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Ginj96/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 01:10 AM
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QuestionGinj96/r/newTRP14/10/21 03:33 PM
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My personal experience is that I never want to be the guy she monkey branched to due to the sheer fact that I feel like a rebound, which is usually what it is. On the other hand I’ve known a lot of dudes who are scumbags who don’t give a fuck, who will have sex with the girl then throw her away. It varies from guy to guy, if you’re trying to say you’ve been dumped and she’s moved onto another dude then that speaks more about her than yourself and I’d try my best to move on. You’ll never really k…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 12:50 PM
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Biggest one for me is the fear of being cheated on. Reading into absolutely everything to try and find signs of betrayal. TRP holds some good value in the sense of finding a purpose and chasing goals and aspirations, however the plain woman bashing and generalisation causes more harm than good. I’m now in a relationship and witnessing first hand the negative effects that TRP has brought to me. Luckily I have a supportive girlfriend who understands, I haven’t told her I’m exTRP but she understand…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/21 04:07 PM
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Yeah I agree. The date is tonight and I’m super nervous. I won’t be bringing any of that up unless she raises it as a genuine concern. I’d just expect honesty so that I can be at peace with it.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/21 02:02 PM
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Yeah I think that’s another insecurity of mine. When I date or get to know someone who I’m not exclusive with I like to get to know that one person. Juggling options to me just makes me feel uncomfortable to be honest, and I think if I’m seeing someone I’d like them to be the same. That always plays on the back of my mind that I’m ‘competing’ with others. However I’d expect someone to be 100% transparent with me if that is what was going on. I don’t know, to me it makes me uncomfortable
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 06:06 PM
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How do I overcome it
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 12:18 PM
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Thanks for this advice. You are correct and I need to start thinking this way. Distrust is a big big issue of mine and I don’t want to be policing peoples behaviour because it’s not healthy for any party. An example is that tonight she’s going to a work pub quiz and my mind automatically goes to ‘she’s seeing another guy tonight’. It’s honestly crazy. Like you said it’s just trusting till given a reason not to and understanding not everyone is out there with bad intensions. However the trust par…
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 10:49 AM
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Yeah honestly it’s absolutely crazy how one minded I became. And I’ve acknowledged it pissed a lot of people off. For example, she’s going on a work pub quiz tonight and the first thing that comes to my mind is ‘oh she’s going on another date’ and then I start feeling anxious.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 10:45 AM
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I appreciate your kindness
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 01:35 AM
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I appreciate this. Yeah you’re definitely right, i find myself having obsessive and controlling behaviours. Always checking social media to see if I’m being betrayed. Things along these lines. I know they are toxic and it all comes from distrust and this fucked up conditoning that I exposed myself to. I’m trying to unplug but it’s hard. The thoughts of betrayal are always lingering
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 01:34 AM
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To be honest, it makes me feel uncomfortable. I am trying to unplug from it but a lot of damage has already been done. There’s always thoughts lingering in the back of my mind. But it’s trying to focus on the present and not relapse back into the loophole that it brings
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 01:33 AM
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Would it be suitable to bring up TRP with my therapist and the issues it’s caused?
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 01:24 AM
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Why the fuck are you with this woman exactly? She openly disrespects and abuses you and you stay with her? Dude, dump her ass, imagine if the script was flipped. You owe it to yourself to be happy and not be dealing with a psychopath like this.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 12:53 AM
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