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Don’t forget tip. I always judge a man in his generously he tips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:08 AM
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It might be helpful if the pinned post designated to episode discussion included links to anytime they say that there are studies to prove X, Y, and Z.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:39 PM
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Oh my god, you just reminded me of Savannah’s tangent about Spoons, it cracked me up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:07 PM
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Including the scrote who took the photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:02 PM
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Oh I didn’t even notice the lil guy! He blended in with the ground lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:59 PM
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As if women don’t get sexually assaulted by men who aren’t their dates. Family members, teachers, managers, strangers, even their own spouse. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:56 PM
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Pickme/Gabbie Hanna- interchangeable in this context
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:45 PM
51

She makes more money than TB (who has his own pros and cons, that’s a different discussion) and he proudly says this when asked. TB took a pay cut when he was with New England so the team could afford other high paid teammates they needed to succeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:23 PM
37

Have him get waxed in a single pull, he will learn to keep his opinions to himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:01 PM
5

People with a God complex will often also think they’re too important for trivial things like that, or refuse to believe they’re wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:44 AM
69

The first response I got to my first comment. “You are worth more than coffee.” Sounds small but it changed me for the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:17 AM
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I get DMs telling me to die just from lurkers reading my comments and participating in this sub, so yeah, I’d delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:02 PM
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I would avoid posting identifying photos on a sub that gets so much hate and violent/threatening backlash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:00 PM
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Jovi is such a piece of shit. He’s abusive, alcoholic, trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:30 AM
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He hates her as evidenced by the posts/tweets, and he hates himself if his profile pic is more recent than the anniversary pic. Instructive all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:23 AM
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I knew a girl who gifted herself (her virginity) to a guy for his 40th birthday. She was 20-21. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:12 AM
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Wondering on fellow queen opinions on block/delete when it comes to women. I met a cool girl at a bar a little over a month ago, we kissed and traded numbers. Texted for a while, but then she ghosted. I have already blocked/deleted, but wondering if you all hold women to the same standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:01 AM
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Right up there with “don’t terrorize me with your pregnancy”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:03 AM
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Strong and stable! He’ll love you like a table. 🥧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:36 AM
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True, no such thing as a male king. Edit: thanks for all the downvotes, lurking scrotes. Don’t waste your breath DMing, I’m only going to laugh at how pathetic you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:43 AM
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Honestly, having just gotten into the show (no spoilers please), I think they made her character kinda blah and a pickme on purpose. You have this striking Neurosurgeon who seems perfect, and then this nondescript character, his love interest. Does she do anything like painting or cycling? She has no discernible personality, allowing the average female viewer to slip into her place and think, “damn, I could land a guy like that if this dull ass pickme can!” Just my pair of pennies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:13 PM
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I can’t imagine being 27 and going from 2 kids to 8 kids with one gestation. Jon and Kate were doomed, and their kids are the real victims. I used to love watching their show in middle school. Looking back, I hate how TLC allows for this borderline abuse to happen in all their shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:10 PM
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Yes please queen 😩 this heat wave is killing me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:54 AM
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Grey rocking. Be so dull that they stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:50 AM
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She was also at his house, seemingly the first time they met- hopefully she was just saving her own ass and keeping sweet until she left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:16 AM
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The men who post these threads are just desperate for more material to jerk off to, lord knows they’ve spent eons of time consuming manufactured porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:10 AM
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If you haven’t seen it already, watch “A Woman’s Place” on Hulu - it’s about imbalance between men and women in the culinary world. It was a single piece IIRC but I would’ve watched an entire season of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:08 PM
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Link? Can’t even lie to himself and pretend it was a date? Probably just invites her over or invited himself over to her home. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:57 PM
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119 on my iPhone 🥵 but I also block every call asking me about my car’s extended warranty. For the car I haven’t driven/owned the title to in over two years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:56 PM
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Time to mask up, forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:43 PM
6

Is tap dancing bear code for something else?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:48 PM
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He could even loan or give her the money and then guilt trip her or act entitled to s€x because of it. Abusers gonna abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:09 AM
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Could’ve been “Why” leading into “Why am I such a pathetic scrote who can’t even read?” But that’s just speculation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:43 PM
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Someone’s had too much freedom in his diet 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:41 PM
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Had this happen to me on a first date with a doctor. He was going on and on about how the nurses are always flirting and fighting for his attention. I sat there, grey rocking it, and finally got to speak. Said something to the effect of, “I don’t get it. I mean, it’s not like you’re a fireman.” From then, his tone totally shifted. At each of our next dates, he brought me flowers, jewelry, a hoodie I mentioned I wanted, etc. Men don’t have an excuse that they “can’t take a hint.” They just don’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:39 PM
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Off topic: I keep seeing your comments and I swear I’m gonna have to run to Kroger to buy a Krusteaz box mix so thank you 🍋💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:31 PM
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“I’m going out tonight, you can come if you want” I don’t want to go out with someone who is incapable of explicitly asking me for a proper date. It makes me feel like an inconvenience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:27 PM
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There’s no way this guy doesn’t know about the subs that we’re created specifically to ask women or ask men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:24 PM
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He probably lives somewhere an emergency room trip won’t leave him bankrupt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:35 AM
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He definitely has an innie-mini micro peen from all the fat surrounding it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:21 AM
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If this man could cheat, I’d be more embarrassed for the woman he cheats with. Just this little sliver of the photo, I can tell he is enormously unappealing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:49 PM
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Huh. I see a man with no definition between his head, shoulders, and neck. Maybe get him a wii fit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:23 PM
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There’s been a few times close friends or family will point out a man and I ask them why they think I should give them a chance. Most of the time, it’s an answer that boils down to convenience. As in, he’s around the same age and he’s single. Maybe he already has two children by two different women, maybe he doesn’t have a steady job or a car, maybe he has a drinking problem and a beer gut to show for it. My response when people do this is to act insulted, because I am. Am I not smart enough to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:48 PM
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Even Raya and The League are trash. I can’t believe how these “selective apps” get filled with ugly, obese men who have no stable job and are couch surfing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:12 PM
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It looks like it could be three separate pieces for when she wants to wear just the middle. Either way, love it. Love HP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:37 PM
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Can confirm. Peep the username.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:31 AM
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I’ve read the second slide several times now, maybe it’s just too late, but I can’t understand what they’re trying to say. Can anyone interpret?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:21 AM
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Beware of job exaggerations. I was chatting with a guy and asked him what his schooling was like, given his profile’s description and he said “lol that’s a bit of a stretch.” Think along the lines of a paramedic or an orderly saying they’re a resident surgeon. Fool didn’t even have a bachelor’s degree. And yes, you do need a master’s “just to reshelve books.” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:16 AM
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“Too much a a handsome” = too much of a handsome. “can fill people looking” = can feel people looking. This is what happens when spelling phonetically. “Should of” (should have) been educated enough to know the difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:20 AM
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Women regularly post in the 90 day sub about Coltee sliding in their DMs as if he is completely ignoring Vanessa. Screenshot receipts! The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:12 AM
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Talk is cheap. It’s so easy to get caught up in a conversation because people can say anything without having to back it up in action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:49 AM
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By him canceling, he can manipulate her into chasing him by way of her planning the “next” date. That way she will feel like the one asking and will be more likely to pay 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:43 PM
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Content aside, your drawing and spatial/design skills are impressive!! Well done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:39 PM
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Also, when you suggest brunch or a meal, they might be more likely to believe you’re willing to go 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:29 AM
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I must have missed the announcement on this, and didn’t want to write an entire separate post. Is there a restriction on uploading a photo for a post? When did that start?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:58 PM
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Thank you for sharing. Spot on with the renovations-maintenance requests are the absolute worst. Also, thumbs up on the username :) wishing you all the best, queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:41 PM
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Nearly any use of an ellipsis screams “geriatric” to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 05:58 PM
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Do not even get me started on the bios that are just a bunch of emojis EYE ROLL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 05:56 PM
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I am right there with you on the shoes off, wash hands, no wearing outside clothes inside the house. My dad came over and left his shoes on when I asked him not to, and it was keeping me awake until I got up and mopped my entire home at an inappropriate hour. I am curious to know why it ended with the guy you described, if you don’t mind my asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 05:34 PM
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Add to the list, watch how much he spends on tickets, spirit wear, memorabilia, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 05:48 AM
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Get rid of Facebook altogether
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:26 AM
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He’s being picky too late in the game. Ruined himself and thinks he can be choosy without having anything that makes himself a good choice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 05:05 PM
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There’s not much that feels as good as walking out of a date, no explanation. They don’t deserve it. And calling him out on his shit will simply enable him to hide it better from his next victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:05 AM
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Especially while he is still typing! So satisfying to know that he just had to get the last word in and couldn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:27 PM
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The wall of text that has been obviously copy and pasted to all their matches is so transparent. Unmatch/block. Done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:57 PM
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Chatting with a guy I matched with.. he had the cajones to say, “I feel like you should be the one impressing me.” I just… couldn’t block fast enough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:50 PM
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When she said she paid for the uber on the way, I think they must live in the same neighborhood, met up, and then went to the restaurant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:04 AM
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While we are on the subject - say we find out a man is cheating WITH us, as in, we are the other woman. Do we tell the wife? Men will go to any length to cheat. I dated a guy once for almost a year, he rented out a separate apartment specifically so he could cheat there and not risk getting caught in his own home by his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:02 AM
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Waaaaay too many men think their facial hair looks good, when it actually makes them look exponentially worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:41 AM
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I think that is part of it, but a bigger reason would be due to the woman’s mental insecurities. You could have a perfectly mentally healthy woman who, say, has a broken leg. She’s preyed on because of her physical ailment. But a woman with an eating disorder is more likely to be a chronic issue due to it being a mental disorder. With mental health being less stigmatized, hopefully this will improve. I once opened up to a man about my bulimic habits in the past, and the first thing he asked was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:19 PM
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I’m astounded at how many men will message or text that they want to “rearrange your insides” like wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:05 PM
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Legacy- planting seeds in a garden you’ll never get to see Projecting that you won’t see your offspring, much? Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:00 PM
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RIP Rik. Loved him as Fred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:48 AM
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I don’t know where you’re from, when I was in undergrad in MN, I was among just a few girls dressed reasonably for the weather and the majority of the rest in a skimpy costume kept telling my group of friends how smart we were. Like, no kidding, it’s 30° F at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:21 AM
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Been there, done that. Now, if it is after 10pm, I don’t text back until the next morning. Before texting, my parents wouldn’t let me use the landline to call my friends outside of 9a-9p to be polite. If your boss reached out during non reasonable work hours, would you respond? I’d hope not. Same thing with suitors. They don’t have the control or command over you to be available at all times, especially inappropriate times to be disturbing someone (i.e. when most people are asleep).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:51 PM
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Isnt he also 10+ years older than her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:20 AM
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Just tell him you’ll meet him there, then when he arrives, you unmatch, block, delete 🎩🪄🐇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:16 AM
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this is how they get around And before the SJWs come around for calling me a bully, get over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:01 PM
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Can he even fit on the roller coaster?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:12 PM
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What is F1? A car driving quickly? 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 12:42 PM
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Is he supposed to be 50? I would guessed late sixties or early seventies 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:28 PM
125

He was twelve years older than Jackie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:41 AM
97

This reminded me of my favorite Spanish mnemonic. Problema is masculine because men cause problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:38 AM
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I got banned from an app for “excessive bullying” after telling a guy he was no looker when he said he only matched so he could have a good laugh at me. Whenever I report a man for explicit messages or lying about his age/name, or for legitimate bullying, they’re NEVER banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:53 AM
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what the fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:09 AM
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100% copy and pasted responses. Do they think we won’t notice a block of uninteresting text rambling on about ‘nO dRaMa?’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:10 PM
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Plan a date a few hours away (using your Google voice number of course) and then just don’t show up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:18 PM
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Y’all see the post in another sub about a man complaining he doesn’t get matched because he’s unattractive? And how he’s mad he can’t say anything about it without sounding like an angry, violent person? All the coddling comments make me want to hurl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:13 PM
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And when they slide back in to the DM requests.. block, or call them out for the lurker they are, then block before they can respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:47 PM
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And will age quickly from unprotected sun exposure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:28 PM
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If I made my entire personality my career, it would be so pathetically cringe. Like, I can’t imagine commenting on everyone’s books or injecting the fact that I love to read/research into every conversation as a brag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:38 AM
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Cops beat, firemen cheat. I say this with three ex relationship/situationship and five generations (documented) rescue squad/combat medic in the family. Have your fun with them if that’s your deal, but I will never consider one for anything serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:36 AM
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Can we talk about how many men consider their obese bodies a “dad bod?” I didn’t realize how common of an excuse to be disgustingly out of shape it is becoming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:38 PM
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This is Coltee and Vanessa’s plot line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:54 AM
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(ugly ass) hat checks out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:26 PM
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I report them too. Sadly nothing is ever done about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:10 PM
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Never ever ever fake it! And if it’s clear that he is not going to be able to make it happen, tell him so. Even in my worst pickme days, I was never embarrassed to tell them to stop because it just wasn’t going to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:26 PM
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The worst are the ones who insist they are going to be the magic one who can make it happen internally/through penetration alone. You can’t win by telling them you haven’t/have. They’ll either try to outdo every man you’ve previously been with, or persist til being the first one to hit the mark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:51 AM
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WHOA. Is this at the Belmont red/purple/brown station? I’d know it anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:53 PM
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I’ll always co-sign this ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:13 AM
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I walked away quickly, it was wintertime and quite dark already. Made it home on foot, and had a bunch of missed calls from him. Blocked. Deleted the VMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:29 PM
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I love this take. Midwest Queens unite 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:54 PM
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This is especially baffling at a first date. When he asked me what makes me stand out from the “hundreds of other matches,” I explained I do not need to prove myself, politely got my jacket, purse, and walked out of the restaurant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:45 PM
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This is a very good take. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:59 AM
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I just noticed your username - are you the one in the video? Great content! Keep up the good work :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:12 AM
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How do we respond exactly to a man who suggests a low effort date? Just say no, and block/delete? Or do we give them a chance to make a better offer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:02 AM
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Pick up artist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:50 AM
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I like this, one of my biggest disappointments on a flaky date is when I get an outfit planned, do my hair/makeup, etc. It sounds so trivial but it’s time and effort wasted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:48 AM
4

Another one could be “Who hurt you?” 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:47 AM
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I will not spend money on Reddit coins so I can only gild you metaphorically. 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:25 AM
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Seriously! As if it’s even her decision, it’s literally the sperm that determines the baby’s sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:49 PM
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Report these profiles!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:30 PM
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Every time I reported some misconduct, they sent the same “we’ll keep an eye on it, and if it happens again…” bullshit. They don’t care about protecting women, just protecting their revenue from desperate people who need matches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:56 AM
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Never assume incompetence when greed will suffice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:29 AM
8

The acceptance rate to chiropractic school is basically anyone who will pay for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:52 PM
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The job lying/embellishment is all too common and one of my biggest pet peeves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:35 AM
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Google number, for sure. I have been using for ages. He and I have been communicating on WhatsApp due to different countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:36 PM
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Yeah, the term I’ve heard for this is called a ‘tribute.’ I’ve been texted (from numbers I’ve never had in my contacts) a d’ck pic with my photo on the screen behind their pathetic sausage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:39 PM
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Black out version? We will all win, within minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:29 PM
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Context: popular subreddit post about a creepy man sliding in a lady’s DMs. NVM comments implying she should be aware of the privilege of the attention from the DM harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:02 PM
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She did the math!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:12 AM
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Giving him a chance will always make him think he can do better. Don’t give him the opportunity to reject you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:00 AM
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“Since one hour ago” S H O C K I N G
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:00 PM
2

“Politically conservative “ SHOCKING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:57 AM
24

His dad was a total POS too. Sometimes I dream of me and (his) mom running away together and rescuing dogs in our private mountain home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:15 AM
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Hinge “designed to be deleted” cut out the middle part and just don’t download it in the first place. Stay smart, fellow STEM queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:26 PM
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Lol, my ZVX’s parents always gave better gifts than he did. Mom also gave me a Burberry scarf after we broke up for Christmas because she missed me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:22 PM
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On a floor she probably cleaned, and a remote control she’ll never have the choice of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:10 PM
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I love Alexis, even though she had her PickMe moments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:38 AM
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Oh my god. The craft brewery one. Just why?? If that’s your idea of trying to make a good first impression.. boy, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:47 PM
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lol, same (username checks out here) and guys telling me they’re “also” 6 ft is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:33 AM
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I once had a man tell me we had to go to dinner in a different neighborhood than the one I suggested because he didn’t want people to constantly be coming up to the table to talk to him. Mentioned something about being in a band when he was younger and I thought - literally nobody cares who this guy is, I have never heard of him or his band, nobody in my group chats have heard of him. He ended up calling me a stupid b’tch when I wouldn’t send him nudes prior to the (first!!!) date so I blocked a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:44 PM
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Don’t let him know your stance on porn. Just casually ask him (face to face, not in a text) about what kind of porn he watches. He will be more likely to open up to you about it if you seem blasé.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:13 PM
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Stand your ground, sis! Those mods who have no life outside of Reddit are just pathetic, on some kind of power trip. Put down the Cheetos and get over yourself, man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:42 AM
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Said every woman who’s been intimate with him, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:01 PM
10

What about the guys who proudly label themselves as assh0les? Ugh, the worst. Run far away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:31 AM
6

Punny queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:44 AM
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Everything is either an opportunity to get in your pants, prove themselves to other men, or both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:03 PM
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This is the WORST. I’m not a man, and I’m insulted to be labeled as such. I have been trying to be better about using the term “y’all” when referring to a group. I used to always say “you guys,” even when referring to a group solely made up of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:18 PM
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Whenever I read these profiles where men refuse to use punctuation, I imagine them running out of breath and going purple in the face 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:15 PM
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And how in the hell did their comment get two awards? Yeesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:40 PM
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Scroll through “girlie girl’s” comments. One hour old account, defending men to a fault, overtly female username.. either a massive pickme or a man trying to infiltrate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:24 PM
39

Don’t spend the night with him a few weeks in to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:00 PM
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Urgh, seriously. As if it weren’t up to me in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:01 PM
31

This, and I think it’ll be very telling of his character how he reacts to you wanting to wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:27 PM
95

Why do so many guys act like it’s such a flex to say “order whatever you want!” when out for a meal? Like, I was going to anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:55 PM
116

We once stayed at a hotel when he flew me out to meet his parents. (As an aside, their lack of shock at my age should’ve been a red flag.) The hotel was hosting some kind of dance or cheer competition and we were late for brunch because he wanted to stay and ogle at the 6-14 year old girls. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:40 AM
349

When I was in undergrad, I was casually dating a guy more than twice my age (because I was soooo mature 🤡) and noticed some red flags. I ended up reaching out to his ex wife on Facebook, she assumed that my issues with him was when they were married, and I told her it was happening currently. She warned me, and I am glad I listened to her and got away. Flash forward 5-6 years and he has a baby with a girl younger than me, and she moved in with him with her child from a previous relationship. Oh,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:05 AM
39

I once had a mechanic from the dealership leave a note in my cup holder while I was waiting for them to finish my car. I was 18, he was easily 35, if not older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:15 PM
12

As if they’re helpful. The world needs more women’s crisis centers, and not the kind that are disguised as anti-choice “support.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:34 PM
50

I reported so many profiles for inappropriate conduct and they just sent an automated “we’ll keep an eye on it” macro. Deleted and put a bad review on the App Store.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:38 PM
116

It’s not, never has been, and never will be your responsibility to flatter or be polite to a man just because he is a man and you are a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:43 PM
15

The more women that quit OLD, the better. I’d love to see T’nder go under because there’s no balance of men/women using. Of course, the pickme population will keep it alive longer than it deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:35 PM
21

Dump That MF Already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:08 AM
43

The difference in their hair is so real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:26 AM
85

Lololol I did something similar. Found his old MySpace and he had an obscure song on his bio and I was walking down the hall singing it the next day, having listened to it on repeat for the first time the night before. This was like 2012 when MySpace was out and Facebook was in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:16 AM
10

I considered making a whole post about this.. recently heard from an ex situationship who I’ve blocked, but he has now taken to Google voice or text plus or any number of apps to bypass my blocking. I don’t know what to do anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:20 PM
18

Poor table manners are too common for this day and age!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:12 PM
1

Dating app bio! I should’ve stated that earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:09 PM
12

Email support. Delete forever never truly means delete forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:00 AM
38

Bans are such a power trip, I swear. I once got banned from a sub for “promoting violence toward a child.” My comment quoted Uncle Frank and what he said to Kevin when Kevin barged in on him in the shower. I even had a clip embedded in. Asked for an appeal, nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:57 AM
6

Stick with it!! The library = 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:09 PM
111

The way OP wrote, it sounds like the daughters are his from a previous relationship- which is terrifying that the father has alone time/custody with them. Edit: spelling error.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:00 PM
12

I saw that post too. Had a good laugh reading all the pathetic responses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:16 PM
250

If they admit to it in their bio (i.e. their age says 30) “I’m actually 37,” REPORT IT. We can only hope if enough of us did that, that it would get through to the app moderators. I’ve since deleted, but save screenshots of some of the particularly pathetic ones to laugh at every now and then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:16 AM
114

Also, just a random question but didn’t want to make an entire post. What is it with men who write “no drama!!1!” In their dating profiles? Am I missing some reference?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:04 AM
157

Bumble does not give a F about protecting women. I reported threatening messages all the time (have since deleted the worthless time sucking app) and all they did was send the same response every time. “We’ll keep an eye on ____ and if it happens again, we’ll take action.” Literally, every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:42 AM
2

Something Alexis or Moira Rose would totally rock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:32 AM
346

When a man older than 20 dates an 18 year old, he may as well say that he’d date younger if it weren’t illegal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:54 PM
257

He would have put in the effort if he was worth anything. There’s a reason it ended, and it is not a reflection of you at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:50 AM
39

I once paid $22 in gas (as a broke 19 year old) to go get mediocre dick from a man who called me ‘annoying’ when I wanted to lay my head on his chest after. I both cringe and want to hug little me for being such a doofus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:15 AM
81

Online dating of any kind is just setting yourself up for failure. Unless a man is actively pursuing you, and only you, he does not deserve you. OLD just encourages a sampling platter of women to these men, and they think they have a chance with every single one they see. Make them realize they don’t! Edit: autocorrect error
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:37 AM
641

“I cut my own leg off and now I can’t walk. Why is this happening to me?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:33 AM
64

Possibly because women are told that being married is winning, so they’re showing off that they have a husband, and men are told that being married is an inconvenience/ball and chain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:59 AM
17

Yes everyone glossing over the three kids part? She should be focusing on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:40 AM
7

Nicole had sent a ton of money to Azan, then there was the whole Williams situation. I haven’t watched in a while but there’s always a couple where it’s some way hot young guy and an older post menopausal woman who gives him a ton of money and emotionally manipulates her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:10 AM
40

Anything about the office is an immediate left swipe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:39 PM
11

And then TLC makes a chain of reality shows about it, branding it as a cutesy international love story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:28 PM
21

I know others might say to just ignore/leave on read/block but it can feel good to respond. Something I’ve done in the past is (hand)write a letter and then I just don’t send it. It can feel good to just let it all out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:25 PM
3

You caught me! I’m obsessed haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:41 PM
33

Legacy. Planting seeds in a garden you’ll never get to see.. or have to water, tend, pull weeds, clean up litter, harvest produce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:59 AM
12

This is nearly verbatim what happened to me. Scary how similar they all can be so shitty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:50 AM
15

F*cking IG. Wont block the explicit content but will block crybaby scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:23 PM
55

Permanently deleted the only dating app I’ve used, never looking back. Thank you ladies for helping!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:43 PM
16

Erika? Her account is 🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:42 PM
32

When I was teaching (all grade levels) I would be at the water fountain, office, cafeteria duty, wherever, and kids would walk up and just grab on and say, “Mrs. Giraffe I missed you!” I’m not kidding, 17-18 year old girls would get all sweet and lovey. I usually just said “good morning Miss____” and moved on. It’s not easily avoidable all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:04 AM
6

Whenever someone writes lmao with more than one o, I always imagine it like a cow moo 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:56 AM
17

I am CF but I feel like there are reasons to hope for either. I’d be terrified of having a daughter, to know how the world would be unkind to her or her potential of getting hurt. And having a boy doesn’t seem appealing because if he turns out to be a LVM, it’s a poor reflection of his upbringing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:30 PM
39

He likely was lovebombing her along the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:24 PM
26

Dream with ambition, lead with conviction Kamala Harris
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:21 PM
52

I just deleted mine for good as well. If I saw another man who thinks watching the office (🤢) and ordering Taco Bell uber eats is a bold, unique personality, I’d throw my phone into Lake Michigan. Then of course any guy in app who has a good job and decent photos is a self absorbed asshole just looking for p*ssy. Best delete them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:34 AM
37

Laughin' at my sister 'cause she wants to form a harem I'm just sayin', if you really loved me, you would share him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:05 AM
13

My guess would be chlamydia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:20 PM
44

At least if it’s fake, there’s no wife that had to deal with his shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:18 AM
99

I refuse to believe this is real. The writer of this must have a piss fetish and wants to read comments that offer original thoughts on his sick fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:30 AM
7

This is true. Before I deleted it, I had more than one DM on Instagram saying things along the lines of making a D1 baby 🤢 BYE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:21 PM
7

6’ here! Powerful and strong, walk tall. Thanks for the encouragement, queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:07 PM
12

Is there a word to describe how heartbreaking and comforting it is to know that so many of us have experienced the same abuse? 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:00 AM
29

I was a substitute right after finishing undergrad.. the day I was hit on in front of a full class and later cornered in a parking lot by a 6’3” seventh grader was the day I knew I needed a full time job besides teaching. This was in a rural community school too, so unexpected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:29 AM
36

I’d be interested in learning warning signs/strategies he used. This is more common than a lot of women realize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:22 AM
18

You don’t have to even censor his thumbnail pic. They all look like the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:20 AM
10

Is anyone else seeing posts way out of order even when sorting by new? That’s how I stay on top of every lil detail of wisdom from you queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:17 AM
44

Don’t forget the entrepreneurs! I don’t run but that would be an exception to run away from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:33 PM
124

Last 2.5 hours? No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:17 PM
112

Garbage men are essential to society, if they stopped working for even a few days, trash would be overflowing. One of my teachers said he was a garbage man in college and said it taught him the definition of honest, hard work. He also gave us the dad joke “all you can eat, all shift” and we laughed hysterically 😂 Anyway, all this to say, sanitation is important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:55 PM
174

Job titles are such a reach for most of these guys. Hint: none of them are actually engineers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:29 PM
41

No, he’s living on the coast with his girlfriend, they have a baby together and she has another child from a previous relationship. I think she’s about 24-26 and he’s in his 50s now. They got pregnant within a week (if my math is right and she carried to full term) of him proposing to me, me being a dumb/brainwashed/groomed young adult said yes. Thankfully I have opened my eyes and moved on. He tried to add me on social media a few months back.. with a fake name because he knew I had him blocked…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:37 PM
56

He was definitely a disgusting sex tourist, going to Thailand to buy 12-14 year olds. I feel like I must look older because I’m literally 6’ and have been since I was about 16-17 but I get mistaken for a student even still in my mid-late 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:16 PM
48

Common abuse tactic, the person who was once so good to you is the only one who can be that same person again, even if there’s a bunch of other guys ready to treat you right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:38 PM
115

I was groomed from age 20-23 by one of the worst men I’ve ever met or heard of. I remember early on he told me he thought I was beautiful because I “look about twelve.” One time we were vacationing and in the same hotel we stayed there was a dance or cheer competition and the way he lingered to watch the girls (aged like 6-12) was just horrifying. He was 48 at the time.. I think I’ll go take another shower, even though it’s been almost four years since I’ve seen him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:36 PM
44

ENM is just the excuse they use to say “I’m afraid of commitment and lack honesty”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:20 PM
32

raises hand I’m 6 ft and on path to make 6 figures by the time I’m 30 soooo..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:54 AM
20

Yeah, that was my first thought as well. Sounds really muddled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:51 AM
15

Wow he should feel privileged to speak to her. She’s stunning! And witty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:47 AM
29

They look at women as utilitarian companions no matter the distress it places on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:45 AM
61

When do we tell men if we are infertile? Never? I always thought if I told they would take it as an excuse to not wear a condom 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:29 PM
6

It might be your hand position, hard to say without seeing. My hands aren’t super thin so maybe I just have more padding in my fingertip area but if you wanna DM me feel free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:02 PM
7

Please report this to the app too! We can only hope their number and IP gets banned for this unbecoming behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:03 PM
31

I can always tell when I need to trim my nails by the clicking noise playing piano 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:53 PM
30

IME, they ask because they can then expect you to go 50/50 or pay entirely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:24 PM
68

Hi can he please read every book ever for my audiobook collection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:21 PM
16

Reporting profiles is so satisfying except that the app support policy does not give a shit at all. Every time I report I get a notice saying they’ll “keep an eye on it” no strike system no nothing. Frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:17 PM
5

Do you just straight up ask him what his last name is? And if he asks back..? Teach me please sis🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:06 PM
16

shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:51 PM
3

Mona Lisa Sapperstein!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:29 PM
108

Report anything even slightly off-putting. Any man who says “my name isn’t __, it’s __” or “I’m not 32, I’m 39” REPORT. Man who threatens to “beat up your ex” REPORT. Self proclaimed sugar daddy, REPORT. Couple seeking their third unicorn? REPORT. There are apps for that. Smoking logo says “never” yet he has a photo of him with a cigar/cigarette/blunt? REPORT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:31 AM
1

Mom can we have Julien Solomita? We have Julien at home. Julien at home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:27 AM
44

Appreciate your username! -fellow tall queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:02 AM
105

That thread even existing is just absurd. Steering conversation away from the discussion of surge in violence against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:28 PM
12

Have never listened to it and don’t intend to. L I’ll probably get downvoted but oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:18 PM
23

This legit reminded me of the dorm mother from Zoe101 when she was crying to the girls that her boyfriend gave her a pretzel from the gas station for Valentine’s Day 😂 block that shit immediately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:40 PM
60

K but where can one buy a raining cats umbrella? 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:35 PM
18

Exactly. Ron wants to provide for his family, is a fantastic lover, stepped up to commit to the woman he loved, and doesn’t give a damn what anyone thought of him. Stayed off social media too! I could go on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:45 PM
54

“If you want to know, ask” I don’t want to know. “I love the office” I love to sit on the couch and watch the same stupid TV show on repeat. “Real life Ron Swanson” I eat too much red meat, making my dick lifeless. Also I have unclean, shitty facial hair. “420 friendly” I’m a loser stoner. “Pineapple doesn’t belong on pizza” I will judge you for literally everything you do, up to and including your food preferences. ETA: any man who compares himself to a character or says he is just like them is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:58 PM
52

What app is this? Trash knows no limits. Don’t forget the ever present “don’t take yourself too seriously” like wtf does that even mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:50 PM
27

Cops beat, firemen cheat. Never again with either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:38 PM
16

Fun fact, usually when your dog reacts to a person, they’re reading your reaction to them and responding accordingly. They know us better than we know ourselves sometimes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:03 PM
10

What do y’all say specifically when a man asks you out for drinks? Just block and move on? Or give him a chance to ask a proper date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:28 PM
15

And even if that is the case, an overwhelming majority of doctors/firemen/cops are so insufferable you wouldn’t want to date them anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:30 PM
44

Becoming friends with a girl he was cheating on me with.. and she turned out to be cheating on her husband. We had ditched him and I went no contact with her for lying to me about being married. I’m all for leaving a man behind but lying about it to your sis is no good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:22 AM
115

Thank you for this post. Opened my eyes to a man I’ve been dating. And also, prior to this I was thinking NVM is no value, when in fact men can truly be negative value. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:58 PM
164

Alex Cooper in a nutshell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:38 AM
8

I matched with a guy in OLD years ago, he asked me what I do for a living. I gave him a vague answer and he told me to quit because he was now my full time job. This was before we had ever met or even spoken outside the app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:40 PM
27

OP, this is called “breadcrumbing” when they don’t respond consistently. Let me find a link for you, I’m commenting now so I can edit later. Edit edit: here it is, had it saved. Stay strong sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:05 PM
11

Hug sis 💞 it hurts so bad it can’t be put into words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:52 AM
90

When I use OLD, I report profiles for anything even remotely uncomfortable: looking for our third, lied about their age, violence (“let daddy choke you”) in bio, you name it. And do they get banned? No, you’ll just get an automated response (no option to reply) from the app support saying if they’re reported again, they’ll get banned. Not helping at all or making it safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:43 AM
2

I’m honestly shamed that a week after everything fell apart I reached out. Haven’t heard back in three weeks.. this was pre FDS for me, and I wish I could take it back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:32 PM
1

Holy moly, TLG2 is like a look right into my life. I constantly had to remind him that I’m just a person and not to be disappointed when I’m being my regular average self. And he of course went the “you deserve the best and you’re so beautiful” and bounced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:25 PM
86

This seems a lot lower than what actually happens. I’d imagine more like 4/5.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:18 PM
10

Salve Reginas of FDS! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:23 PM
79

If a man ever called me a bitch, I’d call his mother and tell on him. Grow a tattling tail, idgaf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:48 AM
13

Tbh I don’t think I have. I struggle with thinking I am good enough. I know that’s not approved here and I’ve been told to read the guide, read the guide- that is a lot easier said than done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:27 AM
31

It’s so hard to move past this when you don’t have anyone to turn to. And I think they realize and prey on someone who’s alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:59 AM
35

When breaking things off with a LVM, do we just block and move on or do we talk to them about it? This guy has been lying to me and gaslighting since day one so I’m leaning toward ghosting him but I’m not sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:28 PM
55

Flair says newbie, comment proves expert
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:34 AM
30

Can confirm, mean girls is one of my top 5 favorite broadway shows. There’s a line in another song called “stop” which is not on the soundtrack but they say in the stage version. Karen is singing “stop when you have a huge crush on a boy and he asks you to send nude pics and you’re like, ‘wow he likes me!’ and so you send them and don’t crop your head off because you’re only thirteen and don’t know any better, and I guess his friends shared them, cuz now you’re all over a porn site called amateu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:06 AM
102

TW rape In most states, even when a rape occurs, it’s a crime against the state and not against her. Men really just destroy everything in their path with zero consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:52 AM
104

I regularly have panic attacks about pics I sent when I was younger :( wish I could take it all back now that I realized what I deserve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:46 PM
48

wife a word, which here means: inflatable sex doll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:57 AM
5

What app is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:49 AM
4

I am tearing up at the support and feedback. You’re right. I don’t want to be with someone who does not 1000% want to be with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:27 AM
1

I’ve been looking for a glossary but can’t find anything.. so many initialisms I’ve just guessed what they’re meant to be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:33 AM
3

It’s a long story. We were LDR and I invited him to stay with me for a weekend. Everything went great, but after he went home, I stopped hearing from him. I asked him what’s up and he said he isn’t ready to commit. Went on and on about how sorry he is and how terrible he feels for hurting me blah blah. And now of course he wants back in. I asked him to open up to me but he wouldn’t give me anything to work with. ETA: he said he wants to take me on a trip for my birthday (in two months, and he ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:25 PM
10

A? Is this pretty little liars?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:32 AM
8

~ Be your own windkeeper ~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:30 AM
3

Hi everyone, I am new, trying to get caught up on everything. Can anyone advise if there is a standard on forgiveness/him trying to make it up to you? Of course so many factors at play, just curious on the general idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:12 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:48 PM
4

I am totally new here- is coffee unacceptable because it’s very low effort or?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:10 AM
42

“Medical Doctor” Sure, Jon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:40 AM
3

I don’t use Facebook anymore (4 years clean of Zuckerf*ck) but my best friend and I found her, and she’s got everything open to the public.. they’ve been married for like ten years. Has a young baby and another preschool aged kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:12 PM
8

Thanks for the input. First date I might’ve miscommunicated here, I took it to mean he meant he was serious about wanting a relationship, whether it be myself or whomever. Lots of red flags I ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:01 PM
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