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After you finished fucking, is she at clarity like you or is she passed out? You'll know
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 01:23 AM
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Trend: Girls are First Lady level busy until they get that good dick, then all of a sudden they want to spend every waking moment with you. I've noticed that being stern with texting (ex. "Meet at x for y time" gets varied results, especially with girls who aren't that into you yet. It's not as binary as we think. Yes girls think through Rules 1 and 2, however, some are on the fence. If you want to widen your net and are seemingly annoyed at the flake ratio, you have to strike a balance between …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 04:17 PM
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If you ignored a girl and you're not in the top 5% of males... lol bruh you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 07:09 PM
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Yes, but even being able to run for a long time without being winded or being able to endure grueling workouts doesn't make up for the fact that your brain may trigger your stimulating points to release quickly. Like I said before, treat it as a mental hurdle first before set-medicating.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:06 PM
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I took option one. Treated it as a mental hurdle and haven't had problems since..although some really hot new girls get me fired up quickly. I have friends who have tried it and could tell you that it's the truth, especially when you wanna hate-fuck someone or your mouth did too much talking and now you gotta back your shit up.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 07:08 PM
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Two options: If your refractory period is short, go again after some foreplay and just say something like "damn babe you just had me too turned on." They love that kinda shit. The more you consistently fuck the same girls, the longer you go with them. Alternatively, ora-gel. Put a dab, and I mean like less than a dime, around your sensitive parts 20-30 minutes before hand. Don't let her blow you, just put on the condom and go to town.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 04:54 PM
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I beg to disagree on this. What leads you to think that way?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:33 PM
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Let me ask a somewhat circular question. How can you "just fuck her" if you haven't proved that you're capable of leading to her. Most girls won't fuck you on sight unless you're 10/10 or she already has some predisposition toward you. Not saying that I don't agree with your thoughts on differentiating between fuck/date, but there has to be an initial qualifier to the beginning of your comment.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:32 PM
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Mid-20s. Lost a hot 19 year old due to this a few months back. Trust me, it gets better.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:53 PM
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Upvote for a well-put answer. Most people don't realize that guys here come off as angry and msigynistic because they are in the anger phase.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:52 PM
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Simple, stop watching porn. You wanna fap to it? Use that energy to lift. Guaranteed your man-boners will be harder than ever and you will give girls the "I want to devour you" look without even realizing it. As for social anxiety. Start small, introduce yourself to strangers and make casual small talk. ALWAYS force yourself into uncomfortable situations.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:50 PM
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A true friend would make her down for the team. Sounds like you got a leech who reaped on your hard work. She also might have just given the snap to be polite and not reject him publicly. Girls will avoid damaging their appearance at all costs.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:48 PM
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Meditate. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations on purpose. I used to hate public speaking. Now I force myself to give presentations to groups of people as if it were breathing.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:46 PM
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Monk Mode is great to improve your hobbies, education, and physical appearance. Monk Mode will not improve your social game. However, proper Monk Mode will make you infinitely more attractive so that when you do go talk, you can get away with more than being your unattractive self. From there it's practice.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:45 PM
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It's swing dancing. Just say "mind if I cut in?" That line was popular when swing dancing was popular. And if someone gives you shit for it, look at them with the shit-eating grin and say, "wow someone's not up on the culture reference."
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:42 PM
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Slag? LMFAO English people are wild.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 11:10 PM
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There's only so much fundamental principles that can be laid down by our forefathers, regurgitated by our ECs and Vanguards, and simplified by some of the pointed contributors. What we need is the encouragement of practical application. The initiative of having the chapters is a good step, however, we shouldn't consider approaching, passing a few shit tests, and getting a stable of plates a success. We should consider differentiating between different situations and applying the correct principl…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:33 PM
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Looks like someone's preaching the DM slide. These guys have to learn.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:39 PM
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If there's a doubt, there's no doubt. Live by it.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:15 AM
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"Being Alpha" and "LDR" are like PBJ sandwiches topped with gasoline. No one ever associates them together. I know you're young, but you need to drop this ridiculous idea of LDR and maintaining frame. What are you gonna do, dominate your way via text into her e-panties? The phrase "out of sight, out of mind" exists for a reason. Not to be super blunt but she's probably got tons of interest wherever she's at, especially if she's higher on the SMV scale. Keep her as a long distance plate/fwb but y…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 04:03 PM
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Solid explanation of push/pull theory regarding IOI's mixed with verbal obstacles. +1 for the "confused pussy line." It really gave me an understanding of how push/pull truly works. Thank you for the FR.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 03:19 PM
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My favorite move is literally the elbow nudge when you tease. That's always given me the greenlight for the next step. Second is the arm touch when you tell a story. When you're emphasizing a point or making your punchline, hand on arm or hand on hand.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 02:30 PM
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Catching a stiffy just thinking about this post, hope your content is as good as IllimitableMan's!
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:05 PM
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Well done. You're probably the first to see through my BS and explain it for me.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 06:52 PM
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I always thought defending your ego was justifying yourself when you get called out and not acknowledging you own your failures. I guess our definitions are subjective. I read everything and agree that I shouldn't be hard on myself, but the same people who tell me not to beat yourself up and it's not your fault are the same people who actively blame others for their own failures. Been there, done that, got me nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 06:52 PM
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Not necessarily beating myself up. Acknowledging that it was a screw-up and to learn from mistakes. TRP is fluid and there are gray areas but some stuff is just plain avoidable.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 06:11 PM
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I need a source if you're gonna out me as a non medical professional.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 06:42 PM
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I NoFap. Here are some benefits: Morning erections harder than the rock holding Excalibur. Increased energy in the gym to crush more reps/higher weights. You start to look at women like pieces of meat and ironically treat them that way subconsciously. Instant erections during sexytime with a plate/LTR/ONS. (I've had a couple tell me wow I can't believe you're this hard this quick as they proceed to gush) If you're a beginner at game and you're not ready to shoot for 7+, NoFap sets realistic stan…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:09 PM
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I've preached this to two of my bros to get rid of their current plates that they thought were crazy. You'd think ignoring them or ghosting them would be enough but they find ways. I told one to go "bitch-boy niceguy" and he said it was the best thing to happen to him for a solution.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 04:39 AM
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You've done nothing but send ad hominem attacks. Use your big boy eyes and go read where I told you not to approach. Your mission is to make yourself the best you can. Your mission is NOT TO EXCLUSIVELY APPROACH. You do whatever you want, BRO. This is what works for me and many others, otherwise it wouldn't be said on here as much. Secondly Take a basic course on interpretation and analysis. If you go through life taking everything at face value like you currently do, not only will women shit on…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 06:56 PM
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That's cause you take everything at face value. Your mission doesn't have to be one thing. You can make your mission to better yourself. That includes lifting, eating better, approaching. Your mission doesn't have to be "get a high paying job." But social conditioning and constructs have forced you to think in a tunnel-vision way. The point of this isn't to fucking hand hold you every step of the way. Why don't you man up and be more discerning? Think deeper about what others are trying to say a…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 05:35 PM
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Because when you truly DGAF, people know. If you wanna keep bashing then go ahead. Clearly you're in the "this guy doesn't get it category" and both men and women will smell it miles away. Good luck bro.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 04:51 PM
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Because sometimes they do. The higher the SMV, the more you notice women notice you. If you've been meditating as part of your "on your mission" routine, you will pick it up rather quickly. After that, it literally is just easy pickings with women. They will go out of their way to approach you and start some sort of conversation wether direct or indirect. Girls will be coming out of no where and compliment you on the the fresh haircut you just got. They'll can be so blunt as to wink at you after…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 03:52 PM
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That's why we have healthy debate and this is still theory. What solidified it for me is this example: My first year in grad school, I couldn't give a fuck about chasing girls. There was one kid who thought he was the shit and he was gonna get top grades in all our classes. My missions was to study and pay attention enough so that I can get better grades and humble him. In the first semester (a 3 month span) 3 girls in my section were actively telling a couple of my friends how they actively wan…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 03:10 PM
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You're misinterpreting man. What they mean is, go on your own mission and focus on that. Their attraction to you will come after. Obviously you still have to put some effort in, but the amount is simply much less than it would have been if you sit around all day with your dick in your hand.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 02:54 PM
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Her life's not your problem.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 04:12 PM
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This definitely belongs in asktrp, however it is a solid question. My biggest piece of advice to young men in their developmental stage: find a male role model that is willing to impart advice to you in every aspect of life. It can be a father, uncle, older friend, teacher, but find someone who gets it and can explain it to you. I grew up without a father, and had to make up for lost time these last few years with a close friend who is older than me. Anything you can learn in TRP can be taught t…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 01:13 AM
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By god, this is probably one of the best ways I've seen LMR and ASD explained and tied into the hamster. I always wondered how to make the hamster work in my favor when it comes to LMR and ASD. It's worked in my favor, but I was never able to put it in words. This gives such a nice structure.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 12:34 AM
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Luck + Coincidence, plus it helps having friends in higher places.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 09:53 AM
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Previous poster covered it. You soaked up her emotions. HOWEVER. Notice her venting was at how rude another guy was. She was trying to hint that she's wanted and that she wants you to want her. You had to go for the invite much earlier with something like "let's chill" and you would've had a better chance.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:29 PM
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Man id kill to be in your position. College? Your name in everyone's mouth? Stop being fucking butt hurt at what they're saying. I guarantee it will not affect your ability to get a career. I guarantee if you act like it don't phase you, the girls agreeing with your so-called friends will be wanting to fuck you.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:23 PM
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I think sometimes the male hamster can be stronger than the female hamster given the right circumstances.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:20 PM
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Recently experienced this. If you need to vent/get it out pm me. Otherwise you can spill in front of male friends. That's what they're there for.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:19 PM
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If you can't handle text game at first, I suggest you leave texting for logistics or go text uglies because when you fail with them it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:18 PM
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Dude, as bad as you played it in the beginning, she wants to chill late in the night. Go out with friends, act casual as fuck, when the time comes go see her to "exchange ideas for cooking."
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:15 PM
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Somewhere along your interactions she decided you weren't fuckable. Your frame gave into hers and her sexual attraction to you is nonexistent. She throws the idea that she's willing to receive oral to keep you hooked so that one day you would do it and she would maybe, possibly return the favor. I'm willing to put everything I have on the idea that she at the very least slobs some knobs. Back off, cut contact, go be more attractive.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:09 PM
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I kept making out with her and kino escalating to the point where she begged. It's like if you go no-fap but accidentally stumble on a porn video. So you watch it, and that leads to another, etc. At one point your mind and body align and say fuck this I'm breaking. This is what happened with her. Being sensual and close overcame her idea of not wanting to hookup on day one.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 03:26 PM
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Sounds like you have it locked in for the most part then. It probably just means it's coming to the stage where she has fully developed feelings but would rather stay with you and hope for a relationship than lose you completely. With that being said, it might also just be the end of the lifespan of the current relationship. Plates break, we just accept it.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:38 AM
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Depends on how you framed it for the beginning? Tell them from the rip that you aren't looking to get serious and if she's not with it then cool. It has worked everytime for me so far. If they say no you just cut out tons of bullshit. Gonna try and come off as informative as possible: For future use, lay it out during the first meet what you're looking for. Obviously you don't say just sex, or hooking up. Second, there's no need to lie when saying what you're doing. Be direct, they'll be all the…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:08 AM
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Most guys are average looking. They still need some form of game, hence the analysis. You need to be ridiculously good looking to have an easy lay otherwise most guys fail at basic lmr.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 05:55 PM
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Pleasure to meet a fellow INTP, we are far and few in between.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 12:46 AM
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Nope. Had same reservations as you when I started. Went from 5'8", 183 at 30% body fat, down to a healthy 160. Of course diet plays a part but lift as heavy as your body allows with PROPER FORM.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 12:39 AM
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If most men acted like this and saw the results, they'd think they got the cheat codes to women. Well-said.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 04:53 AM
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Well-thought out analysis. Just like location has an influence on your political view, location will have an influence on your ideology if sex and relationships. These numbers don't lie. Urban area individuals are shaped to think liberally and equality hence why the major feminist movements and neck beard white knights all populate the larger areas. In that same vein, liberal thinking has given women the sexual freedom they so much crave and desire. u/Whisper doesn't post to justify that women i…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 04:00 PM
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Well done. Some of these sweet motherfuckers need that tough love.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 12:38 AM
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So we're totally going to avoid talking about the black guy with two bowls of cereal?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 02:51 PM
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Absolutely not true. I live at home with both of my parents and I have no problems pulling girls. I don't bring them back home but there are places you can go to copulate. It's all about how you view yourself and how you think other people view you. Don't compare yourself to your friends. Compare yourself to yesterday. Are you better or worse, if you're worse off then fix it. Otherwise comparison to others will lead you down a path of forks after forks because EVERYONE differs. From game, to fin…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 11:02 AM
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On the contrary it's actually quite easy to stay happy. The first part of figuring out what to do starts with getting a gym membership. You said you've broken yourself down? Great, now build yourself back up again stronger and better. Clearly you understand listening to your mom fucks your life up. Easy fix: stop implementing her advice. Number 2, you understand the fundamentals of TRP don't you? No one has a play in your happiness except you. Depression is no joke and I understand that. You hav…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 05:39 AM
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I'm in the same general area, and there is an abundance of Asians around. They are usually receptive to white guys which makes it easier.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 11:21 PM
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Can confirm from personal experience. IF does give good results in terms of weight loss and a general sense of feeling more energized. Some tips: To get past the initial hunger in the morning, drink black coffee it's a great appetite suppressant. Drink tons of water. Get your doses of carbs, fats, and protein. Try lifting on an empty stomach, for some it works wonders, for others it doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 10:56 PM
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Awesome post OP. I was thinking about making one about the benefits of meditation as well but you beat me to it. I've also been meditating for a while and the one greatest thing I've learned from it is my ability to control my breathing in otherwise unnerving situations. Such as speaking to a girl you've just approached, your boss telling you go into into his/her office for a "talk", getting mad at you S/O and it turning into a battle of megaphones that can be heard across the neighbourhood. It …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 01:29 PM
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Elaborate on your last sentence...I'm curious as to what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 10:37 PM
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Thanks for this post. It's a good wake up call.Going through my last few comments to people and they have been rage replies due to my own shortcomings. I think strugglers and trolls alike require some sort of general advice as opposed to stop being a faggot ass beta. But the usual go lift applies to everyone.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 02:17 AM
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You want balance? I'll give you some advice to get balance. Go to the gym, find some dumb bells that are both the same weight. Pick them up and put them down at the same exact time without falling over. More balance achieved than making an autistic post for the advice you know you need to take but don't wanna hear.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 12:41 AM
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I'm calling BS here man. Seems like she trickle-truthed you in that New Years Eve part. She didn't just kiss someone else back and then feel horrible about it..there's definitely more there. I think that's where you were set up to fail from the get-go.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 03:13 AM
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OP is speaking in metaphors and trying to give readers encouragement to stop being fucking complacent and lazy. Yet this, like many RP concepts and principles, go right over the heads of many because it's not an instant gratification field report.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 03:04 AM
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False statement. You'd be surprised how many personal trainers at private gyms are overweight but give great personal training advice. It's like red pillers who know game and the concepts but never apply. Some trainers give great routines and programs but don't follow through on their own. Probably a product of that instant dopamine hit as a result of doing something instantly validating.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 07:23 PM
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Go on the main sub and look up Dread Game.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 02:02 PM
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You agreed to dinner, so keep your word. I would recommend splitting the check as to not give off the provider/boyfriend vibe. When the check comes, see what she does. If she won't acts entitled and sits there expecting you, you can call her out on it (prepare for the backlash) or you can pick up the tab and say first one's free but that's it. It usually has worked for me. I also remember another poster here says that midway to go to the bathroom, and on your way find your server and tell them t…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 02:00 PM
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Here's my shit sandwich, and I encourage you to take it as a genuine interest in your progression as opposed to me tearing you down. Congratulations on the ONS. A few things you could have done better: To get her off the phone, don't supplicate by telling her "I wouldn't flake on a girl like you." Just flat out tell her to get off the phone. She led the interaction. She told you to put your arm around her. She also changed dinner to drinks in the hopes of pushing something more out of you. Stand…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 01:17 PM
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Sorry to break the news to you, but Chads are not 7s.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 04:04 PM
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Well-written and seemingly solid advice. I also respect the footnote structure you used.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 11:49 PM
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This is simple shit. Maintain plausible deniability at all times. Don't overtly ask for sex, just imply it with playful language. Netflix and chill was invented for a reason. So was "I left something at my apt, you can come in and wait but only for a minute."
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:35 PM
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At the risk of getting labeled as a shameless self-promoter I encourage you to read my latest post. It addresses your exact problem: internalizing the mentality to escalate.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 02:16 PM
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Out of curiosity, what tier law school? Don't name names or locations, just a basic level.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 10:24 PM
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Please sign me up for whatever you're smoking on, because that shit is fiyah.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:10 AM
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This is kind of infuriating to read. Take my words as for your betterment even though they might come off as hostile. You are NOT in monk mode. Here's why: You're in college you say? You should be spending the equivalent or more of the time required for class preparing for it. Simply put, if one class meets for an hour session, then you should spend 1-2 hours preparing for it. Watch your time become more valuable as you do things that enhance you. When you aren't in school or preparing, read one…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:44 PM
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There's no context through text. I don't care how alpha you sounded to yourself, she won't pick up on it by staring at a screen.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:09 AM
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It's been said before but Men act by logic, women act by emotion. /thread
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 02:29 PM
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TLDR: I failed a shit test and now am hamstering the blame on my friend. Sack up dude, all you had to do was joke with her and give her the famous smirk and lead her away. Stop blaming others when you are the one who should account for the variables.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 03:54 PM
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Most of us will have a life-changing moment that will serve as a figurative "cutting of the umbilical cord." The age may vary but I've seen it happen mostly around the mid-20s in today's helicopter mom society. Your job is to identify that life changing moment because it may be subtle for some, while others it may be a big wake up smack to the face. It is at that time when you must make a choice: are you going to own your shit or are you going to seek pity from others? My advice to everyone is s…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 01:01 AM
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What's with the moral concern in this thread? It directly violates the rules of this sub. If you disagree with OP's methods, cool, keep your moral opinion to yourself. Now to provide something of worth to your discussion: My basic assumption is that your HB7 photos are of a white girl. I've been arguing this point with some of my friends for some time now. These average girls are getting seriously gassed up and that's being proven by OP's little experiment. (ex. Male messages offering to take OP…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:35 PM
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Thank you for the comedy gold. I laughed every time "red flag" popped up in the most obscure places. You sure you been reading? You got destroyed by the most basic shit tests AND you seek validation from her.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:27 PM
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Ban hammer courtesy package incoming
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 11:27 PM
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Whether you have been on TRP or not, you should at least have a bit of common sense and some goddamn dignity. Common sense says: GF rushes to be away from you and at her college campus--ding-- she's checked out of your relationship. Constantly texting and DELETING conversations between her and random dudes? Red fucking flag. Have you no shame?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 11:24 PM
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I disagree with talking about goals and plans. Sometimes you may make a shitty fucking decision even though you haven't gone through with it. Friends can take a non-invested perspective and give you some insight and possibly keep you from making said shitty decision. Other than that spot on.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 05:01 PM
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My guy, plates spin and plates break. It's just what they do. Stop trying to understand why women do what they do because you'll just run yourself in circles. Them being annoyed because you fuck other women is only a test to get you to commit.If you want to open the shitstorm that is commitment be my guest. Lastly, stop ranting about your "in the moment" feelings. You wanna contribute, create a fucking theory or method to combat what's happening to you and let us know the results. This isn't a s…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 11:16 PM
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Jerk off to this girl? Why not just have sex with her? Still programming yourself to get used to the sex plus you're having the sex.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 07:56 PM
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I stare viciously at any man who comes up to her and if they stare me back I furiously beat it while maintaining eye contact
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 03:37 PM
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I appreciate your assumption but I'm nowhere near OP's level. I simply lurk like the rest of us. My point is that this sub has become extremely nearsighted and is obsessed with one goal. Yes it is a sub to understand sexual strategy, but we have to learn to free ourselves of blue pill dependencies (having the NEWest gadgets/cars/etc) that are usually meaningless when it comes to applying sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 06:51 PM
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I swear if the post doesn't include the words "FR, slut, kino, sex, etc." it gets instant downvotes. People on here need to understand the bigger picture and stop having so much goddamn nearsighted tunnel vision.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 03:47 PM
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Dude stop seeking instant gratification by having some random internet guys tell you it'll work out. You identified your shortcomings, go work on them. It's not rocket science.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 02:01 PM
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Might as well have a relationship with your hand because that's the kind of action you'll be getting.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 06:17 AM
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Never take a condom from her. Supply your own.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 06:17 AM
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Edit: Answers to your questions in the order you asked. 1) Lift 2) Lift 3) Fucking Lift 4) Literally fucking anywhere
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 03:07 PM
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This needs to be embedded into the brain of every beginner.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 02:47 PM
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Coming off too aggressive. Build some attraction first.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 02:59 AM
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I'm going to be that guy for saying this, but what did you learn? I understand you learned from your experience and moving forward you know what to do, but some of the newer members still aren't getting a lesson from this. They're just reading a sad story. Please put it into words for others. I'm glad you're taking initiative to improve and good luck raising your daughter.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 04:38 AM
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That question at the end might make your post ban worthy. Try adding a lesson learned.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 10:47 PM
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+1 for the Duke Nuke Em reference.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 12:24 AM
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You got it. Thanks for saving me the typing.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 11:17 PM
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This is a fantastic post. A caveat for new readers here: Most will try it out and yell "hey she's not looking at me!" Or "No ones approaching me or showing interest!" You skipped the basic premise of having moderate to high SMV before trying "Minimal Effort Game" or any variation of aloof. Assuming your SMV is high enough, feel free to experiment with this method or other variations of aloofness.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 10:40 PM
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Talk to her how you would talk to a friend. You don't ask your friends meaningless mundane questions just to pass the time. Nor do you tell your friends shit they hear all the time. When you're with your friends, it's usually jokes, laughter, light conversation. Do the same with girls, while subconsciously (via body language) escalating and showing interest.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 04:21 AM
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This resonates with me so much. If you aren't happy in your career, get the fuck out. You get one life to live and throwing 90% of it away on a job to make the other 10% meaningful is a massive waste. Look at each day, whether it's the "Dreaded Monday" or the "Friday Payday" as a new fucking adventure. Also, stop labeling the days. Negative mindsets will most certainly attract negative outcomes.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 10:56 PM
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Think of it as a blessing in disguise, or look at it glass half-full, if you will. Take the time to read some books. There is a wealth of knowledge besides the sidebar and the best posts that can actively improve your lifestyle in a trp way. Learn a new language. I'm fucking serious. You'd be surprised at what having a second or third language in your back pocket can do for ALL types of situations ranging from openers, conversation sticking points, networking, impressing potential employers, and…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 10:46 PM
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I agree with some of your post. Abundance mentality isn't exactly a gold mine when you have nothing going. However, it seems like you put the pussy on the highest of pedestals. It sounds like your goal in life is one filled with the opposite sex. This sub pushes improvement on ALL FACETS of life, not just with the opposite sex. Money doesn't attract younger girls. They live the fast, hard, cheap lifestyle. Money attracts gold diggers and girls nearing or at the wall who are trying to lock down a…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:34 PM
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Congratulations on your night sir. A simple "had fun" text to cover your ass would suffice. Other than that, let her re-initiate interaction.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 03:37 AM
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Your fear of being pussy-less is what's going to keep you pussy-less. Let go of that feeling.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 01:12 AM
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Well-put. We don't hand-hold here. We offer constructive, not destructive advice and strategies. However, the constructive advice can be harsh for some. That's OK. If you're feeling butt hurt, you're in a much better place than a nurtured environment.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 10:30 PM
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I have read The Way of the Superior Man. Excellent read and I must I really do agree with OP's direction. He just puts in different terminology. Masculine and Feminine traits are seen in both men and women. Hence the black circle on the white side, and white circle on the black side. It represents that no matter how one sided a person is either masculine or feminine, the other still resides deep within. Many people say "kill the beta" as opposed to being fully white or fully black (none racially…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 11:57 PM
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Completely unrelated, but are you just a well versed pro se party or did you go through law school?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 12:39 AM
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My thing is worrying about what other people around me think. How do you get past that, or do you only do it when it's just you two and on one else around.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 12:34 AM
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You're overthinking. Most of your friends won't want to be around because of what you're going through. Yes they understand you're trying to remove the feelz but they can only hang out for so long before they need to do their thing. Go lift. Go occupy your time with things that interest you. If you have hobbies like you say you do, then surely one of them can make you lose track of time. Stay focused and I can bet you that by day three of doing your own thing, the feelz will be secondary. It onl…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 03:56 PM
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Props to you for starting the interaction. I train commute to work every morning and read or work. I usually have my headphones in and drown out everyone around although I obviously notice who sits around me. Recently, a number of good looking girls have sat next to me and I never start the interaction. Reading this at least gives me the understanding that it is acceptable to do so.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 08:14 PM
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I still struggle with the issue day after day dude. The problem with me and I've come to understand it is the fact that I feel like I owe the people of the world something, when in reality I don't. Then I find myself getting mad and upset when people let me down. "How could you do this to me, I've done so much for you" always fucked me up. I guess now I've sort of stopped being so generous to people I don't know, instead of giving them rides, cash, emotional support, the list goes on. Although t…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 03:51 AM
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Hey man, there's a difference between giving someone the cold honest truth and straight up talking down to them. I'm all for quit crying and read the sidebar, but no need to keep calling him a bitch. Be constructive, not destructive. OP: Cut her out...for now. Radio silence and do not answer what she says. Go game other women and lift.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 04:30 AM
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Wouldn't be right if I didn't credit this sub. I found it in my reading, but I can't remember whether it was the side bar or a random post.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 02:59 AM
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Sounds like he's a BPD dude. Blaming his toxicity on you. Cut the relationship. True friends don't question your own judgment calls.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 01:44 AM
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I completely agree. Planting the seed reaps a much better reward when helping others swap tendencies instead of overtly mentioning RP topics. A friend of mine is what we consider a natural and introducing him to such topics would lead to either confusing his natural programming or him saying "I already know this shit." Instead when he gets stuck, I throw some structure into his game. For example: A few nights ago we were out with a couple of girls. One of them showed hesitancy in coming back to …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 01:02 AM
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Two small observations. Like mentioned above, the name of the game is isolate and dominate. Instead of quietly telling your "friend" to fuck off, maneuver around him or lead the girl somewhere else. The second thing is you may have had a chance to save via Facebook. Her "why are you mad" message should've been treated as a shit test. Agree and amplify and set up another hang out.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 10:57 PM
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It doesn't matter what he claims to pull. You're thinking too close-minded and in terms of PUA and RSD. Think bigger picture: how to adopt a better mindset before the interaction even occurs. If the proper mindset is attained, you won't even think of PUA or RSD tactics. They'll come secondhand.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 10:47 PM
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A good way to learn critical reading, is to read essays or articles (pick a topic you enjoy) and look at the flaws in what argument the individual is pushing. If you can make a logical argument with specific points, then you will be on your way to increased critical thinking skills. There's no actual need to respond to the individual until you can coherently make a point, but use it as an exercise for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 03:06 PM
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