The last time I scooped a girls number and started texting her, I suddenly realized "Fuck...I gotta go througb his bullshit again?". He back and forth, hours between texts, having to subtly get them to get out for a date...all that shit. Its such a damn process. Does anyone else get sick of all this?

As afc as it sounds, I wish I could just skip it and just hookup. Not even desperate for the sex, but just skip all the dating rituals "you into grunge or punk" shit and mutual shyness..gah. Every number is like starting a game of Skyrim up from the very beginnig with no way to save. Do you just have to push through this guys? Im honestly losing interests in the idea of getting my dick wet whatsoever in favor of my hobbies...fuck maybe thats the correct way tho...