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Thinking about what you described, doesn't that tell us that parents don't actually want their children to have sex? People don't want to worry about their teenager getting an STD or getting pregnant. They don't want to worry about them being less predictable when it comes to making friends. What if they end up with bad company? Many people find it very convenient that people are glued to their phones and have little sex. That's literally their goal, not their problem. New Victorian Society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:39 PM
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Horrible. I didn't know about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:25 AM
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This is what I mean when I use this word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:58 PM
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Are you speaking for all women? Other comments contradict you. What's the matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:13 PM
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By this logic, there can't be any closeted gay men among men who have lived their entire lives pretending to be straight. Repressed gays don't even realize they might be gay. After all, if they wanted sex with a man, nothing would have stopped them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:12 PM
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These men are simply insane. Honestly, I rarely interact with them in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:03 PM
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Birth control pills can't help prevent pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:01 PM
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"Hot" simply means looking sexy. It doesn't mean you look easy to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:00 PM
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I lost my virginity at 27. I'm 35 now. If I get married, the woman will definitely have more partners than me. Such couples do exist. They live quite happily. No worse than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:34 PM
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So, girls looking for sex in nightclubs don't exist? Is that a myth? And no one is looking for casual romances at resorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:00 AM
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What do you mean by love? Eros, agape, storge, or philia? I’m talking about eros; if eros doesn't matter to you at all, then you’ll find plenty of men in these comments who would be happy to meet you. I recommend SoldierExcelsior—he seems like a real romantic. Personally, I love big cocks in the sense of *eros*. It’s awesome. Why wouldn't everyone love cocks? I feel *storge* toward the people I chat with by the office water cooler—gender doesn't even matter to me there. If you want only *agape*,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:48 PM
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You know, I hear all the time that women aren't turned on by cocks. Honestly, it’s hard to understand why men would even bother getting into relationships with them in that case. I’m bisexual. Personally, I really like both cocks and vaginas. But I’m not interested in vaginas that don’t react to my cock. Just like I’m not into limp, flaccid cocks. What is there even to talk about if you don’t like cocks? Okay. Men won't have much sex. Okay. Most women don't like cocks. What’s the solution here? …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:38 PM
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Well, women like that don't interest me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:09 PM
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Tell me. Are you from the Bible Belt? Or do you hold right-wing views? Are you a Republican? Clearly, you aren't one of those filthy, nasty sluts who get turned on by men's cocks. And you aren't a lesbian who loves bathing in sweet pussies, either. Or am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:06 PM
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Why? Are you speaking for all women? What does monogamy offer you if you are self-sufficient?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:57 PM
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Whoa, whoa. I'm just a degenerate, mister. Don't be mad at me. Of course, you're a genius. And that means everything you write is the truth, sent down by God. Perhaps you should look for more aristocrats in your own family? To rise above the rabble like me and all those whores who don't die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:45 AM
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Well, my criteria, as you can see, run counter to what you consider to be nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:50 PM
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Gay people making fun of heterosexuals? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:21 PM
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Do gay people insult you for heteronormativity?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:20 PM
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You don't believe someone on Reddit can be an antinatalist? I’ll go even further: I’m bisexual. Gay men can’t have children through sex.And they do have relationships and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:18 PM
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So TWO whole people? If they are (or were) happy, good for them, but individual results may vary, to put it kindly. One could cite exactly one person as an example—not two. Because that demonstrates the very possibility of being happy. Crisp could obviously have led a respectable life, started a family, and had children—and been a miserable, ordinary man. The fact that something in the world involves risk doesn't mean the wisest course of action is never to take a risk. Do all marital relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:09 PM
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And why should I think about the average guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:58 PM
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All relationships have an end goal, at least on a primal and evolutionary basis. It’s to make babies. Are you religious? And what about people in relationships who are strictly child-free or antinatalist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:51 PM
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For example: I don’t want to date an overweight woman or a religious woman. That is entirely my right. But if I loudly declare that overweight or religious women are worthless and should be ashamed of themselves—that’s a different matter. Isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:49 PM
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Ahh, the truth comes out. Was I hiding something? Google doesn't work for you? If you say so, but that's just a declarative statement. So, does Google not help you, or are you avoiding something uncomfortable? Xaviera Hollander lived a pretty good life. Quentin Crisp was an outrageous gay male prostitute in the 1930s and lived to the age of 90. I see—you’re an old man from homophobic Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:19 AM
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This is a question and a supposition—not a statement at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:31 AM
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Should homophobes insult gay people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:25 AM
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Are you religious? Where did you get the idea of ​​a marriage that lasts a lifetime?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:23 AM
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Are you religious, or what is wrong with you? So I think women are stupid for just being whores atleast be a paid one one but don't expect to just be accepting back with open arms every choice has a consequence. Why should there be any consequences for this? I literally see no harm in their actions. The only way I'm complimenting a woman for that is if she manages to get a rich man's baby or a ring. I don't get why a wedding ring is considered something significant, while lots of sex is dismisse…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:21 AM
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Why should I exercise self-control? Take, for instance, a situation where I want sex and there’s a woman who wants sex, too. Why would I act like an asshole and avoid that sex? For the sake of what values? Do you consider sex on its own—without a relationship—to be something bad? Which specific specialist told you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:14 AM
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Lol. If I’d read this in a different post, I would have dismissed it as the conspiracy theories of unhinged feminists. It’s shocking, then, to read men here literally writing that this is how they try to control women—that it’s a complex chain of manipulations. Rather naive ones, from my perspective. It’s surprising that no one ever let me in on these plans in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:11 AM
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I’ve been taking antidepressants myself for 15 years. Honestly, I haven't noticed any drop in libido at all. I know such cases do occur clinically, but apparently, it’s not an effect that happens 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:08 AM
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I always assumed that men taught them that. But perhaps that’s not the case—especially considering that many women don’t derive pleasure from sex, and some are asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:05 AM
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What exactly is a "good potential partner"? Do you all seriously believe you can live with one person for your entire life? And that this necessarily means happiness? People are serially monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:01 AM
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Don't you think that cheating is essentially tied to making a promise one cannot keep? I’d say she was probably afraid of looking like a slut, which is why she didn't outright suggest an open relationship to the guy. But the fact remains that she broke her promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:58 AM
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I would. I was once in a long-term relationship with an HIV-positive partner—the only long-term relationship of my life. I don't really get those kinds of restrictions people have. It’s like, "I’m ready for passion, but I need a certificate proving it’s safe." And besides, whenever people say, "She’s promiscuous, so she must have psychological issues," I just roll my eyes. Everyone has psychological issues. Most pedophiles or men who beat their wives are people who look like ideal family men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:55 AM
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1) I’m turned on by female lust. Honestly, I’ve never understood why people don’t just have orgies or something like that. It always seemed like a pretty good idea to me. 2) I’m bi. That’s probably why I have no problem seeing a thousand other guys' dicks. 3) The only time I’ve had sex with women was with prostitutes. That’s how I lost my virginity at 27. You need some serious coping mechanisms not to realize that I’m literally the thousandth guy in line and that she almost certainly has an STD.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:50 AM
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Because I am promiscuous by nature—it is simply who I am. I do not identify with sanctimonious men who build romantic castles in the air. I view conscious chastity as a foolish form of self-restraint—a pursuit of an ideal that goes against nature. To the contrary, a virgin would be choosing you - ONE man - from among many. You can't make a choice without trying other options. Sluttishness does not generally lead to happiness, even it's usually less fatal. How do you know that? What do you consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:43 AM
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But I’m not a feminist at all. I don’t like the whining about the patriarchy. I just want a society where women aren’t prudes, but sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:32 AM
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I support the liberation of women—not because it’s some cunning plan of mine to create a society where I get lots of sex, but simply because I consider women to be human beings, too. Plus, I find it aesthetically pleasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:31 AM
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Does this mean that women support slut-shaming? For example, by labeling women who are interested in sex as mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:29 AM
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I mean literally that, in a group of friends or colleagues, someone will loudly and confidently make it clear that it is bad for a woman to have many sexual partners or to want sex. I encounter this sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:27 AM
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Are you speaking for all women? I assume women may well have a need for variety, but slut-shaming is the only thing holding them back. That said, breaking promises is wrong regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:24 AM
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What is it about Benny Blue that's so repulsive? I seriously don't get it. I find her unpleasant because she's a provocateur and a troublemaker. But I don't get it, is it really just the act of having sex with a large number of men that's repulsive? Why? Hmm. It's very complicated. Apparently, there's something wrong with me. But I just don't like Bonnie Blue's looks and because of the scandals. The fact that she's had 1,000 men doesn't bother me at all. I think I understand that most men find a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:59 PM
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Absolutely vile betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:56 PM
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Did you offer her an open relationship? Or did you both agree to never cheat on each other? Cheating is bad, as long as there was an agreement. Personally, I've always wanted an open relationship and had positive experiences with it, albeit short ones. I'm not a feminist at all. I just don't like prudish women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:49 PM
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I've heard this theory. But I don't think it's so saccharine in reality. I'm definitely one of those unpopular men. But I do like whores. In a monogamous reality, an ugly, penniless man would have monogamous access to marriage with an ugly, penniless woman. It's quite possible he'd prefer masturbation to her company. Do you really not find images of lonely losers when you read literature from past centuries? Chekhov, for example, "The Man in the Case" and other stories are full of both incels an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:43 PM
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I'm interested in sincerity, not deception. Especially in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:35 PM
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Definitely will be. But 5% of guys definitely won't be able to handle them all. Average girls will more easily meet average guys for casual sex. Of course, I understand that a deformed autistic person (maybe even me) will be lonely anyway. But is that a reason to turn lustful sluts into sexless Madonnas?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:33 PM
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Legitimate reasons. I just never imagined people could have such romantic limitations. Interesting. I don't have that. If I see a gorgeous girl, someone who's also special to me, and I'm in love with her as a person, I assume she's had a lot of sexual partners. After all, she's in demand, and she enjoys casual sex like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:30 PM
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Do men find lustful women ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:22 PM
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Fair enough. But this topic is about men. Because I've started encountering such men in my surroundings. Those who loudly condemn the promiscuity of women. I don't think there are many of them. But they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:22 PM
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I'm convinced that at the very least, the chances of meeting someone will be greater if women are more open to communication. Of course, the ugly autistic person will still end up alone. How will condemning prostitutes help him?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:16 PM
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I'm not against your choice. This post isn't about who chooses what partners. The other question is whether you condemn promiscuous women in your circle. I don't really understand: why should you have such a strong sense of self-control during sex? It's enough to use protection and be safe. But if you want sex and someone offers it to you, why refuse it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:13 PM
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If you have to chain someone up to be needed, then they definitely don't need you. You're just the least-worst option. For some reason, I wouldn't be happy with that position. I'd rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:09 PM
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There's no point in sending anyone to modern war. A drone doesn't care about muscle or fat. It may sound cruel, but a raped woman will survive, while a murdered man will not. You'll learn about misandry when a wife is paid enough to buy a house for her husband sent to the front. It will suddenly become clear that a man is not a very useful thing in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:15 PM
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Westerners won't understand until they experience it themselves. In peacetime, you can whine about misagony, but in wartime, men are simply dragged into a giant meat grinder. Sorry, I'm Russian. I just wanted your post to get more attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:56 PM
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Is this slut-shaming? Do you despise women who admit their lust? And seemingly all people who enjoy casual sex? So what's the reason not to consider you a prude and a puritan?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:14 AM
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Why is prostitution illegal then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:52 PM
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"Nasty men are so superficial and don't want to get into my problems" - I'm tired of hearing this. I've been hearing this since childhood from my mother, sister, friends... But as soon as I start telling them my problems, it turns out that mine are nonsense. It's really hard for them, women, because everyone wants sex with them! Your problems are the same bullshit as the whining of mans, so go ahead and pity them, empathize with them sincerely, put yourself in their shoes. Can't you? You don't n…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:48 PM
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Some men are simply doomed to be alone if they can't bribe a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:37 PM
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Women don't mean harm. But they literally lack empathy for men. Men's problems are often simplified to: "Oh, they just want to bring back the patriarchy and are stupid and childish." Frustration, loneliness, and economic changes hit men just as hard as they hit women. Personally, despite all this, I constantly heard from my family how hard life was for women, how unfair the world was to them. And for quite a long time, I sincerely sympathized with them, until I realized that even my mother and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:39 PM
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Some people continue to have sex. Perhaps I would become calmer, but I would lose the motivation to do anything else. Of course, there are those who develop interests in science and art, but I don't think everyone is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:57 AM
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Well, there are swing parties and kinky parties. I think people have different views on sex. For example, have you heard of gay bathhouses? I've been there. They're pretty good, even without deep relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:59 PM
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Where do you see misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:50 PM
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The question is, do you think it's easily possible? That a man will simply be able to stop thinking about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:49 PM
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Do you have many friends with the same libido? I think it's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:47 PM
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Um. Well, actually, I was hinted that some women would want to rip the clothes off a handsome guy like me when I grew up. Literally, those were the words of my mother, uncle, and older sister. My sambo coach said that you shouldn't chase girls, they'll seduce you. (Yes, it's weird, but apparently I was attractive as a teenager, and no one took my introversion into account.) Well, it's depicted in movies and books. Apparently, couples start dating in high school. They don't tell you: it's only fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:15 PM
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What are the motives behind this self-control? Something must be more important than the desire for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:05 PM
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In fact, we can't help but ejaculate; we have nocturnal emissions. If they don't occur and a person isn't having sex, they're probably sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:02 PM
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Bonobos do this, from what I've heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:00 PM
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Do you personally want sex outside of a relationship? Just because? Why? Why doesn't masturbation replace sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:57 AM
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Why can't it be a hobby?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:55 AM
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How much control a person has over their libido depends on their libido's strength. Frankly, I have very little control over it. I definitely can't stop thinking about sex. And when I hit puberty, I literally went crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:28 PM
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rage? That's too strong a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:15 PM
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We are not animals and we have a neocortex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:10 PM
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I'm almost convinced that human sex isn't just for reproduction. It's a social act. Part of communication. Otherwise, we wouldn't be able to have it every day; we'd have a mating season.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:09 PM
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I'd like to survey gay men and compare. It's difficult. On the one hand, I really want to feel like a conqueror and dominate in sex. On the other hand, I'm bisexual, and it seems gay men enjoy sex too. Although there are plenty of prudes among them, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:08 PM
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I'm from Russia. Russia is at war. I don't approve of this war. But I see an interesting experiment. Russia is fighting with mercenaries, promising men large sums of money for their participation. Enough to buy a house, for example. What has this led to? Some wives drive their husbands to war. Men who are going to war are very popular with women. Beautiful women run to seduce them and drag them into marriage. Then these "warriors" die. And the wives receive the money and don't even attend the fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:03 PM
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Because that's what they've been promised since childhood. And the entire culture says it's an ideal worth striving for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:45 PM
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1) I'm desperate. But I only whine on Reddit or in therapy. In irl, I try to think about other things. I seek out friends, work, and have fun. But overall, loneliness and the desire for sex are always close by. 2) Of course, I have standards. I'm someone who honestly admits that I'm a lonely man without sex because I'm not ready to date just any woman. I have taste, and women of my taste are rare, or far above my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:12 PM
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Do you have sex without a condom? I may not understand women well, but I find it strange that many are still afraid of getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:00 AM
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Then why did you write in your original comment that women are taught empathy from childhood? And not that everyone is taught empathy from childhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:58 AM
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Yes. I'm bisexual. And for me to want sex with a guy, it's not enough for him to be harmless. He also needs to be sexually appealing. Those are my criteria: harmless and attractive. I understand that women constantly add other requirements that they consider vital for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:40 PM
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"I think as women we are socialized to constantly be aware of how others are and to take care of their emotions and even to care for others over ourselves. To the point where our birthday may become a lesson in hosting, empathy, and taking care of the people around you versus focusing on yourself" What's this? You women are taught to be nothing but kind and caring. You're all kind and caring. These are your words, based on who knows what. You deny that many men are taught to put women on a pedes…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:29 PM
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To show that you care about her. How else can you show a woman you want to sleep with her? What are your options?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:25 PM
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Where does this kindness of yours, the kind of truly nice guys, manifest itself? I don't understand what you're talking about. I've formed the opinion that if a man acts friendly like Jesus, but is tormented by sinful thoughts about sex as a reward for this behavior, then he's faking it. That's not enough. Obviously, if I'm talking to a man and he's not aggressive, then we can spend time together. That's really the minimum requirement for friendship. Having him lend me money or donate his kidney…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:24 PM
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It seems to me that women who write about nice guys think that friendship between two men is all about mutual respect, tenderness, gifts, and selfless help... But that's not true. Male friendship is full of teasing, crude jokes, comments about how bad you are at something, and often, helping someone means expecting something in return. Why do women think any man will be nice to them without wanting to fuck them? How are they any different from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:11 PM
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Well, you don't condone aggression, do you? Rape is an illegal way to get sex. So all you can do is try to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:06 PM
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He helps her with her studies, at work, helps her carry heavy bags, does repairs for her... I don't even understand what kind of nice guy he is if I have to explain what he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:03 PM
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This is how men communicate with each other. If we don't fight, that's already good. It's not at all necessary to shower each other with gifts or otherwise show altruism to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:58 PM
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I'm a man. Girls bullied me at school. I remember them spitting on me in a crowd because they found it funny. I couldn't resist—after all, hitting girls is illegal. Where was their empathy and kindness? To hear you tell it, a woman is an angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:57 PM
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Lol. Then why did you write this post? If no one is obliged to do it, then no one will do it. It's that simple. That's what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:06 AM
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Not pure feminists, but those women who whine that women always have it worse than men. That's mainstream. At least in this subreddit. You're not saying it's not true, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:58 AM
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Okay. Start with yourself. I won't do anything like that - don't expect it from me. But if you think this is how you should behave, then good luck. Show us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:56 AM
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Isn't it reasonable to treat people the same way they treat me? If someone is hostile, I'm not Jesus, so I can't be kind to them in return. If someone is prejudiced against my gender, trying to convince them otherwise is a waste of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:55 AM
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Real good guys simply can't exist in this galaxy. A good guy respects a girl regardless of her sexual appearance and genuinely tries to help her. Do you even know that unconditional love doesn't exist? Anyone who wants to help you gets something out of it. Even altruism is selfish. All men want to fuck women, spank them, and touch them. If they don't want that, they're gay or impotent. Which means they don't care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:52 AM
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So you're suggesting that I'm the only one who should be unbiased? And everyone else will still be sexist assholes? I don't see any advantages. I already assume that women are people too. But I'm met with a lack of understanding of my personal problems, judgment, and downright hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:41 AM
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Great idea. Have the feminists agreed yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:59 PM
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This is simply not true. Of course, someone with social phobia might simply become slightly less anxious. But a melancholic won't become sanguine, for example. The idea that human behavior can simply be rewritten by willpower is complete nonsense. Avoidant personality disorder, schizoid personality disorder...they don't just disappear. Such people don't look crazy like the Joker; they look like bores and cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:10 AM
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You could have written more succinctly: "I don't want a constructive discussion, I simply don't care about men's opinions." You have that right. It gives men the moral right to ignore your opinion. On the other hand, retrograde Christian feminism is such nonsense that I probably wouldn't argue with it anyway. Thank you for letting me know. I wish you the best of luck in building your utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:50 AM
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I think this is just a generalization. That's exactly what the author of the post means. But it's convenient for you to think that way. Although it puts you in a victim position simply because you're unhappy that someone rejected you in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:37 AM
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Well, I attend a counseling group. There, women talk about how they dated jerks. The men turned out to be selfish, narcissistic, and cruel abusers, and they treated them badly. But they were confident, and that was attractive. At 38, I haven't had a relationship with a woman. I'm diagnosed with avoidant personality disorder. And these same women tell me that until I'm confident, brave, and goal-oriented, I can't have a woman. They advise me to break myself. I think there's a correlation between …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:36 PM
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Clearly state your intentions? Why does everyone keep repeating this to me? Don't intentions change? Has anyone ever dated someone, hoping to find something better in them, only to realize they're completely wrong? Or the opposite: you date a seemingly imperfect girl, but she turns out to be amazing. Doesn't that happen? My intentions are clear: to sample for evaluation. It's clear, but women don't like that kind of clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:06 AM
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Well, that means you're still not ready. With your approach, there's no point in a man telling you honestly that he's not fascinated by you or passionately in love. Because you'll just be keeping him at a distance. And to get to know each other, you need to close the distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:39 PM
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weren't compatible straight That's what I'm writing to you: what can't be said is that we're incompatible right away. It's the same as saying, "I want to live until I'm old only with you." You don't have that option: getting a clear answer right away. Because the person doesn't know it yet. Are you willing to try dating someone who isn't sure they're in love with you, but allows it? Simply accept the risk that your relationship might not work out. That's my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:50 PM
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But the thing is, antisocial men have no problem with this approach at all. They're perfectly happy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:07 PM
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I agree. It sounds reasonable. If a man told you, "You know, I'm not sure I want to date you, I'd just like to chat occasionally, spend time together, and have sex, and maybe in the future I'd like to have a relationship with you," you wouldn't be offended at all, would you? I know many women who simply pathologically want to feel special to a man, and without it, they lose interest in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:05 PM
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But that's not a solution. 1) A man can't know this BEFORE sex. 2) Do you think that throughout the centuries of monogamous, lifelong marriage in the church, everyone was happy? And never disappointed in their choice? It takes years to get to know someone. Years just to "try them out." It's better than living your whole life with someone you thought was cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:47 PM
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Men. Some men. Me, for example. For us men, sex demonstrates a couple's compatibility. Apparently, that's not so important to you... so what should we do? What's the solution? Let's not start a war between the sexes and bad men, but simply take a sober and detached look at how a couple with such different attitudes toward first-time sex met. And yes. In the 21st century, we already have condoms and birth control. I know, it's surprising. But you don't need to have children after every sex. A man…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:26 AM
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But by your logic, such a man looks like a cheater. Someone who initially wanted a relationship but then changed his mind. So, he just wanted to see if he liked being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:21 AM
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Is that bad? Do you blame them for that? Are people supposed to be absolutely certain about such complex things? Should they have no doubts? I think that's some kind of idealized image for a person of any gender. A normal person often doubts and is unsure. A man who is completely sure that he wants a relationship with a woman he's only known for a month is, frankly, very stupid and superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:15 AM
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Women also don't tell me they didn't like something about a date before leaving and blocking my number. It's not because they're being cunning, but because people don't want to offend each other. Like, "Well, I'm sorry, but I don't really like you; I thought you were better in bed"—it doesn't sound cool. I often don't know how to turn someone down without offending them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:07 AM
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1) Yes. I think it's nature's design. Normal men are simply convinced they're handsome. That's why they regularly try to flirt with women. This increases their chances of finding reciprocity. 2) There's a silly theory in society about signals that women supposedly send to men, showing their interest. These signals include things like smiles and hair flicks. Men supposedly know how to read these signals. This is complete nonsense! It's simply an excuse for women to play a passive role in dating. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:20 AM
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Wow. What misandry! I have avoidant personality disorder. It literally means CONSTANTLY low self-esteem. Psychiatrists have confirmed this. Naturally, I always feel disdained by women. The fact that you deny my existence is insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:12 AM
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I wonder what intersectional feminists in the US have to say about Madame LaLaurie? I bet they're convinced she was also a victim of this whole situation. She was too oppressed by patriarchy, and all she could do was torture her slaves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/26 10:01 AM
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You're probably a very friendly and open person. I haven't met anyone like you among women yet. But thank you anyway. Of course, I've tried dating sites specifically for open relationships. But my experience was different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:41 AM
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I have avoidant personality disorder. So, until I was 28, I didn't attend anything like that. It's harder for me than for other people. Since I was 30, I've tried to pick a social hobby for each year. I admit, there are often fewer women than men: in DND, historical swordplay, rock climbing... Although it was interesting. Of course, there were plenty of women when I attended Gestalt group therapy, Latin dance... But I had no luck making friends. I also attend quizzes, but I don't understand how …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:26 PM
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1) Casual sex require a man to be 100% confident in his behavior. The women I've interacted with expect me to be the one in control. No matter how much I compensate for my personality disorder, I simply can't achieve that level of self-confidence. It's a medical fact. I'm always insecure and easily panic in unfamiliar situations. 2) Over 15 years of dating on Tinder and other dating sites, I've mostly met women who want serious, long-term relationships. I don't live in the US, but I think women …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:21 PM
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I don't think all men not care about the female orgasm. I enjoy it when my partner has an orgasm (I'm bi and have mostly had sex with men). And that's why I'm not very interested in visiting sex workers—they don't get any pleasure. But I have to admit, the female orgasm is a very complex and confusing thing. Whereas for men, it's incredibly simple. Arousal, self-confidence + penile friction = orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:10 PM
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That sounds plausible. Even without the patriarchy, the last thousand years have been pretty lousy. People didn't have much choice. And violence was largely the norm. Of course, I also regret that sex isn't available to me. But given our differences and greater personal freedom, it's natural. It's a shame I won't see how human relationships change in a couple of centuries. I think people will come up with something interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:06 PM
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Russia. But I think we're better off than Afghanistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:29 PM
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I honestly can't understand this. You're from the US, I'm from Russia. LGBT is banned here, gays can be killed or robbed on a date. Gays are blackmailed, and if everyone around them finds out their sexuality, they could have problems. They could be fired. They could be kicked out by their families. But at the same time, it's believed that women are more afraid of being called sluts than gay men. Because of the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:30 PM
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I honestly can't understand this. You're from the US, I'm from Russia. LGBT is banned here, gays can be killed or robbed on a date. Gays are blackmailed, and if everyone around them finds out their sexuality, they could have problems. They could be fired. They could be kicked out by their families. But at the same time, it's believed that women are more afraid of being called sluts than gay men. Because of the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:30 PM
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I do it. These actions are never enough to make women want to have sex with me. I've been seeing a therapist for 15 years, I go to the gym, and I try to attend social events. I washed my hair and put on a clean shirt—if that's what you're asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:27 PM
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I don't know. On the one hand, women are certainly judged for seeking sex. On the other hand, I'm bisexual. And gay men in my country are sometimes killed. However, that doesn't stop them from seeking sex. So I think it probably has something to do with biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:22 PM
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Yes. Slut-shaming is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:11 PM
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blaming millionaires for not giving you their money I regret that I can't become a billionaire, not that I blame them for anything. Honestly, I still don't get it. It seems like this is just a standard Puritan ethic: be strong and regret nothing? It looks beautiful: a grown, courageous, determined person moving forward to meet their destiny. But I don't see the logic in it. A responsible person can be dissatisfied with the world as a whole—it's called existential dread. If anything, it's definit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:07 PM
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I don't get it. I guess I'm just stupid. Reread the OP's post: they write that a man who's incapable of finding a casual relationship or casual sex... begins to realize that it's more logical to get sex through a relationship. Right? Did I understand the point of the text correctly? Well, I'm diagnosed with AVPD, and it definitely prevents me from picking up girls in nightclubs. At the very least, I'm too insecure for life; at the very worst, I experience dissociation in such noisy places.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:58 PM
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I wrote this a little higher. But I think it's obvious to anyone who's involved with LGBT. For gays, things are much simpler.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:54 PM
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What about? I don't understand. How I meet men: I go on Hornet. I like guys. They message me back. And that's it – we arrange a meeting. Most gay men jump straight into bed. I'm still too cautious and often take men to cafes to see if he's sane. A couple of times, friendships have emerged from these encounters. A couple of times, I've had relationships. RELATIONSHIPS AFTER SEX, not before. Women: Even if you don't find Tinder, but a kink site or one for something more intense, women tend to chat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:52 PM
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Just become super cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:31 PM
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Yes. But where is the regular sex life then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:30 PM
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Because there are hundreds of times fewer women looking for friendship with benefits than those who want a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:29 PM
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Do you like it? I think a lot of people don't like Sexless Solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:53 PM
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Please note: I'm more interested in your views on responsibility and free will than in the war between the sexes. I don't have any particular beef with women. I just don't understand how you connect responsibility with calm acceptance. 1)Of course, blaming women is irresponsible. But personally, I distinguish between men whining about their plight and blaming women for everything. I'm not sure all women see this in my words. I often hear that if I complain, it's as if I want to force all women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:47 PM
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I'm a bisexual man. I find it very strange that relationships with women are filled with a bunch of strange conventions that gay men don't have.I can't imagine that gender differences can have such a significant impact on behavior and perception of the world. I always thought it was imposed by society: all this flirting, family values, coquetry...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:32 PM
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It's terrible. But what can you do? What if men don't always see stability, shared goals, and so on in relationships? Men might not want any of that at all. And then the relationship becomes just a bunch of weird obligations. The only thing that makes a relationship valuable to them is sex. At least I'm that kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:28 PM
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Yes. So what? 1) A responsible person can't whine? They can. 2) A person might specifically complain about being limited to two bad options, both of which they don't need.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:25 PM
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Excuse me. But does making a decision somehow eliminate regret and frustration? Where did you get that idea? Even existentialist philosophers (Sartre, for example) describe choice as an act of despair that cuts off a part of oneself. And in your example, the choice is also very, very limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:16 PM
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And what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:12 PM
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How can one exercise responsibility when choosing between sexless solitude and a relationship with a toxic woman? What responsibility do you see in choosing between a shit sandwich and a giant enema? Both choices are bad and leave a person frustrated. Frustration manifests itself in whining. What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:09 PM
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What a bold question! Do you have any evidence to support the ideas expressed in your post? The fact that you lived among women means nothing. I myself grew up surrounded by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:02 PM
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How does this even fit with your post? I don't get it. Obviously, they manipulate, they lie, and they find victims. They have sex and relationships. Right? Yes, very bad, unhealthy relationships and sex. But they exist. Your post seems to be about how women are very smart and immediately spot such manipulators and avoid them. And that's why there are so many single guys. That's literally a contradiction! Either they know how to manipulate and are not alone, or they are alone and don't know how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:56 PM
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So, a truly good man won't want sex? He won't want to bury his face between your legs. He'll simply communicate with and respect women as individuals. And his dick will get hard just because a woman is so spiritual?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:50 PM
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I'm 38 years old. I've never raped anyone. What am I doing wrong? I feel like I'm missing something! Judging by what feminists say, they're constantly being raped or harassed. I'm even a bit offended that I'm so respectful of other people's boundaries. Of course, of course... 62 million people graduated from rape school. But I didn't get into that damn university! Can you please stop treating me like dog shit?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/26 07:09 PM
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Thank you. This is precisely the critique of intersectional feminism that I couldn't comprehend. On the one hand, it's true: oppressed men are given candy, which means they're also considered a bit of a victim because of their race, class, or whatever. On the other hand, he's always a man, which means women are worse off. I heard a story about women discussing Turgenev's short story "Mu-Mu." The main character is a deaf-mute serf in the Russian Empire, oppressed by his landowner. So, the women a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/26 07:03 PM
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Thank you. This is how I live. The feeling of loneliness nagged at me like an old thorn. But that doesn't mean I just sit at home in perpetual hysterics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:57 AM
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Are you religious? Did I understand correctly? You say that family is inherently valuable. Although I don't think so. This requires proof. And you say that sexual lust is somehow bad. This isn't obvious to me either. This requires proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:58 AM
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Were they attractive in appearance? Or were they little, bald, pot-bellied man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:52 AM
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It seems like you're just trolling. I have absolutely no chance of finding a casual relationship. I don't have a single woman around me who would agree to that. And my real-life friends and acquaintances also complain about how women aren't interested in them. I know two guys who are, on the contrary, very attractive. And they have plenty of casual sex and casual relationships. But that's their situation, their looks, their charisma. For most men, it's not like that. At the same time, I went on …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:50 AM
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Speaking of "only those who haven't tried it want casual sex," I'm bisexual. And I've had many casual encounters with men (and short relationships, too). It's wonderful when you feel wanted, when your body is accepted for who it is. But that doesn't happen with women. And it's very frustrating. I've talked to women who have shown interest in me. But the thing is, they've been procrastinating. But they mostly talked about relationships, even the desire to have children and a family. This simply o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:22 AM
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Are you diagnosing based on Reddit posts? This speaks of a very high ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:07 AM
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This is gaslighting. No one is ever completely confident anywhere. Especially not on this Reddit. All humans are narcissistic. It's normal. Women are just prudes and do their best to deny how important appearance is to them. What are you saying (you're a confident woman who doesn't care what others think), what are you trying to say here? That men should only enjoy romance, courtship, and long-term marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:02 AM
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But sometimes a man just wants to be: a face, a body, and a penis. That's all. He doesn't always want to be a wonderful, multifaceted person. It's important when my body, my face, and my penis are appreciated. Just as it's important when a woman's body is appreciated—that's nice, too. And not just when she's praised for her intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:54 AM
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Among your last three partners, was there anyone similar to Danny DeVito?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:51 AM
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I don't. My friends don't have casual sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:47 AM
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1) Promiscuous isn't bad, it's natural. So she's like me. 2) If I see a woman who clearly wants a relationship and love with me, it means she wants responsibility from me. She wants me to provide for her, arrange her home, protect her. Bring comfort into her life. I should note that I'm not from the US, but from a poorer country. Therefore, women here simply want to solve their problems by marrying a man who is at least somewhat able to work. 3) If a woman judges me physically as worthy of being…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:43 AM
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Are you completely unimportant to a man's appearance? Doesn't his appearance arouse you sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:30 AM
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Yes. That's right. Yeah. But what if I'm 200% like you described? I'm diagnosed with AvPD. It's chronic. It means I've been insecure and withdrawn my whole life. I had one relationship that lasted three months: I was absolutely happy. Those were the only three months I felt like I belonged. I had someone who accepted me. (He ended up leaving for another guy, a wealthier guy. I'm bi.) Advice along the lines of: just become incredibly interesting to yourself and completely emotionally independent,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:27 AM
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Do you have a lot of casual sex without commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:16 AM
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That's if 50 people on Tinder offer you sex every day. But if you're not that popular, it's better to find one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:15 AM
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it sounds like from what you've written you took this all quite literally. you didn't have examples in your life of kind women, cruel women, funny women, boring women? like...someone told you women were all beings of light with hearts of gold and you took that as an absolute truth? and now you're upset to learn that looks can definitely be a huge factor in attraction for women? This is literally gaslighting. Just write it straight: "Oh, you're just making this up, and no one ever says women are …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/26 08:28 AM
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"I won't explain it until you get it." Why write your opinion then? If you don't want to explain it? Just so I'll agree? It's dick to simply ignore the fact that I've provided my experience. And then repeat, repeat, repeat your point of view. As if repetition will make it more logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:59 AM
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Okay. You stood out. But not enough. Or not in the right way. He cites figures there, like a person stands out by 30% or something like that. - in real life, we don't have a counter for how much we stand out or the ability to read women's minds. So it's completely unclear what you're trying to offer instead of playing with stats? In any case, we'll have to consider potential partners sort through. Your chance to get the job don't come from random draw. Viewing the game as a numbers game reduces …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:48 AM
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According to his advice, most programmers simply need to accept that they won't be working as programmers. Either stand out in some significant way. Or have connections at his company. So you're suggesting the same thing when it comes to meeting women? Either you're very attractive, or you're already in the same company, or just accept it? My job search experience shows the benefit of through statistics: I have AvPD, and finding a job in sales was very, very difficult. I definitely didn't have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:38 AM
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If this isn't a "stat game," then what is it, in your opinion? Obviously, a man can be deeply in love with a woman, courting her and showing her affection—but she simply doesn't like him, that's all. There's nothing he can do about it. She loves someone else. And a woman can love a man even if he's indifferent to her. It takes a coincidence—and that's a very rare thing. And if a man is unattractive, and only falls in love occasionally, his chances of finding reciprocity are slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:44 PM
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What kind of joke is this? I have AvPD. For the last 15 years, I've been in therapy with six different specialists, each for several years. I've been taking antidepressants for all 15 years. Do you seriously not understand that therapy doesn't work like fairy magic? Have you ever seen a psychologist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 05:10 PM
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Where were you when I asked: why is advice to see a therapist considered a panacea for all men's problems? It's just superficial amateurism. Changing yourself won't change the fact that women expect men to make the first move in courtship, and that women seek self-confidence in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:59 PM
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What do you think this achieves? Some kind of magical solution to problems? I have AvPD and have had years of therapy with six specialists over 15 years. How does this change the fact that as a man, I should be more proactive in courtship and that they're targeting me for self-confidence (which I don't have)? I recently started a thread here about the stupid advice women give: just go to a therapist. This advice doesn't solve much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:56 PM
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Do you seriously think that by agreeing with women you become closer to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:49 PM
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Okay. Why am I being advised this in a discussion about dating difficulties and pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:19 AM
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I don't quite understand. Why are you against pills then? Obviously, if this is just advice to brush off, then the person needs to be told directly: you might never have sex, so take the black pill. The blackest of them all. So isn't this psychotherapy advice meant to instill stupid, false hope?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:17 AM
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Why are you giving this stupid advice? To men who have probably been seeing a psychiatrist for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:36 AM
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Feminism demanded the impossible and achieved much. LGBT people demanded the impossible and achieved it. So why the hell are you advocating not to demand? To adapt? The risk of being alone increases, but it is a conscious choice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:53 AM
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I don't understand. 1) Obviously, I wouldn't want a woman to date me because a man built the Eiffel Tower. That would be weird. 2) If women don't see any benefit in men, I simply have no objection. Maybe men really are unnecessary. 3) When meeting or getting close to a woman, they clearly expect me to be attentive, confident, caring, and cheerful. It's not very fair that I get nothing in return from women. Because I can't expect a woman on a date to be attentive, cheerful, caring, or...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:41 PM
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1) I have a pathological addiction... - I write posts on Reddit. I can't stop. It takes up a lot of time)) 2) I think I'm alone. It's so criticized that I just want to understand - maybe I'm missing out on some hidden benefit of NoFap. What the hell are all these people doing who have so little time and energy to masturbate several times a day? They're busy with every minute. 3) I don't handle criticism well, of course; other people's opinions make me doubt myself. This is literally the essence …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:52 AM
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At least personally I have a distinction between being turned on and sexually fantasizing being turned - What do you mean by that? I got an erection just from seeing a beautiful girl. But it's not the same kind of erection you get during stress, like a fight. And it's not nocturnal penile tumescence. It's the desire to touch her, to kiss her. Does it work any differently for you? Goonerbrain - I couldn't Google what it was. It sounds like the name of an SS combat unit. There are courses on intel…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:45 AM
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I go to plays, concerts, movies, play DND with friends, I took Latin dance classes, learned medieval swordplay, and went on vacation. I was involved in political activism until it was banned in my country. How the hell does that stop me from masturbating? How much time do you spend masturbating? Maybe people only cum after 1-2 hours of masturbation? 10-20 minutes is enough for me. Or do people get so tired after CrossFit that they can't get an erection for a week afterwards? I don't think it's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:21 AM
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When you see a hot woman in the street does your mind jump to sex fantasies almost involuntarily? How could it be otherwise? Of course, I have my tastes. But isn't that the essence of attraction: I see something and it immediately turns me on? I've read anecdotes from men that they had this kind of "goonerbrain" and after addressing these thought patterns their libido became more normal What does "normal" mean? At 38, I don't understand what the downside of masturbation is. Not masturbating does…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:17 AM
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Perhaps they exist. But it's difficult to find each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:11 AM
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So, do I have to be constantly tired? Just to avoid masturbating? And what's the benefit, exactly? What do I get for being so overtired? I went to CrossFit. The class lasts two hours max, plus the commute home. 8 hours of work. 8 hours of sleep. I have 5 hours left. Why wouldn't I masturbate during that time?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:10 AM
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I'm shocked by your hypocrisy. I wanted to write that men are truly stupid when they slut-shaming. But you're doing the same thing and justifying it. It doesn't matter what exactly motivates the words. What matters is whether they are logical and true. Either everyone's opinion matters, even that of a cannibalistic serial killer. Or everyone can ignore each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:00 PM
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A good new pill. The fact that it's gold also highlights its main drawback – it's for people who can achieve something. If you're disabled, living in a literal third-world country, but your penis still craves sex, then this pill won't help. A person simply won't be able to improve their quality of life enough to not think about the problems of life without sex. As a result, they have a ton of problems and still no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:27 PM
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Personally, I can't speak for all men, but I'm only attracted to 5% of women. Why do you want to prove that hypergamy doesn't exist? What's wrong with it? Does it make you feel guilty? I've turned women down for relationships, and I don't regret it. The fact that only 20% of women want sex and 20% of women pay half the bill simply shows that relationships between the sexes somehow fail to be equal. I don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:35 PM
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I'm probably really dumb at math. But if such women make up about 20%, then 80% of women don't want to split the bill or have sex. That means only 20% of women meet a man's desires. Isn't that a deficit? What is it if not a deficit? Only one in five women meets a man's desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:49 PM
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1) Both men and women ignore ordinary, average, nondescript people who try to awkwardly approach them. I'm like that myself. I only remember mean, bitchy, hysterical women. They're easier to remember. 2) Yes, men like it when people pursue them for sex. A girl literally bought a video card as a gift for my friend—just to get his attention. He thanked her, took the gift, but said she wasn't his type... He wasn't at all offended by this terrible example of harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:06 PM
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So, if I take any woman at random, then in 20-30 years I will definitely be happier?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:42 PM
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Perhaps your relationship with your mother was tender? Because I find it strange that women are considered more empathetic and accepting. Most of the women I was close to weren't like that. And my male friends, on the contrary, helped me wholeheartedly and supported me. Perhaps it was a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:39 PM
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Why are you discussing cheating with someone who isn't particularly interested in a monogamous relationship, if you're also polygamous? Swingers, cuckolds...is that cheating? I don't think so. If, in a monogamous relationship, a person actually cheats and secretly has sex elsewhere, I think that's bad. But it's obvious that the monogamous relationship wasn't satisfying for the person who cheated. You see the problem with cheating in that the person didn't overcome their lust to save the relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:56 PM
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Are you religious? People who live as bachelors are the same people you consider selfish idiots? People change partners throughout their lives. Is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:40 PM
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If selfish idiots destroy your ideal, then your ideal is weak. You won't give people a purpose for self-control if they're simply not interested in your values. Scientists say our species is characterized by "serial monogamy."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:25 PM
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In fact, I love both monogamy and non-monogamy. I don't want a patriarchal relationship with a woman, but I do want partnership and mutuality. I'm not interested in virgins and I'd rather prefer harlots. Because they're like me. At the same time, I'm completely against devaluing banal lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:16 PM
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If you admit that our species isn't perfect enough for monogamy, then the logical conclusion is that monogamy, like communism, doesn't really work. Or do you believe in a mystical transformation of the human species? Well, I think that's nonsense, so forgive me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:40 AM
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Mikhail Aleksandrovich Bakunin was a Russian anarchist. He had no fetish for infidelity. But he simply didn't consider his partner his property.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:07 AM
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What's the problem with allowing a woman to have sex on the side? It's not cheating if it's consensual. For me personally (I don’t know about the OP), what’s nice about a relationship with an uninhibited woman is that she is similar and equal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:05 AM
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I agree with you 200%. But it's almost impossible to prove this to anyone. I can't find any male acquaintances who understand my desire for women to want sex as much as I do. It's nonsense to them. 1)Slut-shaming. It's simply a mystical phenomenon! First, men love to have sex with different women, flirt with them, but then... Behind their backs, lustful girls are called "crazy or weird." Obviously, 50 years ago they were simply called sluts, but today that seems too stupid—because sex is not as …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:02 AM
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I am 37 years old. I have been seeing a therapist most of my life and have been taking antidepressants for 10 years. Avoidant personality disorder. You think: that I have never been alone, have never reconsidered my values ​​and have never developed? I have visited sex workers. I want a relationship, but why would I want a relationship with someone who does not attract me sexually? It will just be friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:10 AM
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This sounds perfectly logical. But what if his preferences for appearance are way above his league? I just can't get an erection for women of my level. I can't even imagine how we could have sex if I tried to build a relationship. Of course, you can say: just lower your demands and lower the bar. That also sounds smart. But in fact, there is no switch or circuit breaker that allows you to adjust your libido. I have sincerely tried to date girls I don't like. But it was hard for both of us. And I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:03 AM
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