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| 3 | How To Text Girls Like A Boss - Beginner vs Advanced Text Game ExamplesI agree, it don't exist. I think it's a trap lots of guys get into. When I studied game, I thought all that mattered was getting the number or getting the date. I'd end up with dozens of numbers that went nowhere or died within 5-10 texts back and forth. Text is just a tool, an extension that should only be used to setup plans or to answer a clarify something you should have asked in person. | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 05:17 AM |
| 6 | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)God dude like every point you made screams Incel to me | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)If you were confident about the fact that you are ugly looking then it wouldn't affect you so either it's not the case or you haven't truly accepted and moved past it | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 07:01 AM |
| 5 | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)Okay, calm down there Don Draper | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 07:00 AM |
| 1 | How to self-actualize and start taking social risks to pull people in, rather than expecting others to approach you. Applies to friendships and relationships.Start learning Mindfulness. Not every thought needs to be said. | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 07:29 PM |
| 7 | How to self-actualize and start taking social risks to pull people in, rather than expecting others to approach you. Applies to friendships and relationships.Also not just who you approach, but when. A trap I'd get myself into is waiting till I was in the perfect situation or in the perfect mindset. I'd make excuses like "Well I woke up 3 hours ago, I need a coffee" or "I need at least a shot before approaching her" or whatever excuse. There's many different "shades" of you, under different attitudes, different substances, different times of day. You want to train yourself to be able to approach no matter the circumstance. That's where the 2 minute r… | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 07:21 PM |
| 11 | How to self-actualize and start taking social risks to pull people in, rather than expecting others to approach you. Applies to friendships and relationships.True but sad story. I used to be really outgoing and have a lot of friends (Well acquaintances) in elementary school. People used to wave at me every day and say "Hey GetBenttt!" And they did this till middle school where I started becoming socially awkward. I remember one specific kid would say Hi to me everytime we passed in the hallways even though we hadn't hung out in years then eventually he stopped. It didn't occur to me until high school that they were the ones saying Hi every single tim… | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 06:49 PM |
| 5 | How to self-actualize and start taking social risks to pull people in, rather than expecting others to approach you. Applies to friendships and relationships.People cling to the idea of ugly and attractiveness but in my experience, I run into so many classically ugly people everyday or fat or whatever who come across as great or even sexy based on how they carry themselves. All it takes is dressing with the right style for you, carrying a positive energy that motivates others, even a smile helps. | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Remember boys rejection is part of dating! Make yourself a good night anywaysI do the same shit some nights haha. I'll buy some really good chocolate, a plethora of snacks, and maybe a cigar or fancy wine. Can't do it every night though | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Starting to feel like 'game' = be brave and go for it!!Anybody can, absolutely. And few do. Just like anybody can become rich if they tried hard enough to different degrees some more than others, but few actually do. It's about reaching your potential even if that means 5 out of 200 girls if you do everything correctly. | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 11:47 PM |
| 5 | As a late bloomer I'm finding out seduction is pretty straight forward and simple.Damn you people are cynical. There's some truth to what the guy was saying. I feel we do all have some seductive ability as humans. It's our nature... it's just we have shit like fear and anxiety and we've been trained to respond in certain ways socially that often we screw ourselves over and it clouds our thinking. We end up overthinking things that should be straightforward. Idk...just don't be so harsh on yourself. I don't think anybody's anti-seductive | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 06:36 AM |
| 7 | How to go out ALONE and have an AWESOME timeLol no don't do that I can imagine some dude skulking outside a club waiting to hit on females leaving The goal is to approach people while out having a fun night regardless. Unless you happen to be nearby like smoking a cigarette outside a theatre I can't see a good way of doing this without being really needy | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 12:38 AM |
| 3 | How to go out ALONE and have an AWESOME timeWhat is "let loose" mean in this context? | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 12:36 AM |
| 10 | FR - The power of not caringI've been there. There's a point you reach where you're just like "Well fuck it I couldn't care less what these people think of me". Your friend already knows you. It's liberating and is the mindset I strive for | /r/seduction | 29/12/18 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Give her an experience, not just a dateYou have to be unique. You may have seen plenty of great movie premiers, but how many trips to the movie do you actually recall? I have good memories of dates and seeing movies with friends where we snuck into three movies in one night or freaked out watching horror movies or when we snuck in flasks, and you remember those because they had things that occured that stood out from regular movie viewings. Strive for uniqueness | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 12:41 AM |
| 9 | Give her an experience, not just a dateIdeally, sure. But it takes steps to get there, and you got to actually know how to do that which I feel like a lot of folks here don't know | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 12:38 AM |
| 2 | A great exercise that will make you more attractive to girlsI feel like the people who take the time to comment this, if they spent twice that time skimming through this they could have got that info theirselves... | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 01:06 AM |
| 3 | A great exercise that will make you more attractive to girlsWhen you go about your day, every action you take and situation you run into, you have habits of how to react to them. Sometimes their bad and continuously lead you down the wrong path. It takes effort but ideally you should try to approach everything objectively as if it was the first time and forge new habits. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 01:04 AM |
| 0 | You have to realise you don’t need the girl to get the girlKeeping this in mind, your appearance is still mostly under your control beyond the face you're born with. That's why you see fat and ugly celebrities and rich people but they still come off as approachable | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 03:07 AM |
| 1 | You have to realise you don’t need the girl to get the girlYou're not taking from them though. You're exchanging their money for a product. In the end, it's their choice whether to fall for your persuasion/marketing or not. They don't end up with nothing in the end though, maybe something they didn't need. Don't get me wrong, there are predatory industries that sell things almost like drug dealing that degrade peoples lives but these are the exceptions | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 03:05 AM |
| 0 | You have to realise you don’t need the girl to get the girlEverybody always be racist to the white dog shit though | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Nice - The worst compliment you can receiveRudeness is different than the jerkiness we're talking about. I don't think there's a good version of rude | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/17 09:44 PM |
| 2 | From almost committing suicide to getting stable and getting a girlfriendGreat on you mate! I've undergone a lot of changes too. Wish I could get the meetup and OKC/Tinder thing going but I just lack the motivation to actually go out and do things and meet people. Great profile, got great at messaging people and plenty of likes...just hard to actually get out or setup anything. Too easy to be apathetic and go "Ehh next weekend" | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Do I flock to the attractive girls like the other guys or waitAssume you're gonna bang this girl and it turns incredibly ugly the next day and you're trapped working with this person for the next 6 months. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Do I flock to the attractive girls like the other guys or waitDon't 'flock' to anybody lol. Just be the friendliest, fun dude you can. If the kinda ugly girl walks up to your desk fucking talk to her. You don't have to flirt if you don't find her attractive. If you go out of your way to approach the hot blonde girl like every other dude is doing you're gonna look like every other dude. | /r/seduction | 16/03/17 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl Says I'm Overconfident?Oh I don't disagree, I think people who can make people laugh are generally wiser people but with self deprecating humor MUST come confidence. It can either win people over or make them feel pity for you | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Girl Says I'm Overconfident?As long as you were totally genuine about the assertiveness, and I mean like totally dgaf realness, not forced or fake at all, than you did nothing wrong. Sometime they're just not into you, maybe your looks, maybe your personality, who knows. | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 01:23 AM |
| 5 | Girl Says I'm Overconfident?You need to build rapport. I used to be like that after watching a bunch of YouTube pickup videos on all these different clever ways to collect numbers. Getting the number is easy, following through is hard and if there's no foundation you're gonna have difficulty | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Girl Says I'm Overconfident?I think it'd come off as nervousness. Some people tend to use humor when their nervous or don't know what to say | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 01:20 AM |
| 9 | Times when you were bold with a girl?Why did you follow her? That sounds needy like one of those creepy guys tailing a girl around the club lol | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Times when you were bold with a girl?She was seeing if she could shock you out of it. Seeing if you were acting with conviction...a shit test | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 01:16 AM |
| 1 | First date with girl went great but she doesn't text and now it's totally fucking me upPS don't expect her to initiate anything. It's a guys job to initiate, it's her job to respond. If she doesn't respond to a bs text who cares, you shouldn't be doing it anyway. If she doesn't respond to a 2nd date set up, shes not interested . I think this seems about right. I think I should stop with the texting BS (That's always where I stumbled with girls anyways) | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 09:57 PM |
| 3 | I did it fellas!!Good for you mate | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I did it fellas!!It sometimes bugs me but sometimes I don't give a shit. You could also say the same about tall people. Sometimes I wanna see the performer, especially if it's a rapper or something but other times I'm grooving out and dancing and don't mind if I'm staring at the floor or the back of someone's head | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I did it fellas!!I can kinda understand that. I used to not like hitting on chicks in front of friends cause it made me feel stupid or corny...but that's just something you gotta get over eventually. Around parents as well, you're a human, there's nothing wrong with showing affection | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 09:52 PM |
| 2 | I did it fellas!!Doing shit 'by yourself' is probably the biggest way to improve yourself as a person. I recently sung karaoke in front of a a crowd of like two dozen. I've done it before plenty of times, but this time was just me by myself friends ventured off somewhere else. Most nervous I felt in my life and I was nearly shaking but afterwards I felt so good that I went up and did it | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 09:44 PM |
| 2 | What do you talk about in the first 10-15 minutes of a date?Agreed, first date with my ex wife we swapped memes for nearly 2 hours while everyone stared at us. No regrets | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you talk about in the first 10-15 minutes of a date?Who the fuck brings up abortion in conversation? | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 09:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you talk about in the first 10-15 minutes of a date?You kinda gotta be like a cancer invading a system if that makes sense lol. Open ended questions suck, you gotta do the thinking for them...I hate thinking up a response for "What do I like to do" bleh. You kinda gotta zero in on what they like. Like "Hey you like Linkin Park?" "Oh god no". Okay so broaden out a bit "You like any rock bands then?". If not broaden out again then when you get a 'hit' "Oh I love this one rap group", you really zero in on it. Ask her if she listens to this other rap… | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Hey asshole! Yeah i'm talking to you - stop fucking deleting your posts after you got your answer!He doesn't want to feel judged by people looking at his post history. It's silly. | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I think I'm just socially awkward.Try to think about how the other person is feeling rather thank thinking. You want to connect with a person emotionally. If you're talking about theme parks don't ask what her favorite ride is, ask what other exciting things she enjoys | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 09:02 PM |
| 3 | If you compliment girls the right way you can build massive attraction and trustCalling bullshit. It's a car salesmen's job to make you trust them. While it doesn't work on everybody it does work on plenty of people. Complimenting people on their choices does indeed make people feel good more than just "Hey you're hot" or "nice bod" | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 11:36 PM |
| 2 | What I learned from an acid trip at a club partyI believe there's definitely some substance to the idea that drugs like MDMA can 'show you how to have fun'. Like I feel if someone is constantly living a miserable day to day reality, they get use to that. Give em a pill and give them an amazing night and it breaks that cycle | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Jonah Hill Cancels All Interviews In France After Weather Girl Mocks His Sex Life On National TV.Wasn't he named Seth in Superbad? That's where I messed up too | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Jonah Hill Cancels All Interviews In France After Weather Girl Mocks His Sex Life On National TV.Pretty much he's just confused. Like "Why did I come here just for some random weather person to talk shit to me exactly..?" You just gotta own shit like that. Maybe brush it off like "Okay." or "Cool". It's not about what you say exactly, it's about the attitude you display and the reaction you give. The less you learn to ngashit the better responses you'll think of | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 08:53 PM |
| 1 | What's your usual routine when you hit a club or a more 'party' bar?How do you go about it though? The girls standing there with maybe 5 other people, some dudes. How would you approach it? | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Crazy "theory" I observed after a few years of small talk and some experiments. I call it verbal peacocking...Wow. Very good post. This is actually something I just realized I do subconsciously when I'm on top of my game some nights. It's almost like a mental 'check' to see if they're actually caring what you say, if they're with you on an emotional level and not just small talking. Gotta remember this next time | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What's your usual routine when you hit a club or a more 'party' bar?Generic bar vs Club type bar? Yeah, I'm pretty socially anxious. Problem is my friend is too...and worse. He's really the only guy who likes to go out, so that's the issue too. Guess I need to find some more friends somehow | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Still can't maintain eye contactSometimes you just have to force it. I used to find myself constantly looking down when feeling a little awkward, but after a while I've gotten a lot better with it. You need to keep it up ALL the time though, with parents, friends, teachers, bosses. No exceptions for anybody. I actually found when hanging with some new people for the first time and I find myself staring out the window or the ground the first 10 minutes, things instantly got more fun after I wasn't afraid to look everyone right … | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Still can't maintain eye contactThere are some introverts scoring more pussy than Brad Pitt out there. Yup. This hard. I met a guy once even weirder than me. The difference though was this guy always had a girl. He was an introvert, but when he wanted a girl he wasn't afraid to get out there and scoop one up, then return to his little bubble. Your problem isn't introversion, that isn't a problem, it's social anxiety like probably most of us here. | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Where to meet girls for shy guys (without having to go to a club or bar)I never said to just "be happy", don't put words in my mouth. I said I encourage you to get out and try new things, regardless of if you're my age or a 70 year old man. It's never too late to shake things up. I thought it was for me for a while since everyone I knew was starting to finish college and I figured that's when everyone should have their shit together. I was wrong. I think you're putting others on a pedestal too much. Most people are NOT like you make them out to be. Most people are a… | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Lacking drive/motivation. Seddit, how do you 'push yourself'?Going out is not tough. I like going to shows and events and bars. It's just the drive to go out and game specifically. So in this case, day game is non existent | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Lacking drive/motivation. Seddit, how do you 'push yourself'?Meh. I jerk it once a week at the most. Never really been a problem jerker like some of the folks at nofap. I do think I get a decent testosterone lift after 3 or 4 days but it's not that significant and it's actually been detrimental. Going to amusement parks and concerts and getting so distracted by the eye candy that it ruins the day | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Where to meet girls for shy guys (without having to go to a club or bar)This is just negative thinking that reinforces itself. A guy does not necessarily have to have himself together in his 30's. Hell there's people in their 60's who still fuck up. Junkies, homeless people, cat ladys, thieves, idk. You can't change that you're in your 30's. But feeling like a loser is just a mindset. Feeling odd is just a mindset. I'm a firm believer that everyone has a passion for something, some people just don't know it yet or haven't found that passion. I recommend not being af… | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Where to meet girls for shy guys (without having to go to a club or bar)This was a very annoying reply but you're somewhat right in that for lots of people, it's all about inner game rather than quick outer fixes. | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 11:26 PM |
| 9 | Where to meet girls for shy guys (without having to go to a club or bar)Basically: How to meet new friends Because that's really how the game works. You're just looking for people you have things in common with...and both happen to wanna fuck each other. Join a club, join a sport, go out to parties, go to music/gaming/beer festivals, hangout in a library/bookstore, or hell just try to meet people at mundane places like the mall, a grocery store, while walking down main st. or such. (Of course there's places that happen to have more 'female friend candidates' than ot… | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 11:24 PM |
| 1 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameApproach her like she wasn't a woman, but a cool person you met at a party wearing a shirt with the band you like on it. Except it doesn't have to be that, it can be anything interesting you notice about that person, or your environment, or on your mind that you feel they might enjoy discussing with you. And you should not be doing this with the goal of a number in mind. You should be doing this with the hope that you both sync up, and if that's the case than getting the number is just a natural… | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 11:21 PM |
| 1 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameIt's still good for what it is. But indeed, there is no way to put it in one single guide. Inner game is more than seduction, inner game is improving one's life entirely. | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 11:18 PM |
| 5 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameI find that it is definitely possible to force yourself into a good, or at least a better mood. Lots of the time going about my day I'll find myself feeling sad or anxious or stressed out. You just need to stop for a second and ask yourself "Why? What's stopping me from feeling happy?" Count the things that make you feel stressed out and you'll find they likely don't mean shit or are gone in the past and therefore unchangeable This Sunday I was sitting in my room bored, sad that tomorrow meant b… | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Disney Lied To You About Sex And RelationshipsThat was like the dumbest shit I've ever read and offered like literally nothing of value to the sub. I think people just see a large post and go "Mmmm, must be worthwhile! One uptrump!" | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Asking to date through fb and long distance, is it never a good idea?Stop fucking asking out girls on Facebook. Wrong wrong wrong! At the least if you are using FB Chat your goal would be a phone number. And even then, you need to establish more than a few small conversations worth of rapport before you think of asking someone out. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 01:11 AM |
| 10 | Would you date a giant femaleOf course. Honestly rather date a little taller girl than a little shorter. Long legs are sexy af | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Never Run Out Of Things To Say To Women:Keep The Conversation Going Forever.Rofl, no. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Still dealing with one of the toughest rejections of my life. How do I bounce back from this?You went on like one date dude. You can't get attached to someone like that, that's major oneitus and it'll pretty much like 9 times out of 10 end up like this. I've had friends I've taken on 100 mile drives before, there's nothing particularly special about hanging out with another human being. Her ignoring you, I wouldn't feel too bad about. She probably feels very awkward knowing how you feel about her and doesn't quite know how to handle it, so she rather ignore the problem. Don't let this d… | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 12:35 AM |
| 1 | How important is assertiveness?Baby steps | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Speedy Seduction- How do you work around a "short window to act"?but the only time we are in the same place is usually at a party or a bar, where conversation is often limited. Umm, how? That sounds like the perfect place to talk to someone you fancy. Perhaps you should ask her to meet up with you another time for a more intimate conversation if that's what you want. | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Speedy Seduction- How do you work around a "short window to act"?Scenario 1. Don't ask out girls who are working, such as waitresses. They are literally paid to be nice to you. They don't like you. This isn't always the case | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Guide To Going Out Solo - Freedom To Going Out aloneMost of the time it's like this for me. Me and a buddy hit a party/festival. We separate for pretty much half the event lol. I think it's easier knowing you always have a friend somewhere out in the crowd. (Though honestly I think this is why it's worth going out TOTALLY solo at least once, it'd probably be much more beneficial) | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Less about seduction, more about social skillsI've been in this situation many times lol. When I first got into the partying life I'd show up flirt with every other girl I saw, drank, smoke, went nuts trying to have the best time I could. While there's nothing wrong with having fun, it felt rather shallow eventually and I felt like I wasn't really connecting with anybody in particular. For some people, the problem is much deeper than just pure flirting skills. For me it was connecting with people | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 02:36 AM |
| 1 | How important is assertiveness?I doubt that. Unless you're staring them down and intimidating them, you wouldn't know either if they're avoiding your gaze. | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How important is assertiveness?You don't need anyone to be with you for you to approach. This. It's too easy when you're with your friends having a good time. You need to be able to do it when you most vulnerable, alone. That's when you truly start improving yourself. | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 10:59 PM |
| 3 | How important is assertiveness?You need to get out and just talk to people, not just women. I have the same problem with my friends being kinda shutin anti-fun losers. But the thing is, losers hangout with losers. If you want to start partying and going out you need to meet people that like to party and go out. Maybe encourage your friends to try new things, but don't expect them to want to change like you want to | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 10:58 PM |
| 6 | I Met an OrbiterSounds like a form of psychosis to me | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Should we be vulnerable with everyone around us, according to Mark Manson?Yeah it kinda wouldn't make sense to only be vulnerable when Sarging...than come back home back to become a completely different person | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you find the need to use different tactics on different types of girls, for example, City girls vs. Country girls?Thank you | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you find the need to use different tactics on different types of girls, for example, City girls vs. Country girls?I agree but I'm referring specifically to the tactics. I ghost on some other seduction forums on the internet and lots will give advice for things like using pet names, negging, being alpha, etc. and I feel like some tactics that generally are advised may not work on everyone (Regardless of Racist and homophobic people) | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 04:14 AM |
| 2 | To the guy that cold approached my girlfriend last Friday night right in front of me..Don't be. It's the same thing if a gay guy hits on me. I take it as a big old compliment. Someone thinks your girlfriend is attractive. The person YOU are going out with. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 10:54 PM |
| 1 | To the guy that cold approached my girlfriend last Friday night right in front of me..Exactly, what's the real consequences if it is actually a boyfriend? Oh she's taken, my bad bro no disrespect. The benefits outweigh the risks by far. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 10:52 PM |
| 2 | To the guy that cold approached my girlfriend last Friday night right in front of me..I think in an ideal approach the guy should be approaching as if he's meeting people for the sake of meeting people, not specifically to get laid while sneaking in some flirtation. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 10:50 PM |
| -6 | Scary story told by a woman I met in TinderMaybe you should pick up some better parenting skills if that's what's going on, speak for your own self. I don't have kids thank God, but in general, the more privacy we have as individuals the better. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 02:16 AM |
| -2 | Scary story told by a woman I met in TinderSo our kids can get spied on by Big Brother? No thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 10:17 PM |
| 3 | How do you show strong intent without telling a girl she is hot?Horrible advice. Don't do this. | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Can we talk about Naturals for a second?Girls will always like you throughout life, it's your job to figure out where they stand. | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble explaining that I don't want commitment...I don't understand what you're trying to say. You don't want to be committed, yet you want to date them for more than a few weeks at a time yet it's 'not about sex'..? If you're not looking to fuck what the hell is your goal here? If you're having sex, you're obviously not looking to be good friends either | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Good place for daygame for a 32 year old bald man?What does being bald have to do with anything exactly? Do you want me to suggest a commune where only bald women and men flock, is that what you seek? | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 01:17 AM |
| 1 | For "incredibly shy" or "slightly autistic" men: How to improve with zero social status?Mate, to be honest it sounds like you have serious self esteem issues you need to tackle first. Nobody can help you until you help yourself. You basically said youre not willing to socialize and that your lifestyle is dull...stop that. Romance is a type of socialization, so youre going to have to suck it up and get out there. I hate socializing some days as well and im not autistic. We all have to do it. If you want to attract he flock you also need to build a lifestyle that attracts. Find what … | /r/seduction | 22/11/15 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Things were not supposed to go this way... (Now I am falling for her. What should I do?)I tried to hold her hand, and she denied, and said "Hey, we're just friends". Why are you letting her tell you what to do? You are the man. Don't let her fz you | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach when I feel my self-esteem is low, and I look ugly?bad habits.. You'll start hitting on women when you're sad, just for the sake of it, to the point where you'll get desperate and do some needy things | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls think I'm "cute" and not "hot" etc..EXACTLY. When you hear a girl go "Ohhh my gawd Justin Timberlake is so cute" you don't think their pussy would get wet if they met him, that they just simply like the shape of his face? | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 10:04 PM |
| -1 | Why do girls think I'm "cute" and not "hot" etc..Why not keep up the cardio and gain muscle? I'd rather be slim and toned with abs than one of those fat dudes who lift | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 10:02 PM |
| 8 | Why do girls think I'm "cute" and not "hot" etc..Why the fuck do you get upset for being called cute? There's fucking guys out there that aren't cute or even pretty. To girls their "..." To me, Cute is a good thing. Hot is just a sexual thing. I see a naked girls ass...that's fucking hot. Boob slip...hot. That girl working at Macys with the Pikachu necklace...she's freaking cute...but she could be hot too in a different environment | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls think I'm "cute" and not "hot" etc..I'd love for a girl to call me cute. My friend's sister thought I was cute...never got anywhere though (Yet) but it did perhaps cause a certain drunken mistake... | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Today, I undiscovered the great feeling of being rejectedI think it'd be fine to let her know you like her through a mutual party, like if you both share a friend I guess drop some hints. Remember middle school type stuff "I heard he likes you!!11 Oh ma gawd", piques their interest. Don't do it directly though | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Today, I undiscovered the great feeling of being rejectedIt does feel fucking good. Honestly the 'afterglow' feels a lot better than the day after you get a number. You get rejected...you know where you and her stand, but you fucking accomplished something! You get a number, yay!, but the day later you're so nervous thinking of that first text..that's the worst. | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 09:52 PM |
| 2 | What are some hobbies you guys have?Nothing much except jeans. | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 09:51 PM |
| 2 | What are some hobbies you guys have?I forgot about Gundam models. My brother was big into those years ago, didn't know they're still around | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 09:51 PM |
| 7 | When talking to a girl, I constantly find myself saying "uh huh" and nodding when she's talking, or after she says a point I say, "yeah", should I not do this?I kinda hate when people do this. There's levels to how annoying it can be too. I worked with an older guy who if you were conversing with him he'd go "Uh huh" after literally everything you said but in a sarcastic sounding way like you were annoying the hell out of him. Or when people just nod their heads constantly. Idk. Personally I will say things like "Ahhh..", "Oh ohhh kay", "Wow." occasionally but I'm not just saying "yeah...yeah...yeah...yeah...yeah..." where it can be so fucking annoyin… | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 09:50 PM |
| 0 | How do I start a convo with 2 girls who are talking?Bad advice that's not always true. If it were a club/party, it's perfectly acceptable to join in a conversation amongst a group. If they're huddled in a corner of a library perhaps not | /r/seduction | 06/09/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Every Girl I try to ask out is suddenly bisexual/lesbian/asexual?!Either they're trying to reject you and all just happen to use the same line or you're attracted to the wrong type of girl and they all share some defining characteristic you subconsciously go towards also like someone else said it's a fad for lots of girls nowadays, I guess cause it's 'edgy' for a girl to be bi | /r/seduction | 06/09/15 06:39 PM |
| 2 | When you ask for # and she suggests FB:Always bypass Facebook when you can. Just because she offers it first doesn't mean it's a bad thing either. A girl gave me hers, I offered numbers instead and she giddily accepted as well | /r/seduction | 05/09/15 09:44 PM |
| 3 | When you ask for # and she suggests FB:How does not wanting to expose your privacy through Facebook make someone a privacy freak? If anything I respect those people much more because they did something I've yet to bring myself to do | /r/seduction | 05/09/15 09:42 PM |
| 1 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!So I don't get it...do you just show up to a random campus and just go to where a bunch of people are? I've always wanted to do this but I don't know where I should go or do without looking completely out of place or get known as a creep hanging out at colleges I don't go to. I once got called out by some dude for even going to a college party and living one town over (Not that I gave a shit but still) | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 12:41 AM |
| 1 | What do you usually open a girl with on a day you choose to text her?Yeah but what to talk about as well? | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Got this message from a female friend. I fucking love you guysI was so suprised when people at work told me I was rude and gave dirty looks...what the fuck?? I hardly talk and am a very shy person so this came as a huge shock | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Got this message from a female friend. I fucking love you guysOnce or twice a year? Fuck that, once a month is perfectly safe | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Got this message from a female friend. I fucking love you guysCall me crazy but N20 does this for me and I have a feeling Salvia might. Sometimes I'll hit a whippit and afterwards it feels like my brain 'reset' it's mood. Especially good when combining with other drugs, you appreciate the buzz/high more when the Nitrous buzz leaves | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Got this message from a female friend. I fucking love you guysI think you should only use drug to compliment good times. Like Cherries on a sundae. NEVER to bring you out of a low like you said. Sometimes we need to fall to appreciate the times when we're on top | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 10:22 PM |
| -9 | Starting Off Your Woman Right!Am I missing the joke here or is this thread serious? I'm all for the idea of men needing to take the initiatives in relationships but this talks about women as if they are objects... | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/15 07:55 PM |
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