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| 38 | What books are good for learning game or changing your mindset? | Resources | GoldenBeaverTeeth | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 06:08 PM |
| 17 | Help me recover from a royal screw up | Field Report | GoldenBeaverTeeth | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 10:41 AM |
| 10 | Is it possible to recover from cringy beta insecure texts? | Field Report | GoldenBeaverTeeth | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 08:00 PM |
| 4 | How to change the mood? Am I even asking the right question? | Fundamentals | GoldenBeaverTeeth | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 07:19 PM |
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| 1 | What books are good for learning game or changing your mindset?any recommendations? | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | What books are good for learning game or changing your mindset?whos the source? | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 04:39 PM |
| 1 | What books are good for learning game or changing your mindset?why are all the good comments downvoted | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How to smoothly tell women you’re seeing other women?wym by outcome independence | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 09:04 PM |
| 0 | What books are good for learning game or changing your mindset?this has to do with women? | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What books are good for learning game or changing your mindset?this has to do with women? | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 09:03 PM |
| -1 | What books are good for learning game or changing your mindset?it preaches beta behaviour though, i read one book that preaches the opposite of models and all of a sudden im getting lays have you seen mark mansons twitter? hes beta | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 09:02 PM |
| -19 | What books are good for learning game or changing your mindset?it preaches a beta male mindset tho | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 09:00 PM |
| 2 | How to smoothly tell women you’re seeing other women?how would a preselected man act? | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to recover from cringy beta insecure texts?Thanks for the wisdom. I guess I was eager that something "special" or someone someone special finally came into my life and finally something is happening. It's a shame that everything needs to be so formulaic, limiting attention, not over talking or under talking, not over spending, flirting, asking open ended questions, teasing ect... When I'm myself I just crack jokes, ask questions and listen. I like to be playful, witty and thoughtful. It kind of blows that I need to reshape my values and … | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to recover from cringy beta insecure texts?We've met in person yeah. It was at a religious retreat over 4 days. She was following me around and asking me a lot of questions. We split off from the group and went on a walk together. She asked if the girl I was friends was was anything more than just friends. She had a big smile and her face would light up everytime I'd speak to the group. I talked to a different girl and she circled around back to me and kept talking to me. We've been texting back and forth since May but not too much, star… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Is it possible to recover from cringy beta insecure texts?Oh man the thing is I offered to cover her plane ticket and even said it'd be nicer to know asap cuz flights are cheaper now. I don't mind spending 80-200 bucks on this girl cuz it felt like we clicked and i really like(d) her. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to recover from cringy beta insecure texts?Yeah she's a 7 hour drive away and we're both in different colleges. The plan was to meet up after exams. So I'm guessing following up on why she hasnt responded is a no-go? Also during the date how do I flirt and escalate sexually? | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to recover from cringy beta insecure texts?Yeah thanks man, I really liked this one but at this point I should have the wisdom to move on. What's your advice on talking to women in general? I try teasing them which usually works but half the time I still offend them. I try to bring in sexual innuendos which they initially respond to out of politeness I think but then get turned off or weirded out. I asked questions but that can easily go into interview mode. I seem to just become the comedian because I have a natural talent to make peopl… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to recover from cringy beta insecure texts?This actually makes a lot of sense. Every potential move I can make reasonably in the short term still ends with me giving her attention and hence devaluing it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to recover from cringy beta insecure texts?You're totally right and if I was trying to hook I'd totally move onto the next. But this is one I share values and (religious) values with, we're also in the same field of work and have good chemistry. It's been 6 years since I've actually "fallen" for someone, and would like to get a relationship out of this. If I can fix it, I'll at least try, and if I don't I'll at least have an understanding of what not to do for next time... Any advice on how I can get this girl attracted to me again (if s… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 08:32 PM |
| 0 | Is it possible to recover from cringy beta insecure texts?Aw dude that sucks to hear, what makes you think I got frienzoned and where do you think I went wrong in the recovery, assuming I did make a recovery to begin with. Any chance to flip this around you think? After 6 years, I really felt like this was the one... | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Your fear of woman is not real, this is whyyeah lol | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 07:48 PM |
| 31 | Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship?Smash the good looking guy and have the nice guy take care of his genes? My second guess is there is something more valuable than looks in men when it comes to being a good partner. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Big city's are SO much easier than small towns. Why is this?What do you look like? Are you rich? Do you come ass as something romantic like a cowboy from prince edward island or something lol? I have the opposite experience as you. I get more attention from women in low density provinces compared to Toronto. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 11:05 AM |
| -1 | Why self improvement won't solve your dating problemsBro what books do you read? you clearly know what ur talking about | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 02:57 PM |
| 3 | I fucked up the best opportunity I've ever hadyeah it is what it is. try go go back to the park the same time on the same day. she likely lives in the neighbourhood if she goes to that park right? ur a bit in ur head too much. be more direct. women like confidence more than muscles. | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 07:24 PM |
| 69 | How do you get in the zone to approach girls if you don’t have a raging boner in the moments leading up to the interaction?what the hell | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Reflections on success, rejection, and burnoutinteresting, good reply. my last date i touched her arms, slapped her ass once and eventually went for the kiss and she didnt like the kiss part but liked everything else. you think i jumped shipped too quickly? | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 09:55 PM |
| 8 | Reflections on success, rejection, and burnouthow do you escalate to sex? | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Need help escalatingno car is perfect, go on a night time drive after dinner and maybe an activity. get her comfortable, be confident, crack jokes and tease her. touch her using escalation ladder | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Need help escalatingthis sounds like a date though? if you want to hookup invite her to your place, if ur not that close yet grab food and talk in a place with a nice atmosphere and take her to your place i think | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 06:02 PM |
| 14 | First datetheres always a chance ur getting used for attention or a free meal. also be careful, if she is married u dont want her guy coming after u. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:58 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro...Nope not at all but I am very confident and a good talker. Below average at worst. The date I went on last, she laughed at my sexual jokes, she liked it when I slapped her behind lol, but did not like it when i went for the kiss. I'm a good listener and tell lots of jokes. I pay for dates. Lots of bantering and jokes. Not sure how to take it there. I'll make stupid sexual jokes, and innuendos. For example over text we'll joke about if she is stronger than me or not and ill slide in a witty comme… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:47 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro...my general advice is if something doesnt work 10 times, throw it out and try something new. einstien once said the definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. my next piece of advice would be to hang around guys who are getting laid. watch what they do and ask them how they do it. personally ive noticed is its not what you say but how you say it, you need to be different, say something wacky or funny but dont try too hard. my last date was… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 02:13 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro...word okay. if you wanna fuck you can lead with money in "poorer" countries for sure but dont catch feelings because they'll use you for citizenship and child support. although i do question the ethic of that approach, i certainly dont question the results. i dont know much about america, im sure it depends on the city. i do know that hookup culture is huge in europe though. if you're looking for something more long term, i suggest working on yourself. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro...I'm not saying that making the move to alberta or nova scotia or some shit means you'l be drowning in pussy though bro lol. im saying from my anecdotal experience, it gets easier BUT you still need to always be improving your game. its kind of like driving. driving in toronto is going to be way harder than driving in friggin newfound land or some shit, because obviously less people on the road means its easier to drive, BUT it doesnt mean that you don't practice your left turns if you suck ass a… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 01:58 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro...wow this completely contradicts my comment. how do you talk to these women when on the date, if ur coool with me asking? | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 01:50 PM |
| 29 | Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro...You're both right and wrong. I move provinces fairly frequently for school and internships an I've noticed that its harder in Toronto. I've managed to get dates from random girls at walmart in the prairies and the maritimes while girls in toronto will just ignore me, walk away, run away or look disgusted. I think it's because of a skill issue, for me at least. Think about it. Girls in toronto are always being approached and if you can afford to live in toronto (and want to) you have a "higher" s… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Looking for flings, hookups; but all the women i meet want a relationship.yo what are your tips for getting women, i can make them laugh and maybe get a date but thats it... | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 10:18 PM |
| 1 | How to change the mood? Am I even asking the right question?Yeah I was very confident during the date until the end where I got insecure after the goofy attempt at a kiss and didn't act as confident. I have a job and am in school but I do prioritize the dates when I can. I don't understand the overthink/funny part. I do make girls laugh a lot but it doesn't feel romantic. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 12:05 AM |
| 2 | How to change the mood? Am I even asking the right question?How does one build sexual tension? I said this in another comment but "I went for the kiss once and she asked why I didn't want to take it slow. To be fair the kiss was random, I only went for it because I didn't know what else to do." | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How to change the mood? Am I even asking the right question?Oh yeah, I went for the kiss once and she asked why I didn't want to take it slow. To be fair the kiss was random, I only went for it because I didn't know what else to do. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 09:49 PM |
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