan on cheating. I do think I fucked up by having a tinder account while…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 04:39 PM
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Yeah. Promptly deleted my tinder account.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 08:02 AM
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Forgot I had tinder, deleted it. She just asked "why were you on tinder a few days ago" because a friend of hers saw. I think I just opened it up by accident, but its gone now.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 05:29 AM
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Yeah man
/r/askTRP02/02/15 10:07 PM
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What worked for me, confidence wise is doing a 5x5, and knowing if I fuck up I could easily kill myself by accident. Once I got past that fear I realized women bring me no immediate threat.
/r/askTRP02/02/15 09:47 PM
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Can you give specific examples on how to shit test a woman?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:19 PM
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Aww yeah. I've always wanted to do this.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 03:45 PM
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Is it BB to buy a (cheap) dress you think would look good on her and tell her what time dinner is?
/r/askTRP30/01/15 04:29 AM
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OK. Fair enough. Thanks
/r/askTRP29/01/15 08:52 PM
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Sounds fair. She texted me saying she felt awkward because an old man was staring at us. I told her to come with me to my place when I have free time today, I want to fuck. I made it clear its my only time available today. If she denies sex, should I make her leave?
/r/askTRP29/01/15 06:33 PM
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I don't know what she is testing in me this time. I keep myself busy with school and hobbies, and more recently a transporting job I have. My fraternity things keep me real busy as well, so the only time I have to spend with her is on the evenings a few times a week. Sometimes I'll surprise her and stop by her room for a few minutes, but that's about it. On the weekends we spend a lot of time since we are free on those days. I demand she comes over and she does.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:26 PM
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As usual your advice is on point. Her attraction has not waned, she gets horny and wet as fuck around me. I get blowjobs on command, and sex whenever I want. That is why I am confused about this girl. I don't act upset when she does this with visible actions, but the texts I have sent convey this? Ok. Good to know, I won't do that again.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:23 PM
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Ok. I'll do that. Should I just not seen her at all until she re-enters my frame?
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:17 PM
0

I don't agree on her having the dominant frame. She does come to me 8 times out of 10. I tell her to come over to my place if she wants to hang out, and she does. She fulfills my sexual needs primarily, and I'm not sure what else. Hard to explain. I fulfill her sexual needs and her emotional ones, but I will be giving less of that. I'm not too sure about >the relationship is toast Everything else is going swimmingly. She has given me no signs of wanting to cheat, she has been stealing my clothin…
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:11 PM
1

I'm doing 5x5 until I can do 300lb squat, 200lb+ bench, and 500lb deadlift. Then I can chisel my body
/r/askTRP27/01/15 05:24 PM
1

I think she tried making up for it. I didn't text her back, instead called and everything worked out. I'll post an update, but I reeled her back into my frame.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:44 PM
1

I will post an update, she ended up at my place, I held frame and I got a blowjob and she swallowed. Also fucked her hard on the bathroom floor. But I want veteran trp analysis
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:42 PM
3

I will. Thanks for your advice.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 03:59 AM
3

I will. Thanks for your advice.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 03:59 AM
3

I did. She's following her friend and her friends roommate. She has no history of cheating, I'm also her first sexual partner. I told her what I wanted. If she doesn't end up in my bed tonight, I'm going to assume cheating took place and move on.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 03:40 AM
1

Increase in shit testing, yes. I normally don't give her control over a situation. I look at it like they won't be partying. Not sure, as the mall is closing as I'm typing. She called me, saying they are going to another town to hang out, was wondering if I wanted her to stay with me tonight. I told her "I want you to stay with me tonight, call me when you get here". She said OK I will.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 03:10 AM
1

Also she said she saw her friend a few times last semester as well.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 02:39 AM
2

Her friend Jess, slut from another school. Went to another city thirty minutes over to see her, not necessarily to party because I popped an ovarian cyst during sex. She didn't feel like I cared about her because I was really busy during pledge bid night when she was in the hospital. I thought I fixed that. Last night we hung out at her dorm room, she kept trying the bad boyfriend beta bait but I didn't agree to anything. Some close friends told me to tell her that 1) I don't trust easy, which I…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 02:39 AM
2

Last semester she hasn't seen this friend once. So far, she has gone out of her way to see this female friend twice, each weekend.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 02:20 AM
2

Not trying to brag, first girlfriend. Not sure if this is normal
/r/askTRP24/01/15 12:25 AM
2

She's been copying me a bit recently. I've picked up new hobbies, gone harder at the gym, am dressing much better, and in general staying busy doing things I find cool. What has she done? Picked up feminine hobbies like knitting and cooking for me, going to the gym (kind of. Her going to the gym consists of cardio and talking with friends followed by swimming. don't care because she's making an effort for the first time ever to take care of her body), wants to start hiking with me. Man, TRP is t…
/r/askTRP23/01/15 08:25 PM
1

Yes, she said she likes that they smell like me
/r/askTRP23/01/15 04:39 PM
1

What tombreck and Irish have posted works well, also if you dress better than her, she will get the hint. Work on getting better style. Simple things that work well casually, such as khakis with a button up and a nice sweater. 95% of the time you should be looking your best 100% of the time.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:22 PM
1

I had the same problem, so this is me speaking from experience. I started lifting. I would work out until my body has this exhausted yet pleasant feeling of calm strength. This allowed me to feel focused enough to do school work and study a short while after lifting. I don't understand the biology behind why, but physical activity brings me more mental clairvoyance when studying. So go try that, hopefully it makes you more productive and disciplined.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:18 PM
0

She knows I have options. Yesterday before she went to the hospital I took her to olive garden for lunch. Waitress was hot girl from dog training class, and we both were flirting back and forth. My gf knows I have options.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:51 AM
2

Okay. I was upset with what she was doing, so I approached a girl I thought would be a great plate and got her number. Was this appropriate given the circumstances?
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:22 AM
-1

Yeah I did break frame. I knew it while I was doing it. I'm exhausted, I had to take care of a pledge last night who shat himself in my bathroom until 4:00 a.m. and had 11 a.m. class. I'm also dealing with major depression. How can I recover? Or is it not really worth it?
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:19 AM
1

A lot of the guys in my frat are pretty beta. Some are pretty alpha, but not everyone. I'm selective with whom I seek advice from. One of them told me I shouldn't talk to her for at least a day (radio silence) and then get a hold of her and talk this through.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:17 AM
5

Okay. Thanks
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:16 AM
2

She's going to see a doc tomorrow
/r/askTRP13/01/15 11:08 PM
2

I don't know, she hasn't bled during sex in a while. We were both surprised, but maybe I was going too hard?
/r/askTRP13/01/15 09:47 PM
1

Well we fucked twice before this explosion and I couldn't get it up that fast for a third. Takes me a few hours. Lol.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:43 PM
1

Its called silky surrender by doc Johnson I think
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:40 PM
2

I think she did all of that to try and get what she wanted, but I dunno man. This is the first time she has done this, an outbreak this big.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 04:41 PM
1

No I haven't fought/said anything. I just waited her emotional storm out.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 02:23 PM
2

This is true. First time she's done this. I definitely lost some attraction because of this. We'll see what happens. Should I tell her parents, maybe she can get some help?
/r/askTRP09/01/15 01:49 PM
5

No, I have a small case of oneitus. Am shopping around now, last night she refused sex saying "its not her obligation" so I left. Guess I'm not obligated to take her on dates/cuddle/beta stuff then.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 02:45 PM
1

I've been taking action, and I'm only 20. Shits kind of tough regardless but when is life truly easy
/r/askTRP08/01/15 11:31 AM
1

I know its not something to mess with, but I hate the addiction. That's why I want off
/r/askTRP08/01/15 03:12 AM
0

She knows about this pole dancer that has been snapping me lately. I've been talking to her, small chit-chat. Wonder what type of lay she is like
/r/askTRP07/01/15 11:23 PM
2

She's been acting very horribly of late. Getting real fucking tired of her shit. At least her pussy is very tight.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 09:52 PM
1

Swallowing trp takes time. Eventually you will not feel any remorse when you see her. What you feel isn't sadness, its your understand of trp clashing with your beta tendencies.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 02:39 PM
2

Starting college with trp knowledge is like fucking easy mode. Freshman year I didn't know trp, couldn't get a girl. Sophomore year had swallowed trp early summer and improved smv through lifting, found a girl I really liked and took her virginity within a week of meeting her (she took mine as well). She's now my girlfriend. Freshman year of college would have been so much better with trp under my belt.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 08:10 PM
1

I like becoming the animal I am.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 08:06 PM
1

She's agreed to buying them in turns, which is nice. I feel the same, but her putting in that little effort shows desire. Like a blowjob. Doesn't have to be often but still appreciated
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:02 AM
0

Eh you're right. I'm young and dumb.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 03:12 AM
11

This is true. My girl wouldn't blow me out of her own self consciousness. To get past that I kept making her suck on my finger during foreplay and saying "imagine that finger is my cock, and you'd better suck it well" or "oh wow baby, that feels so good"/" watching you suck me like that is so hot". Which she got more comfortable with doing, and then one time I just shoved my dick in her face during foreplay. She got the hint, and I said the same things as before. A few blowjobs later, she loves …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 10:47 PM
2

The only way for my girl to cum is from me talking dirty. I asked her why does this only make you cum? Her response was golden: feels like you're fucking my mind. If you can do that, you can control when she cums how the SGM author describes. In the part where you tell her when to come, yeah. It works if you can fuck her mind while you fuck the shit out of her. Tldr: dirty talk allows you to fuck her mind
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 08:19 PM
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I think you're just confused about how she acts different. But guys act different around their friends too. Don't take her silence as an affront to your relationship. She probably likes hearing your voice. My girl told me she finds my voice pleasing when I just talk about things. Or just be silent. Ha you don't have to be talking the whole time. You gotta be comfortable in silence together for it to work as a relationship.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 06:22 PM
1

Well don't view everything in black/white alpha/beta. Be confident, and carry yourself as such. That's alpha without having to worry about it in and of itself. Being so analytical will ruin the fun of good time.
/r/askTRP03/01/15 05:06 AM
1

Since I last around 40+ minutes my girl always cums. She's gotten used to cunning each time and might think that I'm just trying to get her off. I'm not, but it's fucking erotic as fuck watching her cum with me inside her. Is this bad for her to get used to cunning each time? There's only been one time that she hasn't came, but I prematurely ejactulated (was asleep not that long before I had a condom on, lol).
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 11:18 PM
1

Pickup wood carving. Buy a pocket knife and some nice woods (there are guides online, most suggest basswood) and carve stuff. You can really just do things with a pocket knife but more advanced woodcarving will require a chisel set, and even more tools. You'll be able to make some cool stuff.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 01:12 AM
3

If you continue to masturbate focus on the ride versus the destination. I've gotten to the point where I wack it for about an hour each time and then cum. That helps me out in bed because I last about as long (~hour or less). One time I didn't though, and lasted like seven minutes. Just focus on how it feels, and don't try to rush it.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 05:12 AM
1

Being on antidepressants does make it harder to cum, at least for me. But before I took prescription antidepressants I came less, and it took longer. Before anti-depressants: 1 hour average and probably not going to cum. After: 40 minutes average and cumming 70% of the time. Maybe it has to do with experience? idk. I've had this problem before.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 10:46 PM
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Yeah real anal isn't the same as porn anal. My girl definitely farted too when we did anal, but its a great reassurance to knowing you are alpha in a relationship when a girl willingly submits her butthole to your pleasure.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 10:44 PM
1

No, its a new plan. Regardless of your wife, you'll decide what is best for your family. I'm sure if you tell your wife she is being ridiculous about withholding having another kid over a few hours of GTA, and it needs to stop it will stop. If she has a legitimate reason she should share it with you. If not, then I'd drop the talk. Don't break frame. You really can't force someone to have a kid, it takes two people. It is a serious decision that is life changing. If she isn't physically ready fo…
/r/askTRP29/12/14 06:19 AM
1

Hey dude, not trying to be a dick but this isn't fittit. To answer your question, stronglifts does work. I went from squatting 90 pounds to 205, deadlifting 95 pounds to 245 pounds (worked on form and gained 75 pounds in one week). OHP is hard for me due to having chronic compartment syndrome in both biceps few years back, so I gained like 5 pounds in four months lol. If you do the 5x5 right you will enjoy your rest days, very very much. EDIT: If you don't have huge thighs right now, after three…
/r/askTRP29/12/14 12:09 AM
0

Hey not trying to be a dick but this is /asktrp not fittit. Just because you're a member of the redpill doesn't mean you should have a bias towards a certain program that others in the TRP network have. Every program has their merit, experiment around bro. Also stronglifts 5x5 is awesome.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 12:04 AM
1

I know this might not be what you want to do, but maybe wait until your kid is about 8 and then have another kid. Think of all the support the younger child will get from the older one. My brother is eight years older than I am. Sure we had fights, all siblings do, but he was able to give me more valuable insight, guidance, and support at a younger age than my father or mother. Maybe that would be a better alternative for you?
/r/askTRP29/12/14 12:01 AM
2

I've always been able to count on the community telling me to man the fuck up. Great advice the people give here.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 04:00 PM
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http://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/ IS what I should have done. What I did is show insecurity through mate guarding. Turns out she went to a sex store to buy things for me to use on her
/r/askTRP28/12/14 04:11 AM
1

ah shit ive been doing it wrong the whole time. fuck
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:46 AM
1

Okay. When I think of a girl who's had twenty different guys have sex with her I don't find that appealing. Why? Shit if twenty guys could get her to drop her pants then it must not be that hard for me to either. If I'm thinking of a girl who has had sex once or twice, then she night be more valuable. Or if she is a virgin, then she has had men approach her and denied them. Sounds like a conquest. A challenge for...a more valuable commodity of sex with a more desirable girl. Make sense?
/r/askTRP28/12/14 02:34 AM
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She wouldn't have left her long term partner, she would have definitely kept him as long as possible. Its obvious she found him boring. Why are you arguing in the defense of this woman? Also, superficial qualities? Are we back in elementary school? Shit like being attractive and being a man get women horny and attracted, not money or being smart. You cannot negotiate attraction. I don't have friends that are girls. I have a girlfriend, but I prefer the company of male friends to female ones. I a…
/r/seduction28/12/14 01:18 AM
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A girl with a boyfriend that she finds boring would do this.
/r/seduction28/12/14 01:16 AM
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She wanted to fuck you more than her boyfriend. I.E. you were (or are) more attractive. Take this as a good quality. Girls can and will leave their boyfriend for someone they feel as a better option. Is this moral? No. Does that matter? Also no.
/r/seduction27/12/14 11:07 PM
1

How do you start an argument or fight over something without breaking frame?
/r/askTRP27/12/14 04:32 PM
1

AWALT, even virgins. I can confirm because I'm dating a girl.whom I took said virginity.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 07:16 AM
1

Exactly right.
/r/askTRP26/12/14 03:46 PM
1

Mine doesn't like the lights on typically either, but I was her first so I'm gradually getting her to where I want her to be. Got her to send me some nudes, and after giving her some compliments like "that's so hot" etc. she sent me some off Snapchat that I can keep. I think its a comfort thing for women, giving her compliments in the sexual nature of things I think is not inherently beta. You want your woman to have the comfort to show her body off to you. But only you.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 04:10 PM
0

Yeah I can attest to too much thrill and not enough stability. My girlfriend has been having to obtain more orbitals because of how much thrill I bring. Might be a problem so I'm pulling back a bit on the AF behaviors, see how that goes.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 04:06 PM
5

I learned the 100% alpha all the time doesn't work, I was emotionally crushing my girlfriend. I eased up a bit...the sex got way better. She now is comfortable venting towards me, using me as her rock. She still has her beta orbitals, but it feels good sometimes when she comes to me first.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 06:03 AM
1

Are you trying to say that it is impossible for a man to give both thrill and stability? ONE man.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 05:52 AM
2

Hey dude I had the same problem. What helped me was exactly the repetition of becoming comfortable sexually with women. You'll get there
/r/askTRP24/12/14 03:13 PM
-1

I took it as a joke but it could have been said a different way. Just the phrasing and all. First girlfriend so if I made a mistake, OK that's fine, just help me learn. She teases me all the time, she has a good sense of humor. This isn't an example of that.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 09:05 PM
0

Well, I enjoy the intimacy you get in a relationship. By nature I'm not very apt to validate emotions, but I understand that it is important for me to be able to do so occasionally. Trying to find my personal balance of alpha/beta behaviors.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 06:02 AM
2

I agree, my girlfriend was a virgin before me, was extremely tight the first time but it changes based on how aroused she is. Idk what I did but she's been considerably more aroused ever since we did anal.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 03:56 PM
2

Saving this as a reminder. I used to think after swallowing the red pill I should be an emotionless man, taking sex as i please. She told me that I wasnt reassuring her enough, and I instantly realized that I haven't been experiencing my own emotions. Things have been going better ever since I let my own emotions into my frame. The sex is better, I don't last quite as long but its more intense for both of us. But since I've let me emotions back into my life I can feel the addiction towards my gi…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:12 AM
1

Its all good, I would have seen it as a red flag if she asked me within the first week/month of our relationship.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 09:01 PM
1

She just needed some reassurance. First time she has ever asked me in the three months we have dated
/r/askTRP14/12/14 04:49 PM
1

I maintained frame, agreed and amplified about her equality crap, and did the 0/100 and her hamster spun outta control. She dropped it immediately because I said 50/50 doesn't work, and she said "I'm not saying you can't be dominant" to which I responded "look, I'm not an abusive asshole. Its adorable that you are trying to give me permission to be dominant, but this conversation is silly and over. Now stop being so upset hitler" and then I grabbed her and held her until she stopped. Then she as…
/r/askTRP14/12/14 02:23 AM
1

I just got a text from her saying "we should talk". What do I do?
/r/askTRP14/12/14 12:39 AM
1

I do have slight onitus, this girl and I took each others virginity. I don't act out of fear of losing her, I act because I am responsible for this relationship going well. I knew I couldn't let her cuddle with me as we slept last night. As much as I wanted that, it wouldn't have been a good idea. I enjoy this girl tremendously, and would enjoy to still date her.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 11:26 PM
1

Is there a possibility that she would want to break up with me over this?
/r/askTRP13/12/14 10:55 PM
2

That shakiness is being afraid of change. You learn to be assertive by doing. Similar to learning how to ride a bike, you learn by doing. Start out small. Next time you go eat st a restaurant when they ask for what you want to eat tell them, politely, that " I'll take X with Y". Notice how different this is from "may I have X with Y?". Assertive is playing on an even field were you assume you are more dominant.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 09:08 PM
1

OK. She hasn't yet, and am slightly concerned thinking she took it the wrong way or her beta orbiters are making her think I'm an asshole or something. There are other girls I can fuck, whom would probably be better in bed too, but I enjoy this girl. She was my first, and I was hers. She is still within my frame after her telling me "you're the only guy I would fuck" and me replying "I know". She didn't say that last night, but my gut reaction was I handled that right as well.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 08:29 PM
1

Also how should I go about getting back in touch with her? Should I wait for her to text/call me?
/r/askTRP13/12/14 06:52 PM
1

Ha I should have done that 0/100. I'll try that if this topic ever gets brought up by her again. My goal with sending her home was to show her that I'm a dominant man, and I think she got the point loud and clear. She hasn't texted me or made any contact, should I wait for her to do this or should I? Typically it is her that texts me first in the day ever since the start of the relationship. Drove her mad with attraction.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 06:51 PM
2

Okay. She is my first girlfriend, so I'd say that's OK that I didn't smash it, but thanks to your reply I learned why. I wasz very exhausted when she brought up the topic (which is probably why) but I knew trying to compromise was a farse. Thanks!
/r/askTRP13/12/14 06:47 PM
1

You guys are completely right. I read some more RP material and came across the theme of 'accepting yourself as you are in order to improve'. I suffer from major depression, and sometimes her emotions will get to me. I have accepted that I am bad at this, and I will get better. Thanks for replying guys.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 06:11 PM
1

Try taking a walk to calm your mind. Drink some water prior to bed. These help me when my mind is racing.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 08:36 PM
2

I view them as a way for guys who can't get women to give themselves the allusion of being wanted by women/receiving sexual attention from women. A guy in my frat loves them because he can't sexually attract any girl on campus. He's also a fuck, but that's besides the point.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 08:34 PM
1

I wasn't trying to brag, if you could not tell I'm legitimately confused.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 09:55 PM
1

Wait, so me telling her that giving BJ's by her own choice is wrong? I'm confused by your phrasing in your first two sentences.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 07:09 PM
1

OK thanks! This is my first LTR, and it does seem a little like negotiating. I'll change that.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 05:54 PM
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For those that struggle with mental health/depression this is still achievable. Take baby steps if you have to, but still take steps to improve your life.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 05:32 PM
1

You're right, people diagnosed professionally with mental illness are still accountable. I'm currently not doing well in school because of the influence depression has had on my life I own up to it, and accept that I may have to repeat a class or two. I would like to see other people do the same.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 05:28 AM
1

You're right. I have been talking to her but haven't been acting butthurt at all, because I knew it wasn't my fault. I am pedastalling her, slightly, because I lost my virginity to her. She also lost hers to me, that I feel is something rare. I'm trying to cultivate myself into the best man possible. I swallowed trp as a means to that end. I just need to get better I think.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 05:13 AM
1

I base whether or not I want to talk to a girl off looks, I stay if the personality is good. If she has a great personality and is attractive, she is LTR potential to me. Now, what do you mean by giving them my tests? I'm getting tired of things my girlfriend is doing. I doubt she will cheat, but I'm losing attraction to her very quickly. She doesn't take care of her body (or hasn't since we've been dating) while I go to the gym almost every day of the week. That's just one of the ways I'm losin…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 04:22 PM
1

You can get an internship without knowing anything about your degree. I did as a freshman in college. You just have to show interest and show that you want to have that job more than anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 06:11 PM
2

Well, when I'm unable to have sex with my girlfriend and if she is too legitametly sick to give me a blowjob, yeah. Other than that I don't think its a healthy habit. You can get sucked into fantasy to the point of which reality is lackluster.
/r/askTRP27/11/14 12:39 AM
1

UPDATE: She has texted me five times, have not replied. Should I? Or instead should I go out and do something, like make a longboard or go meet other women?
/r/askTRP27/11/14 12:37 AM
1

I've been here before, but not entirely. Best thing I did was cut her off. Sounds like you might have oneitus. Man, there are better girls out there than this one. There are obvious problems with her that won't be fixed by your actions. Also, you have been dating for two months with no sex. That is not a committed relationship. For instance, the night I asked my girlfriend to be exclusive we fucked (some serious LMR, her being a virgin and all, but I passed the LMR shit test and took her virgini…
/r/askTRP21/11/14 10:51 PM
1

Not sure if you are suggesting that I purchase dog urine and drink it. Where have you purchased Vitamin S from?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:49 PM
1

Are there any other terms for Vitamin S? Not finding any so far in my search
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:46 PM
1

Probably not coke man. Pop isn't that healthy lol. Eat some good carbs, like more rice or a sweet potato. If you are having problems gaining weight then you might want to count calories just to see if you are actually getting 3k calories a day. Eat healthy fats too, like olive oil. Heck you could take shots of olive oil if you wanted. That would give you a TON of extra calories from good fats
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:43 PM
1

Careful not to eat too much per day though. Don't you gain more fat that way?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 08:42 PM
2

Try to eat 300-400 calories over maintenance.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:44 PM
3

Depends on ammo availability. Yes, .22 is cheap but only when available. Rather 9mm is more available in more areas (in the USA) and is rather affordable (including tax). 9mm is also easier to reload which even further reduces cost. 9mm carbines cost a bit more than a .22 rifle, but recoil is laughable (based upon my HiPoint 995TS). I'm not saying you are wrong, but 9mm is better for starting out with shooting targets.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:28 PM
1

If I wasn't dating my current girlfriend I would probably go for her friend. She is cute.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 12:03 AM
-20

Read my post history please. I'm 20, she is 19. I've given so many DHV's the girls on her floor look at me in a new light. When I go to bed she ends up with me, I don't start the cuddling, she does. I don't think she would trade up from me. She said that "no guy compares to me" when I broke frame the other day in order to calm me down. She has never cheated on me.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 04:17 PM
1

How do I explain the reasoning behind breaking up with her because she is going to this party at another frat?
/r/askTRP18/11/14 04:13 PM
2

Yep that's what I'm doing. Thanks man
/r/askTRP15/11/14 06:39 PM
1

Thanks man. I went to the gym after realizing I shouldn't have called her, and she texted me three times. How should I go about salvaging this situation?
/r/askTRP15/11/14 06:00 PM
7

Yeah, I did fuck up bad. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 05:29 PM
1

Oh that's good dude, I was so tired I didn't think about that.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:32 PM
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I started with lifting after reading TRP. Gained confidence.Told a girl I wanted a handjob, got one. TRP works.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 01:37 AM
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I like it! Would that actually work? I get its not like I'm actually asking for her advice. Wait that's the point right?
/r/askTRP27/09/14 02:39 AM
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He was white-kniting hard. She has a date with a guy in a few days (like that mattered that night) so my friend was being a white knight for her.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 03:40 PM
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Okay. That sounds solid. Thanks!
/r/askTRP25/08/14 12:45 PM
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Well I said calls but I've only called once. Haven't texted since she tentatively agreed to plans in the near future. Ha I should have clarified that. But I'll relax.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 12:43 PM
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19, and I will escalate further on the next date. She is also 19. I did try to escalate further. I should have though now that I think about it. I'm new to dating. She's my third date, ever. Why should I not start an LTR? I would prefer one partner rather than many. There definitely was some chemistry there bro. I wouldn't do a hit it and quit it with this girl.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 06:24 AM
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Cool. Yeah, I will but it would have to be in the near future. Headed back to school tomorrow lol. Also how did I handle the shit tests I talked about?
/r/askTRP23/08/14 09:43 PM
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She did. I've never had a girl contact me the day after a first date. Is that a good thing?
/r/askTRP23/08/14 09:22 PM
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Yeah man. So many good signs she was giving. Because of trp, gaining confidence through lifting, and growing as a young man are the reasons why I think this date was so much fun. I won't me a mangina, bro. Edit: she just snapchatted me. Do I respond? Ha I'm so fucking green, I love it.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 08:03 PM
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Its still not cool to laugh at something like that, since he is a friend.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 07:56 PM
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I've seen this all the time at my college. To answer your question, yes they do. The most insecure have a game to gather the most orbitals as possible throughout the semester. Before swallowing trp I noticed this and actively avoided becoming one of their collection. They don't even have to try hard to collect orbitals either! They target insecure young guys specifically, as there is an abundance of them. But the best way I have learned before trp to deal with this is to not even play their game…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:55 PM
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Which martial art would you personally recommend?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 03:49 AM
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Yeah I've been changing myself to be that for a long time. It's great, I am unflappable for the most part, but sometimes I get stuck in a hole of negative emotions and I have to dig myself out. Maybe its remission into depression? Is that even a thing? For a good part of my life I was depressed (diagnosed by a professional, not self diagnosis). I'm no longer that way but I feel like I do 'fall back' into it. Is that possible? If so that explains why I am not always unflappable for long periods o…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 01:26 AM
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I've started to apply stoicism, and some of the behaviorism TRP teaches. The lens that TRP views life through I believe is what is making me feel this cynical.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 01:22 AM
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I realized that committing meant going all the way with this. Before 'swallowing' TRP I wondered if it was worth it, but I did realized I wanted to become a better man, and TRP would be those means to the end. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 01:01 AM
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I do feel like I am on the frustration stage before acceptance, but I do see women as they are. The rules of TRP are becoming true, I have been noticing them the more I pay attention. I'm doing my best, and eventually I do believe I will revert back to who I was with TRP pulsing inside. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 01:00 AM
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I agree with you completely. Isn't stoicism the same as being "unflappable" ?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 12:58 AM
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This is not happening anymore. I think its due to a few factors: Spring semester at an engineering school = more work, generally harder classes. Also, half fucked myself over and half got fucked over by a girl, which if you check my comment history I said "after reading this I am swallowing the red pill" after that whole 'fucked' situation happened. Which, I have been able to rationalize and more clearly decide what the reality behind the situation was due to the theory behind TRP. But after tha…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 12:57 AM
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After reading this, I'm swallowing The Red Pill
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 06:00 AM
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Yeah I'll definately try that out!
/r/seduction02/02/14 07:25 PM
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So I do the same thing, except not at clubs (since there isn't one in my town). I have developed a reputation at my university as the "random guy who dances". Ladies walk up to me at a party and start conversations with me, or even try to dance with me. When I get drunk, though, my eagerness and craving to dance can scare them off; although I'm only living in the moment and having fun. So try what OP does, nomatter the outcome you have fun. Just don't go overboard on the dancing when you are dru…
/r/seduction02/02/14 06:41 PM
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I go to a STEM only college, and most freshman girls drop at the end of the first semester. I've come across a few that are only there to find "Mr. Right" MR BB, I've came across like 2-3 that are more intelligent and better at communication than most guys here. Maybe they seem more intelligent because they are better at communicating? I dunno. Typically, but not 100% of the time, the less attractive the girl the more effort she puts into her schooling and less into partying.
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