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Up vote for tech. Saw him in clt a week or two ago and the girls with me got to go on the tour bus. Fucking awesome
/r/askTRP30/04/16 06:11 PM
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Drake - Light up is one of the best songs of all time
/r/askTRP30/04/16 05:45 PM
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It's just team work in general. Simply incorporate her into a generic couples routine.
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:14 PM
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It's great for kino. Long as u aren't ugly or nasty it usually is a refreshing difference from most first dates
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:08 PM
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Red bull, monster, nos, full throttle, rockstar, etc. I also share out my six pack with girls and it always goes over really well. Everyone is tired and that little pick me up goes a long way.
/r/seduction15/02/16 06:19 PM
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I drink a daily energy drink that helps me with everything including charisma.
/r/seduction15/02/16 06:14 PM
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You have 99 to go. Stop worrying about finding a girlfriend or sexual partner and just meet people. Fill your time and phone with contacts and connections and the sex and love will come naturally as you improve.
/r/seduction15/02/16 05:56 PM
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In sales if you make 100 cold calls and close 1 and make 100 bucks it's been a successful day. In pickup if you approach 100 girls probably half of them are going to be hard no's especially if you are just starting out. Just keep at it and find your one.
/r/seduction15/02/16 04:42 PM
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Today right now. Also it doesn't have to be coffee given ur at the same school ya'll can go to the store together, go to a sporting event together, hit the gym together, go out at night together etc. Coffee dates are more for older girls who aren't out of the house as much.
/r/seduction15/02/16 04:38 PM
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Seductiveness is one of the qualities of the devil.
/r/seduction15/02/16 05:45 AM
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Lift of course. Also educate yourself. Watch rsd videos and solve your inner angst problems. Turn that doubting pussy into a confident young man. Finally try to shift your paradigm from that which is moved and shaken to that which remains unmoved and intact yet learns from the stuff that moves and shakes.
/r/seduction13/02/16 10:03 AM
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Well the logical thing to do from that point would have been to ask how she knew Jacob and find something in common. From there you could jump into F. O. R. D. S. to keep the conversation going. Knowing basic sales is very helpful for aspiring PUA so consider learning about impulse, good conversation starters, how to build trust, how to show value, how to close, etc.
/r/seduction13/02/16 07:58 AM
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I take selfies with girls, pets, weed, and landmarks and upload to fb, insta, or send a snap.
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:31 AM
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Stop trying to "get" girls and just let things happen.
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:26 AM
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Youtube.com/rsdfreetour
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:25 AM
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Yup. Lift. STOP MAKING EXCUSES
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:25 AM
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You probably could have closed ok... That's ridiculous given you are so new and are on your first set ever. Get grounded lose the head in the clouds and study. Keep approaching and posting. Good job on your first day!
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:20 AM
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That's a shit test. To the sidebar with you.
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:18 AM
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It's about tonality too. You gotta speak up when you do speak and speak with confidence.
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:17 AM
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I try to sleep instead of watching TV or playing on the computer or wasting time on reddit. Also energy drinks are very helpful.
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:15 AM
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Ok so text game is pretty dynamic vs. static, and as you get to know her you can freestyle with it but basic guidelines, especially just starting out, include: avoiding emoticons, platonic texting, wordiness, explaining, and time wasting. avoiding scripted robotic or cliche avoiding serious topics Try to keep it about logistics humor and occasional references to ya'lls experiences. Example a girl fed me pizza and I told her I'd eat it every day if I could. The next two days I had pizza for lunch…
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:08 AM
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2 drinks a night? Come on.
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:01 AM
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You always had anxiety and your game was nonexistent. Understand that you suck and had no prospects. Now use this to motivate yourself to improve and get social skills and learn game and pick up beautiful women. Stop sitting around crying and get to the gym.
/r/seduction13/02/16 04:59 AM
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Probably ashamed of your penis.
/r/seduction13/02/16 04:54 AM
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Who the fuck cares about cardiovascular health lmfao wrong sub bruh
/r/seduction13/02/16 04:51 AM
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She's testing to see if you will escalate. You failed but hopefully lesson learned. Next time escalate.
/r/seduction13/02/16 04:44 AM
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The next step is to not act like this is anything out of the ordinary. Girls choose you, you treat them better, just another day in the office.
/r/seduction13/02/16 04:43 AM
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I always talk about my four core beliefs that I live by (honesty, openness, friendliness, and fun) and that provides more than enough conversation material for the date.
/r/seduction12/02/16 04:26 PM
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Stop talking to girls like a butterfly flitting about flowers. Be sexual, be intense, be mysterious and most of all be fun. All this sorority drama with you "checking up on how the girls feel" makes you come across as dickless.
/r/seduction12/02/16 03:03 PM
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Just go for it. Worst case she gets creeped out and bitches on Facebook about weak guys trying to get in her pants and how she hates nice guy friends. Then u will be free of her, able to focus on yourself and eliminating that weak-ness.
/r/seduction12/02/16 02:59 PM
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Energy drink first thing. I drink my energy drink before I even take my morning piss.
/r/seduction12/02/16 02:57 PM
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Only if ya'll are looking to date. For fwbs or any other type of non-exclusive relationship you are in the clear. Single mom's get a bad rap on here but aren't bad at all in my experience - they cook better and are more nurturing in general. Do make sure to use a condom ofc.
/r/seduction10/02/16 02:07 PM
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Oh god so bad and cringe worthy. Stop trying to copy the movies and just escalate. Isolate, kino, kiss.
/r/seduction10/02/16 02:04 PM
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Men don't shit test. Really encouraging story though, shows the power of releasing yourself from expectations and viewing yourself as the prize.
/r/seduction06/02/16 03:55 AM
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True this. It's the same way with guys (Elliot Roger being an extreme example).
/r/seduction03/02/16 08:19 PM
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Welcome to the big leagues where the world is your oyster but haters lurk everywhere. I keep a narcissistic frame so it's pretty natural for me to laugh off random bullshit but ymmv. In your situation I would have blatantly hit on her in an over-the-top way such as oh my god girl your eyes are so beautiful... Why are you so mad baby? I just want you to smile.. Why are you leaving me? We're meant to be together! etc Basically a huge agree and amplify in public.
/r/seduction03/02/16 06:28 PM
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So much this!!! Hunker down and learn OP.
/r/seduction03/02/16 06:22 PM
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Depends on if the anger is warranted and how you communicate angrily. It's one thing to be passionate in a spirit of love and righteously denounce the bullshit. (Example - your girl gets robbed at gunpoint by a stranger) It's another thing to be a bratty angsty shit head (Example - your girl buys an outfit with your money without asking which is a shit test).
/r/seduction03/02/16 06:20 PM
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If you are serious about night game you will stop drinking altogether because expenses. Find wings or a lair for people as committed as you and go from there.
/r/seduction03/02/16 06:16 PM
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It's all feeling-based, there are no rules. You do what feels right, she does what feels right, you either hook up or don't.
/r/seduction03/02/16 06:15 PM
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Because alcohol makes our insecurites go away and makes us feel like we're the shit
/r/seduction03/02/16 06:10 PM
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Read up on shit tests
/r/seduction03/02/16 06:04 PM
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"Are there any safe ways to find my sack, balls, and penis?" FTFY
/r/seduction03/02/16 05:56 PM
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Yes it does.
/r/seduction03/02/16 05:54 PM
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Is having condoms necessary to have casual sex? Is buying school books necessary to pass your classes? You can be the 1% if you like or you can be normal like the rest of us.
/r/seduction03/02/16 05:49 PM
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By your writing style alone I can see what you mean. You're complex, cerebral, analytical, machine-like. Try to say more with less. Keep it simple. Your post could say: I am socially backwards and could use some help on where to start learning social skills. RSD is my go-to resource... especially Tyler since he is mad autistic. Start with the 84 video playlist on youtube.com/rsdfreetour then check out Tylers channel. Also fucking Lift. It all starts at the gym.
/r/seduction03/02/16 05:46 PM
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Enjoy pouring your heart out to her... faggot. Did you even read the sidebar???
/r/seduction02/02/16 09:34 AM
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Too much texting. You have to schedule meet ups.
/r/seduction02/02/16 08:39 AM
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Treat her the way every other girl treats you - business professional.
/r/seduction02/02/16 06:54 AM
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You met a "HB"? Smdh
/r/seduction02/02/16 06:29 AM
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Yeah forget this girl and focus on yourself. Do whatever it takes to identify your source of negativity and turn that shit around as soon as possible.
/r/seduction02/02/16 06:17 AM
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It all has to start with realizing that we are not equal but that greatness can be achieved through sacrifice. Those who stay entitled believing that they deserve a relationship, sex, a girlfriend, etc. and yet refuse to lift, study, practice and apply do not deserve to have their voices heard.
/r/seduction02/02/16 06:16 AM
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r/realgirls
/r/seduction02/02/16 05:23 AM
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Do not respond to her advances, and kind of give her the cold shoulder.
/r/seduction02/02/16 05:22 AM
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Agree and amplify. You're right have a nice life. Then walk away. No anger, surprise, or angst. Maybe even do it with a smile and partial amusement. If she tells you to hang on a second u did it right.
/r/seduction02/02/16 05:17 AM
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Your self loathing, while it may be warranted, is a chick anti magnet.
/r/seduction02/02/16 05:12 AM
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Stop sending reassuring texts as if she did something wrong by being with you. Text something confident like "Last night was great! Let's meet tomorrow round 8 and go somewhere fun."
/r/seduction02/02/16 05:12 AM
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Standard virgin advice: get off the video games, television, and porn. Lift weights, read the sidebar, watch RSD videos, and practice practice practice. Build a social circle as you learn, try to find a united purpose, and grow together. Get a squad and go ham.
/r/seduction02/02/16 05:09 AM
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You are putting the cart before the horse. Instead of getting the number and then moving on to the next girl, talk to her and build rapport and escalate. Then get the number as an afterthought.
/r/seduction02/02/16 04:56 AM
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I'm paraphrasing RSD here: a fun, abundant life is like an exclusive club where only those who have proven themselves can get in. The scrubs out on the street are left to wait in line and pay a cover charge, or aren't allowed in at all due to social cluelessness, shitty friends, bad life decisions, etc
/r/seduction02/02/16 04:39 AM
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Be spontaneous with this next date. Don't schedule days in advance... make it so she meets you one to two days out from your invitation. Make sure to do something fun that allows her to open up the way she was on the first date. Don't discuss "where things are between us" or how "this is your last shot". The goal is to get her to where she was on date 1, kissing and touching and flirty, then escalate again on day four (or this date if she is especially receptive).
/r/seduction02/02/16 04:25 AM
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You are standing on the outside looking in. 80/20 rule all day. On the inside things are fun and girls are available abundantly. Be the 20%.
/r/seduction02/02/16 04:20 AM
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Don't. Radio silence til the day before, go talk to other women.
/r/seduction29/01/16 11:49 PM
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Yeah strip clubs are for working girls to approach you. All approaching is gonna do is waste their time costing them money.
/r/seduction29/01/16 11:48 PM
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It's a confidence issue. You don't believe you deserve to have them so you get nervous and feel invisible.
/r/seduction27/01/16 09:22 AM
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If u watch big bang theory think about what Raj does ( literally cannot speak to women ) yes that's his shtick but it is the exact problem you describe. Now in the future when you find yourself dealing with the beating heart and tongue tied-ness around women think about Raj and how ridiculous his character is. Then speak.
/r/seduction27/01/16 09:12 AM
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Sounds like ur like Raj on the big bang theory. Don't be like Raj.
/r/seduction27/01/16 09:06 AM
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Needy. Never say I miss u ... say see u soon
/r/seduction22/01/16 11:18 PM
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Be comfortable with her being uncomfortable.
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:28 AM
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After lifting comes learning. Read the sidebar, buy a book and watch rsd videos. Practice.
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:19 AM
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Every woman is different but generalizations can be made. Try reading Undercover Sex Signals by leil lowndes
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:19 AM
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Have pot
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:57 PM
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Sounds tryhard as hell but if it works for you knock yourself out
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:54 PM
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The idea is your excuse is so ludicrous she realizes your playing games in a good way - lighthearted and fun with a dash of crazy and dgaf-ness
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:37 PM
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Real social dynamics
/r/seduction20/01/16 09:08 AM
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I agree. I've been with 19 and am just now starting to understand intermediate concepts.
/r/seduction20/01/16 06:32 AM
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On a dry spell I usually fire up some rsd and try to up my approaches keeping fresh material in mind
/r/seduction20/01/16 06:31 AM
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Talk to other women. This is the answer to anyone with cling/needy issues.
/r/seduction20/01/16 06:31 AM
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Take her hand. Kiss her forehead. Get in her personal space and maintain eye contact when speaking to her. Put your arm around her waist. Lots of ways to guage interest before the actual kiss.
/r/seduction20/01/16 06:26 AM
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Based on your language and tone in this post I would step back and solve your inner issues first. You call one arrogant because she shit tests you... if you are getting shit tests you are doing something right! Then you get frustrated because it turns out the girl you "righteously" blocked is the gatekeeper to the other girls - no shit popular hot girls do and will always lead other girls. You must address your taking offense to hot girl behavior. Girls are different and what you perceive as an …
/r/seduction20/01/16 06:19 AM
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That you told her to inbox u
/r/seduction19/01/16 08:36 PM
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I mean you can try but know your probably fucked. Live and learn.
/r/seduction19/01/16 11:28 AM
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Fail utterly at relationships girlfriends and sex then crawl to seddit for advice.
/r/seduction19/01/16 11:24 AM
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That's a very childish way to think in my opinion. Men are the initiators like it or not.
/r/seduction19/01/16 11:21 AM
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Why would you start immediately fishing for validation like that? She's a girl, she can see right through your games based on that alone.
/r/seduction19/01/16 11:15 AM
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If rsdtyler can do it anyone can. You should check out some of his material.
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:26 AM
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Lifting is the first step but it isn't going to make girls magically drop to their knees and suck. U have to learn game too.
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:04 AM
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Touch, kiss, make out, touch sexually, oral, sex
/r/seduction19/01/16 06:52 AM
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Stop treating them like special snowflakes. She's just another girl.
/r/seduction19/01/16 05:22 AM
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Lift and start watching videos and read the sidebar and top posts. Then approach.
/r/seduction19/01/16 05:16 AM
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Don't worry about responses to your open text. You should be sending it soon as you get the number. Short and sweet: Hey its _______
/r/seduction19/01/16 05:14 AM
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Ugh get a prostitute
/r/seduction19/01/16 05:12 AM
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Just going off ur username
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:03 PM
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They are teaching provider men how to become less prone to providing.
/r/seduction18/01/16 10:41 AM
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Post over in red pill where you belong
/r/seduction18/01/16 10:40 AM
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Sounds much less sinister to me. Op failed to adjust to groups and got left behind only because no one even knew he was there. Had he talked to everyone and been cool I'm sure they'd have had no problem with him coming with the girl especially if he asked confidently.
/r/seduction18/01/16 08:12 AM
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You feel much more valuable like "a catch"
/r/seduction18/01/16 08:04 AM
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Introduce yourself to them and integrate with the group. Then go with everyone to wherever they're going.
/r/seduction18/01/16 07:56 AM
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I believe it's all about who you know vs. academic learning.
/r/seduction18/01/16 07:27 AM
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Just cause you agreed to be friends doesn't mean you have to talk to her or meet up with her. Lots of my friends i see once a month or less. If she calls you out (which she won't cuz she thinks you're creepy thanks to your frame getting obliterated by the rape thing) just tell her you don't really go out of your way to hang out with your platonic friends.
/r/seduction18/01/16 07:26 AM
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Lots of good looking guys at the gym can't get laid.
/r/seduction18/01/16 07:24 AM
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It's about them benefiting me to be seen around and associate with. They are not aware they were filered.
/r/seduction18/01/16 07:23 AM
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Creep zone means you are too overt about sex or she is self conscious about you around her friends. I prefer to respond instantly to texts - when I can. I try to keep busy enough to where I'm not available often. When I do text I push to meet up or call. For those not pursuing a relationship escalate hard. Not looking for love means they probably want casual sex.
/r/seduction18/01/16 05:44 AM
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Girls get bored and they love to chat. Thing is chatting doesn't get you laid - has the opposite effect actuslly - and wastes time you could be spending with other girls. Better to let her chat with the guys that have oneitis for her and just don't reply or be short with her.
/r/seduction18/01/16 05:41 AM
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Meh I think all friends are quality friends til they prove otherwise. I assign priority based on how they benefit me not their character "being a good person".
/r/seduction18/01/16 05:27 AM
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When talking about overdoing the communicating I meant before the accusation. Though reading now you didn't get her number I don't imagine u gave much info over snap just cuz it's snap, pretty hard to have serious convos on snap. After the accusation I would have hard nexted. As things are send the snaps if you're wrestling but be wary she has you in the creep zone and the only way out of that is to fuck her friends and have them brag to her about how good you are... probably more advanced than …
/r/seduction18/01/16 05:20 AM
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White knight isn't romantic - it's hate fueled. As far as the poem I don't think that was the problem as much as the overdoing it via text. Remember less is more as far as getting to know you. Also a good phone call or two can work wonders and use much less time - time you should be spending with other girls.
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:55 AM
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Lips
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:25 AM
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You have oneitis because you only talk to one girl. Funny how that works.
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:24 AM
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You were a bit to needy with the constant snapping and texting between your first and second dates. Don't be initiating convos or talking aimlessly 24/7; it kills your mystery and puts u in the same category as every other guy. You took things way to seriously then blew up and lost any bit of frame you had built going off on her and her friends. Next time a girl is accusatory or plays pranks just go cold hard next. No texting, no calling explaining your side of the story, no angry demands for ju…
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:23 AM
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Lift
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:17 AM
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Text her to meetup. "Hey I'm in ur area tonight want me to pick u up?" Or something along those lines.
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:17 AM
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Brush up on text game. logistics and humor only. Serious discussions either call or schedule a meetup. no emotes lols or haha no aggressive language ultimatums or butthurt no time wasting. Text convos shouldn't last more than 15 mins and you should never be texting for hours or all day.
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:15 AM
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Low worth: few friends self loathing. Med worth: few friends self loving. High worth: many friends self loving.
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:06 AM
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Be busy enough with enough girls (and guys) to where you don't have time to count the minutes between texts
/r/seduction18/01/16 04:01 AM
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Youre too worried about outcomes. Do what u know is right and let the chips fall where they may.
/r/seduction18/01/16 03:59 AM
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Sounds like you have the mental now thanks to your epiphany. Now take action. Approach approach approach and approach, and when u feel that body telling you not to recognize it and what you've leaned and power through.
/r/seduction17/01/16 06:07 AM
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Your projecting. Just cuz you feel some type of way about women doesn't mean we do.
/r/seduction16/01/16 08:29 PM
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You are looking for casual sex then. I wouldn't call that using but to each their own.
/r/seduction16/01/16 05:42 PM
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Meh there's a lot of white knight lurkers here. All that matters is op saw my advice whether down voted or not.
/r/seduction16/01/16 01:58 AM
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Take both her hands and pause for dramatic effect. Eye contact all day.
/r/seduction15/01/16 10:31 PM
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Why do you call yourself a gamer? Why aren't you escalating? Are you waiting for the one? Are you afraid of rejection? Are you afraid to be called a pig or a creep? What do you think it is that keeps girls from "loving" you vs. "like"? (Where love is in the context of putting out). You do know now that a girl telling u to come over means you should come over right? I think you need to fire up some rsd vids and focus on closing. You must ABC - always be closing - next time you feel that fear go f…
/r/seduction15/01/16 10:10 PM
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People in general dislike smokers because they believe they are a health hazard.
/r/seduction15/01/16 10:09 PM
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I say act how you KNOW you MUST. its about being grounded in truth then becoming the truth through experience (and failure).
/r/seduction15/01/16 10:06 PM
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Indifference at its finest. Good post - the less you are about outcomes the better you are going to do being present in the moment.
/r/seduction15/01/16 10:04 PM
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Offer cuddles. Yes it's beta as hell but she needs that intimacy and considering how this is exceptional anyways might as well experiment a bit.
/r/seduction15/01/16 09:57 PM
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Become mature. Lift. Watch rsd videos. Practice. Get out there and fail til you succeed.
/r/seduction15/01/16 09:13 PM
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Get them involved in exciting shit with yourself as their "mentor". Dancing, bartending, fitness, drugs, etc. Using women is amoral so if you have a moral compass don't do it.
/r/seduction15/01/16 08:55 PM
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You wear your emotions on your sleeve which is a sign of being immature. Change yourself or date immature women (which I have no problem with).
/r/seduction15/01/16 08:52 PM
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You should be physical early and often. If she isn't into it just cut the date short.
/r/seduction15/01/16 08:47 PM
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I just feel it. Like today I was texting on snapchat bored at work and she replied "why?" to a pretty long msg I had sent. So I clarified and she answered "oh ok". She is not interested in texting right now, I'll talk to her when I see her tomorrow afternoon to confirm logistics.
/r/seduction15/01/16 02:54 AM
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See more girls.
/r/seduction14/01/16 09:42 PM
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Everything on the first date if possible. Granted my dates usually aren't traditional dinner and a movie so things are easier.
/r/seduction14/01/16 09:41 PM
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Exactly I was aware of the seduction community, books, etc. but thought I didn't need it til I failed consistently and spectacularly enough to where i knew it was time to make huge changes
/r/seduction14/01/16 09:33 PM
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Do you watch the big bang theory? If you don't you should because even though it's parody it's great on explaining WHY being yourself doesn't work for those of us who are more analytical/thought-driven. Stop thinking so much and just have fun. Drink or smoke if you have to to calm down.
/r/seduction14/01/16 08:56 PM
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You aren't bad looking. There's a jawline, your eyes are pretty, nose is normal and you have great hair. You just look soft and sweet which is great for relationships, not so great for getting laid. Start at the gym lifting on a starting strength program. Hit up the tanning bed too. Next start watching rsd videos and reading sidebar books. Then start approaching and game. Final thought - try to overcome your need for validation. Shit is weak.
/r/seduction14/01/16 06:07 PM
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Kill your expectations and your ideas of how things should be and just roll with whatever "it" is. Always be escalating but release yourself from outcomes.
/r/seduction11/01/16 05:33 PM
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Might as well see what happens. Schedule a meet up go see her for a weekend and have fun. If things go well ya'll can work together during summers etc just don't date her til she's local.
/r/seduction11/01/16 05:20 PM
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I'm trying to help. He has his shit together but is still having no success. These are the facts, if stating them makes me an asshole in your mind you probably think everyone who is getting laid are assholes
/r/seduction11/01/16 02:18 PM
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Great post. I look like this - http://imgur.com/OI3K58e and it's been a long time coming. Recently shaved my head, got new shoes and the next step is the glasses. Slowly transitioning from nerd to normal.
/r/seduction11/01/16 06:28 AM
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You are very brave posting this. You have a long, long way to go but we all start somewhere at some age. Enjoy the journey.
/r/seduction11/01/16 06:24 AM
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You have to tell her first of all. Then based on her reaction decide if it's worth pursuing.
/r/seduction11/01/16 06:15 AM
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Honestly? Sounds like your boring. You have your shit together and do right yet there's no edge - no mystery - no FUN.
/r/seduction11/01/16 06:11 AM
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I've been ramping into it. So far my record is 5. It's possible but crazy.
/r/seduction11/01/16 06:10 AM
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Yeah youtube.com/rsdfreetour
/r/seduction11/01/16 06:00 AM
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You need a reality check. If you attempt this with your current low self worth and loathing you are going to fall flat on your face and end up mgtow or redpill. Do these things in order: Lift Watch rsd videos Overcome your addictions and get your shit together ("monk mode") Approach Build a social circle Night game Day game
/r/seduction11/01/16 01:16 AM
1

Have enough friends in your city to where you have five backup people in any area you can stop by and chill with.
/r/seduction11/01/16 12:52 AM
0

Work on your glaring flaws and let her watch you become a man. Approach after you have started lifting and learning.
/r/seduction09/01/16 11:53 PM
3

Rush the frat. It's worth the money. Start texting the people you meet to meetup. You always miss the shots you don't take.
/r/seduction09/01/16 11:22 PM
0

Where did ya'll meet is a great response imo. Let her answer then change the subject.
/r/seduction08/01/16 12:20 AM
2

Bad - never give ultimatums, discuss "what are we" etc. shit is weak
/r/seduction08/01/16 12:15 AM
1

Stare confidently and maintain the stare til she looks away. Smirk for shits and giggles. Don't be one of these pussies/creepers who "gets caught" staring and immediately his eyes dart to his shoes.
/r/seduction04/01/16 07:17 PM
2

Yeah u have oneitis. Stop talking to one girl at a time.
/r/seduction04/01/16 07:15 PM
1

Ask questions. Lots of questions.
/r/seduction04/01/16 07:03 PM
1

Don't communicate your expectations the way you have here. Less talk, more action. Avoid serious topics, but don't be a "funny" guy (risk looking tryhard). Talk about sex and relationships are the best topics in my opinion.
/r/seduction04/01/16 06:56 PM
3

Good lord, 18 points? You have a lot of time on your hands... Texting, like every interaction between men and women, has two rules: Be attractive Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction04/01/16 06:52 PM
2

Provably gave off the provider vibe having serious conversations and stuff. She may think you are to serious or grown and she may want a guy who's more light hearted and fun and impulsive. 24 hours is nothing to worry about though. Text her tomorrow asking for a meetup and see if she replies.
/r/seduction04/01/16 06:49 PM
1

Same here. Excellent post.
/r/seduction04/01/16 12:03 PM
1

Go lift
/r/seduction03/01/16 07:45 PM
3

Night game and befriend some strippers.
/r/seduction03/01/16 07:39 PM
1

Shit tests are things like "we aren't having sex tonight" or "you are a player" or "my ex had a bigger cock". Basically attacks in your game that are meant to see whether you will be thrown off.
/r/seduction02/01/16 08:29 PM
2

Welcome to shit testing 101. She does not want you to throttle your sexuality. She does want to test your "ability to play the game / hang in her league" by seeing if you will change on her whim. So either: say ok and continue being sexual, or (better): agree and amplify, or (better) pressure flip.
/r/seduction02/01/16 02:09 AM
1

Your thinking is incorrect. You can choose to be assertive. Alphas are made, not born.
/r/seduction31/12/15 04:55 AM
1

It may be just me but I avoid talking about anything nerdy around hot girls... if they ask I tell them a feel-good story about how I struggled with and overcame addictions. I try very hard to avoid association with anything "losers" would do - even though I still do that "loser" stuff on occasion I make sure to not be seen doing it by women.
/r/seduction28/12/15 07:55 PM
1

Rsd videos are a great place to start - youtube.com/rsdfreetour
/r/seduction28/12/15 02:56 PM
1

You have nowhere to go but up. How's ur approach anxiety? Are u comfortable approaching strangers?
/r/seduction28/12/15 02:34 PM
1

Schedule a meetup
/r/seduction28/12/15 02:30 PM
2

3 girls in a year? Jesus christ... u need to up your numbers first and foremost. Approach approach approach.
/r/seduction28/12/15 02:29 PM
2

Next time avoid teaching your dates how to play magic. Never explicitly talk about expectations. Let things happen and when the conversation goes to "what are we" answer ambiguously.
/r/seduction28/12/15 02:16 PM
1

6-8 partners is "a lot"? Holy fuck dude
/r/seduction28/12/15 02:10 PM
1

Lift
/r/seduction27/12/15 08:28 PM
2

Get new friends.
/r/seduction22/12/15 11:29 PM
1

I work at different venues every week / weekend. For me it's the limited time I get to spend meeting groups of girls and maximizing it. Hair right, uniform sharp, show time.
/r/seduction22/12/15 11:28 PM
2

I love to sing lil Wayne when she has a boyfriend. "I have a boyfriend." What's his name, not important! Long as she listens to top 40 music it's a hit every time.
/r/seduction18/12/15 04:47 PM
1

I leave my phone on the dash in the car on the road and when I'm at the gym. Sometimes I put it in my room for an hour or two while I watch TV do laundry etc. Just because you aren't busy doesn't mean they have to know it.
/r/seduction18/12/15 04:45 PM
1

Same thing happened to me last august. Saw a girl alone and bored, didn't approach til there was only a five minute window for conversation. Didn't even get her number :(
/r/seduction18/12/15 04:42 PM
1

Gotta approach to find out.
/r/seduction18/12/15 04:38 PM
-3

Buying girls drinks is not chump-ly. Buying girls drinks before having kissed them is.
/r/seduction18/12/15 04:36 PM
5

Grieve today. Feel the grief and allow yourself to experience it in its fullness. Write a letter, post on r/offmychest, and/or listen to sad songs. Tomorrow throw away the letter. Delete your post. Change your music playlist. Get over it tomorrow by feeling everything today... get it out of your system.
/r/seduction17/12/15 08:36 PM
1

Approach like you would any other girl. Assuming you do approach girls...
/r/seduction17/12/15 01:45 PM
5

https://youtu.be/IR1XtjEa460
/r/seduction17/12/15 01:44 PM
1

How old are you? Some thoughts on careers that fit well into the lifestyle. .. bartending or bouncer casino work cruise line musician or deejay firefighter
/r/seduction16/12/15 04:53 PM
1

Next time up the physical contact. Friends don't hold hands or kiss.
/r/seduction15/12/15 04:31 PM
2

Yeah keep contact zero to minimum til the day of. See other girls.
/r/seduction14/12/15 06:09 PM
4

Retail you are fine. I'm assuming you make near minimum wage.
/r/seduction14/12/15 12:43 PM
0

If and only if you use seduction only for relationships
/r/seduction13/12/15 03:49 AM
1

It all starts with working out and getting educated. Lift and watch as many rsd videos as you can on youtube.
/r/seduction10/12/15 05:22 PM
-4

See you in a few weeks bitching about the friend zone asking us for advice.
/r/seduction07/12/15 06:06 PM
1

If you can't get laid using game you sure as hell can't get social proof using game. Game gets you laid first and foremost - social proof comes from your reputation once you start living the lifestyle.
/r/seduction07/12/15 05:50 PM
2

The whole point of this sub is to fuck women.
/r/seduction07/12/15 04:34 PM
1

You have to amog which will probably make your friends mad.
/r/seduction07/12/15 04:31 PM
2

Stop texting her platonically and start texting her logistics to meet up.
/r/seduction07/12/15 04:25 PM
2

I live in charlotte. Not looking to sarge at this time but would like to bounce ideas off you, work out occasionally, etc. Pm me.
/r/seduction07/12/15 04:23 PM
2

Do not ask are you flirting with me now. Escalate verbally then physically. Example: she maintains eye contact and says "sometimes I get lonely". You maintain eye contact and say "I have weed vodka and ice cream at the house depending on what you are feeling." Then take her hand.
/r/seduction07/12/15 04:22 PM
0

Building off the other comment weed could help too.
/r/seduction06/12/15 08:53 PM
3

Redditor for redditor r/r4r
/r/seduction05/12/15 06:10 PM
3

There is no one right way to treat a woman. I suggest you be the man she fell in love with, don't turn into a pussy or get comfortable, and keep her on her toes with surprises, new ways to be fun, cool shit during your downtime, etc. If she leaves, it's ok cuz there are 4 billion women out there who you can date or fuck.
/r/seduction04/12/15 06:12 PM
2

Definitely. I'm no pornstar but I have experience and leave few partners frustrated.
/r/seduction04/12/15 06:00 PM
17

There are some cute girls on r4r I've met 5 this year
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:58 PM
244

Yeah its the speech I give when girls want to know if I'm looking for a relationship.
/r/seduction04/12/15 03:39 PM
189

Hell no. I dont have my shit together, I am messy. I'm loud and have no filter so I often say inappropriate stuff too loudly. My car is a pos I live in the hood and my job pays very little money. Definitely not relationship material.
/r/seduction04/12/15 03:16 PM
0

The three essentials are: Confidence Charisma Ability to keep your shit together Fashion fitness etiquette game etc. are all ways to get confident and charismatic.
/r/seduction04/12/15 02:46 PM
1

I do not.
/r/seduction03/12/15 06:27 PM
1

Facebook is for validation only. Don't comment or like on validation - seeking posts. Do use Facebook messenger - very useful for getting numbers.
/r/seduction03/12/15 06:12 PM
0

It's not very hard just copy pasta through your contacts. Takes 5 mins tops.
/r/seduction02/12/15 10:24 PM
1

"You aren't gonna disappear are u?" "I'll be in ur wildest dreams." Thank Taylor swift for that one.
/r/seduction02/12/15 07:17 PM
1

Text less words less often and less quickly and this won't happen. I text every 3-7 days to tell a short story, send a hilarious pic, or just put a random crazy opener. If they text back I wait a bit then try to schedule a meetup.
/r/seduction02/12/15 05:09 PM
116

Or alcohol or weed or her friends or her anxiety etc. Its kinda cute tbh lmfao
/r/seduction01/12/15 06:41 PM
520

Girls aren't actively looking for anything, things just happen. Never forget this. Be the thing that just happens.
/r/seduction01/12/15 05:45 PM
1

Get a quick job through an agency so you have a source of income.
/r/seduction01/12/15 03:30 PM
1

Fuck yes. Great reply op take notes
/r/seduction30/11/15 09:10 PM
11

It's ok to feel whatever you feel as long as you can control your ACTIONS. Feel your type of way, stay present and let that feeling pass, then continue with what you were doing. As long as you don't do anything stupid like send an I miss you text or why aren't you responding etc. You will be fine.
/r/seduction30/11/15 04:42 PM
7

Why do some women "lead us on"? Because they don't know how to lead and are trying and failing to progress the relationship. Gotta escalate sir.
/r/seduction27/11/15 08:55 AM
1

No fear. Ever. Tackle this first.
/r/seduction26/11/15 08:33 PM
2

Bromances are not the way life works. People come and go, acquaintances and friendships grow / fade and relationships just happen. The reason you are not having social success may be because you are too needy? Are you asking to hang out a lot with the same people? Lower your standards for friends and add more people to your circle.
/r/seduction26/11/15 07:04 PM
1

You are probably coming across as wealthy / kind / nice / provider which is great for relationships but will dry them up short term since they "may have found the one and don't want to fuck things up by putting out too soon"
/r/seduction23/11/15 03:05 PM
2

Lower your standards, a lot. Older women at bars, single moms, girls with fupas, etc. are mostly invisible women who would love to get laid as much as you would.
/r/seduction23/11/15 03:03 PM
7

Don't be captain save-a-ho. SEX ONLY. You know she is capable of sleeping with others while in a relationship, don't be the sucker who gets cheated on.
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:36 AM
1

Logistics isn't an issue? She comes by herself?
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:29 AM
2

Exactly. Six months ago I didn't open my mouth ever anywhere.
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:05 AM
1

Great analogy on the seeing punches coming and knowing what to do but not reacting. I had two good conversations with a Hispanic girl around my age and an 18 year old over the weekend off cold approach but didn't # close even though I knew what to do. Motivation for next time.
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:47 AM
1

Text her to hang out. Meetup and establish early your sexuality and attraction to her. Get drunk high or stay sober whatever she is feeling. Lots of physical contact. Kiss. Pull. Bang. Don't over complicate things due to her being a friend... if she's willing to be with u one on one post breakup she knows whats up and probably wants the d
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:51 AM
0

Text her logistics to a meetup. At the venue stay distant but funny and social. Switch venues then turn up the physical contact, kissing, etc. Pull and bang.
/r/seduction13/11/15 05:01 PM
1

Rsd is a good place to start
/r/seduction13/11/15 04:45 PM
1

Chalk it up to experience and move on. Do not contact her unless she contacts you.
/r/seduction13/11/15 05:17 AM
1

You suppose correctly. Personally I set simple goals each day to make sure I'm staying on track: Approach as many women (and men) as possible. I try to greet / smile at everyone. Do either a social meetup or social sport each night if I'm not working. If I am working that night go to the gym that day instead of watching tv or redditting.
/r/seduction13/11/15 04:42 AM
-1

If she asks tell her you had abusive and psychotic exes and don't like talking about them.
/r/seduction13/11/15 04:36 AM
1

It's about what you do with your free time ... actions speak louder than words. If you do cool interesting shit during your downtime your confidence / charisma / "having your shit together" will be apparent.
/r/seduction13/11/15 04:32 AM
2

If u set expectations that you are the side and fuck her well she can and will put you as that "fuckboy" yeah i hate that term too. But damned if it don't work.
/r/seduction12/11/15 03:53 AM
1

You must not have a high libido. No offense intended.
/r/seduction11/11/15 10:14 AM
2

Yup. Nothing wrong with being the side dick especially since all it takes is 1-2 texts a week to get laid without having to spend a cent.
/r/seduction11/11/15 10:04 AM
1

Because the thrill is in the chase
/r/seduction11/11/15 09:58 AM
2

Just lift and have social hobbies in addition to what you already study. Good physique and social acumen will take you very far especislly in a culture where masculinity is rare.
/r/seduction11/11/15 09:57 AM
1

The book is on the sidebar yet you have not read it nor will you consider reading it because it isnt an easily palatable instant gratification solution. No wonder you get all smily and docile around groups.
/r/seduction11/11/15 06:03 AM
1

Complete and utter bullshit. I'm 26 and an 18 year old is better now than when i was 18 because i actually know what I'm doing and won't hurt her. To answer your question stop giving fucks. Lighten your course load join a frat and slay pussy. Weed is an aphrodesiac. Lower your standards.
/r/seduction11/11/15 05:57 AM
1

Read the 48 laws of power for sure.
/r/seduction11/11/15 05:56 AM
0

It has different effects for different people. I started at college and went from cs and d's to straight as and deans list.
/r/seduction11/11/15 12:08 AM
0

Do u smoke weed? You should if u don't
/r/seduction10/11/15 10:05 AM
1

Never ever be scared. Do what you have to to address that fear asap - find the reason for your fears and solve your problem. Lack of experience? Start going out 5 nights a week. Lack of confidence? Lift. Fear of rejection? Work a short term sales gig. Boring + shitty jokes? Watch stand up comedy.
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:24 PM
1

Take a small course load next semester. Focus on your frat and your social skills. Watch every rsd video you can find. Lift. Stop making excuses about stress and reduce your stress by learning to overcome it. Sacrifice graduating one semester late in exchange for getting buff and learning how to approach and getting the confidence you need to be successful in life? Fuck yes.
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:21 PM
1

No glasses
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:17 PM
1

Smoke weed. Practice stoicism. See more girls.
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:16 PM
1

Women get hit on constantly so their attention span is short. It's not that they lose interest they just can't keep up with you from the rest of the thirsty hopefuls.
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:14 AM
0

I mean if she snaps anything like if she messages you respond with "I didn't put out because I was caught up"
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:13 AM
0

Do respond if she comes at you. Tell her you were on the fence cuz u thought u had feelings for someone else but things fell through so that's why you didn't fuck.
/r/seduction09/11/15 10:51 AM
2

More like complete and total radio silence. Let things cool off until she says what's up.
/r/seduction09/11/15 10:32 AM
6

Next time she makes sexual innuendo fuck her right in the pussy. She even offered to use her condoms how the fuck didn't you get laid
/r/seduction09/11/15 08:24 AM
2

So many labels. So much talk about defining ya'lls relationship. No no no no no no no.
/r/seduction09/11/15 08:00 AM
1

Coffee in college nah... invite her to parties not coffee. Also don't talk about studying or majors or shit like that you should be an escape from the grind not part of it.
/r/seduction09/11/15 07:43 AM
1

U look pretty good. Bulk up those arms and study and approach and you will be staying pussy within the next four months -- just in time for spring/summer
/r/seduction09/11/15 04:54 AM
1

I think the game is an easy fun read
/r/seduction09/11/15 04:02 AM
2

You have to start with yourself first. Don't try to solve your problems by finding a woman to help you cope. Solve them yourself so you don't bring baggage into your relationships. Get a gym membership and start lifting stronglifts. Watch rsd videos and stand up comedy. Fill your time with cool shit instead of wack shit. This would be a good start.
/r/seduction09/11/15 04:01 AM
1

I love to text as much as the next guy. Get enough girls to where you can have a platonic text buddy or two so you can stay focused with the ones you are trying to lay.
/r/seduction09/11/15 02:47 AM
3

You got way to excited and kept hammering her about plans and pressuring her. Next time be much less curious and dont mention your plans or go into detail about your business. Your life is a ride, she can ride with you or you can find someone else. A better text would have been - hey happy birthday again. What was the name of that hibachi place? ... cool lets check it out tuesday round 8 to celebrate ur belated bday. Pick u up round 7? Then if she declines radio silence unless she offers somethi…
/r/seduction08/11/15 11:06 PM
2

Youtube.com/rsdfreetour
/r/seduction05/11/15 06:45 PM
7

The key to a relationship is to change nothing about your game. Treating girls like special snowflakes dries them up.
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:43 AM
1

We have a redpill leak
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:48 AM
1

Watch all 84 videos. They are extremely helpful
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:44 AM
5

It's ok to fail. Way to get the number. Remember to never close the door. Better to keep a revolving door: some come and go but others come back around. You know you aren't even looking for a date anyways. You are looking to fuck asap and dates are one way to get there. So are parties. It's basic sales: meet a rejection with an alternative then close again.
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:37 AM
2

Reply it's cool u can come to X party with me this wknd if u want to just have fun. Great fr by the way
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:25 AM
1

Rsd videos on youtube would be a good place to start
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:45 AM
10

Shoot straight, take no shit, make intentions clear, confidence & charisma.
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:02 AM
6

Tell him u are not settling and that you chose wrong. Do not call him nice or sweet or good or a soulmate. Call him bad and confusing and hot and your guilty pleasure. Lift him as your alpha even if he isn't - guys don't like being called providers they want to be called leaders, amazing in bed, manly, etc.
/r/seduction05/11/15 07:43 AM
3

"I got weed and liquor and ice cream. Get over here now" Worst case scenario she rejects you then just go silent. Stop only talking to one girl at a time
/r/seduction03/11/15 01:45 PM
1

Don't get so worked up over a girl. So your friend scored and you didnt. You should be talking to enough women to where you don't even care what your friend is doing. Since you are learning ask him to give you some texting pointers. Here's a few -- no mundane texting. Things like hey what's up or good morning or im bored no relationship talk. Never talk about feelings over text. no friendzone shit. Never text about what outfit to wear or exes or family / friend drama. no emoticons or lols, leave…
/r/seduction03/11/15 01:41 PM
2

Keep it sexual. "What was last night" It was amazing. Your pussy was so tight and wet! Every time I close my eyes I think about you fucking my cock. When she goes to feelings etc. continue with the sex talk.
/r/seduction03/11/15 01:17 PM
2

Eye contact. Encourage them to look at you when ya'll talk.
/r/seduction03/11/15 12:37 PM
5

Bartending / barbacking
/r/seduction03/11/15 12:05 PM
2

Heard women at yoga are really wary of guys using yoga to meet women. Is this true?
/r/seduction03/11/15 12:05 PM
3

Just. Do. It. There is no perfect moment.
/r/seduction02/11/15 07:48 PM
0

Watch stand up comedy and use some relevant one liners.
/r/seduction02/11/15 07:48 PM
2

You are one-at-a-timing probably. Have many girls invited to the same thing then take out the one who agrees.
/r/seduction02/11/15 05:23 PM
3

You were REALLY pissed and I get it. But if you stick with this and keep improving + getting experience flakes like this will amuse you and you will simply call someone else. Do not get emotionally invested in girls until they prove their worth. Even when you feel they are that special someone always be prepared for and expect flakes. People are flaky - such is human nature. Be less angry and more flexible. Making "plans" is fine but don't get mad when they fall through simply make new plans. La…
/r/seduction02/11/15 03:15 PM
2

Read the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene
/r/seduction02/11/15 02:59 PM
0

Because you're special ... in a short bus kinda way :)
/r/seduction01/11/15 10:26 PM
2

Lesson 1 - never slut shame. Be fun and awesome not angsty and self-righteous. Lesson 2 - never try to "make" anything happen. Just do what you know works and have fun. Outcome independece. Lesson 3 - text for logistics and occasional humor or hobby stuff u have in common. No good morning or how u been or im bored what's up
/r/seduction01/11/15 09:30 PM
1

Uhhhh text her?
/r/seduction01/11/15 08:02 PM
1

You are very fortunate to have discovered this community at 19. Some guys like myself were arrogant at that age and thought change was beneath us. I'm glad you are willing to come out of your shell and start doing the work required to talk to, kiss, touch, fuck, and have relationships with women. Your post is extremely wordy and roundabout with a lot of useless information and emotion. You seem angsty as fuck - but that is ok because WE WERE ALL THERE AT ONE TIME. Clean up the way you act speak …
/r/seduction01/11/15 07:58 PM
4

Marijuana could be an option
/r/seduction01/11/15 07:36 PM
1

Never ever be afraid. Cliche but "we have nothing to fear but fear itself" Text "hey its albert" right fucking now
/r/seduction01/11/15 07:36 PM
2

Check r/socialskills top posts and sidebar and watch the youtube vids.
/r/seduction01/11/15 06:06 PM
2

In the future keep being fun but stay controlled. Get high but not so high you wander off like a wierdo
/r/seduction01/11/15 05:28 PM
-2

Not true. Most runners are skinny and have no arms. Even moderate lifting gets you biceps and bulk - both universal panty droppers
/r/seduction01/11/15 05:26 PM
1

Shave it and grow a beard if possible.
/r/seduction01/11/15 05:15 PM
-3

I'm white so my perspective could be irrelevant. After my opener / intro I ask them if they've seen Kevin Hart and then make a funny, relevant quote from his stand up with motions and everything.
/r/seduction01/11/15 05:12 PM
1

Baby steps. Lift weights. You must start here because being strong directly leads to confidence. Confidence = strength + experience. Watch YouTube off r/socialskills Watch stand up comedy a lot. Being funny directly leads to charisma. Charisma = social acumen + humor.
/r/seduction01/11/15 04:57 PM
0

Probably because you only text them for a date. I like to send hilarious pics every few weeks or text about weed I got or group events I'll be at (not dates). Texting should never be mundane or about pointless bullshit but there's a middle ground you should try to find if you are looking for fwbs instead on ons
/r/seduction01/11/15 04:53 PM
1

Do you watch rsd videos? Do you lift at all? How much time do you spend online / gaming / watching tv?
/r/seduction30/10/15 11:50 PM
1

What a heartless comment. You are saying he shouldn't be a near virgin unless he is religious. Sad thing is ur right.
/r/seduction30/10/15 11:47 PM
2

Are any pickup sports popular there that you are familiar with. Great way to start building a social circle and catching acquaintances around town.
/r/seduction30/10/15 11:44 PM
3

Persistence over time. So I wait 3 days, then 3 weeks, maybe 3 months if I send something without getting a reply.
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:27 PM
3

Also it makes you much better in bed since you can get hard quicker and u don't have death grip
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:12 PM
10

This man knows of what he speaks op. The longest I've gone was 6 days, by the third day I was being sexual constantly without even realizing it.
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:44 AM
2

This is fucking amazing. Kill your ego, go out there and be FUN! Such an important lesson. Keep it up!
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:41 AM
3

Lift
/r/seduction29/10/15 10:19 PM
1

Eye contact. So hot when done right.
/r/seduction29/10/15 06:31 AM
4

A huge part of what attracts women to a man is his ability & willingness to play (and do well at) the game. Flakes, shit tests, pointless texts, endless talking, etc are all part of the game. If you don't like it lower your standards or be gay.
/r/seduction26/10/15 07:18 AM
1

DV is weak as hell
/r/seduction26/10/15 07:14 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction23/10/15 06:58 PM
1

Why were y'all discussing politics and stuff anyways? Be fun, not serious.
/r/seduction23/10/15 04:25 PM
1

You can lead a horse to water
/r/seduction23/10/15 04:18 PM
1

Have u watched rsd videos? YouTube.com/rsdfreetour watch all 84 of them.
/r/seduction23/10/15 04:10 PM
2

If he asks (which he won't) tell him he was on recommended friends
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:45 AM
2

I'd be totally honest. Hey I'm x, what u reading? ... I'm shy, so it took a ton of effort to come talk to you. ... Do you like to be out and about or are you a more indoorsy type? ... Me too, ....
/r/seduction20/10/15 01:53 AM
3

Sex gets you tired and dirty and shitty smelling. Who wants to do that?
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:43 PM
-1

Gym dates!
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:13 PM
1

Who says you have to pursue romance?
/r/seduction19/10/15 10:06 PM
1

Don't say I find it hard to ask her out because ... And then make an excuse. Be honest with yourself: I find it hard to ask ANY girl out because I like my comfort zone.
/r/seduction19/10/15 09:30 PM
6

One of my old college buddies was on top of his fraternity's leaderboard for number of girls for months. He was good looking but he was in the gym a lot. He also went out every night, even Sunday. A lot of his lays came from drunk girls at college bars, even though he was underage his looks, physique, and game got him tons of pussy. Also frat parties, other house parties, 420 friendly ent girls, etc.
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:01 PM
1

Why THE FUCK would you spend a Saturday night alone in bed. All because of a rejection? No no no no no.
/r/seduction18/10/15 08:58 PM
4

I daresay all, ALL men do struggle or have struggled with guilt about their penis, being ashamed of "defiling", etc.
/r/seduction18/10/15 02:53 PM
2

YouTube.com/rsdfreetour
/r/seduction17/10/15 01:18 AM
5

Be sexual. Rsd is a great resource on this. Through your demeanor / swagger you can give off sexual vibes.
/r/seduction16/10/15 08:17 PM
13

Watching a lot of stand-up comedy did it for me.
/r/seduction16/10/15 07:04 PM
18

It all comes down to whether you are a fun person or not. If you are relaxed and fun, you are laid back. If you are relaxed but aren't fun, you're boring
/r/seduction16/10/15 05:58 PM
2

The obvious solution is not to get more female friends. Right now girls perceive you as castrated. The obvious solution is to grow a sack, balls, and penis. But this takes time. Start by watching your first rsd video: https://youtu.be/5lqo86IvOJ0 Good luck out there and don't forget - most of us were manlets too.
/r/seduction16/10/15 05:26 PM
2

You will find an outlet for your grief. Many choose vidya, porn, alcohol, addictive things. Hopefully you will be one if the few who starts hitting the gym, getting a tan, and learning to talk to women. Your choice.
/r/seduction16/10/15 05:18 PM
1

Going out of your way for her will turn her off. Read the sidebar.
/r/seduction16/10/15 05:07 PM
1

Stop worrying about your feelings and emotions. Be fun, confident, and FUN. Be outcome independent / indifferent as fuck. Smooth and unconcerned. Good luck.
/r/seduction16/10/15 01:53 AM
1

Fuck the way you feel / felt while kissing its a threesome dude. Make it happen.
/r/seduction16/10/15 01:03 AM
1

This is meant within the context of her not being available til your scheduled meetup, not that she is bored and available before the date.
/r/seduction15/10/15 07:41 PM
3

Netflix and chill means have sex
/r/seduction15/10/15 06:00 PM
3

I disagree with everything about this text. Whatever works for you but do you honestly have success with these kind of texts?
/r/seduction15/10/15 05:37 PM
-5

Reply "its ok lets just have fun, see u tomorrow"
/r/seduction15/10/15 05:28 PM
0

DO NOT TEXT HER. This is the hardest mistake to avoid. When y'all text schedule a meetup and say ur busy. Nothing dries her up faster than platonic, mundane texting.
/r/seduction15/10/15 05:07 PM
1

Hey its stig
/r/seduction14/10/15 01:33 PM
1

Start working out, getting hobbies and reconnecting with old friends. All it takes is a phone call.
/r/seduction13/10/15 08:55 AM
1

Whenever a girl accuses me of just wanting to fuck I tell them I want to do their hair and bake cookies and watch netflix and talk about boys. In an over-the-top way ofc.
/r/seduction13/10/15 05:58 AM
1

Using shorter words, more common language, but every now and then hitting them with a big word or a genius fact will drive them crazy. Knowing ur so smart but having no idea when you will use it - plus the question why you hide it.
/r/seduction13/10/15 05:55 AM
-6

You have a pretty smile. You smile a lot don't you. How's you and that smile doing today
/r/seduction13/10/15 05:46 AM
-2

You need to show him rsd on YouTube. Whether he watches the videos or not is his choice.
/r/seduction13/10/15 05:39 AM
1

Go for the kiss.
/r/seduction13/10/15 01:37 AM
1

The only way to find out where you are is to escalate. Yes it takes balls. Yes it turns women on when you are straightforward and don't play games. Generic template - approach, build trust, touching, kissing, sleeping together.
/r/seduction12/10/15 09:46 PM
1

You start by approaching instead of sitting there feeling some type of way. Hey I'm Brooklyn, whats up.
/r/seduction12/10/15 09:29 PM
2

Feel the pain in its entirety. Don't try to ignore it, cry if you need to whatever. Then move on. Stay no contact. Understand that it's the right thing to do - contacting her is wrong on every level - do not contact her for any reason. Get back in the gym. Watch rsd videos, learn to approach and seduce. Start night game. Then day game. The best revenge is to live well.
/r/seduction12/10/15 12:16 PM
1

Good question. I try to schedule things to do together as soon as possible so I can keep moving forward when interest is high. Since this was something we were doing anyways I invited her to come along.
/r/seduction11/10/15 08:30 PM
1

On those sluggish days drink an energy drink or two even if you don't have plans, then hit the weights. Do a few approaches after your workout.
/r/seduction11/10/15 08:46 AM
2

Offer to pitch in $20 or $40 to the host at the next party. Instant social proof.
/r/seduction11/10/15 08:43 AM
2

Of course I would! There are only two rules to follow in pickup: be attractive don't be unattractive Declining purely to prove that you are mad about a flake is unattractive. So if you're available accept the invitation. Worst case scenario is another flake which is OK since you should have plenty of friends / other girls to chill with.
/r/seduction10/10/15 10:56 PM
1

It doesn't matter why one girl says no. In sales we say some will, some won't, so what? Keep approaching, dont let a bad day or week get you down.
/r/seduction10/10/15 06:21 PM
1

Try these openers: you draw quite a crowd (if alone) got a light (if she's in a group, and u have cigs) hey can I ask you a quick question well hello there stranger, with your _____ (huge earrings, trippy necklace, dyed hair, cool shirt / purse, giant diamond ring, whatever)
/r/seduction09/10/15 11:21 PM
0

So there is this girl I stopped reading here. We are here to discuss general strategies, not to magically get you with your oneitis. Go talk to other women and approach her like any other girl. The more you pine for her like a needy little runt the less she is going to want anything to do with u.
/r/seduction09/10/15 11:09 PM
1

I think you should stop getting bitter and angry or feeling some type of way after rejections. Keep approaching, work the numbers, and your schedule will fill to the point where you will forget a flaker's name after a week not out of spite but because you are to busy being awesome to remember.
/r/seduction09/10/15 11:04 PM
3

You want ur cake and to eat it too. Good luck with that.
/r/seduction09/10/15 09:23 AM
1

Check out Matthew Hussey on YouTube. His advice is always spot-on plus he's extremely handsome, no homo.
/r/seduction09/10/15 09:22 AM
1

"Netflix and chill" works best
/r/seduction07/10/15 05:57 PM
1

stop using emojis stop saying LOL get to the point. Hey sup. U bored / wrud. What are you looking for? Bam. save serious or complicated topics like education or opinions on a relationship for face-to-face or a phone call.
/r/seduction07/10/15 05:56 PM
1

Your oneitis isn't going to end well. This subs advice is not meant for one girl. Go fuck other women, get experience, and talk to her along the way.
/r/seduction07/10/15 05:48 PM
1

Ur post sounds extremely scientific. I can imagine you counting the minutes and seconds in your head while analyzing exactly how many characters per text you ought to send. Stop doing this immediately. Be more natural and less forced, texting and conversations should happen organically, not planned out on an annotated spreadsheet with timestamps.
/r/seduction07/10/15 05:38 PM
1

You need to get with less hot girls for a bit to get experience. The next hot girl you become friends with hook up with her less attractive friend. Now go for the hot ones.
/r/seduction07/10/15 12:10 AM
1

Stop focusing all your energy on one "target". Seductiveness at its core is having options; your oneitis will not end well.
/r/seduction07/10/15 12:08 AM
1

Eye contact. Smirk instead of smile. Develop swagger. What is swagger? It's like confidence in how you speak, socialize, communicate, BUT it is smoothness. So you speak effortlessly, you walk with an air about you: not of arrogance but self-assuredness.
/r/seduction07/10/15 12:04 AM
1

Good luck balancing social skills with vidya. The two are like milk and cranberries.
/r/seduction06/10/15 07:59 PM
1

Ur dead wrong. Read the sidebar. Unless he is gaming less than an hour a day which is 99% unlikely.
/r/seduction06/10/15 07:58 PM
1

Get over your fear and go out at night. Stop being a little pussy and flirt with girls. Lift and watch rsd if you don't already, which I highly doubt you are doing.
/r/seduction06/10/15 07:55 PM
2

Lift motherfucker
/r/seduction06/10/15 07:52 PM
1

We need more people like you willing to look at pics and listen to short audio field reports. Excellent idea / offer.
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:48 AM
1

Text 1: you never txt her an eta. Text 2: maybe another time was cringe-inducing neediness Text 3: so commanding. Very robotic "come now" "come then" "come later" again more neediness Text 4: horrible text convo 0/10 Unbelievably bad. Text 5 was fine.
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:38 AM
1

Join a fraternity. As a comp sci student u may have an advantage in that you are smart, frats need to have a certain average GPA. Your social awkwardness / fear around women will evaporate.
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:34 AM
1

It is your role as a man in a relationship to "sweep her off her feet" with your confidence, charisma, swagger, and sexuality. Don't overcomplicate things by trying to analyze her emotional states or what she says. Just be amazing and she will follow you to the ends of the earth. How to be amazing: lift know how to talk to women have a great friend group + social circle own your shit How to not be amazing: Dadbod addictions weak frame shitty in bed friendless / socially awkward
/r/seduction04/10/15 09:16 AM
1

Bartending and barbacking at events, hospitality staffing. Very positively.
/r/seduction03/10/15 10:16 PM
1

The I don't talk emotionally was a rejection. Simply say thank you for being honest, I enjoyed talking with you, then leave.
/r/seduction03/10/15 10:16 PM
-10

I think the number one takeaway is that you must lift, read, and watch videos consistently in order to get the foundation. Lifting and learning stirs a hunger that motivates one to begin going out and becoming cool.
/r/seduction03/10/15 09:45 PM
1

You went from beta incel to a sexual incel and the thought of that to them is disgusting. Work on your swagger, nonverbal communication, and your conversational skills to stop giving off those incel vibes and become a sexual man.
/r/seduction03/10/15 08:06 AM
1

Sounds like you have the physical and the book reading + video watching. Next is night game. You need to be out at night, even if only for 2 hours a night, practicing what you have trained for and read about / watched. Go out Every. Single. Night.
/r/seduction03/10/15 07:51 AM
1

Cut all contact, no explanation, no closure. Immediately.
/r/seduction03/10/15 07:45 AM
-4

Because you did your thing with the girls, which was great but then you went with high spirits to chess club. Nerdy hobbies are great for adults but in high school you don't want to be affiliated with that sort of thing. Spend more time improving on your social skills and save chess for a less critical time of your development.
/r/seduction02/10/15 11:30 AM
3

Extended eye contact then a wink. It's on.
/r/seduction02/10/15 08:29 AM
1

Just start texting them about the girls you are with. A little jealousy goes a very long ways.
/r/seduction02/10/15 08:28 AM
1

Don't talk about nerd shit like your hard drive specs.
/r/seduction02/10/15 08:21 AM
-2

I'm not reading your sad little tale of the special snowflake that had a run of bad luck. You are nothing. Now go read models and start a gym regimen knowing you have nowhere to go but up. Know that you will be tempted to stop lifting, stop reading, and stop approaching many times. Especially being new getting ur ass kicked. Good luck. I hope you stick with it and eventually get a girlfriend. In order to love someone else, however, you must love yourself and so far your life choices have been ex…
/r/seduction02/10/15 08:17 AM
1

Girls just want to have fun. Not talk about "topics they are passionate about" with guys they know are trying to get in their pants. Be fun first and discuss passions etc. with someone you decide to date.
/r/seduction02/10/15 06:13 AM
1

Try lifting instead
/r/seduction02/10/15 06:11 AM
-3

Chess club? Oh god. Glad what you're doing is working but it sounds like you got incredibly lucky
/r/seduction02/10/15 06:00 AM
1

Because I can, and that freedom thrills me. To be able to approach and talk to people after so many years of fear ... i want to approach anyone and everyone now.
/r/seduction02/10/15 05:54 AM
2

Charlotte
/r/seduction01/10/15 05:53 AM
1

Watch stand up comedy. Get some good one liners and short stories.
/r/seduction01/10/15 12:50 AM
0

Do you watch rsd videos? You should watch rsd videos. YouTube.com/rsdfreetour
/r/seduction01/10/15 12:46 AM
1

Gordon Ramsay's YouTube channel has some great vids on cooking at home. He's very "alpha" in the kitchen u could say.
/r/seduction30/09/15 02:13 AM
1

I won't even look at women on the light rail where I live. They sit next to me and I just Reddit all the way home. We all have our journeys.
/r/seduction30/09/15 02:05 AM
1

My school the girls were a bell curve (lots of average, some hotties and fatties and 10s and uglies) about the same in sororities and outside of them.
/r/seduction30/09/15 01:58 AM
1

I hope you take my advice on the dinner and a movie at yours. If you can cook plus can provide alcohol you are gonna have a good time.
/r/seduction30/09/15 01:43 AM
1

You are right. I confused your thread with this one - https://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/3mvrjv/so_i_got_a_number_from_a_girl_today_now_what/ Sorry for the mistake, pretty embarrassing. As far as rainy date nights underage, your options are pretty limited since its raining and she can't drink. Invite her to your place for dinner and a movie. HUGE DIFFERENCE from going out to dinner and a movie. Assuming u have alcohol or weed, she can drink while you cook or help you cook then y'all can…
/r/seduction30/09/15 01:22 AM
-2

I see you are a newbie so imma be gentle. Get ur ass in the gym! More confidence, higher t levels, good male role models. Plus at college its free. Put down the controller / remote and pick up some weights. As far as your date goes you are at a severe disadvantage given you don't lift. I would chalk this up as a learning experience, explain to her that you don't get out much but that she has inspired you to change that, then see if she will date you later on once you have some strength + experie…
/r/seduction30/09/15 01:02 AM
1

That or they set their standards too damn high. Most of the guys I met in college were all looking for the perfect innocent flowers when there were plenty of hot altgirls, frat mattresses, stoner chicks, etc. People buy into the bullshit society feeds them about only dating "virtuous women" and then they wonder why they can't get laid. That innocent religious chaste pure virgin girl probably sucks in bed ... Just saying ... /rant
/r/seduction30/09/15 12:50 AM
2

Gym date, comedy club, brewery tour, or a dive bar are all indoors.
/r/seduction30/09/15 12:38 AM
1

I still have to much aa to daygame. I'm working right now on building a social circle of cool people - hoping the exposure to awesomeness will help me become more awesome I guess. I also watch a lot of rsd which has helped me tremendously in night game and in the social circle building.
/r/seduction30/09/15 12:34 AM
2

You may have to get a dumb phone. Desperate times, desperate measures.
/r/seduction30/09/15 12:30 AM
1

Text her with new plans.
/r/seduction30/09/15 12:29 AM
1

Watch stand up comedy. Learn wit and good one-liners. Profit.
/r/seduction29/09/15 11:23 PM
1

The reason people wish they had the college experience is because they wasted those years in an LTR, being heartbroken or as incels.
/r/seduction29/09/15 11:22 PM
1

I would learn pickup before trying entrepreneurship. The skills you learn are invaluable in the business world. Plus 16 hour work days blow dick.
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:44 PM
8

You failed the shit test. A better answer would have been "I talk to everyone". She left and slept with another guy because she either thought you were lying or figured you wouldn't have the balls to make a move. Stop texting her platitudes and conversational bullshit - you are gonna be an orbiter if you don't stop. No more good morning or how's ur day or hey u busy etc. Text to meetup at x at a time.
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:38 PM
1

It is wierd without having taken the steps up to the point where its natural. Daygaming without fundamentals will be awkward and humiliating. Fucking lift Watch rsd videos and read books Start night game Build a social circle for daytime events. Start day game.
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:34 PM
1

How to talk to anyone anytime anywhere by Larry king
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:28 PM
1

Wit. Wit wit and more wit. Nothing matters in a conversation except her laughing and finding you attractive. You can't begin to arrange for the meetup before attraction is built.
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:21 PM
1

And your virginity. Just go to the bunny ranch and get it over with.
/r/seduction28/09/15 06:02 PM
2

The first success after so much apathy and excuses is such a kick in the pants, huh? U will be shocked how quickly u improve now that you are motivated.
/r/seduction28/09/15 04:36 PM
2

Text game gets logistics for a date. Somewhere in the convo you should be texting the following: What are you looking for? Are you local? Do you live alone? Then text something cool you are doing and invite her.
/r/seduction27/09/15 05:43 PM
1

So say "where did you get that?" and start a conversation.
/r/seduction25/09/15 05:09 PM
0

Why are you complementing anyways?
/r/seduction25/09/15 04:53 PM
1

As lonely, introverted men we often don't fall for "this" girl. We fall for ANY girl who bats an eyelash and then chase for 6.5 years without even a kiss. Next girl(s) that comes along remember there are 4 BILLION others. Also if you are only being approached vs. approaching you are doing it wrong.
/r/seduction25/09/15 12:44 PM
1

I love casual sex. I consider it to be my gift: a great time, an awesome encounter(s) to encourage her and help her understand that there actually are good men out there. I try to avoid ons if possible by not drinking too much and avoiding sloppy drunk girls. Most of my casual partners have come from online dating since they specify not looking for a relationship.
/r/seduction24/09/15 05:46 PM
2

You sound tryhard. On a dancefloor everyone dances. In a cafeteria everyone eats. At a sporting event everyone watched the game. Likewise in a group everyone converses with each other. It is silly to outdance everyone or outeat everyone or outwatch everyone or outtalk everyone. Just talk to people and get their contact info.
/r/seduction23/09/15 11:38 AM
17

Never pour your heart out to anyone. You are a man
/r/seduction23/09/15 11:30 AM
2

Be the strong and silent type. Learn great one-liners so when you do speak its hilarious.
/r/seduction23/09/15 09:51 AM
2

Try opening with "how do you do it" then say something that y'all are opposites on. Example - tan girl at the store. Eye contact, smirk, how do you do it? "Excuse me?" Your skin is tan and mine is not (show her the back of my arm), I've been going to the tanning bed for three months now but progress is super slow. Conversation from there. Do not open with instant validation like "you look adorable" keep posting and practicing. More openers: you draw quite a crowd (if she's alone) yall got a ligh…
/r/seduction23/09/15 08:41 AM
2

Sex isn't some Pandora's box of curses. its actually a huge confidence boost to get it out of the way. Don't let what society tells you hold you back. You make your own destiny, not them. Notice I'm not suggesting you save it or lose it - you have to decide your own morality.
/r/seduction21/09/15 06:40 AM
2

Learn from your fail. Control your drinking.
/r/seduction19/09/15 08:09 AM
1

Get her number, text her to meet up.
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:53 AM
-2

I don't call anyone. Maybe just a generational thing though
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:42 AM
6

Lift. Watch videos and read books. Pass shit tests. Get a social circle. Meet women through your circles' activities and friends. Approach.
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:32 AM
-1

She's two hours away
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:25 AM
1

Text her to meet up. Logistics only, no bullshit. Example: You: hey I'm doing a brewery crawl Friday night with some friends at 7pm. You want to ride? Her: I'd like to but I just got through with Boner Boy and I'm not sure You: [silence] Her: Are we OK? You: see u Friday? I'll be at ur place at 6 Her OK :-)
/r/seduction16/09/15 06:28 AM
3

Yeah haha basically I'm telling op if u wanna get laid go out every night and be awesome. Use social proof and the fact you are 21 to get laid, have weed to hit the home run
/r/seduction16/09/15 06:20 AM
1

They would still be paying for it.
/r/seduction16/09/15 06:10 AM
3

Sluts don't give a shit about goals lmfao Not slut-shaming by the way I'm using slut to describe a woman who seeks sex strictly for attention.
/r/seduction16/09/15 05:41 AM
1

He's trying to get laid not find girlfriend material. He needs to find a slut.
/r/seduction16/09/15 05:36 AM
1

Passing shit tests: 1) agree and amplify Yeah it's smooth like Luther Vandross 2) disagree and amplify Nah the duck dynasty look ain't sexy 3) agree and ignore Yeah its OK though 4) disagree and ignore No its not a big deal
/r/seduction16/09/15 05:34 AM
-5

You ought to be honest but over text. 2 hour drive is a deal breaker and isn't worth it just to break up. Distance plus you thought you wanted to settle down but you don't.
/r/seduction16/09/15 05:22 AM
1

Good habits can kill AA if you have a consistent schedule. Look good, smell good, lift heavy, tan, and clean fresh clothes. Physical activity such as sports, cardio, meetups for volleyball, ultimate Frisbee, dodgeball (great way to meet cool people too). A little meditation and a big energy drink before you go out. Do all of these, and you are gonna have some great nights.
/r/seduction16/09/15 05:17 AM
1

I failed and failed til I decided after watching rsd that I was just gonna have fun, grab life by the horns, and fuck it. So I got an easy job in bars and events where I could be social and make connections while working. I also canceled my internet and took my computer to my parents house so I'd be forced to go out and not sit at home masturbating.
/r/seduction16/09/15 05:11 AM
-3

Go out every night. Get to know the bartenders by tipping well and being a cool ass motherfucker, and you will start getting freebies and tons of social proof. Getting a free drink is a panty dropper. Engineering is a bitch of a degree. Put your free time into your studies but do not tell girls this. When they ask what you've been up to "been busy" should be your go-to answer. Offer girls 18-21 alcohol. If you get friend zoned by one or several use the friend to get with her friends based on bei…
/r/seduction16/09/15 05:08 AM
2

Text her to meet. In sales, we would say you have impulse at its highest, now close.
/r/seduction16/09/15 04:59 AM
2

Every day I fly by the seat of my pants. My work schedule is extremely unpredictable so sometimes I work overnights, evenings, and mornings all in the same week with a double shift or two thrown in for good measure. Each day I try to tan, get in some kind of physical activity (lifting, athletic meetup, etc.) and some social activity like a bar trip after work or a meetup. I also try to watch one rsd video and approach a stranger or two at whatever venue I'm working at or at my social activity. I…
/r/seduction16/09/15 04:58 AM
1

Watch rsd julien for beginners. Eye contact, touch, and make sure you use ChapStick.
/r/seduction15/09/15 06:32 AM
1

Stay at the gym, watch rsd videos asap
/r/seduction12/09/15 03:40 PM
0

Elaborate. I think the girls were doing like Tyler talks about feeling pity for a eunuch.
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:46 PM
-1

She threw u a simple set of shit tests and they hit you like a wrench to the face. Gotta start small. You are being thrown to the wolves when you go out with no fundamentals. It gets repeated constantly yet here we are. Start lifting learn to recognize and pass shit tests watch rsd videos read books practice practice practice Not to be rude but the reason ur struggling is probably because you are a socially inept Dadbod. Get fit, get huge, get social skills, go out and fail fail fail until you s…
/r/seduction12/09/15 01:25 PM
-1

Something they are wearing, doing, or a light neg. Example: guy alone outside smoking a cigarette. "Well, you draw quite a crowd."
/r/seduction09/09/15 07:21 AM
7

Stop talking to get in her pants (if you do it will be on her terms, you are too inexperienced to seduce her). Give up on this idea Right. Fucking. Now. Now, come at her from the angle of "you inspire me to change." Tell her she has awakened the adult in you and how thankful you are you are friends. Get a gym membership immediately. No excuses. If you can't afford it cancel your internet and use the money to go to the gym. Lift motherfucker. Keep her posted every few days on the progress you are…
/r/seduction08/09/15 08:47 AM
51

Watch rsd videos, lift weights, meditate, but most of all practice. Get out there and fail, its the only way to succeed.
/r/seduction08/09/15 03:30 AM
3

By going out consistently and meeting cool people. Last night I worked a wedding and the deejay struck me as someone who was really cool with great social proof. He was also dressed casually but his clothes fit well and he had a well-trimmed, stylish beard. I complemented his set after the event but didn't even think to exchange contact info at the time. Missed opportunity. Bartenders, deejays, event planners, and even car salesmen can be great wings but u gotta meet them first.
/r/seduction07/09/15 10:18 PM
5

Fucking lift
/r/seduction07/09/15 10:04 PM
2

Sales 101 here ... Ask yes / yes questions leading up to the big question. So instead of saying I had a great time and you are a cool person etc. can we go out? Say things like wow this was a cool conversation huh? "Yes." Are you usually this awesome? "Yes." Want to be hang out sometime soon? "Yes." Ymmv but even with a boyfriend I offer to hang out with them as a couple, do reddit meetups + other group activities, or do double dates. You never know who she or even he knows plus once you get soc…
/r/seduction07/09/15 09:57 PM
2

Do not add her on fb, send a msg instead. Find something fun going on and invite her. I'm assuming it at uni so example: hey there's a party / event at x at 9pm see u there or need a ride?
/r/seduction06/09/15 10:34 PM
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Fwb is usually decided because of time constraints or bad recent relationships
/r/seduction06/09/15 10:26 PM
2

Edit your original post to say this.
/r/seduction05/09/15 04:07 PM
2

Start with rsdfreetour on YouTube
/r/seduction02/09/15 09:02 AM
6

The oneitis is strong with this one
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:25 AM
2

"I'm busy"
/r/seduction28/08/15 03:53 PM
8

Lift
/r/seduction27/08/15 03:48 AM
1

Sometimes silence is golden. Being silent can build mystery if done right. Example- "you seem like a cool dude", smile and silence for a bit, then change the subject.
/r/seduction15/08/15 05:29 PM
11

She's 16. I'm 21. /thread
/r/seduction11/08/15 05:49 PM
3

May be shame. A lot of guys are ashamed of their sexuality, their penis, the act of penetrating innocent flowers and making them cum, etc. on a subconscious level. Anytime you hesitate to initiate its probably that subconscious shame holding you back.
/r/seduction05/08/15 06:28 AM
1

Well first don't call them dames. Second know that they are sexual and need want sex just like you do. Third never white-knight or slut shame. And finally make sure u stay busy! Be out and about meeting people and doing things don't waste college alone in ur dorm with porn and vidya.
/r/seduction04/08/15 08:29 AM
1

That and fill your time so you're less available for girls. A gym routine, a hobby or two, going out at night, and maintaining your place all take up your time, making it more scarce and more valuable. Neediness is a huge red flag, eliminate it ASAP
/r/seduction04/08/15 08:21 AM
1

Watch stand up comedy to learn quick wit
/r/seduction04/08/15 08:02 AM
1

You have to start with baby steps, you aren't gonna be able to change overnight. The very first things you should be doing are lifting and recognizing / passing shit tests. Those two things alone will get u kissed, blown, and fucked.
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:54 AM
2

The last girl I dated, after we broke up, showed up at her job with a hickie from a random hookup and was slut shamed hard. Lesson learned, other than the hickie I think u did good.
/r/seduction27/07/15 05:38 AM
2

The hickie was probably a little overkill
/r/seduction27/07/15 05:27 AM
2

I live in Lancaster and work in Charlotte.
/r/seduction19/07/15 11:48 AM
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