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Buy a journal. Start writing down everything you’re thinking starting now.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:49 PM
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The world is becoming much more of a melting pot than you’d think. It’s not a big deal.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 08:00 PM
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Rephrase this; she missed an opportunity to be your plate. That’s how you need to think (FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT). There will be plenty more. But, you need to adjust your focus and lift. Surround yourself with some men, preferably older. Focus. Focus. Focus.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 07:58 PM
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Oh man that sucks. You’re right lol. So basically been confused the last few years searching for something that doesn’t exist haha. What is that and where does one find one? As in religion? I don’t believe in a God. I am a white westerner but have practiced Taoism or similar in the past.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:59 PM
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Good point. Thanks for the advice. I suppose I miss the solidarity in high school, college, and the military. Maybe I just need to realize that my way of thinking has been skewed from all 3 and that it’s not actually like that as an adult who isn’t in any one of those 3 anymore.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:48 PM
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You’re missing it. I’m not worried about the girl cheating on me whatsoever. I know I’m the best she can possibly get if she is with me. My game doesn’t slack a bit, any girl I LTR worships the ground I walk on to the point every meal is cooked before I wake up, and anything I say I want is fixed or given to me the instant I ask for it. That’s after 4 LTR’s lasting 4 years, 2 years, 1 year and the current one I am in, less than 1 year. I know she isn’t cheating, especially not with me around. If…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:44 PM
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Ehh spent the last 10 years doing this day in and day out and will continue to. For someone under 30 who came from a poor home, I am here as here gets. I am very independent. But, what’s the purpose of all this growth if I don’t have friends around me that I love and love me back.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:39 PM
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Most helpful comment. Thanks for putting the time in to write it. Spot on, and pretty much why I am where I am as far as male friends go. My most trusted confidant and I don’t even get together as much as I’d like. I tried many times. Our relationship is strictly business and strategy oriented now since I brought him in. Kinda wish I didn’t cause I need friends more than anything now and he’s just another person I do business with. Anyway, thanks again, I’ll take your advice.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:29 PM
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Ehh, it’s a plate. Pass the shit tests, get your nut, and do your thing. If, however, you’re trying to prep her for LTR, than you need to be concerned about who you’re choosing. That’ll take care of the first half. Additionally, women are not stupid. So, they know what they shouldn’t do for the most part. That’ll take care of the second half. What I mean is that if you display yourself as high value, and you actually are, she’s going to worship the ground you walk on. You don’t need to do much. …
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:52 AM
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Yeah, alright. Tell that to the dude who I knocked the fuck out. If it’s a plate, I don’t disagree. She can do whatever she pleases. How about instead of telling me what I am, tell me why I am what you’re calling me. Have some actual fucking logic if you’re going to begin an argument. When it’s my girl, it’s my property. And any and all dudes get laid out if they don’t take a hint when I am around. So explain to me how I am wrong again.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:47 AM
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No, but it’s easy to explain. If it’s a plate, let her do her thing... you are, so who are you to stop her? Additionally, it’s not attractive. Let the girl do what she please. If she comes back to you, good. If not, good. If it’s my girlfriend, as in I gave her commitment... well, that’s my property. I will give the dude the heads up by slapping her ass or similar. I will then make sure he got the warning via non verbal body language. The second time around, if he didn’t get the message or ignor…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:35 AM
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You’re ruminating and your mind is cluttered. Start practicing mindfulness meditation. Read “The Miracle of Mindfulness.” Also, do much research into mindfulness as there is a certain way to practice it, and that is often misunderstood at first glance. Additionally, ensure you’re sleeping and eating properly. Apply those 3 along with the gym for lifting, you’ll break the pattern.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 09:16 PM
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I believe, almost entirely, and for each sex, that the presence of a father figure is all that matters. That is, so long as that’s father is an alpha with excellent frame. For males with a strong, single, father, they’ll most likely have trouble forming long term relationships. However, this doesn’t describe their short term preferences and strategy. Additionally, children typically watch how their parent(s) interact with the opposite sex. That is how they learn to be in relationships. As a resu…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 09:08 PM
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What is the erect length and girth? PM it if you feel more comfortable. Although the growth won’t be substantial, the penis doesn’t stop growing until around or after 18. Why are you self-diagnosing? Only a Urologist should make this call. Not the internet. Go to your PCP, or pediatrician, and ask him to have your parents leave the room. Ask him if you have a micro-penis, and ask for a referral to a urologist if he says you may. DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT feel embarrassed. Talk to your doctor, and…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 08:58 PM
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Incorrect. But, close. You can get herpes anywhere. The type it is has nothing to do with where it is located. It is in fact a virus, and an attack on the CNS. Thus, you can have HSV-I on your genitals, or HSV-II on your mouth. It just so happens that HSV-II is associated with the genitals more often. However, this does not mean that if you have a cold sore on your dick, it is of the HSV-II variety.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:43 PM
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Who is around that loves and cares about you? Friends or family? Go to them, be around them. You should of never said sorry. Showing you’re apologetic takes an already bad situation and makes it worse. It’s like saying, “Hey, I was really weak earlier and lost control over myself, so I want to tell you I regret having been weak.” When in all reality, you’re better off just dealing with the guilt on your own. Because when you apologize, you’re also making the person you are saying sorry to, take …
/r/askTRP20/07/18 03:36 AM
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At the baseline level? How about enjoying life? Beyond that, Infinite things. Because I can’t tell you, you’ll have to see for yourself. And, you absolutely will in due time. Keep your mind occupied for now, continue to push yourself, don’t get anyone pregnant, don’t die, and stay out of jail. One last thing... If you use the search bar on the main TRP subreddit, and look up, “5 stages of the red pill,” or some variation you’ll see what I mean. You’re def in the depressed stage and like any othe…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:48 AM
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It’s like this, man. Don’t be so harsh on yourself. Women do this shit when they’re about to enter their peak window. It’s hard to find a girl that is 18-25 and isn’t riding the cock carousel. Regardless, and as you said, there is always work to be done on yourself. Instead of dwelling on any one individual thing that may or may not have ruined the relationship, focus on learning and reading here at TRP, and applying what you’ve read and picked up to your past experiences. Then, you’ll begin to …
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:38 AM
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You sound like you’re in the depressed phase. The, “there is supposed to be more to life,” phase. I remember that 3 and half years ago. When I was in it, I did some pretty sick shit. Started to risk my life a little just to feel. Just be careful. P.S. you haven’t figured shit out yet. This comes from someone a few years older, who has been around TRP much much longer.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:33 AM
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You’ve got to win the heart of the mother hen, then you’re free to fuck her flock.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:29 AM
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These are the only situations where I pay. It was your idea, so why would you expect her to pay. I wouldn’t mention that it even costed money, I would just pay, and if she asks about it, change the subject.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:28 AM
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I like many variations, usually all of them complete lies that end up as jokes. During sex, for example, “You like taking this farmer dick, don’t you.” Even after I told her I’m not actually a farmer.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:23 AM
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It’s a way for them to gauge you. If you drop this long list, you’re obviously trying to impress her and that shows who is better than who. If you dodge the question, it shows you don’t give a fuck what she think and that your validation is predominantly internally. Favorite response: “I’m an astronaut.” Then, when she says, “Really!!!!!!” I say, “No, not really. But, that’d be sick if I were, huh?”
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:20 AM
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I know she is down to do it, but she dropped the ball twice. She had a girl sitting on her lap. I told them to makeout and they only did a quick peck. I coached her, she dropped the ball still. So, I was looking for another way. But, maybe you’re right, and I just have to be patient. She wants it, she just isn’t aggressive and she is nervous. Thank you for responding because I got zero fucking responses even after coming here for years (I switch account every few months) and helping people out. …
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:14 AM
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Hold frame. No means no. Stop responding so frequently. You’re the one who is showing the traits of attraction every time you fuel the fire.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:29 AM
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Unethical? Where is there an ethics publication on dating? Enjoy the fact that you’re not one of them, and remain completely aloof to the fact that it is even going on.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:27 AM
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Go in for the kill and prepare for the worst; her shutting you down, which isn’t even a bad thing. Once you bite your lip and do it (completely sober) it isn't that bad. First time I did it with a 9, I was so nervous my lip got stuck to my gum and I cringed at myself replaying it after. However, still got her number, still slept with her. From that point on, I realized it was stupid not to approach. Worst case, she says no.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:25 AM
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Hahaha. The girl I’m dating knows I’ve been got around town. Not even a question of whether or not I drop the hammer on these bitches.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:44 AM
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Of course I can, my question is more to the proper approach on it and how to handle the shock. As I said, I’m doing 100% of the work so I’m on my own when I approach the 3rd wheel. 2 things: (1) how aggressive. And (2) how do I respond to the confusion. With my girl sitting there, do I approach this other girl, seduce and escalate, aggressively as I would when I am solo? Let the 3rd wheel have her fit and confusion occur? And what about when the alarms go off in the 3rd wheels head. Like, “You'r…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:41 AM
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Yeah, man. That’s a lot of muscle, it takes a long time if you don’t use drugs lol. I am also, but started lifting at 17. Had a couple of bad years... but I stopped thinking of it that way around when I broke 24 years old. If you obsess over a pinnacle, you’ll most likely crap out when you do make it there. You’ve got to change the way you see it. You’re not lifting to necessarily make yourself into X thing. You’re lifting to lift, and X thing is a resultant. You lift because it pushes you. It m…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 05:10 AM
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You ever used the enter key to space your writing? Take it out on the weights, homie. I know some guys have said they meditate and I tried that but could only get it to work when I smoked weed You know about meditation, yeah? So use it. Try harder. Don’t come here copping excuses. You just wrote a wall of text (without using the fucking space bar once) telling us how you want to stop being beta. Yeah?! Do you?! Because step 1 is NO MORE FUCKING EXCUSES. Stand the fuck up, and do what you need to…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:51 AM
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15/20 lbs of muscle... putting you at about 185/190 on the way there. You’re looking at a solid 2-4 years if no extra curriculars involved and you work hard and sleep well. On the bright side, you’re not fat, and a couple, two, tree years of heavy lifts and the right diet and you’re in there. Well, your foot is. Goal is 200 lbs at 10% BF, then you’ll look gnarly. That’s a good like 6-8 year goal for you.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:42 AM
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Yeah, only a chump would say that. Don’t do that. How about just cutting her off if you don’t like her and moving on with your life like an adult? She is a child. Treat her as such!
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:43 AM
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Why? You want to do it for your ego, huh? Well, suit yourself. You can do what you please, you’re a man now. However, I warn that it is typically avoided as old feelings may arise. These feelings include, but are not limited to; (1) Feeling helplessness (no abundance) (2) Whistling sounds from wind blowing in your gaping vagina (3) Onesitis (4) Deciding to reclaim/rejoin the BetaDom (5) Frustration when you get shut down during round 2 For all others, there’s abundance, you don’t need to move ba…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:39 AM
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Holy shit, Mia, Mia, Mia... Mia’s got you on edge. Damn I feel a hit single coming on. We can call it, “Mia.” How about this? Don’t stress over some 6/10 who stood you up. You see her, act normal, say, “What’s going on, long time no see? How is everything?” Let her talk... blah blah blah. Then, move on with your fucking life. Pfff as if you could stop this bitch from talking shit even if you tried. Let it be and enjoy the get together. Open some girls you’re really attracted to, bro. And don’t f…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:32 AM
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Hold up! SMV accounts for more than just physical makeup. It’s about your lifestyle, how valuable you are, your personality/game, and much much more. Physically speaking, yes, you’re in the top 20%. However, if you want to get an idea of what the physical makeup of the world is, just look around. Still, though, this does not coincide with what the top 20% looks like SMV wise.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:28 AM
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Instead of focusing on what to do, focus on what not to do. (1) Don’t be bitter. (2) Don’t be passive aggressive. (3) Don’t buy into him with the rest of the crowd, get him to buy into you. This means being patient. (4) Don’t seclude yourself. (5) Last but most importantly, give up the faux control you think you have. What do I mean? Don’t try to do anything, control what you can; your actions. Just be worried about what you shouldn’t do. If you get #3 going, you win. If you get 1, 2, and 4 goin…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 02:41 AM
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Anyone on here that is worth anything as a mentor won’t be free and probably will have very little time for you. I suggest you try finding one in person, it’ll ultimately most likely be easier. And, they won’t have the “official TRP” mentality of FTW. Read Dale Carnegie’s book; “how to win friends and influence people.” Find some older guy and just jump in whatever he is doing. I did so at the gym about 7 years ago. Found a really really red pill type of guy in his 60’s (before I knew what TRP w…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:16 AM
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Always remain in control of your emotions. If you think of power as a double-pan balance scale, once you get emotional, the power scales tip in the oppositions favor. Showing anger in social situations, also makes you seem (or can sometimes even prove) that you’re the less intelligent. Intelligent people don’t need to handle things like Neanderthals. You want to fight this kid over this? Who the fuck cares what he says? If you really feel the need, though, walk up to him, square up, and do it. D…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:05 AM
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You’re looking at it all wrong. It’s like video games to women, right? So, don't use it. Just become their favorite video game character.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 06:46 AM
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Okay.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:38 AM
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I recently had a girl cheat on her husband with me. I found out after... and said, “wow, classy.” Verbatim she says, “Well, it doesn’t count as cheating because we already slept together before I met and married him. So it’s an exception.” Cannot make this shit up.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:36 AM
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I’m so confused... what happen to being such an AF that girls won’t pair bond with you? You’re speaking like someone who welcomes pair bonding and does so with open arms lol.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:30 AM
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As for whether you should stay or not, no one here can answer that. Only you can. As for what you should do... Take none of it seriously. If it’s brought up again and you have to confront it, do so. But do so in a way that removes your ego from the situation. You let them get to you, become emotional, and it’ll prove whatever bullshit they’re talking about you. However, you laugh it off, amplify/agree, and shift the focus to who you’re seeing now (even if it’s no one, say you are), and how you’r…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:26 AM
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Lol. You’re overly complicating it. You want an LTR? Mix some beta traits into your personality. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:16 AM
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Depends. What’s her alpha look like now? Oh and trust me, she’s got one.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:14 AM
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Let me put it like this; it takes the wind blowing at an extra 7 MPH for a girl to be turned off by a guy. Answer to your question; not even a little. They can lose attraction very easily. Simply cohabitation with a girl is enough to cause the loss. Showing slight weakness = enough. The list goes on. Ultimately it depends on how much higher a guys SMV is than a girls. If the gap never closes up, then it’s fine. Don’t forget what SMV encompasses when interpreting this.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:10 AM
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10/10 guys are dying to have this sob story. Tell them how you also won the lottery and hate being filthy fucking rich (wipes tears with 100’s).
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:09 AM
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Well, you’re living for you, not for them. Remind yourself this whenever you feel bad. Because I will tell you that if you don’t start living unapologetically right now, you’ll also be sorry about something else; that you didn’t.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:50 AM
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If you live in the US, there are other ways. It also depends on what state you live in. For some reason, in like 6/7 states it is illegal to order your own while the rest it is fine. Have a look at these 2 sites. I have had mine done every year for the last 5 years. Well worth it to build a panel on yourself and keep track of your blood work. Here you can order BW; directlabs.com Here you can order BW and get TRT etc prescribed without even having to see a doc in person; http://primebody.com
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:19 AM
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First question: could you have written this with less words? You’re coming here for help; be succinct. If a reply or post is long, it’s fine. Why? Because it’s adding value to something/someone. Your question seeks value. Shorten the length of your question. I read the from TLDR down, that is it. The next question I have for you is, what is a “bad person?” Morally speaking you mean? Hmm, no... you’re not. In what context then? What you need to do is get yourself a male therapist, a male role mod…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:20 AM
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Yes, of course. There is this hate that takes over their thinking and an anger that crashes over them. Males are very competitive. It’s in our genes. We desire to reach a place in the hierarchy as great as possible. If you’re better than me, it draws conscious awareness of the fact that you’re higher than me on this scale. Or, that you’re already living a life I hope to achieve, or worse, one that I flat out know I cannot achieve. This is why you are to never brag around beta’s. They will resent…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 04:07 AM
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Never talk about what “you’re going to DO.” This isn’t you getting or giving advice to someone on TRP. Come on, man! This is a girl you’re actually supposed to be implementing this stuff on. You aren’t doing the things you’re saying, you’re saying them. JUST DO those things. Also, you’re acting like an obsessive pussy with zero outcome independence. But I just told her we're doing this and after staying firm and telling her that if she wants to see me ever again You’re asking for validation. Why…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 07:20 AM
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I agree. Everytime I cut carbs out on a cut cycle, I look skinny fat. Gotta get them carbs, they just need to be from a healthy source such as sweet potato, all vegetables, fruit, and very small amount of starch and what they call that stuff that is “whole grain.” Even though I feel as though there is no such thing as “whole grain.”
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:23 AM
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(1) No. Your time is far too valuable to have your head stuck in your phone. (2) Not exactly. The point is to say very little. When I cold approach and get a number, this is how it goes; after getting the number, I no matter what do not text her until the following 5 days have passed. I will typically text on a Wednesday, so they have adequate notice and no plans yet, and I do also. (3) The text goes; (Me) Hi. It’s X I got your number Y, how’s it going? (Her) Blah blah blah (Me) Haha that’s dope…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:18 AM
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Obviously there’s is a misrepresentation of him in your perception, something you’re not seeing. Law 6: Court Attention at All Costs. He is probably also good looking. Regardless of the answer, this is jealousy... hate. Get over it, don’t worry about what he has. Focusing on becoming better than you were yesterday.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:10 AM
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I thought you were trying to say that money mattered in your last comment. I was going to say I slept with 100 girls in 1 year... which also happen to be my weakest year financially. Money makes up a very small percentage of it all. Haha smooth move on his psych, though. Well played and good way to get your point across.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:59 AM
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You're misconstruing the theory. Of course 6’s see it because they are in your reach. And they go for what is in their reach. A 6 isn’t going to bother with a 6, and they can smell your SMV. They know you’ll want them too. If you’re a 7/10 on those 3 things I mentioned, you get 6’s. If you’re an 8, 7’s etc. until we get to 10... and you get 9’s. 10/10 chicks are straight up miserable, and no one is good enough for them, cause an 11/10 guy does not exist. Let’s be real and think about this. If a …
/r/askTRP09/07/18 02:30 AM
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Lift everyday does not equal fit/jacked/lean. What is your game like? Personality? Got a lot of friends? It comes down to 3 simple things that people overly complicate; (1) Game (2)Status (3) Looks Something is lacking. Think about it and fix it.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 02:20 AM
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