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GoRedBad/r/askTRP30/06/17 02:39 PM
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you din axe me, but... poor educational attainment - including in skills as basic as English reading and writing - is rife in black communities. If it is not synonymous, it is at least correlated and can generally be expected. Aight?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 01:40 PM
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Slapping around women or ring-fighting is not violence, because it is consensual. There is no violation I think you lost this argument when you ended a sentence with "kid". A clear attempt to use language to place oneself in the position of authority when one's authority is lacking.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 04:33 PM
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I have found peacocking- wearing flamboyant or unusual styles - to work wonders. It can also be quite subtle, for example, wearing a bowtie and jacket has caused women to run up and kiss me as soon as I enter the bar.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 12:39 PM
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I used to be very blue pill, but I never had an anger phase. Way back in 2004 I discovered fastseduction.com, David D'Angelo, Tyler Durden and Mystery. I was excited, amazed, fascinated and hopeful all at once. By the time I got into the harder stuff from Rooshv and roissy four years later, I was already well familiar with concepts like awalt. My entry to the community was more like finding out there really is a Santa.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/18 05:00 PM
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Let's hear some of them for the sake of continuing the discussion.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 05:11 PM
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The point is, why do professionals risk their career in reciprocating?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 12:04 AM
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But there is nobody who is completely trustworthy whether they are in the public eye or not. If you can think of someone with whom you agree on everything, chances are you haven't read them deeply enough, or you don't know yourself.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 05:03 PM
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People like Jordan Peterson get a lot of hate around here for being "purple pill". Is it possible that JP is just acting out the rule you cite, and not voicing some of his more red pill beliefs, in order to keep his income flowing from the mainstream? Much of his income comes from Patreon, which is known for shutting out wrongthinkers.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 09:52 AM
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Please do write more as GLO suggests. Do you mean if someone is not interested in off-roading, but wants to be seen as a faggot, then the pink jeep's symbolic value becomes use value to that person? Because despite being heterosexual, I have found some satisfaction in occasionally conveying the superficial impression that I am gay by the use of garish accessories in shocking pink, such as the pen and notebook I use at work. I do a similar thing with a ring I wear habitually on the ring finger of…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/18 10:16 PM
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Read your own post.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 08:18 AM
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You don't have to be super alpha, you just have to be more confident than you are now. Work on it. I'm a skinny nerd with no money and do pretty good. I'm irrationally confident and willing to take risks. I talk to people and have a fun attitude. I DON'T tell myself "oh no I'm not Chad or rich so I'll never get anything." What's that saying about the shots you don't take?
/r/askTRP04/12/18 08:17 AM
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thats the opposite of mastery
/r/askTRP03/12/18 10:59 PM
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Delete facebook.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:33 PM
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What's the secret of comedy?
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:31 PM
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There's a joke here about the secret of comedy. Timing.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:23 PM
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We kept pushing the envelope of kink to keep it interesting. A few times we tried anal but she couldnt handle it. She felt bad about it, so I suggested I piss in her mouth instead. Over the course of a night, we built up to her drinking straight from the source on the regular. Occasionally I'd get her to piss in a wine glass and we'd share it, just for a change.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:01 PM
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I've tasted a plate's squirt, and drank her piss. They didn't taste the same. The squirt was like water, but a little denser, more slippery. Perhaps there are some girls that can squirt easily and others that find it difficult or can only piss, that's why some guys insist squirt is piss. My experience is different.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:27 PM
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NO, do not double text. You are failing the classic text test. Just ask for the date in person when you see her next. And if you don't get it, forget it. If she likes you she will make herself available or make a counter offer. Stop being so thirsty.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:27 PM
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Don't fuck with people's emotions. What will it get you? Nothing but the possibility of the other person pursuing revenge against you. Be better than that. Weak people are capricious and vindictive. You are supposed to be a rock.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 02:09 PM
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No, cucking yourself would be asking someone to get your wife pregnant and leave you with the bill. What I am suggesting isn't even a metaphorical cucking. It's getting rid of a woman who is controlling his life and doing a solid for his bro, before something "just happens" and she fucks the dude anyway. Did you forget that AWALT? Do you even TRP? By getting her out of his life - making her someone else's problem - he can learn that losing a chick is no big deal, then concentrate on his studies …
/r/askTRP22/11/18 11:48 PM
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I was going to post something similar. Anyone who is not a natural (and many who are) will benefit immensely from some heartbreak. It worked for me. Take charge of your life, u/drugtofuck. This relationship will end someday and it will be very painful. So get it over with on your terms. You could even approach him first, suggest he make a move on her, then give her permission. Subtly... and without a trace of passive aggression.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:06 PM
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Water. One time I was at a club and ordered a water. The barman brought me a bottled water and asked for money, so watch out for that. I told him to take it back and got tap water instead. Some places have free soft drinks for the designated driver. I don't drive, so not sure how that works in practice. If you want, you can take along some effervescent tablets and flavour/colour the water, as well as getting some extra vitamins. This way you don't look like a teetotaller preying on drunks.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:35 PM
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That's not an equation. An equation has two sides, which are equal. Intensity of shittests = number of girls x value of highest ranked girl
/r/askTRP25/10/18 02:43 PM
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I hate when people turn simple behaviours in to a club, shits wack Unless it's something you're interested in, like TRP, right? Sometimes it helps those who are struggling with simple behaviors to discuss them with like minded people...
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:12 AM
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Go to him direct and tell him you don't want to hang out with him and your girl because of the above reasons. If he's a cool guy, he will be fine with that. And if he's a cool guy, get to know him better so some of it can rub off. He might be a jerk trying to fuck your woman, but he could also just be inviting her along because he knows you're in a relationship. You'll have a better idea than me which is the case... I get where you are coming from because I was mistrustful of a lot of guys aroun…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:13 PM
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Sure, conditioning works, but so far he has conditioned her to getting orgasms from him basically for free. Piling on more of the same sort of conditioning and expecting a different result is folly. For example, let's run with Pavlov. Ring the bell and dog salivates, but we dont want that, we want the dog to fetch the paper (which he does rarely and half heartedly) So we ring the bell harder and harder, while the poor dog salivates himself half to death, looking for his dinner. And all the while…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:04 PM
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/u/CalmPassenger, I say ignore this guy I am replying to. You are already too giving and not getting much in return. I don't think giving more is going to change that. Since when is a woman satisfied by you giving her more? NEVER! She will just get used to what she's getting and demand even more, like an addict developing a tolerance. At present she won't blow you for more than a couple of minutes, and this guy thinks that by your not asking for it, she will magically get the idea to give you "w…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:19 PM
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I say, direct approach/making your intentions clear = good direct approach/question affecting the future of this conversation before it even starts = bad.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 04:02 PM
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"There's somethin' bout his manners.... Havana oh na na"
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:59 AM
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TRP railing against PUA is like a soul singer dissing the blues. TRP would not have happened without the early PUA pioneers, most of whom have evolved their early "canned" approach towards natural game. The contemporary critics of PUA are more often than not attacking a PUA strawman which started to wither in 2004, when The Game was published. Roissy and Roosh (starting circa 2008) were among those who helped transition the PUA community to TRP with their harder-edged, uncompromising blogs.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 09:20 AM
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The absence of scientific proof does not equal scientific disproof. There are many things that can be beneficial to a person that are either difficult or impossible to prove scientifically. I believe you would be hard-pressed to back up many of the internal, psychological perspectives embraced by TRP, such as "always assume attraction" or "never give a woman a straight answer, unless it's 'no'", with peer-reviewed papers. Nofap is not one of these. It seems simple to design an experiment where y…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 11:44 AM
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Agreed - In fact I do the opposite, give mama credit where it's due, and remind child how much mama loves her. The latter is important especially when mama and child have had some friction. Child might want to shit on mama, don't be tempted to do so yourself.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 02:54 PM
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I picked it up from David DeAngelo... "Never give a woman a serious answer, unless it's NO." AND... "How do you know a woman is testing you? Her lips are moving." PUA gets a bad rap around here, but those early gurus did a lot for us!
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 04:06 PM
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"If you seen a girl at a train station being harassed, would you intervene?" "Yes, I'd pull out my AR-15 and blow them both away, before turning the gun on any witnesses, and finally, myself." "Only if she was good looking with big tits." "Only if the guy was an immigrant. Can't have them taking our women as well our jobs!" You can't take any question from a woman in a social context seriously. Just fuck with them and say whatever you feel is amusing to YOU. Unless a woman is asking you somethin…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:19 AM
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Years ago I was with a woman who had the most flavoursome pussy I ever tasted, pleasant and variable, strawberries one day, chinese food the next. It was always a pleasure, even though I had no idea what I was doing. Now I lick 'em for a taste, sure, but no girl has come close to that redhead back in the day, so now it is mainly to hear the screams, as you pointed out.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 11:08 AM
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best avoid rubbing her nose in it, ie don't mention other chicks in front of work girl, she might pull some vindictive jealousy BS.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 02:28 PM
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nuts. carrot sticks. celery. I sometimes buy a bag of baby spinach and then eat it like crisps (chips for USA readers).
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 05:40 PM
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In the UK they say this when you get arrested: "You do not have to say anything, but it may harm your defence if you fail to mention, when questioned, something that you later rely on in court."
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 09:59 AM
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If she is, you go for it anyway (with towel and condom), put the date in the app, plate her, then in future you can magically be busy on days she's in flow!
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 11:07 AM
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I bought three copies of the Rational Male to hand out. Results have varied... one resounding success, one probable fail, and one TBD. Last one has had the book a week but has been politically woke for a long time. I have high hopes.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 11:23 AM
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Go out and don't drink. Learn to dance.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 10:07 AM
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I sit in court every day and see the meatheads with many kids and citations (and no fucks given) described above getting their kids taken away. They are invariably selfish, but are certainly not incredibly dedicated and disciplined. Rather, they are usually products of broken homes and their behaviours arise from insecurity, alcohol/drug abuse, poor emotional control and inertia. They are certainly not the modern day equivalent of warriors. I am sure some or most would like to think they are. Ho…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 11:44 AM
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I have been looking for more ideas with regard to piss play. I randomly suggested pissing in my girls mouth last autumn and over the course of the night worked up to her drinking my piss straight from my dick. Now she drinks four out of five pisses, making her effectively my toilet when we are together, but there's very little in the way of specialised discussion on this topic around here. I'd like to figure out how to get new girls into it.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 09:40 AM
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Ever hear of work life balance? Either you accept that you don't have time (except your day off which you seem to forget) or you make some changes. Up to you. This whole thread is just you saying no to advice and making excuses.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 07:10 AM
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TRP is advice for men. That said, if you want advice, give details. There's no absolutes in life. Many women can and do take back cheaters, but many of them do not. Are you just looking for permission to do what you want?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:44 PM
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So would you advocate violence as a strategy against mocking or disrespect?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:34 PM
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So do you recommend violence? Talking back? Think of it this way - a martial artist would never hit anyone, because he risks killing them. An enlightened thinker would never insult anyone or demand respect, indeed he would welcome the opportunity to remain calm as a form of spiritual practice. By acting in either of those ways, one only makes it clear to all how much one falls short. An alternative would be to make friends, to agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:29 AM
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What else do you do? Haters gonna hate. You will never rid the world of jealous little dicks. They do you a favour by embarrassing themselves. Much like that Michelle Wolf character ripped into the Trump team and made herself and her allies look bad.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:17 AM
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Sounds like you got under their skin by being better, you just need to recognise that people who give unsolicited criticism and bag on complete strangers are saying more about their own insecurities than anything else. And that girl obviously understood as much.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:03 AM
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how about getting lunch out of work, and chatting up women at local sandwich bars cafes etc.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 10:39 AM
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Tell her you rate girls yes or no, and she's a yes. For now.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 09:28 AM
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I've had them, I don't have them routinely except through overindulgence. Have you fixed your diet? Are you exercising? Do you meditate? MGTOW being the result of inability or helplessness is why it is ridiculed. Going your own way is supposed to be a choice that comes from a position of power, not the only road available. And mgtow is not celibacy either. It is the rejection of feminine primacy of society. By that definition I'm mgtow, and I Fuck chicks.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:19 AM
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I've had ED and PE. Now I just don't give a shit. If it happens, it happens, if not, it don't. You could say. "Just right for me." I used to tell one chick at the start of the night, do you wanna get fucked hard? Better suck me off first so I can last. Then I'd have an hour pass before I bang her.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:40 PM
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Next time she comes over, say, "I'm busy. Come back later." If she comes back later, say "Still busy, but it looks like X can talk." (X is someone else at work).
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:02 PM
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Don't get her a gift, and if she asks about it, tell her you told the orbiter guy to get her something on your behalf, and that you hope she likes what you had him get for her. You could even approach him at the party before he hands it over and say - "that's from both of us, hope you got her something good!"
/r/askTRP13/04/18 11:14 AM
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I have psoriasis scabs and sores all over, have had them for twenty years. Nobody gives a shit, because I don't.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 09:37 AM
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As little money spent as possible. Night time, a couple of drinks in a quiet bar, possibly with a game of pool (you can do the old "show her how to play" kino). Day time, a walk in the park and feeding the ducks, or on the boating lake. Minigolf and you do the same kino. You don't actually have to be good at the activity, just do the kino anyway. Always good to have some kind of easy activity as it will fill the spaces in conversation and also give you something to talk about. Go for the kiss as…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:47 PM
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Go ahead and invite her for drinks. If she's interested, she'll come. If she isn't, she either will or won't. Maybe she'll make a counter offer. Don't be afraid of rejection.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:46 PM
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the majority of guys i've met at bars won't cold approach muchless wing or do anything else... i want someone to actually do it fulltime with not just provide entertainment The mentality of approaching full time seems backwards to me. Surely you would prefer to have your life in order to the extent that women fall into your bed somewhat more organically? Pre-"The Game", there was the mentality in the community that one could not git gud without brute forcing one's ability with a few thousand app…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:00 PM
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This is great advice. I knew I was shy, so I leapt at the chance to join a band. At work I used to volunteer for public facing duties and opportunities to lead and train others. Now I have a reputation as the outgoing one in several of my circles. It can be slow and tough, but at some point the situation flips and you start to enjoy what was once deeply awkward and embarrassing.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 04:51 PM
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When at parties, do not have any specific girls in mind. If you like a girl at the party, have no expectations of her. If you can be truly relaxed mixing with everyone, dancing and so on (BTW if you are one of those people who "doesn't dance" that's a sign of insecurity, not an identity!), then others will see how relaxed you are with yourself and others, and women (who tend to be the selectors anyway) will start to show their interest in subtle ways. All that you have to do then is escalate. I …
/r/seduction29/03/18 12:15 PM
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There's facets to this. In The Game he criticises the way old style game created clones of Mystery (and other similar pua gurus) who only knew how to parrot lines and moves learned by rote. In The Rules of the Game he attempts to take the reader from noob to lady killer via a set of exercises undertaken over a number of weeks, with the goal of developing inner confidence by gradual exposure. It is quite different to the styles of teaching and pickup he learned from and later picked apart. Those …
/r/seduction28/03/18 12:06 PM
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The best photos at least seem candid and are taken by other people in social settings. If you must do a selfie, mount your phone on a tripod, use the timer and make it look like a successful guy's HR pic - nice suit, a plainish background, three quarter angle, and don't smile. For the description, be very brief. You can make fun of a beta cliche... e.g. "I won't buy you a diamond ring", "dinner and a movie? if you're buying..." etc. It's bait for girls to call you out on being boorish.
/r/seduction21/03/18 03:47 PM
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the best thing is: Option 3 - forget this chick. Instead of focussing on a "oneitis" (one from years ago, no less!) focus on general self improvement and gaming girls you don't know. That you are still thinking of this girl and what possible chance you could have with her after all this time reeks of desperation, and any girl will smell it on you a mile away. Sexy men that women want do not do this. BTW I am not trying to be mean, I am being realistic, because I used to think like that too.
/r/seduction21/03/18 03:32 PM
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Because that's the truth. You are young, new and hoping for a magic bullet, but it doesn't work like that. Forget this girl, you will NEVER get her. Work on your schooling. If you want advice on women, read all the books and practice on women you don't already know.
/r/seduction21/03/18 12:06 PM
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Too many people have black and white views of noFap. But there is no universal answer that will fit everyone. If you stop masturbating for an extended period, then obviously your hormone profile, sex drive, mental state, energy levels and circadian rhythms will all be affected, especially if you are used to ejaculating very regularly. It is true that this CAN have a profound effect on your TRP efforts, depending on other factors, including exercise, diet and too many others to count. I think eve…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:23 PM
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Your friend lost frame, made it clear to everyone present that the guy was getting under his skin. Maybe that guy will think twice, but now everyone else knows how to push your friend's buttons.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:00 AM
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I play with Lego too. It's fun, relaxing and creative. Not to mention expensive. I've had girls checking my bricklink orders, building with me, and I also use it as an invitation back to my place ("come and check out my Lego collection").
/r/askTRP16/03/18 09:16 AM
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A subtle implication of TRP is that exclusive relationships in the current social climate are folly unless you are more masculine than 99.99% of the men your girl is likely to meet. This precludes the possibility of any checking up on her you deem necessary (which is a clear indicator of insecurity), and also leaves open the risk that she'll fuck that one-in-ten-thousand guy when she does meet him. If you want to check up on your girl, or will be uncomfortable taking things on faith, then you ob…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:06 PM
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With some people, you can even give solicited advice and have the reaction OP got. Mad world.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 09:19 PM
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Bear in mind that this reply is making no judgment about you personally. I don't know you or your circumstances. I am generalising based on your question. I think that if you are concerned owning a dog will reduce your SMV - enough to ask about it online - then don't get one. In itself it won't hurt your value, but with your mindset, regardless of what people online say, you might end up blaming the dog for any unsuccessful seductions and regret owning it, or you might credit the dog for your su…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 11:05 AM
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Amen, I don't bother any more unless they specifically ask. Even then they take no notice.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 01:37 PM
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Yes I agree with everything you just said, including your last point about them coincidentally being jews. So when you refer to them as jews, as if that was the problem, I and most other people are rightly turned off. You could say elite, you could say bankers, you could say globalists. But you and the guy I originally replied to say Jews more often than not. It ruins the reputations of all of us who oppose the NWO or whatever you want to call it.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 08:38 AM
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Criticism of jews is not taboo. Moments ago I Dukduckgo'd "Kushner" and within seconds I had a bunch of mainstream articles criticising him and his role in the Trump White House. What is taboo is criticising jews as a collective, since the only thing they have in common is their jewishness (however that is defined - faith, heritage etc.), and as a people they have been scapegoated for centuries. That's not to say there aren't some scummy jews around. They may even be over-represented amongst the…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 06:01 PM
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Be specific about the Jews you mean. This reference to Jews in general is clearly bollocks, and the reason people get banned. "infiltrate politics to favour Israel" - the same way anyone "infiltrates politics" to favour their own groups? You can put it better than that.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 03:24 PM
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Yeah guys, looks are all the excuse you need to fail! Even though ugly guys with cute women is so common as to be a cliche, even though emotionally evocative communication is the best way to get pussies wet, even though a woman's perception of a man's social status is proven to affect her perception of his physical attractiveness, even though lifting regularly will bump you up by a couple of points etc... The unspoken message of this post is: If you've ever failed at anything, blame your looks a…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 11:32 AM
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What do you mean when you say "jews"? Do you mean ethnic jews? Do you mean those who subscribe to orthodox or secular judaism? Do you mean israelis? Do you mean zionists? Do you mean the Rothschilds? Something else? Be specific about it, or you will invite further criticism of Trump and maga people as nazis. He's right to ban you for it, The_Donald doesn't need any more of that shit How could you be so obtuse?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 11:08 AM
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I would fire someone that did that instantly. In trying to make a point, you are wasting company time and money. This can only work in the imagination of revenge fantasists.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 04:35 PM
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When teasing others, take care not to always pick on the same target(s). Some of the women might dig it when you solidify your position above another, weaker man, but you will certainly make an enemy of him, and others may see you as weak for only punching down.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 04:30 PM
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Make a meal plan and buy nothing but the items on that plan. You cannot be tempted to destroy a tube of Pringles if it is not in your home.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 02:10 AM
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I'd argue you are less safe with a married woman, as if her husband gets a whiff of infidelity, she is highly incentivised to blame you as a harrasser, assaulter, or rapist.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 01:27 PM
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I was once falsely accused, as was a good friend of mine - completely different incidents btw. Some caution is appropriate, but the OP seems to me to be overstating the risks and playing with too many "what if" scenarios to provide anything practical for use. Just get a spy camera!
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 10:44 PM
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Not exactly. I've met none of his friends, old or new, since the early noughties, we have none in common, and he rarely meets mine (like once a leap year if that). She began texting me to assist in his cover story for dead bedroom chick, and I was happy to oblige if it meant him getting his dick wet. EDIT: but you're right that it was a mistake to talk to her.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 07:47 PM
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I had 3 plates. Billy had one dead bedroom, and one side chick, both of whom were older and very low value compared to him (economically and looks). Gave him advice only when he came looking for it, because both side chick and dead bedroom chick are expert at manipulation. I gave him the key actions he needed to take and not take, and I gave him the theory behind it. I sent him links to relevant articles and TRP posts... But he's just too proud and blue pill. Instead of taking action, he stays h…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:17 PM
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You didn't ask me, but maybe I'm part of the problem since I upvote every post I read just for the sake of clearing it off of the screen, and never downvote at all. I used to be more thoughtful with regard to using voting as a feedback and promotional tool, but since some people get triggered by downvotes, and reddit manipulates it all anyway, it's a bit of mental energy that seems better used elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 02:30 PM
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Legality could be an issue but surely there's ways around the law... I installed a keylogger on my own PC, when my girl had a key to my house. She wasn't able to resist logging into her facebook while I was at work (pre-smartphone days), especially since I baited her with a text to say there was a letter for her on my desk. Yes I got her password, but really didn't need it since the logger told me the crucial details (with screenshots) I was after that day.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 05:09 PM
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Physically powerful men. Some like big muscles, others like six packs, most like both. But very few like a fat slob or a broomstick. According to a study cited here on TRP this week, women universally prefer strong men. AWALT!
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 04:56 PM
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It's just as biased to assume guilty as not guilty. As mentioned in my other comment, we don't know either way. Care to answer the question? Why do you assume guilt in the absence of evidence or even a police complaint?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 02:21 PM
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never been fat, but I've done this diet three times for 30-90 days just as an experiment in cleaner eating. My energy levels soared, and overall wellbeing was through the roof. Colleagues remarked how the weight was dropping off me, and one (a woman who struggles with diet and being unmarried/no kids at 40+) even went so far as to say what I was doing was unhealthy... jealousy can be a tricky thing!
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 01:58 PM
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Cameras disguised as pens are available at MenKind (UK) for £16.99 - I bought one for myself but I am going to donate it to a friend who has gotten involved with the wrong woman. You will need a micro SD (sold separately). Get a camera, keep it charged, and you can just click a button discreetly when you need it.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 12:23 PM
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Quit your job working in an office full of chicks, and get a job working with manly men. It could be a crack sales team with bonuses and competition, or maybe it's more physically demanding, such as construction.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 12:15 PM
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I keep hearing of this Roy Moore guy, but haven't heard one jot about his accuser(s?) making any official complaints to the law. If there's no police investigation, let alone a guilty verdict, then there's no way I can hold someone else's word against him, since I was once falsely accused too (it never got as far as charges), as was a good friend of mine (he had the jury clear him). If either of us had a public career, we'd be fucked for life. The same goes for any man, regardless of political a…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 11:23 AM
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Any random woman is as capable of activating the law as you. Let her do it herself!
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 11:08 AM
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the whole thing is about the conflation of masculine and feminine attitudes and behaviours, with male and female biology. Furthermore both sides of the argument might have to make some concessions with regard to nature vs nurture. I think the larger discussion would benefit from agreed upon terms and meanings for words. But fuck all that because nazi.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:04 PM
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Never suffer! Suffering is when you take pain and add to it with "woe is me" thoughts or hopelessness. Pain is mandatory, suffering is optional.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 12:46 PM
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Emotional intelligence can be defined as the ability to recognise emotions in oneself or others, and the ability to not got swept up in acting them out, instead taking action to regulate and express them healthily. A person's degree of emotional intelligence is modelled from parental figures in childhood, but can also be developed in adulthood (with some effort) by way of practices such as meditation, religious devotion, psychoanalysis, exposure to ideal role models, other consciousness raising …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 11:46 AM
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You may find, as so many have including me, that "the child is the father of the man". But if you think you're likely to fuck up violently or abusively, then best keep it wrapped up.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 11:24 AM
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well played, and thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 06:00 PM
1

How did the tattling get back to you and what happened with the tell-tale beta?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 12:18 PM
1

Call Brad Pitt, have him save the day, then amog the fucker into oblivion so he don't steal your bitches.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:56 AM
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Is it just me that gets a massive positive charge from rejection? I can easily hamster away any rejection (and half the time she does the work for me with whatever her reason for turning me down was), while the fact I approached a stranger in public, and sober, makes me feel like a boss.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:48 AM
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If you live by that, then many of life's pleasures are off limits, and many of life's necessities become troublesome to arrange. Can't have a kid unless you are prepared to abandon him or her to a single mother. Can't own property unless you are willing to abandon it to squatters. Can't have friends, can't run a business, can't have a job. Nice idea in theory (and it's a cool line in movies), but too much of a cost for me to consider it.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:37 AM
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I do it the same way, except without the words - it's "the kiss test" popularised by David DeAngelo. The move alone is enough to telegraph intent, and a compliment delivered with the kiss seems too transactional to me.
/r/seduction29/11/17 10:17 AM
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Based on your age and Science^TM right now you're near the lowest possible level of adult male attractiveness. And as a virgin, you're at the lowest possible level of experience. It's only natural you'd be bummed af. But as you can see from the graph, you will begin to see a sharp rise in your attractiveness in a few years. If you just hold out, finish your studies and get into your medical career, you'll have more opportunities before you know it. And with the benefit of the red pill at 22, ins…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 11:09 PM
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I meant working on yourself to be the man you want to be. Sorry to hear that you've not progressed as much as you would like, but "mad props" as they say for taking the plunge with confronting your discomfort... and you didn't die from it. Tyler from RSD would call it a "reference experience". A slowdown could be a good thing. Neil Strauss's "Rules of the Game" is a thirty day workbook that starts with simple things like asking people for the time and making small talk at the bus stop, progressi…
/r/seduction28/11/17 09:18 PM
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I thought about you the other day when I saw a copy of Feel the Fear in a charity shop for 75p. I bought it for a new colleague who confessed she was very nervous about the public-facing aspect of our work. How's it going bro? If you've spent this last half year working on you, I bet you've surprised yourself already. If you haven't, I'm here to remind you that people set their own limits in life, and you need to set yours higher.
/r/seduction28/11/17 08:39 PM
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PUA is toxic because it allows men to tell themselves "There is nothing wrong with me, I am fine as I am, I don't have to lift, I don't have to eat right, I just need to do some voodoo psychology and that will allow me to bed women" This is the opposite of my experience, for example, David DeAngelo and Owen Cook refute this idea in programmes going back over a decade.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 02:14 PM
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You could get engaged to keep her happy, and simply never pull the trigger on a wedding.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:57 PM
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In my personal opinion, cold showers are a natural part of human living. Since humans have only used warm water to bathe in recent centuries, it seems reasonable that our bodies are better adapted to cold water bathing. In any case, as you've no doubt read, there are plenty of benefits. As long as the rest of your T-raising regime is sound, I doubt cold showers will do you any harm.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 12:32 PM
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It's just the standard thing to do... distort Islam according to the discussion. Muslim's and non-muslims alike are always doing it! Don't make like its some shocking faux pas!
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 08:52 AM
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As in, cut off their clitorises?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:01 PM
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Chateau Heartiste specialises in linking to studies that confirm red pill principles (or "commandments of poon" as he puts it). There are numerous studies linking attraction to bad boys cited on the CH blog. I can even recall one about women losing attraction for partners who do too many household chores. I don't know if the study used the word "test", but it did highlight the gap between what women say they want, and what they actually respond to. We don't need science to validate our perspecti…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 12:16 PM
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I mention my Lego collection. They are then surprised to see I actually DO have several Lego models on my mantelpiece. Couple of months back I had a first date in the afternoon and banged her at my place. After we got dressed I had her help me count and inventory my latest bricklink order.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:53 PM
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Then you can work to increase it.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 03:00 PM
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Not sure what's so wrong with being a Christian - it is the ideology at the centre of western cultural strength. As for Zionism, isn't this the belief that Israel should exist? Why shouldn't it?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 01:13 PM
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I always assumed the people who say "could care less" are being sarcastic. For an example see DeAngelo's Advanced Dating Techniques seminar. There's a moment he says this and his tone is definitely not serious.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 01:05 PM
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I'd like to have a dozen, money permitting, but a minimum of one per decade isn't bad. Three years to go before the next!
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 11:43 AM
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I've never informed on a pimp or a drug dealer. Matter of fact, my dad used to pimp out his girlfriend (I still laugh to think of it), and I used a hooker one night when I was 21. I also did some very small time drug dealing around that time. But... drug dealers and pimps plying their trade aren't harming me in any way, so to inform would definitely be snitching. Of course, if I reported my own pimp, that's different :) There are some social conservatives who decry the decline of society and lin…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 09:28 PM
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Well I'm not being facetious here; I ask because the other user posted a detailed reason for the choice to "snitch" (a term misapplied here), in the wider political and societal context, while your counterpoint amounts to essentially *it's wrong because it's wrong" without amplification. Of course I'm familiar with the concept of snitching and being a snitch. I have been wrongly beaten up for it twice, and have libertarian leanings. But the term is surely only accurately applied in circumstances…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 08:34 PM
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How do you benefit from not snitching?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 03:07 PM
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People have to pay the debts of their dead loved ones? That seems bizarrely unjust to me, even in our unjust world. Surely such accounts would be written off?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 02:42 PM
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The woman can't humiliate you if you DGAF. Humiliation is like laughter - someone else can try to elicit the response from you, but it's yourself that capitulates or not. You cannot pretend to be amused about it, you have to be genuinely not bothered. Happened to me recently. As I was coming out of a club on a great night recently, a strange woman made a nasty remark about the red spots on my face. At 18, when they first appeared, I would have died inside. Years later I don't care, and I shared …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 10:44 PM
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As above, not bothered about convincing you. Just throwing my two cents in to the discussion because it's fun to engage. The reason I don't put "in my opinion" is because it's implied.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 01:00 PM
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According to me. I know you didn't suggest the dog story - I saw you tell another poster the same thing. It's not really relevant to my point about lying; I mentioned it because it's a familiar example from this thread. I might not convince you, but since we have these discussions publicly, observers may yet be convinced. That's the point of an open forum, no? I'm happy to say anything that is true and effective. I don't see it as arbitrary at all, honesty is a virtue endorsed by philosophers th…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 06:07 PM
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The reasons not to lie: My life is awesome and needs no embellishment. Lies cost more mental energy, and costs escalate the longer it must be maintained. Lies that are discovered negate not only the profits obtained from them, but poison other potential returns from honesty. I don't need some made-up dead dog story because I have a true dead dog story that is almost identical and also a dead cat story that hits a lot of similar notes. Even if I didn't have these experiences, any adult human bein…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 12:28 PM
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Yeah, the weak man sees himself as the guy who got pranked, while mother is on the side of the dude engineering the prank. I would probably react the same way. There's a quiet dude at my work who is the butt of jokes all the time (both in person and behind his back), for little reason other than his own willingness to take it. Worst is when the women (hot and not) patronise him: "Aw, poor Geoff! Is Barry picking on you again? He's awful isn't he? Take no notice, love!" I refuse to join in becaus…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 11:50 AM
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OP don't use emoji. It's as feminine as writing "lol" or wearing a dress.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 07:24 AM
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Then you are making a conscious choice to be fucked over. If you truly knew and had internalised the red pill to the extent you seem to claim (and which is belied by your post), then you wouldn't even be here asking this stuff. Classic AskTRP post: "I am red pill alpha as fuck, so why is my heart breaking because of this special girl?"
/r/askTRP08/10/17 06:31 PM
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This is my experience, but it's worth it to fuck up now and then. In the end, unless you are making a faux pas every minute of the day, people will get over your shit quickly. And since you always cares more about your own image, it's likely that other's give far less of a fuck about your mistakes. I've run into these people, especially when voicing political views, and one in a particular was a HORRIBLE CUNT who conspired to get me fired. In hindsight, I should have spotted them a mile off, and…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 11:28 AM
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What isn't right or good about masculine and feminine and the characteristics they describe?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 08:26 PM
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This happens to me too, and I've often wondered what a jolly jape it would be to film the encounter and then press charges for sexual assault.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 02:44 PM
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If you like a finger, get her tongue in there. Every girl I've asked has done it.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 11:52 AM
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Feminine and masculine outdated? The vast majority of people exhibit masculine and/or feminine characteristics most of the time, furthermore most people view masculine and/or feminine characteristics and behaviours as appropriate and admirable.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 11:02 AM
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So you let one incident from over a year ago define you for the rest of your life? Reminds me of when I went to a nightclub with friends years ago, feeling like shit but dragged out to make up numbers. Dave encouraged me to go dance with some girls, and I thought fuck it and gave it a shot. Three girls were dancing in a small, open set. Looked inviting so I went over and just danced with them. It took them about ten seconds to eye-code each other and do a mutual backturn on me. I was so gutted I…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 10:43 AM
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Absolutely, it's a massive win. And great exercise too.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 01:47 PM
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Not solely dependent, but it is a necessary component.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 07:46 PM
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Works very well for me. Not that I'm saying my personal experience will be the same for everyone. NOFAP doesn't work! NOFAP is amazing! It depends on who you are and where it fits into your life.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 05:55 PM
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"red pill" means "gaining knowledge that changes your world view permanently" - as in the red pill from The Matrix. The metaphor applies specifically to situations where there is a change in one's understanding from believing lies to knowing truth. The Red Pill is a community about sexual strategy, in which members share paradigm-shifting knowledge. "red pill" is also an adjective that describes those who have success, whether they have red pill knowledge or have experienced a shift in the world…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 11:15 AM
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I think OP is saying they can't be fixed BY HIM (or indeed any layperson), so therefore it's better to not get involved.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 10:01 AM
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You get up (that is, rise to the occasion) both initially and after each fall. Therefore the total number of getups is equal to the total number of falls plus one.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 09:58 AM
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Pretty sure prepared lines haven't been part of the PUA scene for a long time, since The Game went mainstream and exposed much of the content. Some students will no doubt recite examples verbatim, but they are advised not to do so because 1) it is not congruent, 2) teach a man to fish, and 3) popular lines spread and become useless quickly. "The key point they never seem to understand or teach is that it doesnt fucking matter what you tell a woman. It is about how you tell her." This is just fla…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 12:08 PM
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I had a shirt and tie and suit for several years before I realised the three of them worked very well together. You can have several designated combinations in your wardrobe, and yet still create new looks (and enjoy the temporary boost) by reconsidering what works in the contemporary context.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 11:16 AM
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In the unlikely event I ever ask a girl to marry me (perhaps for immigration purposes), it will be face to face (not kneeling) and without a ring at all. I once read that the ring is symbolic of role reversal: the man's vagina being penetrated by the woman's penile finger! As it is I've never been married but I wear a ring on that finger just for fun.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 10:40 AM
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As is a friend of mine. Selling drugs did nothing for my success with women, but I was very blue pill at the time. Now it's just a story I tell.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 02:22 PM
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It's a test of compliance. I only had one chick balk at a "wear this" text. The way she went nuts on text about not having a man tell her what to do made it easy to say, "I don't think we should meet. Good luck." Probably that has never happened in her life before!
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 07:23 AM
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As I said, it's irrelevant whether the NoFap theory is correct, because science already proves pheromones are a factor. I bring it up because u/chadjugo mentioned he nofaps. Also you don't see pheromones, you smell them. If you mean you've never seen the research, look it up. I just searched for "pheromones and male attractiveness". As for body language, I often have women open me to comment on my gait - "you walk like you haven't got a care in the world". The comment regarding social proof is n…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 11:06 AM
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My monthly expenses are less than the first figure and I live in the UK. Granted it is becoming more of a shithole the more "refugees" we take in, but it's not the third world.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 10:27 AM
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How can one be amused in this situation when at the end of the day it's just all bullshit? How can one NOT be amused in this situation when at the end of the day it's just all bullshit?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 03:05 PM
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I'm an atheist and I read it for wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 04:50 PM
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You don't count pheromones? One of the theories of nofap is that the excess semen has an effect on pheromones, enticing fertile women. Doesn't matter if that specific theory is true, really, because in any case we know that pheromones have some effect, whatever the mechanics behind it. Also there is body language. There is a clear and obvious difference between Mr Swinging Bigballs walking his slow, side-to-side gait, his posture open, reacting slowly to stimuli... and Nervous McBetaface darting…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 10:41 AM
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No, the two curled fingers go inside her pussy and the straight ones stay outside. She is laying on her back, the palm is against her clit and the two straight fingers point down. Stefan Hemon used to sell a video explaining this technique and how it can be used to make women squirt. Naturally women vary drastically in how much "come here" stroking they can handle. J loves it hard and will come repeatedly while L likes it only gently and more often cums from a hard banging with dirty talk and ha…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:01 PM
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Someone on one of these trp subs said it best (wish I could remember who) - it doesn't matter if your LTR is actually behaving improperly, all that matters is that what she does has the appearance of impropriety. A woman would be the first to lose her shit over appearances and anything that affected her social standing (or indeed how she felt about her social standing). Only fair that men are permitted the same veto when a woman crosses such a line. However, unlike a woman, you will not bitch an…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 09:38 AM
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It's not your looks. I'd feel like girls are uncomfortable talking to me and sometimes even just being near me. there's nothing I can do about it it would be silly for me to get any ideas that I'd have a chance with them It's your beliefs about yourself and your place in the world. Either you don't know what women want in a man, or you are afraid to make the changes to become that type of man. Perhaps you feel you don't deserve it for some reason, or have become so hung up on your looks that you…
/r/seduction28/07/17 09:52 PM
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Handling children that do not belong to you and for which you have little responsibility beyond an occasional trip out or overnight is leagues away from 24/7 ownership. It's a lot easier to bitch out and beat on, scream at, or psychologically fuck with kids you can't hand back to their owner at an allotted time. Regularly my mother preaches all over facebook about her kids, how well they are doing (some of them anyway), and how she was abused by her dad in so many ways. She passed those abuses d…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 11:08 AM
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Work on your mindset. You said it can't get any worse, so you're in the ideal spot to see dramatic upward growth in your positivity and discipline. Meditation is the big one discussed in TRP circles. I also use guided hypnosis tapes, such as those found on youtube. Hypnosis, like meditation, does not work from a single session. I find it best to do it daily for an extended period, at least several weeks. You can listen to several different tapes around the same issue. Philosophy is also a good r…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 07:59 PM
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The vote count on your comment will decide forever the rightness of this position.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 11:47 AM
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Pretty sure it's a small ass they like. At least according to Barbara and Allan Pease in their book "Why Men Lie and Women Cry". Perhaps your big ass is not what they like about you?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 08:55 PM
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Vocal warm ups will help fatten out the sound of your voice. I like singing, and three or four songs in, I notice a clear difference, a richer, deeper, fuller sound. Your voice will also be naturally deeper the morning after a singing session, or indeed any good vocal workout. Voices are also usually deeper in the morning when testosterone tends to be at higher levels, so anything you do that increases testosterone (lifting, meditating, nofap, good diet, proper sleep, sexual success with multipl…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 12:19 PM
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I usually affirm the woman's feelings with logical explanations. Example, she texts while upset to tell me that her boss put her down in front of the whole company over nothing. I text back that people with little power must exercise it every chance they get, and that her colleagues will understand the dynamic having been victims themselves. (I use a lot of these sorts of redpill-ish ideas in conversation with women, adapting the logos of it to point out some real life quirk without being too co…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 10:58 AM
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You don't need to be any "sensitive artist". Just sing and strum any standard love song or blues tune with suggestive lyrics and look her in the eye at appropriate moments. I've played guitar for twenty years, but just strummng chords, no fancy stuff. Learn three chords and you will be able to impress any non-musician which is easily 90% of people. One of my plates is a top grade pianist and music teacher, but even she is impressed by my simple strumming... because she knows fuck all with a six-…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 05:33 PM
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Hit rate isn't something I measure, but there's three current plates I've wooed with some version of this. In person I like to casually disqualify myself in an upbeat way while still being charming and using kino... the girls will say "you're really selling yourself" and laugh. There are definitely some girls I haven't banged after using it online, but who knows what other factors were at play. Anyway it's my own work so please use sparingly or invent a variant. Another thing I often mention on …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 12:21 PM
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I play a game with the online girls, and often adapt it to the IRL ones too. "Let's play a game. We take turns to say bad things about ourselves that usually turn people off. If we are put off we must unmatch immediately. But if we get through five each we must meet." Then I say some true things like, "I don't drive", "I live in a dingy apartment" and "I have a kid" some mildly polarising things like "I like Donald Trump", and some clearly good things that are bad from a blue pill perspective li…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 12:33 AM
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I agree sometimes telling a girl to cum is like magic. David Shade talks about it in his manual, which I read many years ago. Since then I have looked for the tell tale signs of when she's about to cum, and told her "cum for me, there's a good girl". Basically it's an anchor that you can then use later to encourage her, because she's used to hearing it while highly aroused.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 09:55 PM
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You have oneitis. How do I know? Because you have no options and are rationalising keeping this chick. You don't really want to be dumped. You are making noises to save face when it happens. If you have time to hang aound a girl who isn't fucking you, you have time to swipe on Tinder. And you also have time to actually aproach in real life. You are just being a pussy about it. Also. Don't say lol.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 07:46 PM
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It's much like a lifetime as a loser is not negated by an hour of reading Mark Manson. Or conversely a lifetime as a winner is not negated by one woman's shit test. In the context of online debates, denial is just a troll word.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 10:10 AM
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There are multitudes to disagree with every possible premise.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 09:56 AM
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Ditch her and move on. Hurts but you have to do it, or you will forever be a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 09:43 AM
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Good work OP. Keep it up. Expand your comfort zone continuously by always going a bit further. Before long you will be a natural.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 09:33 AM
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I'm not American either, and the political compass puts Trump and I in opposite quadrants. Not sure why that would make either of us more qualified to speak on it!
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 07:00 AM
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He has incredible frame control and IDGAF attitude. He is beloved of feminine women, and his policies often (not always) reflect red pill realities unlike most of our western world leaders. His resistance to social shaming and his ability to turn around any criticism onto his detractors is immense. We could all learn from him. Forget political allegiances, and compare Trump to Barack Obama or Justin Trudeau or David Cameron or Emmanuel Macron. In terms of body language, communication style, sexu…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 10:58 AM
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Technically, the reason was "I don't want to do this anymore". That's perfectly enough.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 12:15 PM
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I banged a chick I met online, and just beforehand I was taking a piss in her bathroom. Her pills were on the bathroom shelf in clear view with holes in the pack were they had been popped out. I thought "she's showing me she's on the pill so I don't balk", but I have also considered how seeing the prescription is no proof that the pill has been swallowed.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 07:16 PM
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It's not a serious proposal. It's an extreme and hypothetical scenario of what might convince Bob that bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks. That's why I mentioned suicide. Because there have been times in my own blue pill past that the thought of a friend fucking my woman might have driven me to do something drastic. I've been talking with Sue and another option is to have an intervention in which the two of us might convince Bob that openly ditching Rita is the only way forward. Of course th…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 07:09 PM
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yesterday I kind of declared my feelings towards her there's your answer. Also, taking forever to escalate.
/r/seduction25/06/17 10:35 PM
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Sounds to me like maybe she wanted to just get fucked that night, and you were instead making future plans rather than living in the moment and just going for it. This is jarring and not congruent with your physicality. One says "let's plan a future together" the other says "I'm gonna bang you tonight". I think it's a good rule of thumb to plan for a bang at the end of the first meeting wherever possible and just escalate to it. Rarely will a girl meet a guy for a date if she doesn't want to giv…
/r/seduction25/06/17 06:10 PM
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I think you are confusing me with wendysNO1wcheese.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 08:31 PM
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I recommend ACTUALLY DRAWING the pictures rather than using a computer programme. Such as in this video (not about self-development).
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 08:56 AM
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Women who like it don't go online to complain.
/r/seduction23/06/17 08:50 AM
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I read it when I was 21 and it helped a lot. I just read it because it was on my mother's bookshelf and I wanted something to read (earlier selections from the same shelf include The Dice Man and Women On Top), but it was very interesting and I could relate to it. I'm now 36. I'm still not an "alpha male", but I am a hell of a lot better off than I was then.
/r/seduction21/06/17 08:05 PM
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Look if it just comes down to "too afraid", then you'll either have to grow some balls and do it anyway, or not. And the second option means not getting any pussy, it means BEING a pussy. Your choice. Bran thought about it. 'Can a man still be brave if he's afraid?' 'That is the only time a man can be brave,' his father told him. I was scared the other day when I told an aggressive guy at work that he had to wait and closed the door on him. I was scared when I did a firewalk. I was scared every …
/r/seduction21/06/17 07:21 PM
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Why haven't you actually DONE it then?
/r/seduction21/06/17 06:59 PM
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So how about approaching beautiful women that you are attracted to with the express purpose of getting rejected? Set yourself a goal of being rejected a hundred times over the course of a month. And make sure you understand that there will be no possiblity of getting laid until long after the rejection phase has passed. If you have a friend, you can see who gets to ten rejections first and the other pays for lunch or the taxi home or whatever. If not, you'll just have to reward yourself (and wit…
/r/seduction21/06/17 06:19 PM
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Why are you anxious? Not being facetious, I'd like to know YOUR specific reasons for hesitation and not approaching.
/r/seduction21/06/17 05:28 PM
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Why are you posting in another sub about your boyfriend? Fucking troll.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 12:55 PM
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I used to be approached by beggars all the time, and I realised I must look like a soft touch. So I made a decision to have zero tolerance for people soliciting me in the street for anything and from then on I just refused or blanked them - beggars, canvassers, salespeople etc. One day I was smoking in the street and a guy asked me for a cigarette. He was taller than me, from out of town, and seemed quite aggressive. I said "no". He said "why not?" and I told him it's my personal rule to never g…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:24 PM
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I flat out say I'm not monogamous fairly often now. It usually comes up when a girl says she hates liars and cheats. I concur and explain how I've both cheated and been cheated and both paths are no fun. I frame the non-exclusivity thing as honesty and openness because if I said I was monogamous it would be a straight up lie. The ones who are looking for Mr Right seem happy enough with that to spin for me until he shows up.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 01:30 PM
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Not always. When I learned in 2002 it was sold as a way to relax that comes with a bunch of physical benefits, and zero beliefs required. That is also how I now teach it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 01:14 PM
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You need not marry ideology or mysticism to your meditative practice. If you sift through enough of it you'll hit bogus mumbo jumbo sooner or later. Meditation is when you direct attention to relax the mind and body, not the study or belief in philosophies of reincarnation or what have you.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:21 AM
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Probably the whole reason they ran this article was some wily editor's stealthy attempt at redpilling. They put the psychologist's bullshit postscript in there just to cover themselves.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 11:25 AM
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You're very young, you just found the red pill, and you've also had your heart broken. Congratulations, you are already ahead of most people. In time you'll understand how important this experience was to your success as a man. Adversity builds strength.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 01:48 PM
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Not sure I agree. It has happened on the last few dates I've been on and I banged each of them. Two of them I still am.
/r/seduction11/06/17 08:23 PM
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I was on a train the other day and I saw a girl I liked. When we both got off the train at the same stop I went and introduced myself. After a minute of talk I suggested we go for a coffee right away, but she declined. Nonetheless, I felt like I had savage balls - probably one guy in a thousand would do what I did (sober, in the daytime), if that! Rejection is amazing for helping you not give a fuck.
/r/seduction11/06/17 08:20 PM
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Years ago I got wind of a guy inviting my girlfriend out for drives in the daytime. So I found a way to introduce myself and invited him over for an evening in front of her. He became very embarrassed and she noticed the contrast with my composure. Problem solved. But now I am very much in a different mindset. I'm not monogamous and I don't demand it of partners. It wouldn't be appropriate for a girl to go home with another guy if she came out with me, however, what she does in her own time is h…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 11:16 AM
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Anger is a normal early response to being redpilled (having one's worldview rearranged irrevocably) and signifies that some of the lessons are hitting home. In time, a man will learn that his anger is sometimes counter-productive and misplaced, but until then we should understand he is simply learning as many have before.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 10:18 AM
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Had just arrived in the bar the other night, and knew there would be a wait to be served. Noticed that virtually everyone at the bar was hunched over with arms crossed or leaning on the woodwork, waving their banknotes. I decided to keep my money in pocket until required and to stand as tall and wide as possible. Behind me a glass broke, peeling away a server and leaving fewer to tend bar. Yet I was served immediately the next one became available. Due to the format of the night, it was hours be…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 02:18 PM
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wHAT? You want a twerk video? Just ask some girls to twerk for you so you can film it. You can buy them some drinks or whatever. You could host an impromptu twerking competition in a bar, and tell them the winner gets a bottle.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 12:10 PM
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I think you CAN share some vulnerabilities, but only from a position of strength, and with the perspective of it having been something you overcame and are no longer affected by - and obviously that cannot be faked. You never reveal your current kryptonite, because she will either use it or be concerned about others using it on you (and therefore on her by proxy).
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 12:05 PM
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Not sure of the relevance, but the other day a black immigrant man knocked on my ground floor window in my predominantly white neighbourhood. He asked if there was a blonde Russian girl living in my building. "What?" "She told me she lives around here, do you know her?" "There's no Russian girls around here." close window As he rode away on his bicycle I wondered to myself if that was the creepiest thing I've seen in years or if his tenacity is ever rewarded. What is the social context he came f…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 03:46 PM
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Cabs and Uber are essentially the same experience. You get in a car with a stranger who drives you somewhere. Courtship via Tinder/online and IRL are very different beasts. I don't discount online for those that can use it, but be honest. For example, i have the nerd look, but anyone who meets me will find it hard to stereotype me the way they might just by looking at my photo. (Not that I haven't had some successes in the online world). When you meet someone in person you can kino, make strong …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:23 AM
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My ex was astounded to learn that her friend from church who babysat for us a couple of times was breastfeeding our child. We were more amused than annoyed, and hopefully it means our kid got a wider variety of essential bacteria and antibodies.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 03:17 PM
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I had a paradigm shift when i started dancing for fun. I changed the point of going out from picking up to dancing in front of people and not caring what they think, even making ridiculous and stupid dance moves to amuse myself. Interestingly, I now have women approach me, and dudes copy my moves.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 11:12 AM
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Ask for something - a favour, some information. Where is X? What's the time? Can you hold this for moment? As they answer you can notice something interesting about them and mention it - might be a compliment, a tease, or further digging.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 10:16 AM
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If you're trying to game a specific woman rather than improving in general to cast a wide net, you already lost.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 01:50 PM
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Makes a chin look bigger, even when it's just a couple of days stubble, therefore more masculine. Plus the fact that there's hair on your face means you are undoubtedly a man. Can't hurt!
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 01:28 PM
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They won't. Meanwhile, other super skinny dudes like me (with a skin rash to boot), clean up because you won't even try.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 11:33 AM
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The controversy/usefulness ratio of this post is 1000:1
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 09:51 AM
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You can put it that way (as a value judgment) if you wish. The fact is that women and men reward "alpha" personalities with sex and compliance. So if you want either, it's a good strategy. This community is about finding what works and discussing it honestly, not shaming people for doing so. You might appreciate this female whovian's perspective.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 12:03 PM
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FAIR?! We expect men to do so because they have done traditionally in society and are more capable of doing so from a psychological point of view, that is, they are not ruled by their hormones to the extent that women are. The key issue, I think, is the tension between traditional roles and responsibilities (based on biology) and modern equalist dogma that is often unfairly applied in society to benefit women. Sometimes TRP leans toward traditionalism for the benefit of society, and sometimes th…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 11:51 AM
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Wrong. I learned. the best style is whatever you can do that is rhythmic, fun, and lets you get out of your head and not be bothered who's watching. I learned by just dancing at home, and sometimes copying music videos (new shit and even old Fred Astaire shit) or other people in the club. I invent new moves on the fly while in the club, and that's part of the fun of it for me. So fuck you, you're wrong!
/r/seduction12/05/17 02:59 PM
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The thing that makes me most uncomfortable about this whole thing is that it could have been me (and probably most of you) if not for accidentally getting redpilled while browsing online many years ago.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 02:01 PM
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Never explain explicitly about any part of the mating process. It is doable for experts who are already dominant, have attraction and use it to set frames, but not you yet. You should just smoothly set up situations where you can flirt with her and escalate playfully, and seize opportunities as they present themselves. Girls who are interested will let it happen and find ways to be alone with you. Girls who are undecided can be finessed with SUBTLETY.
/r/seduction12/05/17 11:21 AM
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If she doesn't like me, so what? If she tells me to fuck off and die or that I'm too much of a pissant for her, then GOOD. It won't kill me and at least I made the approach, Virtually nobody is willing to approach. And a hardcore rejection may be just a test of frame anyway. Even the guys I know in real life who have done fairly well with women do not approach, they just date chicks in social circle or from work. I have seen probably zero real life cold approaches that weren't me. It takes MASSI…
/r/seduction09/05/17 02:06 PM
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If you want to kiss a girl, you do not verbally ask if you can do it, nor do you verbally tell her to kiss you - both ways invite her to say no or refuse. Instead you gradually escalate non-verbally. If you have to verbalise your touching, it's because you aren't comfortable doing so. Work on your self-image and understanding that women are merely people and want to get physical with men just as we want to with them. Get close, look in her eyes, stroke her hair or caress her cheek, then kiss her…
/r/seduction09/05/17 01:59 PM
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I think that monogamous pair bonding is certainly a thing in the short term - that's "love". However, those urges for sexual variety will return sooner or later. Who was it who said "no matter how beautiful the woman, somewhere in the world is a man who is tired of fucking her"?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 09:57 AM
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You are who you are. You either climb the mountain or you don't, no matter how hard it is because you only have one leg, are the wrong colour, have no car or whatever the fuck it is.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 09:03 PM
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Look at it this way - TRP says (and I agree) that men and women are different, and furthermore AWALT. So how will tougher sentences for women deter them?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 01:29 PM
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I agree with u/nomames_bro, except for the drugs part. I went to a dance lesson about twelve years ago and it was interesting because there was an amazing ratio, but I was crippled by shyness. Lately I decided to just go out dancing, alone, sober, and not care who stares or what they think. What I found was that if you do ANY sort of rhythmic dancing that isn't the tired conservative movements of every guy in the club, you get a lot of women approaching you. I just move to the rhythm and just le…
/r/seduction15/04/17 07:58 PM
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Hey! I've never had a car and do very well thanks! Also I earn far less than average for my country. And my skin is covered in scabs and spots (entire body, not just certain areas). These things, and anything else people get insecure about, are only limiting in the sense that you place importance on them. The other day I just looked at a girl and winked, and she was suddenly blushing and bashful around me. Other times, I might go the whole day without daring to look anyone in the eye. What's the…
/r/seduction12/04/17 01:48 PM
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Doing anything like an organised boycott seems like overkill. I'd rather just get on with my life. I think I was just shocked by it and raw the other night because it was the last thing I expected, and I posted here to get a bit of catharsis. You are right that bouncers will act quickly and decisively even if someone's complaint is bullshit. Far better for them to offend a random dude than to have a woman complaining about them on social media. In any case the incident has highlighted for me tha…
/r/seduction11/04/17 07:28 PM
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The one from years ago? I was very new to the scene and keen to try things, especially counter-intuitive things that I had never tried... and it was something I read in a seduction manual. Along the lines of "most men have never rejected a woman in their lives", the point being, most men are too needy to consider it. Lately when I go out, since I got back into it a few months ago, I have rejected every single girl. I dance with her for a minute or so, then gently/playfully push her away and turn…
/r/seduction11/04/17 05:09 PM
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There was a time over ten years ago when a friend and I first experimented with game. We were out dancing at a club with some girls, and for fun we decided to just backturn them and dance on our own instead. The girls suddenly became VERY angry and one even headbutted me asking me "who the fuck do you think you are?" and they started threatening us with boyfriends/bouncers etc. So we bailed. Thinking back I wonder if rejecting one of the girls the other night triggered a similar sort of fury.
/r/seduction09/04/17 05:38 PM
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I wasn't even approaching them, I was dancing and they were coming to me.
/r/seduction08/04/17 11:14 PM
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As a non-doctor I reckon it's best for me to stick with the layman's perspective and not label it as anything else.
/r/seduction05/04/17 10:25 PM
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It's a stereotype that autists are good with systems and theory, but poor at empathy and social acuity. I'd say there are ways to systematise the latter skills but it would require a great deal of dedication and willingness to fail often. I believe the best way for anyone to learn is to have a mentor who can be modelled in real life.
/r/seduction05/04/17 11:21 AM
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nice going. I'm on month nine. It's the one thing I stuck to from my self-improvement blitz last summer. Hmm, probably time for another.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 12:59 AM
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Certainly he won't get laid sitting in the house. What course of action do you recommend?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:21 AM
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There are many correct yet contradictory routes to pussy paradise. Groups like this sometimes focus on what those routes have in common, and sometimes on what is specific to individuals and works for them. If a method doesn't or cannot work for you, no need to attack the messengers. Either you need to widen your research or work on yourself.
/r/seduction21/03/17 05:39 PM
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It seems like you want to discredit someone who rightly advocates optimism in difficult situations. Argue not against the man, but against the advice. If a person struggles to apply it personally, it doesn't make the advice unsound, or the struggle pointless.
/r/seduction21/03/17 05:30 PM
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Just do it. I was very much in a state of discomfort last June. I decided to try some thirty day challenges and the first was I gave up smoking dope. I found the feeling of euphoria after each day of not doping was so good that a week later I gave up smoking cigarettes too, and instituted more new changes. Go for it bro. That thing holding you back... It's all in your head.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:52 PM
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I'm not the guy you asked but I also use hypnosis. TheIrishHypnotist has some good stuff, Including a couple based on confidence with women and alpha male mind set. you can also just search "hypnosis" and the usual keywords... seduction, alpha, confidence etc. I find that sessions lasting 20 minutes or more work best. the key is repetition daily if possible. don't give up just because you didn't become a stud overnight after one session. it's like lifting. you do it regularly or you don't see re…
/r/seduction16/01/17 09:47 AM
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The last girl to ask me this, six months ago, is still sharing my bed on a regular basis. I told her it wasn't important and that any answer would just cloud our relationship. After further cajoling from her, I also told her that I prefer to be discreet about such matters and in any case most people would lie about their numbers. She seemed happy enough with that. If she had persisted, I would rather tell her NO and stick to my principles even if it meant not seeing her again. You can't let wome…
/r/seduction10/01/17 01:51 PM
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Well after posting in this thread, I went on to the dancefloor - it was 12:40 am or so in another bar where I was the only person dancing. I was alone for ten minutes before the floor began to fill again, and I had women approaching me to dance with me. One woman in particular started grinding on me in front of her husband/boyfriend, and I did the thing where you bend her over like you're fucking her from behind. A bit later another chick was doing the same and I kissed her - she was a bad kisse…
/r/seduction01/01/17 07:59 PM
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Haha. I am Sat in a bar right now looking at my phone. I went out alone and have been dancing for the last couple of hours, Including a bar where I was the only one on the floor. but really I'm just catching a breather and having a beer before I hit it again. spez: the funny thing is, I only came out because it felt like the thing to do, and I know when I get home I can play watch dogs 2 which I just bought yesterday.
/r/seduction01/01/17 12:27 AM
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tell her you are going to dance, then go do it. You can take her by the hand and lead her there. if she pulls away, go dance anyway. the key is to not care either way. Dance because you enjoy it, even dancing alone. if you can dance alone in the middle of a crowd and not give a fuck if your moves are dumb or look gay, then you will have the women come to you.
/r/seduction30/12/16 07:58 AM
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The police searched my house while I was being held and they were deciding whether or not to charge me with a non-drug offence. After twenty four hours they let me go without charge, and I arrived home to find that they had left my dope and paraphernalia on my desk.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 12:03 AM
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It's probably easiest to avoid the "formal date" scenario and just do things that are free or have natural 50/50 mechanics, like getting drinks where you each buy a round.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 10:15 PM
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Maybe make an agreement with her to not speak until two hours have passed each day. And if she follows through, she gets a reward.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 10:02 PM
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Think of the movie Wall-E and what adjusting with the times did to those people. By focussing on in-person interactions, you will further distinguish yourself from the hoi polloi. Why is ground coffee still vogue even though instant is quicker and cheaper? because it's a higher quality, more authentic product.
/r/seduction19/12/16 08:59 AM
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Yes it is a growing sector of the sexual market, but using online tools will only stunt your own growth.
/r/seduction18/12/16 05:36 PM
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Red wine with fish?
/r/MensRights11/12/16 07:14 PM
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basically what happens in the world
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 10:38 PM
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tell her you met someone else who is a better match. I've used this a couple times and it works well. the girl is usually grateful for letting her know and being "honest"!
/r/seduction20/08/16 10:07 AM
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Women deliberately bump their asses against you in public? Sounds like you are very attractive somehow and just aren't capitalising on it. I would playfully elbow them back and see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 02:09 AM
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This came up the other night in a post-coital conversation with a girl I've only fucked a couple of times. She wanted to know how many I've slept with, and I just refused to go into it. I told her I wasn't interested in her numbers either.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 01:31 AM
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I've read literally dozens of books. Double Your Dating was the first and possibly the most important as far as understanding women and flirting. However, I have found Tyler Durden aka Owen Cook of RSD to be more motivating in actually getting me out of the house and cold approaching. it's probably because Tyler makes the point repeatedly that reading books is not a substitute for doing the work.
/r/seduction31/07/16 09:03 AM
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I would have told the girl, I'm taller where it counts.
/r/seduction31/07/16 08:33 AM
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Are you saying you should always approach your mom, because she's a 9? weird. why would you even rate her except to advertise her to other dudes? And your criteria would have you approaching minors, since the age range is an OR criterion. Just go with... is she fuckable? and forget all other considerations. you can work out her hygiene, language and mental state after you've hooked her and decide later. approaching does not commit you.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 12:54 PM
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She texted me back to say that because another family member is away this week, she may have to decline (she has a relative with disabilities and helps with care). So I told her to let me know. I will chat her some more on the phone, and see how it goes. At least she didn't say it was out of the question - I have had previous dates tell me that it was inappropriate to spend time at my place this early - a signal that they see me as provider not lover. In any case, I'm going to continue with othe…
/r/seduction25/07/16 11:34 AM
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I usually go for the hand hold as soon as we meet, to establish touch and to beat nerves. Has worked in the past, but at the weekend, the girl I met wriggled out of the hand hold after about five seconds. When I went for it again near the end of the date, she told me she doesn't like PDA. Nonetheless, I kissed her at the end of the date. Next up I'm inviting her to my place for food and conversation, maybe TV or movie. If she balks at that, then NEXT.
/r/seduction25/07/16 10:10 AM
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I noticed a girl at the supermarket. It would be difficult to chat her because she is a checkout girl and the line is always moving. She told me last time I was there that she always notices my satchel and it's cool. I thanked her for the compliment and left. Next time I see her I will give her my card and tell her to text me. If there's an issue with this approach - tell me now before I do it!
/r/seduction25/07/16 10:06 AM
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more like new cars or computers - they can only depreciate.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 08:48 PM
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You have to make a counterargument.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 11:06 AM
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Beating a child will lead in most cases to another child being beaten by that beaten child further down the road. Beating a dog does not. It's bad to abuse any living thing, but human suffering is a greater cost because humans have the power to become abusers.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 10:20 AM
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Get out of the mindset of everything needing to be perfect. Deliberately put yourself in difficult situations where you are most likely to fail, and learn from them. Set yourself the challenge of having an embarrassing sexual situation and do your best to laugh it off. It may sting at first, but if you are going to succeed in seduction you will need the ability to see the funny side of your own mistakes. You might also find some insights in books like "healing the shame that binds you" - HOWEVER…
/r/seduction15/07/16 09:38 AM
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Who cares what she thinks? That's loser mentality. I assure you she is well aware that the OP was interested, but she saw him as a creeper because he took too long over it. By going back now, he would be even more of a creeper. She will get a better impression of him if he just forgets her and goes to fuck someone else.
/r/seduction14/07/16 08:37 PM
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Why should he maintain a friendzone relationship with a chick that he wanted to bang, but doesn't want him? WASTE OF TIME. The whole thing smacks of trying to change history, like "I never really liked you, just as a friend, honest!" You can't go back now that the well is poisoned. Just move on completely and don't waste time being "a friend" to someone, because it will only hurt when she is fucking another guy. It is irrelevant that "she won" or not. The objective here is to get your dick in ho…
/r/seduction13/07/16 10:17 PM
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unpredictability. a roller coaster of emotional states (positive and negative). a dominant man who surprises her with demands and makes her submit with the power of his presence. All of these things put her on edge, make her anticipate, and get her heart beating. One time a girl I was seeing texted me and asked what I was doing for lunch, so I told her to pick me up and drive me to her house so I could come in her mouth. She was not expecting that. She agreed, then kept texting me for the rest o…
/r/seduction13/07/16 10:44 AM
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This guy is right, u/Sierraman. The girl is dead to you now. She has made it clear she doesn't want to see you, so leave it at that. You can't change her mind, you can only change YOU, to improve your chances with the next girl that comes along.
/r/seduction12/07/16 11:58 PM
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u/Sierraman, don't do what this guy says. You should never talk to this girl again if you can help it. Forget about her and get other women. Never try to salvage any situation like this, just move on.
/r/seduction12/07/16 11:56 PM
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Keep getting rejected and you will begin to see that it is no big deal. The problem occurs when you take your time before making a move, and allow yourself to develop feelings for a woman who may not have any interest in you whatsoever. Lots of women bat their eyelids to get favours - like this one got you to drive her somewhere. Also you should NEVER tell a girl you like her. It is creepy and a turn off. You need to instead be a cool guy who knows how to flirt, then make some kind of move (like…
/r/seduction12/07/16 11:54 PM
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no idea. I have done my best to fall on the lover (not provider) side ever since I understood it was a thing.
/r/seduction12/07/16 05:25 PM
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My friend once came up with a scheme, whereby he invited a co-worker on a "mock date". A no-pressure night out which would help him ease back into dating after a long-term relationship. I was watching the hypnotist Steve G Jones on youtube, talking about embedded commands, and it seemed like he had set up a similar scheme with a female friend... If nothing else, I suppose discussing it is good for a bit of flirty banter, even if she doesn't go for it. However, remember the number one rule of wor…
/r/seduction12/07/16 03:13 PM
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I've mostly sealed the deal on the first date - which is not the same day I met the girl (although I had a couple of those too, rarely). Don't read too much into this, because if a girl won't get physical with me in some way rapidly, I write her off as not worth the bother. I don't want to be with a girl exclusively and I won't wait for her to be ready. Are you projecting a vibe of "I'm a keeper", by talking up your income, ambition, nice car, education etc? I don't really have any of that to ta…
/r/seduction12/07/16 02:53 PM
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'I tell a girl in a minute, "yo, I drive a bucket", and don't think nothin' of it.' Tyler Durden of RSD says it works thus: moneyed guy vs. penniless alpha guy... moneyed guy is made to wait for sex because girl sees him as long term. alpha guy gets sex immediately because girl wants his kids, not his time and money.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 12:48 PM
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My apologies - I felt it self-evident that you pick your moment and assess a situation before you do anything for any reason. Experience enables this assessment to happen unconsciously, which is why practice is important when learning any skill. On the other hand, you should feel free to fail and screw over your chances with a woman in order to build your skills and learn outcome independence. Interestingly, such a mindset improves one's results.
/r/seduction08/07/16 03:34 PM
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At a party I gave a girl a cigarette and suggested she fuck me as payment. Within twenty minutes we were at it in an upstairs room. I don't think she was that attracted to me, we had barely spoken except for one minute hours earlier in the night at a different venue when I was interested in a different woman.
/r/seduction08/07/16 02:21 PM
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Everything is potentially dangerous. Risk-taking in relationships is the man's job, from asking her out, to kissing her, to feeling her up when you take her home. You calibrate your actions to the situation and calculate how much risk you are willing to take.
/r/seduction08/07/16 02:18 PM
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His name isnt Donny, it's Abe! I know the guy very well!
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:50 AM
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Probably you care too much what she (and people in general) think of you and what you have to say. So you are afraid to let loose and instead you clam up and barely say anything. The solution is to deliberately say EXACTLY what you are thinking at any time, and not edit your words. It might be crass or off putting for some people (maybe even most), but some will love it. It will take some time, but your fear will dissipate. The more frequently you practice the better. Every day, several times a …
/r/seduction07/07/16 02:36 AM
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Don't be direct until you have a lot of experience and are very comfortable. Being too direct can come off as lacking social skills - think John Nash from A Beautiful Mind.
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:57 AM
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Probably need to make a stronger impression. Many girls accept a date to be polite, knowing they can just blow it off later. Be high energy. Higher energy than her at any rate. Even if you are outwardly chill, the energy inside will come through. You could do the emotional rollercoaster - have her experience vivid and contrasting emotions while with you to cement the interaction in her mind so she wants to continue it later. You could also use some touch to establish dominance and make it less l…
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:56 AM
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Don't apologise. If it bothers YOU, make a mental note not to do it again.
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:50 AM
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Yes. If you want to improve, you have to learn. You only learn by doing. Every rejection hardens you against future fails, which are necessary in order to learn.
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:01 AM
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You can make it an exchange of value. Favours for favours. I used to demand a kiss if a girl wanted a cigarette from me (now I don't smoke at all). Demand payment up front, in cash if you like. You can do this in a dickish way - "only if you hold my cock." You can also just say "what did your last slave die of?" Also misinterpret the request... The other day a girl in a bar asked if I could take a picture. Sure, I said, taking the girl by the waist and handing the camera to her friend and posing…
/r/seduction06/07/16 10:43 AM
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This is like that post about how Islam is red pill. (it isn't btw) It's a post from someone with a crutch trying to convince everyone else that it isn't a crutch, it's actually a good thing. "Cigars increase your SMV"... Jesus Christ.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 08:46 PM
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So you really know nothing about the seduction community? I think coming in from the frontpage, and immediately judging the members shows very obvious insecurity. Why can't you just be happy? See what I did there?! You are assuming that sleeping with dozens of women means a necessary trade off in quality. But that is not true. Women respond to men who have high self-esteem, making such men able to pick and choose the prettiest women. The seduction community is largely about sharing ways to enhan…
/r/seduction04/07/16 08:35 PM
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Every single time? You may as well give up then! You "try"? That's a failure word. Take action, or don't. "Everyone"? "Always"? Straight away I can see your communication style is all "poor me" whining, and writing off your whole life as a failure. That's your problem right there. You see yourself as a little bitch (even if you pretend to yourself and others that you don't), and that comes through in everything you say and do. People can smell it on you. Find something - anything - that you can …
/r/seduction04/07/16 08:26 PM
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It's that you see yourself as a loser.
/r/seduction04/07/16 08:21 PM
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Something about you is giving off a vibe maybe. You say you walk with your head held high, but do you REALLY? My mate who is overweight literally hunches over in order to disguise his gut in the most cringey way. Sometimes he even pulls out his shirt and holds it in front of his belly. It's fucking awful to watch. Probably I should just cut him off and watch him sink or swim... Anyway, my point is you might be telegraphing insecurity in some subtle way. Perhaps it is ending your sentences with a…
/r/seduction04/07/16 03:36 PM
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Shave your head and own your baldness like a badass. Think of Bruce Willis, Jason Statham, Sam Jackson... even Jean-Luc Picard if you're a fan. Or don't bother thinking about them at all. You have an insecurity. The worst you can do is try to paper over it in ways that risk being discovered and embarrassing you. Get all that out of the way by just being bald like a man. Like a fucking boss.
/r/seduction04/07/16 03:27 PM
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Definitely give yourself the props for going for what you want. Forget about the actual circumstances and just give yourself a point. Then do it again as soon as possible.
/r/seduction04/07/16 03:24 PM
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No they don't NEED to be measurable. However, if you are making a concerted effort to improve your dating/love life (why else are you here?) then having some way to measure your progress is useful. It's a masculine thing; logic and science and math. It could be as elementary as how many girls you've banged in a given period of time, it could be the quality of relationships you've had, it could even be how many girls you've had in bed at the same time. Have you ever done "two in twenty-four"? It …
/r/seduction04/07/16 09:26 AM
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Islam is the opposite of red pill. On the surface some of the ideas are similar - don't let women have power over you etc - but the way Islam accomplishes this, by authoritarian control of every aspect of your life, is the antithesis of self-determination. You just traded your freedom for slavery to a medieval ideology created by a power mad psychotic. That is the blue-pillest thing going. May your prophet suck my bacon-wrapped cock.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 11:46 PM
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Especially fucking Islam - the religion founded by a child rapist, which one cannot leave except on pain of death. At least with most other religions, you can change your mind and return to secular life with little more than social disapproval.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 11:42 PM
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by the way, my Udemy course... AS IF THAT ISN'T THE WHOLE REASON YOU'RE POSTING! But anyway, I really like the empowering questions point. Let's see how it goes. Fuck Udemy!
/r/seduction03/07/16 11:36 PM
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I like hypnosis - I feel like it taps into a similar place mentally and physically, but is focussed on specific areas for growth.
/r/seduction03/07/16 11:33 PM
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Possibly, but is it much different than having the ambition to lift 300lbs when you have never lifted 50? How about the ambition to earn 400k a year when you only make 20k? How about the ambition to have the lowest possible body fat? Maybe all of those things are insecure, because you aren't happy with where you are at? Or maybe it isn't insecure, it is just a sincere drive to improve oneself in measurable ways? The only way to be certain is to know the person who has the ambition and their life…
/r/seduction03/07/16 11:31 PM
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Haven't you ever heard of congruence? That's the principle of making sure your beliefs, thooughts, words, actions and goals are all in alignment. It's a key thing in the seduction community and personal development in general. When people are not congruent, they have to spend an amount of energy and stress on compensating for the mismatch between their inner and outer lives, or their private and personal conduct. So if you are doing something that you are ashamed to discuss openly, that is not c…
/r/seduction02/07/16 11:46 PM
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You tell me. You're the one pretending not to watch it. If you like porn, then own that fact instead of hiding from it.
/r/seduction02/07/16 10:10 AM
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fuck a lot of women before your LTR. Otherwise you won't know whether that's really what you want, or if your lack of options/balls is what makes you think LTR is better for you. And if you have lots of experience, it is far easier to keep your LTR and not get fucked over.
/r/seduction01/07/16 01:46 AM
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You have to not care whether you get a particular girl or not. You can develop this by approaching more women more often and more aggressively. The only "official deciding" you should be doing is in the first few seconds of seeing a girl.... "Is she hot enough for me?" And if she is take action immediately. You don't have to marry every girl you approach. Your compatibility is what you figure out later.
/r/seduction01/07/16 01:41 AM
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Why do you have to pretend? I haven't watched porn or masturbated in almost two months, and plan to never do so again. I don't have to pretend that I don't. If you aren't a polite gentleman, don't pretend to be one. In most cases, being too nice will hurt your chances. If you don't like someone's jokes, don't laugh. Instead make better jokes and have them laugh at yours. Take the conversation in the direction you want. LEAD. You don't "have to" do anything except go for what you want. However, y…
/r/seduction01/07/16 01:31 AM
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I started with the seduction community in '04, then came to understand red pill ideas when I discovered RooshV and Roissy a few years later. Then my political beliefs became strongly conservative as my reading widened and my experience grew; I was rooting for Obama in '08 despite knowing fuck all about him or his policies, but swung to Ron Paul in '12, then solidly Trump in the current cycle. There are some redpillers who literally HATE women because they have been hurt badly, or because they se…
/r/seduction30/06/16 03:45 PM
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The last time I had coke I didn't feel like it did anything for me (it always has in the past). It seemed to work fine for my friends who were also partaking from the same bag. However, I was in a very good frame of mind, so perhaps I need not have bothered.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 12:34 AM
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You are projecting your own lack of success, which is due to other factors, not least of which is your negative outlook. FACT! (and KIFFLOM!)
/r/seduction28/06/16 03:47 PM
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The ideal main photo for a man's online profile is to look off to the side and not smile. If you can have a few photos that show you in some interesting situations - having a great time with friends, surrounded by pretty girls, in exotic locations etc, then great, but make sure they are genuine, don't 'shop them. Don't do the bare torso "look at my muscles" stuff.
/r/seduction27/06/16 04:00 PM
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I always use DeAngelo's kiss test. Touch her face tenderly, or brush her hair away from her eyes while making deep eye contact. The theory goes that if she is comfortable with that, then she is ready to be kissed. Never failed for me. Have also used it to gauge general interest long before the kiss, making it a mockery of her rosy cheeks. Also did this with a barmaid one time, just reached over and removed a loose hair from her face seconds into the interaction... I didn't go any further than th…
/r/seduction16/06/16 08:22 PM
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Try to get rejected DELIBERATELY by the hottest girls so that you understand on a deep level it is not the end of the world. It really isn't. It's just some stranger declining your company - her loss; imagine her regret she knew how awesome you are (and if you don't think you are awesome, start working on that). haha! too late biatch! Reward yourself with something cool/expensive when you reach 50 rejections - like a new outfit or something. You can wear it when you switch goals. Here are some n…
/r/seduction16/06/16 12:07 PM
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I would put it this way: We are all born with an innate understanding of human mating. However, bad life experiences make us twice shy about dealing with strangers, particularly those to whom we are attracted. In addition, the rules of society have been set up to enforce polite courtship and monogamy in specific contexts (indeed that is the only way society can survive). Very few people are able to step out of this conditioning naturally, if they even want to. Seducers must understand that, whil…
/r/seduction16/06/16 11:55 AM
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It's so unusual that maybe the guys think you are messing with them. Probably I would think that since in my younger days I had a couple of girls do this specifically to fuck me over. Or you might not be the type they go for - most men agree on how attractive a given woman is, but there are also some guys who have specific dislikes, maybe because they are reminded of another woman. I had a woman "like" me on POF, so I messaged her and it went well. I also had a guy approach me in a bar and tell …
/r/seduction16/06/16 11:54 AM
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Respect is not a given for older people, unless you live in some small community where everyone knows each other. Respect is earned. Those who attack without anything constructive to say are rightly attacked back. If you have nothing to contribute but belittling people who are doing their best to better themselves, then why do you do it unless you get some kick out of it? Surely you are old enough to understand no fucker is going to listen to you with your attitude. The fact that we are online m…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 11:55 PM
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Clearly a man with self esteem issues to attack anonymously and without provocation. Hang on, are you a Muslim?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 11:17 PM
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Act quickly to escalate and dominate BEFORE you have the chance to catch feelings. This is why clubs and going out a lot can improve your game dramatically - in a club there are scores of hot women looking to hook up, it's easier to escalate fast, and to find alternatives if you are blown out.
/r/seduction12/06/16 12:07 PM
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If cold reading isn't your thing, then do intuitive reading, where you tell her stuff you have genuinely picked up from her behaviour. The effect is the same, but probably more congruent with your style.
/r/seduction12/06/16 02:46 AM
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Hot TV shows, music and movies are pretty obvious. Could also research some of the topics women are typically interested in and careers they choose... child development, medicine, therapy, HR... and develop strong opinions of your own about them that she will either agree or disagree with, leading to conversation. Know about chick crack subjects like personality tests, sensory language, and spooky destiny horoscope shit, which fascinate and also get her revealing further threads to explore.
/r/seduction12/06/16 02:31 AM
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Knowing you have found the answers, even if you haven't implemented anything, can often be a big boost. To some, understanding can even be an end in itself. When I started out, I was euphoric because PUA made so much sense. It took me ages to actually approach a woman cold. I practiced instead by being slightly flirty and fun with people in general, colleagues, customers and girls I didn't want to fuck, whenever the opportunity presented itself. Over time I got bolder. If a cold approach seems l…
/r/seduction12/06/16 02:01 AM
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I asked two girls to dance with me. Actually it was not an ask, it was more like, let's have a dance. They looked at each other doubtfully, like "who the fuck is he to dance with us?" So I took the drinks out of their hands and placed them on the table, then took their hands and pulled them onto the dancefloor where I could sway with one butt in each hand. Results may vary!
/r/seduction12/06/16 01:41 AM
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You're pussying out, unless you are doubly pussying out by wasting time on girls you don't want to fuck. But don't feel bad, everyone who comes here has these issues at first. Might be worth your while to plan a loose framework of sexual escalation that you can work on applying. Not that I advocate too much prior calculation with regard to any specific woman (that way lies madness), but it is handy to know in general how to do it, so you aren't stuck in your head trying to think up an excuse to …
/r/seduction12/06/16 01:32 AM
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She'll bring it up. Most guys are after the sex, and women the commitment. The challenge many of us have is getting the first without giving up the second.
/r/seduction12/06/16 01:09 AM
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One step closer. Good work, and good luck.
/r/seduction12/06/16 01:04 AM
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I like to eschew the gimmicks of cube, handwriting analysis, palmistry, and similar techniques. Instead, I run with some light cold reading, along the lines of "I get a feeling you're the kind of woman who X. Isn't that strange? Maybe it's because... you keep doing Y with your hands/keep mentioning how important Z is." It's not too difficult to recite some truisms that might apply based on your interactions. And people don't mind hearing near-cliches if it says something positive about them. Imp…
/r/seduction12/06/16 12:57 AM
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Could be, I would deliver it with a bit of embellishment and over-the-top protesting-innocence style, "what on earth makes you think that, my dear?". The examples I gave above are kind of stereotyped to convey the meaning in text, when obviously in person, your voice tone and general demeanour come into play a lot. In practice I usually get a visceral sense of "this is a test! KLAXON!" and just let something come out off the top of my head, with a sexual slant because I want to double-down and b…
/r/seduction12/06/16 12:24 AM
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You know, I have a similar fear. Like I don't want my mother or my siblings to know I am a sexual being. Might not be the same situation with you, but I think my issue stems from some memories I have from early childhood - of being ridiculed for kissing a girl or liking a girl's looks. I worked on it a lot in my twenties and saw some success, but life events knocked my confidence in recent years, and I felt those fears return in other contexts, such as knowing I could get with a chick but not ac…
/r/seduction12/06/16 12:12 AM
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I'm not sure what the problem is there. For example, if the guy was pro-life, then it makes sense that he would avoid triggering an abortion.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 11:36 PM
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Our daughter was two when I decided enough was enough and bailed on our five year relationship. The final straw was when she wanted me to come away to her home country for Christmas, and when I refused she booked tickets for herself and the kid without telling me until it was too late. I was lucky in that we didn't marry, and after ending it, I had a rent free year in my uncle's house. Also, I didn't burn our relationship to the ground, so we are still on good terms, share the parenting burden a…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 10:33 PM
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I can't say enough good things about them, they are truly next level.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 08:33 PM
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Possibly the dread game this guy maintains due to his flirting makes his girl much more giving and feminine, extending the lifespan of their sexual exploits.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 03:31 PM
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I would just like to offer a counterpoint to the notion repeated oft in this thread that "we all pay for sex in some fashion or other". Yes, you may spend money on drinks, nice clothes, club entry, taxis and such like. You may spend time chatting her up, and dealing with obstacles and logistics. You may spend energy developing your personality and body. You may have a tremendous emotional cost if you ever deal with breakups, cheating, her playing games and suchlike. However, these are only "cost…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 02:21 PM
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Since you've never done it, your priority should be approaching. Sounds like you want to avoid making a mistake, and I think that in itself is your issue. We all came from similar situations, it's why we're here. Typically, men who aren't naturally sexy/masculine (for whatever reason), are hesitant because they are protecting their fragile ego. They don't take risks because they know that any rejection would feel VERY uncomfortable, possibly for days, weeks or years(think of George McFly!). Can …
/r/seduction10/06/16 01:46 PM
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To my ears, those two questions you ask are coming from a tentative position. You are asking permission because you aren't sure she will capitulate. Men who are used to female submission don't ask. They just do. I'm not some womanising prodigy, but I just get on the dancefloor and strut my stuff, doing my best not to care who's looking at me or if I'm any good. I just dance as if I am alone at home, and it's irrelevant if I look a bit camp or goofy (which I probably do). Women are not used to se…
/r/seduction10/06/16 01:26 PM
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A boyfriend is no impediment to a girl sleeping with you if you are more masculine than he is. Also, many women routinely say they have a boyfriend in order to scare off weaker men. I've heard it myself many times, and I usually say, "he's not here." Women run with their feelings, and the logic of her commitment is only relevant if she finds you unattractive. If you are too honourable to ever consider sleeping with a "taken" woman, just understand that she wouldn't be sleeping with you if she wa…
/r/seduction10/06/16 12:10 PM
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we introverts can enjoy much success if we acknowledge that pushing past discomfort is the only way. Yeah, some nights we are in the zone, some nights we are not, but the really good seducers understand how to put themselves there rather than just going with how they feel. When you go out, unless your friends are better than you at womanising, break off from the group and approach people alone. Don't allow others to dictate the tempo of your night, or pick and choose which groups to approach - y…
/r/seduction10/06/16 12:02 PM
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You are being tested. Women are trying to catch you out to see if you are the man they hope you are. It is a good sign, because women don't usually test guys who they don't like. But you have to deal with it appropriately if you want to remain attractive. A good response is amusement and honesty. "yes, there was another girl in my car yesterday. It's so cute that you're jealous! [smile]" You can also amp up the negative implication to the point of ridicule. "You should know already... I'm the bi…
/r/seduction10/06/16 11:40 AM
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Get your hands on her asap. It gives you something else to think about beyond "err what to say next?" and frames you as dominant. It can be something like cupping the elbow when you say something complimentary, a playful swat on the upper arm as "punishment" for sass-back, grasping her by the shoulders to make a mock-serious point, tender squeeze of the back of the upper arm as a reward for compliance, manoeuvre her to your table with a touch in the small of the back... so many possibilities, an…
/r/seduction09/06/16 03:00 PM
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Maybe try random topics just to make your lips move. Like if there's a lull in conversation when I'm with friends, I often think up two random topics, and just start rambling about the potential connections between them. Someone else feeds off it and usually it culminates in some kind of surreal humour that has us all laughing. For example: Pigs and nurses. Wallpaper and the name Sanjay Computer viruses and geography Lots of PUA gurus teach that on some level it doesn't matter what you say, as l…
/r/seduction09/06/16 02:21 PM
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I'm only half way through it, but Models by Mark Manson is a good catch-all book for men. Also highly recommend the audio program "The Blueprint Decoded" by RSD, which is an all-encompassing exploration of the mindsets required to be successful with women and in life.
/r/seduction08/06/16 03:24 PM
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For a long time I was lazy about looking after my teeth. They are straight and I don't have any missing, but they are a bit yellowed, so I am often self conscious about smiling... unless I am having a good time or laughing, then I just smile naturally. The rest of the time, I smile like my dad used to, a wry, closed mouth smile. The key, I reckon, is being genuinely good natured and wanting to spread good feelings. If you feel warmth toward a person, your smile will reflect that. If you are smil…
/r/seduction08/06/16 01:05 PM
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Be prepared to take the lead, but take things slowly. If she shows some resistance, go a bit slower for a while till she warms up. If she wants you to do something differently, be graceful about accommodating her. Like if she helps you find the hole, don't get embarrassed just because you don't know her body perfectly. She'll do some of the work to get herself off, and you don't have to worry about making her come, she either will or she won't. It doesn't necessarily correlate with her wanting t…
/r/seduction07/06/16 11:35 PM
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I think a very important part of seduction is not giving a fuck... about her reaction, the outcome, how you look to people watching etc. Whatever you can do to get in this frame of mind (besides getting drunk) can be helpful. I sometimes use hypnosis tapes on youtube to get me in the mood. You can also spin the objective round and make it so you are collecting REJECTIONS, not numbers or dates. Can you get rejected by three girls within an hour? Can you get the rejections after at least a minute …
/r/seduction07/06/16 12:31 PM
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Wear light colours - I like my grey suits - they'll absorb less heat in direct sunlight. Go tie-less, or jacket less. Use a good anti-perspirant. Go for the thinnest, lightest materials you can find. No wool, FFS!
/r/seduction07/06/16 09:42 AM
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Can depend on how high your value is in comparison to hers - actually I would say it usually does. Some guys won't lick and some girls don't want to be licked. Some girls love giving and want to be told to do so, some need no prompting.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 01:26 AM
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I think there is a lot to be said for oratory and argument, but, as we redpillers should all now be painfully aware, if your social status is low in a given context, the best facts, stats and arguments in the world will not mean shit. I have learned this to my cost lately by foolishly engaging with a shrike at the office - the kind of shrew more moved by a tabloid photograph than anything approaching science. On the other hand, last night I was able to convince a friend on the fence about the vi…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 11:11 AM
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