| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 429 | Subtle signs a man is going to be a terrible father | RED FLAG 🚨 | GoldDigger2LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 05:19 PM |
| 340 | Chronicles of the Modern Day “Gold Digger”: It’s more than just the money | Story time ☕ | GoldDigger2LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 12:11 AM |
| 70 | Article: “Five Million Men are Still Missing From the US Workforce” | DISCUSSION | GoldDigger2LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Bringing your gamer boyfriend amazing meals to his computer desk | NAH, SIS | GoldDigger2LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 12:13 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 153 | What options are there for kicking out a LVM who refuses to leave?If the house/lease is in her name then she’s best off going through the formal eviction process. Police wouldn’t do anything besides maybe ask him to get a hotel for the night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 10:08 PM |
| 28 | Living With MenBefore I moved in with my HVM husband I took notice that he actually put in an effort to keep the house clean, green flag there. I also mentioned to him why my ex and I broke up was because he wasn’t pulling his weight with anything. He got the message | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 02:33 AM |
| 191 | Subtle signs a man is going to be a terrible fatherI’ve heard dudes before say “I want enough kids to form my own football team, hurrr durrr,” being serious and they make like $35k a year. It’s like sir, what woman is going to do that for you and choose to be in poverty? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 02:19 AM |
| 15 | Chronicles of the Modern Day “Gold Digger”: It’s more than just the moneyThis just shows even some women are conditioned to believe financial literacy and stable income dating requirements = “gold digger” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 02:53 PM |
| 10 | Chronicles of the Modern Day “Gold Digger”: It’s more than just the moneyYeah when I first met my husband we were traveling a lot (😍) and I was posting it on social media. One of my NVM old flames sent me a DM comment “I wish I could also go on vacation just for sucking dick.” Oof jealous much? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 12:04 PM |
| 8 | Chronicles of the Modern Day “Gold Digger”: It’s more than just the moneyYeah when I was dating I was surprised at how many dudes didn’t live on their own, didn’t have a car, or they were my age still making minimum wage. If I can achieve those things surely they can as well…? The big red flag I’ve noticed is if their main hobby/interest is video games, they are more likely to just want to make enough for internet and food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 12:01 PM |
| 8 | Chronicles of the Modern Day “Gold Digger”: It’s more than just the moneyThat’s so funny because I have a friend who’s grandma just up and left her hometown one day and got a job as a waitress across the street of a medical school. She met her husband then and continues to live like a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 11:57 AM |
| 21 | If only FDS existed a decade ago…FDS needs to start at teenage years honestly. I would have saved a lot of time and maybe bought an investment property if I didn’t settle for my high school boyfriend. I was bullied for my appearance so I thought he was the best I could do. I literally dragged him out of generational poverty and he snapped back to being almost homeless because he didn’t want a big boy job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 07:27 PM |
| 218 | A post titled “would you date a porn star” on a popular men’s sub redditThe cold reality with porn is it can come back to haunt you at any point and hinder your dating and job prospects. That’s why I absolutely hated the OF movement and “empowerment” movement of voluntarily releasing nudes. No one wins in this game. I had some friends and even family start an OF and it’s no longer around because I can imagine they only made $200 MAX. That’s only because they advertised it on their socials to actually try to get sales, and now everyone knows their nudes are somewhere… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 04:02 PM |
| 18 | Recently married. Thanks FDS.Congratulations! I met my HV soon to be husband prior to FDS existing but I came to the same realizations about how to date effectively. This sub just confirmed all of the red flags I ignored and now I am unapologetic on my standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 02:12 PM |
| 32 | Abstinence is one of the most powerful weapons against scrotes.Fixed it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:19 AM |
| 38 | The Hardest HVW Lesson *for me*: No one is going to save you.I feel like there would be more HVMs in this world if they also come to this realization. “Hope is not a strategy.” I know too many scrotes who are sitting on their asses waiting for politicians to do things such as cancelling their student loans or force companies to pay them more and it’s just not going to happen anytime soon. In my experience these are the same dudes who want a mommy mcbangmaid. This world is fucking cruel. It’s not fair. But instead of waiting for things to change I’m hustli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:04 AM |
| 7 | Ughhhh this excuse making ridiculousness. Sometimes it *is* that simple.This is definitely just an excuse. If a man doesn’t have enough emotional intelligence to show initiative and appreciation for their partner once in awhile then they’re not ready to be in a relationship. Full stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 09:06 PM |
| 346 | Abstinence is one of the most powerful weapons against scrotes.Yeah if it’s one thing I regret pre-FDS it’s allowing men to be in my bed who didn’t deserve to be there. I had one once upset I didn’t sleep with him after a date at a fucking Applebees. I wonder what made him think he should have expected sex for a 2 for $20? Abstaining from sex for awhile is the easiest way to weed out the scrotes who are lying about their intentions. On an alt account on a relationship subreddit the other day I suggested more women should hold out longer for a firmer commitm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 08:26 PM |
| 26 | How hard it is to find a decent man? I am starting to get really upset.I hate to say this but I found mine OLD. It took numerous attempts, trial and error to find my unicorn. I hear people meet these men through other HVW friends or activities like volunteering. Sometimes also through work. Maybe check out meetup.com to grow your network? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 08:26 PM |
| 17 | All of my commitment-phobic exes…I love how LVMs are like “oh she baby trapped me,” as if he had nothing to do with the baby making in the first place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 06:00 PM |
| 26 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife?This dude kind of sounds like he’s just trolling you. Also if he was strictly 50/50 then how is he ok with this arrangement? It can never be 50/50 when we have to carry and risk our lives birthing a child. I would never entertain this idea but I would love to observe this guy with children for 48 hours actually do all of those tasks WITHOUT trying to pawn the children off to some screens for a few hours so he can play video games or watch porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:53 AM |
| 40 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 54 - The Pros & Cons of Cohabitation with MenSo when they started talking about the statistic about how much more unlikely a man is to propose to you if you move in as a girlfriend, I have a strategy around that. I live in a high cost of living area. I dated my soon to be husband for about a year before moving in. We got engaged a year after I moved in. Getting married in a few weeks! Here’s what I did in chronological order: Lived on my own and worked my ass off to get a job that will always allow me to do that Built an emergency savings … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 10:27 PM |
| 181 | New Secret Service report details growing incel terrorism threatIncel’s emotional instability and entitlement to sex is unreal. Instead of bathing and putting in a decent effort to be attractive to the opposite sex, they resort to violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 05:40 PM |
| 24 | Suspicious?Why wouldn’t he go straight to the mods that run the FDS podcast? I would trust them to hold their own if this is a legit offer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 03:29 PM |
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