GhostBIBBY Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
99	Alpha and Beta		GhostBIBBY	/r/seduction	04/12/12 09:25 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why not approaching might be a good call Hey, kudos to you for getting what I'm saying. Every new experience requires that period where you feel like you don't know what the fuck you are doing and you might look stupid. In basketball no one gets good without being able to do left handed layups. Everyone learning to do left handed layups at first will look like a moron. So you can just be happy doing right handed layups and being good at that but never go left or just take the hit and do it and get better. It sounds like you already hav…	/r/seduction	10/12/12 02:40 AM
1	Why not approaching might be a good call Yeah, I understand what you are trying to say but in reality you've set yourself back. The fact is you will never get "enough experience" not even when you start openning the hottest girls in the bar. But by not doing you will not get any experience. It's one thing to not to open when you have the perfect oppurturnity to. It's another thing to rationalize it into something that is good for you and post it on here as advice. As soon as you turned around you knew it wasn't going to be easy? How do…	/r/seduction	10/12/12 12:19 AM
2	OK, another question. This one's about people noticing changes in me. Hey, I think if you gave out more detailed specifics it would help out a lot more. But my blanket advice for a guy that is very concerned like this about keeping a girlfriend is to not make any drastic changes to your routine for instance if you work out regularly definitely continue that. How much of your interaction with this person was you "faking it"? Also have you had sex with her?	/r/seduction	05/12/12 06:08 AM
1	Alpha and Beta Right that's why I say a series of threads. One thread about the situation above first step: getting the number... Then everyone in the situation posts their exact situation and dynamics and advice is given. Then feedback on what happens. We get to see exactly what worked what didn't and analyze why. We get to see exactly whose advice helped and whose didn't. Then next step setting up a meeting and so on... I think everyone would learn so much.	/r/seduction	05/12/12 02:57 AM
2	Alpha and Beta Hey man, I really enjoy your advice and posts on this subreddit. I totally get what you are saying with this remark. I think there are things that can be done in the abstract that increases your chances statistically and things that decrease it but there are exceptions. For instance in Blackjack if you are over 18 you are not going to want to hit. But sometimes just sometimes hitting will get you a 3 and win you the game. Is that the best way to play blackjack? Probably not. In fact this whole c…	/r/seduction	05/12/12 02:45 AM
2	How to make it clear you are interested in her sexually, without looking like a perv? This is such a good post concise and exactly the right thing. The fact that this isn't top and advice about making sure she knows it's a date is really disappointing. Keep up the good work man.	/r/seduction	03/12/12 08:09 AM
2	The conversation gets sexual I think a pattern you will learn with dealing with anything you think feel you want to hide or are embarrassed by is this. OWN UP TO IT. Completely. Fact is you will run into many many roadblocks in the game. You are too young, you are too short etc etc etc... If you are sexually inexperienced and she mentions something sexual say something to the effect of "I've never done that." Straight stare. Slight grin. Or "I'm a good boy. I'm saving it for someone special." You learn as you go along it's …	/r/seduction	29/11/12 07:01 AM
1	Taking a break from girls/pickup/seduction, and how it can be beneficial. Hey great post. I really like it. I constantly thing about this aspect of dating. But I think it's more like poker than blackjack. In poker in certain cases a total amateur will get lucky because of a flop that they should not even be in the first place and win. I think dating some girls are like that and don't assess guys in a SANE way. What if you are going after a girl who is systematically going after BETA males etc. You run into all sorts of situations where the highest probability play is …	/r/seduction	29/11/12 06:40 AM
7	The only way from AFC to F-Closing a HB10: Practice. A short story. The irony is already apparent from those who actually read your post that LOOKS DO MATTER. I think you mean well dude but most of the things you mention in your post are just going to frustrate an average person. Plus I know you were probably going for quality but 5 f closes in a year is not a lot even by like average dude standards. If you look good enough that someone with the stats you are describing just comes out and says you are hot within like a couple of minutes of conversation. I think …	/r/seduction	28/11/12 09:06 AM
0	My game has improved greatly in the past month and a half, but I'm still struggling with some things. This is all good advice but I think the best part that everyone would gain a lot from is the part at the end. It would really help to go into greater detail about that part. I think there are constantly questions like this about how to ask for the number and it could be covered in greater detail. Here's my two cents I would really like to hear what you think on it. Here's my opinion: I think the basic thing is you want to qualify her somehow to make it clear you don't just ask for EVERYONE's num…	/r/seduction	28/11/12 04:53 AM
2	Where did I go wrong with this one? Shit tests, Face and text game. The above has the best analysis so far. Every point is spot on. I think you are in way worse shape than you think at this point. You really need to think about your next step because what you are doing isn't working. My advice is this. You will get an immediate response when you freeze out which should be your next move. Once the first response comes DO NOT grant her satisfaction she will immediately know what you are doing if you do she is not stupid. You need to hold out for at least a bit giv…	/r/seduction	26/11/12 08:22 AM
1	RANT: A brief history of PUA I agree on your point about how project Hollywood is different. Look how Strauss and those guys in the house did it is completely the opposite i'm sure of how some ogre in a frat beer kegging his way into pussy does it but the ultimate outcome and premise is the same. Create an environment where you can fuck hot girls. And I think in that respect you really overestimate in what Project Hollywood was pulling. A and B list celebs? I don't know if you have more info but was Courtney Love anything o…	/r/seduction	21/11/12 07:17 AM
3	RANT: A brief history of PUA I think "The Game" and the whole project Hollywood thing really suffers from what I would call "Crime and Punishment" syndrome in the book the main character has all these heady comparisons to Napoleon and Caesar in his head and then his big crime ends up being malleting some old lady. What was Project Hollywood in a nutshell? It's basically a Frat house. Which has been around since the dawn of time. I guarantee you some frat guys got laid as much or more compared to anybody in that book. Don't …	/r/seduction	20/11/12 09:36 AM
3	Text Game Tips with an Example This is probably the best advice I've read on here on text game. It's really easy to separate the sheep from the wolves if you have some experience but I guess not a lot of people in seddit actually do. 2/3 rule. Always try to shorten your texts as much as possible. Type it out do not send. Shorten it as much as possible then do it again before sending. Never text for the sake of texting. Familiarity breeds contempt. It's okay to build a little rapport and send out feelers but do not make it a h…	/r/seduction	14/11/12 08:28 AM