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GhostsinOrbit/r/MGTOW206/03/21 07:05 AM
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GhostsinOrbit/r/MGTOW216/03/21 09:47 PM
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GhostsinOrbit/r/MGTOW221/02/21 06:54 AM
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I dont believe there is anything wrong with becoming wealthy materially. You can achieve that just fine with hard work and discipline and sacrifice. Investing early. To me, the downside comes when people have so much wealth, and their acheivements and goals are met and they feel unfulfilled - that they can begin to use the money in perverse ways. Let me give you an example - my first job was in the financial industry in NYC. The men there made quite a but of money. More than a surgeon could hope…
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 07:01 PM
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No i did not. Yes, the pain sucked and i was depressed for some time. I come from an old school neighborhood where marriage and family are everything. You didnt even question that sort of thing growing up too. It was just taken for granted. I couldn’t conceive of living a single life. Then i did. I absolutely love it for ao many reasons i cant list here. But thats me. That might not be you. I was just going to take a break from trying to find someone “serious”. That was a few years ago. Oh ill d…
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 01:31 AM
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I spent two years with my ex doing rehabilitation, a coma, etc. There was nothing i wouldnt have done for her either. It was devastating when we seperated. I know that pain. That part takes time. Maybe you could even consider talking with someone - just for a little bit. Thats not what brought me to MGTOW. What brought me here, was when i began dating again. It was absolutely ridiculous in my late 30’s to be on the “market” again. What was out there was no bueno. I cant blame any of these fellow…
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 01:14 AM
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It sounds like, and i could be dead wrong, but just sounds like youre beating yourself up over this still. If thats the case, and only you know, I dont think its fair for yourself to continue to do that. But im just a guy on the internet, but i am empathetic because many of us have been there.
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 01:03 AM
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Did you try and get her back?
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 12:54 AM
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Gave you the ultimatum on the wedding?
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 12:29 AM
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Its true. Some do make it. Why do you regret it now?
/r/MGTOW216/03/21 11:49 PM
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There's some truth here. From a personal story - many moons ago when i was a younger man, there was a gal who lived behind the house me and some friends and i were renting. We threw parties, i would always ask her to come by. I showed interest, asked her out a couple of times. But alas, i was pretty much in what we call the friendzone these days. Until one night I met another gal, and started spending my time with her. All of a sudden, original girl gets interested in me. Enough to tell me with …
/r/MGTOW16/03/21 09:16 PM
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I guess the best word i can use is that i am a "godfather" to someone who has no parents and is being raised by her grandmother in a developing country. I fell into disenchantment with the churches and organized religion, but my faith remains strong in Christ and instead of a tithe to these churches, I spend it on a child. That's what i choose to do with my extra money. Simple things, clothes, food, toys for birthdays and Christmas. etc. But there's lots of things one can do.
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 11:10 PM
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I've been considering this myself for sometime now. Plus at 45, its a bit different than say when i was in my twenties. I hated the whole "making plans for friday night on a monday - only to feel as that day drew closer, i just wanted to cancel and not be bothered" feeling. Some guys blow that off, but im not out to hurt anyone, men or women. Lately, ive been thinking the best course of action for me might be the monk thing too. I never get lonely, and have plenty of hobbies. I dont think it wou…
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 10:35 PM
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I think that's fantastic. It's been one of the most rewarding things for me.
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 10:31 PM
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Were roughly the same age - ive been in LTR’s my whole life until a few years ago. I dont know how i escaped marriage, the pressure was immense, but my gut felt like it was a bad idea. I watched too many divorces go down. I never wanted kids so that was never an issue. Some think of MGTOW as no marriage, no cohabitation, no kids, if you dont already have them. Others feel no relationships at all. I recently had a short term GF, but it was understood that there was never going to be any long term…
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 03:11 PM
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Very nice!!!
/r/MGTOW209/03/21 06:02 PM
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Well said and very true.
/r/MGTOW205/03/21 02:53 PM
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Its complete madness that should even make the most degenerate of gamblers even flinch, yet each year, men keep going down the aisle while divorce lawyers lick their chops.
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 09:04 PM
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For me, i was simply taking a break like you after a LTR. Figured i’d give it some time, like 6 months or so and then i’d get lonely and get back out there. ( Didnt know any better because i had been dating since i was 15 - its just what ya do? ) First time in my life i wasnt either in a LTR or at least pursuing one. Several months pass by - So many things began to improve - overall quality of life - took up new hobbies, had much more money - began finishing books, learning a new language - it w…
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 08:45 PM
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Personally I think you are in amazing shape. I like rental properties in landlord friendly states. Good passive income. My only regret was selling mine - would have been able to grab a few more had i known better when younger. Just my 2 cents.
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 06:18 PM
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Super Metroid.
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 06:10 PM
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Forget about those measurements. NEVER NEVER put pressure on yourself to the point where it affects your mental health thinking about this. I've seen very "rich" men miserable, and poorer men happier - now you tell me, who is better off? If youre MGTOW i dont see many circumstances where you wont succeed. I put way too much pressure on myself as a younger man in the pursuit of "success" as society portrays it. It came in time, if you work hard and keep bad habits off your back. I wish someone ha…
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 06:40 AM
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Go ahead and date. Look, just dont marry or ask her to move in with you. Nothing wrong with that. Be careful - the risk is real. It goes without saying, protect yourself. If you have questions like this, go and see for yourself. I personally found when i was younger it felt more like real "love", nowadays its more like a job interview if i date. You need to see for yourself. To me its not worth the risk, but sometimes you need to figure this out for yourself. Just be careful about it.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 06:30 AM
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I hope it doesnt or at least doesnt continue to grow that way. My favorite posts are the stories though - the true personal stories and how one overcame the past struggles. As a genx’er i also learn a lot from the younger guys here. Some going through much of the same i once did, but i think personally theyve had it much rougher in many ways.
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 08:08 PM
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Probably much the same reason as you. I even stood by my girl when she was in a coma. Didnt matter much in the end. For me - just not worth it. I love my freedom of course but also feel much better when my financial destiny is in my own hands. Have a friend who found out that the wife had run up over 30k in CC debt. Guy thought he was in rocking along just fine. Now hes got to dig out of that hole for awhile. Never found any reason marriage couldnt fulfill what any LTR would do. Its too much of …
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 05:18 PM
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I feel bad for the younger guys, (not the MGTOW guys who i know will have bank and options) - but the regular blue pills guys who are settling and trying to marry in this clown world. The cultural pressure of the YOLO crowd and social media has mocked the institution. Theres no for better or worse - now its as long as im happy. Also If what these young guys are saying, and these women have had 20+ partners by the time theyre graduating college - who the hell in their right mind would want to mak…
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 02:43 AM
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The younger generation has way more information that we ever had (Gen X). Theyre sharing their experiences, good and bad. To be young and have the knowledge to solidify your position as a young man - saving early. The choices you will have, even though things may be difficult now for some of you, will be amazing later on. I wish you guys a lot of luck!!
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 06:12 PM
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These are the most painful stories to listen to as a man. Not all, but too many stories like this are commented on by people who say, biology doesnt matter. I have adopted siblings, but that was a choice my parents made. Yes, my father became a “dad” to children who werent his biologically as a full choice to help kids whose parents were no longer there. This is not that. When i see people have the attitude of “just shut up and raise the child” it takes away the man’s agency to make the decision…
/r/MGTOW10/02/21 02:33 PM
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Sounds like he was respecting modern feminism? Equal right? Mmhmm.
/r/MGTOW08/02/21 11:00 PM
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Of course my friend. Its shitty - i know. We invest so much. Stick around here. When the depression or anger lifts and it will one day - youll find a lot of humor in this one day. You dont realize it yet, but you have some amazing days ahead.
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 10:53 PM
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The first thing you need to know is that THIS WILL pass. All of it. Listen to the guys here. You still have a long , great life ahead of you. We've all been there. Many of us know what youre going through. It will be ok. Its going to take time.
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 10:37 PM
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To me, there is nothing like coming home to my house on a friday evening after work with no where i have to be or no one asking me anything. I have lots of hobbies of my own, and love my solitude. Everyone is complaining about covid, but to be honest, its been perfect.
/r/MGTOW204/02/21 12:24 AM
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My scenario is a little different. I work in government, less pay than i’d make in corporate, but a little more security and i have a pension. I still save into my 401k, but theres no match. I do however really enjoy my job. I hated my older jobs in corporate and always had the sunday blues. It wasnt worth it and im glad i left.
/r/MGTOW218/01/21 07:07 PM
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Fuck man. I pray for your happiness, but im happy you were honest enough to let the younger guys understand what can happen.
/r/MGTOW218/01/21 04:23 AM
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I loved that show so much. Everyone laughed at that show at the time. Theyre trying to “cancel” it now?
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 03:04 AM
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Men - please tell me this is a joke. Old dude here trying hard to understand the current world.
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 02:30 AM
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Just about the saddest thing ive read on the net. 😔
/r/MGTOW16/01/21 08:50 AM
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Pretty much.
/r/MGTOW16/01/21 07:27 AM
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Im a Christian MGTOW. For me, there is only Christ. My money and work are used towards that purpose. I wont have a family of my own, not with the ridiculous laws that are set up in this country. But personally i work with a lot of charities overseas. I could give two f@cks about my own money - i have way more than i need to live comfortably as a single man, with early retirement. I have no “idea” what a man is, but for me - I know what i put my own purpose towards.
/r/MGTOW216/01/21 07:20 AM
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Good advice.
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 04:48 AM
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No it wasnt always like this. Yes, men and women cheated on each other, yes there were single moms years ago etc etc but social media and the “anything goes dont judge” culture has become a ridiculous witches brew that i feel bad for any young guy today that would even think about jumping into this shit. Dating in the early 90’s wasnt amazing either - but when you guys are saying that women have been with over 30-50+ partners by college, assuming youre not exagerrating - well then no wonder im s…
/r/MGTOW14/01/21 11:39 PM
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I share the same mindset. Older as well. I spend time with my woman, but she knows exactly where i stand on the future. I told her no marriage or living together. She has her own place and I mine. I dont even spend the night - i like sleeping in my own bed. She respects my need for my own time and space - usually we only get together one night a week, watch a movie, etc. Im perfectly happy in this scenario - of course the day will likely come when she no longer is, and thats fine, and she can mo…
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 11:26 PM
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These are the same guys that scoff at the idea of men deciding they dont want to marry. Ive seen too much shit in my years to take on that deal in my personal life nevermind hearing the woeful tears of some anon. Personally, i do have a gf, but never will cohabitate or marry. Never wanted children. She knows this so i dont have to play games. These men are crazy to do this these days. The risks you face are ridiculous with barely any benefit if at all.
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 07:36 PM
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Bit of an older gentleman here and didnt even know what OF was until last year. Holy shit its gotten that bad.
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 05:40 PM
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He’ll be showing up here very soon. The ole “Im not happy” is the deathnail.
/r/MGTOW214/01/21 03:32 PM
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Some of my favorite posts are when men share their divorce experience. I was so close to getting married at one point, and dodged a big bullet. When i see those posts, I completely empathize but of the many mistakes ive made in my life, I thank those stories the most for making me realize i didnt make the big one.
/r/MGTOW213/01/21 06:29 PM
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The irony is unmistakable. Almost took the plunge before i came to my senses. Modern life for the single man has never been better.
/r/MGTOW31/12/20 04:39 AM
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Someone posted on this sub that Feminism has liberated more men than women. I still laugh at that because its so true. The sheer freedom, and resource accumulation that can be achieved as a single man is insane, especially if one can live well under their means. Early retirement, travel, hobbies. Just wish i had started sooner.
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 09:00 PM
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Love it! Keep going brother!
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 08:55 PM
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Built a music studio. The ex would never have "allowed" that.
/r/MGTOW210/12/20 06:29 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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