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For anyone who read the linked article, this is what mental illness looks like.
/r/MGTOW18/03/18 02:18 PM
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I’ve seen Jen Gunter. Jen, it’s you darling. It’s you.
/r/MGTOW16/03/18 10:19 AM
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I put this movie up there with Master and Commander. I’ve watched it three times.
/r/MGTOW12/03/18 11:20 AM
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Just so everyone is aware, consent as it is described here is not consent as the term is used in criminal law.
/r/MGTOW08/03/18 11:26 PM
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This. Perfect.
/r/MGTOW26/02/18 10:52 PM
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Both undergrad and law school, zero debt. Worked my ass off to pay the part not covered by an academic scholarship. But graduated from law school, seven years education in total, not owing anyone a dime.
/r/MGTOW23/02/18 09:29 PM
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I know a guy who’s a plastic surgeon on Park Avenue. I’m a lawyer and do very well, but I envy this guy. I’d love to do what he does, and I know he is highly, highly compensated. If I were a doctor, that’s what I’d do.
/r/MGTOW23/02/18 07:35 PM
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Did you call her on it? Did you say “What a hateful thing to say. What evidence do you have to support that?”
/r/MGTOW16/02/18 10:50 AM
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Anyone who thinks that anything uttered by the Southern Poverty Law Center has any meaning at all is delusional. It’s a joke. My ten year old has greater credibility than the SPLC. It exists to do nothing but take donations and handsomely compensate a handful of its employees.
/r/MGTOW16/02/18 02:10 AM
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Society now has to treat women like crazy children who will burn down the asylum unless their every demand is met.
/r/MGTOW09/02/18 12:55 PM
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Master and Commander Dunkirk The Wages of Fear
/r/MGTOW08/02/18 03:04 AM
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For all but the least attractive and least valuable women (women who have no options), nonstop dread, and even frequent dread, kills her attraction. I don't think you should ever communicate dread in words. You achieve dread by being absent and unavailable, and when you reconvene, let her know you missed her and are happy to see her with a smile. Seriously, how many women do you know who dump a guy and say "he turned into this nasty sad sack who never acted like he wanted me in his life"? I hear…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 01:42 AM
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Blackbull, you're not doing much to overcome the stereotype here. Can you show me where I say put 100% of your attention into a -- to use your word -- bitch? You saw the complete sentence, right? The one that ends in "while you're together"? And you did read the part about being unavailable, right? What's your way of doing it? Spending time with a woman and ignoring her while you're together? I can also tell you that if you're sleeping with a woman who has an eight figure net worth and a jet at …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 01:25 AM
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Care to take apart what I said and tell me why you disagree?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 12:55 AM
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I submit that #5 does not work with extremely high value women (extremely good looking, wealthy and independent). These women have endless options. We know that men control commitment. The alpha-esque man who commits to an extremely high value woman is rare, and it is also what she wants most. To be clear, by commitment I mean only sexual fidelity. There are ways to achieve #5 other than demonstrating that you’re less “committed” than she is, but demonstrating it is not really what you’d want, i…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 12:03 AM
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One of the best things I’ve read on this sub. All of it true. There’s a limit to the empathy a man should ever have for a woman. At their core, a woman does not want her man to be substantially empathetic, because she detects it to be feminine — and thus weak and afraid. And substantial empathy is just that, a kind of weakness and fear. It’s a problem when the broader culture is actively teaching men to be empathetic, almost without limit. Part of the value a man provides to his wife, and in the…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 10:19 PM
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The questions you write out above. Are these questions asked in your head or did you actually say to her words like “Why don’t you want to go out?”
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 01:40 AM
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I agree. I say the dumbest, most romantic shit — stuff that’d make you cringe — and I’m told “it always sounds real from you” precisely because I’m subconsciously perceived as being unfaithful (in truth, I’m merely busy). They WANT your sweet nothings to be real. They want them to be real because they feel insecure about their relationship with you. They believe that they’re competing with other women and want to be “the one.” I’m so fucking manipulative. I can’t believe I do this shit sometimes…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 11:03 PM
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Don’t pursue. Six months for now she’ll probably think, “What happened with [you]?” Her ego will become involved, she’ll feel like her status is lower than she’d initially thought, and she’ll call. I’ve seen it dozens of times. It’s all about patience and discipline. I’d rather lose a few girls that I’d have had to work my ass off to keep happy, and instead bed the kind who’d walk across broken glass to be with me. And I truth, the latter tend to be very, very good looking. There’s an underlying…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 10:59 PM
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Really? OK. I’m convinced that men, not because they’re insecure, but because they’re doers and builders, are always trying, consciously or unconsciously, to build and develop a relationship with the woman they’re interested in. And that’s not a bad thing. It’s what enables men to “lead” the relationship, in a sense. But it’s a virtue that can work against us in a relationship with a woman. As Esther Perelman, my own psychologist friend, and this study point out, a man must have the balls and di…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 10:22 PM
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The formula that works for short and LTRs: lavish her with attention while you’re together, fuck her hard, and then don’t call for three days. Have the discipline to let her reach out to you. Give her the gift of missing you. Let her pursue you like a junkie pursues his next hit. This isn’t just my long experience. There’s science behind it. I like to think that this study supports my assertion.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 07:51 PM
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In the current climate, you’re better off taking a job cleaning nuclear reactors or defusing bombs than getting married. That’s not a joke. Productive males now occupy the role of helots.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:41 PM
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Here’s one: Use your tongue to get a woman 99.5% of the way there, and then like lightning insert your cock inside her to take her the remaining .5%. This makes my girlfriend shake like she’s having an epileptic seizure. She swears the combination of the two things is orders of magnitude more pleasurable than bringing about orgasm through either vaginal sex or oral sex alone. She says the sensation of me entering her at that moment is the most incredible thing a man has done to her body. I’m not…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 09:58 PM
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This is a really great question. The answer comes down to the dynamics of the relationship, very specific things that had preceded that over the course of a few days. This is why, when I speak about this stuff, I know that what I'm saying doesn't always apply in every similar circumstance. There were two, maybe three things at play. First, over the previous few days (have to be careful not to dox myself here) we'd had extremely vigorous, nearly acrobatic sex twice. The kind of sex that involves …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 03:35 PM
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I think that this wouldn’t be a bad thing. It’s not wrong to make clear by your actions that you’re with her for sex and fun (though it’s not wrong to be a decent listener, signal that you have positive regard for her, etc.). I mean, you’re not like one of her girlfriends. That’s not what your relationship is. But you know this. I think that staying the night isn’t a bad thing, either. You just have to make her understand, through actions, that she’s one small part of your busy life. You can lea…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 03:37 AM
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This past weekend. I don't think that women are consciously aware that they chip away at a man's frame. I think that in their pursuit of security, they do. I think that men have to resist that instinct in women, because it kills relationships. I think that you have to be tactful in how you draw hard boundaries like this, but when it's done right, it does wonders for the relationship and you can't be afraid to do it. Just never, ever betray a hint that your frustrated or pissed off. It has to be …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 09:53 PM
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I’ll give you a real life example. My GF and I have been together for four years and she’s great. The relationship we have is probably about as good as it gets between a man and a woman. It’s the most rewarding relationship I’ve ever had. But I’m a firm believer in men and women being different and I don’t think sexual attraction can flourish without some distance between the man and the woman. We spend about half the week together. Rarely, we’ll be together and she’ll mentally go off on her own…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 08:00 PM
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Try randomly walking out some time. Don’t huff and puff, don’t explain, just say “I have something to do” and leave. Drives them nuts. This is “being less available” on steroids — they actually get to experience you walking out the door on them.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 02:44 PM
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It has. That's why we should avoid women. Implement strategies to insulate yourself from the insanity of it, and you'll be fine.
/r/MGTOW08/12/17 01:49 PM
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Taking a picture without consent? How could this be workable? What happens if you take a picture of your friend in the public street and women happen to be in the frame? You’ve committed a crime? This can’t be happening, at least not the way it’s described in the article.
/r/MGTOW07/12/17 04:31 PM
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The greatest war book of all time. Also, Anabasis / The March of the Ten Thousand.
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 08:49 PM
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This is a really good post and I agree with everything you've said here. There were two reasons why I divorced my ex wife. First was the running accusation of infidelity, and the second was the henpecking that she attempted to use as a means of control (to achieve some kind of capitulation, I suppose). There were a host of psychological issues that fed into this. Her mother left her father for another man when she was 11, and disappeared for about two years. I'm told that this was a complete sur…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:02 PM
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For a while my ex wife had a hard time with doors. She'd turn the knob in one direction repeatedly, the door not opening, and never consider turning the knob in the other direction. She'd pull for a full minute, and never think she should try to push. One day I said, "Baby, I think I'll sign you up for door school."
/r/MGTOW21/09/17 11:41 AM
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Strident, happy to lecture, and yet still not intelligent enough to understand the difference between the words "its" and "it's."
/r/MGTOW20/09/17 11:09 PM
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They're all "fierce," "speaking truth to power," and worked up...just not enough to be literate. Imagine where they'd be if they'd all put that kind of energy into their educations.
/r/MGTOW19/09/17 01:45 PM
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It's ALMOST all of them. Even the best I know, who are decent human beings, easy to get along with and have some admirable traits, are all easily turned into monsters under the right pressures. Innate, evolutionarily bred hypergamy combined with an endless capacity for justifying even the most horrible behavior. Women will sleep with whomever best gives them the resources they think they need, and blame it on the world around them. Nothing about your story surprises me. It's totally common.
/r/MGTOW19/08/17 04:21 PM
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Diversity of thought is good. Agree with what you've said here.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 12:32 PM
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I'm white, and I'm not sure this is done for whites in the formal way that I described in my first response, but if it is, that's not a good thing. So, assuming you're correct, I don't disagree with you. Merit is the only thing that should matter. I have the impression that Asian and Indian applications are the bulk of Ivy applications, all with top notch qualifications, that white kids are the relatively high achieving middle, and that many of the blacks (obviously not all) don't have the neces…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 12:24 PM
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And to be clear, I'm not saying that black kids can't get into these schools without the 125 point SAT / ACT bump. I'm saying that it appears we've decided that it's OK to take a "disadvantaged" group, pick it up, and artificially drop it in the place of a different, "advantaged" group. We also take that "advantaged" group and drop it in the place formerly occupied by the "disadvantaged" group. It's almost exactly what happens in the Vonnegut story. And I can't see how anything positive comes of…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 01:31 PM
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I don't agree with the statement that diversity is something to strive for. I don't think it's ever a valid end. I think the only valid end is getting the best people for the job, no matter what they look like. I recently heard that applicants to Ivy League colleges who are black get an automatic bump of 125 points (on average) to their SAT score, which has the effect of handicapping Asian students with a 125 point deduction from their SAT score. First, I don't see how any rational person can to…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 11:48 AM
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Unfortunately this scenario has shown up so often in television and movies that we can probably look forward to more false rape accusations by women in the military. I am so damn happy that barely a week goes by that I don't read about a female teacher being busted for rape or a woman being arrested for filing a false report (or, in this case, dealing with an $8.4 million lien that she will never be able to extinguish). Maybe people are beginning to catch on. I hope this guy finds a really tenac…
/r/MGTOW16/08/17 01:11 AM
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You'd better tell your dad she said this. He's flesh and blood. Also, please tell him he's an idiot if he marries this thief. He'll either thank you or marry her, in which case he deserves everything that's coming to him.
/r/MGTOW09/08/17 02:02 AM
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As I think I've said before on this thread, any prosecutor or prosecution investigator who has worked sex crimes for any significant period of time will tell you that rape IS something women lie about, and maybe more than anything else. I once had a FEMALE sex crimes prosecutor (for whom I worked) tell me that almost all rape complaints that are investigated are found to be false. Not just unsupported by evidence, mind you. Investigated, and the version of events provided by the female complaina…
/r/MGTOW06/08/17 02:06 PM
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The single best thing one can say in a conversation with anyone, but especially women: "Tell me about that," or "That's interesting. Tell me about that." Variations on an invitation to speak more are crucial. Also, "Why do you think that?" More information is fed into the system, and with more information, there are more opportunities To comment, offer more information, or seek more information. Good cognitive behavioral therapists know this. They are brilliant at developing a conversation.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 07:12 PM
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Right after I told the kids I was divorcing my wife (their mother), my son said to my soon to be former mother-in-law, "it's very sad, daddy is going away." I was always puzzled about this. After the divorce -- in which I completely destroyed her, she got nothing -- my son said to me, "Daddy, it's so funny that mommy said that you were going away, when it was mommy who went away and we are all still right here." He was referencing the facts that I kept the house, the cars, pay her next to nothin…
/r/MGTOW24/07/17 07:49 PM
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I have to confess, there are days that I -- how shall I say this -- wonder if my MGTOW brothers are missing out on a part of life. Not that I disagree at all with the decision or the lifestyle, but I have wondered if the net result is missing out on kids, for example. Then I see things like this, which seems to have been authored by a woman, and I know that every single MGTOW has made the right decision, and I only want it to grow more. MGTOW is pulling the rug out from under society in a very g…
/r/MGTOW22/07/17 11:53 AM
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It's very hard to find a woman with a sense of accountability. They exist, but they are exceedingly rare. Sometimes you have to force accountability on them.
/r/MGTOW19/07/17 04:07 PM
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I suggest you read the Alan Booth study published as "Testosterone, and winning and losing in human competition" in the journal Hormones and Behavior, Volume 23, Issue 4, pages 556-571.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 03:14 PM
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Commenters here have pointed out that this is an example of the hypocrisy of SJWs, or the double standards that women have. But I think it's more grave than that: most women simply cannot reason. I'm amazed (though I shouldn't be at this point) at how frequently women inject emotion into events, and when that happens, how the ability to reason disappears. I don't think one of these women would understand how you could take the rule they seem to articulate and take the position that any man who d…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 12:18 PM
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Another major contributing factor is that while women in their 20's might not come across as nuts, many women between the ages of 35 and 45 really are nuts. In my experience, it happens again during menopause - mid 50s. On the whole, women in their 20s and early 30s might want more from you, but are manageable compared to the typical woman in her late 30s to mid 40s. Very narrow window of relative sanity with women.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 01:01 PM
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What a disgusting person.
/r/MGTOW14/07/17 02:08 AM
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It's always a transaction with women. It's remarkable to me that women seem so much more prone to dressing up their relationship as deep and meaningful love, at least in words, than are men. But it is for them fundamentally a transaction, an exchange. Men seem to be less prone to speak about idealized love, and yet for them, the substance of a LTR with a woman is, for most, one of genuine affection. But this is all academic TRP.
/r/MGTOW11/07/17 04:11 PM
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My personal experience correlates the absence of tattoos on a woman with mental illness as well.
/r/MGTOW10/07/17 03:50 PM
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I assume this is an upper middle class female (maybe not). Whenever I hear upper middle class people roll out their "I did nothing wrong, I have no regrets" justifications for their infidelity, I say "the people who live in our public housing projects and trailer parks have the same view of infidelity." Drives them absolutely crazy. Lost two long term female "friends" over this remark. Their hamstering should never be questioned, remember. And never point out that they have the same morals as th…
/r/MGTOW30/06/17 01:25 PM
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I have always admired him. Great guy.
/r/MGTOW24/05/17 04:48 PM
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The ex wife's expression is "how am I going to support myself?"
/r/MGTOW24/05/17 01:14 PM
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Agree.
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 01:41 PM
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Agree.
/r/MGTOW15/05/17 11:04 PM
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Can anyone give me the cite for this case?
/r/MGTOW15/05/17 04:39 PM
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I don't know why it's a bad thing that this woman walked away when you said no. That's good. She's not someone you want to live with. I was in your position, sort of. I dumped my ex wife because she put more energy into telling me how to place the fucking plates in the cabinet than demonstrating appreciation for me. She's the same ungrateful, childish, ball breaking POS so many of us here are wary of. For me, abundance mentality is a real and great thing. I've been divorced about four years and …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 12:32 AM
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My belief is that the reproductive imperative in women is even stronger than in men. You're right -- they'll come to you if you have a life.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 12:10 AM
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Jason Statham and Daniel Craig are both under six feet tall.
/r/MGTOW13/05/17 01:53 AM
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And for this guy, good grammar is hard to come by.
/r/MGTOW11/05/17 10:45 PM
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It's amazing, the kinds of very bad situations one's balls can lead him into. In years to come, science is going to discover the exact chemical trigger that suspends objectivity in a guy like OP's friend.
/r/MGTOW11/05/17 12:21 AM
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First, it's great that OP caught and properly characterized the domination mentioned in that article. People think all domination is bad. Some domination is good -- over one's life, over fire, over nature. Second -- yes, giving women the vote is the worst thing western culture ever did. Like Rome deciding that dividing the empire was the right way to address the problem, it will eventually be the end of the dominance of western culture. The cultures that are not feminized, like China, Russia and…
/r/MGTOW06/05/17 01:17 PM
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I wonder if he used his classroom to recruit individuals to carry out the crime of assault. I wonder what the exposure for negligent hiring and retention would be for the college. Awfully hard to make a hard distinction between his actions as a professor and his actions as an assaulting "demonstrator" if indeed he is speaking to students about anarchist tactics during class time. Really interesting negligent hiring and retention case against the college. Could be a loser but you never know and b…
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 08:19 PM
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I know. I read that particular quote and got an ill feeling that most women really are as crazy as any schizophrenic and can't even comprehend the notion of agency or accountability. Not a week goes by that I don't read some news article in which female accountability actually is relevant to the events described in the article, but is treated as irrelevant or nonexistent. It's as if the media is making a coordinated effort to write it out of existence.
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 07:41 PM
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Tinder usage = automatic and immediate classification as a slut.
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 11:31 AM
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Never understood why people thought she was pretty even in her prime.
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 09:13 AM
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Sadly this is true.
/r/MGTOW26/04/17 06:47 PM
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Dan, you seem to have prescriptions for everyone. Even people you've never met. I challenge the premise that all committed relationships entail suffering. I do not suffer in the least in my committed relationship. It's entirely positive. That's probably hard for you to comprehend, but I have to ask: if you were in a relationship with a woman and it was 95% great and 5% not great, would you end it because 5% of the time it wasn't great? Do you own a car? A car can get you places, which is great. …
/r/MGTOW25/04/17 05:45 PM
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This is a short post but god does it make me happy to hear this. This is exactly the sort of thing that used to make the world go round and one day, it will again. Keep an eye on that guy. He's keeping an eye out for you.
/r/MGTOW23/04/17 01:40 AM
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In my entire life I've met exactly three women who were interesting enough on their own to have a reciprocal conversation with me. Two were very beautiful and also materially successful, one has been on the cover of a major business magazine. The other wasn't very beautiful but was a pretty, and also brilliant and accomplished in her profession (a mostly male profession). That's three women in thousands I've met over the course of my life and hundreds I've got to know. Three. Coincidentally, two…
/r/MGTOW22/04/17 11:44 PM
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Parasite.
/r/MGTOW21/04/17 08:47 PM
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If that is a real admission and that's the hiring policy, a qualified male candidate who was denied a job there should sue him tomorrow. Also, what a moron.
/r/MGTOW21/04/17 08:41 PM
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I don't know where you're located but in most states the marriage ends the moment the complaint or petition in divorce is filed with the court. It doesn't even have to be served on the other party. It's not a matter of having or not having a final judgment. The marriage is over when the divorce commences (filing of complaint with the clerk of the court). That rule exists to prevent shenanigans like the one you describe here. Maybe the rule is different in your state.
/r/MGTOW21/04/17 08:29 PM
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I'm confused by what you wrote here. When you ask a woman out, do you not propose that the two of you go out? Does she exercise choice in going out with you? If you think that a woman does not exercise choice when she says yes to your invitation, then when you go out you're what? Kidnapping her? Do you tell her what she's going to do with you? Do you say "We're going to restaurant x tonight'? I have never said men should not lead. I have said that men who subscribe to the belief that they must d…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 05:35 PM
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Right. So I have to ask, in what way does "men make all the plans" -- which in practice means men pay all the money -- differ from being the beta provider that we all seem to revile so much? The woman has to put zero effort into her time with you. The man makes the plan, the man takes her out, the man pays (I suppose) in hopes of sex. It's never part of the premise that the woman values YOU enough that she'd think about something nice to do with you, that you might enjoy, and then she makes that…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:19 PM
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So many of the guys who subscribe to the "make must always lead and select all activities" idea see things as the male always leading or the woman always leading. Which just isn't how humans work. If by the 3rd date the woman hasn't voiced any preference for how she'd like to spend her time, she's not putting much energy into the encounter, she doesn't care enough to engage you (perfect words you used, by the way) and you can bet she's on her way to becoming the princess who sits by waiting for …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 10:07 AM
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Well said. But I think that we are offered a false choice when we are told we must always lead or she will always lead.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 06:21 PM
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I disagree. I'm not saying that these women are common, but they exist. And they can be converted.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 06:20 PM
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Max, first dispense with the "welcome to the human race" sarcasm. We're not confronted with a binary choice between men leading the human race and women leading the human race. And we're not talking about passing on superior genes either. The least competent humans seem to reproduce in great numbers. Nor are we talking about men leading 100% of the time or women leading 100% of the time. I am talking about what seems to be an axiom of TRP, the "lead by choosing all activities" mandate. Think abo…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 06:01 PM
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Want to point something out that I see again and again in TRP thinking that I disagree with. And I'm a fan of TRP, trust me. The idea that a man should choose activities and lead constantly makes having a relationship with a woman into a damn job. Why in the world would any man want to be a tour guide in exchange for sex? One of the reasons I divorced my wife was that she was such a nonentity, so completely without personality or volition, that living with her was like having a child. I don't se…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 11:06 AM
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This is a great post and my experience has been similar. An art director friend of mine installed Instagram on my phone years ago whilst we were out having a beer. I managed to keep it on for a week or so before I realized I wanted it in my life like I want radon in my basement. Really bad stuff. Also have a friend who's a fairly well known, well respected psychologist who has said that social media is a much bigger problem than the press would make out. He told me that he has reached the point …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 11:43 AM
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I agree with what you've said here: make earning money your #1 priority. But I suspect he also needs to do something that's going to change his view of himself. He seems convinced he's trapped by circumstance, while we know nothing is further from truth. He also needs a different outlook. Agree?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 11:22 AM
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Look, I can understand that you feel down about this sometimes but from where I stand, you're in an enviable position. You have a blank canvas before you. You're 19. This is great. You might not think you have much, but you do have the one thing in life no one will ever be able to take from you: your integrity. Make a clean break. If your health is good, join the Marines. Every single guy I know who was a Marine is successful: some white collar, some blue collar, but all organized, successful pe…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 11:19 AM
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I don't think you understand what Rollo means with that quote. You're never a commodity, you're a human being. We all know that. What he's saying is that from a woman's vantage point -- because they're far more Machiavellian and psychopathic than most men can imagine -- you are a commodity. She's looking for a commodity. When he says that, he's not encouraging you to change your nature or conception of self. He's encouraging you to take on the guise of the thing that will attract her, so that yo…
/r/MGTOW18/04/17 09:17 PM
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There could be a bit of a misconception about prenuptial agreements here. While it is possible to enforce one that gives very little to the non-earning spouse, and strongly favors the breadwinner, courts tend to go out of their way to help the litigant who would like it defeated. I'm not saying that they don't work, but a prenuptial agreement like the one I describe is not something to have complete confidence in. Prenuptial agreements exist, by and large, to approximate the division of assets t…
/r/MGTOW18/04/17 09:05 PM
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If IV drug use doesn't cause one to lose custody, I doubt political opinion will.
/r/MGTOW17/04/17 03:42 PM
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Agree. This is one of the major reasons he won.
/r/MGTOW17/04/17 03:38 PM
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It's great that you can do that. Good for you. My experience has been different, and that's coupled with the fact that unless you know someone well, you'll probably never know if he's using or not. My metabolism, with participation in my main sport (highly cardiovascular), makes me pretty much unable to make or keep gains without supplementing with test. I eat correctly, too. And I know a lot of other aerobic athletes who have had the same experience. My comment was also geared toward some of th…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 02:39 PM
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Honestly, I don't know how natty guys do it and I have a sneaking suspicion that many of the guys who claim to be natty are not. I'd say that at a minimum, I'd say that anyone who wants gains is going to need some additional test. And he's going to have to learn how to eat. I don't see a thing wrong with that, either. Just need know how to cycle it and how to handle the PCT phase. I find that having very high test levels is actually calming and centering, and focusing. It's better than any drug …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 01:29 PM
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We've both had our children so the biological imperative of constantly being together and making a home together is one that neither of us labor under. The dynamic that exists between men and women in their early 20's and the one that exists between them 15 or 20 years later can be radically different, I think. There is something that I observe sometimes and I just don't know how people do it: couples who spend every minute together, live together, and do not have children. As you say, the cling…
/r/MGTOW16/04/17 01:04 PM
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It is possible that this woman is a widow. Statistically unlikely, but possible.
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 02:29 PM
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Sure. First I'll tell you why I find them so disturbing. I subscribe to the belief that women don't "love" the same way men do. I always have, but in a more polite and palatable formulation: we know that women "love" what you can do for them, or what resources you can share with them, but consciously or subconsciously I always chalked this up to the virtue of her wanting to be a good mother. I always believed that somewhere in there, there was some positive regard for the man, some admiration of…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 01:44 PM
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Well written. Good, accurate observation and well written.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 01:19 AM
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Respect requires that you value someone for the substantial things that person is, as distinct from what he can give you or do for you. Women don't understand, much less care about good character (the thing upon which a man rests his respect for another man). And yes, that only leaves fear, unfortunately.
/r/MGTOW12/04/17 08:52 PM
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Controlling is a polite word for manipulative. Hundred dollars said she's the same icy cold, calculating woman that January Jones and that washed up Katherine Heigl is.
/r/MGTOW12/04/17 08:48 PM
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Ever see the website gettinbetter? The other URL is sharischreiber.com. Check out the BPD forum. It's illuminating.
/r/MGTOW12/04/17 08:43 PM
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Was waiting for someone to post this. Does anyone know which states still have a gender specific rape statute (meaning only men and not women can be convicted as a principal for the crime of rape)?
/r/MGTOW12/04/17 08:37 PM
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Thanks. I suspected as much. I've never known anyone like that except my old asylum clients and I never spent enough time with them to know if they were happy and grateful to be away from it, or just the same as most every woman.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 08:33 PM
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Agree. I've known so many women as friends and romantically who, after they open up and start really talking, make me believe that men and women live in two different realities. The sheer volume of negative emotion, the pessimism, amazes me sometimes. I'm like any other guy, I think, in that I feel like I'm handling the world and my life well when I get up and execute. Just relentless execution of my job and everything else in my life. It energizes me. That's not to say that I don't sometimes fe…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 08:31 PM
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I believe there's actually some science behind the notion that females experience negative emotions much more frequently than men. I know women who have everything -- looks, security, wealth, health, a kickass lifestyle -- who STILL cannot manage to feel gratitude and be happy without the help of medication. It makes me wonder if a woman who's lived for a period of time in a war zone might make a better, happier partner. But my hunch is that she'd be even harder to deal with because her genetic …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 04:12 PM
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The thing is, a huge number of women are capable of being lesbians even if they live straight. Women are very homosocial to begin with -- far more than men -- and there no longer seems to be any Tak stigma at all against being a lesbian. Just look at social media and see the thousands of pictures of allegedly straight women making out. The threshold for gayness, or at least gay behavior, is far lower for women than it is for men. Honestly can you imagine the words "I have a guy crush on so-and-s…
/r/MGTOW11/04/17 02:09 PM
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Swear to god. As I said, she's exceptional and she also has unlimited resources to take care of herself. She's never been out of shape, has a personal chef and a personal trainer. She doesn't have even a trace of a wrinkle at the edges of her eyes. And she also has fantastic genetics. I've never met anyone else like her. But yes, she really looks about 30, and guys in their 20s hit on her constantly.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 03:42 PM
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And yet at least one credible study has shown the women are more likely to employ violence in an intimate relationship than are men.
/r/MGTOW10/04/17 03:00 PM
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I feel compelled to say something about post-wall v. pre-wall women. My GF is a post-wall woman. She's entirely self sufficient and doesn't want a dime from me. She's also head turning beautiful in a city full of beautiful women. She's had her children, and they're off and running. She doesn't want me to be their father. She's wealthy, and made all of it on her own. She's crazy in bed, and one reason is that she's been around long enough to have skills. She's lived a very interesting life and as…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 02:52 PM
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I often praise my late father in my comments on this sub, and I'll do it again here. There are some things in this that are so resonant of him. He definitely lives life to the fullest, and I do remember him saying to me once, when my energy was flagging, "Some day you're going to be taken to a cemetery in a box. You should be busting your ass every minute you're awake." He was right. It's how I live and I'm grateful he gave me that focus early in life.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 12:46 PM
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This is the right advice. Agree with it. Being able to conclude matters in the way you describe is an important thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 11:48 AM
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Do nothing. Seriously. Don't ever be drawn into a woman's emotional drama. They exist for sex, that's it. Don't even attempt to take care of a woman's emotional state. It's futile.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 07:02 PM
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$100 says she doesn't get paid (or didn't get paid). There are so many ways to game susceptible women like this one. UAE natives confiscate the passports of and enslave Filipino and East African domestic help every damn day. Is prostitution illegal in the UAE? Yes, it is. Can this woman go to law enforcement or sue someone for not paying her for a sex act? Yes, but they can't do anything but arrest her. This guy and his younger brother are brilliant. Also, there's a reasonably good chance she'll…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:39 PM
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Thanks!
/r/MGTOW07/04/17 12:48 PM
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Not trying to puff myself up here, but her problem was that I was too much of a Chad. She never stopped accusing me of infidelity and was as jealous a person as you'll ever meet. She had issues with me going anywhere without her, having interests outside of our relationship, etc. Once, she and I were driving in our car (kids elsewhere), and she picked a blonde hair off her seat, held it in front of me, and demanded to know whose hair it was. I said "It's our daughter's, obviously." That's the ki…
/r/MGTOW07/04/17 12:48 PM
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You don't have to trust a woman to sleep with her. Get a vasectomy and plug away. I don't trust women either. It doesn't mean I'm not going to use them for the one thing they're good for.
/r/MGTOW06/04/17 01:28 AM
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The "stop the wolf whistle" campaigns are similarly unreasoned. What women call a wolf whistle in some English speaking countries -- the construction worker whistling at an attractive female who walks by a construction site -- is nothing more than a male ACKNOWLEDGING the sexual signal sent by the female. I saw a video by some young woman in Australia attempting to reason a guy out of his wolf whistling activity, saying that the majority of women don't like it. He responded that some women actua…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 06:54 PM
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In the US, the lawsuit would already be filed. I read things like this and thank god America is such a damned litigious place.
/r/MGTOW05/04/17 04:32 PM
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The best part of that movie. Ages ago when I saw it in a theatre with my now ex wife, there was sustained laughter from every man in the audience. It's funny because it's true.
/r/MGTOW05/04/17 04:26 PM
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One of the most sexist things I've ever seen in a mainstream publication. Think of the assumptions this piece is based on. Also proof that even old school equity feminists are full of shit.
/r/MGTOW05/04/17 03:29 AM
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I actually feel a little bad for her. The desperation has to be unbelievable. Not as bad as I feel for her husband though. I'd use this in an effort to take the kid away from her and obtain sole custody. If it's his, of course.
/r/MGTOW05/04/17 03:05 AM
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Thank you for posting this. From where I stand, the solution is relentlessly inculcating in our sons a new and different model of what a man is. I'm sure this guy's points of reference tell him he's different and better than his male friends who aren't doing what he's doing, that they're lazy and unfocused and have no real desire to get on with their lives. If you were to try to red pill him, he'd look at you like you're crazy. I've started early on my son. All I want to do is give him a fightin…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 03:10 PM
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My ex wife couldn't stand that I called the shots. She started calling me "assertive," as if that could ever be a criticism of a man, and that's when I divorced her. She should have married one of the pansies you describe here.
/r/MGTOW31/03/17 03:27 AM
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Not entirely sure about this...I've always been the dumper and she the dumped, and this might be a factor in what I've encountered. I have always pulled the plug because it seems every woman will eventually become an entitled, demanding pain in the ass; it's never been a "I'm just not feeling it" sort of thing for me. I've had women knocking on my windows at 2 am, six years after a breakup, because the ghosting was so cold and so complete. I've had to fill out police reports and get orders or pr…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:27 PM
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It could be cultural -- I could be completely wrong. I'm just saying that what you're encountering are real behaviors of a real type of personality and these people, as well adjusted as they might seem in their day-to-day external lives, do not do any kind of intimacy well. For some, giving in an intimate way is a real trial. I wish you luck.
/r/seduction30/03/17 11:19 PM
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I can't say if it does, but I do know women who've had a serious trauma history (real and legitimate) who have issues with investing anything in a relationship, including investing the act of sex with energy and meaning. They do this via total passivity. It's a real thing. There's a book on it called Sexual Anorexia. You're almost certainly never going to achieve anything like a reciprocal relationship with a woman like this. There are a few women who can, who want a genuine reciprocal relations…
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:17 PM
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The comparison has been made of masturbating with a vagina. That kind of girl. In some ways it's worse than going without.
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:06 PM
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No.
/r/seduction30/03/17 06:53 PM
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I wouldn't spend much more time with this girl. I know the type, and I've suspected that there is something wrong with girls like this (from a psychological or personality standpoint). You'll never get any spontaneous affection from her and you'll be chasing her and trying to engage and please her forever. The passivity would kill me. Don't know if you've had sex but she seems like a genuine starfish.
/r/seduction30/03/17 06:49 PM
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I agree with the responses of others. When I say "no good woman" I'm also saying that they're are probably exceedingly rare exceptions, but the assumption should always be that women are prone to hypergamy and infidelity, or treating a relationship with a man like an ATM. The woman I'm with now is a total pleasure to be around. But even with her I'd never construct my life in such a way that I can lose anything. I think I'm just being realistic when I do this. And don't be gay. My good friend is…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:57 AM
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You're going to reach a point where you think you've pushed her away enough and that you've taught her a lesson. Your next thought will be that you can let her back in because you've asserted yourself and she knows who's boss, etc. DO NOT DO IT. The greatest feeling in life -- I mean it's better even than destroying your enemies -- is to go so cold and silent on a no good woman that she cannot bear the silence, and every second of it is pain to her. Of course, it's just the pain of confronting r…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 12:31 AM
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My ex wife's mother -- my former mother in law -- left her family at age 33, when my ex wife was 11 and her younger sister 9, to fuck a 20 year old. She was gone for more than 18 months, and moved in with the guy. She also stole a car. During that time my former father in law (who is so passive a man that there isn't even a word to describe him) did nothing but beg the woman to return. When she did return, no questions were asked, and people weren't allowed to even speak of it. Aside from her ow…
/r/MGTOW29/03/17 01:43 PM
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Well reasoned response, Matty. Thank you for getting in there and writing it.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:39 PM
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The complete absence of accountability.
/r/MGTOW16/03/17 06:26 PM
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No. Do not. Walk.
/r/seduction16/03/17 12:52 AM
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All I can say is that it is normal, and unless these guys have / had fathers who are / were disciplined and lit that essential fire in the belly of their sons, them these guys are going to be doing the same thing ten years from now. The older I get, the more grateful I am that I had the parents that I did. My father especially was a rare kind of man, and I owe so much to his instruction in so many things. We live in soft times. We have no natural predators. The welfare state grows each day. But …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 05:16 PM
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2nd paragraph nails it. As my very rational, red pill younger sister would say, "Why do men let the crazy people make all the rules?" She might not be a unique woman but she's part of a small group. States flat out that she has very few female friends because "almost all women are irresponsible."
/r/MGTOW15/03/17 05:00 PM
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There is a "velvet glove" version of going nuclear. Low voice, unshakable calm, no emotion and few words as you draw the line and show exactly who is in charge. You get the result of going nuclear without any of the weakness that is conveyed by uncontrolled emotion.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:04 AM
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Ditto. It's what my father taught me and what I'm teaching my son. About a year ago my girlfriend pissed me off. I said goodbye -- no details, no explanation, just "goodbye" -- and 48 hours later I was sleeping with a model. My father had some really great words of advice as I was growing up. One was "Never be emotional about a woman." He was right. Another was "Your life is too short to spend even a minute of it unhappy." My mom is a decent woman and they loved each other in some important way,…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:00 AM
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You can still join the military. Possibly my biggest regret in life is that I was unable to serve (at the time I tried to enlist, any history at all of asthma, even juvenile, made the applicant ineligible). My family has a long history of serving in the Navy and Marines, and from my perspective, it is the formative experience of their lives. I have friends who grew up in the most cosseted circumstances, and who decided to enlist because they realized what it had done to them. Many re-enlisted, s…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 06:18 PM
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I'm not 100% sure about what you say here. You could be correct, but honestly I can see it going the other way, too. Frankly I'm interested in OP's story. OP says it's irrelevant but maybe it's a source of real insight.
/r/seduction14/03/17 03:23 PM
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Parasites. With some, like this one, it's obvious. With others, it isn't obvious. But they're all parasites to one degree or another.
/r/MGTOW13/03/17 03:42 PM
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Very good video. Very direct and simple. I think what this guy talks about is the most important thing, really. Never give her all that she needs, always give her less than what she needs. Days with little to no contact, followed by complete, all enveloping attention, followed immediately by days of little to no contact...this is very powerful stuff. It slowly changes a woman and makes her submissive. I swear someone should do a brain chemistry study on it.
/r/seduction13/03/17 01:54 AM
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I'm going to go out on a limb here: Social media is like saltpeter to a man. We talk about frame. Social media is one giant female frame. OP is correct. Instant communication and social media make men into needy, overcommunicative, oversharing pains in the ass. I've read dozens of posts on this sub in which men tell us "and then I saw that she did this or that on FB." I could not live like this for a day. It would make me quit women entirely. No amount of vagina is worth sitting in front of a co…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 01:50 AM
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I don't give a woman an option of breaking up. I walk away with no explanation and she never hears from me again. Incidentally, this drives them nuts and they usually end up knocking on my door at 2 am...that sort of thing. My ex wife and I have two youngish kids together and even she's driven crazy by me not contacting her or responding to her overtures. Our relationship is conclusively over and still, she wants me to pay attention to her. Women need male attention like they need air. Always gi…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 09:00 PM
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I think it's really important to not define any substantial part of your identity in terms of how you relate to women; that is, which women you can bed, how many, etc. This is different for men than it is for women, because I know that I personally am always interested in sex. There's a constant background hum of sex throughout the day, when I fall asleep I'm usually thinking about sex, I often dream about it, and every morning I think about sex before I think about breakfast. It's been like thi…
/r/seduction10/03/17 02:41 PM
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Last paragraph = gold. Completely true.
/r/MGTOW10/03/17 02:26 AM
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Something tells me she's not getting much.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:21 PM
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I think that OP offers this quote to provide a bit of data or evidence that might undercut the inflated sense of self worth that proponents of a day without women seem to be trading in. As far as my daughter is concerned, she is a hardworking and smart kid and I doubt that she'll be come vapid or parasitical (mainly because I talk to her about not being these things), but I'd also prefer it if she didn't think that confrontational, anti-man circle jerks like "a day without women" are in any way …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 01:19 PM
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For MGTOW, every day is a day without women.
/r/MGTOW08/03/17 02:39 AM
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I have to second this. It's really critical that you be able to signal that you're receptive to having sexual with a girl without explicitly, overtly working to make that happen. Give her less than what she needs or wants in terms of attention. But the "Yes, I'm interested in having sex with you" signal should be constant. Learn to pull back and let her come to you. It's a fine art, and it takes time to really develop a sense of how to do it, but it's a critical skill. It's similar to the idea o…
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:12 PM
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I wouldn't look twice at this woman.
/r/MGTOW01/03/17 11:31 PM
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Isn't it amazing what happens when feminists get a taste of their own medicine? I read the article, and all I can say is that I grow more and more firm in my assessment that women are, at their core, incoherent. The traditional critique of women is that they have little capacity for logic, and the article makes me believe that it's a legitimate critique. Ladies, TRP and MGTOW are the male corollaries to feminism. Women have been saying for a few generations now that they don't need men. Well, a …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 09:33 PM
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Don't say anything. Just be less available and don't volunteer plans. Treat her kindly, be pleasant, but don't explain anything. If she calls, let her tell you about her day, etc. Ask only the most mundane questions. Keep it short. Don't volunteer any information about what's going on with you. In other words, de-escalate. Brevity is the key to this. Not answering texts or calls, also. But most of all, do not explain. You don't need to offer reasons. You don't need to "bookend" your communicatio…
/r/seduction01/03/17 09:01 PM
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Next. If you're not sleeping together by the second time you're seeing each other -- third time max -- move to the next girl. There are millions and millions of women out there. And when I say third time max, I mean you're about to have sex and she gets a call that her father has had a heart attack and is in the emergency room, and she has to go. Only the most exceptional circumstances. I'd stop seeing her and if she wants it to be sexual, then she'll seek you out. If you show a loss of interest…
/r/seduction01/03/17 08:56 PM
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This guy is fucking awesome. This woman...she just can't keep her legs closed, can she?
/r/MGTOW01/03/17 08:32 PM
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You don't need a traffic camera to sue someone, my friend. If it's true that she ran a red light, and hit you, the points of impact of the two vehicles should go some way to substantiating your version of events. Even if liability is apportioned, you should recover something. If this occurred one year ago it's unlikely that the statute of limitations in your state has run. You are probably still in a position to sue her. I don't know what your medical treatment was. But if your injuries are what…
/r/MGTOW28/02/17 11:50 AM
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Yes. That is the right word. The word equality is thrown around so much, though, I thought I'd reference that.
/r/MGTOW28/02/17 12:18 AM
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I'm not Indian, but I've had very close friends whose families come from India all my life, from childhood to adulthood. By the time we were teenagers, I was struck by what I can only call the cultural baggage that my Indian mates carried around -- the interlocking web of obligations running to family members, parents and grandparents. The pressure seemed unbearable to me. I've had Japanese friends -- well, more acquaintances than friends -- and I've had the impression that they labor under simi…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:34 PM
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Women care only about themselves in this way: they care about what resources they can get from a man. It's an extremely rare woman who can overcome this evolutionary trait and be an independent person. The 99% who are left -- the rest -- are brazen about using men for resources. They spend their lives engaged in an effort to use men for what they have, all the while talking about respect and equality. The conflict between these things is never apparent to them. They are blind to it. They seem to…
/r/MGTOW25/02/17 12:41 PM
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Further evidence that women don't actually want equality. They want maximum credit for minimum effort.
/r/MGTOW25/02/17 12:06 PM
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Is it possible you reeked of alcohol? Also I'm not sure why you went outside and waited in line with her. You were there, I was not, but maybe that's a bit enthusiastic? I've always done best by playing it cool. Think of what your instincts would tell you to do, and then never do more than 65% or 70% of that, tops. Being pleasant is important, escalating is crucial, but at some point she has to come to you. Give her that opportunity. One reasonable way of looking at it is this: it didn't have to…
/r/seduction24/02/17 02:56 AM
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I'm going to have to disagree with #4. I'm not trying to devalue anyone when I say this, I'm not trying to compete with anyone when I say this, but it is my consistent experience that what we might call genuine alpha with unshakable frame, combined with muscular sex and an easy smile are like heroin to any woman. She might temporarily believe that she can find satisfaction elsewhere, but she cannot, even as much as a decade later. Also, as many others have said here, chasing one woman is just pl…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 07:17 PM
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I agree with this. Showing genuine interest at OPs age goes a long way. Something else to consider is that her parents will ask if OP is "a nice boy" and if he treats her well, and his behavior toward her should permit her to answer yes to both questions. The difference in dynamic between ages 14 and, say, 20 and the prime years of 20 to 32,33 is HUGE. It's like two different worlds.
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:51 PM
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What I'm going to tell you isn't going to work well when you're older (like when you hit your 20s) because you'll fall into beta orbiter status if you're not careful. It will work again when you're beyond prime baby-making years. I wouldn't make myself endlessly available to her, but when you are, it doesn't hurt to listen to her and gain her trust. Ask her questions about her life and listen to the answers, then build on the answers. I cleaned up in high school by giving girls total attention w…
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:42 PM
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Coffee seems to stain teeth. Last night a trusted friend told me there is some peril in going too white, like copier paper white. That's to be avoided.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:40 PM
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You have to work out hard every day or every other day. The fit and slightly big have a huge advantage over the non-fit and small (or overly big). Also, teeth should be white. I can't tell you how many women I've heard say "Did you see how yellow that guy's teeth were?"
/r/seduction20/02/17 10:53 PM
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I subscribe completely to the belief that women have been bred by evolution to use men for resources. I could give you a half dozen stories right now where that is EXPLICITLY what the women are in it for. They're brazen about it. I'd dox myself if I did, though. It's so depressing to hear them speak about it. They have no awareness that what they're doing is parasitic. None. They'd be shocked if I pointed that out. It wouldn't change them, though.
/r/MGTOW19/02/17 11:15 PM
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I don't think this is necessarily a bad thing. Now ask her to have dinner with you.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 10:03 PM
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Thinking now about how I'm going to tell my son to consider seriously whether commitment of any kind is a good thing.
/r/MGTOW19/02/17 02:12 AM
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I would say rather than don't argue, do not be petty. Some arguments are worth having, and if you have them, know how to win. If you think and learn about argument enough, you can completely kneecap your opponent in two or three sentences. And always do it with a smile. I don't think anyone ever found Chris Hitchens a more magnetic a character because he kept his mouth shut about something. People enjoyed hearing him speak about controversial subjects even if they disagreed with him. I'd say arg…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 10:38 PM
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Very good. On Brad Pitt, just saying the ladies SEEM to like the guy.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 04:00 PM
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You sound like a good guy. I'd be careful of some of the currents that you have to deal with today. You don't have to submit to them, and you seem not to be. Keep your own counsel. I hear that Brad Pitt outright refuses to use social media. So, you're in good company, as far as the ladies are concerned.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 03:32 PM
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I agree with everything you've said here. It's not about being a jerk and it's not about being a servant, either. It's just driving what men are (or should be) good at driving. Assertiveness, action and achievement all factor into how we (men) value ourselves. "What did I get done today? Actually, quite a lot." When we can say that to ourselves every day, we feel no timidity in making our views known, because they matter. My views matter because I matter. It's the mindset of the traditional fath…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 03:20 PM
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Sure. Masturbation is simulated sex, just as video games are almost always simulations of life, or some aspect of life. I wouldn't think that participation in video games would be such an issue for young men, except I see droves of them spending every available second playing them. It's rare that I see one who plays only opportunistically. The vast majority of them who I see playing video games sit for hours on end, sometimes as much as six hours. I've witnessed these guys spend an entire perfec…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 02:51 PM
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I was too young to remember when exactly it happened, but my father had a photo of the raising of the flag on Suribachi framed and he hung it in my room. I've never taken it down. I still have it. That's the house I grew up in. It was great.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 10:33 PM
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Socialization, then. This could be right. It was an unexpected thing when my son's school sent home a notice asking all children to wear pink for breast cancer awareness day. Of course he didn't do it. One reason was that he, being a boy, didn't have any pink clothing. He was seven years old when this first happened. I'm not sure he even knew what a breast is. Talk about indoctrination.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 06:39 PM
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This is a really good comment. Lots of great ideas here but my favorite is "only time they fight is when their consumption outlets are screwed with." That whole paragraph is great. "Spectator sports fanaticism," too. Great observation.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:32 AM
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You really are the biggest piece of shit I've met on reddit. You're weak, angry and you still haven't told me what is whiney (not a word, by the way) or -- what was it? Ball-less or something like that? -- about my post. You don't because you can't. You also come across as plain old dumb. It's interesting you bring up money. If that's your measure, and you could know anything about me or my life, you'd also know with certainty what a failure you are. Goodnight, jagsfan4life. This has become too …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:34 AM
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OK, I'll ask: Can you point to some part of my post and tell me what is, as you put it, whiney or lacking balls? Because, my friend, you sound like a petulant child with at most a high school education, and I'm not convinced you even grasp the substance of what I said here. So go ahead, have at it. Tell me what part of my post whines, or demonstrates a lack of balls. You've shown us you're an easily provoked, now show us those sterling analytical skills. Make an argument. Support it with facts.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:04 AM
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Have many in my family. The best. And I'm grateful for your service.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 12:05 AM
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Hey jagsfan4life, congratulations. You win the prize for being the first commenter to respond with a nonsensical, profane, ad hominem screed. No one would ever confuse you for a thinker. You won't be winning the prize for grammar, though. The word you were grasping for, but couldn't quite get your mind around, is whiney. It's not whinney. I think that whinney is the sound a horse in a children's book might make. Don't be discouraged, though. It's never too late for literacy.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 12:04 AM
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Is this directed at me, the OP?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:35 PM
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You cringe real easily. Can you be more specific? What's cringeworthy or creepy about it? Do you disagree with anything I've said? My reasoning? If you disagree with what I've said, tell me that you do and then give me the reasons that you do. Make an argument. Offer support.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:48 AM
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I'd suggest that the women who showed interest or curiosity after learning that you're in several non-exclusive relationship were not invested in maintaining that non-exclusivity. What they saw, I think, was an opportunity to exploit that quality of your life in hopes of creating an exclusive arrangement with you for themselves or a friend. I believe that in almost all cases, the attraction a woman has to a man can be reduced the the most practical terms. A man's continued non-exclusivity is not…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 01:41 PM
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Maybe it was easier for me because I'm a lawyer and pretty much my entire career has been spent in litigation and (necessarily) negotiation. My ex wife engaged a woman who was reputedly a good matrimonial lawyer. She wasn't. Every time we had a meeting I embarrassed her because I knew the file better than she did. Eventually, my ex wife had no confidence in her and just wanted to wrap it up. Every time she (ex wife's lawyer) tried to make a provocative, intimidating statement at a meeting, I'd c…
/r/MGTOW12/02/17 11:40 AM
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I'd say nothing to acknowledge what she said and just carry with the conversation.
/r/seduction11/02/17 09:45 PM
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Not a proponent of marriage.
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 09:19 PM
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Thanks. I think so many men now are being socialized to be afraid of their own shadows, and it's a terrible thing. Think about it. Watch Master and Commander and observe Russel Crowe's character, Aubrey. Never a moment of hesitation, never a doubt, always on the move, smiles easily and rebukes when necessary. Listens when it actually helps to listen. Doesn't go out of his way to reassure anyone, ever. Always does the hard work. Decisive, knows the way forward. His actions are what speak to the m…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 05:56 PM
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This is a state law. If you're a Texan, contact your state legislator.
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 10:37 AM
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Change the locks on your place and don't communicate with her anymore. Done.
/r/MGTOW10/02/17 12:37 AM
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No problem. Curious if others have had similar experiences. I think it comes down to being the man you know you are and ignoring the politics that are destroying the relationship between the sexes. Women might believe cognitively that feminism is right, but in their souls, they're pre-feminists and there's nothing at all devaluing about that.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 11:16 PM
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Sure. First I think that I should make clear that as far as I can tell, in all other areas of her life, she's an assertive person. She's become wealthy through real estate investing, and she started that with money that she earned from the sale of a business that she established and built on her own. I think that this is something that allows her to be the submissive woman she is with me. She has no doubts about her own self worth and efficacy. I am not sure that a woman plagued by doubts about …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 10:42 PM
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She's a few years older than me. She's divorced and I'm divorced. I think this contributes in a positive way to the dynamic. I also think that in some way, I am her hypergamy ideal. Marriage isn't necessary or even in the cards, but long before I made clear my happiness in being with her, she capitulated. I think you get what I'm saying. It's only now, in retrospect, that I really see what has been happening. TRP is a helpful framework for all of what's happened, and if you look at it through a …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 08:20 PM
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Thanks. Something else that's great about it is that she's independently well off and doesn't need me for resources. And the same is true for me. We're each just fine on our own, as far as the material needed for living is concerned. I don't want her for her resources, she doesn't want me for mine.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 03:37 PM
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I think that's true, and I really do believe that it's the result of evolution. I have always treated her with kindness and I listen to her, I'm never mean or short with her, but male assertiveness is the most potent of all aphrodisiacs to a woman. I could give you a dozen examples of this, but I'd dox myself. If I could reduce it one dynamic, it's this: my assertive problem solving, being I front of the trouble that might come our way and eliminating it, getting between her and the world when t…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 01:52 PM
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I will say this. I'm in my third year with a very successful, wealthy woman who is also a total knockout. She told me that I'm the first man she's ever known with whom she can be submissive -- something she has always wanted. I have become dominant and she has become more submissive over time, and we are both happier over time. It works, it's real, it's how we evolved as a species. It's hard wired into us. Amazing how happy a man and woman can be together when they're strong enough to forget pol…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:31 AM
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I agree with a lot of what you say here. Good read.
/r/MGTOW09/02/17 01:30 AM
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She's unattractive.
/r/MGTOW09/02/17 12:28 AM
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Gold. Every word of it is true. I want to frame this and put it on my 9 year old son's wall.
/r/MGTOW08/02/17 01:51 AM
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I need something to do while I'm waiting at an airport gate. I do think it's important to share knowledge or experience though. There are young guys here just beginning to find their way with women and I sometimes think this sub has some very good exchanges. I think it helps some guys who are doubting themselves, and I think it helps some guys who've had some success applying TRP and can benefit from a pat on the back. Would you spend some time having conversations like this with your son? I do.…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 10:39 PM
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It takes a few years. Most kinds of growth are like muscle growth: it takes discipline to grow, it's uncomfortable, it makes you sore, but in the end, you're a better man. Don't forget that there are men out there like you, who've seen the light, and who live every day as you're beginning to live. You have brothers who you've not met.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 03:47 PM
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I'd call this a success. Good job. My own personal experience is that there's a category of women who are so timid and noncommittal that they're unable to ask questions of any kind, either about you or the topic you're both speaking about, so if she was asking you questions about either of those things (the topic or yourself) this is a really good sign. Kino is also very important. Even if it's not immediately reciprocated, it sends the right signal immediately. It's important to have that out t…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 11:21 AM
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I saw someone for maybe 2 years. Male, older, Porsche enthusiast and hunter of game birds. DEFINITELY not a blue piller. Second session with him, he said flat out "Think seriously about divorcing her. She needs at least ten years of therapy. And then you'll know. Or you won't know. So think about divorcing her soon." The guy is great. No bullshit. Tough as nails. Man's man.
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 01:12 AM
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There are labs everywhere that will do it. Just order a blood panel that includes the standard tests for testosterone. You'll get measurements of the main testosterone values. Most blood testing labs do it, but you'll probably have to pay out of pocket if it's not prescribed. Still quite worth it.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 09:14 PM
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I'm due for Clomid in April. I've been on blast since December 15.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 07:49 PM
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I have the app. I don't know how I ever missed this show. It's great. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 07:47 PM
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I can't take in enough protein without drinking 1/2 to 3/4 of a gallon of 2% milk every day. I use creatine and whey protein but I still need the milk. If I don't use the milk, I spend so much time eating that I can't get all my work done. I never considered the hormone issues that could be posed by milk, though.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 11:35 AM
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My recollection was imperfect but see John Coates.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 12:05 AM
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I have read that winning, dominating leads to increased testosterone production over a useful period of time. Not just a spike from the euphoria of it. The increased production is around at least long enough to confer a benefit during the winner's next contest. And this makes the winner better able to win, which leads to more wins and greater testosterone production. I've also read (same article, I believe) that the guy on the losing side of the equation encounters a drop in testosterone, which …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 11:59 PM
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Agree. Completely true.
/r/MGTOW01/02/17 11:47 PM
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If I understand you correctly, you're saying that independent of testosterone level, one can cultivate his own views, outlook, life, and frame, and get to the same place.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 10:36 PM
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I think what you're saying is that it's cognitive, too. Is that right?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 10:14 PM
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I've heard that vitamin D helps. Ben Greenfield has a blog entry on this, I believe.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 10:12 PM
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Your second paragraph -- you and I are almost exactly alike. Roughly same levels, same experience, same...gear. I'm struck by the fact that many of the guys who think of themselves as beta also seem to exhibit the outlook of someone with low testosterone. There's a sense of futility pervading their posts that I'm not familiar with, and it coincides with the feelings / views that TRT guys report fade away after starting TRT. I'm not making any value judgements here, but I am observing that there …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 08:33 PM
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For a person whose primary language isn't English, that was well written.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 03:14 PM
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The answer is culture. Italian women are very warm and very into kino and I haven't met one even thinking of a US green card. Very sexual, too. The immigration benefit might be a factor to some to these DR women but I also know DR women are warm and sexual with DR guys who offer no US immigration benefit. I don't think we can say immigration is a major factor. It's the culture. And yes, by and large US women are icy and entitled. Even the homely ones.
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 10:46 PM
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This is a good rule of thumb, perhaps, but you might eventually encounter the issue I often did. When you do not help even in the absence of an explicit request for help, you'll be told that you've abandoned her and that she doesn't feel she's attractive to you any longer. I would help and be told I'm controlling, I would not help and be told I'd abandoned her. Damned if you do...
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 10:58 PM
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I will say this: my marriage really started to suck when I thought I should be able to expect reason and accountability from my wife. It was too much for her. She got worse and worse, and also less and less happy. She was happier and preferred it when I made most decisions. But she'd also complain about not feeling respected. Respected? She was incapable of choosing a restaurant.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 10:54 PM
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I don't know guys...I kinda like sex. Forget about the messages society sends. No one had to tell me about sex and no one had to suggest to me it's a good thing. I knew it. Not saying that anyone should live their whole life for it. Stay single. Save money. But I wouldn't make a choice to miss out on sex. Doesn't seem like a good idea to me. That's be like missing out on beer.
/r/MGTOW30/01/17 09:33 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MGTOW28/01/17 10:45 AM
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I suppose a man can live like this if self respect isn't important to him.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 02:45 PM
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It ain't easy, bro.
/r/MGTOW26/01/17 08:20 PM
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Really like your second paragraph. No truer words have been said.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 07:59 PM
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Remember, when you communicate with a woman, it's the same thing as communicating with a petulant child or a mental patient. You can't expect much. You certainly can't expect rationality.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 07:57 PM
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Your last paragraph -- agree, and well stated.
/r/MGTOW26/01/17 02:55 PM
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Since the beginning of our relationship (actually before), I've sporadically slept with two other women, so if she did sleep with someone else, it probably wouldn't piss me off too much. But I can say that I haven't ever encountered the level of apparent devotion that I see in this woman. I give her my undivided attention, give her shaking orgasms, and then turn it off. I always make her work a little for the attention. But when she gets it, I make sure it's unforgettable. This seems to do the t…
/r/MGTOW26/01/17 01:00 PM
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I agree with what you say here.
/r/MGTOW25/01/17 01:46 PM
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Guys, as I've said in other posts, she's wealthy, doesn't want to marry me and I don't want to marry her, doesn't want any material thing from me and I don't want any material thing from her, and we've been together for years. Honestly I don't see this changing. Well, actually I have observed one change over the years -- she relishes my dominance more and more. You wouldn't believe what she said to me in bed last night... Whether I'm dealing with a rare case of deep conversion, I may never know.…
/r/MGTOW25/01/17 01:46 PM
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It's not actually feminism at work here. After the disappearance of equity feminism -- which is something even I have a hard time disliking -- "feminism" fell into the radical leftist toilet. It's now pure cultural Marxism, with a "feminism" decal on it.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 10:47 PM
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It's not clear to me how withdrawing financial support from a non-US NGO affects a right that women in the US have. A US person being upset about the funding of entities that by definition do no work in the US...it's a bit like a scofflaw pedestrian in the US being upset about a crackdown on German jaywalkers, no? Why the US funds any of this stuff I'll never know. No one has demonstrated that financial aid to any other country or entity outside the US does a thing for the US. We're told we must…
/r/MGTOW23/01/17 10:19 PM
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Sorry but you lost me at "major emotional and psychological issues."
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 02:48 AM
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Hunting. Then butcher, cook and eat what you kill. Fishing. Technically challenging and also highly rewarding, especially deep sea fishing. Catching a marlin is one of the toughest things a man can do.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 01:23 AM
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Note also that the way we in MGTOW and Red Pill agree we should treat women -- strict boundaries, accountability -- mirrors EXACTLY what a therapist would tell you if you were stuck living with a person who has a character disorder like borderline personality disorder. Being beta is essentially accommodating the congenital personal disorder that every female on earth is born with.
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 11:11 PM
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First the state broke up families. Having succeeded at that, it's now trying to break up dates.
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 10:47 PM
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Honestly, if OP had remained who she was (her blue pill self) but added in an enthusiasm for sex, and some love of a feminine appearance (a woman in a skirt is far more attractive than a woman in pants), she'd be attractive to me. I assume she has a pretty face and decent body. I'm not sure where the information on "obsession with appearance" thing comes from, or high pitched voice. Women who are Barbie-like aren't attractive to me. A woman who is substantial, loyal, has her own enthusiasm for s…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 03:21 PM
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I cannot disagree with anything that OP says here. It's truthful.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 01:39 PM
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She seems not to have the slightest awareness that she suffers from a personality disorder. What man would be interested in this? I once saw a woman on match.com who stated with seriousness "You must have absolutely perfect teeth. If you don't have perfectly straight, perfectly white teeth, do not contact me."
/r/MGTOW17/01/17 06:09 PM
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My parents had a long and happy marriage. My dad told me that one reason was separation of finances. Before my mother worked (while we kids were young), my dad had his own individual bank account and one joint account. He moved into the joint account only what was needed to pay bills and my mother couldn't touch the rest. When my mother began to work, she opened an individual account and contributed her share to the joint account, too. My mother is responsible and doesn't spend a dime she doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 03:26 PM
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Manhattan
/r/MGTOW16/01/17 03:24 AM
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Separate bank accounts. If you're living together, she pays half and you pay half. When she can't or won't pay half, end it. Don't ever become another person's supporter. I know plenty of guys who insist that their wives work and pay half. Professionals -- doctors, lawyers. I've also heard plenty of older men say that a key to long term happiness is separate finances. I'm a big, big believer in this. Also, it's a great way to avoid conflating money with affection. If you have separate finances, …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 02:14 AM
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The same way you'd tell a child no.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 01:55 AM
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Possibly the most revolting person I've ever come across. Idi Amin had more to commend him than this piece of garbage.
/r/MGTOW16/01/17 01:48 AM
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She was a designer. Sold her business a while ago and invested in property. Smart girl.
/r/MGTOW14/01/17 09:52 PM
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My thought is that I DO care about some opinions, because I want more and more men to know and understand MGTOW and Red Pill. The opinion I want to see held widely is, "These guys are right, and I've been lied to," and the opinion I don't want to see is "these MGTOW guys are mean spirited and weak, so don't be like them, my son." This isn't so much an opinion that someone might have of me, it's an opinion of MGTOW or the movement, whatever you'd like to call it. I want that to be a positive and …
/r/MGTOW13/01/17 05:47 PM
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If Clinton had won we would've had a woman in charge. That's never good. And a corrupt woman at that. The gender baiting would be worse than it ever has been. You're out of your mind if you think a Clinton win would've been good on any level. Also I'm glad that my son witnessed a woman running for president and taking one in the throat for it. I cannot overemphasize just how emotional and generally incompetent women in the work place are. I shudder to think what it would be like if none were pre…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 05:52 PM
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I don't think women realize how much they talk and complain. I was in my office last week and had to take a cubicle temporarily while work was being done on my actual office. There were four women around me. From 9 am to 5 pm, with a few breaks, they did nothing but gossip about other women and complain about their husbands and boyfriends. The conversations NEVER drifted into anything positive or life-affirming, nor did they ever become abstract. It was all "Can you believe what so and so did?" …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 06:40 PM
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Every girl and woman I know, with the exception of my 76 year old mother, spends copious amounts of time on Facebook. I don't know a single guy who is on it. It's hard for me to think of a bigger time suck than Facebook / anything like Facebook. The interesting thing is this: study after study is showing that social media makes users miserable. So if you're wondering why the default setting for women is sad bitchiness, it's a safe bet that Facebook is a factor in it. Something else I've noticed:…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 10:40 PM
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I'm trying to figure out where in what I wrote you see me saying that I deprive anyone of an opportunity to give me gifts or celebrate my achievements. My girlfriend just threw me an awesome surprise birthday party with 50 guests. What I said is that I have no desire to cling to medals or awards and keep them around me. To me, the actual achievement is what is important to me. My performance that day -- a performance that has meaning only until the next race, when I have to perform again. And tr…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 01:50 AM
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I agree with what you say. Interesting...I've never kept photographs, and though an accomplished runner I always threw out medals. People think I'm weird but I want my life to be as loved as it can possibly be and taking care of things that don't mean that much takes away from time spent living. In high school I didn't order a yearbook. My mother said to me "one day you'll wish you had." That was thirty years ago and I have almost no recollection of high school, because I've done so much living …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 09:45 PM
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Never happier than when I'm figuring out a problem and getting something done. This is why we have highway systems, indoor plumbing, the Internet, and the ability to travel to the moon and back. Doing these things is what we evolved to do. We're good at it. I dare say we're better at it than women.
/r/MGTOW26/12/16 09:19 PM
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Ditto, TheOneWhoKnoxs. Couldn't have said it better. What you say here is maybe the most important thing to know about human relationships: behavior is the only thing that matters. What she thinks is meaningless. I'd add this: That women are not reasonable or logical is a fairly evidence-based conclusion. If that's so, trying to get into and understand a woman's "thinking" is a fruitless endeavor. I've had several seemingly rational women admit to me their own belief that all women are crazy. Do…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 03:07 AM
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In an unexpected way, I read this and feel good. I feel good because if what she said is true, I'm not only winning, I'm winning in style. Married a girl who I thought would be a decent mom, had two great kids. When she grew to be too much of a pain in my ass, divorced her. Kicked her out and kept the house. Have the kids most of the time. Pay her next to nothing in alimony, and she lives in a shitty apartment near the railroad tracks in a building that stinks of curry. She's alone, paranoid, a …
/r/MGTOW15/12/16 03:28 AM
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You have to understand, I'm a lawyer who's done a fair amount of criminal defense work. I don't don't represent people in employment law matters, but I've sued a lot of people and defended a lot of people. This is what I think. I think that you (or the original poster, I'm not certain you're the same) are minding your business and doing your work. You have a co-worker who is walking around essentially accusing you of committing a felony. An employer, at least in the US, would not permit that any…
/r/MGTOW13/12/16 07:16 PM
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Was this directed to me, the original poster? Can you tell me what part of my post suggests this has not been known to me all my life? Go ahead. Read it through, line by line, and tell me what part of my post indicates this is some kind of recent discovery on my part. A "2016" discovery, as you put it. I'm amazed at how many people in this sub feel the need to engage in one upmanship. Really, are you that emasculated by life that you could read what I wrote, give it meaning that the text simply …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 12:07 PM
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How does she have any idea what assumptions the men there made about her presence? How can she know this? It's bizarre -- she's telling people what they're thinking. Did I miss something?
/r/MGTOW05/12/16 07:29 PM
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I agree with this analysis. It's hard to know what all the signaling was because we weren't there, but based on what's been stated here, I think this is sound advice. I guess I'd say some chasing went on here, and it's important to not confuse escalating on a girl with chasing her. Chasing is undignified, beta, and also probably doomed to fail.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 01:58 PM
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I think this is right. Daddy issues, but also frequently issues stemming from a batshit crazy mother. It comes down to what you might call power issues. The whole SJW thing is built on its participants' feelings of powerlessness and inefficacy. People who don't have the assertiveness to stop others from walking all over them individually responding by fighting against all forms of orthodoxy and existing social power structures. These are the kids who had their lunch money taken from them every d…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 11:51 AM
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I think that what you say here is mainly right. I think politics tells women that they must dislike male dominance and fight against it. I don't think it's pride so much as the wider culture now telling women that they ought to see things a certain way (men are evil, or oafs) and feel that they must take on male dominance traits to be "equal." That said, politics can't purge DNA. This is why virtually all women respond in a positive way to male dominance and assertiveness in bed.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 11:45 AM
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Yes, I guess that's true. I was thinking more along the lines of the light bruising i leave on upper arms, and on skinny girls, the pelvic area. But yes, I think a hickey is sort of the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 04:05 PM
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Your last paragraph is the reason for the post. I agree with this. I've read too many accounts here of men struggling to leave behind Blue Pill thought, and I want to make clear that it is in the very nature of women to be dominated by men. I think two perfect examples are what seems to me to be an almost evolutionary response to complete physical domination during sex, and the other would probably be the indecisiveness we encounter so often in women. I don't buy for a minute that the average wo…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 04:03 PM
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I'm confused. You have no kids and you've been married around one year. You shake hands and walk in opposite directions. I don't see a reason to spend any more money on her. Also, why did you move out? When I divorced my wife, I kicked her out and kept the house. That's after almost 19 years of marriage. Now she lives in a shitty apartment near railroad tracks that stinks of curry. There is no point in being conciliatory. There's no point in even talking to her. Clearly you didn't really get alo…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 10:27 AM
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That sounds pitiable. I don't know what you could say to someone like that. The instinct either exists or it doesn't. I don't know what it's like to not have it.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 03:58 AM
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Very similar experience. Almost identical. They love it.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 10:58 PM
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A long time ago I noticed that with no change other than pinning her arms behind her back, or above her head, there is a more or less immediate physical response. No change in rhythm, or depth, or anything -- just hold her so she can't move and is helpless. Always increase in heat and wetness, breathing, moaning. Only the rarest woman is not turned on by being made helpless and dominated. I wonder what would happen if an actual study of this was done. We know that more than 25% of women have rap…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 10:57 PM
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Why do you think I ever doubted it? I posted what I did to disabuse anyone here of the notion that they want anything less than to be dominated. I sometimes see doubt expressed about that, and I'm here to dispel it.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 07:02 PM
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Masterful. This says it all, doesn't it?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 06:53 PM
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I'd join the Marines. If you don't wash out, it's a decision you almost certainly will not regret.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 04:10 PM
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I don't doubt that men do it, too. I'm saying only that this was a primary reason women could not be jurors. The belief was that women are too easily swayed by emotion to be an impartial finder of fact.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:57 PM
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This is exactly why women were kept off juries for so long.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 10:18 PM
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The aim must be to change the wider culture. My son will be as Red Pill as a man can be.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 12:45 AM
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I don't disagree with what you say here. It would be nice to have a response that would remain classy, but also be a dig. That's what you're getting at? Not a response so much to overcome and get to the girl, but a parting shot? It's a challenge. I think I see what you're saying.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 02:53 PM
13

Don't participate. The world is overflowing with vagina. Move to the next girl.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 02:00 PM
13

Every woman I've ever been with has approached other men and has been approached by other men. It's nature.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 12:58 AM
9

My ex wife told me this morning that my 12 year old daughter was crying this morning over the election result. We're going to have a talk tonight when I see her.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 04:10 PM
2

This is brilliant. Well reasoned, well said.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 05:23 PM
1

My belief is that you can't be suspicious and afraid of people and expect someone to actually love you, unless of course that person is some kind of white knight who's there to rescue you from yourself. If he is, that comes with a whole host of other issues that don't bode well for a LTR. Any person in a LTR has to have the capacity to turn toward the other and reassure him or her on the occasions when he or she needs it. That's why people get into relationships in the first place. But a person …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 01:07 PM
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Let me inject an alternate view of things. I'll start by comparing American popular culture to an echo chamber, an echo chamber in which a minority of the world is located. I'll also say that while a group of people can try to purge some elements of American culture, one cannot purge DNA. I subscribe to TRP. Almost everything I know about it seems accurate and its early proponents deserve to be on currency. I couldn't care less about social media. I don't participate in it (unless reddit is cons…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:57 PM
1

No. I do really well myself and have no need at all of something like that. The vacations are pretty amazing though.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 04:51 PM
1

Agreed. About ten years ago the Intrepid had an ad that it ran on the sides of city buses. It was a black and white photo, taken maybe in '43, of a young guy sitting in the tail gunner's position of what looked to me to be a Grumman Hellcat. The copy read "Come see what 17 year olds did before PlayStation."
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 03:20 AM
2

Read the Medal of Honor citations for some of the Marines who fought in the Pacific. EXACTLY what you're talking about here. Read the citations for Gurkha Victoria Cross winners. Even ballsier. Those guys are the most courageous men on earth.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 02:37 AM
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For me, Plate 1 is 10 years older than me (she's pretty great) and Plate 2 is 17 years younger than me. I'm told by P1 that some of her acquaintances see the age gap between us as a little scandalous (she's wealthy), while the 17 year age gap between myself and P2 doesn't even register with her. It's a positive if anything. And god what an ass she has.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 02:29 AM
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I emphasize #3, do not seek approval. Hugely important. I'd also point out that half the world has vaginas. Understand that it doesn't have to work out with any particular girl, because there's another one right around the corner. And it doesn't have to work out with her, either, for the same reason. You're never going to run out of women. I'm in a dad quoting mood tonight, so to quote my late, true Alpha dad, "The easiest thing in the world to replace is an interpersonal relationship."
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 01:47 AM
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I liked my parents and I had a true Alpha father. Really got along with them. Nonetheless, by the time I was 13 I couldn't wait to get out of their house, smoke cigarettes, drive a car and have sex with women. When I did move out after high school (to go to college), my dad and mom stood on the front step of the house and waved me goodbye. My mom cried a little and my dad smiled and said "Son, you know how when this happens on TV the parents usually say something like 'you can always come home'?…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 01:40 AM
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I've heard it said that life is nothing more than a series of goals that we achieve. Or don't. I agree with that view of life. On a lighter note, a long time ago, Letterman had a young model on as a guest. This girl couldn't have been more than 20 and didn't have much to say. The interview wasn't going well. Letterman switched into that mode where he looks as if he's speaking to a 3rd grader, and asked "So what do you do with your spare time?" The model had to think about this, and answered with…
/r/MGTOW01/11/16 12:58 PM
2

Please...call them what they are: whores.
/r/MGTOW28/10/16 10:49 PM
4

's 2, 3, 4, and 5 should be written in stone somewhere. Perfect, dead on observations, especially about feeding attention. Never give a woman more than 75% of what she needs.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 09:52 PM
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I wouldn't put any effort into trying to figure this shit out. I'd limit my communication to one text and do what the earlier commenter said. Something like "If you want to come, come. If you don't, don't." And leave it at that. By the way, all Russian women are complete getovers. They're not taken seriously where I'm from. By anyone.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 12:15 AM
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I'm happy to say I had a man's man for a father. People I didn't know, when they found out who my dad was, would say things like, "You're X's son? Your father is a man's man. What a straight arrow." He was a Marine who reenlisted, a cop, and then an FBI agent. He was quiet, pleasant, always in control and the best benevolent dictator one could hope to be raised under. He was an institution. He was a total stud, too. He never cheated on my mom and loved her dearly, but his entire life women hit o…
/r/MGTOW27/10/16 11:57 PM
2

You can always cancel. Seriously, it's not easy or fun but once you do this, it'll get a lot easier.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 05:25 PM
1

You know that your parents expect you to get married and that's probably why the notion of finding a wife is on your mind. Were I you, seriously consider working my ass off to 15 to 20 years, getting wealthy, and then marrying a substantially younger woman if you really want to get married. She can bear your kids. You don't have to get married. You can have kids in your 70's if you like. Women can't.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 05:02 PM
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In my experience, it's a mistake to give a woman any more than about 75% of the attention she wants. I wouldn't say anything like "I'm going to hang out with..." I'd just be very, very unavailable. If you haven't tried this, you'll be surprised at how devastating this is to a female. Try it. Ghost her for a week, or nearly ghost her. She's going to ask what's up, and you have to be prepared to say "I have no idea what you're talking about." Let her wonder. And never explain your behavior. One of…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 04:56 PM
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To quote my late father, "Life is way too short to spend even one day of it unhappy." Look, you ex wife is not the person you thought she was. She's someone else, someone who is duplicitous and deceitful. I'd also point out that many, many people tend to pine after the one relationship -- tend to believe that they MUST HAVE the one relationship -- that they would be so much better off without. You're free. You escaped. Don't let the kids guilt you into wanting this woman again. Also, understand …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 04:25 PM
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A paternity test is relevant but not to a decision to divorce. I can tell you from experience -- and dads, back me up -- that the minute a child is born, you will become a persona non grata. You will be seen to never do anything right. You may spend hours a day playing with your kid, but the minute you take the time to, say, read a book, you'll be called an absent and uncaring father. A woman's instinct to gatekeep and view herself as the sole legitimate parent of any child she gives birth to is…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:29 PM
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Sometimes you just have to be like the Wehrmacht rolling into Poland in September '39. This is one of those times. I pulled the plug with a seven year old and a ten year old. Hardest thing I ever did. But I would've given up on life if I'd stayed with my wife much longer, and we'd been married 19 years. Don't be a martyr for anyone, not even your kids.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 05:43 PM
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