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| 34 | FR: Success Leading to the Depression Stage of Unplugging | Field Report | Glenwalk | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 02:42 PM |
| 20 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts? | Glenwalk | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 04:50 PM | |
| 8 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/Advice | Glenwalk | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 04:55 PM |
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| 4 | Give up on trying to be a father or stick it out?Never been through this, but my advice goes against the grain here. Don't let your ex ruin your life. She doesn't value your role as a father, and in today's world that means you don't have much of a choice. Don't cut them out completely, but you need to focus on yourself for awhile. See the kid when it's convenient for you but don't let your ex treat you like a bitch for it. Your daughter is going to grow up raised by divorced parents either way, nothing you can do will change that. You have lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 04:21 AM |
| 5 | They Have To Go Looking For Something To Complain AboutMale gyms do exist, they just aren't very popular. There's an exclusive gentlemens country club in Toronto whose gym is men-only, but honestly there just isn't much of a market for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/15 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever had to deal with a person with BPD? How was it like?I had a BPD girl in my life for awhile. Quite the roller coaster, and despite the problems it caused in my life, I don't regret it. She's the reason I broke down and found TRP, and she's the reason I gradually transformed from being a dependent little bitch into a narcissistic asshole who gets what I want. They're the female version of dark triad. They'll alpha widow you to some extent, and I'll always miss that roller coaster, but now I know what sort of girl to avoid. Sex was incredible, and t… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/15 07:14 PM |
| 8 | Trump offers "real talk" on females, the media loses its collective mindIt's what works in our ADHD generation. You can convey information perfectly well by breaking an otherwise tedious article it into bullet points or a numbered list. Personally I prefer it to: "and let's not forget" "and then also" "and that was nothing compared to when" and every other transition used when describing a sequence of related events. I like reading real books and articles too, but there's something so much easier about lists. Journalists who try to make their articles harder to read… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/15 04:07 AM |
| 3 | Women get stupid little dogs and baby them because they should've had kids already.I agree with what you've done here, but people who ask "source" without having glanced at Wikipedia are just lazy. I get it if the claim is outrageous, but something as obvious as "the way almost all cultures communicate with infants is good for infants" shouldn't require such skepticism. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/15 03:50 AM |
| 17 | What are TRP thoughts on "dying for a woman"? Think: men diving to cover women during shootouts...Being a widow is a pretty good deal in today's society. Instead of half, she gets 100% of everything plus the life insurance payout for accidental death. Not that there's much stigma associated with divorce these days, but being a widow would have none of that and would bring in a great deal of attention and sympathy. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Couldn't get it up. Again.That's fair. But I found that the more experience I had with anxiety induced erectile dysfunction the more I worried about it (anxiety is a vicious cycle). So if you can find the right girl to cuddle with for an hour before fucking then that would be sweet. But if you find girls lose interest when you can't fuck them then I'd consider pharmaceutical help to get you over the hump. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/15 07:53 AM |
| 4 | Couldn't get it up. Again.Talk to a doctor, tell him the embarrassing story, and talk about performance anxiety. It's a common thing with younger guys. He'll give you Viagra, you'll take it one or two times with the girl and then your confidence will be boosted. Once you've fucked a few times you'll find less anxiety associated with sex. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/15 01:44 PM |
| 6 | What are your guys opinions on virgins?Well the whole pair bond through orgasm thing is avoided through blowjobs. Also they're pretty safe when it comes to STI's. Still not something I want to think about, but in today's world a blowjob only virgin is about as good as it gets. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 03:51 PM |
| 5 | I 27 years old am planning to dump my girlfriend for no reason. Please advice me how.I disagree with this one. It's been two years. Don't try to pin the blame on her (for this) during a breakup. It's one thing to game girls you want to date, but hurting them when you're done with them will piss her off and make mutual friends hate you. Most quality girls aren't single very long. I'm grateful for branch-swinging, it pushes me to become a taller tree. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/15 10:57 PM |
| 7 | Even the guys on rForeverAlone are waking upWhile Sam is BP in many ways, him standing up to fight wasn't beta behaviour. A sensible beta would have stayed on the ground, but he fought to protect his woman; knowing he'd probably fail. White knighting is when random guys will put themselves in harms way to protect girls they don't know. Gilly was under his protection. If someone ever told me he was out with his girlfriend and some guys raped her, I'd question his manhood if he didn't at least have a black eye or some broken bones. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 04:36 PM |
| 3 | 29, jobless, living at home -- what to do?People who get fired for "unfair" reasons are people the managers didn't like very much because they are abrasive and/or lazy. Every time you tell the elaborate story of how fate conspired against you, people are thinking that "looks like they found a way to fire the lousy employee". I could be wrong, but that's my impression at least. I've got a few months between school years, and this year I didn't manage to get a law related job. I feel miserable and useless, and it's only been 25 days since… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 07:05 AM |
| 5 | When Rape Becomes RomanticizedWhile women occasionally make false rape claims, TRP and MRA's shouldn't assume that every report is fake. As a law student with a background in psychology, this reads to me as an extremely credible case. Sober women don't consent to having rough anal sex with their drunk "best friends" (orbiters) in the back of a car. Alot of men (particularly sexually frustrated men) are capable of rape. Most of the time when women make rape claims to police against guys they know, it's because they were actua… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 04:19 AM |
| 0 | Vasagel (RISUG): Support effective and reversible male contraceptionWell, the 75% figure takes idiots and people who are indifferent to children into account. Further, I never come without warning, so combined with pulling out I think I'm probably closer to 95%. With two girls I guess that puts me around a 10% of knocking someone up each year, and I know one of them would never want to have children (without a surrogate) and the other is quite young and has no ticking clock. So I'd say maybe 10% that they'd keep the baby. So I'm balancing a 1% chance of kids aga… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 03:50 PM |
| -2 | Vasagel (RISUG): Support effective and reversible male contraceptionI'm as excited for RISUG as anyone else, but condoms and trusting women aren't the only options. Track their monthly cycles, and you'll know when they're ovulating, predict when they'll comfort vs. shit test. I use clue for one girl and monthpal for another. On fertile days use condoms. On mostly safe days pull out, and on totally safe days (just before/after period) blast away. Neither of them are on hormonal birth control. One put on a little bit of weight over the winter, so I recommended she… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Never show weakness. She is not on your side.Part of the problem is that most girls are in the top 20% when they're 17-21. And the top 20% of guys are willing to fuck them until they slip down to the 50th percentile when they turn 25. So it's not really the girls fault for not appraising their value- guys are giving them in accurate feedback | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Getting cockblocked at the club?In this situation, the play is to grab the hand of the fatter girl, and bring her into the dancing. Dance with the two of them together for a bit, give her a bit of attention and make the cute one a little worried that you'd consider the fat one over her. The fat girl is OK with someone fucking her friend. But she wants to make sure it's someone who won't make her feel like a third wheel. Having a buddy is good in these circumstances, as he can dance with the fatty for a bit to give you time to … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of transferring schoolsI'll disagree with many people here and say a change of scenery might be for the best. Many soldiers during the Vietnam war were addicted to heroin. But when they got back to America, 95% of them were able to quit without much difficulty. Sometimes a change of scenery is exactly what you need to get through mental blocks. When I went from undergrad in a great university in one city to law in another sweet place, I was able to transform myself as I had nothing and no one reminding me of who I use… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/15 09:36 PM |
| 4 | female sexual body languageMy guess is that women being the gatekeepers of sex, have an idea on which guys in their environment they would want to fuck, and give out relevant signs, but considering they don't want to seem like sluts, keep the signal so hard to figure that most men would not see them. You're onto something here, but theres far more to it than that. Girls keep the signal hard to figure out so that most men will not have the confidence to act on them. A girl cannot tell by looking across the room if a guy is… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 07:53 PM |
| 11 | Askreddit: "What would you tell your high school self if you could go back in time" comments are a list of TRP tenetsStay away from the terrible group of friends I associated myself with in high school Remove betas from your life For many people I think this is in reference to shitty groups of friends who didn't end up amounting to anything, but not neccessarily betas. My high school friends were pretty alpha in high school (frame, girls, DGAF), but they're still mostly doing the same shit they were doing before. So if I could go back I'd probably hang out with the more beta crowd and focus on doing well in sc… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 07:18 PM |
| 13 | "Partner Count Doesn't Matter" vs. Medical RealityGood point. I think far too many guys here just hang around regurgitating sidebar material, thinking they're offering nuanced advice. You don't become good at football by sitting around watching the NFL and repeating the commentary. And you don't learn much by saying what other people should have done in the situation, now that the consequences are clear. You become a pro by going out there and practising, by failing, and by succimbing to your weaknesses and learning what your own personal short… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 03:50 PM |
| 3 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesOf course- that's why campus christian groups would be the ideal spot | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:50 PM |
| 4 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesChurches aren't the best place to meet Christian girls. You'll meet a bunch of older people who use it as a way to socialize. I'd recommend things like Intervarsity Christian Fellowship, Campus4Christ or smaller house churches. That being said, churches aren't bad for getting information about these clubs, but I'd say it's more of a stepping stone. If I ever decide to settle down that's my plan. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/AdviceThis makes sense, I should have done that. But I was curious to see how she would behave without me having to make rules. I had assumed people will do what they feel like, but rules will just make them more careful about it. I realise now I probably could have nipped this in the bud by not letting her see other people; but I didn't think I could pull this off without locking myself down to monogamy. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/AdviceAfter the trickle-truth she doesn't really have any credibility, but I think her account is plausible because it's a strange lie to tell. If she were going to lie she probably wouldn't have made something up that shows she initiated and was rejected, this makes her look pretty pathetic. She would have said he tried and she turned him down because she didn't want to, as this would make her look committed/attractive. Also, the texts confirm that she was initiating, and he was mostly ignoring/humor… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:57 PM |
| -2 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/AdviceI didn't catch hard feelings. Plate was the wrong way to describe her, she started off as that and it was gradually becoming more serious. I cleared things up a bit in the edit. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:48 PM |
| 0 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/AdviceI guess plate was the wrong way to describe her. See the edit if you want. I was open about my sex life outside of her, and she said she was being open about going on dates with other guys. When I suspected she was lying to me I looked into it. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:46 PM |
| 0 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/AdviceYeah, she started off as a plate but had good qualities so I was letting her gradually earn more committment. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:31 PM |
| -2 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/AdviceI think plates can be upgraded to LTR's if they have the right qualities. That was sort of going on, but discovering her behavior made me question if she has good LTR qualities. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:30 PM |
| -4 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/AdviceOver the past year I've had a handful of plates, but I'm pretty busy in my program and exams are coming up so I let a few drop. I don't have oneitis, if anything I'm more attached to a different girl. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:28 PM |
| -1 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/AdviceSome plates last weeks, some last a few months. This one had been around for 7 months, and we do coupley things sometimes. So somewhere between a plate and an LTR I guess. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/AdviceI wouldn't ever start by dating someone exclusively, so at some point a plate might get promoted to LTR status. She has mostly good LTR qualities so it was gradually moving in that direction. I was a bit jealous, but moreso I was dissapointed that she wasn't as LTR quality as I thought she was. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/AdviceThis makes sense. In my mind I guess she was gradually moving from a plate to a LTR, but we weren't going to be in the same city for much longer so an LTR didn't make sense. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:20 PM |
| 4 | Simulated Sex - Will It Spell The End of Beta Bux for Post Wall Women?Masturbation is already as good as sex in terms of physical feeling, and probably better than sex with a condom. The reason I go out and find real women is the psychological rush of having a girl beg for my dick. So for me, this virtual reality sex thing isn't going to change anything for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What are your favorite TV shows with RP elements?Ray Donavon, main character has incredible frame. His job is to fix problems for celebrity clients of an entertainment lawyer. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/15 11:09 PM |
| 2 | 17 Years old experiencing loss/inability of erectionIt's psychological. Talk to your doctor, get a script for Viagra and keep one in the bottom of a pack of gum for emergencies. Just knowing you have it there is a bit of a security blanket so the performance anxiety is less likely to flare up. I have the issue occasionally with really hot girls I haven't hooked up with before, usually the erection comes back within 30 minutes of ignoring it. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/15 07:39 PM |
| 3 | LTR overstepped a boundary which wasn't clearly definedGirls who don't drink often are the ones more prone to getting that drunk. Yeah it's not something she should be doing routinely, but we've all had those nights where we play too many drinking games or get offered too many shots. Act disappointed and scale back affection for a short while and she'll learn her lesson. Don't explicitly do anything too severe because she'll talk to her friends and they'll (rightly) say you're being controlling /overreacting. If it gets back to your ski friends they… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/15 05:53 PM |
| 1 | "Secrets" from LAs Bottle Service GirlsIn the article they mention that at their bar tips are not included. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 11:51 PM |
| 6 | "Secrets" from LAs Bottle Service GirlsMany of them are devoted to 1-2 tables throughout the night. So having a table stiff them can leave them without any tips. Like they mentioned, promoters might do this, but the bar still benefits from having them there, so the girls do as they're told. Splitting tips makes sense to prevent cattiness/politics in fighting over who gets which table. I know a girl in a medium sized city (with very few "high rollers") who averages $800 a weekend doing bottle service. I'd be surprised if these hollywo… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 04:06 PM |
| 3 | "Secrets" from LAs Bottle Service GirlsSignalling. Any guy who can keep a girl like this loyal signals to everyone his value, and if he plays his cards right can get her to use her easy money to buy him things. Further, a girl like this will keep a guy fit (alpha), as he has no room to drop the ball and get complacent. Also, I think people aren't giving these girls enough credit. This isn't the skank doing bottle service at your local bar, these girls are probably extremely socially intelligent as well as ridiculously hot. Jobs like … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 03:57 PM |
| 32 | "Secrets" from LAs Bottle Service GirlsIt's not that absurd. Only a guy with killer frame could handle his girlfriend flirting with rich/famous guys on a weekly basis without getting rattled by it. It's going to be the same with dating any hot girl working around professionals. Dating a cheerleader, model or actress is probably the same way. Any guy can handle his girlfriend working at a daycare or as a kindergarten teacher. While I understand the preference to date one of these girls (much easier to be the most interesting part of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Man wins right to sue rape-accuser for defamation after he was cleared of rape charges.Ah right, I mixed up the onus on that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/15 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Man wins right to sue rape-accuser for defamation after he was cleared of rape charges.Unless he actually has proof she lied, it won't help him much. If it's just a he said /she said thing he's probably out of luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/15 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Man wins right to sue rape-accuser for defamation after he was cleared of rape charges.I'm not a lawyer, and I'm not certain about this but: It's the BC Court of Appeal, so it will be pretty much binding on all trial judges across Canada. Courts of Appeal in Canada won't be bound by it, but it will carry weight. In countries where this issue of privilege has not yet been decided, (UK, AUS, NZ) it will be considered and may be adopted. There's probably already existing case law on this issue in the states, so the courts there will find that more relevant than in BC. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 09:08 PM |
| 11 | Man wins right to sue rape-accuser for defamation after he was cleared of rape charges.He won't lose. He just needs to show 51% that she was lying. His records of where he was + her statements to the police/social media do just that. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 09:03 PM |
| 2 | I am truly fascinated by a females natural ability to create an assemblage of orbiters, betas and alphas to tend to her different "needs".I think it's a bit of a stretch to say women need beta orbiters more than men need plates. High value men/women naturally attract them and they're nice to have around. Women often wish they could get rid of a beta but they're often way too persistent/unable to take hints. Guys can just ignore plates and they usually get the message. Personally I like to keep plates around to help me maintain an attitude of outcome independence. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 12:02 AM |
| 1 | User of 4chan explains the difference between men's and women's accomplishments.To be fair, they were often doing pretty well before the reverse discrimination came into effect. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 01:17 AM |
| 1 | She wants marriage. [UPDATE]I wouldn't find myself in that boat. While all women are a bit emotional, I've become pretty good at figuring out which ones would be capable of shit like that. Also, I'd have a good contract set up so that any divorce would go smoothly. Most importantly, thanks to TRP I know how to act around women to keep them from getting bored in a relationship. I'm not sure where you live, but in my jurisdiction divorces are handled pretty fairly, and contracts will be binding if they're reasonable and if b… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 04:48 AM |
| 1 | She wants marriage. [UPDATE]Care to elaborate? I'm a law student in Canada well aware of the financial consequences of marriage breakdown, but also aware of how to mitigate those consequences and the risk of it taking place. I'm already a bit bored of fucking random girls, doesn't really give me the same excitement now that it's become easier. I'm sure after another 10 years I'll want to settle down and have a family, provided I'm allowed to dabble on the side if I choose to. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 12:19 PM |
| 9 | She wants marriage. [UPDATE]That's a good way to frame it. By starting off totally opposed to marriage, the prenup becomes her idea as a solution to the financial consequences of divorce. They aren't bulletproof, but they provide a lot more protection than people think if done right (varies by jurisdiction). They can't be entirely unfair (she gets nothing) but you can make them skewed in favor of the person who contributes more enough that she'd have a financial incentive to stay committed to the marriage. Anyway, I do pla… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Doesn't matter if you've provided for her for 30 years, women aren't loyal.I think this can be remedied by having her in a female dominated workplace. An elementary school teacher for instance is mostly surrounded by children and adult women. The few males there might orbit/provide validation, but aren't going to be giving her tingles. The added benefit of 70k/year is worth the small additional risk of infidelity, and will make child/spousal support substantially less should divorce ever take place. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Proud of Nephew / How To Deal With Rumors and Gaslighting?The reason partner counts mean different things for men vs. women is because men have to work for sex. I had sex for the first time when I was 21 and that was a fluke. I had my first girlfriend when I was 23 at that lasted for 8 months, and that ended when I moved across the country for law school. It wasn't until I started working out, was in law school that I got more girls after that, around 4 in the first 8 months. During the summer I had another 3 before discovering TRP while I was at my pe… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 07:22 AM |
| -7 | Breitbart:Lena Dunham Rape story bullshitThe fact that she changed names and facts (without mentioning that she was changing facts) isn't all that important. Maybe he wasn't a prominent republican, just a philosophy student who played devils advocate one night and appeared overly conservative. She admits she isn't a reliable narrator. Maybe he graduated that December, or maybe he didn't bother applying to graduate in case he wanted to add some courses to his GPA later, and ended up doing his convocation in the spring. The radio station… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 01:29 AM |
| 11 | Lena Dunham's hit HBO series Girls, ironically may be the most Red Pill show on television today.The show does offer good insight into how women think/interact that isn't usually available to guys. In the same way that Sheryl Sandberg's book explicitly encourages AF/BB, the show Girls is good exposure to RP truth. Some of the scenes in that show made me start to question the BP paradigm, and those doubts eventually led me here. Just because you don't like her personally doesn't mean you can't learn from her. Compared to most BP shit on TV these days, Girls is actually a really good show, an… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/14 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Do women ever end a relationship without someone lined up?Completely agree. I think this might be part of why girls on the BPD spectrum are so intoxicating. They fulfill that primal desire to be the saviour/protector by being the perfect victim/damsel in distress. Even when men realise the extent to the lies they've been told, they continue to martyr themselves in the hope that they can take the role of the parent/therapist and fix/save her. Most guys claim that they stay for the good sex, but I suspect it has more to do with getting addicted to that p… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I need some true Red Pill style advice. I hooked up with a girl a couple days ago, she prevented me from using a condom, and now she's refusing to take the morning after pill. What should I do?No judge is going to buy the argument that "I didn't want to have sex with her without a condom, but she pulled me on top of her and forced me". At most he can claim that she opposed the idea of condoms, and then it was up to him to decide whether to have unprotected sex or no sex. He will never win a sexual assault claim against her, and whining about being raped when it's obvious he wasn't just looks 1) pathetic to anyone who hears this account, and 2) classic morning regret after making a bad… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 01:29 PM |
| 7 | I need some true Red Pill style advice. I hooked up with a girl a couple days ago, she prevented me from using a condom, and now she's refusing to take the morning after pill. What should I do?Come on, she didn't force him on top of her at all. Spreading a false rape rumour would be stupid and unproductive. If she knows who he is and where he lives her lawyers will be able to find him someday when the child support comes due. Keeping an eye on her facebook gives you some insight into whether she gets pregnant or not. It's probably too late for the morning after pill to be effective now anyway. Do not mention the photos. If she does seem pregnant a few months down the line you can try … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?Glad you commented. I've been enjoying my new success with women, and while I'm probably not going to become too serious in a relationship for a few years and until I've fully internalised TRP, I still make an effort to mould the girls I date into the sort of women I'd want to settle with eventually. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?No, I'm not interested in any exclusive relationship right now. But I'm finding evidence that non-virgins can form emotional attachments. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?If it is genuinely true that it is very difficult for a woman to form a bond after the CC then my hypothesis is flawed. I'm just not sure that it's the case. I've had a sexy yet cold hearted commerce bitch (22) form an extremely strong attachement to me by giving her intense orgasms through dominant sex while deeply immersed, and by mixing in affection with degredation. Not sure of her exact sexual history, but I'd be surprised if she had less than 15 partners. She lives across the country but i… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?I'm not at all angry. The abhorrence was mostly in reference to the frequent posts with stories about AF/BB and people seeming pissed at her. When I see an AF/BB I'm actually sort of impressed by the woman who was able to pull it off, and I have female friends riding the CC that I'm encouraging to cash out now (24 in law school) before their SMV slides much further (in subtle terms). Personally I love feminism, in the past year I've been doing well with women while improving my SMV. Then I found… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 04:21 AM |
| 6 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?It's not about girls who come to the epiphany that they're ready for nice guys. All sorts of shitty women come to that conclusion to find beta support. I'm talking about a girl who comes to terms with the RP truth and decides to actively improve her capacity as a caregiver/mother and tries to find a man to be her leader. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?I'm assuming by vaginal quality you're referencing her capacity to carry and raise good children, and be faithfully committed to her husband (while giving him good, disease free sex)? Of course her sexual history is extremely relevant to those things, but I disagree about the lack of salvageability. There are other ways she can demonstrate the ability to be a good mother, including long periods of sexual exclusivity and self improvement. A man who spent his life orbiting might find it very hard … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?I fully agree that it is best to find a woman pre-cc to settle down with. In the same way I'd advise women to find a man who comes by his leadership/masculinity naturally and didn't spend his teens/20's orbiting girls and slacking off, only to discover TRP and make up for his shortcomings. But I've seen the self improvement men have with the right motivation, and I'm not convinced women are incapable of that. I'm aware that women lose some of their ability to pair bond after having orgasms with … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?I'm advocating that shaming, belittling and devaluing women to the point of being unmarriageable based on their sexual history is what drives them to find betas to provide for them. It's a flaw they need to compensate for, and maybe they can earn commitment from someone that they actually respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?AF/BB isn't good for women either though. They've been sold on that myth as much as young men have been sold on the myth that androgeny is ideal. Alpha attention isn't all that satisfying, and marrying a blue dude will lead to a life of anti-depressants and feeling empty. I guess I have as much pity for those girls who choose to embrace that life as I do for the young men who choose to get the easy scraps of female validation by growing vaginas themselves. I can relate more to the guys obviously… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?My proposal: TRP should encourage women to try and improve themselves as caregivers. This way rather than latching onto some beta to control and be supported by, they consider becoming worthy of Alpha commitment. Sexual history is a decent indicator of commitment, and we shouldn't be oblivious to that fact, but it's probably overemphasized here at this point, and isn't something women can change retroactively. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Do we have double standards for Reformed Orbiters vs. Reformed Sluts?No, I'm not advocating the current system where a slut lies about her past, avoids responsibility and finds some nice BB to control. Rather where they realise they've made mistakes, and actively seek to improve themselves as mothers so as to be attractive to RP type men and embrace their gender roles. Much like orbiters can realise they've made mistakes, and then actively seek to improve themselves as men/leaders to be attractive to women by maintaining frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:03 PM |
| 0 | Be wary of double standards and the pussy pass - it can ruin friendshipsThere's a difference between an insult and someone saving face. Imagine this: You're flirting with 3 girls who live together for a few hours at a bar. You walk home with them and are making out with one of them on the couch. One of the others who wasn't into you gets pissy with you for having smelly feet or having farted or something. While I might feel self-conscious and annoyed that she said that, I wouldn't apologize to her for making her apartment smell bad, I wouldn't immediately run to the… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 04:49 AM |
| 1 | path for the red pill hopeless?The fact that you instinctively try think of reasons not to improve yourself isn't ideal, but awareness of those self-sabotaging instincts is an important step. Most of us have them to some degree, the one that plagues me is: "If you don't try hard at least failure/mediocrity won't hurt as badly." You need to identify when you're doing that and stamp it out. Make a point of forcing yourself to XYZ every time you catch yourself sabotaging. "I shouldn't go to the gym today because I'm hungover" "I… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/14 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Be wary of double standards and the pussy pass - it can ruin friendshipsWhen it's a preference that most men have, its insulting for it to be brought up. If a girl were going on about how she's not attracted to asian guys or short guys in front of a short or asian friend, I would think she was a total bitch. By all means, don't fuck people you're not attracted to, but don't remind them of it if it's not something they can change. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 04:00 AM |
| 8 | Be wary of double standards and the pussy pass - it can ruin friendshipsDouble standards are OK because men and women want different things. A low SMV woman in a car with 3 drunk guys? Somebody is probably down to hook up with her, so her skanky behavior is tolerated/welcome. A low SMV man in a car with 3 drunk girls? They're all probably creeped out by him, so his sexually aggressive behavior is not tolerated and is socially very innappropiate. Also, making racially based comments regarding sexual desireability isn't acceptable by either guys or girls, but especial… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 03:29 AM |
| 1 | "I don’t care as much how a guy might be humiliated.”It's simply not practical to do invasive searches of everyone coming into the bar. Most bars don't do searches at all, and the ones that do obviously do them more thoroughally on people who look more likely to have weapons. Gender is an obvious difference, race is one too, but I'd say clothing is a better indicator than race. Of course if a guy wants to get a gun into a bar to kill someone he'll be able to do it, but most of these violent encounters aren't premeditated, so they wouldn't go to th… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 07:51 PM |
| -5 | "I don’t care as much how a guy might be humiliated.”Are you really trying to shame me for being sexist for pointing out a difference between men and women? Do you know where you are? Stop with this MRA bullshit, I don't give a shit if you feel persecuted because you have a dick. Stop whining and improve yourself. The bouncers job is to ensure security without infringing privacy too much, so that means that they have to be more thorough with people more likely to have weapons. Personally I’d use attire as a better indicator than race, but generali… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The most unattractive trait of all: trying to attract a womanWhole post is good, but most of it I've heard before. This part though was eye-opening. That’s why gaming women and PUA tactics and becoming a “Red Pill” man work incredibly well in the real world, but women who read about all of this on the internet hate the hell out of it and call it creepy, rapey, manipulative, and swear that it would never work on a smart woman. Because when they read about game on paper, it’s an action you’re taking to try to attract women. That’s creepy and could never pos… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 06:05 PM |
| -5 | "I don’t care as much how a guy might be humiliated.”Men are more likely to be violent or bring weapons into clubs, so it's hardly sexist for them to be searched more instrusively. The owner makes valid points that women are more likely to have metal in piercings/underwear, and are more senstive to being groped as they walk in. Given that guys go to bars with more girls, bars have an interest in not making their female patrons uncomfortable. Also, this seems like a direct copy/paste from an unsourced news article, with no discussion of how it rela… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Boycotts are a feminine strategy that we should use more often.I don't disagree that boycotts can occasionally be successful, but I don't think it's really worthwhile. Societal changes that make other men into Beta's don't hurt me. I don't live in California, but a law being passed that scares guys into having boring sex would simply mean that I would be one of the few guys able to give girls the dominant sex that they want. Stop trying to change the world to make room for yourself. Change yourself to take advantage of the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 08:52 PM |
| 6 | [Found in TIL] The Paradox of Declining Female HappinessI disagree regarding ADHD medication turning boys into zombies. Since taking Adderal I've started working out, eating healthily, and my career trajectory has gone way up. I also have better impulse control, which is important for maintaining frame. I've been on it casually for 4 years, but it was only this past year when I started taking it daily (along with dexydrine) for law school that I saw major improvements in my lifestyle. Far from turning me into a zombie, it gave me the focus I needed t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/14 04:19 AM |
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