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I will do it very soon and message you when it's up :) I have so much going on rn
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/18 11:55 PM
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Post current photos of yourself. Don't post photos with kids/nephews/ect or the opposite sex. Don't post a lot of group photos, it's annoying for guys to have to figure out which one you are. Avoid snap chat filters, post about your interests. Be straight forward in what you are looking for, say something like "seeking a connection". If you are over weight please don't hide it, you are only doing yourself a disservice if you only post highly contoured face pics. I would determine which is your b…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/18 07:13 AM
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Yes, this is completely and totally me. According to Myers-Briggs I am an INTJ, I prefer to be logical than to address my feelings. It's a highly desirable trait if you are climbing a career ladder or work in math/science but in my experience it tends to handicap my relationships. In the past I would be considered cold, and distant. I know I am like this as a product of my childhood, a sense of self preservation. I feel as these qualities were quite masculine and attracted more feminine men. It'…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/18 09:31 PM
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Men often reflect the respect we give ourselves, do everything in your power to work on this. You can do everything right by this sub down to the dress, hair and staying fit but it means nothing if you don't love and care for yourself . Part of being feminine is loving and tending for your own garden. I'm glad this helped ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 06:55 AM
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As far as your insecurity goes: men are very visual, if you were ugly he most likely wouldn't be with you. The important thing is when you feel insecure you need to look inward for validation. While it feels nice to hear from a man that they find you beautiful it means nothing if YOU, yourself don't believe it. I would highly encourage you to work on learning to love and appreciate your own beauty. Men love confidence in a woman, who knows her worth, a woman could physically be a 10 but how she …
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 05:25 AM
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Look you can be what ever size you want the point is that when you are a healthy weight clothes look better, and most people feel confident. A small portion of men like overweight women, a large portion of women are overweight. Your dating pool shrinks, you might not notice it but it does. On many ask Reddit/ askmen threads the number one thing men like is a fit healthy woman. Last thing: if a man tells you he prefers slightly chubby girls because the sex is easier, run. He is already telling yo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 02:01 PM
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Im talking about leverage with men that have a high SMV because that seems to be the men op is interested in.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 05:23 AM
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Not trying to say what you wrote is wrong but offering a different perspective. Between me and my sister I am the 'hotter' one- she is at least 100lbs overweight despite being tall doesn't wear it well, we have similar face shapes... so our main divergence is in our sizes. Despite that she has always gotten more attention then me when we go out after a lot of conversations about this we finally determined what might be the reasoning. So far we think it's a few things but mostly these two: She ha…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 10:39 PM
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Thank you! I hope to keep heading in this direction!
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 03:08 PM
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Of course! Just stopping in H&M with my boyfriend There were Lots of colors like burnt orange, mauve, etc that were really unappealing to him. Things like soft pink sweaters and pastels were much more appealing to him!
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 12:36 AM
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I'm still trying to figure out what to wear to school that is feminine if you have any tips?
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 12:24 AM
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Thank you! I love wearing dresses but surprisingly my partner loves jeans more so I wanted to dress for him 😊
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/18 04:19 PM
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Sorry, the current state of Reddit makes me fear posting personal pics here :/
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/18 04:14 PM
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Thank you! I agree, it wasn't too difficult and took me less than 30 minutes pick an outfit and to get ready, which is a worthwhile investment!
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/18 03:28 AM
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Lots of charm schools have videos, Gloria Starr, there are surprisingly a lot more ones directed towards men like the distilled man, gentlemens gazette. Once you start searching you will see more suggestions in the sidebar. For being charismatic/charming in conversations I really like charisma on command, he looks at public figures/ celebrities and dissects why people naturally love or hate certain people and how to make people drawn to you. Really weird but a while ago I watched videos on women…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/18 03:56 AM
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I haven't seen either but it's one of the defining characteristics between someone that is old money vs new money. The difference is old money folks tend to send their kids to finishing schools that focus on comportment and such. You can find resources online and on YouTube. I think it's a bit extreme especially if you do not associate with wealthy people on a regular basis. You want to be relatable to the people you associate with.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/18 12:00 AM
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So very true, it's why subs like fat logic exist. The mental gymnastics people will go through just to convince themselves that being fat is attractive is just sad. It's the very thing that keeps fat girls from losing weight, it's why so many people who lose weight notice how different their lives are.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/18 06:48 PM
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You are completely missing the point, if you want to complete with this girl then feel free to but just because you beat this girl at getting a guy while staying fat doesn't mean you win in any sense. You just got a guy who picked the 2nd ugliest choice in the room, he probably isn't easy on the eyes either and since he had no other options. Visit fatlogic so you can get rid of your delusions. We are all here because we want the most attractive person we can be with, and by doing so we become ou…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/18 06:44 PM
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You can change any variables in this equation but no matter what the fat girl will not come out on top, it doesn't matter how average or ugly the other girl is, if she is an hour glass or a rectangle , most men will not find the fat girl attractive. You can make as many different variations of this comparison test but the findings are still the same. Fat girls will always lose.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/18 06:06 PM
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There are so many studies that substantiate this claim if you google them. But it might be easier to just go to the club and see it yourself, can fat girls with a pretty face get love at the club? Sure but they won't have anywhere near as much social mobility as a woman with a less than average face and slim/fit body. Every guy that has chimed in on this sub on what is the best way to be attractive ALWAYS starts with the body. And if you are overweight to lose weight. Sometimes they mention thin…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/18 05:26 PM
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It's not so much about what is fair it's just what most guys prefer. Men are naturally attracted to health and there is nothing natural or healthy about being overweight.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/18 04:23 PM
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If you have curves it's better to wear something form fitting, you don't necessarily have to wear skirts or dresses it's just what a lot of women here choose to wear. Where I live/go to school you would stand out awkwardly in a dress or skirt unless they were mini/short but then you might get the wrong attention. My favorite outfit is this nice pink fitted fuzzy sweater and a pair of white skinny jeans with a cute pair of heeled booties. I keep my makeup polished and not super intense (dewy/heal…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/18 12:12 AM
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I used to get really upset about this sort of thing till I found out it was just a way that guys like to push buttons and see how far he can push you. It doesn't sound very lady like but I tend to turn that stuff around on my SO and it ended up being more of a play fighting thing. I think he respects me more for dishing it right back than compared to when I would get insecure and upset over it. Obviously some things I don't joke about (dick size, past relationships etc) but my SO would have neve…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 11:44 PM
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I study full time also, double majoring in two STEM majors and my partner works as a high level manager for a very successful tech company, this isn't a competition I'm just in the exact situation and telling what works after being with someone that's very busy for the past 2 years. The problem is you are expecting a very busy man to be your source of validation. To cope with not being a priority is to keep busy and value the time you DO get to spend with him. It's fine to be disappointed but if…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 12:20 AM
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It sounds like you are not very busy at all, do you work or have hobbies outside of this very brand new relationship? It sounds like right now your hobby is being concerned and worried and seeking affirmation. Men, especially busy guys need space and time to recharge. It sounds like he is smart and knows his limits, especially since relationships require a lot of effort for men. Be the fun girlfriend that's there when he can be, the moment you nag then he actually won't want to be around you. As…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 11:38 PM
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Well then just trust his judgement. From what it sounds like no one is in his corner, including you. I'd be sad as hell and do nothing about it. When I say encouragement I don't mean encouraging him to specifically get a job, I mean by genuinely being loving and accepting even if he never gets a job again.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 01:01 PM
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I do this, I always run, squeel his name and give him a hug and a kiss. Even on his worst days I think he appreciates that I missed him and I am excited that he is home. I then let him relax and unwind usually he just goes to his office until dinner but if he hangs around I ask him about his day. I let him kinda decide what he needs from me. I think sometimes forcing the "how are you!?" and not giving him space is not allowing him the time he needs to unwind.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/18 06:06 PM
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I think he might be going through depression or is just feeling vulnerable about everything. I think the important thing is that you are supportive and not nagging through this phase. Encourage him to spend time with the boys, and make this an opportunity for him to reinvent himself/ as a launch board for an exciting career or an opportunity to start his own small business. Don't make this about you or tell him things like "we are going to lose our house/car/etc" he likely knows that and you rem…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/18 06:00 PM
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I've heard through the grapevine that sites where you have to pay tend to yield better results (for women that is) and requires you to put a lot of info about yourself rather than 4 pictures and a quick blurb that makes you sound funny-interesting-and-sexy. I think the more effort you put into your search the better returns you will yield.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/18 06:19 PM
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I was molested as a child and had the exact same problem as OP, infact the entire reason I even got on Reddit 2 years ago was to get involved in illegal panties sales and gonewild . It sounds so meaningless but it could risk op's future relationships especially if they are religious. It's a warning not a diagnosis.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/18 04:15 AM
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I know a lot of people think your trolling but there are a lot of signs that what may have occurred. It’s normal to want validation from a sexual partner but it is abnormal to seek that beyond the confines of sexual partners and from random internet people.. Especially if there is any risk at all. OP if that’s the case get help, if you don’t believe you were molested try to think back when you were a kid. Did you draw dirty pictures or start exploring your body an an early age? You might not rem…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/18 02:51 AM
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Yes, I grew up religious and left my faith at age 20 and decided it was a waste to hold onto my virginity so I fucked my boyfriend when I was 21 who I had dated for 4 years so far. My logic was he wasn't going to leave me and definitely going to marry me, especially since he was still deep in his faith even went to a very liberal Christian college. No fucking joke I got dumped a year later. I was the one wanting sex actually he was hesitant actually so it wasn't even that. Hold on until you are …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 05:28 AM
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Not moving in and being their free wife helps.. I seriously wish I found this sub like two years ago but I have been cohabiting with my boyfriend and basically being a free wife.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/18 06:45 PM
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Maybe you need someone that has a healthy relationship and logical perspective to look at your 'potential suitors' traditionally this is family , the mom or ideally the father which I think is the best situation but not always possible. I would seek out a strong mentor who has a healthy relationship and who you think you could help be your logical compass. One way to rule out people that would help you well is anyone that was against your polyamorous relationship, they wanted what was best for y…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/18 07:34 PM
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