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Outer Game GoGetter0130/r/seduction16/05/24 09:30 PM
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Do a lot of approaching
/r/seduction03/06/24 04:18 PM
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There's a website called meetup.com which is good. All kinds of activities. Also bumble has a friend feature. Guys have reached out to me on there but I just never tried it.
/r/seduction03/06/24 03:24 AM
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You're making excuses for them. I never said it was a situation where the guy is "doing the wrong thing". I'm not taking disrespect as a compliment ever. And I'm not rewarding bad behavior with a smile or telling them to have a nice day, so that they think it's OK to do it to the next guy. I'm just walking away period. Probably will even laugh at them while walking away.
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:14 PM
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With the "rough" rejections, it's a massive turn off that she would react that way to someone who has the balls and decency to give women what they want, which is to approach them. So It's actually easy to walk away from those ones, because I have no respect for them anyways and wouldn't piss on them if they were on fire.
/r/seduction02/06/24 03:00 AM
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I was asking what people's opinion was because of this exact issue, cowards thinking you have to ask for it.
/r/seduction02/06/24 12:43 AM
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Only a pussy like yourself would worry about getting permission from women. I have them begging me to have sex.
/r/seduction02/06/24 12:25 AM
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You're a coward
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:39 PM
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The fact that you're comparing average men who are dating women and considering your consent bullshit to foreign military opposition that committed war crimes is outrageous. This is the ultimate form of gaslighting. You should actually be charged with crimes for enciting hate against men.
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:36 PM
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All you do is gaslight and play the victim to get your way. There had never been a time in human history where women have played the victim so severely that men are afraid to even speak to women anymore. It's absolutely sickening what you have done. It has destroyed the family unit and created fatherless children. This is the definition of a coward and enemy of humanity.
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:27 PM
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I hate America and it's liberal bullshit that men have allowed women to whine about until it's become commonplace. Just a bunch of cowards. And we wonder why people say they're aren't any manly men anymore.
/r/seduction01/06/24 07:21 PM
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Yeah they're everywhere in my city as well. How do they respond when you approach them? Seems like the hotter they are, the more attitude they have where I'm at.
/r/seduction31/05/24 12:42 PM
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I wouldn't say that I "like" to give them good feelings, because the whole premise of them forcing men to approach them because they're too cowardly to do it themselves, makes me not want to "give" them anything. But I "will" give them a seductive vibe if I'm approaching because you have to. And then when you approach, you learn what to do, and not to do, because they're petty and fearful, so you learn not to walk up from behind, things like that. But I definitely don't enjoy approaching women. …
/r/seduction30/05/24 04:51 AM
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This is a tough one. Where's do you live? It has an impact because cultures vary in different regions.
/r/seduction30/05/24 12:49 AM
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I feel exactly how you feel and you took the words out of my mouth. These people on here are haters and feminists. The reality is that YOU ARE kissing their ass, and women have set it up this way because they are the gatekeepers of sex. They've collectively orchestrated a refusal to approach men (to avoid rejection) by leveraging sex. They're basically saying "we refuse to fuck you unless you do all of the hard work, so either approach or die alone". And in the process they get to boost their eg…
/r/seduction29/05/24 03:01 PM
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Yeah but there's often a lot of guys going for the better looking women, so they don't really feel compelled to do that as much if the girl is 8,9,10.
/r/seduction29/05/24 04:13 AM
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Incels should just go play skyrim
/r/seduction29/05/24 04:10 AM
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Dude no. He's still validating her 100% just by approaching her. There's nothing "Tate" about him not wanting to inflate her ego anymore than it already is. I completely understand where he's coming from. The reality is that there's no way around feeding into her ego if you're gonna approach her. Even if he said he wants to find about about her personality, the reality is that he's approaching her based off her looks in the first place because that's all he had to go off of. I personally don't l…
/r/seduction29/05/24 04:08 AM
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People want to be adored but when you get into relationships, even friends, there is always the adored and the adorer. BECAUSE THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS EQUAL
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:39 AM
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We're leading with protection if someone is an immediate threat. You wouldn't be able to fight off a 200lb grown man yourself. We're providing leadership from many aspects. Primarily psychologically. Women who get with leaders will adopt his wisdom, his calm rational and logical demeanor, his experience and most importantly his mission in life. For example, it's often the case that a pastor's wife will be his assistant pastor. Women provide the supporting role for his mission. And he leads the h…
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:20 AM
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Women can "want to" be the adored all they want but if they do, they have their priorities backwards. Men provide protection, provision and leadership generally. This is what women are BIOLOGICALLY attracted to. Because unfortunately they are generally weaker physically. Otherwise women wouldn't fundamentally need men. This is all biological. You can't bypass it. You can TRY by selecting submissive ugly guys, but you'll never be truly attracted to them or respect them. So if you want to trade at…
/r/seduction24/05/24 02:31 AM
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Stopped to read it? And why are you refusing to hit her back up? They left because you're friend fucked up, you should be mad at him.
/r/seduction23/05/24 10:22 PM
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Don't be so hard on yourself. Your comment about going home wasn't that bad. Granted, you probably didn't spark a seductive interest, but it can be viewed by her as just small talk for sure. You don't know what she's thinking about it. Next time you make eye contact, smile and see if she smiles back or just receives it positively based on her body Language. Don't get nervous, just smile. If she responds positively, then have something prepared to talk to her about and approach her sometime after…
/r/seduction23/05/24 04:48 PM
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You're in awe? Imo leading with compliments puts you in the submissive position automatically. And negging her about something she's done just puts her on the defense, even if she's lying about it. Don't lead with compliments or sexual references is my advice. You did the right thing by taking an interest of hers and talking about it but it was a little aggressive. Maybe something like "why do yall leave the gym without showering after hot yoga 😆". Shit maybe even that would put her on the defen…
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:16 PM
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Yessir!
/r/seduction23/05/24 05:17 AM
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You won't like this harsh truth, but you can't really show them the type of love you're referring to. Because in every relationship there is the "adored" and the "adorer". You want to be the "adored" in a relationship with a woman. She has to like you at least a little more than you like her. It's just not possible for it to be equal because men have to lead. It's what women are attracted to for security. So if she's adoring you then you can't act like you're all mushy in love with her if you wa…
/r/seduction22/05/24 05:00 PM
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I'm in a similar situation. I have always gotten attention but recently got more fit and I'm getting exactly what you're getting. It's gotten to the point where if they're not validating me (because not all women will) I start to get disappointed and question why. This is probably what hot women go through in their heads because of all the attention they get. Yeah it's addicting, but also a little exhausting.
/r/seduction22/05/24 12:50 PM
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Its not necessarily a bad sign. It also means they're nervous sometimes. That's why its a tricky one.
/r/seduction21/05/24 01:05 PM
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OF isn't directly simping though, he's talking about giving them free attention
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:56 AM
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Oh my bad you did say it was an exaggeration too lol
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:51 AM
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It's an interesting take but I think it might be at least a slight exaggeration. Just as far as the amount of attention you think they're getting. I think a lot of guys have stopped simping because it's more well known now. Don't get me wrong, they're still out there but it's not like it used to be.
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:48 AM
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That could be one aspect, good observation
/r/seduction20/05/24 10:13 PM
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I'm a grown man, I could be up doing my laundry every night at 11 for all they know. That's the point.
/r/seduction20/05/24 08:50 PM
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It's not choosing signals in a romantic way because they're men. You wouldn't know I guess. It's just the level of treatment and interest you can observe. That's what it is. It's like admiration.
/r/seduction20/05/24 04:48 PM
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Haters are gonna hate, stems from envy. I feel your pain.
/r/seduction20/05/24 06:05 AM
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You're delusional. They don't need to stare into your eyes? Then if they're looking in your general direction, apparently that means you assume they're looking at you. You sound paranoid and you make outlandish assumptions. There are not "far too many men", let's look at statistics. It's an extremely small minority of men and you're making it everyone else's problem. Just stay in the house, nobody should have to deal with psychotic behavior.
/r/seduction19/05/24 10:37 PM
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Any person can be a predator based on your logic. So by your logic, women should just probably not leave the house. They take it too far and it's ridiculous to have to deal with them in public. It's that simple. I have a thousand examples of watching them act like complete psychos to avoid an imaginary threat. And really they're just making their own lives harder than they have to be for almost no reason. I love how you're implying I don't have female friends as if you know anything about me. Th…
/r/seduction19/05/24 08:36 PM
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Don't open with "hey I thought you were cute so I wanted to say hi". It doesn't work well. You could have approached sarcastically with a smile and said "whoaaaa slow down, I gotta talk to you for a second, my name is [enter name]. What's your name?" If she didn't want to give a name you can say "oh OK I'll call you [enter flirty knickname]. And go from there. I think your approach was it. But you left with valuable lessons because you won't let it happen again.
/r/seduction19/05/24 08:32 PM
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You also notice if they notice you without them even making eye contact? Go ahead and explain that one. And how is it rational to be on guard against ANY man that is near you or behind you when you're alone. Absolutely delusional. It's really a burden dealing with you in public, acting all flighty and defensive over literally nothing. Try to put yourself in someone else's shoes for once and let go of the narcissism.
/r/seduction19/05/24 08:22 PM
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They don't like the truth.
/r/seduction19/05/24 05:26 PM
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You basically have to. But I'm still gonna call it out and complain about it 💯
/r/seduction19/05/24 05:14 PM
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Not to the extent that they do. No.
/r/seduction19/05/24 05:10 PM
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I'm saying that they don't necessarily know if it's a lack of ambition. So to consider it as more attractive is based off unproven assumptions. That's what they do, make a million assumptions
/r/seduction19/05/24 05:08 PM
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It's wild how women think. They focus on things that men would never even consider a problem. But then you find out after trial and error that they're looking at even the time you go to bed as meaning something. Fundamentally it could mean lacking ambition but not necessarily. A guy could just be able to function on less sleep. But the way they think is crazy. Just like they think if you're texting them often that you have nothing better to do, but then turn around and complain that you're not r…
/r/seduction19/05/24 03:19 PM
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Awww, someone's jealous huh?
/r/seduction19/05/24 01:11 PM
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It's perfectly normal because often they aren't contributing a lot to an interaction because they're passive aggressive and are used to men leading the interaction for them. You pretty much just have to come to terms with the fact that they don't even care to contribute to anything that doesn't benefit them and they're going to make interacting awkward because of that. Best case scenario is you take the lead but don't feel obligated if they're really being lazy and contributing very little to a …
/r/seduction18/05/24 05:44 PM
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Yes I've met guys similar. Bringing up topics and then your opinion of them is easier in that case. As opposed to stories. Just a cookie cutter example " crypto is way up, it seems like a decent investment, what do you think?" With women it would be more geared towards things they're interested in, like something new on Netflix or traveling etc... Also you can try to carefully eavesdrop on their conversations to find out what they're interested in and then jump in on a conversation. Just be care…
/r/seduction18/05/24 09:55 AM
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How old are you? Experiences give you things to talk about. So it helps with age. But basically you have to have interesting topics to bring up and stories to tell about those topics. And also you can bring up topics and discuss your opinion on those topics. Try to find topics that other people would relate to that you're speaking to. And most importantly just communicate whatever it is you're talking about confidently.
/r/seduction18/05/24 06:23 AM
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I'm interested in your thoughts on noticing them first. Sometimes it's not possible to avoid noticing them first, if for example you're walking towards each other in a store. But if you mean to look away if you see them first, so that they think you haven't seen them yet, and then look back as if you're just noticing them walk by, that's all I can think of. But why do you think that's important? I get that it can be because she might think you're another thirsty one, staring, but isn't that real…
/r/seduction18/05/24 03:43 AM
2

Bro get a life
/r/seduction17/05/24 09:58 PM
2

Yeah anytime women are called out on a behavior that they all generally engage in, then the comeback is "everyone's an individual". But they have no problem generalizing men all day everyday. Again, nothing but hypocrisy. Matter of fact, you generalized women in your first post when you said "I don't think the average woman etc etc"..
/r/seduction17/05/24 08:05 PM
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Ok. My point is he's not right about them not giving signals at all openly. They do if they find you attractive. That guy is on every post talking shit all day... he's a simp.
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:30 PM
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This guy is a notorious hater and he sits on this forum all day instead of getting laid. Don't listen to a word he says. He's a simp. (Mranonposter)
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:26 PM
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You might have been a photographer, but if you're not attractive, you wouldn't know what it's like to have them choose you. I do. And even the hot ones act similar to most women, it's just a little less at times and with more ego. But they're not just only going to orbit when choosing. They will give you body Language and eye contract. I have plenty of examples in my own life. Plenty.
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:13 PM
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Nope. Not true. The only way ignoring them works is if you're in an environment where they'll see you again, like work. If you completely ignore strangers in passing, they'll assume you don't care and leave you alone. Always.
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:10 PM
0

There's a difference between "overtly expressive" and just not giving choosing signals at all. He said they just don't give choosing signals. That's nonsense. The really hot ones do, I get it daily. But some of them are just bitchy or don't want to be bothered or are taken so they look away... simple as that. But all women give choosing signals, it's biology. They're not immune to biological imperative buddy. He said they only put themselves in orbit. That's just not true. You can see it in thei…
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:06 PM
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Yeah I understand getting too much attention because I get it too and it can get annoying. I can't even go to the gym without women constantly staring, some days I love it, other days I'm really annoyed. But women are hypocritical because they'll stare a lot and come by me at the gym, they'll get on the treadmill right next to me and have a huge smile on their face when there like 10 other open treadmills. but if I do it they act like guys are following them or a threat... they're just annoying
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:03 PM
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I never said you saw the post, the point is yall are on some bs. You have no idea about my success with women.... next
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:19 AM
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They seem to actually date attractive women? Lol where's your evidence for that, simp?
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:24 AM
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It's not that simple, idk why yall are so negative on reddit towards men. A female wrote a similar post yesterday and had like 150 likes, you're a bunch of simps
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:02 AM
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All women display choosing signals, you're wrong
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:02 AM
0

Just throw yourself in the fire and walk up and start talking to a girl. Research openers. You'll realize that it's not that scary no matter what the outcome ends up being. You want to talk at least for a few minutes so that you're not just asking for her number right away. Try to find common interests. Smile lightly/slyly upon your approach. Don't break eye contact too much. If she gets silent, fill the awkward silence.
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:44 PM
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