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Being shit tested?

October 14, 2021

Been seeing this chick a while now. She tries hitting me up on FaceTime twice last night within the space of 2 hours and also sending me snaps asking if I’m alive.

Didn’t respond till this morning, just told her that I was busy and met a friend and hope she enjoys her day.

She’s left me on read all day. Is this a common shit test or is she just not interested? I’ve held frame and I’m not gonna reach out, just wanted some perspective from TRP.


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Title Being shit tested?
Author Ginj96
Upvotes 2
Comments 3
Date October 14, 2021 3:33 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/being-shit-tested.1095177
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/q8258d/being_shit_tested/
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[–]whhoa 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Shes making sure you're still orbiting her probably. Develop some mystery bro, just because she asks doesnt mean you answer, are you a dog? She prob thought you may be getting laid - why correct her? Once you confirmed that you did nothing, she no longer cares

[–]Defiant_Mess5346 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Keep text for logistics only.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

if she's into you she might be trying to punish you for leaving her hanging. you're doing everything right. you addressed why you couldn't answer, changed topic to a more positive vibe, and didn't double text. remember texting is like ping pong. you send one over, and you wait for her to hit it back, if she never hits it back then you know she just wasn't that into you. but she might actually be into you and may be shit testing you. if that's the case she'll eventually cave and text you back... just don't double text

currently have a girl that keeps hitting me up every month or so looking for a second chance (ghosted her after a date for being annoying)... I bring that up to show you that girls don't forget about a guy if they're into him.

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